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What are the warning signs of an abusive relationship? Information in Irish sign language Everyone has arguments, and everyone disagrees with their partners, family members and others close to them from time to time. But if this begins to form a consistent pattern and you feel afraid of your partner, then this in a sign of domestic violence. You may feel like you have no power over your life and that you are being controlled by your partner. We have listed some warning signs below to help you make sense of your situation. Any one of the following signs is serious. You do not need to experience several, or all of them for your relationship to be abusive. - You are afraid of your partner. - You are constantly 'walking on eggshells' because of his mood swings. - You spend your time working out what kind of mood he is in and the focus is always on his needs. - He loses his temper easily and over minor things. - He has hit you or almost hit you and/or your children. - Your partner has been abusive in a previous relationship. - He criticises your family and friends and/or makes it difficult for you to see them or talk to them on your own. - He calls you names and threatens you and/or your children. - He is jealous and accuses you of flirting and having affairs. - He regularly criticises or undermines you in front of other people - including about the way you look, dress, and/or your abilities as a mother. - Your needs are not considered important or are ignored, and he makes the decisions in the relationship. - You find it hard to get time on your own. When you do spend time away from him, he demands to know where you were and who you were with. - He controls your access to basic essentials such as the car, the family finances, food, the telephone and internet. - He has forced you to do something that you really did not want to do. - He has forced you to have sex with him or with other people. He has made you participate in sexual activities that you were uncomfortable with. - He has threatened to have you deported because of your immigration status. - He tries to control aspects of your life such as whether you work, and where; who you see and when; what you can spend; what you can wear; what you watch or listen to on the radio or television. - He demands to know the passwords to you email account and social networking pages. If after reading this you think that you are, or might be, living in an abusive relationship read more about domestic violence and find out how you can keep safe . If you have children and are worried about their safety, click here .
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Cad is foréigean baile ann? Bíonn argóintí ag gach duine, agus ní haontaíonn gach duine lena bpáirtithe, lena dteaghlaigh nó le daoine eile a bhfuil dlúthchaidreamh acu leo ó am go céile. Má thosaíonn sé seo a bheith ina phatrún comhsheasmhach agus má bhíonn eagla ort roimh do pháirtí, is é seo comhartha go bhfuil foréigean baile ag tarlú. D'fhéadfadh sé go mothófá nach bhfuil cumhacht ar bith agat ar do shaol agus go bhfuil do pháirtí i do rialú. Tá liosta déanta againn de chuid de na comharthaí rabhaidh thíos le cuidiú leat ciall a bhaint as do chás. Tá ceann ar bith de na comharthaí seo tromchúiseach. Ní gá go bhfuil roinnt acu, nó iad ar fad ag tarlú duit d'fhonn a bheith i gcaidreamh mí-úsáideach. - Tá eagla ort roimh do pháirtí. - Tá eagla do chraicne ort i gcónaí de bharr a athruithe taighd. - Caitheann tú am ag iarraidh a dhéanamh amach cén cineál taighd atá air agus tá an fócas ar a chuid riachtanas i gcónaí. - Rugann an fearg bua air go furasta faoi rudaí beaga. - Bhuail sé tú nó dóbair nár bhuail sé tú agus/do pháistí. - Bhí do pháirtí i gcaidreamh mí-úsáide roimhe seo. - Cáineann sé do theaghlach agus do chairde agus/nó bíonn sé deacair duit buaileadh leo nó labhairt leo leat féin dá bharr. - Tugann sé ainmneacha ort agus bagraíonn sé tú féin agus/nó do pháistí. - Bíonn éad air agus cuireann sé i do leith go mbíonn tú ag suirí nó go mbíonn tú mór le fir eile. - Cáineann sé tú agus baineann sé an bonn de do mhuinín os comhair daoine eile - lena n-áirítear an chuma atá ort, a dóigh a ngléasann tú, agus/nó do chumais mar mháthair. - Ní mheasann sé go bhfuil do riachtanais tábhachtach nó ní thugann sé aird orthu, agus déanann sé na cinntí sa chaidreamh. - Bíonn sé deacair duit am a chaitheadh leat féin. Nuair a chaitheann tú am ar shiúl uaidh, bíonn sé ag iarraidh a fháil amach cá raibh tú agus cé raibh tú leis. - Rialaíonn sé do rochtain ar bhonnriachtanais amhail an carr, airgead an teaghlaigh, bia, an guthán agus an t-idirlíon. - Thug sé ort rud éigin nach raibh tú ag iarraidh a dhéanamh, a dhéanamh. - Thug sé ort gnéas a bheith agat leis nó le daoine eile. Thug sé ort páirt a ghlacadh i ngníomhaíochtaí gnéis nach raibh tú faoi do shuaimhneas leo. - Bhagair sé go ndéanfaí tú a dhíbirt de bharr do stádais inimirce - Tugann sé iarraidh gach gné de do shaol a rialú cosúil le cibé acu an n-oibríonn tú nó nach n-oibríonn tú; cé a mbuaileann tú leo agus cá huair; an méid airgid is féidir leat a chaitheamh; cad a chaitheann tú; cad a mbreathnaíonn nó a n-éisteann tú leis ar an raidió nó ar an teilifís. - Éilíonn sé a fháil amach cad iad na pasfhocail do do chuntais ríomhphoist agus do do leathanaigh líonraithe shóisialta. Má cheapann tú i ndiaidh duit é seo a léamh, go bhfuil tú, nó go mb'fhéidir go bhfuil tú, i gcaidreamh mí-úsáideach léigh tuilleadh faoi foréigean baile agus fáigh amach an dóigh ar féidir leat fanacht sábháilte.