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Malum quod tibi accidit, nihil "Nos vicimus conparandi roboris" - Radulphus Waldo Emerson Nihil tibi mali factum est. Plerisque, aut huiusmodi est alterum eorum, quae ut facere promptam. Aut non stabit, ipsum, nutu hoc conveniunt quod tandem reputans quod verum reperire, vel statim offendit, interdum tincidunt defensivum et iratus est mihi tutor meus, super 5-10 una mensis, factum est, ut eos, qui se male res. Ad hoc quod homo possit aliquid significare motus genu inprobus valde profundius quam quod videt in speculo, et dimidia parte videntis, ut inanis. Forte sint coniuncta quomodo ad signum "historia", praeteritam, vel etiam ut negative passiones, in genere,. Trauma ad praeteritum; sic cum, vel negativum, notificavimus nos uti pars, ac periculum fieri dependet addicti sumus negative passiones sensus firmatur. "Et cum ad sensum passionis fructum parva assignatione. Sed quam consequat invidet, explorare,. Cogita. Et maxime,, uti. "- Max Lucado Addictum aut negative affectus dolore, fieri conceptus primum sonat absurdum, quia facit quod malit sentire malus indulgeas? Quod quidem si verum identitatem "Ego sum, qui multa mala acciderint,»Vel« Ego sum, qui hoc de trauma,»Vel« Ego sum, qui fecit me, qui et illum et illum qui expertus sum hodie terribilis,"Fabulam sensum, ut sibi subsidio incipit sensu dependebit sui negativum. Sensus, qui sunt in circuitu tuo, et cum formatum est a traumatica experientia, praeteritum,, defendere, aut si quis minatur, ne quid sentias, aut ut debunk negare tibi "fabula". Aedificationem ex animo, ut caveamus de praeterito historiam, quomodo fit, videamus primo omnia. Consilium non fuit, cum aliquid contingit, per cogitationes mentis situ fabula facit. Li historia nos facimus condicione utrum "bonum" et "malum". Quod bonum amet, placerat in casibus "quae profecto" est, sed perceptum, quod malum sit res adepto amet, "quae sunt quae transierunt, graviter" est. Autem, non ex eo, quod res est vera sapientia univoce bonum vel malum. Si bonus aut malus momento rerum in quavis regredior, certo illa quidem unus malus invenies propter verbum, quod factum est "bonum" situs, vel quia unum est bonum, quod factum est "malus" situs. Quod quidem probat solus verus exercitio. Nihil tibi mali factum est. Revocemur in contextu rerum, ex latiori facto esse possumus videre, nubilum omne argentum lining. Unum ego teneat nos aut ex nostro sensu identitatis providens argentum lining. Attachiatus ad narrationem facti determinant quam animus ferox condicione iudicando tenebo. Firmior tutela plus, dum defendere, tueri historia habetur idem omnibus modis. Ne vivam saepius retro mentibus veritas, quique in hoc tempore volumus, hoc tantum opus ad adjust…quomodo aliquid faciat motus atque sensus. "Rem mutare non possumus, quae erant ad mutare nos. "- Viktor Omutescant Ita verum est, quod diximus, experientiam sensumque nocere potuisse, tristis, iratus, adflictus, etc orci… Autem, animus, sicut et res, venit… et vade,. Dum animum induceret ad sensum, aliquid permitti perfecit, nusquam antea rationabiliter dolet et uiuere triste nobis atque etiam per cogitationes nostras a narrantem. Animum modo repraesentavit eventu processus noster elegit cerebrum. Et maxime si sentiunt realis tempore,, commotum discrimen facere non. Nostra sententia succurro in subsidio nostris rerum eventus, et exterius manifestant, non quidem in corporis nostri, verum etiam quod facit sentire, sed omnium omnino mutatio non indiget ut adjungantur fabula. Est animus meminisse se iudicare debemus, Non est factum, et si dicuntur nec vitare debeamus, sed plane habenda, et qui utuntur exstructoria. Nos sentimus moveri animos eorum; perfecit. Et, rursus, lumen est in fine cuniculum saepius in fine atque levius quam gravius traumatica. Hoc est fabula RESCRIBO possumus. Qui pro nobis in eodem hoc tempore definire casum malorum, qui ab initio ipsi viderunt, sed de re minus appetibilis et boni ex se poterat eam movere praeteritum. Pro victima, sinit esse victor. Source: Ostende nobis lucem pandendam studium et amor,: 8 Comments The main issue I have with this premise is that it doesn’t take into account truly horrific things that happened to us to which there is no benefit. I am a survivor of sexual assault – both as a child and as an adult – and I have a hard time finding the “silver lining” in having been molested when I was three years old. To say that the feelings at the time were not “true” (aka real) invalidates who I am; and telling a child of abuse to “shift their perspective” because their situation isn’t as bad as they think it is, is cruel and inhumane. If you now fight for justice for rape victims, if you now are able to support others who have been through similar horrors, if you have learned to love yourself and that it was NEVER your fault…..there is a silver lining. Not to the events but to your growth. To the person you are now regardless and because of the events. The feelings at the time are true! Don’t let them rule your life. Acknowledge them They are real and are yours. If we fight our feelings, they will become stronger. When we can say “Etiam, those feelings are real” , we may in time learn to live with them. I applause the writers aim of this article however the broad net cast to cover bad situations may leave those who have deep scars asking further what they have done wrong. Be careful when making such statements as you tread on many peoples hearts. Okay. I read all this and I completely agreed that I am a hundred percent doing this. I have something going on or had somehting going on where I couldn’t even think about this person or event without my head filling with voices, either from this reality or different ones, all of which were just hurting and hurting till I ended up screaming or having to go to the hospital. The fact is, this person could have talked to me themselves about said event, they could have helped me but instead refused to talk to me about said event and told me I should just get on medicine even though I would not need the medicine and the voices in my head might be soothed if only they would talk to me. Id, after all that, how do I simply do what you say in this article and move on. When I try to let the emotions as you say, process to completion, i run into things that make me scared out of my mind, and angry to the point I would like to kill this person. I blame them tremendously for knowing the information I need to cease the voices in my head yet they would rather mock me and tell me to take medicine instead of help me with what I am unclear of. Is that really their right to put me through that, to have me scared stiff all the time and worried just because they want to keep their mouth shut. I don’t think that’s right…it goes against my sense of right and wrong in the universe…it makes me want to tear the universe apart. I just… I guess I”m asking…how hard do I have to try this..because doing it was landing me in the hospital. There really was some sort of ego that I couldn’t track down and couldn’t think past but I swear, it was mostly this person who could have helped and chose not to. I don’t know how to live with that person living! I just… I’m afraid that since nothing is settled because I don’t want to end up in the hospital again, that it will happen again. I don’t think I should be forced on psyc meds when I am not experiencing psychosis but confusion because someone is withholding information from me like some sort of sick joke. I feel ya, Ladybug. I just had some similar experience, some people are really evil… I fell in love with a man(looking like an angel) who made everything for me to fall in love with him madly, and trust him like I never trusted anyone before. He was the One, my soulmate. When he left back to his country, he wrote once or twice, then stopped, even to answer my e-mails, or just to say “hi, I’m ok, how are you”. I could never imagine that, after all the love we shared, the fusion that happened between us.. I wrote and wrote him for months, desperate, just asking for an explanation whatever it was, I was ready to accept it.. It drove me crazy really, not to the point of getting voices in my head(I guess your problem is more ‘serious’) but I thought about suicide many times and still do; it got me really weak, and full of negative thoughts when I’m alone(from my past, filled with even harder things that happened to me and from which there is no good side to see). Love could heal me from this all, but instead even my “soulmate” finally met, broke me down more than anyone…. I am stronger than anyone I know, but what for? Hope… And well, I keep on enjoying everything I can, as one who has died and came back to life many times, so very intensely in the moment. I try not to think, keep my mind busy or empty(meditatio,). Don’t let evil get you, that’s the secret purpose(unconscious or not) of the one making you suffer this way. Turn your attention to the other side. Be stronger. Know that God is greater, trust it and you will see… God is Love, there’s no greater power…and if you are still alive, it means that you are loved… God gives us only what we can handle, so you must be a bad-ass, trust it !
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Ništa loše se ikada dogodilo da vas "Mi smo stekli snagu smo prevladati" - Ralph Waldo Emerson Ništa loše ikada dogodilo da vas. Za većinu ljudi, izjavu kao što je ovaj će ih potaknuti da to ni jedna od dvije stvari. Ili će pauzirati, osmijeh, glavom i slažu, jer nakon nekih odražava smatraju da ova izjava je zapravo istina, ili će odmah biti uvrijeđen, obrambeni ili ponekad čak i naljutiti i početi suklja off 5-10 loše situacije koje su se dogodile na njih sam da je mjesec dana. Osobe koljena kreten reakcija na ovu izjavu može značiti nešto mnogo dublje nego što tko vidi svoju čašu kao napola puna, a tko to ne vidi kao napola prazna. To može biti pokazatelj kako prilogu su njihove "priče", njihova prošlost, ili čak samo Negativne emocije uglavnom. Kada smo postali toliko vezan za prošlih trauma, ili negativnosti, da smo ga koristiti kao dio našeg identiteta, možemo riskirati da postane ovisnik i ovisan o negativnim emocijama uspostaviti naš osjećaj tko smo. "Osjećaj patnje je mali zadatak u odnosu na plaću. Umjesto zavidjeti vaš problem, istražiti. Razmisli ga. A najviše od svega, koristite ga. "- Max Lucado Koncept postaju ovisnici o negativnim emocijama ili patnje može zvučati apsurdno na prvi pogled, jer tko bi se odlučili postati ovisan o nečemu što ih čini osjećati loše? Međutim, ako se formira svoj identitet kao "Ja sam osoba koja je mnogo loših stvari dogodilo,"Ili" Ja sam osoba koja se bavila ovom traume,"Ili" Ja sam osoba koja je imala takvu i takvu strašnu iskustvo koje mi je napravio tko sam ja danas,"Vaš osjećaj sebe počinje ovisiti o negativnoj priči kako bi se pojačali svoj osjećaj sebe. Kada je vaš osjećaj koji ste se formira oko prošlih traumatskih iskustava, možda ćete se osjećati u obrani od bilo čega ili bilo koga tko prijeti da će raskrinkati ili negirati svoju "priču". Kako bi se zaštitili od naš um izgradnji priču oko prošlih događaja, prvo moramo pogledati kako sve to se događa na prvo mjesto. Kad se nešto dogodi nam se da nismo planirati, naš um stvara priču o situaciji kroz naše misli. Priča mi stvaramo će odrediti da li mi se natpis na situaciju kao "dobro" ili "loše". Dobra situacija bi podnio pod "stvari koje su prošle dobro" datotečne, dok percipiraju loše situacije dobili podnio pod "stvari koje su prošle loše" datotečne. Međutim, istina mudrost dolazi od spoznaje da nitko situacija je nedvosmisleno dobro ili loše. Ako odvojite trenutak razmišljati natrag na svakom dobrom ili lošem stanju, to je zajamčeno da možete pronaći barem jednu lošu stvar koja se dogodila zbog "dobrog" situacije, ili jedna dobra stvar koja se dogodila zbog "lošeg" situacije. Samo ove vježbe dokazuje da tvrdnja je zapravo istina. Ništa loše ikada dogodilo da vas. Kada pogledamo situacijama iz šire perspektive možemo vidjeti da je u stvari srebro podstava na svakom oblaku. Jedino što nas drži leđa od gledanja ovog srebro podstava je naš ego ili osjećaj identiteta. Kako prilogu postali smo se na našu priču će odrediti kako žestoko ego će držati na svojoj presudi od situacije. Jači držite više štititi i obrambeni smo dobili u pokušaju da zaštiti našu priču i identitet po svaku cijenu. Kako bi se izbjeglo žive u prošlom stvarnosti iznova i iznova u našim mislima, i postati tko želimo biti u sadašnjem trenutku, trebamo samo podesiti jednu stvar…Kako ćemo obraditi emocije i osjećaje. "Kad više ne možemo promijeniti situaciju, mi smo izazvani da promijenimo sebe. "- Viktor Frankl Da to je istina da je iskustvo koje smo imali možda su nas osjećaju ozlijeđen, tužan, ljut, potišten, frustracija i sl.… Međutim, osjećaji, kao situacijama, doći… i odu. Dokle god smo osvijestiti osjećaje, i dopustiti im da proces završetka, nikada nije bilo razloga da moramo živjeti s prošlošću boli iznova i iznova i iznova prepričavanjem naša tužna priča za sebe kroz naše misli. Osjećaji su samo prikaz kako naš mozak je odlučio obraditi određeni događaj. I iako se osjećaju izuzetno realna na vrijeme, osjećaje i emocije ne jednaku istinu. Naši osjećaji bi ojačali našu perspektivu na događaj i mogu ni očitovati prema van u našem fizičkom tijelu, što ih čini još više osjećaju u realnom, ali pomak u perspektivi je sve osoba treba da bi se ne vežu se priče. Važno je zapamtiti da ne bismo trebali suditi osjećaje sebe, niti bi ih izbjegli i praviti se da se ne događa, već smo ih trebali osjećati potpuno, i koristiti ih konstruktivno. Kad se osjećamo osjećaje kako bi njihova završetka možemo prijeći preko njih. Otkrivamo Svjetlo na kraju tunela i češće nego ne osjećati bolje na kraju traumatskog događaja, a ne i gore. To je u ovom trenutku možemo prepisati našu priču. Umjesto da ste loša događaj definira tko smo mi u sadašnjem trenutku, počnemo sami vide kao nekoga tko se bavio manje od poželjnih situaciji, ali je bio u mogućnosti da se dobro s njim i prijeći preko njega. Umjesto da bude žrtva, dopuštamo da se pobjednik. Izvor slike Pokažite nam malo ljubavi i širiti svjetlo: 8 Komentari Glavno pitanje koje imam s ovom pretpostavkom je da ne uzima u obzir doista strašne stvari koje su se dogodile na nama je da što nema koristi. Ja sam preživjela seksualno zlostavljanje – i kao dijete i kao odrasla osoba – i ja sam tvrdo vrijeme pronalaženje “srebro podstava” u što je zlostavljao kad sam imao tri godine. Reći da su osjećaji u vrijeme nisu bili “pravi” (aka realnom) poništava tko sam ja; i reći dijete od zlostavljanja na “guraju njihove perspektive” jer je njihova situacija nije tako loša kao što oni misle da je, okrutno i nehumano. Ako se sada boriti za pravdu za žrtve silovanja, ako su sada u mogućnosti podržati drugima koji su kroz slične strahote, Ako ste naučili voljeti sebe i da je nikada ne tvoja krivica…..tu je srebro podstava. Nije na događaje, ali na svoju rast. Osobi koju su sada, bez obzira i zbog događaja. Osjećaji u to vrijeme su istinite! Nemojte dopustiti da ih vodiš svoj život. Priznaju ih Oni su pravi i tvoje. Ako ćemo se boriti naše osjećaje, oni će postati jači. Kada možemo reći “da, ti osjećaji su stvarni” , možemo u vrijeme naučiti živjeti s njima. Ja pljesak pisci Cilj ovog članka, međutim široka mreža cast za pokriće loših situacija može ostaviti onima koji imaju duboke ožiljke pita dalje ono što su učinili u redu. Budite oprezni prilikom donošenja takve izjave kao što gazite na mnogim narodima srca. U redu. I read all this and I completely agreed that I am a hundred percent doing this. I have something going on or had somehting going on where I couldn’t even think about this person or event without my head filling with voices, either from this reality or different ones, all of which were just hurting and hurting till I ended up screaming or having to go to the hospital. The fact is, this person could have talked to me themselves about said event, they could have helped me but instead refused to talk to me about said event and told me I should just get on medicine even though I would not need the medicine and the voices in my head might be soothed if only they would talk to me. Mislim, after all that, how do I simply do what you say in this article and move on. When I try to let the emotions as you say, process to completion, i run into things that make me scared out of my mind, and angry to the point I would like to kill this person. I blame them tremendously for knowing the information I need to cease the voices in my head yet they would rather mock me and tell me to take medicine instead of help me with what I am unclear of. Is that really their right to put me through that, to have me scared stiff all the time and worried just because they want to keep their mouth shut. I don’t think that’s right…it goes against my sense of right and wrong in the universe…it makes me want to tear the universe apart. I just…I guess I”m asking…how hard do I have to try this..because doing it was landing me in the hospital. There really was some sort of ego that I couldn’t track down and couldn’t think past but I swear, it was mostly this person who could have helped and chose not to. I don’t know how to live with that person living! I just…I’m afraid that since nothing is settled because I don’t want to end up in the hospital again, that it will happen again. I don’t think I should be forced on psyc meds when I am not experiencing psychosis but confusion because someone is withholding information from me like some sort of sick joke. I feel ya, Bubamara. I just had some similar experience, some people are really evil…I fell in love with a man(looking like an angel) who made everything for me to fall in love with him madly, and trust him like I never trusted anyone before. He was the One, my soulmate. When he left back to his country, he wrote once or twice, then stopped, even to answer my e-mails, or just to say “bok, I’m ok, how are you”. I could never imagine that, after all the love we shared, the fusion that happened between us..I wrote and wrote him for months, desperate, just asking for an explanation whatever it was, I was ready to accept it..It drove me crazy really, not to the point of getting voices in my head(I guess your problem is more ‘serious’) but I thought about suicide many times and still do; it got me really weak, and full of negative thoughts when I’m alone(from my past, filled with even harder things that happened to me and from which there is no good side to see). Love could heal me from this all, but instead even my “soulmate” finally met, broke me down more than anyone….I am stronger than anyone I know, but what for? Nada…And well, I keep on enjoying everything I can, as one who has died and came back to life many times, so very intensely in the moment. I try not to think, keep my mind busy or empty(meditacija). Don’t let evil get you, that’s the secret purpose(unconscious or not) of the one making you suffer this way. Turn your attention to the other side. Be stronger. Know that God is greater, trust it and you will see…God is Love, there’s no greater power…and if you are still alive, it means that you are loved…God gives us only what we can handle, so you must be a bad-ass, trust it !