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We all have them, but are we aware of them? Those small body ‘tells’ which tell their own story, one often quite different from the one coming out of our mouths. We do not all have the same body language, although much is shared. This means that reading the signals that other send is not as easy as it may first seem. It thus gives importance calibrating a person before making assumptions. It also means that people will often give you extra information beyond common body language, particularly in individual situations. As with other body language, tells are typically at transitions, when a person first feels anxious, excited, etc. They do not always persist and can be momentary. This makes spotting them a quite skilled activity. The good news is that people will repeat the tells in a habitual way and, with observation, you can acquire the needed skills. [Read More] Now, body language expert Peter Collett, author of the ‘Book Of Tells’ talks about the different gestures people make and what they mean. SCRATCHING NOSE: When you’re not telling the truth, you instinctively want to cover up the source of the lie – your mouth – so no one can see you’re fibbing. But because that’s too obvious, people disguise it by scratching their nose. LOOKING UP: if you look up you’re seeking help from above. People with a sense of self-importance also do it, suggesting they’re in contact with the Almighty, reports the Daily Mail. BLINKING: It’s a sign someone’s worried, excited or even lying as they’re under stress and thinking very rapidly. LIP NIBBLING: Lip nibbling, whether biting the lower lip or a corner of the mouth with the upper teeth, prevents someone from speaking, so it’s used by people who want to stop themselves from saying something. TILTING HEAD: Often used by a woman to flirt and appear more attractive. It appeals to a man because it lowers her height; -mimics a baby putting its head on its mother’s shoulder; and exposes the neck. As the neck is one of the most vulnerable parts of your body, showing it to someone is a way of saying, “I trust you implicitly.” FURROWED BROWS: Lowering the brows is a dominance gesture used mainly by men, which tells people, “I may be looking at you, but I’m in charge.” SHIFTING WEIGHT: When you want to escape from a conversation, you shift your weight from side to side or back to front. Men also sometimes do this when chatting to a pretty girl to make themselves appear energetic. OPEN HANDS: Showing the palms of your hands is a friendly -gesture showing that you have peaceful intentions. It indicates acceptance, good intentions and that you’re open to new ideas. Hiding them, on the other hand, shows that you don’t want to give anything away. FOOT POINT The way your foot is facing indicates what you’re thinking. Follow the line of someone’s foot and it will show you what they’re most interested in – if it’s the door, they want to leave. [Read More]
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Ne vjerujte onima koji se češkaju po nosu Stručnjak za govor tijela Peter Collett govori o položajima tijela i o onome što oni znače Pokreti tijela puno toga govore o čovjeku - bilo da se češe po nosu ili naginje glavu u jednu stranu. Stručnjak za govor tijela Peter Collett, autor knjige „Book of Tells", objašnjava što znače određeni pokreti i položaji koje zauzimamo. Češkanje po nosu. Kada ne govorimo istinu instinktivno želimo pokriti izvor laži - usta. No kako bi to bilo previše očito, najčešće taj pokušaj maskiramo na način da se češkamo po nosu. Pogled gore. Ako gledamo prema nebu, to znači da tražimo pomoć 'odozgo'. Ljudi koji imaju jako razvijen osjećaj o vlastitoj vrijednosti također to rade i na taj način sugeriraju da su u svojevrsnoj vezi sa Svemogućim. Treptanje. Pokazatelj da je netko zabrinut, uzbuđen ili čak da laže jer je pod stresom i razmišlja vrlo brzo. Grickanje usana. Bilo da grickate donju usnu ili kut usana gornjim zubima to će vas spriječiti da govorite. To najčešće, dakle, rade ljudi koji žele sami sebe zaustaviti od toga da kažu nešto što ne žele. Naginjanje glave u jednu stranu. Ovo često rade žene kad flertuju i kad žele biti privlačnije muškarcima. I to je zaista privlačno muškarcima jer ženi smanjuje visinu; istovremeno je to imitiranje situacije u kojoj beba naslanja glavu na majčino rame i izlaže vrat. Kako je vrat jedna od najranjivijih dijelova našeg tijela, ovaj potez šalje poruku da osoba koja to čini ima povjerenja u onoga tko je ispred nje. Namrštene obrve. Spuštanje obrva i ljutit pogled su nešto što najčešće prakticiraju muškarci. To govori otprilike: „Možda te i gledam, ali ti stavljam do znanja da sam ja glavni." Prebacivanje oslonca s noge na nogu. Ovo radimo kada želimo izbjeći ili prekinuti razgovor. Muškarci ovo rade dok razgovaraju sa ženama kao bi ispali kao da su puni energije. Otvoreni dlanovi. Kad pokazujemo dlanove ustvari činimo vrlo prijateljsku gestu koja pokazuje da imamo plemenite namjere. To sugerira da smo spremni na prihvaćanje, da imamo dobre namjere i da smo otvoreni za nove ideje. I obrnuto, kad skrivamo dlanove pokazujemo da smo zatvoreni i d ane želimo ništa dijeliti s drugima. Položaj stopala. To koji smjer pokazuju vrhovi naših stopala otkriva o čemu razmišljamo. Pratite crtu smjera vrhova stopala i to će vam otkriti što vašeg sugovornika najviše interesira - ako idu u smjeru vrata, vjerojatno razmišlja o odlasku.