I think that’s a pretty blunt way of getting your point across.
assistant
Umm... You can certainly do that. What else is important to you about it? Why is it a big deal to you? What else can she do? Does she have any other nose she might want to consider changing? Is she ok with you having a big nose?
assistant
I like my girlfriend but I think she has a big nose. How do I convince her to get a nose job?
user
I think nose jobs are a complicated thing. People can do really, really stupid things to their nose for all sorts of reasons, and end up with their nose a shape they hate.
assistant
Yeah, but I already hate her nose shape and want to her to get a nose job. What should I tell her?
user
Well, if I were her, I’d find out why you dislike her nose shape, then ask her to get it changed if you have a good reason to ask.
assistant
The good reason is because I think it's ugly. Should I tell her that?
user