<p>I would say '有人緣' is used to describe a person, like '他很有人緣' means 'he always gets along well with others'.</p>
<p>'談得來 'is used to describe a relationship, usually used when 'two people' are getting along well, like '我和他很談得來'.</p>
<p>But you could still use '他和大家都很談得來' 'he gets along well with everybody'.</p>

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<p>人缘儿 means &quot;popularity&quot; (in a casual situation).</p>
<p>他很有人缘/他的人缘很好 means &quot;He is very popular&quot; or even simpler &quot;He has many friends&quot;</p>
<p>Especial, 他很有女人缘 means &quot;He is very popular among the girls&quot; or simpler &quot;He attracts girls&quot;</p>
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<p>谈得来 basically means &quot;easy to build a conversation with&quot;. So it is about two or a very small group of people. Basically means the mentioned people are close friends and often spend time together.</p>
<p>我跟他谈得来 means &quot;He is the one I'd like to talk to a lot.&quot; or simply &quot;he is my close friend.&quot;</p>
<p>几个互相谈得来的朋友 means &quot;some close friends&quot;</p>
<p>There is a quotation in Chinese saying &quot;酒逢知己千杯少，话不投机半句多&quot; means, &quot;If I meet a close friend, I can drink thousands of cups of wine while talking to him, but still not satisfied. If I meet a person that I don't like, I feel like speak half a sentence to him is a waste of time.&quot; So &quot;talk to a lot&quot; = &quot;close&quot;.</p>

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<p>What is the difference between these two words, or are they the same?<br />
人缘儿 and 谈得来
Am I supposed to use them at different times?</p>

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difference between 人缘儿 and 谈得来
# difference between 人缘儿 and 谈得来

(Asked by: username_0 on 2021-01-27)

What is the difference between these two words, or are they the same?  
人缘儿 and 谈得来
Am I supposed to use them at different times?

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### Answer by username_1 on 2021-01-27. Score: 3

I would say '有人緣' is used to describe a person, like '他很有人緣' means 'he always gets along well with others'.

'談得來 'is used to describe a relationship, usually used when 'two people' are getting along well, like '我和他很談得來'.

But you could still use '他和大家都很談得來' 'he gets along well with everybody'.


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### Answer by username_2 on 2021-01-28. Score: 0

人缘儿 means "popularity" (in a casual situation).

他很有人缘/他的人缘很好 means "He is very popular" or even simpler "He has many friends"

Especial, 他很有女人缘 means "He is very popular among the girls" or simpler "He attracts girls"

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谈得来 basically means "easy to build a conversation with". So it is about two or a very small group of people. Basically means the mentioned people are close friends and often spend time together.

我跟他谈得来 means "He is the one I'd like to talk to a lot." or simply "he is my close friend."

几个互相谈得来的朋友 means "some close friends"

There is a quotation in Chinese saying "酒逢知己千杯少，话不投机半句多" means, "If I meet a close friend, I can drink thousands of cups of wine while talking to him, but still not satisfied. If I meet a person that I don't like, I feel like speak half a sentence to him is a waste of time." So "talk to a lot" = "close".


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