<p>For cursing:</p>

<ul>
<li>"操" is pretty similar to "damn" or "sh*t" in such situation of cursing. Also similar as they should not be used in very formal situations. However, the meaning of "操" is same as the f word in its verb form.</li>
<li>"操" should be quite acceptable (or at least ok) in informal scenarios. </li>
<li>"靠" has very very close meaning as "操" in this situation. Actually, it is some thing more dirty in origin.</li>
</ul>

<p>Just express it hurts e.g. when get a toe stubbed:</p>

<ul>
<li>While in very formal situations, I would say "Ah!(啊!)" (same as "Ouch!") without cursing. Note: the ah sound is really short, something short than 1/2 second perhaps.</li>
<li>哎呀 has the similar meaning while in my personal impression, 哎呀 is more used in situation of surprises than got hurt.</li>
</ul>

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@Flake I'm pretty sure 'kao4' (``靠``) is just a [bowdlerization](http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/bowdlerize) of 'cao4'. Do you have any evidence that it's "more dirty"?
Stumpy Joe Pete
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Hm, are you sure about 操 being "damn" or "sh*t", my dictionary only says "_to f*ck (vulgar)_"? Doesn't seem like something I'd like to say when my program won't compile!
dr Hannibal Lecter
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By "pretty similar to" I meant only its usage in the situation of cursing. It has real meaning of f word, but in Chinese, widely used for cursing. 靠 is almost the same too. Yes, you can curse using 操 when your program does not compile. But only when you are really annoyed, e.g. when you are close to a deadline or in bad mood.
Flake
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A bit off-topic, but being Scottish, 哎呀 is great for me - if I stub my toe or whatever, I already automatically shout 'ai ya!' :)  Well, that or something like 'ai ya f**cker!' :D
Cocowalla
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I think I understand what you're saying, we have the same thing in Croatian. However, this is exactly the thing I wanted to avoid, I'd like to get a bit more euphemistic if possible. For example, I like using "blast!", "cor blimey!" and other, more "British" expressions so to speak.
dr Hannibal Lecter
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@drHannibalLecter I've never actually heard anyone British say "cor blimey!" in real life, but I take your point :)
Cocowalla
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@Cocowalla: I assumed as much, but still..mayhap I've watched too many Fawlty Towers or Jeeves and Wooster episodes...and other "nice" shows... :)
dr Hannibal Lecter
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@drHannibalLecter That is really interesting to know. :D
Flake
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Flake
<p>"靠" is more like it, in modern oral Chinese.</p>

<p>While "操" is literally the F-word since it's a homonym of "肏" which <strong>means</strong> the F-word.</p>

<p>If you are looking for a more speakable word, 倒霉, 该死 or 见鬼 would be more fit.</p>

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I did not put "靠" because it is actually "尻" which is even dirty as I presume. But anyway, they are almost the same to me. :P
Flake
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No, it's not. It's a pure exclamation nowadays.
Kabie
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As I understand, the relation between 靠 and 尻 and the one between 操 and 肏 are the same. They are all 通假字. Both 靠 and 操 are used as 通假 only after computer era.
Flake
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@Flake: But one never says "我尻", instead one says "我靠" or "我操". That is said, 靠 is more like a neutral replacement for 操. It can be used both good or bad way.
Kabie
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If I understood correctly, even though my dictionary says "_to f*ck (vulgar)_" for 靠, it's not actually a swear word but an exclamation?
dr Hannibal Lecter
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@Flake: For the record, 靠 did used as a dirty-less replacement for 尻 first, but 尻 is clearly an uncivilized word for typing on the internet.
Kabie
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@dr Hannibal Lecter: That still depends on the occasion as any word. I think it will be a very bad impression if a non-native speaker speaks that way.
Kabie
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@Kabie: Hm, in that case I might stick with 糟糕! :)
dr Hannibal Lecter
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@drHannibalLecter To me, "糟糕" seems only appear in novels and movies rather than in real life conversations. Meanwhile, the very similar things, "糟了" / "坏了", are used in the situations where one forgets something important or similar. E.g. when I forget my project report in a meeting to managers, I may say "糟了" or "坏了" or "靠" or "操" silently.
Flake
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@dr Hannibal Lecter: Yes, 糟糕 is the word. However it usually is said softly and repeatedly, unlike a big, loud /dæm/ could frame the emotion.
Kabie
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Kabie
<p>I know some people might think 干 is not-so-mild, but I tend to hear it a lot in the sense of </p>

<pre><code>Damn, all the way over there? That's a long way to go
干！那么远的地方？走过去要很久
</code></pre>

<p>or</p>

<pre><code>That chick is hot, damn!
那个正妹好辣，干！
</code></pre>

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Can you add Chinese examples?
rxmnnxfpvg
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Lars Andren
<p>May I suggest checking out the <a href="http://www.chinasmack.com/glossary">ChinaSmack glossary</a>? They have a huge array of colorful language, and there is sure to be something that meets your needs in terms of a curse word there.</p>

<p>Just to add, I always hear Chinese girls saying <strong>讨厌 (taoyan)</strong> when they are annoyed or frustrated, but it's not exactly the most masculine of statements. <strong>烦 (fan)</strong> also seems to be a common expression amongst both genders, although not exactly the meaning you are looking for.</p>

<p>Hope that helps.</p>

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"討厭" is mostly spoken by women. Perhaps "該死" is better.
Mike Manilone
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Or if stubbing your toe, 哎呀，好疼! might be pretty acceptable. 哎呀is one of my personal favorite words, and probably lines up with what you are trying to express pretty well.
Ciaocibai
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However, both 讨厌 and 烦 will almost never be used for cursing situations. :P "讨厌" is like "leave me alone" in girly form.
Flake
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Yes, 哎呀 or simply "啊(ah..)". ;) But, seems not too many people really say "好疼". It is like written words in novels.
Flake
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2011-12-14T20:58:39.463Z
You definitely may suggest! :) It's amazing how some of these expressions on ChinaSmack are _exactly_ the same as those used in my country. I haven't seen this in any other language (English, German, Italian...)
dr Hannibal Lecter
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Maybe it's the people I hang out with; I have to say, I've heard people say 哎呀 more in the South of China than the North.
Ciaocibai
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Oh, and glad you like ChinaSmack - the glossary is pretty amazing. There are actually a couple of books on Amazon you may be interested in all about slang and cursing in Chinese - for example http://www.amazon.com/Dirty-Chinese-Everyday-Slang-Whats/dp/1569757275
Ciaocibai
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@Ciaocibai It may be true, as I come from northern part. 哎呀 seems a little bit girly to me. ;)
Flake
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I kind of like 哎呀, it seems quite universal, can be applied in any situation!
dr Hannibal Lecter
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@Flake I just knew you were going to be a Northerner!
Ciaocibai
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@Ciaocibai ha! Yes I am. Never knew that "哎呀" is commonly used in the South. ;)
Flake
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Ciaocibai
<p>The phrase 他妈的 has been explained in <a href="https://chinese.stackexchange.com/questions/150/how-offensive-is-%E4%BB%96%E5%A6%88%E7%9A%84">this question</a>. Since I'm a no-expletives guy, I don't feel comfortable so close to the f-word. :) I was wondering what would be the correct way to use some of the <em>milder</em> curse words I use daily like "damn", "bloody hell", "sh*t", "arse" etc.</p>

<p>I'm guessing most of these cannot be translated directly, so I guess what I'm asking is: <strong>What would be more-or-less socially acceptable way of cursing in Chinese when you stub your toe?</strong></p>

<culture><politeness><swearing>
How do I say "damn!" or "bloody hell" in Chinese?
# How do I say "damn!" or "bloody hell" in Chinese?

(Asked by: username_0 on 2011-12-14)

The phrase 他妈的 has been explained in [this question](https://chinese.stackexchange.com/questions/150/how-offensive-is-%E4%BB%96%E5%A6%88%E7%9A%84). Since I'm a no-expletives guy, I don't feel comfortable so close to the f-word. :) I was wondering what would be the correct way to use some of the *milder* curse words I use daily like "damn", "bloody hell", "sh\*t", "arse" etc.

I'm guessing most of these cannot be translated directly, so I guess what I'm asking is: **What would be more-or-less socially acceptable way of cursing in Chinese when you stub your toe?**

**Tags:** culture, politeness, swearing


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## 4 answers

### Answer by username_7 on 2011-12-14. Score: 10 | Accepted answer

May I suggest checking out the [ChinaSmack glossary](http://www.chinasmack.com/glossary)? They have a huge array of colorful language, and there is sure to be something that meets your needs in terms of a curse word there.

Just to add, I always hear Chinese girls saying **讨厌 (taoyan)** when they are annoyed or frustrated, but it's not exactly the most masculine of statements. **烦 (fan)** also seems to be a common expression amongst both genders, although not exactly the meaning you are looking for.

Hope that helps.

> **Comments:**
> **username_7**: Or if stubbing your toe, 哎呀，好疼! might be pretty acceptable. 哎呀is one of my personal favorite words, and probably lines up with what you are trying to express pretty well.  
> **username_1**: However, both 讨厌 and 烦 will almost never be used for cursing situations. :P "讨厌" is like "leave me alone" in girly form.  
> **username_1**: Yes, 哎呀 or simply "啊(ah..)". ;) But, seems not too many people really say "好疼". It is like written words in novels.  
> **username_0**: You definitely may suggest! :) It's amazing how some of these expressions on ChinaSmack are _exactly_ the same as those used in my country. I haven't seen this in any other language (English, German, Italian...)  
> **username_7**: Maybe it's the people I hang out with; I have to say, I've heard people say 哎呀 more in the South of China than the North.  
> **username_7**: Oh, and glad you like ChinaSmack - the glossary is pretty amazing. There are actually a couple of books on Amazon you may be interested in all about slang and cursing in Chinese - for example http://www.amazon.com/Dirty-Chinese-Everyday-Slang-Whats/dp/1569757275  
> **username_1**: @username_7 It may be true, as I come from northern part. 哎呀 seems a little bit girly to me. ;)  
> **username_0**: I kind of like 哎呀, it seems quite universal, can be applied in any situation!  
> **username_7**: @username_1 I just knew you were going to be a Northerner!  
> **username_1**: @username_7 ha! Yes I am. Never knew that "哎呀" is commonly used in the South. ;)  
> **username_8**: "討厭" is mostly spoken by women. Perhaps "該死" is better.  

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### Answer by username_1 on 2011-12-14. Score: 7

For cursing:

* "操" is pretty similar to "damn" or "sh\*t" in such situation of cursing. Also similar as they should not be used in very formal situations. However, the meaning of "操" is same as the f word in its verb form.
* "操" should be quite acceptable (or at least ok) in informal scenarios.
* "靠" has very very close meaning as "操" in this situation. Actually, it is some thing more dirty in origin.

Just express it hurts e.g. when get a toe stubbed:

* While in very formal situations, I would say "Ah!(啊!)" (same as "Ouch!") without cursing. Note: the ah sound is really short, something short than 1/2 second perhaps.
* 哎呀 has the similar meaning while in my personal impression, 哎呀 is more used in situation of surprises than got hurt.

> **Comments:**
> **username_0**: Hm, are you sure about 操 being "damn" or "sh*t", my dictionary only says "_to f*ck (vulgar)_"? Doesn't seem like something I'd like to say when my program won't compile!  
> **username_1**: By "pretty similar to" I meant only its usage in the situation of cursing. It has real meaning of f word, but in Chinese, widely used for cursing. 靠 is almost the same too. Yes, you can curse using 操 when your program does not compile. But only when you are really annoyed, e.g. when you are close to a deadline or in bad mood.  
> **username_3**: A bit off-topic, but being Scottish, 哎呀 is great for me - if I stub my toe or whatever, I already automatically shout 'ai ya!' :)  Well, that or something like 'ai ya f**cker!' :D  
> **username_0**: I think I understand what you're saying, we have the same thing in Croatian. However, this is exactly the thing I wanted to avoid, I'd like to get a bit more euphemistic if possible. For example, I like using "blast!", "cor blimey!" and other, more "British" expressions so to speak.  
> **username_3**: @username_0 I've never actually heard anyone British say "cor blimey!" in real life, but I take your point :)  
> **username_0**: @username_3: I assumed as much, but still..mayhap I've watched too many Fawlty Towers or Jeeves and Wooster episodes...and other "nice" shows... :)  
> **username_1**: @username_0 That is really interesting to know. :D  
> **username_2**: @username_1 I'm pretty sure 'kao4' (``靠``) is just a [bowdlerization](http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/bowdlerize) of 'cao4'. Do you have any evidence that it's "more dirty"?  

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### Answer by username_4 on 2011-12-14. Score: 4

"靠" is more like it, in modern oral Chinese.

While "操" is literally the F-word since it's a homonym of "肏" which **means** the F-word.

If you are looking for a more speakable word, 倒霉, 该死 or 见鬼 would be more fit.

> **Comments:**
> **username_1**: I did not put "靠" because it is actually "尻" which is even dirty as I presume. But anyway, they are almost the same to me. :P  
> **username_4**: No, it's not. It's a pure exclamation nowadays.  
> **username_1**: As I understand, the relation between 靠 and 尻 and the one between 操 and 肏 are the same. They are all 通假字. Both 靠 and 操 are used as 通假 only after computer era.  
> **username_4**: @username_1: But one never says "我尻", instead one says "我靠" or "我操". That is said, 靠 is more like a neutral replacement for 操. It can be used both good or bad way.  
> **username_0**: If I understood correctly, even though my dictionary says "_to f*ck (vulgar)_" for 靠, it's not actually a swear word but an exclamation?  
> **username_4**: @username_1: For the record, 靠 did used as a dirty-less replacement for 尻 first, but 尻 is clearly an uncivilized word for typing on the internet.  
> **username_4**: @username_0: That still depends on the occasion as any word. I think it will be a very bad impression if a non-native speaker speaks that way.  
> **username_0**: @username_4: Hm, in that case I might stick with 糟糕! :)  
> **username_1**: @username_0 To me, "糟糕" seems only appear in novels and movies rather than in real life conversations. Meanwhile, the very similar things, "糟了" / "坏了", are used in the situations where one forgets something important or similar. E.g. when I forget my project report in a meeting to managers, I may say "糟了" or "坏了" or "靠" or "操" silently.  
> **username_4**: @username_0: Yes, 糟糕 is the word. However it usually is said softly and repeatedly, unlike a big, loud /dæm/ could frame the emotion.  

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### Answer by username_5 on 2011-12-21. Score: 3

I know some people might think 干 is not-so-mild, but I tend to hear it a lot in the sense of

```
Damn, all the way over there? That's a long way to go
干！那么远的地方？走过去要很久

```

or

```
That chick is hot, damn!
那个正妹好辣，干！

```

> **Comments:**
> **username_6**: Can you add Chinese examples?  

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