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Make Your Life Less Complicated and Enjoy Simplicity “There is a beauty and clarity that comes from simplicity, that we sometimes do not appreciate in our thirst for intricate solutions.” – Dallin H. Oaks Life is complicated. Relationships are complicated. Friendships are complicated. Life choices are complicated. Or are they? Is it possible that our excessive need to complicate life is just merely giving us something to do? In our utter and complete fear of being bored are we perhaps overcomplicating every single thing in our life for the mere fact that it just gives us something to think about incessantly, or to complain about to our friends, or to distract ourselves from ourselves? Could it be that our fragile little ego’s claim they want happiness, and inner peace, and simplicity from life situations but deep down are deathly afraid of this because in order to have true happiness and simple joy and uncomplicated relationships with others would mean the death of a majority of the jibber-jabber mind chatter that our ego’s spew out all day long? Without over-thinking, worrying, complaining, and complicating everything to the point that we overanalyze every single situation the ego would lose 90% of its hold on us. Our true self thrives in simplicity, in fact it is simplicity. It knows that anything outside of simplicity is merely our ego or false self begging for our attention. As long as it has our attention we won’t pay attention to what is real and true… which is that we don’t need to spend so much time thinking about how we can go about achieving happiness. We already are happiness. We don’t need to spend all our time trying to get love from another person, we already are love. As long as the ego can overcomplicate every situation to the point that we don’t see that all is well and perfect already it has won. But the reality of the situation is, it doesn’t have to be this way. As Confucius said, “Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” Here are five ways you may be making your life more complicated than it needs to be: 1) You live in your head too much – Our minds are constantly trying to make sense of everything. They are going over every single “what if?”, “why did they do that?”, “what does this all mean?” so much so that they forget that all of life is happening in the present moment. Literally only this present moment exists. So mulling over past conversations, or stressing about future events literally just drives us mad. We spend hours playing out scenarios in our head that have never happened and may or may not ever happen. We overthink everything that we are completely disconnected from what is real and the beauty of experiencing the present moment when it actually happens… in the present moment. 2) You want to make everyone happy all the time – Trying to please everyone might work every once in a while, but most of the time it will be an impossible feat. In order to please one person, it is inevitable that you will upset another person to some extent. There will be times when everyone in your life is going to have their own opinion on how you should live yours, so trying to satisfy them all would be undoable. How about you just do what makes you happy? Yes some people will have something to say, or may be disappointed, but this is your life right? Once people in your life catch on that you have made yourself your first priority, they will be less inclined to ask you to go out of your way just to please them. Also, they won’t be so shocked when you tell them “no” instead of desperately trying to prevent them from being upset by just doing exactly what they tell you to. 3) You believe your perception of life is the absolute truth – Here’s a secret: Your perception does not equal truth, it only means just that… YOUR perception. So the cashier at the store isn’t necessarily a rude witch, just because you perceived her that way. Did it occur to you that maybe she is dealing with a problem in her personal life? And the girl/guy you went on a date with isn’t necessarily an insensitive jerk. Maybe they’ve had a really difficult childhood and they don’t know how to open up to people very easily. Regardless of the situation, we must realize that there are always two sides to every coin. When we stop convincing ourselves and others that we know exactly what is going on in other people’s heads and why they act the way they do, we stop wasting so much time judging, complaining and criticizing others. We simply see things and people as they are, without imposing our own little story on them which may or may not be anywhere near the actual truth. 4) You don’t trust that there is a higher intelligence at work – Whether you call it the universe, or God, or Source, or the all that is, there is a force that is working behind the scenes in every single aspect of our lives. There is never a moment that we are separate from its presence because in all actuality we come from it, meaning we ARE it, just a tiny little slice of it. Our feeble little minds can’t comprehend this, so because of that we try to make our own plans and agendas on how things in our life will go. News flash: things rarely go the way we thought they would, right? This is because the higher intelligence knows what’s best for us, even though we are convinced we know. The higher intelligence sees a bigger picture, it knows the reason your car wouldn’t start today was because there was going to be huge collision on the highway right when you would have been driving on it. Accept and surrender to whatever it brings to you or brings you to. It is always giving you exactly what you need in any given moment, your only assignment is to: TRUST 5) You’re not honest with yourself – This is a big one and actually a lot harder than it seems mainly because so many of us hide ourselves from ourselves so much that we don’t even know what the truth is anymore. Believe it or not a lot of people are comfortable in their misery. They have become so accustomed to it that the mere thought of not having something to be miserable about sounds like the scariest thing ever. So they fool themselves. They rationalize, justify, and make excuses of why they still need to work at the job that they feel sucks the soul out of them, or they need to continue to cling on to an addiction of whatever the object of their desire is. As long as they can evade actually being honest with themselves which 9 times out of 10 is that they are afraid, they can stay comfortably unhappy, which for some reason sounds better than simply admitting that whoever or whatever or wherever is never going to bring them any closer to the happiness they claim they want. Life really doesn’t need to be hard. In fact, when we start to simplify it we realize that the simple life is where true joy and happiness actually lives. We take things and people at face value. We trust the process of life and don’t overanalyze everyone and everything. So, if you do anything, do this… keep it simple.
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Učinite vaš život manje komplicirano i uživajte jednostavnost "Tu je ljepota i jasnoću koja dolazi iz jednostavnosti, da mi ponekad ne cijenimo u našoj žeđi za zapetljan rješenja. "- Dallin H. Oaks Život je kompliciran. Odnosi su komplicirani. Prijateljstva su komplicirani. Život izbori su komplicirani. Ili su oni? Je li moguće da je naš pretjerano potrebe komplicirati život je samo samo daje nam nešto učiniti? U našem izustiti i potpunog straha da se dosadno mi možda overcomplicating svaku stvar u našem životu za same činjenice da nam samo daje nešto za razmišljanje o tome neprestano, ili da se žale našim prijateljima, ili da se odvratiti od sebe? Je li moguće da je naša krhka malog ega tvrde da žele sreću, i unutarnji mir, i jednostavnost sa životnim situacijama, ali duboko u sebi se smrtno boji to, jer kako bi imali istinsku sreću i jednostavnu radost i jednostavno odnose s drugima značilo smrt većine lupetanje-Jabber um lupetati da je naš ego je izbacivati iz cijeloga dana? Bez pretjeranog razmišljanja, zabrinjavajući, gunđanje, i komplicira sve do točke da smo overanalyze svaku pojedinu situaciju ego će izgubiti 90% svoje čekanje na nas. Naša istina samo uspijeva u jednostavnosti, u stvari, to je jednostavnost. Ona zna da ništa izvan jednostavnosti je samo naš ego ili lažni ja prosio za našu pozornost. Dokle god ima našu pažnju nećemo obratiti pozornost na ono što je stvarno i istinito ... a to je da ne morate potrošiti toliko vremena razmišljajući o tome kako možemo ići oko postizanja sreće. Već smo sreće. Ne morate provesti sve svoje vrijeme pokušava dobiti ljubav od druge osobe, Već smo se ljubav. Sve dok ego može overcomplicate svaku situaciju do točke da mi ne vidimo da je sve dobro i savršeno već je osvojio. No, realnost situacije, to ne mora biti tako. Kao što je rekao Konfucije, "Život je stvarno jednostavan, ali ćemo inzistirati na tome da je komplicirano. "Evo pet načina na koje se može čineći svoj život složeniji nego što treba: Živite u glavi previše – Naši umovi su stalno pokušavaju dati smisao svega. Oni će tijekom svaki "što ako?", "Zašto su to učinili?", "Što to sve znači?"Toliko da zaboravljaju da sve život se događa u sadašnjem trenutku. Doslovno samo ovaj sadašnji trenutak postoji. Tako razmišljajući posljednjih razgovora, ili naglasivši o budućim događajima doslovno samo vozi nas ludi. Mi provesti sate igrajući se scenarije u glavi koji nikada nisu dogodila, a može ili ne može nikada dogoditi. Mi overthink sve što smo u potpunosti isključen iz onoga što je stvarno i ljepota doživljava na sadašnji trenutak, kada se zapravo događa ... u sadašnjem trenutku. Vi želite biti svi sretni sve vrijeme – Pokušavajući udovoljiti svima moglo raditi svako jednom u neko vrijeme, ali većinu vremena to će biti nemoguće podvig. Kako bi Molimo jednu osobu, neizbježno je da će uznemiriti druge osobe u određenoj mjeri. Tu će biti vrijeme kada svatko u svom životu se događa da imaju svoje mišljenje o tome kako bi trebali živjeti tvoje, pa ih pokušava zadovoljiti sve će biti moguće poništiti. Kako je s vama samo raditi ono što vas čini sretnim? Da neki ljudi će imati nešto za reći, ili mogu biti razočarani, ali to je tvoj život u pravu? Kad ljudi u vašem životu uhvatiti na koji ste napravili sami svoj prvi prioritet, oni će biti manje skloni od vas tražiti da ide iz vašeg način samo da ih molim. Tako?er, oni neće biti tako šokirani kad im reći "ne", umjesto očajnički pokušavajući ih spriječiti da uznemireni samo radi točno ono što vam reći da. Vi vjerujete vaša percepcija života je apsolutna istina – Evo tajna: Tvoja percepcija ne jednaku istinu, to samo znači upravo to ... vaša percepcija. Dakle, blagajnica u trgovini nije nužno primitivan vještica, samo zato što joj percipiraju na taj način. Je li vam palo na pamet da je možda ona se bavi problemom u svom osobnom životu? A djevojka / momak otišao na spoj s nije nužno neosjetljivi kreten. Možda su imali jako teško djetinjstvo, a oni ne znaju kako otvoriti do ljudi vrlo lako. Bez obzira na situaciju, moramo shvatiti da uvijek postoje dvije strane svake medalje. Kada prestanemo sebe i druge da znamo točno što se događa u glavama drugih ljudi uvjeriti i zašto se ponašaju onako kako se, prestanemo gubit toliko vremena sudeći, gunđanje i kritiziranje drugima. Mi jednostavno vidjeti stvari i ljude kao što su, bez nametanja vlastitu malu priču o njima koji može i ne mora biti ni blizu stvarne istine. Ne vjerujete da postoji veća inteligencija na poslu – Bilo da ga zovu svemir, ili Bog, ili Izvor, odnosno sve što je, postoji sila koja radi iza kulisa u svakom aspektu naših života. Ne postoji trenutak koji smo odvojeni od svoje prisutnosti jer je u svim stvarnosti dolazimo iz njega, što znači da ga SU, Samo maleni malo kriška njega. Naši slabašni mali umovi ne mogu shvatiti to, pa zbog toga ćemo pokušati napraviti vlastite planove i planove o tome kako stvari u našem životu će ići. Vijesti bljeskalice: stvari rijetko idu način na koji smo mislili da bi, u pravu? To je zato veća inteligencija zna što je najbolje za nas, iako smo uvjereni da znamo. Viša inteligencija vidi veću sliku, zna razlog vaš automobil ne bi danas bio početak, jer tamo će biti veliki sudar na autocesti pravu kada bi se vozio po njemu. Prihvati i predati se bez obzira na to dovodi do vas ili vam donosi. To je uvijek vam daje upravo ono što vam je potrebno u bilo kojem trenutku, Vaš jedini zadatak je da: POVJERENJE Niste iskreni prema sebi – To je jedan veliki i zapravo puno teže nego što se čini, uglavnom zbog sebe tako mnogi od nas sakriti od sebe toliko da mi ni ne znamo što je istina više. Vjerovali ili ne, puno ljudi su ugodno u svojoj bijedi. Oni su postali toliko navikli na to da je sama pomisao na nešto što ne bi bilo jadno o zvukovima poput najstrašnija stvar ikad. Tako su se zavaravati. Oni racionalizirati, opravdati, i izgovore zašto oni i dalje moraju raditi na poslu koji se osjećaju sranje dušu iz njih, ili im je potrebno da i dalje držati na ovisnost od bilo predmet njihove želje se. Dokle god oni mogu izbjeći zapravo biti iskren sa samim sobom koji 9 puta od 10 je da su se bojali, oni mogu ostati udobno nesretna, koji je iz nekog razloga zvuči bolje nego jednostavno priznao da tko god ili što god i gdje god se nikada ne će ih dovesti bliže do sreće tvrde oni žele. Život zaista ne treba biti teško. Zapravo, kad počnemo ga pojednostaviti smo shvatili da je jednostavan život je gdje istinska radost i sreća zapravo živi. Mi uzeti stvari i ljude na nominalnoj vrijednosti. Vjerujemo proces života i ne overanalyze sve i svakoga. Tako, ako ništa učiniti, to… držati ga jednostavan.