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Posted by Hannah Rae on Mar 7, 2011 in Life in the Stubborn house “Wow! This home-making thing is getting a little obsessive. I like it!” My sweet hubby said as I kneaded bread dough after dinner tonight. I am on a new adventure. I’ve always been the domestic one of my sisters. Although I viewed my older sister as more glamorous, I’ve always considered myself the more “girly.” I have always loved babies, and my pretend play mostly consisted of keeping house and raising my babies, with the occasional safari or spy adventure thrown in for good measure. Now, I am really loving learning more of what I’ve considered “complex” domestic skills. As gas prices rise, our rural-ness is hitting our budget hard. We live 35 miles from the closest “shopping town,” so trips are having to come fewer and farther between. Everything I am choosing to do is about making our family less dependent and our resources more sustainable. I have been making our own bread for about 2 weeks now, and I’ve noticed how that $3+ per loaf really adds up. Making it myself, it only costs about $.90 per loaf, and it is SO YUMMY! I’ve perfected it over the past two weeks, and I can now produce a loaf that is sandwich and toast friendly. I made my first batch of laundry soap from this recipe last week. I used Dr. Bronner’s citrus soap, which is a little pricey, but I wanted something that smelled good, cuz I like natural smell goods. I wanted to be ENCOURAGED to use it, and even opening the container is like a ray of sunshine. I will let you know after more use what I think of it. I have noticed that it doesn’t lather like regular detergent, but maybe it doesn’t need to. Any comments on that? The next step on my domestic adventure is my garden. A good friend has offered to be my garden mentor, more or less, and she and I are meeting next week after church to plan everything out. The plan is to use raised beds in our backyard, which has a very nice southern exposure. We are getting soil from hubby’s family’s homestead farm, and there is also lumber available there to make the beds. I want to make sure I grow things that I can preserve and stretch throughout the year, so I am making my choices carefully and doing as much research as I can. Ideas? Finally, Hubby and I are discussing the idea of having backyard egg-laying chickens (as opposed to fryers). A good friend has offered us the coop that he had made for his first batch of chickens last year. What a blessing! I told him not to tease me, and he repeated that we could HAVE IT! AMAZING! Ask and you shall receive, seriously! I am planning on getting 6 New Hampshire Red hens, or the breed that is closest to that that our local feed mill sells, which the “man” assures me are excellent layers. Feed prices have gone up majorly, but the “profit” will still be about $30/month, as opposed to paying $3+/dozen eggs. Sounds good to me! Plus, I love birds. And NO, I am not planning on eating MY chickens. It would be too much like having Juji for dinner, and I just could not do that. Anywho, the adventure continues. I am really trying to listen to the Lord and be everything he has called me to be, and be open to every skill adventure he has for me. The sewing thing is still not happening…partly because I have been too lazy to get my power pedal fixed…that has been broken for 2 years. I will get there. Blessings! Hannah Leave a comment | | Tags: cooking, finances, Gardening, The SAHM Adventure Posted by Hannah Rae on Feb 12, 2011 in Life in the Stubborn house First of all, should you capitalize post titles like you do book or article titles? Anywho, here’s a little Hannah-factoid for you: I am a huge fan of the Duggar family. Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar have been an inspiration to Hubby and myself ever since we saw their first special on TLC back when they only had 14 kids and one on the way. I love the way that they love their children and teach them purposefully about God’s character and who God wants them to be. I love the way they run their home so efficiently. I even love Jim Bob’s awesome hair! Anywho, another thing I really enjoy is audio books. I have a subscription to an audio book retailer that gives me 2 credits to spend on books a month. I go through audio books like water, especially when I am commuting, which I am not anymore, but I also really enjoy them when I am cleaning the house, especially when I am putting laundry away. SO I was so excited when on Monday’s episode of “19 Kids and Counting” Michelle mentioned that she was recording their family’s book into an audio book. The next day I went onto my retailer’s site and found that the book was just released in January. YIPEE! I downloaded it and have been hooked to it ever since. It’s a 6 1/2 hour book, and I finished it in 3 days. What I really enjoyed about it was learning all of their tricks of the trade. Jim Bob is a very shrewd business man, and Hubby has always wondered how they have been able to afford their life style without going into debt. So after I found out, I excitedly talked Hubby’s ear off about how they started out with their small businesses and how God has blessed their obedience. Hubby was asking me to continue, so I knew it had perked his interest. Anywho, it’s very wisdom-based stuff. They’ve made their fair share of mistakes and learned from them, and that is just as valuable to hear. My favorite section is the section that talks about how they manage their household, including discipline and chores. Fascinating stuff. I am still going to buy the actual book, as it would be much easier to reference, but I am such an audial (sp?) learner that I am getting much more from listening to Michelle’s sweet voice explain everything so enthusiastically than I would from reading it. Anywho, again this is just a book I am enjoying and there has been no compensation, but if you want to check out the book you can find it here or the audio book here. Blessings! Hannah Leave a comment | | Tags: finances, Good Books, The SAHM Adventure Posted by Hannah Rae on Sep 30, 2009 in Life in the Stubborn house I’m home. Today was my last day in the workforce, at least for a while. It’s weird how God works behind the scenes when we have no idea. I posted a long while ago about how my heart was torn between staying in the workforce and pursuing being a stay at home mom, or home manager. (I would love to like to it, but I am having major linking issues that I will hopefully be able to figure out. ARGHH) At that time my heart was really conflicted, especially since Kaleb was not comfortable at that time with the idea of me staying home. Well, things have changed. I was laid off, effective today, due to the effects of Michigan’s failing economy, so I am basically being sent home, but still get a paycheck due to unemployment. Go figure. Our boys are really struggling right now due to school stress, and the trauma we’ve endured as a family with Grandma Helen’s death. They are both acting out in their own ways and need a lot more one on one attention than we have seen before. Hubby person is going to be doing some traveling this month and was really worried about Gabe’s behavior regressing. Hubby person has also been contracted by a major clothing designer to do some consistent website work, which will basically replace my lost income plus some, at least for the time being. All of these factors make my being a new stay at home mom not only a possibility, but a reality we might actually benefit from. We don’t know if it’s just for a season, or if I won’t go back to work for a very long time, but for now we have total peace, and even joy, about my stickin’ around the homestead. I actually love doing domestic-type things, and am really excited about the opportunity to explore that part of my womanhood more. I am already planning out a cleaning/organizing schedule for myself, as well as planning fun little projects to keep myself occupied and free from depression. (i.e. learning to knit something other than washcloths, working on the boys’ life books, giving this blog some bling) We can’t home school the boys right now, and I wouldn’t want to until we had a clear “Yes” from the Lord that I would be home more long term, so that is not something I will be dealing with right away. I am also really excited about getting some walking in with the poochies before we start to see the four letter white stuff, which could be within just a few weeks. Anywho, I’m in for an adventure. I am excited to join, what I consider, the very prestigious club of stay at home moms. I just hope that I can discipline myself enough to spend time seeking the Lord’s face about what this adventure truly means. Blessings! Hannah Leave a comment | | Tags: Adoption, faith, finances, marriage, parenting, prayer, The SAHM Adventure Posted by Hannah Rae on Sep 9, 2009 in faith , Life in the Stubborn house I want to share a little story about God’s big faithfulness. We went to my mother’s this past weekend to spend some badly needed time with her, as well as enjoy a Christian music festival. We have all been going through a lot of changes and stresses lately, and this vacation was something we needed in order to be refreshed. Kaleb was actually able to come, which is not always the case due to his responsibilities at work, and he was looking forward to it immensely. All was going well until we got a call a day before we were leaving from my husband’s cousin who had agreed to stay with our dogs while we were gone. He said that he could no longer watch the dogs, but that another cousin would be able to. That was fine, so plans continued. 5 hours after we left on our trip we got a call from the first cousin saying that he couldn’t get a hold of the second cousin because she was away camping. The first cousin said that he couldn’t take care of the dogs, and what should he do. This is a grown man by the way. Our dogs had been home alone 5 hours at this point, so I told him that he needed to go sleep over there for the night and that we would find someone to take care of the them tomorrow. Now, Kaleb is a pessimist. He is convinced that Murphy follows us and loves to torture us. He was convinced we needed to turn around and go home. We stopped at a wayside (I love that they are actually called waysides. As in “fall by the wayside.” Hehe.) and we prayed. We prayed because God knew we needed this break as a family and we claimed that He would come through with someone to watch our dogs, but that if we needed to go home we would. We called a friend for whom we have dog sat before. At 11 PM. He was up and he agreed not only to watch the dogs, but to bring them back to his home, with a fenced in yard. Yes. God cares about dog-sitters. We got to my mom’s safely and enjoyed a restful night (morning actually). We had driven through the night, so once we got up at noon, we were all lounging in our jammies in my mom’s living room. Kaleb had to get some work done on his laptop, so Mom and Rachel went to town to do some errands and we were planning on meeting up with them later. Eventually, Kaleb’s laptop started to run low on power, and as he reached into his bag to get his power cord I saw his face go white. “It’s not here. I left my power cord at home!” He knew exactly where it was. It was plugged in next to our bed. He had left it there after taking a meeting in our bedroom the day before. Now normally this would not be a big deal. Many laptops have similar power adapters and it’s typically not difficult to find one that will work. This was not the case. My hubby’s business laptop is a business class HP, which apparently has an annoyingly unique power adapter. Again, in normal circumstances no reason to panic, we would be going home in a few days, but Kaleb was not heading home with us. He was flying directly from my home town to Los Angeles to meet with big wigs about big projects of which all the information for was on his laptop…with very little power left. Panic set in. Kaleb was nearly ready to jump in the car and head back to the U.P. (a 13 hour drive) simply to get his power cord. He was angry at himself, and convinced that his “foolishness” had ruined the trip for everyone. I prayed. I prayed that there would be a solution. He couldn’t pray at this point, so I prayed for him. He searched online and found that B*st B*y had a universal adapter that might work. But it was expensive. And the store might not have it in stock. I prayed. I prayed to my Heavenly Father that He would help. That he would not only have the adapter be in stock, but that it would be on sale. Can you guess what happened? Do you know how crazy faithful my God is about even the little things? Not only did they have the adapter in stock, but it was more than 50% off. (I’m tearing up over this.) Not only that, but it WORKED!!! God saved our trip. Every time the enemy tried to trip us up, God intervened because He knows our hearts and He KNEW we needed this family time. Or maybe he intervened simply so I could write this post to tell you that HE CARES! Even about the little things. He cares about sales on school clothes and where you put that important piece of paper. He cares because He loves you! If you stop your busy mind and take the time to ask Him, He will help! Now, I know it doesn’t always work exactly the way we want it too. Sometimes things just suck, but God is still there in those moments. Sometimes, I just have to take the time to ask Him what he wants me to hear in those sucky situations. God is not scared by our questions. He welcomes them, because at least we are coming to him. 1 Peter 5:7 (Amplified Bible) 7Casting the whole of your care [all your anxieties, all your worries, all your concerns, once and for all] on Him, for He cares for you affectionately and cares about you watchfully. Blessings! Hannah Leave a comment | | Tags: bargain shopping, Being set apart, faith, finances, prayer Posted by Hannah Rae on Aug 14, 2009 in faith , Life in the Stubborn house So yesterday was tough. Today would prove to be tougher. Got in a minor fender bender. First thing that goes through my mind is Kaleb’s gonna be pissed . It’s been one of those weeks. Everything is on edge. Every decision being questioned. It’s both of us. Both of us are cranky. I just tend to go internal, where as his upset-ness tends ot be more visible. Me, it ends up coming out in tears later on about something stupid. Then it all comes spilling out. But I digress. I got in a minor fender bender. I was turning right with a bunch of other cars on a green light when the truck in front of me stopped very suddenly. I hit their bumper. I was going very slow, but the impact still pushed me back a little. I turned on my signal to pull over, but the truck kept going. Did they even feel it? Apparently not. I decided to drive the 1 block to my office. I surveyed the damage. My bumper is cracked and the shiny stuff displaced, but nothing major. Nothing structural. I went into my office to call my insurance company (not the cops. I’ll get to that later.) but didn’t get the chance because I was immediately pulled aside by our office assistant and told that our Executive Director wanted to speak to us, and that it was bad news. How bad? Well, the way M. described it was that she asked our boss on a scale of 1 to 10 how bad, 1 being we get a cookie, and 10 being excruciatingly, painfully bad, how bad? It was a 10. Not good. So, I work for a non-profit. A non-profit who’s funding depends on a funding corporation. A non-profit who’s funding is always in the balance depending on the state’s grants etc… Did I mention I live in Michigan? The state with the highest unemployment rate in the country? The state making the news a lot, and not usually in good ways? So, our funding is being cut. We just found out today that as of October 1st, my job, and the equivalent specialists across the state will probably not exist any more. No more job. Ick! The blessing is that God decided to give me a prequel of his providence by giving me a call yesterday from an organization that wants me to interview for a teaching position at a new preschool, and for a very competetive wage. Possibly even equivalent to what I’m making now. AND TEACHING!!!! And they called me! The program director for the whole organization called me and said that she was impressed with me through the interactions we’ve had through my current position and she wanted to make sure she gave me a call. There are limited positions available, so she wanted to make sure I was on the short list. That’s a good sign, right? So my heart has hope, but it is also very overwhelmed with a very overwhelming, emotionally taxing week. But let’s end by couting our blessings - Jeremiah is home. He is almost home for good. He is being the sweetest, happiest little boy and I am so glad that I get to experience his love. - The fender bender today was very minor. The police officer didn’t even think it was worth a write-up. Especially since the pick-up drove off. - God gave me an interview before I even knew I needed one. - There are more blessings coming than I could ever imagine. Leave a comment | | Tags: finances, marriage Posted by Hannah Rae on Jul 6, 2009 in Life in the Stubborn house I need suggestions…solutions…IDEAS!!! I like my job. I get to help families and work with some awesome ladies. I hate my job. I am away from my family. I feel like I am never home. I fundamentally disagree with much of what I do becauseI help parents find child care for their brand new babies before they are even born when all I want to do is be home with my kids. I want to home school Jeremiah, but that is obviously not an option right now. I can’t even get Gabe to his appointments without A LOT of begging and pleading. My wonderful hubby is just not ready to be a one income family. What can I do? I live in a very limited area, so simply finding a more flexible job is probably not an option. Also, because of our small population, the usual work-from-home businesses are not profitable here. I am going to try to talk to my boss about options for the school year, but I do n’t see that as very promising. If I can at least figure out how I can be home by the time the boys get off the bus, that would be AWESOME! I have my BS in Early Childhood Development, if that helps at all. No, I will not open a day care because of my boys’ issues and my critters. Yes, I would love to help families dealing with behavior/discipline issues, but am unsure as to how to turn that into income. Please, awesome, creative, innovative moms out there, help me! Help me come up with ideas of how we can make this work. Help me know how to hear the voice of God above all the naysayers. Blessings! Hannah I suppose I should give a little more back ground on the situation. I’m used to thinking/talking this through that I forget that if I don’t type the details, there’s no way you would know. Some of this is in response to the wonderful comment by Raising Olives. We have been very blessed. My husband has a good, not great, but good paying job that for the first time in our young married life we are financially stable. Mostly. Here are a few barriers to my desire to be a full time SAHM. We have two houses. We DO NOT WANT two houses. We have had our other house for sale for 2 years with no success. We had renters, but now renters are gone. If we can get the house sold, that would be a HUGE barrier gone. My husband is stressed. He is very good at his job, but unfortunately that means that his company continues to pile on the work load. Kaleb has a very hard time saying “No! Enough!” because he feels it would be a threat to his job. There is a lot of fear there, which is why he doesn’t feel comfortable losing my income. Student loans. I have them. Now, compared to the national average, I am doing really well, but the hubby feels that if I am not working in my field I am wasting the 40k that we spent/are spending on my education. I disagree and feel that my education is best used helping our family and any kids/families that could benefit from my knowledge as well, for pay or not. A lack of things to cut. It has been suggested that we cut the extra stuff. A second car is vital in our situation since we live in the middle of nowhere and my husband and I travel opposite directions to go to work. If I were at home, I would still probably need my car in order to get the kiddos to appointments etc… It’s just part of living here. Thankfully, God has blessed us with good, inexpensive vehicles that are not a huge burden. We could definitely cut the cable, and I have suggested it MULTIPLE TIMES but the rest of the family is not in agreement with this. Again, I suppose it’s because we live to far away from civilization that when it’s rainy or snowing (9 months out of the year) there is sense of relief to know you can just turn on the tube. We very rarely eat out, again because of proximity, but this is a luxury that the hubby likes to treat us to now and then. Part of it is that he likes to give. He likes that he can take us out to eat, buy us cool gadgets etc… I think it’s hard for him to feel restricted in that area. Like he’s not even getting to enjoy the fruits of his hard work. I don’t know anything else we could cut. I only get clothes when the ones I am wearing wear out (literally), and I am a huge fan of rummage sales and restores. Matters of the heart. I am totally willing to submit, and am doing so every day I go to work. He’s not forcing me at all, and is not cruel, but his implications are clear. I know that if I were given the clear, unconditional, real choice, I would chose to be home. I feel hurt by the implications that I would be wasting my education at home. I feel trapped and afraid that I may never get to fulfill my dream of being at home with a baby at my breast (yeah, that comes in here too). He feels hurt by the implication that it is assumed he will just do it all. He feels trapped and afraid in a job that he feels may fall out from under his feet at any moment. So you see, this is a loaded issue. In matters of faith, I have prayed and cried out about this and other related issues. The problem is I have a hard time discerning God’s heart over the pounding I hear of my own. Leave a comment | | Tags: faith, finances, marriage, parenting
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Posted by Hannah Rae ar 7 Márta, 2011 i Saol sa teach stubborn Tá an rud bhaile a dhéanamh ag fáil obsessive beag. Is maith liom é! "A dúirt mo hubby milis mar kneaded mé taos arán i ndiaidh dinnéar anocht. Tá mé ar eachtra nua. Tá mé i gcónaí an ceann teaghlaigh de mo dheirfiúracha. Cé amharc mé mo dheirfiúr níos sine mar níos mó glamorous, tá mé mheas i gcónaí mé féin ar an níos mó "girly." Tá mé grá i gcónaí leanaí, agus mo súgradh bréagach comhdhéanta den chuid is mó a choinneáil teach agus ag ardú mo leanaí, agus an Safari ócáideach nó eachtra Spy thrown i haghaidh dea-bheart. Anois, tá mé ag grámhara i ndáiríre níos mó foghlama ar cad tá mé a mheas "casta" scileanna intíre. Mar gás ardú praghsanna, is é ár tuaithe-gnó ag bualadh ár mbuiséad crua. Tá cónaí orainn 35 míle ón gaire "baile siopadóireachta," Tá sin turais a bhfuil le teacht níos lú agus níos faide idir. Tá gach rud Tá mé ag roghnú a dhéanamh faoi a dhéanamh ar ár teaghlaigh níos lú ag brath agus ár n-acmhainní níos inbhuanaithe. Bhí mé ag déanamh ár n-arán féin ar feadh thart ar 2 seachtain anois, agus mé faoi deara conas a chuireann go $ 3 + in aghaidh an builín i ndáiríre suas. Making sé féin, cosnaíonn sé ach thart ar 0.90 $ in aghaidh an builín, agus tá sé SO Yummy! Tá mé perfected sé thar an dhá sheachtain anuas, agus is féidir liom a tháirgeadh anois builín go bhfuil ceapaire agus toast cairdiúil. Rinne mé mo chéad bhaisc gallúnach níocháin as an oideas tseachtain seo caite. Bhain mé úsáid as gallúnach citris Dr Bronner, ar a bhfuil beagán daor, ach bhí mé rud éigin go smelled maith, cuz maith liom earraí boladh nádúrtha. Theastaigh uaim a bheith SPREAGADH é a úsáid, agus fiú a oscailt an coimeádán Is mar gha gréine. Cuirfidh mé in iúl a fhios agat tar éis níos mó úsáid a bhaint as cad a cheapann mé de. Tá mé faoi deara nach ndéanann sé cosúil le sobal glantach rialta, ach b'fhéidir nach gá é a. Aon tuairimí ar sin? Is é an chéad chéim eile ar mo eachtraíochta baile mo ghairdín. Tá cara maith ar fáil a bheith ar mo meantóir ghairdín, níos mó nó níos lú, agus sí agus mé ag teacht le chéile an tseachtain seo chugainn tar éis séipéal gach rud a phleanáil amach. Is é an plean a úsáid leapacha ardaithe i ár backyard, a bhfuil nochtadh an-deas ó dheas. Táimid ag fáil ithir hubby ar fheirm homestead teaghlaigh, agus tá freisin lumber ar fáil ann a dhéanamh ar an leaba. Ba mhaith liom a dhéanamh cinnte ag fás mé rudaí gur féidir liom a chaomhnú agus a shíneadh ar feadh na bliana, agus mar sin tá mé ag déanamh mo roghanna go cúramach agus ag déanamh taighde i bhfad mar is féidir liom. Smaointe? Ar deireadh, Hubby agus mé ag plé an smaoineamh go bhfuil backyard ubh-leagan sicíní (seachas fryers). Tá cara maith ar fáil dúinn ar an coop go ndearna sé as a chuid chéad bhaisc sicíní an bhliain seo caite. Cad a blessing! Dúirt mé leis gan tease me, agus arís agus arís eile sé go raibh muid ábalta TAR ÉIS IT! AMAZING! Iarr agus beidh tú a fháil, dáiríre! Tá mé ag pleanáil ar fáil 6 New Hampshire cearca Dearg, nó an cine go bhfuil gaire go bhfuil Díolann ár muileann beatha áitiúil, a assures an "fear" dom go bhfuil sraitheanna den scoth. Praghsanna Feed go bhfuil siad imithe suas majorly, ach beidh an "brabús" a bheith fós faoi $ 30/month, seachas íoc $ 3 + / dosaen uibheacha. Fuaimeanna maith liom! Plus, tá mé éin grá. Agus NÍL, Níl mé ag pleanáil ar ithe MO sicíní. Bheadh sé i bhfad ró mar a bhfuil Juji don dinnéar, agus mé nach bhféadfaí a dhéanamh go díreach. Anywho, leanann an eachtra. Táim ag iarraidh i ndáiríre chun éisteacht leis an Tiarna agus a bheith gach rud a rinne sé ar a dtugtar dom a bheith, agus a bheith oscailte do gach eachtra scil aige dom. Is é an rud fuála nach bhfuil ag tarlú fós ... i bpáirt toisc go bhfuil mé ró leisciúil a fháil ar mo pedal cumhachta seasta ... go bhfuil a briste ar feadh 2 bhliain. Beidh mé a fháil ann. Beannachtaí! Hannah Fág nóta tráchta | | Tags: cócaireacht , airgeadas , Garraíodóireacht , An Eachtraíochta SAHM Posted by Hannah Rae ar 12 Feabhra, 2011 i Saol sa teach stubborn Ar an gcéad dul ba chóir duit leas teidil post mhaith leat a dhéanamh teidil leabhar nó earra? Anywho, a anseo beagán Hannah-factoid duit: Tá mé ar lucht leanúna mór de na teaghlaigh Duggar . Jim Bob agus Michelle Duggar bhí ina inspioráid do Hubby agus ós rud é mé féin riamh a chonaic muid a speisialta den chéad uair ar TLC ar ais nuair a bhí siad ach 14 páistí agus ceann ar an mbealach. Is breá liom an tslí go breá leo a gcuid leanaí agus iad a mhúineadh purposefully faoi charachtar Dé agus atá ag Dia is mian leo a bheith. Is breá liom an tslí a reáchtáil siad a n-bhaile mar sin go héifeachtach. Is breá liom fiú gruaige uamhnach Jim Bob! Is Anywho, rud eile taitneamh a bhaint as mé i ndáiríre leabhar fuaime. Tá mé síntiús le miondíoltóir leabhar fuaime a thugann dom 2 creidmheasanna a chaitheamh ar leabhair na míosa. Téim trí leabhair fuaime ar nós uisce, go háirithe nuair atá mé ag taisteal, nach bhfuil mé níos mó, ach tá mé freisin taitneamh a bhaint as i ndáiríre iad nuair a tá mé ag glanadh an tí, go háirithe nuair atá mé ag cur níocháin ar shiúl. SO Bhí mé an oiread sin sceitimíní nuair ar eipeasóid Dé Luain ar "19 Kids agus Comhaireamh" Michelle atá luaite go raibh sí ag taifeadadh a gcuid teaghlach leabhar isteach i leabhar fuaime. An lá dár gcionn chuaigh mé isteach ar mo mhiondíoltóra suíomh seo agus go raibh an leabhar a scaoileadh go díreach i mí Eanáir. YIPEE! Íoslódáil mé é agus tá hooked chun é ó shin i leith. Tá sé ina 6 1/2 leabhar uair an chloig, agus chríochnaigh mé é i 3 lá. Cad a thaitin liom faoi sé ag foghlaim go léir a cleasanna na trádála. Is é Jim Bob fear gnó an-shrewd, agus Hubby tá wondered gcónaí conas bhfuil siad in ann íoc as a n-stíl bheatha gan dul i fiach. Mar sin, tar éis a fuair mé amach, labhair mé excitedly Hubby ar cluas amach faoi conas a thosaigh siad amach lena n-ghnólachtaí beaga agus ar an gcaoi Dia bheannaithe a obedience. Hubby bhí mé ag iarraidh leanúint ar aghaidh, mar sin bhí a fhios agam go raibh perked sé a leas. Anywho, tá sé stuif an-eagna-bhunaithe. Tá siad déanta a sciar cothrom de botúin agus foghlaim uathu, agus go bhfuil díreach chomh luachmhar a chloisteáil. Is é mo alt is fearr leat an t-alt go cainteanna faoi conas a bhainistiú a gcuid teaghlach, lena n-áirítear smacht agus chores. Stuif suimiúil. Tá mé fós ag dul a cheannach ar an leabhar iarbhír, mar a bheadh sé i bhfad níos éasca tagartha, ach tá mé den sórt sin audial (sp?) Foghlaimeoir go bhfuil mé ag dul i bhfad níos mó ó éisteacht le guth binn Michelle ar mhíniú gach rud mar sin go fonnmhar ná mar a bheadh mé ó léamh. Anywho, arís tá sé seo ach leabhar Tá mé ag baint suilt as agus níl aon chúiteamh, ach más mian leat a sheiceáil amach an leabhar is féidir leat é a fháil anseo nó ar an leabhar fuaime anseo . Beannachtaí! Hannah Fág nóta tráchta | | Tags: airgeadas , Leabhair Dea , An Eachtraíochta SAHM Posted by Hannah Rae ar 30 Meán Fómhair, 2009 i Saol sa teach stubborn Tá mé sa bhaile. Bhí lá atá inniu mo lá deireanach ar an lucht oibre, ar a laghad ar feadh tamaill. Tá sé aisteach conas a oibríonn Dia taobh thiar de na radhairc nuair atá againn aon smaoineamh. Phost mé le fada tamall ó shin faoi conas a bhí torn mo chroí idir fanacht sa lucht saothair agus leanúint le bheith ina fanacht sa bhaile mam, nó bainisteoir bhaile. (Ba mhaith liom grá a mhaith air, ach tá mé ag a bhfuil saincheisteanna a nascadh mór go mbeidh mé súil againn in ann a figiúr amach. ARGHH) Ag an am sin bhí mo chroí conflicted i ndáiríre, go háirithe ós rud é nach raibh Kaleb compordach ag an am sin leis an smaoineamh ag fanacht liom sa bhaile. Bhuel, tá rudaí a athrú. A leagadh faoi mé amach, éifeachtach lá atá inniu ann, mar gheall ar na héifeachtaí a eacnamaíocht ina éagmais Michigan, mar sin tá mé á sheoladh go bunúsach sa bhaile, ach fós a fháil paycheck mar gheall ar dífhostaíocht. Téigh figiúr. Ár buachaillí ag streachailt i ndáiríre ceart anois mar gheall ar strus na scoile, agus an tráma againn endured mar theaghlach le bás Grandma Helen. Tá siad araon ag gníomhú di amach ina mbealaí féin agus go bhfuil gá amháin a lán níos mó ar cheann amháin ar aird ná mar atá feicthe againn roimhe seo. Tá duine Hubby ag dul a bheith ag déanamh roinnt taisteal an mhí seo agus bhí imní i ndáiríre faoi iompar Gabe ar regressing. Tá duine Hubby ar conradh freisin dearthóir éadaigh mór a dhéanamh ar roinnt obair láithreán gréasáin comhsheasmhach, a thiocfaidh in ionad bunúsach mo ioncam caillte móide roinnt, ar a laghad de thuras na huaire. Gach ceann de na fachtóirí a dhéanamh ar mo bheith ina fanacht nua sa bhaile mam Ní amháin go bhfuil deis ann, ach a thabhairt i gcrích a d'fhéadfadh linn leas a hiarbhír as. Níl a fhios againn má tá sé ach le haghaidh séasúr, nó más rud é nach mbeidh mé dul ar ais ag obair ar feadh tréimhse an-fhada, ach do anois ní mór dúinn síocháin iomlán, agus fiú áthas, faoi mo stickin 'ar fud an homestead. Is breá liom i ndáiríre ag déanamh baile-cineál rudaí, agus am excited i ndáiríre faoi an deis chun iniúchadh a dhéanamh ar an chuid sin de mo womanhood níos mó. Tá mé ag pleanáil cheana féin amach sceideal glantacháin / eagrú do féin, chomh maith le tionscadail phleanála beag spraoi a choinneáil ar áitiú féin agus saor ó dúlagar. (Ie a fhoghlaim rud éigin knit eile seachas washcloths, ag obair ar leabhair saol na buachaillí ', rud a thugann an bhlag seo roinnt bling) Ní féidir linn scoil agus sa bhaile na buachaillí ceart anois, agus ní bheadh mé ag iarraidh a go dtí go raibh muid soiléir "Tá" as an Tiarna go mbeadh liom a bheith téarma sa bhaile níos mó ar fad, mar sin ní go bhfuil rud éigin beidh mé ag déileáil le ceart ar shiúl. Tá mé chomh maith tógtha i ndáiríre faoi dul roinnt siúil i leis an poochies sula dtosaíonn againn a fheiceáil ar na ceithre stuif litir bán, a d'fhéadfadh a bheith laistigh de ach cúpla seachtain. Anywho, tá mé i do eachtraíochta. Tá mé ar bís chun páirt a ghlacadh, cad a mheas mé, an club an-rá fanacht ag moms bhaile. Tá súil agam go díreach gur féidir liom smacht go leor 'S am a chaitheamh ag lorg aghaidh an Tiarna faoi cad a chiallaíonn an eachtra fíor. Beannachtaí! Hannah Fág nóta tráchta | | Tags: Uchtála , creideamh , airgeadas , pósadh , tuismitheoireachta , paidir , An Eachtraíochta SAHM Posted by Hannah Rae ar 9 Meán Fómhair, 2009 i gcreideamh , Saol sa teach stubborn Ba mhaith liom a roinnt scéal beag faoi dhílseacht mór Dé. Chuaigh muid Tá do mo mháthair an deireadh seachtaine seo caite a chaitheamh ag roinnt ama a bhfuil géarghá léi, chomh maith le féile ceoil Críostaí taitneamh a bhaint as. Táimid tar éis go léir a bhí ag dul trí go leor athruithe agus béim le déanaí, agus an laethanta saoire a bhí rud éigin is gá dúinn chun a bheith athnuachan. Kaleb bhí iarbhír in ann teacht, nach bhfuil i gcónaí an cás mar gheall ar a chuid freagrachtaí ag an obair, agus bhí sé ag súil go mór é a mhór. Gach a bhí ag dul go maith go dtí go bhfuair muid glao lá roimh a bhí ag fágáil againn ó mo céile col ceathrar gur aontaigh leo fanacht leis an ár madraí fad is a bhí imithe againn. Dúirt sé go bhféadfadh sé a thuilleadh féachaint ar na madraí, ach go mbeadh eile col ceathrar a bheith in ann. Go raibh fíneáil pleananna, mar sin lean. 5 uair an chloig tar éis d'fhág muid ar ár dturas fuair muid le glao ó chol ceathrair chéad rá nach bhféadfadh sé a fháil a shealbhú de na col ceathrar dara toisc go raibh sí ar shiúl campáil. An col ceathrar chéad dúirt nach bhféadfadh sé cúram a ghlacadh de na madraí, agus cad ba chóir dó a dhéanamh. Is é seo an fear tar éis fás ag an mbealach. Bhí ár madraí sa bhaile ina n-aonar 5 uair an chloig ag an bpointe seo, mar sin Dúirt mé leis go raibh air dul a chodladh thar ann ar feadh na hoíche agus go mbeadh muid teacht ar dhuine chun aire a thabhairt ar an amárach iad. Anois, tá Kaleb pessimist. Tá sé cinnte go seo a leanas Murphy linn agus loves a chéasadh linn. Raibh sé cinnte is gá dúinn a cas timpeall agus dul abhaile. Stop muid ag wayside (Is breá liom go bhfuil siad ar a dtugtar i ndáiríre waysides. Mar a tharla i "titim ag an wayside." Hehe.) Agus prayed againn. Prayed againn mar bhí a fhios Dia is gá dúinn an sos mar theaghlach agus d'éiligh go mbeadh sé ag teacht tríd le duine chun féachaint ar ár madraí, ach más rud é go raibh orainn dul abhaile ba mhaith linn. Ar a dtugtar againn cara a bhfuil againn madra shuigh roimh. Bhí sé suas agus d'aontaigh sé ní amháin chun féachaint ar na madraí, ach chun iad a thabhairt ar ais go dtí a bhaile, le fál sa chlós. Dia cares faoi madra-sitters. Fuair muid le mo mam go sábháilte agus taitneamh as an oíche restful (maidin i ndáiríre). Bhí thiomáint muid tríd an oíche, mar sin nuair a fuair muid suas ag meán lae, bhí againn ar fad lounging inár jammies i seomra suí ar mo mam. Kaleb bhí a fháil ar roinnt obair atá déanta ar a ríomhaire glúine, agus mar sin Mam agus Rachel chuaigh go dtí an baile a dhéanamh ar roinnt errands agus bhí muid ag pleanáil ar fhreastal suas leo níos déanaí. Faoi dheireadh, thosaigh ríomhaire glúine Kaleb ar a reáchtáil íseal ar cumhachta, agus mar a shroich sé isteach ina mála a fháil ar a téad chumhacht a chonaic mé a aghaidh dul bán. "Níl sé anseo. Fhág mé mo téad cumhachta sa bhaile! " Bhí a fhios aige go díreach nuair a bhí sé. Bhí sé plugáilte i aice leis ár leaba. D'fhág sé ansin é tar éis cruinniú i ár seomra leapa an lá roimh. Anois, de ghnáth ní bheadh sé seo a bheith le déileáil go mór. Tá ríomhairí glúine a lán adapters cumhacht den chineál céanna agus nach bhfuil sé de ghnáth deacair a fháil amháin a bheidh ag obair. Ní raibh seo an cás. Tá ríomhaire glúine gnó mo hubby ar rang HP gnó, a bhfuil cosúil le adapter annoyingly cumhacht ar leith. Arís, i gcúinsí gnáth aon chúis Scaoill, ba mhaith linn a bheith ag dul abhaile i gceann cúpla lá, ach ní raibh Kaleb gceannteideal bhaile le linn. Bhí sé ag eitilt go díreach ó mo bhaile dúchais go Los Angeles chun bualadh le mór wigs faoi thionscadail mór a bhí an fhaisnéis go léir le haghaidh ar a ríomhaire glúine ... le chlé cumhacht an-beag. Scaoll leagtha isteach Kaleb bhí beagnach réidh le léim sa charr agus ceann ar ais chuig an UP (a 13 uair an chloig tiomáint) ach a fháil ar a téad cumhachta. Bhí sé ag feargach féin, agus cinnte dearfa go raibh scriosta a "baoise" an turas do gach duine. Prayed mé. Prayed mé go mbeadh réiteach. Ní fhéadfadh sé ag guí ag an bpointe seo, mar sin prayed mé dó. Chuardaigh sé ar líne agus fuarthas amach go B * ú B * y Bhí adapter uilíoch a d'fhéadfadh go n-oibríonn. Ach bhí sé daor. Agus ní a d'fhéadfadh an siopa bhfuil sé i stoc. Prayed mé. Prayed mé do mo Athair ar Neamh go mbeadh sé cabhrú leat. Nach mbeadh sé ach an adapter i stoc, ach go mbeadh sé ar díol. An féidir leat buille faoi thuairim cad a tharla? An bhfuil a fhios agat conas dÚsachtach dílis é mo Dhia faoi fiú na rudaí beag? Ní amháin go raibh siad an adapter i stoc, ach bhí sé níos mó ná 50% de thalamh. (Tá mé ag stróiceadh suas thar seo.) Ní amháin sin, ach d'oibrigh sé! Dia shábháil ar ár turas. Gach uair an namhaid iarracht turas dúinn suas, idirghabháil Dia mar gheall ar a fhios aige ár gcroí agus a fhios aige is gá dúinn an am seo teaghlaigh. Nó b'fhéidir idirghabháil sé ach go bhféadfaí mé a scríobh an post seo a insint duit go CÚRAIM HE! Fiú amháin faoi na rudaí beag. Cares sé faoi díolacháin ar éadaí scoile agus nuair a chuir tú go bhfuil píosa tábhachtach de pháipéar. Cares sé mar loves sé leat! Má stopann tú d'intinn gnóthach agus an t-am a ghlacadh chun a iarraidh ar Eisean, beidh sé cabhrú! Anois, tá a fhios agam nach bhfuil sé ag obair i gcónaí go díreach ar an bhealach is mian linn é freisin. Uaireanta rudaí a tarraing go díreach, ach Dia tá sé fós ann i na chuimhneacháin. Uaireanta, tá mé díreach tar éis a chur ar an am a iarraidh dó cad ba mhaith aige orm a chloisteáil sna cásanna sucky. Níl Dia scanraithe ag ár gceisteanna. Fáiltíonn sé leo, mar gheall ar a laghad, tá muid ag teacht leis. 1 Peadar 5:07 (amplified Bíobla) 7 teilgin iomlán do chúram [gach do imní, ar fad do imní, ar fad do imní, uair amháin agus do gach] ar Eisean, do cares sé duit affectionately agus cares faoi tú watchfully. Beannachtaí! Hannah Fág nóta tráchta | | Tags: siopadóireacht mhargadh , Bheith atá leagtha amach , creideamh , airgeadas , paidir Posted by Hannah Rae ar 14 Lúnasa, 2009 i gcreideamh , Saol sa teach stubborn Mar sin, bhí inné diana. Bheadh lá atá inniu ann a chruthú a bheidh níos déine. Fuair i mionaoiseach fender bender. Is é chéad rud a théann trí mo aigne Kaleb ar dul a bheith pissed. Tá sé curtha atá ar cheann de na seachtaine. Tá gach rud ar imeall. Gach cinneadh a cheistiú. Tá sé an dá linn. Tá an dá de dúinn cranky. Claonadh mé díreach tar éis dul inmheánaigh, i gcás mar bíonn sé trína chéile-gnó es a bheith níos sofheicthe. Me, chríochnaíonn sé suas ag teacht amach i Tears ina dhiaidh sin ar faoi rud éigin amaideach. Ansin a thagann sé go léir spilling amach. Ach mé digress. Fuair mé i mionaoiseach fender bender. Bhí mé ag casadh ar dheis le bunch na ngluaisteán eile ar solas glas nuair a stop an trucail i os comhair dom go han-tobann. Bhuail mé a n-tuairteora. Bhí mé ag dul an-mhall, ach an tionchar bhrú fós dom ar ais ar beag. Chas mé ar mo comhartha a tharraingt os a chionn, ach an trucail choinneáil ag dul. An raibh a bhraitheann siad fiú é? Cosúil nach bhfuil. Chinn mé go dtí an bloc 1 thiomáint go dtí mo oifig. Suirbhé mé an damáiste. Is é mo tuairteora scáinte agus an stuif lonracha díláithrithe, ach ní mór. Ní dhéanfaidh aon ní struchtúrtha. Chuaigh mé isteach i mo oifig chun glaoch ar mo chuideachta árachais (nach bhfuil an cops. Feicfidh mé a fháil chun go níos déanaí.) Ach ní raibh a fháil ar an deis mar gheall go raibh mé ceirteacha tarraingthe láithreach ar leataobh ag ár cúntóir oifige agus dúirt go raibh ár n-Stiúrthóir Feidhmiúcháin a labhairt le linn, agus go raibh sé nuacht olc. Cé chomh dona? Bhuel, bhí an bealach M. cur síos go d'iarr sí ar ár Boss ar scála 1 go 10 cé chomh dona, 1 á fháil againn fianán, agus 10 a bheith excruciatingly, painfully olc, cé chomh dona? Bhí sé 10. Ní maith. Mar sin, tá mé ag obair le haghaidh neamh-bhrabúis. Braitheann brabús neamh-atá ag maoiniú ar chorparáid maoinithe. Tá brabús neamh-atá ag maoiniú i gcónaí sa chomhardú ag brath ar an stáit srl deontais ... raibh a luaigh mé mé i mo chónaí i Michigan? An stát leis an ráta dífhostaíochta is airde sa tír? An stát a dhéanamh ar an nuacht go leor, agus ní de ghnáth ar bhealaí go maith? Mar sin, is é ár maoiniú gearrtha. Fuair muid díreach amach inniu nach mbeidh amhail 1 Deireadh Fómhair, mo phost, agus na speisialtóirí coibhéiseach ar fud an stáit ann is dócha post ar bith more.No níos mó. Ick! Is é an blessing gur chinn Dia a thabhairt dom prequel a Providence a thabhairt dom glao inné ó eagraíocht gur mian liom agallamh a chur ar phost múinteoireachta ag réamhscoile nua, agus le haghaidh pá an-competetive. B'fhéidir comhionann fiú a bhfuil mé ag déanamh anois. AGUS TEAGASC!! Agus d'iarr siad dom! An stiúrthóir clár don eagraíocht ar fad ar a dtugtar orm agus dúirt sé go raibh tógtha sí liom tríd an idirghníomhaíocht a bhí againn trí mo staid reatha agus theastaigh uaithi a dhéanamh cinnte thug sí dom glao. Tá poist teoranta atá ar fáil, agus mar sin theastaigh uaithi a dhéanamh cinnte go raibh mé ar an liosta gearr. Sin comhartha maith, ceart? Mar sin, tá mo chroí tá súil, ach tá sé freisin an-overwhelmed le seachtain an-mór, emotionally cáin a ghearradh. Ach a ligean ar deireadh ag couting ár blessings - Is Jeremiah bhaile. Tá sé beagnach sa bhaile le haghaidh maith. Bheith Tá sé an sweetest, buachaill beag happiest agus tá mé chomh sásta go rachaidh mé chun taithí a ghrá. - An bender fender Bhí lá atá inniu ann an-bheag. Ní raibh an t-oifigeach póilíní fiú smaoineamh go raibh sé fiú a scríobh-suas. Go háirithe ós rud é thiomáin an pick-suas as. - Dia thug dom agallamh sula raibh a fhios agam fiú is gá mé amháin. - Tá beannachtaí níos mó ag teacht ná mar a raibh mé in ann a shamhlú riamh. Fág nóta tráchta | | Tags: airgeadas , pósadh Posted by Hannah Rae ar 6 Iúil, 2009 i Saol sa teach stubborn Is gá dom moltaí ... réitigh ... SMAOINTE! Is maith liom mo phost. A rachaidh mé a thabhairt do theaghlaigh cuidiú agus ag obair le roinnt na mban uamhnach. Is fuath liom mo phost. Tá mé amach as mo theaghlach. Dar liom riamh tá mé sa bhaile. Aontaím go bunúsach le i bhfad ar cad a dhéanfaidh mé le tuismitheoirí cabhair a fháil becauseI cúram leanaí as a gcuid leanaí branda nua sula ndéantar iad a rugadh fiú nuair a bhíonn gach Ba mhaith liom a dhéanamh a bheith sa bhaile le mo chuid páistí. Ba mhaith liom baile scoil Jeremiah, ach nach bhfuil ar ndóigh an rogha ceart anois. Ní féidir liom a fháil fiú Gabe ar a chuid coinní gan a lán de begging agus phléadáil. Mo hubby iontach é ní hamháin réidh chun bheith ina cheann ar ioncam teaghlaigh. Cad is féidir liom a dhéanamh? Mé i mo chónaí i gceantar an-teoranta, mar sin a fháil ach post níos solúbtha is dócha nach rogha. Chomh maith leis sin, mar gheall ar ár ndaonra beag, nach bhfuil an ghnáth-obair-as-baile gnóthaí brabúsach anseo. Tá mé ag dul chun iarracht a labhairt le mo Boss faoi roghanna le haghaidh na bliana scoile, ach Níféidir féidir liom a fheiceáil go bhfuil mar gealladh an-. Más féidir liom ar a laghad, figiúr amach conas is féidir liom a bheith sa bhaile ag an am na buachaillí a fháil amach an bus, a bheadh uamhnach! Tá mé mo BS i bhForbairt na Luath-Óige, más rud a chabhraíonn go chor ar bith. No, ní bheidh mé a oscailt cúram lae mar gheall ar mo buachaillí ceisteanna agus mo critters. Sea, ba mhaith liom grá chun cabhrú le teaghlaigh déileáil le hiompar / disciplín ceisteanna, ach táim cinnte maidir le conas dul go isteach ioncam. Le do thoil,, uamhnach cruthaitheach, nuálach moms amach ann, cabhrú liom! Cuidigh liom teacht suas le smaointe ar conas is féidir linn a dhéanamh ar an obair seo. Cabhraigh liom a fhios conas a éisteacht leis an guth Dia thar na lucht tuathail. Beannachtaí! Hannah *** Nuashonraigh *** Is dócha gur cheart dom a thabhairt ar an talamh beagán níos mó ar ais ar an staid. Tá mé a úsáidtear chun smaoineamh / ag caint seo tríd an dearmad liom más rud é nach bhfuil mé cineál na sonraí, níl aon bhealach a bheadh a fhios agat. Tá cuid de seo mar fhreagra ar an comment iontach ag Ológa Ardú. Táimid tar éis an-bheannaigh. Tá Mo fear céile post maith, ní mór, ach go maith ag íoc go don chéad uair inár saol pósta óga go bhfuil muid cobhsaí airgeadais. Scamallach. Seo bacainní cúpla mo mhian a bheith ina SAHM lánaimseartha. Tá dhá theach. Nílimid ag iarraidh dhá theach. Táimid tar éis a bhí ár teach eile ar díol ar feadh 2 bhliain gan aon rath. Táimid renters a bhí, ach anois renters atá imithe. Más féidir linn a fháil ar an teach a dhíol, a bheadh ina bhac ollmhór imithe. Tá Mo fear céile béim. Tá sé an-mhaith ag a phost, ach ar an drochuair ciallaíonn sé go leanann a chuid cuideachta a carn ar an ualach oibre. Kaleb Tá am an-deacair ag rá "No! Go leor! "Toisc go mothaíonn sé go mbeadh sé ina bhagairt do a phost. Tá a lán de na eagla ann, agus sin an fáth nach bhfuil sé compordach a chailliúint mo chuid ioncaim. Iasachtaí mac léinn. Tá mé iad. Anois, i gcomparáid leis an meán náisiúnta, tá mé ag déanamh i ndáiríre go maith, ach mothaíonn an hubby go más rud é nach bhfuil mé ag obair i mo réimse mé wasting an 40k gur chaitheamar / ag caitheamh ar mo oideachas. Ní aontaím agus sílim go bhfuil mo oideachas úsáid is fearr ag cuidiú lenár teaghlaigh agus aon kids / teaghlaigh a d'fhéadfadh leas a bhaint as mo chuid eolais, chomh maith, le haghaidh pá nó nach bhfuil. Tá easpa rudaí a ghearradh. Tá sé ráite go gearrtha againn ar an stuif breise. Tá carr dara ríthábhachtach ár suíomh ó beo againn i lár na Níláit ar bith agus mo fhear céile agus mé ag taisteal treoracha os coinne chun dul chun oibre. Má bhí mé sa bhaile, ba mhaith liom fós gá is dócha mo charr chun na kiddos a fháil chun srl ceapacháin ... Tá sé ach cuid de ina gcónaí anseo. Thankfully, tá bheannaigh Dia dúinn, feithiclí maith saor nach bhfuil ualach mór. D'fhéadfadh muid a ghearradh cinnte an chábla, agus mhol mé é amanna éagsúla ach nach bhfuil an chuid eile den teaghlach i gcomhaontú leis seo. Arís, is dócha go bhfuil sé mar gheall ar cónaí orainn go bhfad ar shiúl ó civilization go nuair a tá sé na coise tinne nó ag cur sneachta (9 mí amach as na bliana) go bhfuil tuiscint ar fhaoiseamh a fhios is féidir leat dul díreach ar an fheadáin. Táimid an-annamh a ithe amach, arís mar gheall ar chomh gar, ach tá sé seo le só go maith leis an hubby a chóireáil dúinn anois agus ansin. Tá cuid de sé go maith go bhfuil sé a thabhairt. Is maith sé gur féidir leis a thógáil dúinn amach a ithe, a cheannach linn fionnuar gadgets etc ... Sílim go bhfuil sé deacair dó a bhraitheann srianta sa réimse sin. Cosúil nach bhfuil sé ag fáil fiú le taitneamh a bhaint as na torthaí a chuid oibre crua. Níl a fhios agam aon rud eile gur féidir linn a ghearradh. Rachaidh mé ach éadaí nuair a restores na cinn mé ag caitheamh chaitheamh amach (literally), agus táim ar lucht leanúna mór de na díolacháin rummage agus. Cúrsaí an chroí. Tá mé go hiomlán sásta a chur isteach, agus tá mé ag déanamh amhlaidh gach lá a théann mé ag obair. Níl forcing sé dom ar chor ar bith, agus nach bhfuil éadrócaireach, ach a impleachtaí soiléir. Tá a fhios agam go má tugadh mé an soiléir, neamhchoinníollach, fíor-rogha, ba mhaith roghnaigh mé a bheith sa bhaile. Is dóigh liom Gortaítear ag na himpleachtaí go Ba mhaith liom a bheith wasting mo chuid oideachais sa bhaile. Is dóigh liom sáinnithe agus eagla nach féidir riamh liom a fháil a chomhlíonadh mo bhrionglóid de bheith sa bhaile le leanbh ag mo chléibh (yeah, a thagann i anseo freisin). Mhothaíonn sé Gortaítear ag an impleacht go bhfuil sé air féin ach beidh sé a dhéanamh ar fad. Mothaíonn sé sáinnithe agus eagla i bpost a cheapann sé a titim amach as faoi a chosa tráth ar bith. Mar sin, a fheiceann tú, é seo ar cheist luchtaithe. In ábhair chreidimh, tá mé ag guí agus cried amach faoi seo agus ceisteanna gaolmhara eile. Is é an fhadhb Tá mé am géarchúisí deacair Dé croí thar an pounding chuala mé de mo chuid féin. Fág nóta tráchta | | Tags: creideamh , airgeadas , pósadh , tuistiú