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Muab tswv yim thiab muab teeb rau lwm tus "Kuv yuav nrhiav txoj kev zoo tshaj los hlub ib tug neeg los hloov lawv xwb, tab sis tsis yog, pab lawv qhia cov loj tshaj version ntawm lawv tus kheej"- Dr. Steve Maraboli At a certain point in our spiritual journey we begin to unlock our own inner truth. Peb tsis nrhiav lwm qhov chaw sab nrauv li religions, gurus, cov phau ntawv Self-Help, yam. hais qhia rau peb yuav ua li cas thiab yuav ua li cas, but instead we begin to realize that the answers were inside of us all along. Not to say that we still don’t read books or open ourselves up to learning from others, but rather we have a more clear connection with our own intuition, which allows us to FEEL the “truth” rather than intellectualize it only. When we were at the point that we needed outside sources to show us the way, they were coincidentally brought into our lives, either in the forms of other people, reading material, or any modality of spirituality that best fit our own personal needs. Once, we have graduated from needing the constant affirmation and validation from these outside entities, we most likely will find that we have become the “teacher” that has manifested in someone else’s life in the form of a way-shower. Then it becomes our turn to be the light on someone else’s path. If you have found yourself in this position, consider your responsibility very carefully. Life is a constant journey of learning and growing, and just like there will be countless teachers on our path of growth, we will also find ourselves in situations that we must be the teacher. So what is the most effective way of being the light and giving someone advice? How do we go about showing someone the way to their own inner truth while still allowing them to learn their own lessons without our interference? “A teacher is never a giver of truth; he is a guide, a pointer to the truth that each student must find for himself”- Bruce Lee The only person we will have the power to change is ourselves. No matter how much we want the best for someone, want them to be happy, want them to realize their inner light, or want them to be their best self, we cannot force them to do any of these things. And just like we had to walk our own journey, complete with struggle, adversity, heartache, sadness, npau taws, thiab lwm yam.. we must realize that all these things are a part of the human experience, so they too will most likely have to go through all of them. When we give advice to others we must always realize we are only speaking from our own inner truth, the truth as we know it given the situations and circumstances that we’ve experienced. Txawm li cas los, their life is not ours. Their truth will never be exactly the same as our truth because their mind is not our mind and their life has not been exactly as ours has. What we can do however is be in our own awareness and light so strongly that we become an inspiration for them to find their own awareness and light. If a person comes to us for advice and questions we can’t come up with a million “You need to…” or “You should do this…”, directives, but instead, only point them in the direction of their own inner light and unconditional love. The only advice there ever is to really give is to accept the “what is” and love yourself anyway. All arrows should point back to unconditional love of the self… no matter if the person is sad, depressed, frustrated, insecure, it doesn’t matter. As long as they have identified the feeling, felt it without resisting it, accepted themselves for having it and loved it, there can be nothing else to do. Without attaching ourselves to the outcome of whether they follow our advice or not, we actually free ourselves and them. We don’t fear for them, because we trust that their journey is bringing them to the right people and situations that are perfect for them. And they don’t abandon their own inner self by blindly attaching to whatever we are saying as their ultimate truth, which may not always be what’s best for them. Txawm li cas los, if we find that we have been put in another person’s life to help them, guide them or show them something, we must trust that the Universe is speaking through us in the best and most effective way possible. Without doubting ourselves, we find that our inner light shines automatically and manifests in the best way possible for all parties involved, as long as we trust that it always will. “As we let our light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence actually liberates others.” – Marianne Williamson We will sometimes be students and we will sometimes be teachers in life. Since we cannot ever know everything about everything, we will find that this role reversal happens over and over throughout our lives. The most amazing thing about all of this is that as soon as we think we are giving someone else advice and showing them the way, as most teachers know, we realize that we were also giving ourselves the same advice. Sometimes the Universe brings another person to us in the form of a student, but in actuality in our helping of them, we are actually helping ourselves with the same issue. By being in the form of another person, we were able to look at the situation in a different way, from a 3rd party perspective, that we weren’t able to do when dealing with ourselves and our own life. As always, we must be the change we wish to see in the world. In doing this, we find that we always attract the right people into our lives, either to teach us something about ourselves or to be the teacher for them. But if we really pay attention and become super aware of how things happen in this ironic Universe, we realize…. it is always both.
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Davanje savjeta i Biti svjetlo za druge "Mislim da je najbolji način da voljeti nekoga ne da ih promijeniti, ali umjesto, pomoći im otkrivaju najveći verzija sebe "- Dr. Steve Maraboli U jednom trenutku u našem duhovnom putovanju počnemo za otključavanje naše unutrašnje istine. Mi više ne žele da izvan izvora, kao što su religija, gurui, self-help knjige, itd. da nam kaže šta da radim i kako da se, ali umjesto toga počnemo da shvate da su odgovori bili su unutar svih nas zajedno. Ne znači da mi još uvijek ne čitaju knjige ili otvoriti se do učenje od drugih, već imamo više jasna veza sa našim vlastitim intuiciju, što nam omogućuje da osjetiti "istina", a ne samo to intellectualize. Kad smo bili na mjestu koje nam je potrebno vanjskih izvora da nam pokaže put, su slučajno doveo u naše živote, bilo u obliku drugih ljudi, materijala za čitanje, ili bilo modalitet duhovnosti koji najbolje odgovaraju vlastite osobne potrebe. Jednom, smo diplomirao potrebna stalna afirmacija i validacija od tih subjekata izvan, ćemo najvjerojatnije će naći da smo postali "učitelj" koji je manifestira u životu nekog drugog u obliku način-tuš. Onda postaje naš red da bude svjetlo na putu tuđem. Ako ste se našli u tom položaju, vrlo pažljivo razmotriti svoju odgovornost. Život je konstantna putovanje učenja i raste, I baš kao da će biti bezbroj nastavnika na našem putu rasta, ćemo se našli u situacijama koje moramo biti učitelj. Dakle, ono što je najefikasniji način da se bude svjetlo i davanje nekome savjete? Kako idemo o nekome pokazuje način da im se vlastiti unutarnji istinu dok je još omogućujući im da nauče vlastite lekcije bez našeg uplitanja? "A učitelj nikada nije davalac istine; On je vodič, pokazivač na istinu da svaki student mora pronaći za sebe "- Bruce Lee Jedina osoba koju će imati moć promijeniti je sebe. Bez obzira na to koliko želimo najbolje za nekoga, želim da budu sretni, Želim im da ostvare svoje unutrašnje svjetlo, ili želite da bude njihov najbolji self, ne možemo ih prisiliti da rade bilo koji od ovih stvari. I baš kao što smo morali hodati naše putovanje, zajedno sa borbom, nedaće, bol u srcu, tuga, anger, itd. moramo shvatiti da sve te stvari su dio ljudskog iskustva, tako da i oni će najvjerojatnije morati proći kroz sve njih. Kada dajemo savjete drugima uvijek moramo shvatiti da se samo govori iz vlastite unutrašnje istine, istinu kao što znamo da s obzirom na situacije i okolnosti koje smo doživjeli. Me?utim, njihov život nije naše. Njihova istina nikada neće biti isti kao naš istinu jer njihov um nije naš um i njihov život nije bio baš kao naša ima. Ono što možemo učiniti je, međutim, da u našoj svijesti i svjetlo tako snažno da smo postali inspiracija za njih da pronađu svoje svijesti i svjetlo. Ako osoba dolazi do nas za savjet i pitanja ne možemo doći do milion "Treba da ..." ili "Trebalo bi napraviti ovo ...", direktive, ali umjesto, samo ih upućuju u smjeru vlastite unutrašnje svjetlo i bezuvjetnu ljubav. Jedini savjet je ikada je da se stvarno dati je da se prihvati "ono što jeste" i volite sebe ionako. Svi strelice treba ukazati natrag na bezuvjetnu ljubav prema sebi ... bez obzira da li je osoba tužna, potišten, frustriran, nesiguran, nije važno. Dokle god su identifikovali osjećaj, smatrao da bez otpora ga, prihvatili sami za što ga i volio, ne može biti ništa drugo da radim. Bez pričvršćivanje se na ishod li pratite naš savjet ili ne, mi zapravo oslobodimo i da ih. Mi ne strahuju za njih, jer smo vjerovati da je njihov put ih dovodi do prave ljude i situacije koje su savršeni za njih. I oni ne napuštaju svoje unutrašnje samouprave koje slepo proizlaze sve što se govori kao njihov krajnji istine, koji ne može uvijek biti ono što je najbolje za njih. Me?utim, ako nađemo da smo stavljeni u životu druge osobe da im pomogne, postaviti ih ili im nešto pokazati, moramo vjerovati da je univerzum govori kroz nas na najbolji i najefikasniji mogući način. Bez sumnje u sebe, nalazimo da naše unutrašnje svjetlo automatski sija i manifestira na najbolji mogući način za sve uključene strane, dok verujemo da će uvijek. "Kao što smo pustiti naše light shine, mi nesvjesno dati drugim ljudima dozvolu da učine isto. Kao što smo se oslobodili straha od vlastite, naše prisustvo zapravo oslobađa druge. " – Marianne Williamson Mi ćemo ponekad biti studenti i mi ćemo ponekad biti nastavnici u životu. Budući da ne možemo znati sve o svemu, naći ćemo da je ova uloga preokret događa iznova i iznova širom naše živote. Najviše amazing stvar o svemu ovome je da čim mislimo da dajemo neko drugi savjete i pokazujući im put, kao i većina nastavnika znam, shvatimo da smo se i sami daju isti savjet. Ponekad Universe donosi drugu osobu da nam se u obliku student, ali u stvarnosti u našoj porciju od njih, mi zapravo pomaže se s istim pitanjem. Time što u obliku druge osobe, bili smo u mogućnosti da pogledamo situaciju na drugačiji način, iz perspektive 3rd party, da nismo bili u mogućnosti da rade kada se radi o nama samima i našim vlastitim životom. Kao i uvijek, moramo biti promjena želimo vidjeti u svijetu. Pri tome, nalazimo da smo uvijek privući prave ljude u naše živote, ili da nas nauči nešto o sebi ili da je nastavnik za njih. Ali, ako smo stvarno obraćaju pažnju i postati super svjesni kako se stvari dešavaju u ovom ironično Universe, shvatamo .... to je uvijek i.