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Robert de Grandis, SSJ – Forgiveness Prayer Lord Jesus Christ, I ask today to forgive EVERYONE in my life I know that You will give me the strength to forgive and I thank You that You love me more than I love myself and want my happiness more than I desire it for myself. Father, I forgive YOU for the times death has come into the family, hard times, financial difficulties, or what I thought were punishments sent by You and people said, “It’s God’s will,” and I become bitter and resentful toward You. Purify my heart and mind today. Lord, I forgive MYSELF for my sins, faults and failings, for all that is bad in myself or that I think is bad, I forgive myself; and I accept Your forgiveness. I further forgive MYSELF for taking Your name in vain, not worshipping You by attending church, for hurting my parents, getting drunk, for sins against purity, bad books, bad movies, fornication, adultery, homosexuality. Also, for abortion, stealing, lying, defrauding, hurting peoples’ reputation. You have forgiven me today, and I forgive myself. Thank You, Lord, for your grace at this moment. I also forgive MYSELF for any delvings in superstition, using ouija boards, horoscopes, going to séances, using fortune telling or wearing lucky charms. I reject all that superstition and choose You alone as my Lord and Savior. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit. Lord, I truly forgive my MOTHER I forgive her for all the times she hurt me, she resented me, she was angry with me and for all the times she punished me. I forgive her for the times she preferred my brothers and sisters to me. I forgive her for the times she told me I was dumb, ugly, stupid, the worst of the children or that I cost the family a lot of money. For the times she told me I was unwanted, an accident, a mistake or not what she expected, I forgive her. Lord, I truly forgive my FATHER I forgive him for any non-support, any lack of love, affection or attention. I forgive him for any lack of time, for not giving me his companionship, for his drinking, arguing and fighting with my mother or the other children. For his severe punishments, for desertion, for being away from home, for divorcing my mother or for any running around, I do forgive him. Lord, I extend forgiveness to my SISTERS AND BROTHERS I forgive those who rejected me, lied about me, hated me, resented me, competed for my parents’ love, those who hurt me, who physically harmed me. For those who were too severe on me, punished me or made my life unpleasant in any way, I do forgive them. Lord, I forgive my SPOUSE for lack of love, affection, consideration, support, attention, communication; for faults, failings, weaknesses and those other acts or words that hurt or disturb me. Jesus, I forgive my CHILDREN for their lack of respect, obedience, love, attention, support, warmth, understanding; for their bad habits, falling away from the church, any bad actions which disturb me. Lord God, I forgive my IN-LAWS, MY MOTHER-IN-LAW, FATHER-IN-LAW, SON/DAUGHTER-IN-LAW AND OTHER RELATIVES by marriage who treat my family with a lack of love. For all their words, thoughts, actions or omissions which injure and cause pain, I forgive them. Please help to forgive my RELATIVES my grandmother and grandfather, aunts, uncles, cousins, who may have interfered in our family, been possessive of my parents, who may have caused confusion or turned one parent against the other. Jesus, help me to forgive my CO-WORKERS who are disagreeable or make life miserable for me. For those who push their work off on me, gossip about me, won’t cooperate with me, try to take my job, I do forgive them. My NEIGHBOURS need to be forgiven, Lord For all their noise, letting their property run down, not tying up their dogs who run through my yard, not taking in their trash barrels, being prejudiced and running down the neighbourhood, I do forgive them. I do forgive my CLERGYMAN, my CONGREGATION and my CHURCH for their lack of support, affirmation, bad sermons, pettiness, lack of friendliness, not providing me or my family with the inspiration we needed, for any hurts they have inflicted on me or my family, even in the distant past, I forgive them today. Lord, I forgive all those who are of different PERSUASIONS those of opposite political views who have attacked me, ridiculed me, discriminated against me, made fun of me, economically hurt me. I forgive those of different religious, DENOMINATIONS AND BELIEFS who have harassed me, attacked me, argued with me, forced their view on me or my family. Those who have harmed me ETHNICALLY, have discriminated against me, mocked me, made jokes about my race or nationality, hurt my family physically, emotionally or economically, I do forgive them today. Lord, I forgive all PROFESSIONAL PEOPLE who have hurt me in any way: doctors, nurses, lawyers, judges, politicians and civil servants. I forgive all service people: policemen, firemen, bus drivers, hospital workers and especially repairmen who have taken advantage of me in their work. Lord, I forgive my EMPLOYER for not paying me enough money, for not appreciating my work, for being unkind and unreasonable with me, for being angry or unfriendly, for not promoting me, and for not complimenting me on my work. Lord, I forgive my SCHOOL TEACHERS and INSTRUCTORS of the past as well as the present. For those who punished me, humiliated me, insulted me, treated me unjustly, made fun of me, called me dumb or stupid, made me stay after school, I truly forgive them today. Lord, I forgive my FRIENDS who have let me down, lost contact with me, do not support me, were not available when I needed help, borrowed money and did not return it, gossiped about me. Lord Jesus, I especially pray for the grace of forgiveness for the ONE PERSON in life who has HURT ME THE MOST I ask to forgive anyone who I consider my greatest enemy, the one who is the hardest to forgive or the one who I said I will never forgive. Lord, I beg pardon of all these people for the hurt I have inflicted on them, especially my mother and father, and my marriage partner. I am especially sorry for the three greatest hurts I have inflicted on each of these. Thank You Jesus, that I am being freed of the evil of unforgiveness. Let Your Holy Spirit fill me with light and let every dark area of my mind be enlightened. Amen.
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MOLITVA OPRAŠTANJA (vlč. o. Roberta DeGrandisa) Gospodine Isuse Kriste, molim za milost opraštanja. Gospodine opraštam sebi sve svoje grijehe, sve svoje pogreške, sve moje propuste, sve što je u meni loše, ili ja mislim da je loše. Posebno si opraštam grijehe protiv prve Božje zapovjedi, zazivanje dobrih ili zlih duhova, čitanje horoskopa, prisustvovanje spiritističkim seansama, kucanje o drvo, ispitivanje onih koji kazuju sreću, gledaju u dlan, u grah, u kavu, opraštam si nošenje predmeta za koje sam vjerovao da nose sreću kao što su zapisi, potkova, djetelina s 4 lista, opraštam si vračanje i gatanje. Odbijam sva ta praznovjerja i prihvaćam tebe samoga kao svoga Gospodina i Spasitelja. Ispuni me tvojim Svetim Duhom. Zatim opraštam sebi vrijeđanje roditelja, pijančevanje, uzimanje droge, spolne odnose prije braka, preljub u braku, općenje s istim spolom. Ti mi danas opraštaš. Opraštam si abortus, krađu, laganje, i varanje. Opraštam sebi. Opraštam svojoj majci što me povrijedila, sve mi zamjerala, ljutila se na me, kažnjavala me, više voljela moju braću i sestre, rekla mi da ništa ne znam, da izgledam ružno, glupo, da sam najgore dijete, da koštam mnogo novaca, da sam dijete neželjeno, slučaj, pogreška, ili ono što ona nije očekivala. Opraštam svojemu ocu za svaki nedostatak podrške, nedostatak ljubavi, nedostatak nježnosti, nedostatak pažnje, nedostatak vremena, nedostatak razumijevanja, opraštam mu što je pio, što se svađao s mamom ili s sama djecom, opraštam mu što me je kažnjavao, što se odmetnuo od nas, odlazio od kuće i što se rastao s mojom majkom, išao drugim ženama – opraštam mu danas! Opraštam svojoj braći i sestrama koji su me odbijali, koji su lagali o meni, mrzili me, natjecali se sa mnom za roditeljsku ljubav, tukli me, bili grubi prema meni ili mi pravili probleme. Gospodine! Opraštam svom bračnom drugu nedostatak ljubavi, nedostatak nježnosti i osjetljivosti, nedostatak osjećajnosti, razumijevanja, nedostatak vremena, podrške, opraštam sve pogreške, propuste, slabosti, riječi koje su me uznemirile ili povrijedile. Gospodine, opraštam svojoj djeci nedostatak poštovanja, nedostatak poslušnosti, nedostatak ljubavi, nedostatak podrške, nedostatak razumijevanja, njihove loše navike, ili što su napustili crkvu. Gospodine, opraštam svoj svojoj rodbini i svojti i svoj njihovoj djeci za sve što su učinili protiv ljubavi, što su svojatali moje roditelje, izazivali zabunu i nemir, zavadili moje roditelje. Gospodine, opraštam roditeljima mojega bračnog druga, osobito punici (ili svekrvi), svojim unucima i unukama. Gospodine, opraštam radnicima koji su sa mnom radili ili rade, koji se ne slažu sa mnom, zagorčavaju mi život, meni guraju svoj posao, ne surađuju sa mnom, uzimaju moj posao. I mojim susjedima treba oprostiti, Gospodine, za buku koju prave, za zabave kasno u noć, za lajanje njihovih pasa od kojih ne mogu spavati, za trčanje po susjedstvu. Opraštam svim svećenicima, časnim sestrama, svojoj župi, svojoj molitvenoj zajednici, voditeljima molitvene zajednice, svome župniku, biskupu, papi, rimokatoličkoj Crkvi – za sav njihov nedostatak podrške, opraštam im uskogrudnost, loše propovjedi nedostatak prijateljstva što me nisu učvršćivali kao što su trebali, što me nisu nadahnjivali pobožnošću, opraštam im svaku uvredu – opraštam im danas. Opraštam svima koji su me povrijedili na bilo koji način – liječnicima, odvjetnicima i sucima, političarima i državnim službenicima. Opraštam isvim drugim službenicima – policajcima i vozačima autobusa, bolničkom osoblju i posebno onima koji su mi više naplatili svoje usluge. Opraštam svome poslodavcu što me zakinuo, što nije cijenio moj posao, što je bio neljubazan, nerazborit, ljutit i neprijateljski raspoložen. Opraštam svim učiteljima, nastavnicima i profesorima koji su me ponizili, uvrijedili, ostavili me u kazni poslije škole. Opraštam svojim prijateljima koji su me obeshrabrili, izgubili sa mnom vezu, kojih nije bilo kad su mi bili potrebni, koji su posudili novce i nikada ih nisu vratili, koji su me ogovarali. Opraštam svima odgovornima za nepravedne društvene i političke strukture koje su pogodile mene ili moje bližnje, duhovno, duševno, fizički ili materijalno samo zato što nismo mislili kao oni na vlasti. Opraštam im krađu društvene imovine, obogaćenje na račun sirotinje. Opraštam im uhođenje vjernika, ispitivanja, zatvaranja, zabranu vjere, zlostavljanje. Opraštam počiniteljima i organizatorima zločina za vrijeme rata, što su meni i mojim bližnjima, i mnogim drugim ljudima, oduzeli materijalna dobra, čast, ljudsko dostojanstvo, prognali nas, zlostavljali nas, pucali po nama, nekima oduzeli život, neke silovali, iznakazili, a neke odveli da se ni danas ne zna jesi li živi ili ne. Gospodine, posebno molim za milost opraštanja onoj osobi u mome životu koja me je najviše povrijedila i za koju mislim da joj neću nikada oprostiti, kojoj mi je najteže oprostiti, Ti me zoveš da upravo toj osobo oprostim. Gospodine, molim te da meni oprostiš sve uvrede tim ljudima nanesene s moje strane, posebno majci i ocu i mojem bračnom drugu. Zahvaljujem ti Gospodine za svu Tvoju ljubav koja mi je po njima došla. Amen. Ova molitva vlč. o. Roberta DeGrandisa najbolje djeluje ako se moli dnevno 30 dana. Mi smo kao crveni luk, Gospodin odstranjuje svaki put jedan sloj dok nas potpuno ne ozdravi.