<p>what about this one "我们要给孩子最好的东西"?</p>

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2012-04-28T22:10:15.743Z
Thanks but my meaning is more general than actually giving them objects, which is what your sentence seems to imply.
jaffa
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2012-04-29T10:20:41.363Z
IMHO, "我们要给孩子（们）最好的。" is better.
Mengdi Gao
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2012-04-29T15:30:03.230Z
I think I prefer the above sentence as it sounds Chinese and seems to stick closer to my original meaning. So the added 的 seems to finish the sentence off, where it is referring to anything in general that is the best...
jaffa
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2012-04-29T17:15:39.493Z
@jaffa:  did you see my reply? (我们要把最好的给我们的孩子) :-)  "我们要给孩子（们）最好的。" of course is also fine.
BertR
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2012-05-01T19:52:09.743Z
@jaffa Would you mind looking at my answer below? I think that might be what you were trying to say.
gonnastop
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2012-04-28T22:05:25.043Z
2012-04-28T22:05:25.043Z
Fivesheep
<p>我们要把最好的给我们的孩子</p>

<p>I think most Chinese parents would rather use this expression:
我们望子成龙</p>

<p>望子成龙 has this meaning: <em>lit. to hope one's son becomes a dragon (idiom); fig. to long for one' s child to succeed in life; to have great hopes for one's offspring; to give one's child the best education as a career investment</em></p>

<p>It has more emphasis on succeeding in life, while "the best" is more open, and can also refer to happiness. This because most Chinese people have different values and aspirations for there children than most westerners (I'm generalizing here).</p>

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2012-04-29T08:25:58.237Z
BertR
<blockquote>
  <p>We as parents all want the best for our kids.</p>
  
  <p>我们做父母的都是为了孩子好。</p>
</blockquote>

<p>I was reading a book and just realized that this was what my mom always said to me!</p>

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2012-06-21T12:52:40.083Z
Although this translation is not very literal, __I hear sentences like this (...为了孩子...) very often__, while I have never heard ``我们要给孩子最好的东西``, which sounds like you're spoiling your kids.
Stumpy Joe Pete
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2012-04-29T22:44:32.157Z
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gonnastop
<p>我们 想要 对孩子最好的东西.</p>

<p>However, I can only think of very few situations where you may want to use this sentence. One example is when you are facing a few options and you are not able to make an educated choice. So you use this sentence to declare your over all goal and relay on the listener (usually a professional) making "the best" choice for you. If that's the case, I would suggest you to tell the listener something like this:我们不懂这个领域;请您帮助我们做一个选择。The possible outcomes are:</p>

<ol>
<li>The listener is more aware of you are relaying on him or her to make a serious choice;</li>
<li>The listener may provide more information to educate you.</li>
</ol>

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2012-05-08T18:06:53.140Z
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Codism
<p>我是中国人，我觉得按照英语语法来说应该是“我们要给我们孩子最好的东西”<br>
    i'm a native chinese,according to the english grammer,the meaning of "we want what is best for our kids" is "give(for) our kids the best thing that we want".just like the first line.<br>
    By the way, i have learnt english grammer for nearly 8 years.</p>

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2012-06-21T12:50:28.077Z
You're parsing "what's best for our kids" wrong. Look at this: "Only you can decide what's best for you." = "只有你自己才能决定什么对你最好。" So... literally, "what's best for our kids" = "什么对我们孩子最好". You are not giving anyone anything.
Stumpy Joe Pete
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2012-05-01T09:02:23.367Z
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jishiyu
<p>I'd like to say the above sentence.</p>

<p>I can't think anything but the following sentence, but it just doesn't sit right with me somehow:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>我们都要对我们的孩子最好.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>While the subject "what's best" in english seems ok without any tangible object associated with it, in Chinese it sounds a little unfinished.</p>

<p>Can anyone think of the correct, most chinese way of saying this?</p>

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How to say "we want what is best for our kids"?
# How to say "we want what is best for our kids"?

(Asked by: username_0 on 2012-04-28)

I'd like to say the above sentence.

I can't think anything but the following sentence, but it just doesn't sit right with me somehow:

> 我们都要对我们的孩子最好.

While the subject "what's best" in english seems ok without any tangible object associated with it, in Chinese it sounds a little unfinished.

Can anyone think of the correct, most chinese way of saying this?

**Tags:** translation, grammar, word-choice


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## 5 answers

### Answer by username_1 on 2012-04-28. Score: -1 | Accepted answer

what about this one "我们要给孩子最好的东西"?

> **Comments:**
> **username_0**: Thanks but my meaning is more general than actually giving them objects, which is what your sentence seems to imply.  
> **username_2**: IMHO, "我们要给孩子（们）最好的。" is better.  
> **username_0**: I think I prefer the above sentence as it sounds Chinese and seems to stick closer to my original meaning. So the added 的 seems to finish the sentence off, where it is referring to anything in general that is the best...  
> **username_3**: @username_0:  did you see my reply? (我们要把最好的给我们的孩子) :-)  "我们要给孩子（们）最好的。" of course is also fine.  
> **username_4**: @username_0 Would you mind looking at my answer below? I think that might be what you were trying to say.  

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### Answer by username_3 on 2012-04-29. Score: 5

我们要把最好的给我们的孩子

I think most Chinese parents would rather use this expression:
我们望子成龙

望子成龙 has this meaning: *lit. to hope one's son becomes a dragon (idiom); fig. to long for one' s child to succeed in life; to have great hopes for one's offspring; to give one's child the best education as a career investment*

It has more emphasis on succeeding in life, while "the best" is more open, and can also refer to happiness. This because most Chinese people have different values and aspirations for there children than most westerners (I'm generalizing here).


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### Answer by username_4 on 2012-04-29. Score: 4

> We as parents all want the best for our kids.
>
> 我们做父母的都是为了孩子好。

I was reading a book and just realized that this was what my mom always said to me!

> **Comments:**
> **username_5**: Although this translation is not very literal, __I hear sentences like this (...为了孩子...) very often__, while I have never heard ``我们要给孩子最好的东西``, which sounds like you're spoiling your kids.  

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### Answer by username_6 on 2012-05-08. Score: 0

我们 想要 对孩子最好的东西.

However, I can only think of very few situations where you may want to use this sentence. One example is when you are facing a few options and you are not able to make an educated choice. So you use this sentence to declare your over all goal and relay on the listener (usually a professional) making "the best" choice for you. If that's the case, I would suggest you to tell the listener something like this:我们不懂这个领域;请您帮助我们做一个选择。The possible outcomes are:

1. The listener is more aware of you are relaying on him or her to make a serious choice;
2. The listener may provide more information to educate you.


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### Answer by username_7 on 2012-05-01. Score: -2

我是中国人，我觉得按照英语语法来说应该是“我们要给我们孩子最好的东西”  
i'm a native chinese,according to the english grammer,the meaning of "we want what is best for our kids" is "give(for) our kids the best thing that we want".just like the first line.  
By the way, i have learnt english grammer for nearly 8 years.

> **Comments:**
> **username_5**: You're parsing "what's best for our kids" wrong. Look at this: "Only you can decide what's best for you." = "只有你自己才能决定什么对你最好。" So... literally, "what's best for our kids" = "什么对我们孩子最好". You are not giving anyone anything.  

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