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The fear of leaving the nest [vc_row][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text] Art by Sue Jin Park [/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]With college application season upon us, high school seniors are rushing to complete applications and submit them. For some students, attending a school near home is comfortable to them, while for others, their ambition lies beyond their borders. College is a step in which kids are stepping out of adolescence and into adulthood, yet they are ill prepared for such a change and decide to take the easy way for college. They’ve already made their first mistake. After college, it’s only natural to find a job and become your own person. But many kids fail to understand that. Currently, they are used to having someone else to depend on for warmth, food and shelter. Having to find all those things on their own is something they cannot fathom doing, which frightens them. Reality cannot be romanticized; it’s harsh, but learning how to deal with it a young age is for the best. I am the kind of person who wishes for independence; an out-of-state school is my first choice. Telling some of my friends about my aspiration, I’m met with mixed emotions. Some applaud my ambition, while others gasp in disapproval, “I could never leave state for school, I can hardly leave town!” While I hardly blame them for their irrational fear, it’s something they will have to come to terms with, if not now, then later. Some may argue that they won’t stay in the same place for long, that eventually they will have to move because of marriage or new job opportunities, but it can’t be easy during that time either. Most adults instill this fear in their children’s minds indirectly. Confirming that reality is too difficult to cope with, they keep them sheltered away. But that only hurts them. It should be parents’ responsibility to help their child to grow into successful members of society, who can easily survive on their own, but they’re instead making cowards out of them. The kids whose future dreams are to be a doctor or an engineer have so many colleges at their fingertips, places where they can expand their potential and have an impactful education. Demands from their parents should not limit their ambition and they should have the option to leave home if the opportunity arises. Taking account for their own life now is what will ultimately help them to succeed later in life. [/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]
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[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] पृथ्वीनारायण शाहको २९८ औँ जन्मजयन्ती तथा राष्ट्रिय एकता दिवसको सन्देश नेपाल एकीकरण अभियानका नेतृत्वकर्ता पृथ्वीनारायण शाहको २९८औँ जन्मजयन्तीका अवसरमा उहाँप्रति श्रद्धासुमन व्यक्त गर्दै राष्ट्रिय एकता दिवसका अवसरमा सम्पूर्ण नेपाली दाजुभाई तथा दिदिबहिनीहरूमा हार्दिक शुभकामना व्यक्त गर्दछु । नेपाल प्राचीनकालदेखि नै स्वतन्त्र, स्वाधीन, सार्वभौमसत्ता सम्पन्न राष्ट्रको रूपमा रहिरहन हाम्रा पूर्वजहरूको वीरता, कार्यकुशलता र बुद्धिमत्तापूर्ण भूमिका रहेको छ । छरिएर रहेका अनेकौँ राज्यहरूलाई एकीकृत गरी सुदृढ नेपाल निर्माण गर्नुपर्ने अपरिहार्य आवश्यकता बोध गर्दै पृथ्वीनारायण शाहको नेतृत्वमा सुरु गरिएको एकीकरण अभियान अन्ततः सफल भयो । नेपाली समाज साँस्कृतिक विविधता बीच समन्वयको बलियो सूत्रमा एकताबद्ध भएको कुरा आत्मसात गर्दै यहाँको अमूल्य सभ्यता, संस्कृति र सम्पदालाई पृथ्वीनारायण शाहले सम्मान गर्नुभएको थियो । नेपाल सबै जातको साझा फूलबारी भएको कुरा स्वीकार गर्दै जनताबीच भावनात्मक एकीकरण गर्नुपर्ने कुरामा उहाँ सजग हुनुहुन्थ्यो भन्ने कुरा उहाँका सन्देश र व्यवहारबाट स्पष्ट हुन्छ । अन्तमा, जनचाहनालाई सर्वोपरि ठान्ने पृथ्वीनारायण शाहका जीवन्त दृष्टिकोणहरू मुलुकमा संघीय लोकतान्त्रिक गणतन्त्र स्थापना भएपछि पनि सान्दर्भिक भएकाले आजको यस ऐतिहासिक दिनमा राष्ट्रिय एकतालाई थप सुदृढ पार्दै सदाचार र सुशासनलाई अझ बलियो बनाएर समृद्ध, स्वावलम्बी र आत्मनिर्भर अर्थतन्त्र निर्माण गर्ने दिशामा सम्बद्ध सबै पक्ष परिचालित हुनुपर्ने कुरा महसुस गरेको छु । धन्यवाद । २०७६ पुस २७ गते आइतबार । [/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][us_single_image image=”3887″][/vc_column][/vc_row]