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Subtitles and Transcript 0:11 Imagine a big explosion as you climb through 3,000 ft. Imagine a plane full of smoke. Imagine an engine going clack, clack, clack, clack, clack, clack, clack. It sounds scary. Well I had a unique seat that day. I was sitting in 1D. I was the only one who could talk to the flight attendants. So I looked at them right away, and they said, "No problem. We probably hit some birds." The pilot had already turned the plane around, and we weren't that far. You could see Manhattan. Two minutes later, three things happened at the same time. The pilot lines up the plane with the Hudson River. That's usually not the route. (Laughter) He turns off the engines. Now imagine being in a plane with no sound. And then he says three words -- the most unemotional three words I've ever heard. He says, "Brace for impact." I didn't have to talk to the flight attendant anymore. (Laughter) I could see in her eyes, it was terror. Life was over. 1:22 Now I want to share with you three things I learned about myself that day. I learned that it all changes in an instant. We have this bucket list, we have these things we want to do in life, and I thought about all the people I wanted to reach out to that I didn't, all the fences I wanted to mend, all the experiences I wanted to have and I never did. As I thought about that later on, I came up with a saying, which is, "I collect bad wines." Because if the wine is ready and the person is there, I'm opening it. I no longer want to postpone anything in life. And that urgency, that purpose, has really changed my life. 2:02 The second thing I learned that day -- and this is as we clear the George Washington Bridge, which was by not a lot -- I thought about, wow, I really feel one real regret. I've lived a good life. In my own humanity and mistakes, I've tried to get better at everything I tried. But in my humanity, I also allow my ego to get in. And I regretted the time I wasted on things that did not matter with people that matter. And I thought about my relationship with my wife, with my friends, with people. And after, as I reflected on that, I decided to eliminate negative energy from my life. It's not perfect, but it's a lot better. I've not had a fight with my wife in two years. It feels great. I no longer try to be right; I choose to be happy. 2:52 The third thing I learned -- and this is as your mental clock starts going, "15, 14, 13." You can see the water coming. I'm saying, "Please blow up." I don't want this thing to break in 20 pieces like you've seen in those documentaries. And as we're coming down, I had a sense of, wow, dying is not scary. It's almost like we've been preparing for it our whole lives. But it was very sad. I didn't want to go; I love my life. And that sadness really framed in one thought, which is, I only wish for one thing. I only wish I could see my kids grow up. About a month later, I was at a performance by my daughter -- first-grader, not much artistic talent ... ... yet. (Laughter) And I'm bawling, I'm crying, like a little kid. And it made all the sense in the world to me. I realized at that point, by connecting those two dots, that the only thing that matters in my life is being a great dad. Above all, above all, the only goal I have in life is to be a good dad. 4:06 I was given the gift of a miracle, of not dying that day. I was given another gift, which was to be able to see into the future and come back and live differently. I challenge you guys that are flying today, imagine the same thing happens on your plane -- and please don't -- but imagine, and how would you change? What would you get done that you're waiting to get done because you think you'll be here forever? How would you change your relationships and the negative energy in them? And more than anything, are you being the best parent you can? 4:40 Thank you. 4:42 (Applause)
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Subtitles and Transcript Translated by Tilen Pigac - EFZG Reviewed by Mislav Ante Omazić - EFZG 0:11 Zamislite veliku eksploziju nakon što ste se popeli na 1.000 metara. Zamislite avion pun dima. Zamislite motor koji zvuči klak, klak, klak, klak, klak, klak, klak. To zvuči zastrašujuće. Ja sam imao jedinstveno sjedalo tog dana. Sjedio sam na mjestu 1D. Bio sam jedini koji je mogao razgovarati sa stjuardesama. Tako sam ih odmah pogledao, a one rekoše, "Nema problema. Vjerojatno smo pogodili neke ptice." Pilot je već okrenuo avion natrag, i nismo bili tako daleko. Mogao se vidjeti Manhattan. Dvije minute kasnije, tri stvari su se dogodile u isto vrijeme. Pilot je izravnao avion s rijekom Hudson. To obično nije put. (Smijeh) On isključuje motore. Sada zamislite da ste u avionu bez zvuka. A onda on kaže tri riječi -- najbezosjećajnije tri riječi koje sam ikad čuo. Kaže, "Pripremite se za udarac."½ Više nisam morao razgovarati sa stjuardesom. (Smijeh) Mogao sam vidjeti u njezinim očima, to je bio užas. Život je došao kraju. 1:22 Sada želim s vama podijeliti tri stvari koje sam naučio o sebi taj dan. Saznao sam da se sve promjeni u trenu. Mi imamo tu listu stvari, imamo stvari koje želimo učiniti u životu, a ja sam razmišljao o svim ljudima do kojih sam želio doprijeti a nisam, sve ograde koje sam htio popraviti, sva iskustva koja sam htio imati a nikada ih nisam imao. Dok sam razmišljao o tome kasnije, smislio sam uzrečicu, koja glasi, "Ja skupljam loše vina." Jer ako je vino spremno i osoba je tamo, ja ga otvaram. Više ne želim išta odgađati u životu. A ta hitnost, ta svrha, je stvarno promijenila moj život. 2:02 Druga stvar koju sam naučio taj dan -- a to je bilo nakon što smo preletjeli most George Washington-a, i to zamalo -- Razmišljao sam, vau, stvarno osjećam pravu žalost. Živio sam dobar život. Kroz svoju vlastitu čovječnost i pogreške, pokušao sam biti bolji u svemu što sam probao. Ali u svojoj čovječnosti, također sam dopustio svom egu da uđe. I požalio sam vrijeme koje sam izgubio na stvari koje nisu bile važne s ljudima koji su mi bili važni. I razmišljao sam o svom odnosu sa svojom ženom, s prijateljima, s ljudima. I nakon, dok sam razmišljao o tome, odlučio sam eliminirati negativnu energiju iz mog života. Nije savršeno, ali je puno bolje. Nisam se svađao sa svojom ženom već dvije godine. To je odličan osjećaj. Više ne pokušavam biti u pravu; odlučio sam biti sretan. 2:52 Treća stvar koju sam naučio -- a ovo je kad vaš mentalni sat počinje otkucavati, "15, 14, 13." Možete vidjeti kako se voda približava. Rekao sam, "Molim te, eksplodiraj." Ne želim da se ova stvar razlomi u 20 komada kao što ste vidjeli u svim tim dokumentarcima. I kako smo se spuštali, imao sam osjećaj, vau, umiranje nije strašno. Gotovo kao da smo se pripremali za to cijeli naš život. Ali bilo je jako tužno. Nisam htio otići, ja volim svoj život. I ta tuga se uistinu uokvirila u jednu misao, koja je, želim samo jednu stvar. Želim samo da mogu vidjeti svoju djecu kako odrastaju. Oko mjesec dana kasnije, bio sam na nastupu moje kćeri -- prvi razred, nema baš umjetnički talent ... ... još. (Smijeh) A ja plačem, kao malo dijete. I to je za mene imalo potpuni smisao. Shvatio sam u tom trenutku, spajanjem tih dviju točaka, da je jedino što vrijedi u mom životu da budem odličan tata. Iznad svega, iznad svega, jedini cilj koji imam u životu je biti dobar tata. 4:06 Dobio sam dar čuda, da taj dan nisam umro. Dobio sam još jedan dar, koji je bio taj da sam mogao vidjeti u budućnost i vratiti se živjeti drugačije. Izazivam sve vas koji danas letite, da zamislite da se ista stvar događa u vašem avionu -- i molim da se ne dogodi -- ali zamislite, i kako biste se vi promijenili? Što biste učinili a još niste jer mislite da ćete biti tu zauvijek? Kako biste promijenili svoje odnose i negativnu energiju u njima? I najvažnije od svega, jeste li najbolji roditelj koji možete biti? 4:40 Hvala Vam. 4:42 (Pljesak)