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Be Extraordinary: How to Believe in Yourself When You Don’t Feel Worthy “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, nast?pnie, is not an act, but a habit.” –Aristotle What do you do when you realize that you’re nothing more than a story you’ve been telling yourself? I’ll tell you: You make that story as interesting and extraordinary as possible. That’s it. That’s all you need. Now get out there and retell/rewrite your story. Not enough for you? Okay then. The trick to hacking your way out of the Labyrinth of Unworthiness is to “act” like your worthy. Ostatecznie, your acting worthy will make you worthy. It’s akin to the expression, “Fake it till you make it.” Or, “Practice makes perfect.” You might “feel” unworthy but if you “act” like you’re worthy then you WILL be worthy. Still not enough for you? Dobrze. Imagine a first-time firefighter standing outside a burning building with a baby inside, and the building is about to collapse. The firefighter is going to “feel” fear, but if he doesn’t “act” with courage then that baby will die. So he trumps his feeling of fear with an act of courage. He felt fear but acted courageously. Podobnie, we can feel unworthy but act worthy. The intent is the thing: if our intent is good, then even if the result is bad our conscience will be clear. The action is the thing: if we act with courage, then even if we fail we can still be proud. The journey is the thing: if we enjoy the ride, then it becomes primary and the destination becomes secondary. Charlie Chaplain said it best, “Smile though your heart is aching.” There’s a Greek word, métis, which is a quality that combines wisdom and cunning. This quality was considered to be highly admirable in ancient Athens. Metis was the Greek Goddess who gave Zeus the potion that caused Cronus to vomit out Zeus’ siblings. Metis was also the mother of Athena, goddess of wisdom and courage. The mythology plays out like this: Zeus became aware of a prophecy that his and Metis’ progeny would one day overthrow him. After coitus, Zeus tricks Metis into transforming into a fly at which time he promptly swallows her. But he’s too late. Metis is already pregnant with Athena and burrows herself into his brain. Then Hephaestus splits Zeus’ head open with an axe at the river Triton, and Athena leaps out fully grown. Métis is the emergence of wisdom from the coalescence of unconscious and conscious energies. But I say it is more than just that. It is a higher state of cunning, a magical cunning, an exceedingly astute meta-wit. It is uncanny creativeness personified. It is neither explicit nor implicit. It is both, somehow: eximplicit, if you will. It’s an almost god-like awareness and sensitivity toward the all-pervasive medium, the “water,” in which we are immersed, and the all-encompassing “fishbowl” in which we are bound. It is an ancient sly orientation with reality and a cosmic wisdom all wrapped up in the capacity to understand that we are beings of limited capacity and rampant fallibility. It subsumes self-actualization, individuation and enlightenment, not merely as means to an end but as ends in themselves. Like Metis planting herself in Zeus’ head, our ability to act courageous in the face of fear, calm in the face of rage or worthy in the face of unworthiness, is our ability to choose to be extraordinary despite feeling ordinary. It’s the ability to tap into our own “magical cunning,” our inner-métis. Je?li, as Kurt Vonnegut said, “We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be,” then it behooves us to pretend to be extraordinary. It behooves us to allow ourselves to be worthy, especially when we are feeling worthless. It takes some counterintuitive thinking, and perhaps some crown-chakra medytacja, but it is possible. Pretend you’re courageous by acting courageous and, guess what? You’re suddenly courageous. Keep practicing it. Keep trumping sadness with happiness, hate with love, paranoia with pronoia, jealousy with compersion. Trick your self into a higher self. Fake it until you make it. Eventually you won’t even have to fake it at all, for you will have subsumed the process. You’ll find, as Alan Watts did, that you’re no longer a victim of the world, you ARE the world. Image Source: Extra-ordinary Be Extraordinary Athena-Metis Counter-intuitive Komentarze I just discovered your writing. I love it and totally get it. It is exactly the frequency I’m looking for. I look forward to reading much more! Dzi?kuj?! Its disheartening to see western authors take an Indian theory of karma and bottle it as Greek wine. Krishna proclaims “you are responsible for the action, not the fruits of it”.. Author should do wider research before quoting Aristotle and illustrating Greek gods. I really enjoyed this post. I was just watching Amy Cuddy’s TED talk about body language and faking it til you make it. http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are You have it in your power to be a better or the best version of you in the next moment. You aren’t incomplete. R, you are not today what you shall become. You are still growing, evolving, nauka, becoming stronger, becoming wiser, becoming kinder. Dzi?kuj? za dzielenie si?. This is a great way of looking at things.
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Budite Vanredna: Kako vjerovati u sebe kad ne Feel Worthy "Mi smo ono što smo u više navrata učiniti. Nadmoćnost, onda, nije čin, ali navika. "-Aristotel Što radite kada shvatite da ste ništa više nego što je priča koju sam govorio sebi? Ja ću ti reći: Ti bi tu priču kao zanimljiv i vanrednih moguće. To je to. To je sve što vam treba. Sada se tamo i prepričavaju / napisati svoju priču. Nedovoljno za vas? Dobro onda. Trik za sjeckanje svoj put iz labirinta nedostojnosti je da "djeluje" kao svoj dostojan. Konačno, tvojoj glumi dostojan će vas dostojan. To je srodan izraz, "Lažni ga dok ne bude." Ili, "Praksa čini savršenom." Možda "osjećaju" nedostojan, ali ako "ponašaju" kao da si dostojan onda će biti dostojan. Ipak nije dovoljno za vas? U redu. Zamislite prvi put vatrogasac stajao ispred zgrade u plamenu s bebom unutar, a zgrada je o do kolapsa. Vatrogasca će se "osjećaju" strah, ali ako on ne "djelovati" s hrabrošću onda je to beba će umrijeti. Zato je glavni adut njegova osjećaj straha s činom hrabrosti. On je osjetio strah, ali je djelovao hrabro. Slično, možemo osjećati nedostojnim, ali djeluje dostojan. Namjera je stvar: ako je naša namjera je dobra, onda čak i ako je rezultat loš naša savjest će biti jasno. U akciji je stvar: Ako smo djelovati hrabro, onda čak i ako ne možemo uvijek biti ponosni. Putovanje je stvar: Ako uživamo u vožnji, onda postaje primarni i odredište postaje sekundarna. Charlie kapelan je rekao da je najbolje, "Smile iako vaše srce je boli." Tu je grčka reč, Métis, što je kvalitet koji kombinira mudrost i lukav. Ova kvaliteta je smatra vrlo divljenja u drevnoj Atini. Melez bio grčke boginje koji su dali Zeus napitak koji je izazvao Cronus da povraća od Zeus’ braće i sestara. Metis je bila i majka Athena, boginja mudrosti i hrabrosti. U mitologiji igra ovako: Zeus je postao svjestan proročanstvo da mu je i Metis 'potomstvo će jednog dana ga svrgne. Nakon koitus, Zeus trikovi Metis u pretvarajući se muva na kojem trenutku on odmah nju guta. Ali on je prekasno. Metis je već trudna s Athena i burrows sebe u mozak. Zatim Hefest dijeli Zeus 'glave otvorene sa sjekirom na rijeci Triton, i Athena iskoči odrasla. Métis je pojava mudrosti iz srastanje nesvesnog i svesna energija. Ali ja kažem da je više nego samo to. To je više stanje lukavog, magično lukav, krajnje mudar meta-wit. To je sablasno kreativnosti oličena. To nije ni eksplicitno ni implicitno. To je ujedno i, nekako: eximplicit, ako hoćete. To je skoro god nalik svijesti i osjetljivosti prema svim prožima medij, u "vodu,"U kojem smo uronjeni, i sveobuhvatni "akvarijum" u kojoj smo granicu. To je drevna Sly orijentaciju sa stvarnošću i kosmičke mudrosti sve zamotan u sposobnosti da razumiju da smo bića ograničenog kapaciteta i raširene pogreljivosti. To podvodi samoostvarenje, individuacije i prosvjetljenja, ne samo kao sredstvo za postizanje cilja, ali što završava u sebi. Kao Metis sadnje sebe u Zeus glavu, našu sposobnost da djeluje hrabro u lice straha, mirno u lice besa ili dostojni u lice nedostojnosti, je naša sposobnost da izabere da bude izvanredna unatoč osjećaj običnih. To je sposobnost da se uključi u naše "magične lukav,"Naše unutrašnje-Métis. Ako, kao Kurt Vonnegut, rekao je, "Mi smo ono što smo pretvarati da, tako da moramo biti oprezni o onome što se pretvaraju da su,"Onda nas behooves da se pretvaraju da su izvanredne. To behooves nam da dozvolimo da nas biti dostojan, posebno kada se osjećaju bezvrijednim. Potrebno je malo nelogično razmišljanje, a možda i neke Kruna-čakra meditacija, ali je moguće. Pretvaraj se da si hrabar djelujući hrabro i, pogodi? Ti si odjednom hrabri. Držite bavljenja ga. Držite trumping tuga od sreće, Mrzim s ljubavlju, paranoja sa pronoia, ljubomore s compersion. Trick sebe u viši sebe. Lažni dok ne bude. Na kraju nećete ni da lažno ga na sve, za vas će podvesti proces. Naći ćete, Alan Watts učinio, da si više ne žrtva svijeta, Ti si svijetu. Image Source: Extra-obični Budite Vanredna Athena-Metis Counter-intuitivna Komentari I just discovered your writing. I love it and totally get it. It is exactly the frequency I’m looking for. I look forward to reading much more! Thank you! Its disheartening to see western authors take an Indian theory of karma and bottle it as Greek wine. Krishna proclaims “you are responsible for the action, not the fruits of it”.. Author should do wider research before quoting Aristotle and illustrating Greek gods. I really enjoyed this post. I was just watching Amy Cuddy’s TED talk about body language and faking it til you make it. http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are You have it in your power to be a better or the best version of you in the next moment. You aren’t incomplete. Takođe, you are not today what you shall become. You are still growing, evolving, učenja, becoming stronger, becoming wiser, becoming kinder. Thanks for sharing. This is a great way of looking at things.