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My daughter is turning one soon and I’m doing some soul-searching about myself and the messages I would be giving to her. Some thoughts were coming to me (in the shower) about what I would want to say to her (and how I should be living and role-modeling this). I started a letter to capture some of these and am sharing, as I thought it may be food for thought with the start of the new year. I plan to keep it in electronic form and keep adding to it. It would be a nice ritual by adding to it annually, and give it to her before college. I have a chest where I keep keepsakes for my two kids to have someday – maybe I will put it in there. I separately started keeping notes about her development from the year. In case I end up not being around in her future, I want to share with her what I have learned thus far, that may be of use to her. Letter to my daughter, Maya Dear Maya, It is such a privilege and honor to have you in my life and be your mom. In case I am not able to do so in person when you are an adult, I want to share some life lessons I’ve learned that I wish my mother relayed to me, which may be relevant for you. - You create your own happiness - Do not let anyone, especially a man, control your level of happiness - Do not wait to be rescued – only you can rescue yourself - People around you may not have the ability to rescue you. - You are empowering them to believe they can control you and your state - Don’t give away this basic power that is only yours - You are empowering them to believe they can control you and your state - Know when you are behaving like a victim and projecting that out to the world. - People around you may not have the ability to rescue you. - As a female, it is important that you understand, embrace, and LIVE the word “empowerment.” - Many events that can be viewed with sadness, such as a relationship ending (which truly did not serve you), can be viewed as empowering, if you allow yourself to see it that way. - Know and respect your power and don’t give it away to others - You can only expect from others the level of respect you give yourself - Never settle on this – know and stand up for the level that you deserve - Embracing your intelligence, intellectually and emotionally, is a good thing - Do not feel ashamed, question, doubt, and disregard what you know in your heart to be true. Above all, be open to giving and receiving love. Know that I have and will always love you. With all my heart, Your Mom For more food for thought, check out my expanding collection of Quotes and Food For Thought
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Tá mo iníon amháin ag casadh go luath agus tá mé ag déanamh roinnt anam-chuardach fúm féin agus na teachtaireachtaí mhaith liom a bheith ag tabhairt Tá roinnt smaointe a bhí ag teacht chugam (i an cith) faoi cad ba mhaith liom a rá go di (agus conas ba chóir dom a bheith beo agus ról-samhaltú seo). Thosaigh mé litir a ghabháil ar chuid de seo agus tá roinnt, mar a shíl mé d'fhéadfadh sé a bheith bia le haghaidh machnaimh le tús na bliana nua. Intinn agam é a choinneáil i bhfoirm leictreonach agus a choinneáil ag cur leis. Bheadh sé deas le dóiteán trí dó go bliantúil, agus é a thabhairt léi roimh choláiste. Tá mé cófra áit mé keepsakes a choinneáil le mo dhá páistí a bheith acu someday - b'fhéidir go mbeidh mé in ann é a chur. Thosaigh mé ar leithligh a choimeád nótaí faoina fhorbairt ó na bliana. I gcás deireadh mé suas gan a bheith timpeall i aici amach anseo, ba mhaith liom a roinnt léi a bhfuil foghlamtha agam go dtí seo, d'fhéadfadh a bheith úsáideach do di. Litir chuig mo 'níon, Maya A chara Maya, Tá sé den sórt sin a phribhléid agus onóir a bhfuil tú i mo shaol agus a bheith ar do mamaí. Sa chás nach bhfuil mé in ann é sin a dhéanamh go pearsanta nuair a bhíonn tú duine fásta, ba mhaith liom roinnt roinnt ceachtanna saoil foghlamtha agam gur mian liom mo mháthair relayed liomsa, a d'fhéadfadh a bheith ábhartha do shon. - A chruthú duit féin do sonas - Ná lig d'aon duine, go háirithe fear, rialú do leibhéal na sonas - Ná fan go rescued - ach is féidir leat tú féin a tharrtháil - Ní féidir le daoine mórthimpeall ort an cumas chun tarrthála tú. - Tá tú cumhacht a thabhairt dóibh chun a chreidiúint gur féidir leo a rialú tú féin agus do staid - Ná tabhair amach an chumhacht seo bunúsach is é sin ach mise - Tá tú cumhacht a thabhairt dóibh chun a chreidiúint gur féidir leo a rialú tú féin agus do staid - Know nuair atá tú ag iompar mar a bheadh íospartach agus ag gobadh amach go dtí an domhain. - Ní féidir le daoine mórthimpeall ort an cumas chun tarrthála tú. - Mar baineann, tá sé tábhachtach go dtuigeann tú, glacadh, agus BEO an focal "cumasú." - Imeachtaí go leor gur féidir a fheiceáil le brón, cosúil le deireadh le caidreamh (nach raibh fíor freastal ort) is féidir, a fheiceáil mar a chumhachtú, má cheadaíonn duit féin chun é a fheiceáil go bhealach. - Know agus meas do chumhacht agus nach é a thabhairt ar shiúl le daoine eile - Is féidir leat a bheith ag súil ó dhaoine eile ach amháin an leibhéal leith a thabhairt duit féin - Ná réiteach ar an - eolas agus seasamh suas do na leibhéil sin ag dul duit - Ag glacadh le do chuid faisnéise, go hintleachtúil agus mothúchánach, is é an rud maith - Ná mbraitheann náire, ceist, amhras, agus neamhaird a thabhairt ar cad a fhios agat i do chroí a bheith fíor. Thar aon ní eile, a bheith ar oscailt do thabhairt agus a fháil grá. Tá a fhios go bhfuil mé agus beidh grá i gcónaí leat. Le mo chroí go léir, Do Mam Le haghaidh bia níos mó le haghaidh machnaimh, seiceáil amach mo bhailiú ag leathnú na Sleachta agus Bia Do Smaointe