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John William Waterhouse "The Crystal Ball" Yearning is such a beautiful word. Each language has a version of this emotion. In Portuguese it is saudade , while the German word is sensucht In this age of immediate gratification, I think we have lost sight of the art of yearning for something we might never achieve, and the attendant benefits that accompany that sort of visceral yearning. Seeing Venice. Riding an elephant. Owning a home by the ocean. Longing for the unattainable is pleasurable in a strange way, or at least I find this to be true. It is the setting of magical goals in our hearts—goals that might never materialize and yet they fire our imaginations with ripe possibility and allow us, in our quiet moments of yearning, to picture ourselves in that daydream world. If there were more longing in life, there might be less debt. Now, now now. Like Veruca Salt in Raold Dahl's cautionery tale, we cannot wait for, save for, yearn for, or relegate to the imagination those things we desire but cannot have right now. We instead bankrupt ourselves for the immediacy of possession. We are bullied into making bucket lists and to accomplish each item. We are assured that nothing is unattainable. We are told about the 50 things we must do, the 100 places we must see, before leaving this life. We are not told that it's alright to dream and yearn and not possess or accomplish. We are not taught the art of longing. Longing, it would seem, is an ugly and archaic and self-defeating passtime. I spoke about the art of longing with a friend one day, of the ability to see something in a window or magazine, to imagine having it, to take pleasure in the idea of it, and to let the yearning curl around your mind and heart with the tantalizing hope that perhaps one day it might be possible. And to be wistfully content if it is not. Longing can and should encompass not needing to own something, despite wanting to. My mother, when she has seen something lovely in a shop window, has frequently said: Isn't that beautiful? But don't get it for me... I don't need to own it. And another friend spent years of Sunday afternoons going to open houses with her husband, despite the fact that they had barely enough money to live on, much less buy a house. She was practicing the art of longing. Longing can embrace the sheer pleasure of knowing a particular item or place exists in the world with us. Too few people know what it means to desire something and be willing to allocate the reality to 'some day'. Or perhaps to 'never'. Nearly a year after that conversation with my friend, this delightful book arrived. Longing, far more than it haunts you, reminds you of your true name. Longing that is with joy is complete longing. When it is strong it calms us. Longing is whatever one wishes. It can tell you your life again. Longing does not change anything. It is the art of not knowing. Longing is when we think our storm is the right size. A little can be eternal. Longing always visits one who is content. It may be the gift no other gift provides. Longing comes singly and leaves accompanied. It can be happiness. Longing is a word that means to put stars together: the faith you instill, the faith it has instilled. Longing is to be someone. To be someone in solitude. —Cooper Edens
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Özlem, bir gün mutlaka sona erecek yani miadlı bir ayrılığın hüznüdür. Hasret duygusunun kapsadığı mana içerisinde özlem vardır ama özlem hasret değildir. Hasret duygusunda bir ebedilik vardır. Kavuşmanın mümkün olmayacağı veya olamayacağı bir bekleyiştir. 6 Aralık 2011 Salı HASRET! Ebedi Bekleyiş... Hasret çekmek insanoğlunun bu hayattaki en zor imtihanıdır. Hasret duygusu çoğu zaman özlem duygusuyla karıştırılır. Herhangi bir nedenle ayrı düştüğümüz vatanımızı, ailemizi veya yarimizi özlerken hasret çektiğimizi zannederiz. Sevdiğimiz veya alışmış olduğumuz hayattan, kişilerden ve hatta yer ve mekânlardan ayrı kaldığımız zaman hissettiklerimiz sadece özlemdir. Özlem, bir gün mutlaka sona erecek yani miadlı bir ayrılığın hüznüdür. Hasret duygusunun kapsadığı mana içerisinde özlem vardır ama özlem hasret değildir. Hasret duygusunda bir ebedilik vardır. Kavuşmanın mümkün olmayacağı veya olamayacağı bir bekleyiştir. Özlemde böyle bir durumdan bahsedilemez. Özlem, kavuşmak için beklemektir. Hasret ise sabır, tevekkül ve teslimiyet duyguları ile gelmeyecek olanı beklemektir. Özlem, kavuşmanın neşesi ve mutluluğu ile yaşanan bir duygudur. Özlem duyan insan acı çekmez, ümitli bir bekleyişin hazzını duyar. Hasret, sahip olunamayanı veya sahip olunmuşken kaybedileni beklemektir. Özlem, herkesin her zaman yaşayabileceği basit bir duygudur ama hasret çekmek, her babayiğidin harcı değildir. Zira hasret, hiçbir zaman gerçekleşmeyecek kavuşmaların hayalini kurmaktır. Kaydol: Kayıt Yorumları (Atom)