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YOUNG PEOPLE ASK Am I Ready for Marriage? Download Before you can answer that question, you need to know yourself well. For example, consider the following factors: Relationships How do you treat your parents and siblings? Do you often lose your self-control with them, perhaps using harsh or sarcastic language to make a point? What would they say about you in that regard? How you deal with family members indicates how you will treat a mate. Demeanor Are you positive or pessimistic? Are you reasonable, or do you always insist on doing things a certain way—your way? Can you keep calm when under pressure? Are you patient? Cultivating the fruitage of God’s spirit now will help you prepare for being a husband or a wife later. Finances How well do you handle money? Are you often in debt? Can you hold down a job? If not, why not? Is it because of the job? The employer? Or is it because of some habit or trait that you need to work on? If you have trouble handling your own finances, how will you manage those of a family? Spirituality If you’re one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, what are your spiritual attributes? Do you take the initiative to read God’s Word, to engage in the ministry, and to participate at Christian meetings? The person you marry deserves nothing less than a spiritually strong partner. The more you understand yourself, the better equipped you will be to find someone who will amplify your strengths rather than your weaknesses.
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MLADI PITAJU Da li sam spreman za brak? Da bi dobio odgovor na ovo pitanje, moraš dobro da poznaješ sebe. Na primer, razmisli o sledećem: Međuljudski odnosi Kako se ophodiš prema roditeljima i braći i sestrama? Da li često planeš na njih, koristeći grub i sarkastičan govor? Šta bi oni rekli o tebi u ovom pogledu? Način na koji se ophodiš prema članovima porodice pokazuje kako ćeš se ophoditi prema svom partneru (Efešanima 4:31). Stav Da li si vedar ili natmuren? Da li si razuman, ili uvek insistiraš da bude po tvome? Ostaješ li pribran kada si pod pritiskom? Da li si strpljiv? Ukoliko sada, dok si sam, razvijaš plodove Božjeg duha bićeš bolji bračni drug u budućnosti (Galatima 5:22, 23). Novac Kako barataš novcem? Da li se često zadužuješ? Da li možeš da zadržiš posao? Ukoliko često menjaš posao, zašto je to tako? Da li je to zbog prirode posla? Ili poslodavca? Ili zato što imaš neku sklonost ili karakternu crtu na kojoj još moraš raditi? Ukoliko loše rukuješ novcem kada si sam, kako ćeš rukovati novčanim sredstvima kada jednom osnuješ svoju porodicu? Timoteju 5:8). Duhovnost Ukoliko si Jehovin svedok, kakva je tvoja duhovnost? Da li čitaš Božju Reč, učestvuješ u službi propovedanja i na sastancima? Osoba s kojom stupaš u brak svakako zaslužuje duhovno jakog bračnog druga (Propovednik 4:9, 10). Što bolje razumeš sebe, to ćeš biti u boljem položaju da prepoznaš osobu koja će ti pomoći da dođu do izražaja tvoje vrline, a ne mane.