You recently lost your husband, and the polite thing to do in this situation would have been to check what the deceased's drink was as not to evoke any horrible memories.
Ūú misstir eiginmanninn nũlega og ūađ hefđi veriđ kurteislegt í ūessari stöđu ađ athuga hvađ sá látni hefđi drukkiđ til ađ vekja ekki upp hryllilegar minningar.