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Here is the most beautiful description of why people shout when angry and whisper when loving. Its based on a story shared by Malladi Venkata Krishna Murthy. A wise woman was watching a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his friends smiled and asked. ‘Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?’ They thought for a while ‘Because we lose our calm?’ ‘But, why shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say quitetly’ said the wise woman. ‘When two people are angry with each other, there is a lot of distance between their hearts. To cover that distance they must shout to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will shout to hear to cover that great distance. What happens when two people are in love? They don’t shout but talk softly, as their hearts are very close. The distance between them is so small. When they love each other even more, what happens? They only whisper and finally they only look at each other. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’ Shared by Malladi Venkata Krishna Murthy Image courtesy of ImageryMajestic at www.freedigitalphotos.net
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Jednom je učitelj pitao svoje učenike: "Zašto ljudi viču kad su ljuti?" Učenici su razmišljali neko vreme, pa jedan reče: "Zato što izgubimo strpljenje, zato vičemo." – "Ali, zašto bi vikao ako je osoba pored tebe?", upitao je učitelj, "zar nije moguće govoriti tiho i lagano?" Učenici su davali još neke odgovore, ali nijedan nije zadovoljio učitelja. Na kraju, učitelj je objasnio: "Kada su dve osobe u svađi, ljute, njihova se srca jako udalje. Zato moraju vikati jedno na drugoga, da njihov krik premosti udaljenost i da se mogu čuti. Što su ljući to glasnije moraju vikati, jer je udaljenost među njima sve veća." Potom je učitelj rekao: "Šta se dogodi kada se dve osobe zaljube? Ne viču jedno na drugo, već govore tiho i nežno. Zašto? – Njihova srca su veoma blizu. Udaljenost među njima je veoma mala. A šta se dogodi kada se još više zaljube? – Ne govore. Samo šapuću i još više se zbližavaju u svojoj ljubavi… Na kraju ne trebaju više ni šapat. Samo se gledaju i to je sve. Takve su dve osobe koje se vole." Onda je rekao: "Kada se svađate, nemojte dozvoliti da se vaša srca udalje, ne izgovarajte reči koje bi vas mogle još više udaljiti, jer će doći dan kada će udaljenost biti tako velika, da više nikada neće postojati put nazad."