<p>First of all, 忍 emphasises inwardly endure, the condition can be either external or internal, 受 emphasises passively bear/accept, the condition is generally external.</p>
<p>You can say 我 忍不住 笑了, but not 我 受不住 笑了. 忍 could be paired with a neutral condition such as curiosity, but 受 generally only pairs with perceived negative conditions.</p>
<p><strong>忍不住</strong> -&gt; '<em>can't hold/can't help/can't withstand but to + [action]</em>'. It is often used in connection to an action to establish a cause and consequence logic. The subject make an action because they can't withstand a certain condition. The condition can be mentioned in the context from before or it could also be explicitly identified.</p>
<p>e.g.</p>
<p>我 (I) 忍不住 (can't help) 笑了 （but to laugh)</p>
<p>我 (I) 忍不住 (can't stand)  热 (the heat), 只好 (have to) 出去 (go out)</p>
<p><strong>受不住</strong> -&gt; Roughly the same as 忍不住, but generally apply to can't withstand a physical condition. Personally I rarely see it being used.</p>
<p><strong>忍不了/受不了</strong> -&gt;  '<em>can't handle it anymore/can't stand it anymore/feed up with it/can't cope with it</em>'. These expressions carry intense emotion, commonly anger or frustration.</p>
<p>e.g.</p>
<p>我 (I) 忍不了 (can't stand) 这 (this) 人 (person)</p>
<p>我 (I) 受不了 (can't handle it anymore) 了！</p>

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<p>忍不住：「他说的笑话真好笑，我忍不住笑了」<br />
忍不了：「这个人老是室内吸烟，我快忍不了了」<br />
受不住：「这位老人的年岁已大，怕是受不住这种手术」<br />
受不了：「这个辣椒真辣，辣的我受不了」</p>

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<p><strong>On <code>忍</code> and <code>受</code></strong></p>
<ol>
<li><p>As Scharlach Nachtfalter has pointed out, <code>忍</code> refers to internal endurance, whereas <code>受</code> refers to reception of something (usually external and negative). In fact, when we say <code>忍受</code>, it is a combination of the two – you receive something from the outside and then you endure it in the inside. However, in the case of enduring something from within (e.g. containing oneself from laughing), you can only use <code>忍</code>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>我忍不住笑</p>
<p>*我忍受不住笑</p>
</blockquote>
</li>
</ol>
<p><strong>On <code>了</code> and <code>住</code></strong></p>
<ol start="2">
<li><p><code>了</code> in <code>～不了 (liǎo)</code> is not pronounced as the usual <code>le</code>. This is because it is originally a verb meaning 'to end; to finish' in classical Chinese. Consider the example <code>喝不了</code> in <code>這醋太酸，我喝不了</code> ('This vinegar is too sour, I cannot drink it'): if you parse it very literally, it means 'to not finish drinking'. But gradually this became a way of stating <em>potentiality</em> ('cannot drink') in modern Chinese. (Think of that as, if you fail to finish doing something, that means you cannot do it.)</p>
<p>Therefore, <code>受不了</code> and <code>忍不了</code> incline to mean '<em>cannot</em> tolerate' and '<em>cannot</em> contain oneself'. It is therefore natural to put this verbal phrase before a grammatical object (because <code>受/忍</code> are transitive), as in <code>受不了壓力</code>, <code>忍不了這個人</code>. The main verb of the sentence is precisely <code>受/忍</code> themselves.</p>
</li>
<li><p><code>住</code> in <code>～不住</code> means 'to stop' in classical Chinese:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>兩岸猿聲<strong>啼不住</strong></p>
<p>From both sides of the gorge come <em>incessant howling</em> of gibbons and monkeys (<a href="https://28utscprojects.wordpress.com/2010/12/03/269/" rel="nofollow noreferrer">translation</a>)</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Both <code>忍</code> and <code>受</code> are deliberate efforts to halt the external / internal influence. If you cannot 'stop' them, as in <code>忍不住</code> and <code>受不住</code>, your efforts are nullified. But your efforts <em>on what</em>?</p>
<p>You therefore match it with another verb, as in <code>受不住謾罵</code> (<code>謾罵</code> 'scold'), <code>忍不住哭</code> (<code>哭</code>, 'cry'). The focus of the sentence rests in the verbs that follow, not <code>受/忍</code> themselves.</p>
<p>Technically, unlike <code>～不了</code>, it does not indicate potentiality (e.g., there is no such thing as <code>*喝不住</code>, cf. point 2. first para.).</p>
</li>
</ol>
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<p><strong>Edit</strong></p>
<p>All of the following sentences have something omitted (especially so in speech).</p>
<blockquote>
<p>i. 這個人在火車上大聲講電話，我實在受不了(這個人在火車上大聲講電話)了。</p>
<p>ii. 這個人在火車上大聲講電話，我實在忍不了(內心的不滿)了。</p>
<p>iii. *這個人在火車上大聲講電話，我實在受不住了。</p>
<p>iv. 這個人在火車上大聲講電話，我實在忍不住(要罵他)了。</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Sentence i. is the most idiomatic: the disturbance obviously is extrinsic, and the thing that is omitted at the end of the sentence is obviously the act of speaking on the phone loudly (a nominalised phrase).</p>
<p>Sentence ii. is also idiomatic, but its meaning is different. You cannot withhold something inside – probably your discontent as a result of the disturbance.</p>
<p>Sentence iii. predictably has an omitted verb after <code>不住</code>. But 'talking on the phone' does not act directly upon <em>yourself</em> (you are not the intended object of the verb). There is no possible verb candidate here. So this sentence is nonsensical, perhaps ungrammatical.</p>
<p>Sentence iv. is perhaps idiomatic, because you can be suppressing the urge to scold that person ('to scold' being the verb).</p>

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这个人在火车上大声打电话，我实在受不了了。 In this sentence can 受不了 be replaced with 忍不住/受不住/忍不了？
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Good question. Please see my edit.
L Parker
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By the way 打電話 means ‘to dial’, whereas 講電話 means ‘to speak on the phone’.
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@jinglingmen When you 受不了 means you can't bear it any longer. When you 忍不了了,  an action (outburst) is likely to follow the unbearable situation.
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<p>忍不住 ，忍不了 ，受不住，受不了seem to be fairly synonymous in Mandarin, but there does seem to be some subtle differences between them.What exactly is the difference? When should I use each one? Could you give me an example sentence to show when each of these terms would be the most appropriate?</p>

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忍不住 vs 忍不了 vs 受不住vs 受不了 - what is the difference, and when should I use each one?
# 忍不住 vs 忍不了 vs 受不住vs 受不了 - what is the difference, and when should I use each one?

(Asked by: username_0 on 2021-04-30)

忍不住 ，忍不了 ，受不住，受不了seem to be fairly synonymous in Mandarin, but there does seem to be some subtle differences between them.What exactly is the difference? When should I use each one? Could you give me an example sentence to show when each of these terms would be the most appropriate?

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## 3 answers

### Answer by username_1 on 2021-04-30. Score: 1

First of all, 忍 emphasises inwardly endure, the condition can be either external or internal, 受 emphasises passively bear/accept, the condition is generally external.

You can say 我 忍不住 笑了, but not 我 受不住 笑了. 忍 could be paired with a neutral condition such as curiosity, but 受 generally only pairs with perceived negative conditions.

**忍不住** -> '*can't hold/can't help/can't withstand but to + [action]*'. It is often used in connection to an action to establish a cause and consequence logic. The subject make an action because they can't withstand a certain condition. The condition can be mentioned in the context from before or it could also be explicitly identified.

e.g.

我 (I) 忍不住 (can't help) 笑了 （but to laugh)

我 (I) 忍不住 (can't stand) 热 (the heat), 只好 (have to) 出去 (go out)

**受不住** -> Roughly the same as 忍不住, but generally apply to can't withstand a physical condition. Personally I rarely see it being used.

**忍不了/受不了** -> '*can't handle it anymore/can't stand it anymore/feed up with it/can't cope with it*'. These expressions carry intense emotion, commonly anger or frustration.

e.g.

我 (I) 忍不了 (can't stand) 这 (this) 人 (person)

我 (I) 受不了 (can't handle it anymore) 了！


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### Answer by username_2 on 2021-04-30. Score: 0

忍不住：「他说的笑话真好笑，我忍不住笑了」  
忍不了：「这个人老是室内吸烟，我快忍不了了」  
受不住：「这位老人的年岁已大，怕是受不住这种手术」  
受不了：「这个辣椒真辣，辣的我受不了」


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### Answer by username_3 on 2021-04-30. Score: 0

**On `忍` and `受`**

1. As username_1 has pointed out, `忍` refers to internal endurance, whereas `受` refers to reception of something (usually external and negative). In fact, when we say `忍受`, it is a combination of the two – you receive something from the outside and then you endure it in the inside. However, in the case of enduring something from within (e.g. containing oneself from laughing), you can only use `忍`:

   > 我忍不住笑
   >
   > \*我忍受不住笑

**On `了` and `住`**

2. `了` in `～不了 (liǎo)` is not pronounced as the usual `le`. This is because it is originally a verb meaning 'to end; to finish' in classical Chinese. Consider the example `喝不了` in `這醋太酸，我喝不了` ('This vinegar is too sour, I cannot drink it'): if you parse it very literally, it means 'to not finish drinking'. But gradually this became a way of stating *potentiality* ('cannot drink') in modern Chinese. (Think of that as, if you fail to finish doing something, that means you cannot do it.)

   Therefore, `受不了` and `忍不了` incline to mean '*cannot* tolerate' and '*cannot* contain oneself'. It is therefore natural to put this verbal phrase before a grammatical object (because `受/忍` are transitive), as in `受不了壓力`, `忍不了這個人`. The main verb of the sentence is precisely `受/忍` themselves.
3. `住` in `～不住` means 'to stop' in classical Chinese:

   > 兩岸猿聲**啼不住**
   >
   > From both sides of the gorge come *incessant howling* of gibbons and monkeys ([translation](https://28utscprojects.wordpress.com/2010/12/03/269/))

   Both `忍` and `受` are deliberate efforts to halt the external / internal influence. If you cannot 'stop' them, as in `忍不住` and `受不住`, your efforts are nullified. But your efforts *on what*?

   You therefore match it with another verb, as in `受不住謾罵` (`謾罵` 'scold'), `忍不住哭` (`哭`, 'cry'). The focus of the sentence rests in the verbs that follow, not `受/忍` themselves.

   Technically, unlike `～不了`, it does not indicate potentiality (e.g., there is no such thing as `*喝不住`, cf. point 2. first para.).

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**Edit**

All of the following sentences have something omitted (especially so in speech).

> i. 這個人在火車上大聲講電話，我實在受不了(這個人在火車上大聲講電話)了。
>
> ii. 這個人在火車上大聲講電話，我實在忍不了(內心的不滿)了。
>
> iii. \*這個人在火車上大聲講電話，我實在受不住了。
>
> iv. 這個人在火車上大聲講電話，我實在忍不住(要罵他)了。

Sentence i. is the most idiomatic: the disturbance obviously is extrinsic, and the thing that is omitted at the end of the sentence is obviously the act of speaking on the phone loudly (a nominalised phrase).

Sentence ii. is also idiomatic, but its meaning is different. You cannot withhold something inside – probably your discontent as a result of the disturbance.

Sentence iii. predictably has an omitted verb after `不住`. But 'talking on the phone' does not act directly upon *yourself* (you are not the intended object of the verb). There is no possible verb candidate here. So this sentence is nonsensical, perhaps ungrammatical.

Sentence iv. is perhaps idiomatic, because you can be suppressing the urge to scold that person ('to scold' being the verb).

> **Comments:**
> **username_0**: 这个人在火车上大声打电话，我实在受不了了。 In this sentence can 受不了 be replaced with 忍不住/受不住/忍不了？  
> **username_3**: Good question. Please see my edit.  
> **username_3**: By the way 打電話 means ‘to dial’, whereas 講電話 means ‘to speak on the phone’.  
> **username_4**: @username_0 When you 受不了 means you can't bear it any longer. When you 忍不了了,  an action (outburst) is likely to follow the unbearable situation.  

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