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YOUNG PEOPLE ASK How Can I Deal With My Parents’ Rules? Download You probably know youths your age who can stay out as late as they want, can wear anything they like, and can go with their friends whenever and wherever it suits them. Perhaps the parents are simply too busy to notice what their children are doing. The Bible shows that this approach to childrearing will not be successful. (Proverbs 29:15) The lack of love you see in the world is largely due to its self-centered people, many of whom were raised in homes without restraint. Rather than envy youths who are allowed to do as they please, try to see your parents’ rules as evidence of their love and concern for you. By enforcing reasonable limits, they are imitating Jehovah God, who said to his people: “I shall make you have insight and instruct you in the way you should go. I will give advice with my eye upon you.” —Psalm 32:8.
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MLADI PITAJU... Zašto mi roditelji postavljaju tolika pravila? Neki tvoji vršnjaci vjerojatno smiju ostati vani dokle god žele, mogu se odijevati kako god im se sviđa, izlaziti s društvom kad god se sjete i ići kamo god žele. Možda su njihovi roditelji toliko zaokupljeni raznim obavezama da uopće ne obraćaju pažnju na to što rade njihova djeca. Biblija pokazuje da takav pristup odgoju djece nije dobar (Mudre izreke 29:15). Danas u svijetu ima sve manje ljubavi, i to ponajprije zbog toga što su ljudi postali sebični. Mnogi od tih sebičnih ljudi odrasli su u obiteljima u kojima nisu postojala nikakva pravila ni ograničenja (2. Timoteju 3:1-5). Umjesto da zavidiš vršnjacima koji mogu raditi što god žele, imaj na umu da su pravila koja ti postavljaju roditelji zapravo dokaz da te oni vole i da im je stalo do tebe. Sasvim je na mjestu da ti roditelji postavljaju razumna ograničenja. Tako je i Jehova Bog u drevno doba postupao sa svojim narodom, kojemu je rekao: “Razboritim ću te učiniti i poučit ću te putu kojim trebaš ići. Savjetovat ću te, oko je moje na tebi” (Psalam 32:8).