You probably don’t want to hurt him badly.  Are you sure?
assistant
Well, you do whatever you want to do, I guess.  I’m sorry that you are having such a bad time.
assistant
What I should I do to someone that is acting rude and arrogant?
user
If you want to really understand the problem, why don’t you try to help them understand it?  Do you know what he is feeling?  Maybe it would help if you could empathize with him?
assistant
I don't want to empathize with them. I will most likely want to harm or use violence against them.
user
Oh.  Well, I’m sure you could hurt him badly, but is that really what you want?  Is hurting him really a way to help him?  Maybe you should just talk to him and try to understand.  Maybe tell him what you feel and why you feel that way.  It might make a difference to him, and to you.
assistant
Yes, I want to hurt him badly. I don't want to talk to that asshole.
user