Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 814 [Date & Time] 2005-11-14 16:47:44 [Post Text]

Output: Hi how did your appointment go today? I was thinking about you earlier on today. In answer to your last question about how men would feel if dating someone like you - I think it is too broad a question to ask for many men. Initially, I asked someone today how they would feel if they were with someone who could not be penetrated and he said that as long as they loved each other and he could stimulate her and be intimate with her in another way than he would not feel like he was missing anything especially. Then he flippantly said that as long as her mouth still worked things would work out well :) He was just being honest and I am guessing that a lot of men may have the same reaction to that or may suggest trying anal sex instead as vaginal or may be happy to wait for you to have treatment at the clinic if the emotional bond between you was strong enough. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 815 [Date & Time] 2005-11-14 16:59:29 [Post Text]

Output: Hello, the appointment is on Thursday, lol. I'll let you know how it went. Thanks for trying to get some info for me about what men would think. There are some women in the vag groups who feel guilty not being able to have ic and sexual encounters consist of them giving their partners blow jobs and all the rest whilst he does nothing in return because he doesn't feel he owe's her. Man, if any bloke did that to me, he'd be out. As for anal sex, no way. I have IBS and have problems regarding that part of my anatomy as well. In fact, muscle spasms occassionally happen when I'm trying to go to the loo as well and can make it a little awkward trying to pass a stool. I just wouldn't want to do it anyway but my IBS and other problems would make it highly uncomfortable. It can feel very tight just trying to pass a stool, never mind taking a penis. Another woman recently posted in one of the vag groups and I feel so sorry for her. She's 29 and her husband who is only 24 has recently left her because of her vag after 6 yrs of marriage even though& the condition& has improved with treatment and dilators. He has also told all his mates and family about her problem saying she's frigid and can't satisfy him in bed and has already started dating and having sex with other women. She also says that everyone, including his mum, says that he's the victim in all of this because he can't have his sex and everyone seems to agree. Sheesh. How ridiculous are people? This is in California too, not some third world country. She has nobody to talk to and sounds pretty bad, lost weight and such. She says he also refused counselling and never wanted to be part of the treatment but that it is still all her fault.

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 822 [Date & Time] 2005-11-17 09:16:17 [Post Text]

Output: Well, I had my appointment. Today, the therapist talked about the stages of arousal and how the vagina expands and all the rest. I already knew about that after reading up on it in the clit.com website. She asked me if I already knew and I said I did. We also talked about my skin picking which contributes to the general low self-esteem. She mention Cognitive behavioural therapy which I have read about but too many medical proffessionals don't seem to have a clue about it so I was pleased she did. She showed me a book called "Overcoming low self-esteem", by Melanie Fennell and I have to get hold of a copy myself so I'll order one from Amazon. I have to keep a record of thoughts, feelings and situations just prior to getting an urge to pick and record them down so we can start to work out a pattern or something. She also asked me what things I'd come up with so far to help stop me picking. Most things I have come up with are only any use when I'm here at the computer desk, things like having a blob of blu-tac to mess about with or an elastic band to keep my hands busy and also putting an elastic band around my upper arm and twanging it hard if I get an urge to pick that area. They've worked to an extent and reduced the number and amount of picking but they haven't eliminated it because I pick at other times too when these measures are useless like in the shower and away from the comp desk etc.... She also talked about kegels. I told her I already did those when I remembered. She told me to try a general muscle relaxation technique where I lie down without other destractions, tense all the muscles in my feet and legs for about 10 seconds and then let them fully relax and then work up the body so to speak and then do that same thing with my pc muscles and do it just before dilating. She also asked about things I do generally. I told her about my artwork and she asked what type of thing I did. I always have some photos of my work in my handbag so I got them out and let her look at those, lol. She told me to keep on with the dilator #2, the one I'm on now and see if I could work over the next couple of weeks into getting comfortable with that one and moving up to #3. Not sure I'll manage it in 2 weeks but I'll work on it. I'll update you more when there is more info to update you with.

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 897 [Date & Time] 2005-12-12 19:12:54 [Post Text]

Output: After more practise with the dilator..mainly when I am aroused, I have managed to move up to size three out of a set of 4. I got it nearly all the way in, further than I expected because I wasn't aroused and it is quite long really. I shall try it when I am aroused. There wasn't much pain, only a very slight one so I'm glad about that. It did feel tight though.

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 900 [Date & Time] 2005-12-13 12:40:04 [Post Text]

Output: Hey well done :) That is great news! Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 902 [Date & Time] 2005-12-14 10:47:20 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Canis, Looks like I can post today.& :) Thanks for the update. It is nice to hear you are making progress. Something that I have found to help women insert larger objects vaginally and anally is to pretend and try to push the object out, then relax. Do the opposite of what you want momentarily. So squeeze your pc muscles and try to push the dilator out, then relax. You should& be using only a single finger to press or hold the dilator in place. You don't really want to use force or pressure. My unprofessional opinion. When doing Kegels be sure to keep your stomach muscles relaxed. You can do this by placing one hand on your stomach to monitor those muscles. The same muscles that encircle the vagina also encircle the anus, so those who are open to the idea can try inserting objects anally to help them determine if it is a tight muscle issue or contact sensitivity of the vulva, hymen, or vagina that is the issue. You will want to use an object other than your vaginal dilators, because they don't have a flared base. I hope this helps. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 903 [Date & Time] 2005-12-14 11:04:16 [Post Text]

Output: Hello, thanks for that. A lot of girls in the vag groups had mentioned about the pushing out to help open the ring of muscles up so I do use that approach along with other things like breathing deeply and kegels just beforehand. I knew not to contract the stomach muscles, my therapist said you shouldn't see or notice anything happen with your stomach. I find that I can make the muscles relax further by jiggling the dilator or my fingers around once inside. This sort of soothes them and I can then insert the object even further. Another women also mentioned she does this and it helps her as well. As for pushing things in with force, no way. Too scared of doing that and it hurting too much. I also warm the dilator up because there is nothing worse than inserting a freezing cold object. As for inserting things anally, nah, that does not appeal to me in the slightest. I have IBS which can cause problems there, I would definitely not be tempted by the idea of anal sex...ever!!!! I sometimes feel the muscles around the anus spasming when I try to pass a stool although this doesn't always happen, it does happen involutarily and is more of an inconvenience and annoyance when you want to hurry up because you are late for work and the stool is ready to come out otherwise and keeps trying to. Anybody else noticed how you suddenly need to go to pass a stool when you are in a rush to get off somewhere and then it insists of taking its bloody time and holding you up? LOL!!!! Still, vag is just one problem and, with this progress I am seeing, probably the easier problem to overcome. My BDD, obsessive skin picking and sexual aversion (Partner sex, that is)& will be a bit more difficult, I think. I have another therapy appointment tomorrow. I'll let you know how it goes. She'll be pleased I got onto #3 but I'll not have& much good news to tell her about improving my social life, not like I haven't tried but people I know are useless when it comes to motivating them into doing things.

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 1718 [Date & Time] 2006-06-18 23:56:55 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I added a new article to the website today that addresses the subject of Finding the Vagina. If a teen/woman knows what they are looking for and how to go about finding it this may help prevent vaginismus from developing. The information presented may help resolve very mild cases of vaginismus. [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/loc_vag.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/loc_vag.htm Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 1720 [Date & Time] 2006-06-19 11:47:17 [Post Text]

Output: I agree it will all help. Thanks for posting it. Still, when girls are brought up from very& young to be ashamed and disgusted by that general area, it can make them reluctant to even want to attempt to find it....like me. I probably know my vulva better than many other women now who never had vag but only because I had to. One of the girls in a vag support group, she's in the U.K same as me, has asked to do some research for her uni course, and got the go ahead,& about the possibility of vag and general anxiety being related. I have general anxiety disorder and she says that she also suffers from anxiety. All the women in the group are up for answering questionaires and such when she makes a start on the project. If you want,& I can ask her if& she can share some findings with you for clit.com. I know many people& go to clit.com and all of us vag women crave more awareness about our condition. There is still a major problem with awareness of vaginismus with many sufferers taking years to find out whats wrong with them and there are also many in the medical proffession who don't know about vaginismus as lots of women in the vag group have found. Even if they do know about it, even fewer have any idea as to how to treat it. The girl doing the reasearch was told her vagina was simply& too small and this devastated her into thinking she'd never manage IC and that she had something physically wrong. Since dilating and such, the opening started to look much bigger naturally and now she knows the doc who told her she was too small was talking out of his arse. I know that& child sexual development& is addressed in your site which is great but, unfortunately, the general public just& don't have a clue. Everyday, I see adults suppressing their childs natural development because they view it as abnormal and unhealthy. They'd probably think there was something wrong with me if I told them how things really are.

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 1722 [Date & Time] 2006-06-19 12:32:34 [Post Text]

Output: I& just read the new page and thought it was quite helpful for young girls wanting to find their vagina. Looking at proper photos of vulvas is also helpful, something I never got to do. It was all those stupid little diagrams for me and many of those didn't even show any detail. Just three holes and thats it. No labia or clitoris or anything else. I think they assumed we didn't need to know about all of that. I think that society is scared that if girls are taught too much about their sexuality too early, it means they'll start having sex at an earlier age so they are unwilling to teach girls what they need to know. Instead, they let them go walking blindly into it all.

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Input: [Topic ID] 159 [Post ID] 6570 [Date & Time] 2009-04-06 02:01:51 [Post Text]

Output: Forget sex and boyfriends. You have issues to work through. Sort out a career. Make women friends. Find a hobby or two that excites you. Some some very private time exploring your body and daydreaming. Masturbate, slowly and gently. Don't go all the way unless you are in the mood. Your spelling and complete betray that you are unusually educated. Knowledge is power, never forget that.

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Input: [Topic ID] 160 [Post ID] 793 [Date & Time] 2005-11-10 20:28:09 [Post Text]

Output: Ok. Well I'm new to this site and& I joined because& I have a problem I'm worried :? about. First off, I am not sexually active...But sometimes& I get these weird pimples down there. Well when& I got my first one...I very painfully got rid off it. But now sometimes& I get these odd bumps or red spots in a couple places there. it doesnt seem likea rash and the red spots or bumps arent usually painful or itchy..they're just there. I obviously need some professional advice so if anyone could give me some, that would be great. thanks, Pinkchick

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Input: [Topic ID] 160 [Post ID] 794 [Date & Time] 2005-11-11 09:44:39 [Post Text]

Output: Hello and Welcome we have had lots of discussion on here over the past month about this subject. You could read some of the previous posts about spots pimples and acne. You really need to see a doctor who can actually see the spots for themselves to assess what they are. It could be herpes related, impetigo related or any viral infection. Or indeed it could just be that you get spots where you dont want them. Some people do and whilst this may not be what you want, they are nothing to worry about. I would make an appointment with your doctor and ask him or her to take a look just to rule out anything major. They may even suggest things like diet and other lifestyle changes that will help improve things. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 166 [Post ID] 848 [Date & Time] 2005-11-28 09:47:26 [Post Text]

Output: It's a simple problem: my wife hates cunnilingus. Or does she? She will NOT let me go down on her. If I kiss her anywhere south of her breasts, he hands immediately go down between her legs in "cover-up" mode and she pulls me back up. I've tried to discuss it with her, either in or out of bed. I've told her how loving and trusting and pleasurable it is, how it turns me on intensely, and how it could add some spice to our rapidly waning sex life. I've even said that I've read PLENTY of endorsements from women -- especially on this Web site. But she's adamantly against it: "It's not natural" or "It's for whores," she says. Oh, but guess what: the dozen or so times we DID indulge in cunnilingus (this has not happened for many years, and about half of them occurred when she had had enough alcohol to loosen her inhibitions), she went absolutely WILD. She held my head in place, thrusted herself toward me, moaned wantonly, and had an incredibly full and pleasurable orgasm -- or two! Each time it gave me the hardest of erections, something I don't experience as much as I used to, and each time it led the way to some of the most intense and pleasurable and loving intercourse we've EVER experienced. We are both 59, have what I would call "a pretty good relationship in most ways," and have been married since 1971. We had regular intercourse until around age 50, when she started losing interest. Quite ironically, she complains often about our current sex life, which is now practically non-existent. I have told her how she could help things improve by loosening some of her inhibitions, by letting me give her some oral loving. In addition, I have tried to convince her how her vaginal dryness problem (which she has had for more than 25 years) would disappear -- not only from what I could contribute to it but also from the fact that she has always self-lubricated liberally during cunnilingus. I realize that everyone has his or her sexual limitations. If she had never enjoyed cunnilingus before, I could possibly understand her position. And by the way, I have never asked for "reciprocity" -- because her phobia about cunnilingus is NOTHING compared to how she feels about fellatio! I may be the only 59 year-old guy on the planet who's never been blown, if you'll pardon the colloquialism. Women, I would deeply value your suggestions and your opinions, either supportive or critical. Thank you!

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Input: [Topic ID] 166 [Post ID] 849 [Date & Time] 2005-11-28 10:00:06 [Post Text]

Output: Hello and Welcome Throughout reading your post, I thought, hormone problems, lack of progesterone. Then neat the bottom of your post where you mention the vaginal dryness, this confirmed what I was thinking. Ask your wife to make an appointment with her doctor and go along with her. Progesterone levels test is initially a simple saliva test where a swab of saliva is taken from her mouth. Later, if that comes back as being a bit low, the doctor will call her back in for blood tests. At least that is how it works in the UK. Your wife could also be having thyroid problems. Not as confident of that one as the lack of progesterone, but it is worth asking for a test just to rule it out. Funny old thing hormones. One point out on the scale and it throws us ladies off balance and all sorts of chain reactions happen in our bodies. Once the hormone problems have been ruled out, she may feel differently about her body and want to share it more. Dryness can be quite painful and is certainly uncomfortable. When I have had this in the past, I have not wanted my partner anywhere near my lower region either and I have actually been moaning quite fiercely about the lack of sex as well! So I can totally understand your wife's point of view from that part. Definately seek the advice and tests from a doctor. Then you can rule out the medical side and start to work on the emotional aspect or oral sex together. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 166 [Post ID] 850 [Date & Time] 2005-11-28 10:05:38 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Princess: Thanks for your reply. We've been through all that. She's had a few visits with her OB about the dryness, and he has prescribed medications to compensate for it AND recommended over-the-counter lubricants. I'm afraid this is much more attitude than physiology.

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Input: [Topic ID] 168 [Post ID] 856 [Date & Time] 2005-12-01 19:07:18 [Post Text]

Output: My girlfriend and I for the first time engaged in oral sex.& I've done this before and she said she hasnt.& I figured considering it being her first time when i fingered her I would use only& one finger so I wouldnt discomfort her.& When i asked if it hurts she replied with "is it in?".& Well, i didnt think to much of it so i went a head and move to two fingers. Crazy enough i had to realy move them around for her to feel anything.& Should i be worried?& Is this common?& I havent asked her if shes masterbated before but could that be the case or could she lieing about her past sexual experiences.

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Input: [Topic ID] 168 [Post ID] 858 [Date & Time] 2005-12-02 19:14:43 [Post Text]

Output: There aren't as many nerve endings inside the vagina so it is possible she might not be able to feel it very well if you only use one or two fingers. I'd feel it but I have vaginismus but it is only near the entrance that I could feel it, further back, it's like the vaginal wall is totally devoid of nerve endings, I don't really get any sensation at all there. Still, it all varies between women anyway. Some naturally have more sensation in there than others. I can feel it a little if I was to bend my fingers whilst inserted or maybe ask her to try and clench her pc muscles around your fingers whilst they are inserted and she may feel them inside then. I do these to help& my muscles relax& and it also helps with control and these muscle exercises are benefical for all women, just just those with my condition. She can find these muscles when she goes to the loo for a pee by just stopping the urine mid-flow and these are the muscles she needs to clench. She should only do that to find these muscles though because stopping uring mid-flow isn't really good for you but once or twice won't hurt. Clenching these muscles and then relaxing them whenever she remembers will help keep them exercised and toned and will help increase sensation for you both during ic in future and she can do these exercises anywhere because nobody else can see you doing them, lol. Also, because her vagina is not used to having anything inside and the brain not used to processing info from that area caused by penetration, it might take a little time to start feeling some sensation, for the brain to learn to start processing it so that the person may feel it or she just might remain as a woman who doesn't feel that much inside her vag. I doubt she is lying about her past sexual experiences. I genuinely think she just doesn't really feel much unless you move the fingers around a lot. Also, a woman who was used to having something inserted would know if it was. As she doesn't, it seems probable to me that she hasn't had fingers inserted before and so doesn't really know what it feels like hence her question about whether they were in. Good luck with the foreplay though. It is good you just stick to this at first before trying ic. It might also be a good idea to ask her if she does do DIY sex. If not, she should try it, lol. I do it and it's great.

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Input: [Topic ID] 168 [Post ID] 860 [Date & Time] 2005-12-02 19:34:59 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks alot Cannis Lupess:),& I was really worried about it.& Do you have any suggestions on positioning on oral sex.& well, actually we tried to plz each other at the same time and that made it real uncomfortable.& we were in missionary style and i had to hold myself up to were i can have my hand down their while her giveing me a hand job and then kissing.& do you know any good tricks or tips? were both fairly new to all this and i want her to have a great experience considering that were most likely not soul mates.& but that doesnt mean that i dont love her and that i want her to enjoy herself.& i appreciate all& the info that you have given to me so far.& Thanks a bunch!

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Input: [Topic ID] 168 [Post ID] 861 [Date & Time] 2005-12-03 05:25:14 [Post Text]

Output: Hi and Welcome With one or two fingers try reaching inside upwards behind the clitoris and circular movements around there. That should work at the same time as oral sex. Is it in? that is a terrible thing to say during a moment like that. Was you hurt by that or uncomfortable? If so you should talk to her about it and let her know that you have sought the advice of others. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 168 [Post ID] 862 [Date & Time] 2005-12-03 11:43:12 [Post Text]

Output: Maybe she just said that because she thought he had not inserted it yet and maybe he was just putting the tip in or something and checking if she was ok with that& before he proceeded. I don't think she would have said that to hurt his feelings. I can sort of understand why she asked him that though. She probably expected to feel more herself maybe and was suprised that she felt very little even though the fingers were in. After all, lots of girls grow up believing that first insertions might or will hurt or are brought up to expect it to feel intensely good and should feel it. As for positions and all that. Well, I'm not much of an experienced person myself being as I tend to avoid any situation that might lead to ic because of my condition. I've had to learn a lot about myself and sexuality in order to help me conquer my vaginismus which is where most of the info I can give comes from. One thing you can do is just experiment. Ask your girlfriend if she has any ideas and try to think of some yourself and just try them out with each knowing it is just a trial run and that it might not be as perfect as theory suggested. You can still have fun doing it. Try laying on your sides facing each other so that neither has to hold themself up. You could even try laying with each other facing the others feet so that she can have her face near your bits and you have yours near hers and just sort of hold the leg not being laid on up and out of the way, sort of bent at the knee if you get me. Still, if a person is seeing stars because of the stimulation they are receiving and building up to orgasm, it might throw off their concentration and make them unable to keep up the stimulation in return so simultaneous stimulation might not happen so harmoniously as you might like to imagine but it is still worth indulging in, just don't be too disappointed if something like this was to happen.

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Input: [Topic ID] 168 [Post ID] 863 [Date & Time] 2005-12-03 19:22:25 [Post Text]

Output: you guys are great!, (when i say guys i dont mean that literally), thanks a million for helping me through this.& if i have any more questions ill keep yall posted.& and maybe someday ill be able to give my input for someone else's issues. ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 168 [Post ID] 870 [Date & Time] 2005-12-05 19:21:18 [Post Text]

Output: My boyfriend and I have recently been starting to engage in oral sex also.& I'm in the same position as your g/f, I don't feel that much when only one finger is inserted.& So, nicely I ask him to put in another finger.& I have prepared myself on my own by masturbating, and it's highly possible your gf also masturbates.& Many women do but are too affraid to admit to it.

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Input: [Topic ID] 169 [Post ID] 864 [Date & Time] 2005-12-04 11:35:37 [Post Text]

Output: I have a problem. I am 17 and my boyriend has tried to give me an orgasm a number of times and it doesn't work. Everytime he gives me head, my clit gets too ticklish to the point where I can't take it anymore and I have to tell him to stop...why is this happening? Is this normal? Any suggestions?

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Input: [Topic ID] 169 [Post ID] 865 [Date & Time] 2005-12-04 12:12:44 [Post Text]

Output: Hi.. do you really want to have your clit licked and reach an orgasm? well I'll give you a suggestion that I gave to a young girl with the same dilemma(is no a problem). Go to any Walgreen store and buy over teh counter "Americane" it is an anesthetic cream very mild and before having your clit licked or touched rub it with an small amount, try at home before to know if is going towork for you and touch it yourself and see the difference... PS It works for the boys too when they come too fast, just a little around the penis head My email is in my profile in case you want to write

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Input: [Topic ID] 169 [Post ID] 928 [Date & Time] 2005-12-30 07:48:10 [Post Text]

Output: [user=346]YellowSnow[/user] wrote: "I have a problem. I am 17 and my boyriend has tried to give me an orgasm a number of times and it doesn't work. Everytime he gives me head, my clit gets too ticklish to the point where I can't take it anymore and I have to tell him to stop...why is this happening? Is this normal? Any suggestions?" does he make direct contact with your clit? you can dull the sensation without use of drugs or creams by simply telling him not to make direct contact with your clit, and instead to make contact with the area surrounding your clit and through the clitoral hood. Having an extra layer of flesh between the source of contact and your clit should help. Also, he might be too forceful, so tell him to lighten up a bit. Also, if you can give yourself an orgasm, take some time to really learn what it is that you do that gets you off. When you understand what kind of contact is best for you, then you can tell him where to use his hands or mouth in ways that work for you instead of being overbearing.

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Input: [Topic ID] 171 [Post ID] 874 [Date & Time] 2005-12-08 13:52:19 [Post Text]

Output: Hi All, For several years now I have had the desire to add 3D Anatomy illustrations and video to the website. This in an attempt help women to realize that their vulva is 3D, that is, not as flat as a piece of paper, 2D. It would also help them to visualize their anatomy under the skin. Things like, how does a six inch penis fit into a three inch vagina, that their vulva isn't suppose to be flat, where their G-Spot (female prostate gland) is exactly, etc. I finally had to accept I would never have the time to learn how to do this let alone do this myself. I have increasingly less free time. A couple weeks ago I contacted a 3D Illustrator and presented the project to him and he has agreed to take it on. The proposed first phase is to develop 3D illustrations of the clitoral erectile structures, the glans, body, and crura. We are currently researching to find better descriptions and illustrations for the female pelvic area, which isn't easy. The illustrator wants to be as accurate as possible, and 3D illustrations are hard to come by, even in medical literature. We are attempting to figure out what the reverse side of some organs and structures look like. I have registered a new website URL but the website doesn't actually exist yet, so I wont give out just yet. This could become a expensive project, hosting the website (bandwidth)& and paying for the illustrator. If there are visitors to The-Clitoris.com website that would like to help get this project off to a good start donations would be greatly appreciated. I have setup a Paypal.com account for the project.& The e-mail address you would need to enter into Paypal is Here is the link to PayPal.com [url=www.paypal.com] www.paypal.com You need to have a PayPal account in order to send money through them, which is free. You can also send contributions by mail to the following address: Anatomy Project & If anyone is interested, I can also setup our on-line store so you can contribute by credit card without a Paypal account. If you are interested in doing this please let me know. I can set that up pretty quickly. If anyone is concerned about the validity of this posting they can contact me at We hope to have the website started within the month, but that depends on how the research goes. The illustrator is investing money into medical references and possible new software to ensure we get good 3D illustrations. Some of the first illustrations may appear on The-Clitoris.com website, but because of cost concerns will be transfered to the new website soon after. The rate that illustrations are created and added and whether we will be able to have video clips available will depend on the funds available. If you are a business that would like to sponsor the project please feel free to contact me. The new website will be a medical reference, that is not a sex site. The new website will be free to the public, hence the request for donations. Thanks for your time and support. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 171 [Post ID] 1057 [Date & Time] 2006-01-15 13:03:24 [Post Text]

Output: Hi All, It is taking longer than expected but we are making progress with the new website. Here are a couple samples of the preliminary images. They aren't done yet, and wll be more realisitic when done. Brad &

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Input: [Topic ID] 171 [Post ID] 1058 [Date & Time] 2006-01-15 13:04:03 [Post Text]

Output: Second Image: &

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Input: [Topic ID] 171 [Post ID] 1059 [Date & Time] 2006-01-15 13:22:31 [Post Text]

Output: No attachments Brad sorry& Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 171 [Post ID] 1060 [Date & Time] 2006-01-15 14:28:07 [Post Text]

Output: You need to click on the blue links at the bottom of the posts. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 171 [Post ID] 1063 [Date & Time] 2006-01-17 05:16:57 [Post Text]

Output: The problem with a 3D illustration is that it isnt really 3D. It may be made with a 3D rendering program, but the picture is still 2D. Video clips of pre-rendered material would be slightly better, but there are already live action sex help videos available where someone walks you through some particular sex act and the anatomy involved. And of course, scripting each invidual animation is tedious and requires a lot of render time (on top of the video encoding time) if you want a detailed image. The best (but probably the most expensive) idea would be to build a web application. Something real-time that you could turn and move in three dimensions and zoom in and out on. In addition to that, you could make certain parts become transparent/translucent or highlight certain organs so you can see their location as your rotate the model. If the model was detailed enough, you could even go so far as to portray the effects of different stages of arousal (such as the flushing and swelling, perhaps even the physical signs of orgasm), but actually interacting with and altering the model real-time is a huge step up in difficulty. Just tossing out some ideas.

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Input: [Topic ID] 171 [Post ID] 1064 [Date & Time] 2006-01-17 10:45:07 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, These are stills from the flash presentations that will rotate 360 degrees. :) Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 171 [Post ID] 1096 [Date & Time] 2006-01-28 18:26:37 [Post Text]

Output: Hi All, After some delay the new website is up and running. It took some time but I believe it was worth the wait. What you see now is just the beginning. [url=www.3dvulva.com] www.3dvulva.com Please let me know what you think. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 172 [Post ID] 875 [Date & Time] 2005-12-08 14:10:18 [Post Text]

Output: Hi All, I frequently receive e-mail from teens and women wanting to know if the area around their vaginal opening looks normal. Unfortunately, I don't have any clear photographs to show them of this area, and of the normal diversity of shape and size. Many have already looked through the photos on the website and did not see the area of concern. While this area is smooth in some women, others have lots of soft tissue, hymeneal tissue,& and skin tags, and the like in this area. This results in some anxiety in those who go looking expecting perfectly smooth, as in anatomy illustrations, tissue. Those with hidden vaginal openings are further perplex about where it is and where to insert fingers and tampons. If there are any ladies, 18 years of age or older, who would be willing to send clear digital photos of their vaginal opening, sthe pace between inner labia including urethra, to me I will add them to the website.& The photos should include the inner labia so we have a frame of reference. If you happen to have an intact hymen, to some degree, those photos would be greatly appreciated by site visitors to, as they are very rare. Please send high resolution photos and I will edit them to the correct image& and file size. Send them to Thanks,:D Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 173 [Post ID] 876 [Date & Time] 2005-12-08 18:24:06 [Post Text]

Output: HI i'm a 30 year old married woman with 3 kids. I have never had an orgasm. I keep thinking I'm nearly there but then... nothing. At some points the sensations are so strong they are too much to bear, so something is working, just not the end. This is really getting me down now. I know the anti-depressants i take affect this (i've been on them for almost 10 years with& no sign of being able to come off them) but i wondered is there anything else that can counteract them. i have tried vibrators but no luck. Was wondering about the ones that suck the clitoris? anybody think they would be good for me as the others haven't worked? My husband is aware of the problem and has really tried to help but we are both getting very frustrated...especially me!!! also wondering about viagra? any advice? joanne

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Input: [Topic ID] 173 [Post ID] 879 [Date & Time] 2005-12-09 11:12:00 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I can only suggest that you ask your doctor about trying a different type of antidepressant, as some increase sexual response rather than impair it. If a strong vibrator did not result in orgasm then orgasm probably isn't possible with your current medication. You might try mental stimulation combined with the vibrator, say watch a adult video that arouses you while you use the vibrator alone so there are no distractions. This has been a common question I receive and it is addressed in the Q&A section of the main website. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 174 [Post ID] 882 [Date & Time] 2005-12-09 23:09:02 [Post Text]

Output: Do guys who not have sex for a awhile get more excited when they do and come faster, or is it better if they have been getting sex regularly?

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Input: [Topic ID] 174 [Post ID] 885 [Date & Time] 2005-12-10 17:15:56 [Post Text]

Output: It seems that in most cases that I have been aware of, when the guy has gone without sex or any form of sexual "fun", they cum faster than usual..Though that is just from my experience.

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Input: [Topic ID] 174 [Post ID] 890 [Date & Time] 2005-12-11 18:20:22 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, My experience is that my desire increases if I go without sex AND masturbation for any length of time. My attraction to a woman also seems to intensify if I have not spoke to her for a long time too. I find my orgasms are easier if I haven't ejaculated in a good length of time, but are less enjoyable.& While the amount ejaculated is greater, there may be little or no pleasure associated with the release, perhaps as a result of being over full? Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 174 [Post ID] 898 [Date & Time] 2005-12-13 06:38:05 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, From personal experience, yes! If he stays without sex and masturbation for a while then he's more excited and comes faster. As with missbeccajune, this is just from personal experience. I also think the masturbation is not enough for him, he will also be more excited about sex inspite of regular masturbation but that's just my opinion. Btw, I dont think this applies just to guys, also to women, at least for me it does :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 174 [Post ID] 1659 [Date & Time] 2006-05-19 14:56:14 [Post Text]

Output: My experience when I was much younger confirms that I came very fast and frequently after a long period of time without sex.& When I came back from Korea after almost a year without sex or& the company of women, I found that I came very quickly.& During the first couple of dates, I recall getting a little upset because I thought I was going to have a problem with premature ejaculation.& Frankly I came& before I even got my pants off lol.& If my memory serves me right, it took several dates while I was waiting to get out of the Army before I could actually make love with a woman and not cum during the initial kissing and necking.& However,& about thirty years later, I had to travel extensively for work, and I would go to the Far East for three weeks, and when I got back home, my orgasms and ejaculations where no faster than after I was home a while.& My guess is that a man comes faster when younger, but not so after getting to be middle age or older.& Now, It takes me some time before I have an orgasm, and it doesn't make much difference whether I had sex the day before or a month before.& After I inject myself, my& erections& last for over an hour regardless.& My penis stays hard even after an orgasm.& However, I don't usually have multiple orgasms.

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Input: [Topic ID] 175 [Post ID] 883 [Date & Time] 2005-12-09 23:20:12 [Post Text]

Output: Do any women here have labia minora which are tucked under and don't protrude? I mean, let's say a woman has her legs spread, are there any women here who you don't see the labia minora, clitoral hood& and vaginal opening, you just see the outer part of the majora and a slit?

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Input: [Topic ID] 175 [Post ID] 889 [Date & Time] 2005-12-11 18:16:40 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I have read that around two-thirds of women have some amount of projection so the remaining one-third would have a vulva like you describe. My guess is that women have a preference or expectation of having one like you describe. I received a e-mail from a plastic surgeon a couple days ago wanting my insight into women's desires for surgery on their vulva. Seems increasing numbers of women are seeking this type of surgery, likely as a result of articles in magazines. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 175 [Post ID] 892 [Date & Time] 2005-12-11 21:25:30 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Brad, & & Where are pictures of a no-projected minora as you talk about? Perhaps, since many women don't know where the hood, glans, urethral opening, is, they usually have pictures of the labia itself& spread so one may see. But, I believe pictures NOT having labia spread would be better so people may see women who have outer majora and a slit showing only& when their legs are apart... Missi

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Input: [Topic ID] 175 [Post ID] 894 [Date & Time] 2005-12-12 12:01:07 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I recently added a large collection of photos of the vulva to the website. A few show the vulva at rest, but as viewed from straight rather than how a woman may see her vulva when standing in front a mirror. [url=www.the-clitoris.com/y/vulva/m_vulva.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/y/vulva/m_vulva.htm Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 175 [Post ID] 895 [Date & Time] 2005-12-12 14:45:22 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Brad, & I only found 2 examples (and maybe one more if was not spread) which would seem to be what I was talking about...vulva 81 in gallery 3 is kind of, and vulva 120 in gallery 4 definitely is...& but 2 out of 141 does not seem to be very common here! So many have projection.... Melissa

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Input: [Topic ID] 175 [Post ID] 896 [Date & Time] 2005-12-12 15:21:27 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Brad and company... An example of precisely what I am talking about is an example here of a vulva shown (legs spread) and no projection at all. It is hidden ant tucked away neatly and one needs to explore to find it.... [url=www.very-koi.net/pix2/shave04.jpg] www.very-koi.net/pix2/shave04.jpg Do 1/3 of adult women have such a type????? Melissa

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Input: [Topic ID] 176 [Post ID] 884 [Date & Time] 2005-12-10 17:04:06 [Post Text]

Output: Hi. I'm 17 years old and last night my boyfriend and I were fooling around. He started rubbing my clit, but he accidently rubbed it too hard. Even though he stopped, when I woke up this morning, I was in great pain down there, and I am still am. It seems to be swollen...Is it just irritated? Or do I need to worry about this?

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Input: [Topic ID] 176 [Post ID] 887 [Date & Time] 2005-12-10 19:12:53 [Post Text]

Output: Hi I understand your concern , it is the first time? You don't need to worry I think it is only the friction and little lubrication, if is not bleeeding don't have to worry about infections since there is not broken skin. All the vulva is kind of elastic and resistant to certain point but it gets irritated by dry friction, get in the tub with warm water and a god perfumed oil, and relax. Have a nice holyday kises Luisa PS mye-mail is in the profile

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Input: [Topic ID] 176 [Post ID] 888 [Date & Time] 2005-12-11 00:13:34 [Post Text]

Output: Its not bleeding but it is bright bright red and hurts like no tomorrow.... I am thinking just to give it time to heal back up properly? And do as you suggested with the bath.

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Input: [Topic ID] 176 [Post ID] 891 [Date & Time] 2005-12-11 18:30:44 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, If you read through the Q&A section on the website that others have experience the same. It is the result of friction and guys using too much pressure and no lube. Girls almost always need additional lube for this activity, even if they are dripping wet. Guys tend to use more pressure and fiction when masturbating than women do, so they may not know how to stimulate a woman's vulva correctly. Women, and teens, need to provide positive feedback until they get it right. Don't allow them to abuse your delicate vulva. Your vulva isn't so delicate though when you consider a baby can pass through it, not a simple task. He may have released adhesions or a tight hood, which would leave you a bit tender. These are addressed in the Health section of the website. See the article on Hygiene in the Health section to see how to care for your vulva. For now, rinse with plain water, no soap,& and apply a triple antibiotic ointment to act as a lubricant and barrier to body fluids like urine. Wear loose airy cloths like& a dress or skirt and go without underwear if possible, or wear loose cotton ones or boxers. If the redness and pain increase time to see a doctor. You can blame it on tight pants. [url=www.the-clitoris.com] www.the-clitoris.com Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 178 [Post ID] 899 [Date & Time] 2005-12-13 06:47:08 [Post Text]

Output: I was wondering how do the other women here wash their vulvas and keep them clean? Also does anyone try alternative methods to get rid of annoying problems like yeast infections? :? I personally do not use any soap around the area, I wash it with water and then rinse in the end with a diluted vinegar solution (say 3-4 T vinegar and a little less than a liter water). Vinegar is acidic, and diluted, it is about the same PH as the skin so it doesn't irritate it like soap. Anyone would like to share tips? :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 178 [Post ID] 901 [Date & Time] 2005-12-13 12:58:59 [Post Text]

Output: I don't use any kind of soap either on my vulva. I have never had a yeast infection (Thrush as we call it in the UK) I think some women are naturally more prone than others because my mother has never had one either. I just wash mine with clear water and I would never douche the vagina. I don't go over the top because I know the area keeps itself clean naturally. I also like to eat live yogurt and I'm sure this helps with that kind of thing too. Garlic is supposed to be good at keeping yeast infections away as well, especially fresh garlic. Other women in the vag group have noticed this. Other than that, trying to wear loose clothes as often as possible and loose cotton underwear or none at all so that fresh air can reach the area which also stops it from smelling.

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Input: [Topic ID] 180 [Post ID] 906 [Date & Time] 2005-12-18 04:10:01 [Post Text]

Output: My girlfriend has never been able to orgasm.& She claims that she comes very close but can't quite achieve climax, she says that it "disappears."& We have tried many various forms of stimulation.& She has tried masturbating on many occasions and says the same feeling occurs but she can never experience an orgasm.& She uses her showerhead as a form of stimulation as well.& & As far as she and I can tell there are no psychological factors that could affect her such as insecurities or timid ness.& We have both been very open and have a very healthy relationship.& Thankfully this has had a very minimal impact on our relationship.& & I believe that the primary cause could be the medication she is taking.& Presently she is on Paxil as well as Levlite her oral contraceptive prescribed due to a hormonal imbalance.& In the beginning I believed the problem to be Paxil but she was off of it for a good 3 months still experiencing the same problem.& However, recently she was instructed to resume taking it.& Now I can only see the problem being her birth control pill, I have talked to her about contacting her doctor to see if it would be possible to change to another brand name although, I can't imagine this doing much.& Any comments or help are greatly appreciated! & Thanks!

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Input: [Topic ID] 180 [Post ID] 907 [Date & Time] 2005-12-19 05:40:57 [Post Text]

Output: Birthcontrol and antidepressents are known to 'sometimes' lower libido and could impede orgasms.. antidepressents more so than birthcontrol but that's as far as i know I can tell u though that I experienced my first orgasm while on the pill (around 6 months into it) so there is hope. You should also check if 3 months are enough for the antidepressent effect to go away, seems to me like little time. Still, from what u're describing, she's getting close to orgasm, and masturbates so looks like the 'desire' part is fine. I hated the expression 'just let go' when i was after my first orgasm bec u dont really understand it if u never had an orgasm before. Even after the first one, I hard a really hard time at first getting to orgasm. It was basically just what u described, getting close and then it stops, i try and try till i get tired. sometimes it works and sometimes i want to punch the wall. See if she's tensing her vaginal area without noticing. Very likely she tenses up because she's nervous if she's gonna have an orgasm or not. When she gets really close, she can try breathing in deeply and focusing on relaxing, in particular relaxing the muscles around the vagina. Once I taught myself to relax my vaginal area (I literally almost talk to myself) the sensation increases immediately and orgasm is easier. With time, it is getting easier. Something else that could work: try to find something that really turns her on. Personal sex videos do that for me. Watching them I come after 5 minutes (once twice in 10 minutes), normally I would take half an hour or so! And I have to mention this over-stated fact: the more she thinks about the orgasm, the less likely she is to have one. My suggestion to get around this, forget about it, and try to compare (by giving marks over 10 for example) how intense she's feeling RIGHT NOW. Can she get it a bit more intense? then a little bit more? and so on. Maybe that well help her focus on NOW instead of LATER (=orgasm) Hope some of these suggestions help. PS. I learned to orgasm with a vibrator. It took the exauhsting hand-work out of it. After two months with the vibrator, I tried with my hand and it worked once I knew what I am after.

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 915 [Date & Time] 2005-12-20 21:50:20 [Post Text]

Output: At what age did youall lose your virginity?

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 916 [Date & Time] 2005-12-21 12:00:25 [Post Text]

Output: Hi It all depends in your definition of virginity, as you know there is no physical definition of virginity; some of us don't have a hymen at all, some have just a little around the vaginal opening, others have a very elastic hymen that don't even tears after intercourse and it is difficult to prove that women have a hymen. I just agree with a psychologist definiton of virginity: a virgen is a man or woman that never had any kind of touch, caress or kissing of a sexual nature, for example if a girl at the age o14 get kissed and touched and get aroused she loses her virginity even if she has a hymen or in the same token if a man had an ercetion with girl he is not virgin anymore. Of course it is my opinion& Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 925 [Date & Time] 2005-12-29 19:58:09 [Post Text]

Output: To some people I still may be considered a virgin.& Even though I have engaged in mutual masturbating, and also oral sex.& Depends on how you look at it.& & I do plan on losing my& sexual intercourse& virginity soon with my boyfriend.

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 926 [Date & Time] 2005-12-29 20:04:07 [Post Text]

Output: Hi lady ...are there any feelings imvolved? or just to know how it feels to have intercourse... Just curious...there is no problem either way The best of luck tp you and happy new year Kisses Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 930 [Date & Time] 2005-12-30 08:17:40 [Post Text]

Output: I haven't yet lost mine according to the typical definition, nor am I in any rush to do so. I used to agonize over it, but over the last few years my outlook on sex has changed drasitcally as my friends have started to get married and deal with the consequences of sexual relationships. by some of the broader definitions, though, I would probably have to say 18 or 19, though I don't remember exactly when.

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 932 [Date & Time] 2005-12-30 09:11:10 [Post Text]

Output: I'm yet to lose mine if you look at it from the usual view of a virgin point of view. ie, not had intercourse. Thats because I have vaginismus which stops me from doing that at the moment until I get it cured. I'm 26 but there are women in the vag groups I visit who are in their 40s and still virgins as a result of this damned condition. I have engaged in other forms of sex, just not penetration other than having one finger inserted. That was when I was 22.

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 943 [Date & Time] 2006-01-03 13:09:58 [Post Text]

Output: At 23, late by western standards but I had quite some sexual experience before it though. I was terrified of getting pregnant and my family finding out so I avoided intercourse back then. It was painful and required literally weeks of stretching and excercises that my bf duly did (and apparently enjoyed :)) I still close up though after a period of no sex (10 days or more) and then it hurts again... even though I masturbate and do Kegel exercise often. I don't know if that's normal :S

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 946 [Date & Time] 2006-01-04 12:03:18 [Post Text]

Output: I've heard about problems with pain from quite a few women who are still able to have IC. With me, I clamp up too much for the penis to even get it's tip in and if the owner of that penis was to try and push it in, I would feel like I was being torn apart and could be caused a physical injury. Vaginismus comes in all different severities and can be situational, no problem with having pelvic exams but cannot have& IC or the other way around, can have IC but not pelvic exams. It is a possibility and everytime you experience pain with IC, it reinforces the condition and makes it worse. Worth getting check out anyway.

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 948 [Date & Time] 2006-01-04 14:47:54 [Post Text]

Output: I suspected something like that when I read your description about vaginismus in another post. I could relate to it; however, once I am having IC regularly the pain is gone and I actually enjoy it. I will though ask my gyn this month about this. Thanks for the info :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 951 [Date & Time] 2006-01-04 15:36:58 [Post Text]

Output: Let us know what your gyn says. It could be something completely different. You don't know whether you might have a stubborn bit of& hymen or anything as women occasionally can? Still, even if it is something different, the pain it causes could cause secondary vag so you need to find out what it is and get it sorted.

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 953 [Date & Time] 2006-01-04 20:39:59 [Post Text]

Output: [user=19]luisa1[/user] wrote: "Hi lady ...are there any feelings imvolved? or just to know how it feels to have intercourse... Just curious...there is no problem either way The best of luck tp you and happy new year Kisses Luisa " & Oh definitely. :) There's a lot of feelings involved in our relationship. :) I'm happy to say I lost my virginity on the 3rd. I used protection.& Only problem... one of the condoms we used made me numb (the extended pleasure kind), and I'm guessing that's why because it's extended pleasure.& Left me dissapointed and frustrated.& My boyfriend felt bad and asked if I was okay since I didn't orgasm.& He was getting tired from trying so I gave it a go and tried to relieve myself and I couldn't feel a thing.

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 958 [Date & Time] 2006-01-05 20:05:25 [Post Text]

Output: Lady thanks for the message..you did it right and you enjoyed it to the fullest; I asked because most of us do it just to be "in" by losing the virginity and it is the worst motive to do it, we end up with a lot of sex realted problems. I don't think at yoru age you need "extended" anyhting, maybe later on you will but now enjoy your youth and sex . Good luck kisses Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 962 [Date & Time] 2006-01-05 20:23:55 [Post Text]

Output: Hi everyone, im from england and the legal age to have sex here is 16, i waited until 3 months ago nearly now to have sex aged 18, and i am still with the partner, and love her dearly, id prefer to only have one sexual partner in my life so really i want this relationship to work, and so far it is working great, we both care about each other loads and as a result we're both happy. relationships are fine as long as youre willing to give and the reciever isnt greedy

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 978 [Date & Time] 2006-01-06 08:32:22 [Post Text]

Output: [user=19]luisa1[/user] wrote: "Lady thanks for the message..you did it right and you enjoyed it to the fullest; I asked because most of us do it just to be "in" by losing the virginity and it is the worst motive to do it, we end up with a lot of sex realted problems. I don't think at yoru age you need "extended" anyhting, maybe later on you will but now enjoy your youth and sex . Good luck kisses Luisa " & Thanks Luisa. :)& I can't agree with you more... many people do have sex to be in.& My boyfriend and I have talked about sex a lot, and his& concern was mostly about me being ready to engage in it (emotionally), and also about me losing my virginity. He would always tell me that it's definitely a big thing, and that he really wanted me to be sure that I wanted to lose my virginity with him. I definitely know now not to use the extended pleasure, I seem to like the twisted pleasure.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 993 [Date & Time] 2006-01-07 05:15:24 [Post Text]

Output: [user=116]Ladybug[/user] wrote: "My boyfriend felt bad and asked if I was okay since I didn't orgasm. He was getting tired from trying so I gave it a go and tried to relieve myself and I couldn't feel a thing. " I can only orgasm from hand stimulation or oral sex but in the situation you described above, it is almost impossible to orgasm :? I've been there and once I am aware he's feeling tired and bad about it, I start worrying about the orgasm and forget about the pleasure... sort of a trap situation. I usually try to 'forget' about it for a while and try later when I am more relaxed and less anxious about coming. PS. The sex gets better with time. I found out, especially after I started hand stimulation with intercourse, that I feel way more from intercourse alone, as if my vagina learnes to be 'touched'. Good luck!

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 995 [Date & Time] 2006-01-07 15:12:46 [Post Text]

Output: Do oyu know that only 26% of us reach vaginal orgasms? and about 55% clitoral orgasm?. Somebody said and I htink it is wise, that we don't need to focus in the orgasm but in the sex itself... Good luck Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 1099 [Date & Time] 2006-01-30 00:10:09 [Post Text]

Output: :) I'm happy to say, I had my first orgasm while having intercourse on Saturday. I had left for school on the 15th, and the whole time while& I was away from my boyfriend, I missed him.& Once I came home on Friday, kissing him was like kissing him for the first time.& I made love to him at his house, and then on Saturday, my family had gone out and before we were going to go out, we decided to get some one on one action in.& It was the best. :)& I remember talking to him about how at first we're both trying to get used to each other's bodies, and it'll get better as time goes on.& And I can say I definitely see an improvement.

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Input: [Topic ID] 182 [Post ID] 1161 [Date & Time] 2006-02-13 00:07:12 [Post Text]

Output: it was just a month shy of my 21 birthday

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Input: [Topic ID] 184 [Post ID] 919 [Date & Time] 2005-12-23 17:58:27 [Post Text]

Output: i have a lot of ideas and such, however they do not link together correctly in my mind to form sentances... a.k.a. scatter brained. try to keep an open mind >.> im posting here mainly to raise my own awareness of what things are, but mainly im doing this to help others as well. i have a few questions about what things are, and im looking for related experiances and helpfull information that i can also pass along to people i chat to. first of all, im male, and age 24. i use a lot of effort to learn and help develop others abiltiies to learn. the question i have is mainly towrds anatomy i belive is labled and explored and such in the way im thinking of. and it's what is the area called that's around the uterus opening, where the vagina tract ends. it can be very sensitive at that point, and im try to get others aware that they can use this spot to masterbate with. as mentioned above, im looking for people who had exepriance with that area...mainly looking for 'becareful of, watch out for..' etc, so i can also pass along safety information too since i still consider this new to me. anyway, about 2 out of 7 or 8 of my friends even know the area up there exsists ( as in it's sensitive and is usefull towrds mastebration/etc ) i've been searching google and this forum's serach engine also...but no luck towrds this subject. i coudln't even find a cute term in the anatomy photo's. also didn't find much about the g-spot ether or it's cinical term "Grafenberg" so..meh.. long ago someone told me it's called the epi spot. i forget it's clinical term towrds 'epi' , it sounded something similar to epi-gla-dis... which may not even be a known word, but that's just the phonetics of it im trying to invoke. i go around amounst my friends seeking out those willing to learn more about themselfs, and im some what the core of the information passing between everyone just liek this forum is to all to read it. but i don't have termanology that everyone can agree on towrds what's what.. lol (refering to the area deep inside that seems to be so unknown amoung my friends) this upper area is capible of sending one into climax/orgasm, and seems to be 10x better than anything near the outside of there body. i would imagine it would differ between everyone anyway though. same with sensitivity and pain/pleasure .. this is starting to go into what i know already towrds precautions >.> im aware that those who are comfortable with there body and have exploded most anything they could, would have experiance of what went on ( even if they didn't have the termanology for it to express it clearly to others ) and those that do not 'explore' much wont know wha tim talking about because they don't have the exepraince and just the termanology.. so.. as i said..keep an open mind >.> anyway...those that i know of that has actually unfearfully put anything in that deep have all reported a pleasureable exepraince, and those that are affird they will lose something or other inside report a rather high amount of discomfort. so be aware you're mental state of mind will affect your physical state of being. after reading a lot of the posts out here all over the forum, a good portion is already aware of that ^.^ im not sure what else i could put on here, i have lot of information as to what goes on inside durring states of being, but that should be able to be found probrably in some informational section in the male catagory in the main forum index... if such an informational thign exsits there.. since women inherently get the exepraince of what goes on inside, no need to explain what they already know...other than if they haven't done it yet...but i belive that cna be found elsewhere... so... does anybody have a cute name for such an area up top ? u-spot? epi-spot ? anybody know if a term exsists for up there that is actually on the same level as "g-spot" without making one up as you're reading this? even if most people are unaware of it ?

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Input: [Topic ID] 185 [Post ID] 920 [Date & Time] 2005-12-24 06:52:22 [Post Text]

Output: This is a contribution I made to the now-defunct allaboutsex.org, a Web site primarily for teens. Despite the title this is suitable for all ages. Enjoy! --- First, let me admit, yes, I'm a guy. So I hope some of you girls out there will correct, update, amend, and fill in whatever I may have missed or gotten wrong. The Mons Veneris, "Mound of Venus," the center of a girl's body, the center of the Universe, really, since it's where we all got our start. It's a beautiful place to visit and explore! Let's start at the top, at the clitoris. A firm, smooth "nub" of flesh, surrounded by a softer "hood," the clitoris is exquisitely sensitive, so sensitive that prolonged direct stimulation may be unpleasant. It is one of the two main sources of orgasm in a girl. The clitoris, like the rest of the vulva, should always be petted with lubrication, applied by hand or tongue. You can also stimulate the clitoris by massaging or pulling on the labia - gentle tugging or pulling will stretch enough to give quite a bit of pleasure. Stroke with your fingers firmly up past one side of the clitoris, down the other side, not quite touching it directly, but pulling enough as you glide by. Your girl will appreciate variety and creativity in your touch - always remember that any one touch that feels great will turn annoying if repeated too many times in a row. The clitoris responds better to direct stimulation by tongue than by hand. And of course, if you are lying on top of your sweetheart or have your penis in her, the pressure of your body on her vulva goes right where it should (which is why the clitoris sits on top). But probably you haven't really started here. Most girls appreciate some "warm up" time spent on the labia first. These are the two sets of "lips" to either side of the vagina, the outer or labia majora, and the delicate inner or labia minora. Start gentle petting or licking on her labia, remembering to use the most gentle possible touch until you feel her become wet and ready for a firmer massage. Lubrication is essential! She may or may not provide enough to be comfortable, so if you don't feel her wetness, offer either your tongue or another lubricant (KY jelly or something made for sex). The outer labia are sort of a transition between the rest of her body and her most sexual areas. They form excellent padding to bear the weight of another body during intercourse. They are covered with hair, which acts as a dry lubricant to protect against friction. Most people, I think, enjoy the vulva more if some or all of the hair on the labia is removed, either trimmed short, or shaved or waxed. As a special treat some time you may want to offer to trim your girl's "fur." As you work, you will be rewarded with a delightful view of her labia, and can watch as drops of "dew" collect at the entrance to her vagina. The outer labia can be massaged either by pushing with the palm of your hand, or tugging one or the other between your thumb and other fingers. As you progress in your erotic massage, and as she becomes more aroused, increase the pressure or the pull. Use two hands to pull her labia to both sides, opening her wide. The inner labia are very different - far more sensitive to touch, giving almost as much pleasure as the clitoris. They can be stroked up or down, or pulled out one at a time between thumb and forefinger. A special treat during oral sex is to suck one flap into your mouth and gently tug and massage at the same time. There is a sort of a groove between the inner and outer labia, a nice place to run your fingers up and down. I can't say this often enough: be creative and use variety in your touch. Three or four repetitions of any stroke is just right, then change something - a different side, a new direction, two fingers instead of one. The inner labia taper at the bottom and are rooted at the entrance to the vagina. Push a finger against the opening and move it in circles - you will feel both the greatest possible softness, and under that, some very powerful muscles. A good firm massage at her vagina will be appreciated. You can spend as much time as you want pushing a finger farther and farther in. Take your time, don't just plunge in right away (well, OK, plunge in!) - as you push in deeper, also push out against the sides of her vagina, massaging along its entire length. Use both hands to give a good stretching massage; it's very erotic to be "opened up," as long as it's done with love. As you go deeper into her vagina, you will find the inner counterpart to her clitoris, the internal source of orgasm, or what is popularly called the "G spot." This is not so much a spot as a region. Don't worry about finding it: with your finger inserted all the way, press with your fingertip and you will be there. Move your finger or fingers in circles, pressing up to the top of her body and also side to side, and you will have her well on the way to orgasm. To go all the way to orgasm, or orgasms (damn! I'm jealous), use one hand inside her and the other on the outside, massaging her vulva. She may want you to concentrate directly on her clitoris or she may prefer firm pressure with the palm of your hand going in circles, massaging her entire vulva (and pulling on her clitoris). Experiment! Discover! It is also possible to push your tongue inside her. You will not reach nearly as far as with your fingers, but you may be surprised at how deep you can get if you really stretch out. When the time comes, you will discover enormous reserves of strength in your tongue muscles! As always, use variety: push in, then take her left labia into your mouth, then the right, then lick circles around her clitoris while you push your thumb into her vagina. Where are you all this time? Next to her? Over her? Is she on her stomach with her legs spread wide? One delightful source of variety is to approach from different directions. Not only does this allow you to user your hands in different ways, but it puts the two of you in contact. The feel of your body against her is an essential part of love-making. One of my favorite positions is to lie next to my girl, on her right if you are right-handed, left if left-handed. Use one hand on top, and place your other hand under her buttocks, with your finger reaching up to her vulva. This allows you to massage and also to penetrate with finger from both hands at once. You can give a great deal of delight by pulling up on her labia with one hand and down with the other, or firmly massaging the opening to her vagina with both hands. Her vagina is not the end of our journey! Below the entrance to the vagina is her perineum, a very soft and sensitive region that is worth petting. Just a little further and you will reach her anus. This is one of the most sensitive parts of the body, with as many nerve endings as the lips. While almost all guys enjoy anal stimulation, not all women do, so be sure to ask. If she enjoys it, massage her anus with your fingers or tongue. She may enjoy having you put one finger in her vagina and one in her anus. It is also possible to reach both at the same time: with a finger pushed as deeply as possible into her vagina, the finger next to it can touch her anus. The contrast between these two powerful entrances to her body can be very exciting for both of you. I've talked about using your hands and mouth to give her pleasure, but of course, if you are a guy (or a very creative girl), there is also your penis. This is a whole topic in itself, but just a few reminders. It is very delightful to massage along the length of her labia with the head, or glans, or your penis - this should send both of you through the roof! Remember that even if you are not planning to "go all the way" that this type of play carries all the same possibilities for pregnancy or STDs as "real" intercourse, so know what you are doing! There is much more to a girl's body than her vulva, vagina, and anus. Some girls say they can orgasm by having their nipples stimulated (I can only imagine!). And really, she wants to be made love to from top to toe. Enjoy, take your time, try something new, and love her to pieces.

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Input: [Topic ID] 188 [Post ID] 924 [Date & Time] 2005-12-24 14:56:22 [Post Text]

Output: Wild, Female and Overflowing The source of female sexuality - Female Ejaculation & the G-spot with Deborah Sundahl and Devaka Hoffmann This workshop is designed for all women, who want to explore their sexuality and invite more openness into it. You are interested in: · What female ejaculation is · What the role of the G-spot is · How can you find your G-spot and massage and stimulate it back to its natual state of highest sensitivity · Understanding what a G-spot orgasm is · How the g-spot is the gate way to deeper sexual fullfillment and personal healing In this women`s circle, we explore our freedom and our borders around our sexuality and get to know our often hidden gate way to our deep, feminine source. In exploring our G-Spot, we encounter deep feelings and emotions. Through this our body meets our soul. We explore the power and wisdom of our bodily sensations and how to trust and surrender to them. A new way of living our female sexual potencial then opens. In this workshop amoung women, we use the tools of meditation, relaxation, dance, bodywork, massage and personal sharing to mine this special and uniquely feminine source of our sexuality - the G-spot: how it works and what it can do for us in our erotic life and in our fulfillment in life in general. Deborah will share her profound experience with this often hidden access to our female sexuality. Devaka, in her narural way of being sexual, will accompany us and show us how to be alive and present with all whom we meet as partner on our erotic journey, to open our trust and acknowledge consciously our fear, to honor the Wild One and the Shy One in ourselves, and acquaint ourself with our ectasy and our numbness. Together with their 30 years experience in female sexuality, Deborah and Devaka are adept at guiding women this life changing adventure. You will find them, open, accessible, frank and safe. Learn how to get your divine birthright, your female erotic source, flowing again! The workshop will be held in English and German with translation. Teachers: Deborah Sundahl, author of Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot, has 18 years of pioneering experience in female ejaculation, and has coached hundreds of women to let their wild woman gush. Her 'Female Ejaculation Sex Education Series' includes her book and three DVD's. [url=www.deborahsundahl.com] www.deborahsundahl.com Devaka Regine Hoffmann, lives in Freiburg, Germany, working as a "Heilpraktiker" with psychotherapy, bodywork and Tantra. She`s a licenced art-of-being® - Teacher. She works primarily with women and has designed a special one-year tantra Training for women to heal, honor and expand sexuality with body, heart and soul. [url=www.sinnliche-wege.de] www.sinnliche-wege.de Dates and fee: We 24. may. - Su 28. may.2006, We 20.00 h - Su 13.00 h , 350,--EUR 325,--EUR until 23.03.2006 295,--EUR until 23.01.2006 We will be in a Seminarhouse near Freiburg/Germany (about one hour drive near Basel-Switzerland). Please ask for prices for food and accomodation. For further information and booking please contakt Devaka: Devaka Regine Hoffmann, Baslerstr. 24, D-79227 Schallstadt, Germany, Fon: oo49-(0)761-13 79 79 66 Fax:oo49-(0)7664-96 24 02,

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Input: [Topic ID] 189 [Post ID] 934 [Date & Time] 2005-12-30 17:28:29 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, The-Clitoris.com website is in the process of moving to& a new server. If you should have trouble accessing it over the next couple of days please use the following temporary URL. Brad

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Input: [Episode] 689 [Message] As we resumed our hike, I thought of ten mysteries [Title]

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Magic A White Dragon September 5, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Magic the Dragon lives in a dream The most beautiful that you have ever seen Through magic lands she like to fly Look up and watch her, way up high!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Rover A Red Dog May 30, 1996 Retired [Poem]

Output: This dog is red and his name is Rover If you call him he is sure to come over He barks and plays with all his might But worry not, he won't bite!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Velvet A Black Panther December 16, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Velvet loves to sleep in the trees Lulled to dreams by the bees She snoozes all day and plays all night Running and jumping in the moonlight!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Bones A Brown Dog January 18, 1993 Retired [Poem]

Output: Bones is a dog that loves to chew Chairs and tables and a smelly old shoe "You're so destructive" all would shout But that all stopped, when his teeth fell out!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Sly A Brown Fox September 12, 1996 [Poem]

Output: Sly is a fox and tricky is he Please don't chase him, let him be If you want him, just say when He'll peek out from his den!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Wrinkles A Brown Bulldog May 1, 1996 [Poem]

Output: This little dog is named Wrinkles His nose is soft and often crinkles Likes to climb up on your lap He's a cheery sort of chap!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Twigs An Orange Giraffe May 19, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Twigs has his head in the clouds He stands tall, he stands proud With legs so skinny they wobble and shake What an unusual friend he will make!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Ally A Green Alligator March 14, 1994 Retired [Poem]

Output: When Ally gets out classes He wears a hat and dark glasses He plays bass in a street band He's the coolest gator in the land!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Flash A Grey Dolphin May 13, 1993 Retired [Poem]

Output: You know dolphins are the smartest breed Well Flash the Dolphin knows how to read She's teaching her friend Splash to read too So maybe one day they can both read to you

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Ziggy A Black and White Striped Zebra December 24, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Ziggy likes soccer - he's a referee That way he watches the games for free The other Beanies don't think it's fair But Ziggy the Zebra doesn't care

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Speedy A Green Turtle August 14, 1994 Retired [Poem]

Output: Speedy ran marathons in the past Such a shame, always last Now Speedy is a big star After he bought a racing car

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Freckles A White and Orange Spotted Leopard July 28, 1996 [Poem]

Output: From the trees he hunts his prey In the night and in the day He's the king of camouflage Look real close, he's no mirage!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Derby A Brown Horse September 16, 1995 [Poem]

Output: All the other horses use to tattle Because Derby never wore his saddle He left the stables, and the horses too Just so Derby can be with you!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Squealer A Pink Pig April 23, 1993 Retired [Poem]

Output: Squealer likes to joke around He is known as class clown Listen to his stories for a while There is no doubt he will make you smile!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Fleece A White Sheep March 21, 1996 [Poem]

Output: Fleece would like to sing a lullaby But please be patient, she's rather shy When you sleep, keep her by your ear Her song will leave you nothing to fear

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Valentino A White Bear with a Heart on His Chest February 14, 1994 [Poem]

Output: His heart is red and full of love He cares for you so give him a hug Keep him close when feeling blue Feel the love he has for you

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Inch A Multi-Colored Worm September 2, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Inch the worm is a friend of mine He goes so slow all the time Inching around from here to there Traveling the world without a care

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Crunch A Grey Shark January 13, 1996 [Poem]

Output: What's for breakfast? What's for lunch? Yum! Delicious! Munch, munch, munch! He's eating everything by the bunch That's the reason we named him Crunch!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Ears A Brown Rabbit April 18, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: He's been eating carrots so long Didn't understand what was wrong Couldn't see the board during classes Until the doctor gave him glasses!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Spooky A White Ghost October 31, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Ghosts can be a scary sight But don't let Spooky bring you any fright Because when you're alone, you will see The best friend that Spooky can be!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Floppity A Lavender Rabbit May 28, 1996 Retired [Poem]

Output: Floppity hops from here to there Searching for eggs without a care Lavender coat from head to toe All dressed up and nowhere to go!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Pinky A Pink Flamingo February 13, 1995 [Poem]

Output: Pinky loves the Everglades From the hottest pink she's made With floppy legs and big orange beak She's the Beanie that you seek!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Pouch A Brown Kangaroo November 6, 1996 [Poem]

Output: My little pouch is handy I've found It helps me carry my baby around I hop up and down without any fear Knowing my baby is safe and near.

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Digger A Red Crab August 23, 1993 Retired [Poem]

Output: Digging in the sand and walking sideways That's how Digger spends her days Hard on the outside but sweet deep inside Basking in the sun, riding the tide!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Lizzy A Blue, Black, and Yellow Lizard May 11, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Lizzy loves Legs the frog She hides with him under logs Both of them search for flies Underneath the clear blue skies!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Ringo A Brown Raccoon. July 14, 1995 [Poem]

Output: Ringo hides behind his mask he will come out, if you should ask He loves to chitter, he loves to chatter Just about anything, it doesn't matter!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Zip A Black Cat with White Paws March 28, 1993 Retired [Poem]

Output: Keep Zip by your side all the day through Zip is good luck, you'll see it's true When you have something you need to do Zip will always believe in you!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Scottie A Black Scottish Terrier June 3, 1996 Retired [Poem]

Output: Scottie is a freindly sort Even though his legs are short He is always happy as can be His best freinds are you and me!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Blackie A Black Bear July 15, 1994 [Poem]

Output: Living in a national park He only played after dark Then he met his friend Cubbie Now they play when it's sunny!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Seamore A White Seal December 14, 1996 Retired [Poem]

Output: Seamore is a little white seal Fish and clams are her favorite meal Playing and laughing in the sand She's the happiest seal in the land!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Lefty A Grey Donkey with an American Flag July 4, 1996 Retired [Poem]

Output: Donkeys to the left, elephants to the right Often seems like a crazy sight This whole game seems very funny Until you realize they're spending your money!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Tusk A Brown Walrus September 18, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Tusk brushes his teeth everyday To keep them shiny, it's the only way Teeth are special, so you must try And they will sparkle when you say "Hi"!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Mel A Grey Koala Bear January 15, 1996 [Poem]

Output: How do you name a Koala bear? It's rather tough, I do declare! It confuses me, I get into a funk I'll name him Mel, after my favorite hunk!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Coral A Multi-Colored Fish March 2, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Coral is beautiful, as you know Made of colors in the rainbow Whether it's pink, yellow or blue These colors were chosen just for you!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Legs A Green Frog April 25, 1993 Retired [Poem]

Output: Legs lives in a hollow log Legs likes to play leap frog If you like to hang out at the lake Legs will be the new friend you make!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Pinchers A Red Lobster June 19, 1993 Retired [Poem]

Output: This lobster loves to pinch Eating his food inch by inch Balancing carefully with his tail Moving forward slow as a snail!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Lucky A Red and Black Ladybug May 1, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Lucky the lady bug loves the lotto "Someone must win" that's her motto But save your dimes and even a penny Don't spend on the lotto and you'll have many!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Gracie A White Swan June 17, 1996 Retired [Poem]

Output: As a duckling, she was confused Birds on the lake were quite amused. Poking fun until she would cry, Now the most beautiful swan at Ty!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Patti A Purple Platypus January 6, 1993 Retired [Poem]

Output: Ran into Patti one day while walking Believe me she wouldn't stop talking! Listened and listened to her speak That would explain her extra large beak!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Doby A Doberman Dog October 9, 1996 [Poem]

Output: This dog is little but he has might Keep him close when you sleep at night He lays around with nothing to do Until he sees its time to protect you!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Snort A Red Bull May 15, 1995 [Poem]

Output: Although Snort is not so tall He loves to play basketball He is a star player in his dreams Can you guess his favorite team?

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Curly A Curly-Haired Brown Bear April 12, 1996 [Poem]

Output: A bear so cute with hair that's curly You will love and want him surely To this bear always be true He will be a friend to you!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Snip A White Siamese Cat October 22, 1996 Retired [Poem]

Output: Snip the cat is Siamese She'll be your friend if you please So toss her a toy or a piece of string Playing with you is her favorite thing!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Nuts A Brown Squirrel January 21, 1996 [Poem]

Output: With his bushy tail, he'll scamper up a tree The most cheerful critter you'll ever see He's nuts about nuts, and loves to chat Have you ever seen a squirrel like that?

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Bernie A Saint Bernard Dog October 3, 1996 [Poem]

Output: This little dog can't wait to grow To rescue people lost in the snow Don't let him out - keep him on your shelf He doesn't know how to rescue himself!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Flip A White Cat February 28, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Flip the cat is an acrobat She loves playing on her mat This cat flips with such grace and flair She can somersault in mid-air!

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Input: [Name Description Birthday] Teddy A Brown Bear November 28, 1995 Retired [Poem]

Output: Teddy wanted to go out today All of his friends went out to play But he'd rather help whatever you do After all, his best friend is you!

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