<p>Usage of 妳 is very common in Taiwan, but 你 is also okay.</p>

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<p>妳 is used more in Taiwan and Honk Kong where traditional Chinese is the official language while 你 is used generally to indicate both genders in mainland China where simplified Chinese is used. Actually, nowadays in Taiwan and Honk Kong more and more people use 你 for both male and female, unless in a particular situation that a man or boy is writing a love letter to his lover, 妳 would be used to show more uniqueness and respect and so forth. </p>

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I agree. But don't forget language is spoken by people, with time, a non-standard language usage could be standard just because it is spoken by the majority.
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<p>In mainland China, no dictionaries have the Chinese characters 妳, only 你 is valid. 妳 is not acceptable at all.</p>

<p>In Hong Kong and Taiwan, 你 is for male while 妳 is for female.</p>

<p>Notice: 儞 and 嬭 are wrong, no such characters at all.</p>

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http://www.unicode.org/cgi-bin/GetUnihanData.pl?codepoint=511e http://www.unicode.org/cgi-bin/GetUnihanData.pl?codepoint=5b2d They exist :-)
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http://xh.5156edu.com/html3/6432.html 妳 in the 新華字典
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@dda Yes, I have already known that 儞 and 嬭 exist in the Unicode code points, otherwise I am not able to type it out, but they are absolutely not legal Chinese characters. Unicode takes them just for the printing convience for textbooks to print "儞 and 嬭 are illegal characters".
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@dda and I have to say that http://xh.5156edu.com/ is not 新华字典, and this is just illegally using the 新华 trademark, and it contains many Chinese charaters that do not exist in mainland Chinese dictionaries. Official Chinese dictionaries has no internet version at all.
Victor
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Saying "absolutely not legal Chinese characters" is ridiculous, since they exist and are attested even in Mainland dictionaries. I have left my paper 新华字典 in Shenzhen, but the other 2 Mainland dictionaries I have here list 嬭 as a Traditional version of 奶. They put (嬭) in parens, acknowledging their existence and "conversion" to simplified 奶. There's a whole world outside post-1949 Communist China, you know...
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@dda OK, I forgot 嬭 with the pronunciation nǎi. In fact, 奶 is not the simplified Chinese character of 嬭. It is just only a variant writing. Therefore 新华字典 has 奶(*嬭), note the asterisk. According to 凡例 in 新华字典, asterisk stands for variants in writing, rather than the relationship between simplified Chinese characters and traditional Chinese characters. You may also find 过(過), without asterisk, it means that 过 is the simplified Chinese character of 過.
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<p>Not sure if it is a standard character in mainland Mandarin. I never use it in my life and have only seen it in very limited situations.</p>

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I've seen it on some informal websites and (digital) images from HK, but never in text from the mainland. The context of the pictures were talking about boyfriends, so it was probably used to intentionally effeminate the reader (who's most likely to be a girl anyway). Not sure if I chose the right words, but the connotation is along those lines.
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In what situations have you seen it?
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<p>Mainland China doesn't use 妳 anymore. 妳 is mostly used in Hong Kong and Taiwan where they still use Traditional Chinese.</p>

<p>As you mentioned in the question, 妳 is used to address a female person. In mainland China, people use 你 for both males and females.</p>

<p>Note: the right hand side of 你 or 妳 is 尔. In Traditional Chinese, 尔 is written as 爾. However, as far as I know, 你 and 妳 in Traditional Chinese are not written as 儞 not 嬭 but just 你 and 妳. </p>

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@Derek朕會功夫 — don’t use for both; do you mean that 妳 IS used there?
伟思礼
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As far as I know, in traditional Chinese 你 can be used for both male/female (ie. to some extent it is gender neutral). However, 妳 is only used for female (similar to 他 and 她).
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Two more for you: 祢 --> `You (God)`, 您 --> `You (higher)` They are still used in China. In China, we ***don't*** use 你 for both male and female.
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ha, here is the reason for my impression. Another question would be, if 妳 can be replaced by 你 in traditional Chinese?
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<p>When addressing a female, do I have to use 妳 instead of 你?  </p>

<p>How common is the usage of 妳?</p>

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As far as I'm aware these are two characters for the same word with the same pronunciation and tone. Normally we only address people in speech so it wouldn't actually make any difference unless you are writing a note or sign addressing somebody directly. But then again maybe you really mean "to refer to ..." and not "to address ..."?
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Mainland： I remember when I was in middle school, some of my classmates, girls, like to use  妳， which seems cute， but it would be wrong in school test。
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How widespread is the use of 妳?
# How widespread is the use of 妳?

(Asked by: username_0 on 2011-12-15)

When addressing a female, do I have to use 妳 instead of 你?

How common is the usage of 妳?

**Tags:** word-choice

> **Comments:**
> **username_1**: As far as I'm aware these are two characters for the same word with the same pronunciation and tone. Normally we only address people in speech so it wouldn't actually make any difference unless you are writing a note or sign addressing somebody directly. But then again maybe you really mean "to refer to ..." and not "to address ..."?  
> **username_2**: Mainland： I remember when I was in middle school, some of my classmates, girls, like to use  妳， which seems cute， but it would be wrong in school test。  

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## 5 answers

### Answer by username_9 on 2011-12-15. Score: 14 | Accepted answer

Mainland China doesn't use 妳 anymore. 妳 is mostly used in Hong Kong and Taiwan where they still use Traditional Chinese.

As you mentioned in the question, 妳 is used to address a female person. In mainland China, people use 你 for both males and females.

Note: the right hand side of 你 or 妳 is 尔. In Traditional Chinese, 尔 is written as 爾. However, as far as I know, 你 and 妳 in Traditional Chinese are not written as 儞 not 嬭 but just 你 and 妳.

> **Comments:**
> **username_7**: ha, here is the reason for my impression. Another question would be, if 妳 can be replaced by 你 in traditional Chinese?  
> **username_11**: As far as I know, in traditional Chinese 你 can be used for both male/female (ie. to some extent it is gender neutral). However, 妳 is only used for female (similar to 他 and 她).  
> **username_12**: Two more for you: 祢 --> `You (God)`, 您 --> `You (higher)` They are still used in China. In China, we ***don't*** use 你 for both male and female.  
> **username_10**: @username_12 — don’t use for both; do you mean that 妳 IS used there?  

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### Answer by username_3 on 2014-06-04. Score: 5

Usage of 妳 is very common in Taiwan, but 你 is also okay.


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### Answer by username_4 on 2014-05-21. Score: 4

妳 is used more in Taiwan and Honk Kong where traditional Chinese is the official language while 你 is used generally to indicate both genders in mainland China where simplified Chinese is used. Actually, nowadays in Taiwan and Honk Kong more and more people use 你 for both male and female, unless in a particular situation that a man or boy is writing a love letter to his lover, 妳 would be used to show more uniqueness and respect and so forth.

> **Comments:**
> **username_4**: I agree. But don't forget language is spoken by people, with time, a non-standard language usage could be standard just because it is spoken by the majority.  

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### Answer by username_5 on 2014-05-27. Score: 4

In mainland China, no dictionaries have the Chinese characters 妳, only 你 is valid. 妳 is not acceptable at all.

In Hong Kong and Taiwan, 你 is for male while 妳 is for female.

Notice: 儞 and 嬭 are wrong, no such characters at all.

> **Comments:**
> **username_6**: http://www.unicode.org/cgi-bin/GetUnihanData.pl?codepoint=511e http://www.unicode.org/cgi-bin/GetUnihanData.pl?codepoint=5b2d They exist :-)  
> **username_6**: http://xh.5156edu.com/html3/6432.html 妳 in the 新華字典  
> **username_5**: @username_6 Yes, I have already known that 儞 and 嬭 exist in the Unicode code points, otherwise I am not able to type it out, but they are absolutely not legal Chinese characters. Unicode takes them just for the printing convience for textbooks to print "儞 and 嬭 are illegal characters".  
> **username_5**: @username_6 and I have to say that http://xh.5156edu.com/ is not 新华字典, and this is just illegally using the 新华 trademark, and it contains many Chinese charaters that do not exist in mainland Chinese dictionaries. Official Chinese dictionaries has no internet version at all.  
> **username_6**: Saying "absolutely not legal Chinese characters" is ridiculous, since they exist and are attested even in Mainland dictionaries. I have left my paper 新华字典 in Shenzhen, but the other 2 Mainland dictionaries I have here list 嬭 as a Traditional version of 奶. They put (嬭) in parens, acknowledging their existence and "conversion" to simplified 奶. There's a whole world outside post-1949 Communist China, you know...  
> **username_5**: @username_6 OK, I forgot 嬭 with the pronunciation nǎi. In fact, 奶 is not the simplified Chinese character of 嬭. It is just only a variant writing. Therefore 新华字典 has 奶(*嬭), note the asterisk. According to 凡例 in 新华字典, asterisk stands for variants in writing, rather than the relationship between simplified Chinese characters and traditional Chinese characters. You may also find 过(過), without asterisk, it means that 过 is the simplified Chinese character of 過.  

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### Answer by username_7 on 2011-12-15. Score: 1

Not sure if it is a standard character in mainland Mandarin. I never use it in my life and have only seen it in very limited situations.

> **Comments:**
> **username_0**: In what situations have you seen it?  
> **username_8**: I've seen it on some informal websites and (digital) images from HK, but never in text from the mainland. The context of the pictures were talking about boyfriends, so it was probably used to intentionally effeminate the reader (who's most likely to be a girl anyway). Not sure if I chose the right words, but the connotation is along those lines.  

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