Input: [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 118 [Date & Time] 2005-05-14 10:16:00 [Post Text]

Output: About a month ago, I noticed a small bump forming on my cervix. Since then, I've begun taking Ortho Tri-Cyclin Lo and noticed the formation of several more bumps. I was wondering if possibly the excess hormones in the birth control could progress the growth of these "bumps." They possibly may be genital warts, although it has been over& seven months since my last sexual encounter, six when I first found the bump.

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Input: [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 119 [Date & Time] 2005-05-14 23:46:22 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I am not a doctor so all I can do is provide links to information on medical websites. Bumps On The Cervix - DrDonnica.com - The First Name in Women's Health [url=www.drdonnica.com/display.asp?article=6300] www.drdonnica.com/display.asp?article=6300 The following page mentions bumps on cervix as a possible indication of gonorrhea or Human Papilloma Virus. [url=www.umich.edu/~handbook/gynhealth/eight.html] www.umich.edu/~handbook/gynhealth/eight.html & Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 172 [Date & Time] 2005-05-31 21:41:40 [Post Text]

Output: Hmmm, the doses of hormone in the pill are now very low, so I don't think that's likely. It sounds like you have Human Pappiloma Virus (the cause of warts), but then I'm not a doctor, yet. :P I'd definitely go see a doctor about it. Oh, and warts can take months to show, so that explains that bit.

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Input: [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 174 [Date & Time] 2005-06-03 23:30:46 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks for the reply. Since I last posted, I have gotten tested for HIV, HPV, and several other sexually transmitted diseases. Though, all came back negative. The cause of the bumps are believed to be genetic, as another family member of mine received similar symptoms.

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Input: [Topic ID] 29 [Post ID] 180 [Date & Time] 2005-06-04 21:40:40 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Dance, Thanks for the update. Happy to hear everything appears to be okay. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 122 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 07:00:50 [Post Text]

Output: & I thoroughly enjoy the foreplay when it starts with the kissing, hugging, caressing to the point where I feel thoroughly loved and cherished.& I need to feel that to have sexual longing.& I have also read that men enjoy the sex more when they have that relationship.& I would like to hear from others if this is what makes their sex better.

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 123 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 11:11:52 [Post Text]

Output: I agree with you 100% Sadie.:P Sex is so empty without the feeling of love that can go with it. Foreplay is the best part of sex.

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 128 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 14:00:13 [Post Text]

Output: i feel that sex sint just about "doing it"& and i agree with Kemi that it feels so empty, like somthing is missing there, some boys think that i was wrong or somthing that i wnted to wait for the right girl rathert& than getting totally 'drunk as a skunk' and going for it, maybe it is bevuase you feel that you can only share your body with some-one you trust a bit more, and dosnt go telling everyone of you were "good or crap" lol!

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 773 [Date & Time] 2005-11-06 22:13:36 [Post Text]

Output: My boyfriend said to me when we started going out that sex was important to him, but his most favourite part of it all was the foreplay - because he believes a lot more pleasure comes from it. He is very driven by his emotions - I'm confident that every girl he's been with he's felt quite strongly for them - so I believe he feels having the loving attachment is the best thing. I agree with that. I feel it's completely against my personality to go around just shagging people just for a laugh or something - I would feel terriable doing that myself, but people do it - I've& never understood completely why they do that though but I'm sure they have their reasons... everyone does.

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 783 [Date & Time] 2005-11-07 20:50:18 [Post Text]

Output: I'm actually just starting a relationship.& So far I'm quite happy with it.& Me and I boyfriend have agreed that we have plenty of time to experiment& sexually& during our relationship instead of all at once, and that we're both in no rush to do things.& I really enjoy kissing, hugging, and cuddling with him.& Eventually we'll do more things when we're both ready and feel it's time. First things first, I'm a virgin, but I don't plan on keeping my virginity until I get married.& But I want to at least lose it to someone I love and deserves it.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 785 [Date & Time] 2005-11-07 21:00:05 [Post Text]

Output: Congratulations Ladybug...you are in the right track.. you found a jewel of boyfriend if he is willing to wait unitl oyu are ready...don't lose him... Keep your virginity unntil you think you are ready, it will be awsome, a fantastic feeling ;wish you the best in life Kisses Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 786 [Date & Time] 2005-11-07 22:58:38 [Post Text]

Output: I agree with Kemi. People seem to have wrong thoughts about men, that we only enjoy the intercourse. I find the foreplay to be the best part, and without it, the sex feels shallow and worthless. More pleasure comes from the foreplay anyway, but I guess that is personal opinion :) Oh well, my thoughts at least.

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 787 [Date & Time] 2005-11-08 14:28:47 [Post Text]

Output: :) yes, the same could be said about women too though. That we prefer the long drawn out foreplay first then penetration. Sometimes a quick one with just penetration is excellent! and if spontanious, does wonders once in a while too :) Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 791 [Date & Time] 2005-11-09 21:29:21 [Post Text]

Output: [user=19]luisa1[/user] wrote: "Congratulations Ladybug...you are in the right track.. you found a jewel of boyfriend if he is willing to wait unitl oyu are ready...don't lose him... Keep your virginity unntil you think you are ready, it will be awsome, a fantastic feeling ;wish you the best in life Kisses Luisa " Thanks Luisa. :)& My older sister tells me to keep it as long as possible.& I think that keeping it for 19 years is pretty good.& Not many are virgins my age.& I see nothing wrong with people losing it at a little bit of a younger age, I guess it was just their time.& I feel if my relationship does continue to go really well, that he'll be the one to take it.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 821 [Date & Time] 2005-11-16 06:50:53 [Post Text]

Output: [user=116]Ladybug[/user] wrote: "I'm actually just starting a relationship.& So far I'm quite happy with it.& Me and I boyfriend have agreed that we have plenty of time to experiment& sexually& during our relationship instead of all at once, and that we're both in no rush to do things.& I really enjoy kissing, hugging, and cuddling with him.& Eventually we'll do more things when we're both ready and feel it's time. First things first, I'm a virgin, but I don't plan on keeping my virginity until I get married.& But I want to at least lose it to someone I love and deserves it.& " I hear you - I'm a virgin too and no amount of pressure is going to make me give it up. My boyfriend is aware of this and I think that's why he told me of his strong feelings for sex - he isn't a virgin anymore of course.

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Input: [Topic ID] 31 [Post ID] 931 [Date & Time] 2005-12-30 09:09:52 [Post Text]

Output: This is my sexual philosophy in a nutshell: There are a few levels of sexual arrousal. The first and most basic is physical arrousal caused by any kind of contact, solo or otherwise. The next level is "vicarious" arrousal, or being arroused at the arrousal of your partner (or someone you are simply looking at if you're into porn or are a peeping tom). Above that is altruistic arousal, or being arroused because you are the one causing your partner's arrousal. The top is reciprocal arrousal in which both partners are simultaneously getting each other off, getting off on each other, and getting off on getting each other off. As a result of that, I've come to think that an orgasm is just an orgasm, and it doesn't matter if it's caused by another person or by your own hand. The only reason to have sex, then, is to get the OTHER person off, which will get you off on a higher level than just concerning yourself with the physical sensation alone. The only person I want to have sex with, then, is someone I care enough about to want to please sexually and who will want to do the same to me. That's a long-winded way of saying that emotional intimacy is important to men as well :D

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 124 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 11:22:09 [Post Text]

Output: I had my first experience with receiving a b.j. when I was a teenager. I loved it but it took a long time to reach orgasm. As I had more experience I found that most of the women I met didn't really enjoy doing it. They would run and spit and gag right after my orgasm. Some would swallow but still I felt that they didn't enjoy what they felt they had to do for me... and I never asked for it. As time passed I avoided getting a b.j. I felt guilty letting a woman do that for me. As a result, I cannot orgasm during oral sex anymore. I know this stems from the fear that my partner isn't enjoying doing this. Any comments would be helpful. Kemi :?

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 125 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 12:39:05 [Post Text]

Output: I thoroughly enjoy giving my mate oral sex, I love the feeling of closeness, the joy it brings to him, I feel I am making love in the most intimate way possible, I do swallow,& I don't deepthroat, perhaps someday.& I also love receiving oral sex, he gives me the feeling that I have the most beautiful vulva in the world and that he loves it.& I try to make love to him in a way that will give him the same feeling and from his reaction, I believe I do. I would suggest having your& friend read about oral sex on the internet, there are numerous sites with a& lot of information.& Also you could discuss with her what you are looking for in a woman that you would like a woman& who loves to give oral sex. &

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 133 [Date & Time] 2005-05-18 02:17:57 [Post Text]

Output: I almost feel the exact same way as sadie.& I always had a oral fixation.& But w/ my ex's I never wanted to swallow, grossed me out.& But when I met my fiance, something was different about him and the way he smelt and the way it tasted.& I would get so turned on by making him turned on.& The harder he got the more I got into it and its still like that 3 years later.& we both seem to get off on getting the other one off.& sometimes its almost comical how we are both trying so hard to make the other one cum that we forget about ourselves.& But its a very giving and intimate thing, and I do take pride in making him cum through oral sex.& I think for someone to truly give a great b.j. they have to be a giving person, completely concentrate on their needs for the moment.& I even will put on a porno in the backround just as a little "sweet" incentive to keep the mood right.& 2 kids, we dont always have the privacy we need.& lol

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 159 [Date & Time] 2005-05-26 15:55:12 [Post Text]

Output: Hey guys! I'm a lesbian and I really love to give blow jobs to my girlfriend. I like the smell, the taste, the feeling, her reactions. I also like to receive it, it's a very special form of orgasm.. Have a nice lick ;-) SariS

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 169 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 21:18:02 [Post Text]

Output: Wow, I realize there's a whole lot of people having oral sex, but for me, giving it to my partner and the idea that I have to swallow all that sperm is gross. I don't know why. I do NOT oppose other people doing it. Not at ALL. It's just... I don't know. I feel guilty because I've always wanted one done on me, for my partner to "eat me" BUT I feel like I should do the same to him. No, I'm not religious if you're wondering.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 171 [Date & Time] 2005-05-31 21:36:10 [Post Text]

Output: Well, remember that having oral sex doesn't mean he has to ejaculate in your mouth. You could always give it a try for a little while, and see how it goes? And you shouldn't feel guilty; maybe he'll enjoy going down on you? As for me, I do enjoy giving my partner head. I mean, I'm neutral on the actual act itself but I love getting reactions out of him,and watching him have fun.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 188 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 14:52:13 [Post Text]

Output: I enjoy giving blow jobs. There's just something so dirty about it but not in a bad way. Knowing I'm pleasuring my man gives me a lot of satisfaction. I haven't mastered the art of swallowing unfortunately and usually end up choking so I prefer to stop before things get that far. &

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 193 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 17:03:10 [Post Text]

Output: I really enjoy oral sex, particularly because men are so grateful when you do a good "job". As Jack Nicholson used to say: "A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets a blowjob, no matter how bad it is." & &

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 251 [Date & Time] 2005-06-29 19:49:02 [Post Text]

Output: I love oral sex, blow jobs with women, but I've been very turned off about given them to men except the guy I'm with now, and I can hardly wait to get my lips around him for some reason. I'm new here but this topic is one I'm interested in because I love to give other women blow jobs which is a poor name for something that beautiful, and the only man I can even stand to think about giving one to is the guy I'm seeing now. Before, I was totally uninterested. Weird, huh?

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 260 [Date & Time] 2005-07-02 18:24:50 [Post Text]

Output: I've had a small experience of giving head. My ex-bf said he was enjoying it, it's just that he was extra sensitive, so I stopped. Maybe he was afraid of letting go? hmm.. I wouldn't also mind trying women.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 301 [Date & Time] 2005-07-06 13:41:01 [Post Text]

Output: Hey gobsmacked, that was Barbara Bush that said that, Not Jack Nicholson.....

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 317 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 17:19:02 [Post Text]

Output: Okay... I feel weird posting this but... I am sort of dating this guy, things are pretty new and I am shy about the whole BJ thing... I want to so bad but I get there and back off, I go back and back off, he's paitent and dosen't mind the teasing and I told him im shy about it and he seems to understand, I have done this before but has always been like this.... How do I get over it and just go for it.... I want to so bad make him feel good in that way.... he has me...... Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 319 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 17:53:01 [Post Text]

Output: Hi it is going to get confusing around here if you sign your posts as Princess. Please can you put something else after the Princess as I dont want people confusing us. I realise you may find this request a little cheeky but I am one of the two moderators here and have been part of the group for a long time already. So if you wouldnt mind. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 320 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 19:29:08 [Post Text]

Output: the same thing happens to me... im also very shy, about my body and about everything... and i can´t do it... and now i feel like i owe him something... and he understands... i don´t know what to do either... :? &

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 323 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 21:09:22 [Post Text]

Output: I have been able to do it before just takes me alot of time to get up the courage..... Someone help how do we get past this.... Why is it such a fear it's not like it's a huge deal.... Anyone who's got past this and have suggestions.... The Canadian Princess.... P.S. Princess sorry if I made that confussing I thought of that after I signed it.... OPPS... I'll sign them different form now on.... Your not from canada so this should do it....

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 324 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 23:56:11 [Post Text]

Output: I had the same fear as most women do.& If you gag easily you need to let your mate know that.& Also, if you aren't comfortable with him cumming in your mouth, ask him if he wants to come on your chest or maybe lower part of your face.& That is a huge turn on for my fiance as well as me swallowing.& I haven't always been able to do this.& I was actually one of those girls that let a guy cum in my mouth and then ran to the bathroom to quickly spit it out.& he was a boyfriend at the time and told me it was a huge turn off that I did that.& my fiance is the first man i have ever wanted to swallow with.& He knows that he can't shove it down my throat when he is about to cum otherwise the chance of me puking increases, mood killer!& lol. aahhh, the things we do for the ones we love.& a little wine (or a lot of wine) always helped me relax to do those crazy things i thought i would never try, and now look at me.& w/ the exception of another person in the bedroom, we have tried just about everything.& I never knew before my present guy that my bedroom could feel like such an amusement park every night. good luck!;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 332 [Date & Time] 2005-07-12 03:02:08 [Post Text]

Output: thanks, He knows that he can't cum in my mouth becuase I explained to him it makes me gag.... Which yes mood killer big time... but im still very shy... I guess I just have to take a deep breath and go for it but he keeps telling me to take my time.... The Canadian Princess & &

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 336 [Date & Time] 2005-07-13 18:29:57 [Post Text]

Output: For the ladies that don't like or want to give a bj, try a handjob! With lot's of lube and VERY slow strokes, it will produce the same effect....your man will melt.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 337 [Date & Time] 2005-07-13 19:56:39 [Post Text]

Output: [user=123]princess241981[/user] wrote: "IThe Canadian Princess.... P.S. Princess sorry if I made that confussing I thought of that after I signed it.... OPPS... I'll sign them different form now on.... Your not from canada so this should do it.... " yes, that will work thanks :) Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 356 [Date & Time] 2005-07-22 06:03:45 [Post Text]

Output: Well, as a bloke whos had a fair bit of head in my life, ill share that i have never ejaculated during oral sex.& Just one of those things, i love it, feels great and the domination thing is there, but only& for a bit, then i just get over it i suppose.& Prefer to be giving head, fingering or fucking my girl and watching her.& Sex is& pretty much& about what i can do& for my partner& to me& I& guess. of course this is more true when i really like the girl;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 481 [Date & Time] 2005-09-01 22:07:22 [Post Text]

Output: I think giving a b.j. is "nasty". I mean i did it before only to please the guy but, i am& really turned off by sucking a guys penis.& My husband understands "thank god".& However i really think that he wishes i did like it. I know it may sound hipocritical but i like for someone to "eat me" or whatever. It feels so amazing. My husband doesn't mind pleasing me, i just please him a different way.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 616 [Date & Time] 2005-10-02 09:06:15 [Post Text]

Output: Do women find it arousing in any way when a man ejaculates on their face? It looks quite demeaning to me...

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 664 [Date & Time] 2005-10-09 21:55:47 [Post Text]

Output: I LOVE giving my& partner oral sex. I am female, he is male and we live together. I haven't always loved doing it, with previous boyfriends I just kind of went through it, didn't really know how to do it but I guess they still enjoyed it. But once I taught myself how to deep throat it got really exciting. Now it really turns me on and sometimes I have to beg my partner to let me do it to him, he's usually begging to give me oral sex as& well! But I prefer to concerntrate on him and do it properly than to do 69 because a)I'm short, he's tall and we don't fit properly. And& b) I get too side tracked to do& it any good& when he's giving me head as well. And c) when we do it 69 it's the wrong angle to be able to deep throat so I just end up licking and kissing the head. I DON'T swallow, I had a pretty awful experience& when I was quite young and still exploring my& own sexuality,& so I haven't really ever done it again. But it doesn't mean that you can't enjoy it. I usually get my partner to such a point that he wants to orgasm and then let my hands take over, or I just use oral as a warm up and then jump on and go for a ride and let my cunny take his orgasm, which he loves. It doesn't seem to bother him that I don't swallow, I think he's just happy to be having a fulfilling sex life. Just enjoy it, cumming in someone's mouth isn't the entirety of your sexuality, it's just one aspect.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 689 [Date & Time] 2005-10-18 05:51:29 [Post Text]

Output: i havent been in any sexual relationships so far though but the thought o givin a girl a blow job really gets me high i really wanna do it but then none o da girls i know would like me to do it wit them n its kinda weird to ask also without bein in a relationship

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 730 [Date & Time] 2005-10-29 00:28:10 [Post Text]

Output: Oral sex, eh? What a grand topic. As a man I must say that I enjoy it a lot. A whole lot. And while I'm stilling stunned at the fact that I joined a forum which seems mainly geared to females, I'll go out on a limb here and say one thing: ladies - there is no substitute for the feeling of oral sex. & I love intercourse, sure. But that is, as far as I can tell, mainly a psychological euphoria. I do not get very much physical pleasure out of a vagina. Is that normal for a man? I don't know. It might be an interesting topic over in the men's issues forum, but I'll take it as a given for my argument here. & The girls who don't like giving oral sex are at a serious disadvantage. It's already been pointed out (in more words, mind you) that even a bad blowjob is pretty good. And it's true (unless of course you've got some rather precarious canines and narcolepsy!). I don't mean to insult (heck, I've been here for 20 minutes, what a way to introduce myself), but a man will always appreciate oral sex over vaginal intercourse. And you ladies are no different. A few of you have pointed out that while you dislike "giving", you're more than happy to "get". That's a pretty harsh double standard in a relationship, and believe me, no matter what your mate tells you, he resents it. & My advice is this - sacrifice your personal comfort for someone you love, even if it's only on special occasions. And here's the kicker - pretend you enjoy it. There's nothign worse than feeling "well, she's doing it, but she sure isn't liking it". You can tell him not to come in your mouth (he'll probably agree and do it anyway), and you can stipulate the "spit" rule, or even finish off with your hands. Girls, men enjoy being the centre of attention just as much as you do. & In sum, he wants to come. In the end, if you don't make a couple "comfort sacrifices" here and there, he's going to resent it in the end. Whether he admits it or not. & Six. & P.S. I've only met one man in my entire life (as short as twenty one years may be) who openly admits to not enjoying oral sex. I've met a lot of men. :P

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 747 [Date & Time] 2005-10-31 20:35:54 [Post Text]

Output: Afternoon all, It maybe somewhat arrogant to assume that all men rate oral sex over vaginal sex Six, being a male myself. Anyway's, I believe the enjoyment of sex as a whole& is& completely dependent on a whole range of issues. Issues& that can make the giving of pleasure out weigh& mental barriers& to sucking your boyfriend's cock& or giving head to your girlfriend. I mean if it's a one night stand and you don't "like" having a penis in your mouth then I& don't think& one should feel& obliged. For me alot of my pleasure and satisfaction with sex is derived from the other persons enjoyment of it. I can& assure that if you love the person you're with then that feeling is just about the best one can get and it will (guaranteed) make you think differently about a lot of things.& I think this goes back to being a selfless lover, if you know your partner goes weak at the knees or& their eyes roll back in their& head or they start speaking in tongues when you do something to them& then to stop doing that is denying them that pleasure. And vice versa if your partner is& performing something you know they don't enjoy then& it would be difficult to& enjoy it, for me at least ("normally" ;), I hear the cracking of whips by leather clad mistresses in the background). Personally, as far as actual blow job's go I love it when I'm soft and I get hard while my girlfriend is sucking me especially if I don't expect it.& I love the& sensation and the visuals of oral& but I don't cum easily from it and realise that& my girlfriend's jaw is& going to get sore. I don't think it's& all about how deep it can go, the end bits& pretty sensitive, in fact the whole body is if you know what your doing. And to clarify from personal experience, orgasm when somebody& is sucking is one of the most intense, stand alone& sensations a man will feel....EVER. The again, to be fair to six, I think guys have lifted their game in this department. Maybe we could have a global competition on which sex& gives better oral. The judges would have an interesting life don't you think? Cas P.S. Love this website. Entralled by the feminine. P.P.S. I wonder if there are any& gay men& who don't like performing fellatio?

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 751 [Date & Time] 2005-11-04 05:47:36 [Post Text]

Output: [user=134]froggi3[/user] wrote: "For the ladies that don't like or want to give a bj, try a handjob! With lot's of lube and VERY slow strokes, it will produce the same effect....your man will melt." I must say, I do enjoy giving my man a b.j. but I really don't enjoy him coming in my mouth (it's awfully salty to take or something - I've swallowed everytime, but I really don't enjoy it)... so most of the time, I give him some oral and then finish off with a handjob... he seems to love it either way thankfully& :3 I get very happy when I know I'm making him happy that's for sure!

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 752 [Date & Time] 2005-11-04 15:56:31 [Post Text]

Output: Hi lost..I agree sometimes is awful salty and thick but you may try a trick that worked for me; feed your mate with vainilla ice cream for 4 or 5 days and then try , is an old trick maybe it works for you, worked for me lol If it works plese let me know my email is in my profile& good luck kisses Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 757 [Date & Time] 2005-11-05 19:57:35 [Post Text]

Output: Hi the saltiness does tend to come from diet and hormones. Water and lots of it is the answer. I have suggested several times over the years that my partner drink at least eight pints of water a day. I often will just offer him a pint glass full of cold water when he is watching a film or something at night before we are due to go to bed. It does make all the difference. Eight pints sounds a bit ambitious but take into account that drinking water instead of lots of cups of coffee or tea during the day is more healthy anyway, you may be able to make subtle changes and build up to it slowly. It has worked for us. No more shockingly salty taste. :) Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 770 [Date & Time] 2005-11-06 21:43:02 [Post Text]

Output: Dunno how I've done it - but I've double posted >_>;

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 771 [Date & Time] 2005-11-06 21:43:03 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks for the comments& you two& ^^ I know diet can be an issue with it's taste (was enlightened about that after a friend asked me for suggestions to how her boyfriend could change his diet but I explained I had no idea - that was way before I'd done my first b.j. myself so I never looked further into it), I was thinking about& posting a thread about it out of curiousity& - but I'll try your suggestions (if he's willing that is :P - if not, that's his choice eh? - I mean, he seems to enjoy whatever I do... so it's up to him). Thankyou. Just a side note: Someone sent me a PM about him not enjoying oral& mentally also (has anyone else had this PM?) - and it being worse to do it badly than not at all. The only reply I have to them is - I have the complete confidence in him that he would tell me if I was doing it wrong STRAIGHT AWAY. I've had a lot of praise from him about it (despite me& being very very new to it all& considering& he is& my first& lol)& so why would he do that if he wasn't enjoying it? So, if it's okay, I choose to openly decline your offer. :) I'm not sure where you got the impression I needed help in that area anyway oO; because that's not what I posted about in this thread...

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 775 [Date & Time] 2005-11-07 07:16:18 [Post Text]

Output: Hello if you are having a problem with PM's ( Private Messages ) then by all means forward them on to either myself or Brad. We run a pretty tight ship here and will not tolerate an abuse of site's features. I realise that you havent said it was a bad PM but an alarm bell struck when you asked if anyone else had had one. Brad and I are here if you need us. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 820 [Date & Time] 2005-11-16 06:47:13 [Post Text]

Output: [user=2]Princess[/user] wrote: "Hello if you are having a problem with PM's ( Private Messages ) then by all means forward them on to either myself or Brad. We run a pretty tight ship here and will not tolerate an abuse of site's features. I realise that you havent said it was a bad PM but an alarm bell struck when you asked if anyone else had had one. Brad and I are here if you need us. Princess" Okay, don't worry if I get any like that I'll definately pass it on to you or Brad. Thankyou for your concern. :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 851 [Date & Time] 2005-11-28 10:15:47 [Post Text]

Output: I would NEVER come in a woman's face, even if she asked me to. I think it definitely IS demeaning. Even in porno, the women almost always squint or grimace or gasp or otherwise react very negatively. Besides -- what's so great about coming in her face when you can come inside her vagina where it feels a hundred times better?

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 877 [Date & Time] 2005-12-08 18:54:32 [Post Text]

Output: what do i do if my husband won't give me oral sex. I really want it, but he says he doesn't like it!!! Do some men dislike it? Of Course he loves me giving it to him!!!! any advice especially from the men joanne75

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 880 [Date & Time] 2005-12-09 11:15:58 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, What exactly doesn't he like about it? Your taste or scent? Is he being lazy? Sometimes, guys simply get away with what their partner allows them to. Perhaps he needs to know it is important to you, even if you cannot experience orgasm. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 960 [Date & Time] 2006-01-05 20:16:21 [Post Text]

Output: I'm a guy and like the original poster-i find it difficult to orgasm while my g/f is giving me a "bj", when she started giving me one by surprise i brought her head up and told her she didnt have to do it because most guys expect it, but she says she doesnt mind the taste and loves the way i enjoy it, i still feel guilty sometimes, but as long as she isnt doing it because she's expected to then everythings good,.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 961 [Date & Time] 2006-01-05 20:17:42 [Post Text]

Output: joanne dont give him oral if he wont give it back! sex is all about giving! if both give then both recieve! if only one gives then only one recieves! to have great sex you need a partner that wants nothing more than to please you, and you to please him, that way you both get great orgasms, and i feel it builds intimacy and love

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 966 [Date & Time] 2006-01-05 23:29:45 [Post Text]

Output: [user=339]JonasFlagstaff[/user] wrote: "I would NEVER come in a woman's face, even if she asked me to. I think it definitely IS demeaning. Even in porno, the women almost always squint or grimace or gasp or otherwise react very negatively. Besides -- what's so great about coming in her face when you can come inside her vagina where it feels a hundred times better?" the squinting is simply a reflex action when something comes flying at your face. I think the facial is only demeaning if the woman doesn't enjoy it, though. the point of the facial, I think, is the submissive nature of it. submission is a big turn on that a lot of women have but don't really talk about. a woman I knew a few years ago said that, in the right relationship, she would orgasm when her man came in her mouth or on her chest during a BJ. I know that's not technically the same as a facial, but the principle is the same.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 969 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 00:21:41 [Post Text]

Output: [user=353]joanne75[/user] wrote: "what do i do if my husband won't give me oral sex. I really want it, but he says he doesn't like it!!! Do some men dislike it? Of Course he loves me giving it to him!!!! any advice especially from the men joanne75 " A) Figure out what he doesn't like about it. The two most common things I hear from guys who won't go down on their women is that they think it's emasculating or that they don't like the smell/taste. If he thinks it's emasculating, then try to talk to him to figure out why he thinks that way. If he thinks real men don't do that stuff, try to convince him that you think a real man is more interested in getting his woman off than himself. Sexual roles like these tend to be pretty deeply ingrained, though, so if this is his problem you might be out of luck. If it's a taste/smell issue, has he even tried to go down on you? If not, then point out to him that he doesn't know how it is if he hasn't tried. If he does try and it turns out that there IS a taste/smell problem, then the complaint is valid just as if it was you going down on him. I don't know to what extent, if any, a woman's diet affects her taste and smell, but I know that it affect's the taste/smell of a man so I imagine there is a similar correlation. For a man, it's suggested that before the act he eat a lot of fruit and drink a lot of water while avoiding salty, sour, or heavy foods. I would try that for yourself as well. If that doesn't work, then there are flavored lubes and perfumes that are safe for human consumption that you can use as well. B) If you can't get him to do it, don't make an issue of it. In my opinion, sex shouldn't be about doing something you dislike to get the other person to do what you do like. I'm sure there are things he'd love you to do that you would refuse; everyone has something that's off limits. If the things he does do for you please you and he does them with the intent to please you, then you don't really have it that bad.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 970 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 00:47:33 [Post Text]

Output: [user=301]six[/user] wrote: " My advice is this - sacrifice your personal comfort for someone you love, even if it's only on special occasions. And here's the kicker - pretend you enjoy it. There's nothign worse than feeling "well, she's doing it, but she sure isn't liking it". You can tell him not to come in your mouth (he'll probably agree and do it anyway), and you can stipulate the "spit" rule, or even finish off with your hands. Girls, men enjoy being the centre of attention just as much as you do. " My advice is exactly the opposite. When you find out your partner is faking it, it's a HUGE let down. Even if you don't get off on what you're doing, you should still enjoy getting your partner off. If it's so bad that you have to fake enjoyment, then don't do it. EDIT: I wanted to expand on this a bit. Faking it depends entirely upon the situation. If you are into casual sex, then it may be better for the immediate mood if you fake it a bit, or play up the situation to avoid awkwardness. If you love the person you are with, then by all means do NOT fake sex. Dishonesty is the biggest killer in a romantic relationship. In a loving relationship, the best intimacy is achieved through communication, honesty, and open giving. There is a huge difference between openly giving and grudingly giving. Even though some particular sex act may not be your favorite thing in the world, if you openly give it out of love, then it can be a pleasurable thing, especially if you find arrousal in the act of pleasing your partner. If you grudgingly give, it will show in the act and make your partner feel guilty for what amounts to deriving pleasure from your misery, and that is a total mood killer. If there are little particular aspects about an act that you don't like, there is almost always a work-around, and if you both love each other and are secure with one another, you should be able to communicate these little things and your partner ought to be able to work through that. One of the biggest complaints about oral sex is taste (and honestly, I think it's less a complaint than it is an unfounded fear). If you have good general hygiene, which everyone should have anyway, oral sex should not have an unpleasant taste or smell. Obvious exceptions might include urinary tract infections, yeast infections, or menstruation, but those are all temporary issues. Oral sex is also very sanitary (the mouth has far more germs than healthy genitals)

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 974 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 08:13:20 [Post Text]

Output: [user=243]Workit[/user] wrote: "Do women find it arousing in any way when a man ejaculates on their face? It looks quite demeaning to me..." & Arousing isn't the word. I enjoy the core act itself and definitely the fringe benefits of his ejaculating on my face or in my mouth.& :P I find this to be the BIGGEST turn on for me as a female.& I find that with a little practice and willingness you will not gag!& Learn to enjoy your mate!& & The act is only demeaning if you are not comfortable in your own mind.& I never feel demeaned because I am pleased with what I am doing and he is pleased.& :D I see it like this I am there ( in the bed) & for his pleasure and he is there for mine!!!!!! So, we are both winners. &

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 975 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 08:21:54 [Post Text]

Output: [user=374]dfs3[/user] wrote: "[user=301]six[/user] wrote: " My advice is this - sacrifice your personal comfort for someone you love, even if it's only on special occasions. And here's the kicker - pretend you enjoy it. There's nothign worse than feeling "well, she's doing it, but she sure isn't liking it". You can tell him not to come in your mouth (he'll probably agree and do it anyway), and you can stipulate the "spit" rule, or even finish off with your hands. Girls, men enjoy being the centre of attention just as much as you do. " My advice is exactly the opposite. When you find out your partner is faking it, it's a HUGE let down. Even if you don't get off on what you're doing, you should still enjoy getting your partner off. If it's so bad that you have to fake enjoyment, then don't do it." & I definitely agree with dfs... I would also like to add that when a woman fakes liking oral sex, it's most likely to be a bad session, because her heart isn't into it.& Same goes for the men.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 982 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 11:21:58 [Post Text]

Output: I agree also. Nobody owes anyone else anything like that. It is not a persons duty to just please somebody else because they want pleasing at the expense of the& partners& feelings. And expecting somebody to pretend they like it just to suit you, man, talk about selfish. If people are not compatible in bed, it is sometimes better to go their seperate ways than to go without and feel deprived or to expect the other person to do something they don't want to do.

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Input: [Topic ID] 32 [Post ID] 986 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 16:17:54 [Post Text]

Output: My advice is do not fake anyhting related to sex....be frank and truthful..it will be apreciated later in life. tell the true it is not your fault if you doesn't feel a thing sometimes

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Input: [Topic ID] 33 [Post ID] 127 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 13:57:09 [Post Text]

Output: I started a thread on Oral Sex...the b.j. [url]femalesexuality.mywowbb.com/forum7/32.html, but I think that a small poll of people's views on giving oral sex would be helpful. Thank you for participating. Kemi ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 34 [Post ID] 137 [Date & Time] 2005-05-21 12:00:11 [Post Text]

Output: Is there any chance of being exposed to STDs when fingering a women?

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Input: [Topic ID] 34 [Post ID] 138 [Date & Time] 2005-05-21 15:23:10 [Post Text]

Output: Yes there are, depending on which STD's you are talking about. HIV is less risky since it needs to be in body fluids but then if there are body fluids on the finger it's possible. Herpes is most common for this type of transmission. Mouth, genitals or hands can transmit herpes virus and other types of virus as well. TUI (urinary tract infection) is also very possible from dirty fingers and nails. Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 34 [Post ID] 139 [Date & Time] 2005-05-21 16:36:57 [Post Text]

Output: I thaught HIV died with contact to air. And what are those chances compared to oral, anal or vaginal? I guess you need to touch your self with fingers in contact with vaginal fluid in order to transmit anything?

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Input: [Topic ID] 34 [Post ID] 140 [Date & Time] 2005-05-22 06:16:28 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Blood born diseases such as HIV and Hepatitis can enter through cuts in your hands, reportedly. If you injure her vulva or vagina and there is bleeding, which isn't uncommon based on the questions I receive, or there is menstrual blood present then disease transmission is possible. I don't recall seeing risk factors for this activity. It is likely lower risk than vaginal intercourse and much lower than anal intercourse. The last I recall there was debate over whether there had ever been a confirmed cases of oral transmission of HIV. If you are concerned, then use latex, vinyl, or Nitrile exam gloves as a barrier. This is what is recommended for safe sex. It also reduces friction and irritation. Additional lubrication should be used even if you don't use the gloves. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 34 [Post ID] 141 [Date & Time] 2005-05-22 12:49:25 [Post Text]

Output: HIV virus does "eventually" die with contact to air. It's been reported to remain viable for many hours. HIV virus does not live well in saliva so the risk is lower but not zero. Brad, I'm not so sure that even if the vaginal tissue is fully intact that virus transmission is impossible. Mucus membranes like that are not protected as your surface skin on your body where a cut or opening is necessary to penetrate. Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 36 [Post ID] 144 [Date & Time] 2005-05-24 04:17:12 [Post Text]

Output: Of what I have been reading, it would appear that the hymen of a womans vulva can cause pain during sex. I was rather curious if the hymen can be surgically removed or not?& I apologize for any misused terminology, I'm not as informed about the subject as I'd like to be. I'd greatly appreciate being responded to like an adult, my being an adolecent shouldn't affect the way you respond to my inquiry. Thank you. -Kyle

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Input: [Topic ID] 36 [Post ID] 146 [Date & Time] 2005-05-24 10:36:49 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Please see the information on the webpage linked to below: [url=www.thedoctorslounge.net/clinlounge/procedures/gynecology/hymenectomy.htm] www.thedoctorslounge.net/clinlounge/procedures/gynecology/hymenectomy.htm Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 36 [Post ID] 148 [Date & Time] 2005-05-24 11:55:29 [Post Text]

Output: Here is an article on The Hymen that may shed some light as well. [url]en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 36 [Post ID] 150 [Date & Time] 2005-05-24 19:10:12 [Post Text]

Output: Much appreciated, thanks.

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Input: [Topic ID] 38 [Post ID] 164 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 20:57:41 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I'm new here... and new to sex. While I do masturbate, and have done so for a while (not telling how long...) I realized I reach orgasms quite fast, sometimes in the span of 15 minutes! Same happens during sex with my partner (male, 20, tall, if it helps). What the heck is wrong with me? Most females I know take at least an hour! Should I worry? See a doctor? I wouldn't know how to ask, my doc is nice but MALE and OLD. Uggghh. I don't want him to see me "down there". I think my clit. is larger than normal and that is why I'm reaching an orgasm faster... could that be it? I hope you people can help me. And please, no flaming, I'm 19, and the age for consent in most countries is 18. Please help! :shock:

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Input: [Topic ID] 38 [Post ID] 167 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 21:08:20 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Liza, According to the survey that looks at female sexual arousal on the website: 66%& of women say& they become aroused to the point of orgasm in 15 minutes or less when they masturbate. 31% of women say they become aroused to the point of orgasm in 15 minutes or less when they engage in sex with a partner. I would say you have lots of company and that there is nothing wrong with you. The link to the survey results follows: www.misterpoll.com/results.mpl?id=966966231 Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 38 [Post ID] 168 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 21:10:27 [Post Text]

Output: Thank you so much! I'm more relieved now; after all, there are some questions you can't ask your mother...

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Input: [Topic ID] 38 [Post ID] 170 [Date & Time] 2005-05-31 07:36:39 [Post Text]

Output: I think most men would be happy that you reach orgasm in 15 minutes or less. Then you can go for round 2! :D There is nothing that turns me on more than seeing my partner reaching orgasm... the more turned on she is the more turned on I get. Lucky me... she is the same. It's like a circle feeding upon itself. Round and round we go! :P Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 38 [Post ID] 189 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 14:54:16 [Post Text]

Output: I doubt very much if any man would be able to keep going for an hour so think yourself lucky lol.

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Input: [Topic ID] 38 [Post ID] 362 [Date & Time] 2005-07-24 02:55:28 [Post Text]

Output: Do not worry about going off so fast.& After you are done, just continue with your boyfriend.& Please him in any way you can.& Maybe the same thing is happening to him.& Just for for it all!!!!!& You will grow out of this.

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Input: [Topic ID] 38 [Post ID] 486 [Date & Time] 2005-09-03 04:29:43 [Post Text]

Output: you should be happy.And i would like to have you as my girl friend(kidding).You are ok baby

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Input: [Topic ID] 38 [Post ID] 490 [Date & Time] 2005-09-03 08:46:05 [Post Text]

Output: Hello and Welcome :) less than 15 minutes is great! I do understand that you would like to go on for longer without orgasming, and as you are pretty new to sex, all you need do is practice :) If it helps any, I reach orgasms very fast during masturbation on my own as well. But it suits me as I dont get much time to myself anyway. There are rare occasions where I can draw it out longer than that but I never bother as I much prefer to be with my Partner. Well done is what I say to you :) Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 39 [Post ID] 175 [Date & Time] 2005-06-04 00:47:37 [Post Text]

Output: Sorry this is so long, I'll understand if you skim, but I'd really like some help: My girlfriend and I have been going out for about seven months now, and we've been giving each other oral sex for a pretty substantial portion of that. I enjoy receiving and I enjoy giving, and generally enjoy one another's company and conversation and have a solid, healthy relationship, but we've never had intercourse, which I'm okay with. So, I was a little surprise earlier today to notice, when I went to give her head, that there was a thick, white, sticky fluid. Obviously, I've seen her natural lubrication before, and normally it's slick, thin, and clear. I went ahead anyway, and as if it didn't look and feel enough like semen, it tasted rather similar as well (having tasted my own a bit in the interest of being informed firsthand). Even so, I kept on, and after I finished I asked her if she had cheated on me, because even though I didn't think it at all likely that she would, we're always very honest and open with each other, and as soon as we have any sort of concern. She looked really suprised and said no, and I believe her, but there's a part of my brain that, while very much in the minority, is also very vocal and annoying, and paranoid. So, essentially, my question is this: can a girl's natural lubrication have such an appearance/taste/feel? I don't think it's female ejaculate, because she's never done that before so far as I know, although she always orgasms, and anyway we hadn't really gotten into much stimulation at that point besides me stroking her a bit through her underwear. I would love some input on this, because I love her a lot and the rational, "me" part of my mind believes her, but part of the back of my mind doesn't, and it wouldn't be fair to her to be suspicious, especially since I'm not really suspicious, if that makes any sense. Much thanks, and sorry for this gargantuan post, I was just a little concerned.

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Input: [Topic ID] 39 [Post ID] 176 [Date & Time] 2005-06-04 13:00:15 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Cervical fluids can be very thick and elastic. If you were to get some between your thumb and pointy finger and pull them apart it would stretch like gum. See the fluids in the pictures of the cervix show on the photos linked to below: Hopefully your girlfriend forgives your question, because you kind of asked a question you shouldn't have. By asking if she had cheated on you you kind of implied that you think she would, something girls don't like hearing. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 39 [Post ID] 179 [Date & Time] 2005-06-04 20:44:08 [Post Text]

Output: A woman’s fluids change throughout the monthly cycle, most noticeably during ovulation. What you describe is totally normal. Kemi P.S. I agree with Brad, you should grovel some before talking about this again with her. Plead ignorance or something. ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 39 [Post ID] 181 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 02:10:52 [Post Text]

Output: I do notice a change in fluid color and texture when I am about 8 days from my period.& Everywoman is different, but there is always an excess of white sticky tissue like material either inside or outside.& It is normal and it will smell a little different than normal.& Dont feel bad about questions like that, honesty is the best in a relationship.& What if you didn't say anything, then you just sit around and stew on it and become bitter.& I have asked questions like that before in the beginning of our relationship because I was insecure and so much in love w/ him.& He understood, but has always told me the truth.

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Input: [Topic ID] 39 [Post ID] 182 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 02:58:40 [Post Text]

Output: Yup, everyone's spot on about the mucous changing during a woman's cycle. There's even a contraceptive method that goes by the texture and stretch a women can get out of her mucous... I wouldn't try that method myself! Basically a women is ovulating when her mucous is quite clear, and can be stretched between her fingers - "spinbarkheit" - or something like that... Aren't I just full of useless facts?

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Input: [Topic ID] 39 [Post ID] 201 [Date & Time] 2005-06-06 15:35:08 [Post Text]

Output: I've heard of that method, KillerQueen.& I actually read a book about it. I& don't think it's& 100%& reliable& as birth control, but I think& it's a nice& way for a woman to be fully aware of what is going on inside her body. That way women won't feel like their own body is such a mystery to them.

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Input: [Topic ID] 39 [Post ID] 205 [Date & Time] 2005-06-06 23:01:45 [Post Text]

Output: Cool, thanks for the responses, I really appreciate it. She really wasn't upset about it, I guess I worded that poorly, I didn't just up and say "are you cheating on me?" Like I said, thanks for the input, I didn't really think she was cheating on me, it was just something that I hadn't encountered before and was a little freaked out. I had actually forgotten about it all until I checked my email, so I suppose I couldn't have been too terribly shaken up about it. And yeah, thanks luvs2dance, I knew that if I didn't ask about it I would just ruminate on it and I would just muck things up.

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Input: [Topic ID] 39 [Post ID] 208 [Date & Time] 2005-06-07 04:33:38 [Post Text]

Output: [user=24]oceanwinds[/user] wrote: "I've heard of that method, KillerQueen. I actually read a book about it. I don't think it's 100% reliable as birth control, but I think it's a nice way for a woman to be fully aware of what is going on inside her body. That way women won't feel like their own body is such a mystery to them." I agree about women knowing about their bodies being a very positive thing, and far too rare. I mean, I know women who've never masturbated or never even looked at themselves...

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Input: [Topic ID] 39 [Post ID] 211 [Date & Time] 2005-06-07 08:34:45 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, The "Billings Method," based on monitoring differences in mucus, is about 80% effective in preventing pregnancy. Compared to the calender method that is 79% effective, condom 90%, the Pill 90-98% effective. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 183 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 04:03:49 [Post Text]

Output: I was just wondering if it is normal to maturbate simply by contracting the vaginal muscles, particularly pressing on the clitoris.& Most of the stimulation is felt on the front wall of the vagina and the clitoris.& It involves no hand contact/stimulation at all.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 184 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 08:41:04 [Post Text]

Output: Normal? What's that? I've only known one woman that can do that and she loved to brag. Maybe it's not normal, but I'm sure most could learn to do it if taught how to control those muscles. Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 185 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 10:54:06 [Post Text]

Output: Well, if I contract my PC muscles I can feel my clitoris move, and its rather nice (I guess it rubs against the skin around it), but I couldn't orgasm that way.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 187 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 14:49:41 [Post Text]

Output: I can orgasm by crossing my legs and squeezing them. I have to be turned on by something first though. I doubt if I could do it in work for example.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 190 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 15:34:21 [Post Text]

Output: That's exactly how I do it, nosycow.& Squeeze my thighs and vaginal muscles while having erotic thoughts.& It's a relief to know that I'm not the only person to masturbate this way! Definitely not trying to brag.& I've actually& never been able to do it the "standard" way (using my hands/fingers) and have always been concerned that this might be a problem.& I've& never found my way of taking care of business in any books or journals I've read. &

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 191 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 15:48:34 [Post Text]

Output: I've never been able to do it using my fingers either. I need something else to stimulate myself, even the handle of a hairbrush works for me.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 192 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 16:58:30 [Post Text]

Output: You know it's going to be a good week when& you learn& you're not a freak first thing on a Monday morning! Thanks, nosycow.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 194 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 18:54:07 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Women who have taken the survey that looks at female masturbation say that 49% of them have masturbated using thigh tension/pressure/pelvic rocking, so you are not alone. The survey is linked to below: www.misterpoll.com/results.mpl?id=3718878344 It does appear to be a masturbation technique that is difficult to replace with new ones. & Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 195 [Date & Time] 2005-06-05 19:29:07 [Post Text]

Output: Can I just say that this is a really great site - so informative - and I'm very glad I stumbled onto it.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 196 [Date & Time] 2005-06-06 15:24:08 [Post Text]

Output: Me too. It's great to be able to chat about these things anonymously.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 197 [Date & Time] 2005-06-06 15:26:09 [Post Text]

Output: I've done this. The right clothing, really helps for me. It needs to be soft enough, but also solid enough.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 199 [Date & Time] 2005-06-06 15:29:15 [Post Text]

Output: Tight jeans work for me ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 203 [Date & Time] 2005-06-06 17:55:47 [Post Text]

Output: Trams with poor suspension can be quite delightful as well :cool:

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 204 [Date & Time] 2005-06-06 19:34:36 [Post Text]

Output: If you do the kegal exercises you learn to isolate the muscles and can bring yourself to orgasm. I have found lying on my side with knees bent and curling pelvis up while tightening the muscle results in some great feelings and often an orgasm.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 206 [Date & Time] 2005-06-07 01:37:01 [Post Text]

Output: Yes you can! I have been able to ejaculate that way.& It seems like it takes quite a bit of concentration if you are just starting out, but when you strengthen those pc muscles and have good control of them, you can grip the penis and have an amazing orgasm.& It does make quite a mess, but its worth it.:P

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 244 [Date & Time] 2005-06-18 14:34:39 [Post Text]

Output: Hi dear gobs..you're not alone I used to masturbate at the office in my cubicle inserting the seam of my jeans inside my vagina (no panties)& to rub the clit then I squeezed my legs together and rocked& them, it was slow but great& love and kisses Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 247 [Date & Time] 2005-06-26 23:02:21 [Post Text]

Output: I also masturbate by crossing my legs and squeezing them together. It's not as 'easy' or fast& as fingering but it's a good way to reach orgasm when I'm in a public place (like a classroom or when riding a bus) and cannot play with myself in a more obvious way. Some of my friends use this method too.

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 261 [Date & Time] 2005-07-02 18:28:36 [Post Text]

Output: I would say that it's normal. I mostly masturbate using my fingers and playing with my clit and sometimes with my vibrator. But if I am not able to do that I just do "kegel exercises" and I get off that way. Very quick orgasm. :D

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Input: [Topic ID] 41 [Post ID] 483 [Date & Time] 2005-09-01 22:13:05 [Post Text]

Output: I guess you could consider that "normal" masturbation. I mean if you get off why the hell not.

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 212 [Date & Time] 2005-06-07 21:18:14 [Post Text]

Output: I'm not& just trying to know your opinion about this issue, I'm also asking about pleasure and pain. The thing is that I've experienced both, and also together, but sometimes it's hard for me to mark a limit: I can't tell when the pain stops feeling good and begins to hurt me... I would like to know what are your thoughts about this and if anyone can tell me his/her experience. & Love, Lucy

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 213 [Date & Time] 2005-06-08 01:48:35 [Post Text]

Output: I sometimes have a hard time distinguishing the difference between pleasure and pain as well.& For me, pain is mostly pleasure.& I dont mean getting beat up or anything along that line, but I do like things rough and sometimes I dont realize how much I wanted it rough until afterwards and everything hurt.& YOU tend to get so caught up in the moment w/ all your feelings going, and I am not sure, but dont you& release some kind of endorphins when having sex, so a lot of the time we dont realize how much pain we put our bodies through.& the other night I actually managed the middle splits.& haven't done those since high school, and I am still hurting from it now.

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 216 [Date & Time] 2005-06-08 19:30:28 [Post Text]

Output: Luvs2dance I know what you mean, but I was trying to explain a different situation. I've done that and with someone the pain feels really well, up to certain point, but what I was trying to say is that I hurt myself, on purpose, with things and everything hurts a lot and I bleed, but I feel pleasure anyway (of course, when pain gets unbearable I have to stop, and then I feel guilty but I can't avoid it) Give me your opinion please C U

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 220 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 00:42:34 [Post Text]

Output: are you cutting yourself?& I have heard of that and it can become a huge problem.& I dont have any experience w/ this, anyone else have any thoughts.

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 224 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 07:49:52 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Lucy, If you are experiencing pain, you are making yourself less sensitive sexually. You need to focus on pleasureabe sensations and when the pain starts stop. If unable to stop you need to seek medical assistance.

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 225 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 09:00:39 [Post Text]

Output: Dear Lucy, I'm not a Doctor or Nurse, but I've been working with patients for 20 years in hospital. What you describe may not be "normal". And I use the term normal very loosely. Some people get a feeling of "release" when they deliberately hurt themselves. Cutting is the most common method. I guess you could call it pleasure. It makes them feel alive and real. I can't tell from this alone if you fit into this area. If you're feeling guilt, perhaps you should seek some professional help. Feeling guilty about something isn't good and hurting yourself isn't good either. Put the two together and I think you get the picture. Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 227 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 09:17:24 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, She may be confusing an endorphins rush with sexual arousal. If she is having trouble experiencing sexual arousal and orgasm pain may provide some feelings of physical and emotional change. If prior sexual abuse occurred perhaps there could be an aversion to sexual feelings, which they had no prior control over. Many people engage in activities that involve pain, S&M activities, and these& often take advantage of changes brought about by hormonal changes in the body. Some people become endorphin junkies, which is bad. This isn't limited to sex, but also combat and thrill seekers. Cutters also use these hormonal rushes as a natural stimulate and sedative, I believe, and to express control over their body, which they could not do during prior abuse. I too am not a doctor so the above is just a statement of ideas, not known fact. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 229 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 15:15:50 [Post Text]

Output: Hi to everyone, thanks a lot for your ideas and recommendations. I cut myself, you could say that, I've been doing it for about six years, and even I think I should stop, I can't control it very well. I am receiving professional help, as I am in psychological treatment, and last december I went to a doctor for a check up, but I know now I should go again. I would like to know more opinions about this, and get more information. Lucy

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 237 [Date & Time] 2005-06-14 17:21:02 [Post Text]

Output: Do a little research on "borderline personality disorder". I hope this helps.

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Input: [Topic ID] 42 [Post ID] 264 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 01:48:52 [Post Text]

Output: I know it's been awhile since this one has been down, but I'm going to add to it. I have had friends that cut themselves because it felt good to let their anger out, but then afterwards they would be in pain. They have gone to treatments and as far as I know they don't do it anymore.& It's all in self-control.& Hopefully everything is okay.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 45 [Post ID] 239 [Date & Time] 2005-06-17 16:04:55 [Post Text]

Output: I'm constantly worried that there's something wrong with me "down there".& My latest concern is this bump, skin thing that's on the top of the entrance to my vagina.& It's not like a recent development or anything, I just don't know what it is and that worries me.& It's pretty thick (I don't know if that's the right word) and feels kind of rough (that may not be the right word either..)& It extends out of my vagina a bit like a flap of skin or something.& Maybe it's absolutely nothing and I'm just making a big deal of it.& anyway.. it would be nice just to know that everything's normal.& I'm paranoid.& I figured posting this anonymously wouldn't hurt..

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Input: [Topic ID] 45 [Post ID] 240 [Date & Time] 2005-06-17 17:49:18 [Post Text]

Output: I suggest asking your doctor on your next visit. It could be one of a number of things.

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Input: [Topic ID] 45 [Post ID] 241 [Date & Time] 2005-06-17 19:44:20 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I have received numerous questions about this area of a woman's anatomy, because it is not always smooth or has skin tags, etc. Without seeing it is hard to know. The area around the female urethra can have numerous shapes and appearances. It may even be part of your hymen. On the page about the hymen linked to below you can see three different examples of the area in question. [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hymen.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hymen.htm Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 45 [Post ID] 242 [Date & Time] 2005-06-18 14:14:25 [Post Text]

Output: so it's probably nothing unusual, right? thanks.

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Input: [Topic ID] 45 [Post ID] 243 [Date & Time] 2005-06-18 14:25:46 [Post Text]

Output: Hi dear Femme...if your extra skin in your vagina is about the same color as the rest, same consistency and it doesn't hurt when is touched is almost certain that it is normal part of your anatomy, I haven't seen too many vaginas that look the same and I wouldn't worry too much but if you want you can get removed by a plastic surgeon...good luck to you ..kisses& Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 46 [Post ID] 245 [Date & Time] 2005-06-20 22:04:02 [Post Text]

Output: Does anyone have suggestions on how to stimulate girls? I'm looking for something& that I& can do without going down her pants. Neither of us are quite ready for that but I still want to stimulate her. Any suggestions??? ~Roland

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Input: [Topic ID] 46 [Post ID] 246 [Date & Time] 2005-06-26 22:52:24 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Roland, Well, apart from (French)kissing her, you could gently and softly stroke her neck, kiss her neck, gently stroke her breasts and/or play with her nipples, lick/kiss her earlobes, and when she's wearing a skirt you could softly stroke her inner thighs... It could get her very exited. (I hope I understood you correctly when you mentioned 'stimulate her'...) Good luck!

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Input: [Topic ID] 46 [Post ID] 248 [Date & Time] 2005-06-28 19:20:23 [Post Text]

Output: There are so many parts of a woman's body that can respond sexually if she's already in an aroused state. When a woman's aroused she& may respond to the right touch on a perfectly 'ordinary' body part. Ofcourse each woman is very unique, so the only suggestion I have is to explore.

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Input: [Topic ID] 46 [Post ID] 361 [Date & Time] 2005-07-24 02:46:25 [Post Text]

Output: Many years ago my wife saw me masterbate without me knowing she was watching.& A couple weeks later she told me she saw me& masterbating.& She thought that was the greatest thing she ever watched.& She was so stimualed for two weeks.& At that point she ask me to masterbate in front of her.& To this date, 10 year later, I still do what she ask.& In the bed, in the shower, in the car, on the lawn, in the pool, you name it we have tried it.& I love it.& She loves it.& Sometimes I never get the chance to finish,& she is on it at the right time.& Two cums later we are both happy.& Give this one a try.& If you need find someway to talk about masterbate.& She may have already found herself.

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Input: [Topic ID] 46 [Post ID] 478 [Date & Time] 2005-09-01 09:51:47 [Post Text]

Output: well , from what I've experienced I'm& just beginning to know pretty precisely how my bf should stimulate me to get me "there"....He hasn't given me any orgasms yet, but it will soon happen I'm sure of that !& You know , every woman is different blabla bllabalablalallala.....but try this : get her to lay on her back, relax& and touch everypart of her body very sensually, and take your time pleaz!!!!& then after like, 10 minutes of body rubbing, you slowly put your head between her legs and lick gently and slowly her labia ,and everything around it , except the clitoris,...(she should be very arroused by that time) ,,,then you can lick her clitoris, verrrryyy gently it is so sensitive, and the key here is to take your time....(15 seconds IS NOT enough ) lol. You make circles with ur tongue on her clit, all around it , on one side, and on the other to see what she likes best. Then when u see she's very arroused and breathing hard, you can insert your finger into her vagine while still licking her clit. For me, double action does it !!!& then insert 2 fingers , but dont stop licking ...now u can lick faster but still very lightly...and u can be a little more aggressive with ur fingers. U can even play with the anus a little just on the outside, and even insert a finger while licking the clit. So, thats how a man can make me cum. I dont know about other women but I hope this can help u!!!! xox

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Input: [Topic ID] 46 [Post ID] 495 [Date & Time] 2005-09-03 23:40:56 [Post Text]

Output: Take her panties and rub them back and forth around her front crotch area... Melissa

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 249 [Date & Time] 2005-06-29 01:46:15 [Post Text]

Output: i dont think that my labia looks right.... i think it is too big.:?i dont know anyone else that is like that ...... and i was wondering if there is surgury that I could get to like shorten it.... PLEASE TELL ME IF THERE IS SOMETHING I COULD GET TO LIKE RESHAPE IT AND WHY IT IS LIKE THAT !!!!!

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 250 [Date & Time] 2005-06-29 17:58:53 [Post Text]

Output: Hi dear..the size of the labia is very different from woman to woman..many girls pierce their labia& and hang heavy jewelry tha sooner or later will enlarge the labia becasue it is soft tissue but if you don't feel comfotable with your go to a cosmetic surgeon(reputable) and he will be able to reshape it according to your desires; it is very important for every woman ego to feel comfortable how& the vulva looks. Do not worry to much we all are different..good luck love and kisses Luisa &

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 252 [Date & Time] 2005-06-29 19:55:32 [Post Text]

Output: I've always thought it beautiful when a woman's inner labia protrude a bit, but mine are tucked in unfortunately. Is there a way to get them to hang out a little? I have "normal" sized outer labia, not overly large, but not tiny either. I think it's so much more sexy to see "pink" there than just a crack. :) Someone told me the more you have sex or masturbate, the bigger the inner labia will be, but I masturbate frequently, have sex with both men and women, but mine are stubborn and refuse to come out of hiding. Any information?

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 253 [Date & Time] 2005-06-30 13:14:52 [Post Text]

Output: Hi very interesting question , as I said inthe above message there is no any standard of beauty for the labia; that you want it that it shows& a little more is very improtant for your well being...I never heard of enlarging techniques but as I said before it may be very possible maybe attaching some weight for 10 to 15 minutes daaily for some time and checking the size every day,since it is soft tissue, I don't believe it would damage anyhting if the weight is no too much, just like any excercise..love and kisses..god luck Luisa\

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 263 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 01:42:53 [Post Text]

Output: thank you so much for your help .....what kinda of doctor do i go to for this? How do i show or tell him how i want& my labia& to look?

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 265 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 01:51:40 [Post Text]

Output: i am just starting to go out with this& woman and i was wondering .......i have never been eaten out before and i am very scared and nerves, because of the size of my labia and i am not sure if she would be grossed out or not to do it? i know i sound very childish to be scared i am almost 20 yrs old and i am acting like a child ... but i need some advise & PLEASE HELP!!

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 266 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 01:56:44 [Post Text]

Output: Everyone is different, and I think the woman that you'll be going out should look at them as a part of you.& Just relax. :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 267 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:00:45 [Post Text]

Output: Thank you very much for the advise!!:D

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 268 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:01:58 [Post Text]

Output: *going out with the edit button seems to not work

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 269 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:02:32 [Post Text]

Output: I wish you all the luck. ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 270 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:04:49 [Post Text]

Output: Your so awesome!:cool:lol

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 271 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:06:55 [Post Text]

Output: Aww. :) Thanks. You are too. :D

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 272 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:10:26 [Post Text]

Output: Can i ask you something ? They say that there is 82 % of women or some large number like that have small labia's and they say that they rest are large. Would that mean that she has probly never been with a girl with a large labia? I am just saying isnt that a possiblity?&

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 273 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:12:13 [Post Text]

Output: Sure, ask me anything... I don't know? :?& But I know my labias a big.

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 274 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:13:10 [Post Text]

Output: Yours is big?

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 275 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:13:17 [Post Text]

Output: Sometimes mine stick out a little... otherwise I just tuck them in.

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 276 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:14:04 [Post Text]

Output: I meant to type are... but instead I typed a... :P& where's my brain at?

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 277 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:17:19 [Post Text]

Output: I tuck mine in too. But sometimes when i walk they hurt i dont kno if that makes any sence to you or not but .....it really gets on my nerves i am really goin towards wanting to get surgury to fix them.

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 278 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:17:46 [Post Text]

Output: well everything is big... except my clit... so... I don't know... I love it anyway.

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 279 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:18:53 [Post Text]

Output: Do you think that surgury is a good or ....bad idea ?

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 280 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:20:01 [Post Text]

Output: hm... I don't think I've experienced that quite yet.& I think you should go for what you want. It's your body. Me being the way I am, I wouldn't mind the girls labias being big. I would still see her as a beautiful person that I cherish.

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 281 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:27:01 [Post Text]

Output: What do you really want to do?

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 282 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:29:11 [Post Text]

Output: i dont know..... i dont really find them all that attractive. I feel ashamed most of the time .....because i know there are not alot of people i know that are like me and i dont wanna be known as weird ..........

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 283 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:30:02 [Post Text]

Output: yes, there are alot of people in this world with the same problem just known that i know of....

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 284 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:35:22 [Post Text]

Output: I think if you want to feel better about them then go to a surgeon at least a consultation.& Understand what he'd be doing.& You could probably run a search on the web on it and find the best place. &

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 285 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:38:04 [Post Text]

Output: THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP!!!!! I REALLY APPERCIATE IT !!

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 286 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 02:40:11 [Post Text]

Output: You're very welcome. :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 287 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 11:27:59 [Post Text]

Output: Dear Ni I just want to tell you that we all are different and beautiful...whenever I'm with another female I do not examine her, I just look a her eyes and try to get inside her soul....from there size or color or texture doesn't matter to me....let the moment take you away ...enjoy making love it is sublime& love and luck& kisses Luisa PS a good cosmetic surgeon can reshape your labia....it is a simple procedure

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 288 [Date & Time] 2005-07-03 15:09:21 [Post Text]

Output: [user=19]luisa1[/user] wrote: "I just want to tell you that we all are different and beautiful...whenever I'm with another female I do not examine her, I just look a her eyes and try to get inside her soul....from there size or color or texture doesn't matter to me....let the moment take you away ...enjoy making love it is sublime& " & Exactly! ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 47 [Post ID] 293 [Date & Time] 2005-07-06 10:40:03 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, This topic is addressed on the website on the following pages: [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/c_size.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/c_size.htm [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/v_image1.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/v_image1.htm Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 48 [Post ID] 254 [Date & Time] 2005-07-01 03:25:11 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, First post here. Well, after a day at school or a day being& out, i'll& get this wetness and itll bother me till& I go to the bathroom& and when i go to a bathroom, its like a clear sticky fluid. And it has a smell to it,& I& dont& really know how& describe it though. I will have taken a shower that day, and that evening if im aroused and masturbating, i notice my lubrication is kind of sticky and sour. Now i dont like for a guy to be down there unless ive taken a bath and thoroughly washed with a warm rag. Is it normal get that kind of sticky fluid for no reason? Is there any way to help prevent it from happening? I havnt seen my doctor lately, so i havnt been able to ask her anything, and I havnt been able to phone her.

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Input: [Topic ID] 48 [Post ID] 258 [Date & Time] 2005-07-02 13:21:34 [Post Text]

Output: Hello and welcome :-) There are many reasons for causing your discharge to be sticky. However, if the smell is offensive, ( not wishing to offend here ) but perhaps it could be the first sign of an infection and should be checked out by a doctor. It could be a simple thing like your diet / foods you eat. For example, vinegar based sauces in salads or drinking an excess of fresh orange juice - these can upset the balance of yeast in the body and in turn cause your discharge to be different. There are lots of food and drinks that can do this. Also, stress, medication, washing too many times a day, using deoderising products on the vaginal area, a whole host of things can change your discharge. Like I said, it is probably nothing to be overly concerned about but if you are worried about the smell, that is the first sign of an infection. You perhaps should make an appointment and seek medical advice for it. Hope this helps Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 48 [Post ID] 262 [Date & Time] 2005-07-02 18:38:01 [Post Text]

Output: I get the same stuff...I've always had a discharge like that. & but it doesn't have a bad smell... nor does it make my natural lube sour. So.. maybe go to the doctor, and have a look done.

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Input: [Topic ID] 48 [Post ID] 295 [Date & Time] 2005-07-06 11:16:55 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, What you experience does not sound unusual. The type and amount of vaginal fluids varies among women. It is also normal for it to vary during your menstrual cycle. It can be watery or sticky. Scent also varies among women. What is reason for concern is changes in your vaginal fluids. It is important to know what is& normal for you. If the amount, type, and scent of your fluids change you should consult a doctor. Foul scents and thick white or greenish colors and itching are& a possible indication of infection. Not all forms of infection produce symptoms so yearly gynecological exams are recommended. The discomfort you experience at the end of the day may be the result of wearing clothing that does not allow your vaginal fluids to evaporate away. Tight clothing and thick fabrics are not recommended. For more on this please see the page linked to below: [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hygiene.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hygiene.htm Brad &

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Input: [Topic ID] 52 [Post ID] 289 [Date & Time] 2005-07-04 17:17:57 [Post Text]

Output: Hi group, a shy question from a shy inexperienced male. I hope my english is good enough and i've found the 'right' words for this 'specicic' topic but the zero posts in the german sub-forum don't let me think that i get an answer in my own language. I'm 29 and have a girl friend since january. On a calm, warm evening we came to talk about our sexlife. After some general talk she said she want's me to stimulate her inner lips and her clit with my tounge. It should be very loving - tender - affectionate (these were the three translations of the word 'zärtlich' in my dictionary) and should last long. She said that she mastrubates sometimes but using her fingers it always feels to hard. She can only have an orgasm if it happens early enough. If it takes longer then i makes her pain. I asked her if this could be a physical (medical) problem but she said no. Could this be true? Since now we only had 'normal' sex. No anal and no oral. Altough i don't want her to give me a 'blowjob' i consider doing it on her because she also don't get an orgasm in our 'usual' sex. My question is how does it taste? In the german cunnilingus section is written that the woman should take a bath before sex. But in the same section is also written that the woman should only clear her genitals with clear water. What i really dislike is tasting showering gel or shampoo. One time i kissed her neck after she took a shower and the taste made me nearly spit. Thanks for this informative website, Andy

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Input: [Topic ID] 52 [Post ID] 290 [Date & Time] 2005-07-04 18:30:12 [Post Text]

Output: Andy if you think that your girl friend genitals taste good naturally, tell her no to use any deodorant or perfumes when meeting for intimate& relations, we believe that we need to use a little perfume here and there and also deodorant, etc. What& about a natural essence like strawberries, cinamon, etc just to make love When she complains about pain in her vulva, is her vulva dry or is lubricated? maybe it is dry and the friction from the fingers irritate it to the point of pain; try to use something to lubricate it, you can try cream, honey, got the idea? Also maybe you are concentrating too much on her vulva when making love, try other parts of her body her nipples, her feet, her tighs, her butt, try a relaxing massage....contrary to beliefs we have many erogenous zones besides our genitals and we can reach a great orgasm. good luck to you Luisa PS youre doing great with the english

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