Input: [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 416 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 16:17:07 [Post Text]

Output: Hi thorgak I am 35 and can honestly say yes, it did happen to me. But I am not sure if turning 30 was as much to do with it as my living circumstances and finding my own voice by then. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 420 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 19:51:02 [Post Text]

Output: Princess i agree with you I don't think it has to do nothing with biological changes, is more personality wise.. I changed a lot because I felt more sure of myself and more in control and consequently gave me a different look a sexuality which I enjoy much more now...Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 422 [Date & Time] 2005-08-10 08:47:29 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks for your answers, Those self-confidence changes...& Were they the result of specific events or are they the result of a gradual personality maturation with time and experience? Thorgak

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Input: [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 426 [Date & Time] 2005-08-11 19:26:16 [Post Text]

Output: [user=171]thorgak[/user] wrote: " Those self-confidence changes... Were they the result of specific events or are they the result of a gradual personality maturation with time and experience? Thorgak " For me I would say it's been a gradual process. I'm much more comfortable with my body & sexuality now than I was in my twenties.

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Input: [Topic ID] 77 [Post ID] 480 [Date & Time] 2005-09-01 21:56:41 [Post Text]

Output: Well i am 30. I recently had a baby and while i was pregnant i was so horny that i could not get enough, but i didn't want to much to do with my husband i really preferred& the shower head, although, i would have sex with him just so he would leave me alone.& I know that sounds bad but he just didn't know how to stimulate me. My daughter is now 4 months old and i am still horny as ever. I guess it does have something to do with the thirties.

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Input: [Topic ID] 78 [Post ID] 409 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 02:51:40 [Post Text]

Output: I can when i masterbate, and sometimes have cum when im being fingered, but during sex or getting oral. Also while it feels nice boob play does nothing for me. i dont taek any medicine that would affect me in that way, and actually the few times ive actually taken a drug (pot in my teen years) sex was better. Am i a lost cause? please i could really use the help even if its links. Thank you J.

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Input: [Topic ID] 78 [Post ID] 417 [Date & Time] 2005-08-09 16:27:49 [Post Text]

Output: Hello and welcome to the group J. You dont mention how old you are or whether you are in a long term relationship or have children or not so my answer will perhaps be slightly vague for you. Firstly, you are not alone. Many women, myself included, go through a phase where nothing works in the orgasm department. Stimulation gets dull and you get to a point where you want to so badly that you just cant orgasm. Have you tried using a vibrator? In the past, this method was the only way that I could orgasm. There is nothing wrong with trying it out to see how you get on. I shared my experience with my partner and he was really happy because the self assigned pressure to please me in that way was lifted and things changed. The female orgasm starts in the mind. Do you fantacise? Daydream? Talking about what turns you on also can be a good way to overcome the mental block that occurs and stops us from orgasming. Smoking pot when you were younger would not have an effect on you now given that you are capable of having an orgasm through masturbation. So I wouldnt worry about that side of things. I cant orgasm through penetration alone. Many women cant. Explore you body. Slowly. Dont let having an orgasm be your goal each time you masturbate. Try touching your skin more in other areas, inner arms / legs, thighs, breasts and any place else that feels good. Use gentle strokes on yourself and ask your partner to massage you as well. With out touching your vaginal or vulva areas at all until you cant stand not being touched there any more. See how you go with trying that. You can do this alone or with a partner. Build up the sensations. Try stroking yourself with different textured objects like a feather or an ice cube. Hope this helped a little There is nothing wrong with you and you are certainly not alone. Our cycles change and hormones do too. Each woman is different. But not putting so much emphasis on haivng an orgasm certainly did help me. And then when it finally happened it was all the more mind blowing and special for me. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 79 [Post ID] 428 [Date & Time] 2005-08-16 22:37:03 [Post Text]

Output: I'm a male in my twenties and have found viagra to be one hell of an experience. I dont have ED, but it just makes it better. I've heard of women also being prescribed to it, have any of you women had any experience with it? Was it good or bad? I'm thinking about giving some to my g/f to try, but I want to know what to expect before hand.

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Input: [Topic ID] 79 [Post ID] 429 [Date & Time] 2005-08-17 08:07:45 [Post Text]

Output: Hi and welcome to the group :) I have tried it. Twice ! The first time I took half the blue tablet. It was ok but did not really make a difference to me. No side effects at all. The second time my partner got two tablets so I took one and he took one. Now that was an experience :) My head felt quite giddy like I was really happy. We were making jokes and laughing for a long time until his tablet really took effect! Sex was brilliant on it. But I can only speak for myself. I dont think women are technically supposed to take it without getting checked out from their GP first. I took a risk which could have turned out to be a silly one. But I was going on the principle that my partner was going to take it and he was scared. I would never expect anybody to do something that I was not prepared to do myself so simply swallowed the tablet before him as I really really wanted him to try it as he had suffered from impotence for a while and was sad about it to say the least. Having an erection changed him and he has not needed viagra since those two initial experience. He had a mental block nothing more serious so once he had seen himself in all his glory as it were, that was enough to "unblock' him :) Good luck with what ever you decide. Like I said, it did have an effect on me which was good with no side effects at all but we got our tablets from a reputable source that we could trust to be ok not diluted or hand made with anything dangerous. You have to be so careful nowadays Princess :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 79 [Post ID] 436 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 12:04:52 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Viagra will have the same affect on female sexual response as male sexual response. It retards the hormone that normally suppresses an erection, blood engorgement. It does not produce or cause the erection or blood engorgement, it allows them to be more intense and last longer, potentially. I believe a study into the use of Viagra to treat female sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction was suspended because they found it was not a reliable treatment option. Female sexuality is very complex and there is no single or easy solution, i.e. a pill. Some report success if used for specific situations rather than as a general fix. Being used as a sexual enhancer I don't believe has been studied, as it is a medication prescribe for the treatment of something. I don't know if any one has studied its affects on women without impaired sexual response. The potential side affects would likely be the same. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 430 [Date & Time] 2005-08-17 15:48:08 [Post Text]

Output: Hello all , I have to say I was amazed to find the site as it is ... very useful and informative. For years I carried guilt with me because of what was termed child abuse as a young girl , it started for me when I was 5 , my cousin used to play these games with me , byt the time I was 8 or 9 I looked forward to these games and sought him out if he was not ready when I was , I hated myself for this because Iwas told it was wrong... never the less by the time Iwas 12 Iwas kind of like Lolita.... and with all the psychologists and doctors telling me it was bad and I should not want it and it was wrong etc.. I felt like a Freak... when Iwas 16 I tried to commit suicide as a result. & Years have passed and I am now comfortable with who Iam and my sexuality , I would like to know if there are other women out there who dont necessarily view thier "innitiation" as abuse and what you all think of the issues surrounding this. & Email me on Niqui

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Input: [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 431 [Date & Time] 2005-08-17 16:36:12 [Post Text]

Output: Hi..very interesting letter...I have seen many caases of "sexual abuse" but it is my opinion that sexual abuse is when it is forced on us(when little) by an adult; this is a product of many fantasies. We are and has been proved that we are sexual since birth and to prove it there are studies of children masturbation, some more frequent than others and this has to be taken as normal developemnt and explained to the children as normal in their words. History has shown that we like to explore sex when& little and in your case ( and mine and others) the sexual abuse idea was imprinted in your mind & by adults;when you were with your cousin, & were you injured in any way? were you forced to have sexual penetration with an adult penis?, I don't think so it was the case & at your age and mine age level. I'm no a PHD or like but if ever see two kids naked mimicking sex I won't scold them on the contrary help them to understand that it is normal but perhaps the place or the time is not. Do not feel guilty, you were exercising your right as a human being and somebody "twisted it". Love& Luisa ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 432 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 07:36:29 [Post Text]

Output: Hello niqui and welcome to our group :) We have another forum for this subject specifically. Please go to : sexabuseandincest.mywowbb.com/ also you may like to read the article on the main www.the-clitoris.com web site abuse pages - www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_abuse.htm there are many women who feel exactly the same as you and you certainly are not alone in your thought processes On our other forum site which covers this subject I was able to include the full history of our Yahoo Group Middle Ground right up until it was deleted, which Brad had started up for abuse and incest survivors. There are quite a few articles to search through which cover this material as well where we discussed many angles. I think you may find them useful. Been a bit quiet on there since we started it up in April so some new members would be helpful to promote more useful discussions in the future. I really hope it turns into the sucess that Middle Ground was and still is in many ways. Princess :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 433 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 11:48:40 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Another article relevant to this discussion may be the new page that addresses childhood sexuality. [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/child_sex.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/child_sex.htm Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 80 [Post ID] 437 [Date & Time] 2005-08-18 13:18:41 [Post Text]

Output: Hello All, & Thank You all for your replies , and Luisa , to answer your question on my cousin , no it was never forced , it was merely a game when it started , I have to say I was so afraid when it did due to all the taboos surrounding sex etc.... I still feel serious confusion though , what made me as a young girl go out ans for want of a better term "solicit" older adult males for this game of mine when I was 12 or so.. I watched Lolita the other night and I could so Identify with what her MO was etc... It was scary to watch. Yet at this stage of my life Iam not afraid of sex nor do I find any of the sexual acts that take place between consenting people abhorent , admittedly there are some that I would not try however when does it become and how is it defined as abuse ... If a young girl entices an adult male ( and I know this is possible because I was that child ) is that child in thier right mind and what has led them to that? I looked back in history to the Middle Ages , Girls at the age of 12 were being married and having children by the age of thirteen , yes that is extreme but that was life at that time , where did society go to? In this day and age Porn is prominent and thre is so much missinformation around , that children are basically taught SEX = GUILT and SIN, I dont agree with this teaching having three daughters however and the youngest of them is very very sexually aware and has ADHD ... Its this that started my "quest" to try and understand the WHY'S and wherefores of this kind of situation , at school they aer being taught sex education but some of the things that they are being taught are just plain WRONG and based on the hellfire and brimstone theory.... THat left me feeling bad about my life and my youth. & This place was a miracle find , I have read the articles and I find them brilliant. THey answered a lot of questions for me already. & Thanks again & Love Niqui

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 438 [Date & Time] 2005-08-21 19:21:14 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Well when I perform oral on my guy, I try to go down on him as long as I can, but after a while it makes me gag. Not from being disgusting, I mean I enjoy it, I just cant handle him being in my mouth for a long time. I try to take all of him in my mouth for a bit, then when it gets to much I take it out some and play with the head and switch like that, but even doing that it still makes me gag after so long. Anything that could help me with this?

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 439 [Date & Time] 2005-08-21 19:56:46 [Post Text]

Output: I don't really have any problems with gagging during extended oral sex sessions, but my jaw does ache after a while. Generally if it starts to get too painful we just switch to a different activity. If you're keen to gain some control over your gag reflex, I've heard that practising on a dildo can help. Other than that I'm not really sure, maybe others will have some suggestions.

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 440 [Date & Time] 2005-08-21 20:25:16 [Post Text]

Output: Hello, have you tried putting something with a nice flavour you like on his penis first? This can be great fun for you both. :) Some suggestions - honey, chocolate moose, cream, fruit syrup - the list could go on and on. You are only limited by your imagination. If you enjoy giving him oral sex then I would certainly give a flavour a go. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 441 [Date & Time] 2005-08-21 23:10:55 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, There is usually no benefit too taking his whole penis in your mouth. The most sensitive areas are usual the frenum, the area on the underside where the glans and shaft meet, and the glans. Use you hand and lube to stimulate the shaft. Lick and suck on his glans and the underside of the shaft. Use the stroke of your hand in conjunction with your mouth. Deep throating may be visually impressive and arousing, for one or both, but may not be all it is cracked up to in regards to pleasure. Giving and receiving oral pleasure should be fun and enjoyable for both. If you are aching or gaging then you should stop. You can then both masturbate to orgasm. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 456 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 00:16:32 [Post Text]

Output: It might be the fact that you are getting tired and switching positions that is prolonging ejaculation (which then makes you more tired and having to switch positions again).& There have been times when I was only 4 or 5 seconds from ejaculation when my girlfriend stopped to change positions and it is like starting from zero (or close to it).& Then it took time to get back to where I was, sometimes a minute, sometimes more, occasionally& never.& Even a one second delay in stimulation, especially so close to the end, is enough to derail that train or else cause significant delays. Even if stimulation continues, any change in position so close to the point-of-no-return might mean you never get to return to that point. If he is comfortable enough with you, I suggest having him masturbate while you are in the room, so that you can watch for 1. SPEED 2. FORCE 3. CHANGES IN SPEED OR FORCEFULLNESS (especially near the end).& Then try to duplicate what you observed next time you do it.& & I am leaning towards believing you are either going too slow, or not far enough up and down, or both, but there is also a chance he has a problem he hasn't told you about.

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 458 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 02:49:12 [Post Text]

Output: I have a similar problem. It's not the taste that is the problem, but after a while I find I get stuffed up, have a hard time breathing through my nose, and so I choke. By then it has definitely stopped being enjoyable for me.

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 466 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 08:15:09 [Post Text]

Output: Hello, try a different position and as Brad mentioned, it is the glands around the top which are the most sensitive anyway so you dont need to take all that much in your mouth. Just stick to licking and kissing the top whilst holding the shaft to give pleasure to your partner. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 503 [Date & Time] 2005-09-07 23:08:03 [Post Text]

Output: [user=192]Edward4111[/user] wrote: "It might be the fact that you are getting tired and switching positions that is prolonging ejaculation (which then makes you more tired and having to switch positions again). There have been times when I was only 4 or 5 seconds from ejaculation when my girlfriend stopped to change positions and it is like starting from zero (or close to it). Then it took time to get back to where I was, sometimes a minute, sometimes more, occasionally never. Even a one second delay in stimulation, especially so close to the end, is enough to derail that train or else cause significant delays. Even if stimulation continues, any change in position so close to the point-of-no-return might mean you never get to return to that point. If he is comfortable enough with you, I suggest having him masturbate while you are in the room, so that you can watch for 1. SPEED 2. FORCE 3. CHANGES IN SPEED OR FORCEFULLNESS (especially near the end). Then try to duplicate what you observed next time you do it. I am leaning towards believing you are either going too slow, or not far enough up and down, or both, but there is also a chance he has a problem he hasn't told you about." Hey Edward! Thanks for your response you just helped me without knowing. I wish I had read this before I put up my post. But I think this is one of my problems, my hand gets tired or my mouth gets tired and I switch positions. I wish there was a way around that though.

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 536 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 19:22:18 [Post Text]

Output: i found that making sure i brush my tongue way far back when brushing my teeth helps me get over the gag reflex. i have a terrible gag reflex but now i can touch my tonsils with my finger and dont gag! :Dmaybe this will help. afterall, gaging when going down is embarassing and annoying, but who wants to switch positions if u are enjoying it.

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Input: [Topic ID] 81 [Post ID] 543 [Date & Time] 2005-09-16 20:31:45 [Post Text]

Output: [user=224]rosadog[/user] wrote: "i found that making sure i brush my tongue way far back when brushing my teeth helps me get over the gag reflex. i have a terrible gag reflex but now i can touch my tonsils with my finger and dont gag! :Dmaybe this will help. afterall, gaging when going down is embarassing and annoying, but who wants to switch positions if u are enjoying it. " I've tried doing this...and I think I need to practice more. & I definitely know what you're talkinga bout it being embarrassing.& My last encounter I had, I started to gag when the guy was cumming.& And when he came it didn't help much because I just wanted to throw up.& I was all in all embarrassed.. stupid gag reflexes!

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Input: [Topic ID] 82 [Post ID] 442 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 18:20:55 [Post Text]

Output: Hi i'm 13 and I have a question to ask all of you. The other day I was exploring the inside of my vagina and I found a big bump way up inside with a hole in the middle of it. I was wondering what this is.& Could it be my cervis and can it hurt you to touch it?

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Input: [Topic ID] 82 [Post ID] 443 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 18:26:47 [Post Text]

Output: It does sound like your cervix. As for hurting yourself if you touch it, I don't think you can cause any damage by touching it, it's not uncommon for the cervix to get bumped during sex and most women suffer no ill effects (except from momentary discomfort/pain). While it can be uncomfortable it's never caused me any problems.

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Input: [Topic ID] 82 [Post ID] 444 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 18:33:41 [Post Text]

Output: thank you for replying:D

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Input: [Topic ID] 82 [Post ID] 445 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 19:19:38 [Post Text]

Output: Hello and Welcome Konnichiwa yes it sounds very much like your cervix. you cant damage it by touching it with your hand or fingers. take a look at www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/n_anatomy.htm and click on some of the links which have some really good illustrations of a woman's anatomy. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 446 [Date & Time] 2005-08-22 22:38:46 [Post Text]

Output: Does anyone rub against a pillow, like mons area,& to have an orgasm? It is& a preferred way for me. I am not sure if it is normal for the pillow to get all wet and sticky from rubbing... Melissa

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Input: [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 449 [Date & Time] 2005-08-23 18:03:16 [Post Text]

Output: Hello Melissa no, I have not tried this method at all. But it is normal for you to produce an amount of discharge which would appear wet and sticky on the pillow during and afterwards. Hope this helps Princess :) [user=130]melissa malena[/user] wrote: "Does anyone rub against a pillow, like mons area, to have an orgasm? It is a preferred way for me. I am not sure if it is normal for the pillow to get all wet and sticky from rubbing... Melissa "

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Input: [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 450 [Date & Time] 2005-08-23 19:57:04 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Melissa& & The question you ask is quite normal becaause many women and young girls stradle a teddy bear, a pillow, a rolled towel, etc to masturbate and it becomes sticky& with the fluids generated by the sexual arousal; do not worry unless it has foul odor and in& that case you better go to the gynecologist If you want to see how many of us use an object in between the legs to stimulate the clitoris go to& [url=www.the-clitoris.com] www.the-clitoris.com& & and go to masturbation. Love and good luck Luisa & &

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Input: [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 451 [Date & Time] 2005-08-25 10:51:51 [Post Text]

Output: It's definitely normal to get wet and sticky anytime you have an orgasm.& But if it bothers you, or is& a hassle to clean,& you could try putting a couple of layers of clothing between you and the pillow.

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Input: [Topic ID] 83 [Post ID] 2635 [Date & Time] 2006-09-13 11:11:20 [Post Text]

Output: That's how I learned to masturbate was laying on my stomach& because my mound protrudes& quite a bit and is easily stimulated. I later learned about stuffed animals and pillows. I used those to keep my hands free to look at my step-dad's playboy's and be able to turn the pages! I still like to use a pillow but I have my favorite pillow that has extra heavy duty cases. The memory foam pillows are awesome and I can even wedge a dildo into one to be able to get penetration and grind my pubis& into the pillow. Towels can fold into a big roll and then I can hump it. Or even putting a dildo underneath the first layer of the pillow case and grinding on it. Also, my nipples are getting caressed as I rock back and forth humping my pillow my nipples dangle onto the pillow too. I'll even use one of those really soft velvety blankets and lay it out. What a turn on! I love to see guys do the same thing...lay on their stomachs and grind their penises! It's just so raw! Hmmm....Well, I just remembered something I gotta go do....*wink*

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 453 [Date & Time] 2005-08-25 21:15:30 [Post Text]

Output: My job requires me to be at home all day, so I get stuck doing the laundry while my girlfriend goes to work.& Years ago she had an affair with a guy at work and I caught her because I found wet semen in her underwear while doing the laundry.& She finally admitted to the affair and for the past 5 years she says she has never cheated again.& Ever since, I have paid close attention to her underwear when I do laundry.& Sometimes they are a little damp or a little crusty and some days they are clean with nothing more than a little scent.& I haven't noticed any pattern related to the time of the month as to whether the stains are thicker or whether they happen more often.& There are reasons to suspect she may be cheating; disappearing for hours to buy groceries,& returning from clothes shopping with no clothes because they were out of her size, going to work extra extra early and returning a couple of hours late sometimes because there was a problem just as she was about to leave work, going to work on vacation days to catch up on work, taking a shower when she gets home, keeping a seperate checking account so she can keep her shopping-money seperate from our bill-money, and also low interest in sex, and sometimes emotionally distant. So without proof beyond a reasonable doubt, I can't tell if she is just a hard working mother or whether she is very good at cheating without getting caught.& So the stains in her panties are an important factor in determining how far to persue catching her or whether to just forget about it.& & I need to know what constitutes a normal stain as opposed to putting her panties back on after sex with some other guy. As an experiment,& I masturbated into a pair of her clean panties into the same spot where I find& her stains, then let it dry.& When I compared it to a pair of her own stained panties to the semen stained panties& it was very similar in the amount, seemed to weigh about the same and had the same crusty texture.& So I asked her if she ever masturbates in her underwear and she denied it. I wouldn't expect her to lie about& having an orgasm in her underwear because she admits other times and places that she& does masturbate.& So what do you think, is she just randomly leaking fluid, or is she lying about masturbating in her underwear or cheating or both?& :shock:

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 454 [Date & Time] 2005-08-25 22:25:07 [Post Text]

Output: Now& that it has been found that a female prostate exists and produces same chemical constituents as is in semen, semen per se on a woman's panties is not& sufficient in rape claims. So, I would guess it's not sufficient for finding out if someone has been cheating...I've been reading about this (female prostatic secretions) lately. Someone named Dr. Zaviacic has published a book on it. Certainly there are women who ejaculate great quantities at orgasm....Maybe your girlfriend is one of them? Perhaps you may wish to ask her about female ejaculation. & It may be tough during intercourse& to find out, but have her masturbate for you or& have her& to find her G spot for you. Melissa

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 455 [Date & Time] 2005-08-25 23:49:08 [Post Text]

Output: Just so I understand this are you saying that if a guy finds stains& that are as much as a guy would leave behind then it is uncommon for a girl to have created the stain by herself unless she& had an orgasm and even if she did then it would be "excessive" to have created such a stain.& & Either way that would mean she is lying, either about cheating, or about masturbating with her panties on.& I've watched her masturbate and never seen an ejaculation that would have created these stains, so my only remaining doubt about her panties is whether is is a& normal, slow, oozing process throughout the day or an all-at-once "excessive" release.& I'm hoping she is just having orgasms on the drive to work.

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 459 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 13:55:19 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, My guess is that vaginal and cervical fluids could like semen, cervical fluids can be very sticky. See the photos on the following web page. [url=www.nfpsoftware.com/mucus.html] www.nfpsoftware.com/mucus.html Your concern about your girlfriend cheating on you has become an obsession, which is unhealthy. If you don't feel you can trust her you shouldn't be in a relationship with her. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 460 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 14:20:00 [Post Text]

Output: I'm 100% witht Brad you must know that women can produce mucus and secretions according to the hormonal state at the time and Ithtink it is an obsesion to smell hehr panties to try to control her. furthermore I think you're pulling "a fast one on us" Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 462 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 15:15:09 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks for the link to the mucous photos.& :P & I admit my post makes me sound a little bit obsessed and maybe I& am dwelling on the subject too much.& But& we have been together almost& 18 years and this isn't something that is going to make me leave the relationship.& The way I see it, if she has been cheating for the past 18 years and managed to hide it and not caught anything or gotten pregnant with someone elses child and that's what& she likes, then that's O.K., and if she really only had that one 2-year affair then that's O.K. too. But if she isn't cheating now, then I would need to explore what other reasons could be causing our relationship to be just& fair, when it could be great. So, if am obsessed about anything, it would be improving our relationship. Thanks for the& insight so far. I hope more people respond, because I am not the kind of guy who would go overboard with this and waste money on chemical test kits for semen or on private investigators or on computer spyware.

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 463 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 21:11:24 [Post Text]

Output: It would be impossible for me to tell over the internet what the fluid is. My suggestion to you is to communicate with your girlfriend that you feel your relationship is not as close as you would like. Let her know that it would make you happy if she spent more time with you, and also ask her if there is anything you can do to make her happier in the relationship.

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 468 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 08:38:21 [Post Text]

Output: Hello Edward, Why dont you just ask her outright? "Are you cheating on me?" A question like that completely out of the blue when talking about something else can catch a person off guard. I have to say that actually checking the weight of the panties does sound like you are becoming overwhelmed by the thought of not knowing. Talking even if it does lead to an argument is often the best way to go if you are having serious thoughts, which by the sounds of things you are. You have been together for more than 18 years so it is not going to be the end of the world to her if you just simply ask. She may be offended that you have asked but given that she did cheat once, and you are genuinely thinking about the prospect of her cheating again, or having cheated again, then just ask. You dont have anything to loose by asking and your relationship may end up stronger as a result. You will be achieving a lot by asking too. She will get to learn how you feel, you will be sharing your thoughts and fears about this, plus she will have to look at her behaviour patterns afterwards once she calms down. I would definately consider this if I were you or you may end up with a self forfilling proficy on your hands. I sincerely hope that you find the answers you are looking for here. You will also need to communicate to her what you have said on this group page about not minding too much. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 537 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 19:37:39 [Post Text]

Output: first off i dont think u are obsessive at all. a marraige is a serious othe. if she has cheated before and lied then she obviously cannot ever be 100% trusted.& you are already more whole-hearted than i would be, if my husband cheated i would divorce him since i'd never be able to look at him the same again without feeling hurt and betrayed. i think you& should swing by her work, the grociery store where she shops etc. & just to make sure her times click. if there is something u need at the store and its her day off but she says shes at work, take a swing by and & take notice if her vehicle is there...etc. save cash and be your own private eye.& sniffing undies wont tell u a thing, every woman secretes fluids on a pretty regular basis and you cant always go on that. u need to catch her lying. (if she is) my husband had an ex that she said she couldnt come over because she was sick so he drove to her house and she was sleeping with her ex. why not come out and ask to talk about wether she's happy, because if u arent there's no need to feel stuck and be taken for a fool cuz your married.

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Input: [Topic ID] 85 [Post ID] 538 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 21:49:52 [Post Text]

Output: If you guys have been together for 18 years and if she is cheating, your not going to leave her for it , so you say... then why obsess over it. I think that you are just a little bit too involved in her underwear and not enough involved in her. Man, no wonder she works so much. Maybe she is just trying to get away from you...have you lately told her that you love her, and that there isn't anything you wouldnt do for her. Maybe she doesn't want to have sex with you& , cause she is losing interest ever thought of that. I think you should try to spice up your sex life. Bring her flowers, make her dinner. I bet sooner or later, she's going to come around again. Stop worrying if the semen in her drawls is hers or another mans. Ask her once if she is out prowling if the answer is no... then drop it. Cause if you can't trust her, i don't think the two of you are going to work very much longer. Sorry if this is a bit harsh... its just how i feel.& & Good luck.

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Input: [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 457 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 02:42:37 [Post Text]

Output: Hi there. I'm a 26 year old woman in a committed relationship of 6 years and I'm not sure I've ever had an orgasm. Both sex and masturbation lead me to a growing...growing...nothing. I fake orgasms for the benefit of my boyfriend. I know, I know, not a very good practice, but I've always done it. It's almost like by pretending I have them, it might make it happen? Needless to say, I don't have much of a sex drive. I really do want to experience orgasm and get the fullest enjoyment of intimacy with my partner, but I don't know how. Please help.

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Input: [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 461 [Date & Time] 2005-08-26 14:32:37 [Post Text]

Output: God do I know what you're talking about! I had my first orgasm at 24, that's less than 6 or 7 months ago. I had decided a few months earlier that it was about time to have my first one and so loaded up on lots of info from books and websites but just didn't get there. I finally brought my self (with a little pushing from my bf:)) to try a vibrator. My advice is order a Hitachi Magic wand (amazing!!), and check this website for more info about it www.bettydodson.com/newhom2.htm I honestly love this woman, it was because of her website and the women there, not to mention her book Sex for One. I had my first orgasm within 2 or 3 times trying. After around two months with the vibrator, I decided I want to learn to orgasm using my hand but was abit anxious seeing a lot of people said it's hard after using a vibrator. The first time I tried it worked! I think it did because I wasn't expecting it. Because at that point I knew what an orgasm felt like, I tried to go as far as I can and then try again later, no stress, however turned out I went all the way. I understand your frustration of trying to masturbate... my biggest problem was never knowing where I am going with it and then once the hand is tired enough, you quit. With the vibrator it is easier to go on and very hard to miss the spot as with the hand. As to all the hype about getting addicted to it, I have serious doubts to that. And in the end, an orgrasm, no matter how achieved, is way way way better than none. PS. Come clean with your bf. If you want to have orgasmic sex later on, very likely you'll need help from your hand or vibrator. How will you explain your sudden need to do that? I personally use my hand and I love it, my bf loves it and no more discomfort and frustration at the end. And don't limit yourself to the idea that you should come from penetration only. Just a suggestion, to avoid trouble with your bf, you can tell him you suspect you're not really orgasming and confused about it. If he questions you why now after all this time, maybe something like "I finally read a scientific description of what it is like" would do. And do read one! I found the one in the book Woman's Orgasm by G. Kline-Graber and B. Graber very helpful. If you want I can give you a summary! I hope this helps *HUG*

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Input: [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 467 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 08:26:39 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Cyan Kay is absolutely right in her advice to you. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about orgasms and that you suspect that you may not be experiencing them properly. There is nothing wrong with using a vibrator to achieve an orgasm. I do both alone and with my partner. Once I 'learnt" how to experience an orgasm with my vibrator, I am now fortunate enough to be able to reach climax more readily with stimulation from my partner's hand, fingers or mouth. We have been together eight years now and it is only very recently that he made me orgasm with his hands only using nothing else. I was so surprised I started giggling afterwards. Did not mean to but it just felt like such a wonderfully surprising present! We both fell about laughing in the end and he felt so good inside knowing he and I were able to work together to achieve this after all these years. With regards to your low sex drive, are you on the pill or any other medication? Have you had any hormone problems in the past? Given birth within the last three years? Usually but not always, there is a minor hormone problem. I would recommend you start taking chinese gingsing tablets that are readily availble from health food shops. Also, garlic capsuels and vitamin C can all help. If you are breaking out in spots in places like on your upper outer thighs or around your jaw, ask your doctor to check both your testosterone and progesterone levels. I have suffered for at least five years through lack of progesterone but did not know it until about seven weeks ago. I feel like a new woman now that I know and can do something about it. I also feel like I have a brand new vagina and clitoris too. They certainly have never felt this sensitive before I started using Pro-Gest cream :) Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 472 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 21:39:57 [Post Text]

Output: This is an interesting topic. I have the same experience as Cyan. I enjoy sexual activity, but when it seems to near a peak, the sensation suddenly stops. I can experience some of the 'signs' of orgasm, like involuntary shuddering movements, but not the sensation. Maybe mechanical assistance would help.

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Input: [Topic ID] 86 [Post ID] 523 [Date & Time] 2005-09-12 15:14:20 [Post Text]

Output: [user=24]oceanwinds[/user] wrote: "I can experience some of the 'signs' of orgasm, like involuntary shuddering movements, but not the sensation. Maybe mechanical assistance would help. " I read in the Woman's Orgasm book that the definite sign of a female orgasm are the contractions in the vagina and not the preceeding sensations. Before learning to orgasm, I used to experience shuddering and tingling in my finger tips and toe during oral sex. I was then confused whether that was it. Yet now the sensation is completely different. Try a vibrator and I know this has been said a million times already, the trick is to enjoy what you're feeling at this moment, not wonder if this is it, or when is it gonna happen. This is something till now I sometimes find tricky!

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Input: [Topic ID] 88 [Post ID] 471 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 18:24:50 [Post Text]

Output: hi. im new here. i am going to tell you a little story& of me and my girlfriend. i dont live in the same country as my girlfriends so we see each other about 3 months per year, (we will get married soon though) and well, you could imagine how much we miss sex with eachother and miss being together. when we are together we do all the things a couple could do, starting with a 69 to almost all sexual positions. i remember when i first had sex with her i lasted ages, (before eyaculating) i would say more than 30 mins after penetration& but then i remember how a coulple of months later and after having sex sometimes 3 times a day i started lasting shorter and now im really sensitive when having sex and sometimes i even eyaculate after 10mins of penetration. why is this happening? is it..... to much sex?

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Input: [Topic ID] 90 [Post ID] 485 [Date & Time] 2005-09-03 04:04:58 [Post Text]

Output: Just to share with men whose wanted to make their wife's clit bigger. My wife clit has become bigger now because i have sucked her clit for the past 3 years. Previously her clit was the size of red bean & now is the size of groundnut :). It's easier for me to suck her & she always has orgasm from my sucking & licking now .....:P& Initially it was difficult to suck& her clit because she& was& having a small clit & but i have tried& very hard to make it bigger & the final result was fantastic! & She is very happy & our relationship is getting very close.

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Input: [Topic ID] 90 [Post ID] 489 [Date & Time] 2005-09-03 08:40:45 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, A partner of mine seems to have a larger clitoris than when I met her, and I believe it is the amount of attention it receives now compared to before. It also seems to be more prominent. It isn't like large or anything but perhaps a 25% increase in size over a couple of years, still only average in size. The increase in size is likely the result both stimulation during masturbation and partnered sex. I mention this possibility on the page about clitoral and labial size on the website. Seems I recall some medical article stating the size of the clitoris increases slightly with age too. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 502 [Date & Time] 2005-09-07 22:58:57 [Post Text]

Output: Ok so I have always enjoyed giving my partner a blow job. Although it normally takes me some time before I'm comfortable with them enough to get there. Anyway, I've been married for a year but my husband and I have been together for 3. In the past 8 months I've given him head more and more. One reason is cause I enjoy it. However, I don't think I do it very well. I'm one of those women who like the taste, like the feeling and the power it brings....however I can rarely if ever get him to an orgasm. At first I didn't want him to orgasm cause I always wanted to end with us actually having sex. But lately I want to bring him all the way. When I ask him what he wants me to do or if I should do anything different he doesn't really say anything. I am very open about my sexuality, I enjoy talking about things I don't know or understand and I enjoy trying new things. I know my husband is absolutely nothing like that. Although one reason he likes our sex life is because I'm a "down for whatever" girl. So if he doesn't come I'm always worried that I'm doing something wrong but since he isn't the talkative person in or out of bed I can't really get a straight answer. For the very first time EVER we had sex and he wanted to stop before coming. That really hurt my feelings.

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Input: [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 505 [Date & Time] 2005-09-08 07:42:20 [Post Text]

Output: Hello mzt121 and welcome to the group :) Have you actually asked him to cum in your mouth? It could be that he is feeling under pressure to please you and may not feel comfortable with the idea or he may feel unable to communicate to you how he actually feels about you wanting to do this. Sounds strange but as you are so open about what you want, what you like doing etc, it may be intimidating for him. You said that it hurt your feelings when he did not want to continue to orgasm. This is actually a good thing. Making love and sex should never be focused on achieving an orgasm from either of you. It should something that is shared and nurtured not forced or rather, expected to happen. Your husband, from the little you have said, appears to be a very caring person towards you. I think he may be perhaps feeling awkward about your full on approach and does not know how to express this to you because it may hurt your feelings. Men love the chase and initiating. Sexist comment, I apologise. We all do like the thrill of gaining something and initiating things ourselves. It is a little turn off to me when my Partner asks me what I want him to do. Sometimes I just want to be taken. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 506 [Date & Time] 2005-09-08 19:48:50 [Post Text]

Output: thanks princess :D I'm glad i found this site. It's funny you should mention the last part. Because I tell myself that all the time. Sometimes I make it a point not to be too aggressive because my biggest fantasy (which I've told him) is to be taken and controlled. I know there is a lot we are still learning about each other. And I can honestly say that my libdo has been a lot higher in the past 7 months than ever. But i think its because we aren't currently living together (i relocated to open my own business and he is waiting for a transfer to go through with his company). I miss the intimacy and quality time we spent together so now I think my sex drive is going crazy because of it. About being hurt with him not orgasming. It wasn't really expecting that to happen except (its never not happened so that was a huge shock in itself) but the fact that I noticed he wasn't as into it as I was. And because we don't spend that much time together I crave whatever moments we can get. We usually see each other maybe once a week but its been over 2 weeks since the last time we saw each other...

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Input: [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 507 [Date & Time] 2005-09-08 20:37:43 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I honestly have been on both sides of the coin here. When living with someone, it is an immense turn off if my lover was talking about the things they liked or wanted me to do or worse still, how they needed me to do those things. This is because after a while things just were not allowed to just happen naturally. They felt forced and I, whilst enjoyed sex with that person up to a point, found there was something missing for me. Whilst not living with someone, again, to me, it is a huge turn off if the other person is talking about or giving the impression that they are excited about the sexual side of the relationship. Putting too much emphasis on it. I love all the flirting, the teasing from afar, but as soon as that person starts talking about how much they need for me to do this or that, or they ask me what I want them to do to me, I get turned off. My mind then switches off and whilst I still want to be with that person, sex becomes a run of the mill thing where I simply go through the motions and am not bothered either way. I dont quite know why this is really. I think it is because I like the passion and spontinaity of the unplanned experience. Making love and pleasing my lover should be a pleasure not a chore. It should never be about feeling obligated or obliged to do things just because the other person is saying that is what they want. Discussion about what we like, what we might like to try together and experience together are different and can happen over dinner casually. But as soon as I feel that the other person wants or needs this more than I do, it turns me off. You mention that one of your fantasies is to be completely controlled. That is interesting. I used to think that was a brilliant idea. I tried it and loved it. However, I quickly came to realise that it was the being caught up in the passion and lust with my partner was so much more fun and that was what was missing in the first place. Sometimes, fantasies should remain just that, a fantasy. Glad you are pleased with the group and thanks for posting :) Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 92 [Post ID] 509 [Date & Time] 2005-09-09 00:39:33 [Post Text]

Output: There have been times in the beginning of our relationship that he would come so quick when I would give him a blow job.& Everything was new and exciting, and as much as I hate it sometimes, men are visually stimulated, new stimulation is a big help.& He thinks its the greatest thing if I tell him to sit at his computer and look at porn while I put a pillow on the floor and give him a blowjob.& Its the thought that he is caught doing something naughty and just tell him to watch the screen and enjoy the blow job.& It doesn't mean he isn't just as attracted to you, but sometimes after time we all need a boost to get that dirty part of our mind to come out.& especially w/ all of the daily stress we all have in life.& Then once he realizes that he can just be himself and relax and its not about pleasuring you in that moment, he will in time be able to cum that way.& Try stroking his penis w/ your right hand while you are sucking on it, and tickling his balls and taint w/ your fingers while all of this, the orgasm will be amazing for him, and he will look at you like you are the coolest girl in the world.& I do agree that men seem to feel pressure sometimes to please and perform great that sometimes they forget to relax and just enjoy it, especially if they love you.& its almost silly but me and my fiance spend more time trying to please eachother sometimes that we will end up having this really lengthy f%&* session trying to make the other person completely orgasmic. &

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 511 [Date & Time] 2005-09-09 22:01:14 [Post Text]

Output: I just love to masterbate. I could do it all day , every day. It just feels so good. The way my whole body tingles when i am about to cum. I only can get this feeling by myself, no one can help me. I can not have an orgasm with anyone so i please myself and i love it.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 515 [Date & Time] 2005-09-10 07:04:32 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Sally How old are you? You dont have to answer, I just wondered. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 516 [Date & Time] 2005-09-10 10:35:09 [Post Text]

Output: I'm 30. Why you ask? & &

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 517 [Date & Time] 2005-09-10 11:14:27 [Post Text]

Output: I just wondered for no particular reason Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 544 [Date & Time] 2005-09-16 20:47:36 [Post Text]

Output: I do too. It's great, I've been doing it since middle school. I am now in college.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 545 [Date & Time] 2005-09-16 20:57:02 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Sally, you, I and many others do it sometimes more than once a day, it is so relaxing and so personal and intimate, I've been masturbating since I wa a little girl and didn't know what it was but it felt good, later I was told what it was and I loved it more lol.& & Hugs kisses Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 546 [Date & Time] 2005-09-16 21:29:21 [Post Text]

Output: I know, me too. People here may think i'm crazy but it just feels so good.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 549 [Date & Time] 2005-09-17 16:05:47 [Post Text]

Output: I don't think you're crazy.& I think it's sexy that you can enjoy yourself without anyone else.& I love to masturbate as well.& I don't do it everyday, but I think about it. &

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 663 [Date & Time] 2005-10-09 17:10:27 [Post Text]

Output: that's great that you love it so much! but you don't do it with your partner? what a shame for him (or her). that's one of the (very few) things that is a bit disappointing about my wife. i absolutely LOVE to masturbate - but she could take it or leave it. to me, there is nothing hotter than the sight of a woman, confident with her own body,& legs spread wide, rubbing, vibrating, or fingering herself to a powerful orgasm! & here's to you and yours!

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 665 [Date & Time] 2005-10-09 22:08:22 [Post Text]

Output: I love to masterbate, too. I don't know what I would do without my trusty vibrator, though! I would probably come close to doing it everyday, sometimes for up to 2 hours at a time, just having orgasm after orgasm and I end up in a sticky mess! I have a boyfriend whom I live with, sometimes he watches, sometimes he doesn't. Sometimes he joins in, sometimes he doesn't. I had an interesting experience the other day, sometimes my partner and I invite a girlfriend of mine into our bed to have a bit of fun, she was over the other day and we started getting a bit horny together but my partner was out so I said I would love to have sex with her but I thought it would be wrong to do it without my partner. So we said our goodbyes and I went back& into my room and masterbated, I received a text message from her shortly afterwards saying how horny she was and how she couldn't do anyhthing about it because she was at work. So I sent one back saying I'd just made myself orgasm and a little bit of imagery for her to get more worked up over. So we sent dirty msgs back and forth until she finally& finished work. Her last text msg said something like& "I just masterbated in the shower thinking of your beautiful body shuddering in orgasm. I just kept cumming and cumming, thank you for helping me get off, xoxo" I loved being a part of that moment of hers ;)& I'd love to watch her masterbate. Fuck it, I'd love to masterbate together!

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 677 [Date & Time] 2005-10-13 16:25:37 [Post Text]

Output: Mantra, I understand the desire to masturbate with the girlfriend. I already did it with male and female friends and it was great. I will do it again and again.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 678 [Date & Time] 2005-10-13 21:37:33 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Mantra, So I'm not the only one who beleives a girl's orgasm may be even stickier than a guy's? Melissa

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 684 [Date & Time] 2005-10-17 08:58:56 [Post Text]

Output: [user=204]sally_b[/user] wrote: "I know, me too. People here may think i'm crazy but it just feels so good."No!! I don't think your crazy. Its feels great:D

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 687 [Date & Time] 2005-10-17 20:23:04 [Post Text]

Output: HI..to me masturbation is a unique sexual experience because I can achieve one or more orgasms and at the speed I want. I can make it& last longer if I feel like keeping myself at the edge or just come fast if I am in a hurry and my personal opinion is that there is not another sex experience that compare to masturbation. Good luck& Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 688 [Date & Time] 2005-10-18 05:43:48 [Post Text]

Output: u just gotta keep tryin i guess........... try somethin new tht would get u closer to experiencin orgasms wit ur partner gotta keep tryin girl

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 715 [Date & Time] 2005-10-22 15:04:28 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Mantra, It is interesting about what you say about secretions...being sticky, etc...If you would, I have a few questions, you may e-mail me at PLEASE DO NOT PUT AN EMAIL ADDRESS ON A PUBLIC FORUM. PEOPLE CAN CLICK ON YOUR PROFILE AND EMAIL YOU DIRECTLY FROM THERE. THANK YOU Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 716 [Date & Time] 2005-10-22 15:06:49 [Post Text]

Output: Dear ultm8 I wouldn't have you feeling awkward watching her masturbate? Perhaps some guys I beleive would want to be in on it being the one to please her... Melissa

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 744 [Date & Time] 2005-10-30 18:27:45 [Post Text]

Output: MM: Not sure I understood ur question. Either way, I don't feel like i have to be the one pleasing her. I always thought i would marry someone who had a love of masturbation like i do - spending lazy afternoons watching each other making ourselves cum. Didn't work out that way. On the rare occassions that my wife will masturbate for me, it doesn't bother me in the least to not be the one getting her off. I've always told her that i don't care what gets her hot, as long as she GETS hot!& LOL!

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 910 [Date & Time] 2005-12-20 03:54:34 [Post Text]

Output: I have never had sex, but I do love to masturbate. Something that gets me off is watching a women masturbate.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 912 [Date & Time] 2005-12-20 11:35:24 [Post Text]

Output: I've been doing it since I was 18 and I love it too. I cannot have IC as of yet because of vaginismus but I have been inserting my dilators whilst aroused and making myself orgasm whilst they are in which I think helps me a lot. I can spend ages building up and holding off from my genitals for quite a while and then as soon as I go down there, I explode and can then continue to have orgasms for as long as I have time to lay about martubating, haha. I hear that loads of men get off on seeing us females masturbate. I would feel a bit stupid doing it in front of a guy as things stand now& but I suppose it would be worth getting used to, it would be great if it didn't make me feel ridiculous.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 914 [Date & Time] 2005-12-20 17:21:30 [Post Text]

Output: Hi perhaps if you filmed yourself masturbating first you would see what you look like. Just a suggestion. Then when you are comfortable seeing yourself that way you can share the experience in real life with a boyfriend or partner. I love masturbating in front of my partner. It is a huge turn on watching him becoming increasingly aroused watching me. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1188 [Date & Time] 2006-02-22 17:25:33 [Post Text]

Output: I have watched my wife masturbate and I have masturbated in front of my wife. I find it very erotic.I wish I could have multiple masturbations like a female. It does feel so goooooood.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1192 [Date & Time] 2006-02-23 15:01:32 [Post Text]

Output: Last night while I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone, I mentioned that I would really like to watch him masturbate since the thought of it turns me on.& He then asked if I would masturbate for him too, of course I told him I would be happy to. Just thinking about it gets me excited.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1197 [Date & Time] 2006-02-23 16:47:55 [Post Text]

Output: good for you :) Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1226 [Date & Time] 2006-02-25 15:39:25 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks!:D& I absolutely can't wait. 13 more days until I get to see him.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1409 [Date & Time] 2006-04-11 17:13:44 [Post Text]

Output: DO YOU HAVE ANY PARTICULAR FANTASIES WHILE YOU ARE MATERBATING there is already a thread about this subject can you post in that one please thank you Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 1410 [Date & Time] 2006-04-12 03:55:06 [Post Text]

Output: here is a link to the other thread - femalesexuality.mywowbb.com/forum7/260.html Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2009 [Date & Time] 2006-07-22 16:15:11 [Post Text]

Output: how do you tell if yor female partner is getting off durring sex& and not just faking?:-/

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2014 [Date & Time] 2006-07-22 16:47:00 [Post Text]

Output: Well if she's moaning like a pornstar, then you should worry.& You can't really tell unless she's upfront about it. Or if you can feel her vagina milking your penis when she's orgasming. When it comes to oral sex, if you are fingering her while you're playing with her clit, you most likely will feel her muscles pulsate squeezing your fingers.& And if you don't feel the sensation of her pvc muscles doing that to your fingers, she's faking.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2176 [Date & Time] 2006-07-29 12:45:24 [Post Text]

Output: I China ,some people called& Taoshi can have multiple orgasms just as the female.(Taoshi was who believe in a Chinese religion called Taojiao,which was founded by Laozi,who was compared with Confucious)They are admirable,aren't they!

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2177 [Date & Time] 2006-07-29 12:55:17 [Post Text]

Output: Hi,Ladyburg,but women can contract the muscles of their viginas by will,can't they?So we male still can't tell,I'm afraid,so it's still a tough problem,when you are making lov e with a good actress.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2178 [Date & Time] 2006-07-29 13:29:00 [Post Text]

Output: [user=678]dragon[/user] wrote: "Hi,Ladyburg,but women can contract the muscles of their viginas by will,can't they?So we male still can't tell,I'm afraid,so it's still a tough problem,when you are making lov e with a good actress."Yes we can, but there's a different between an orgasm pulse and a grap your finger flex.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2193 [Date & Time] 2006-07-30 17:09:39 [Post Text]

Output: I too; am also in the "Fan of the Masterbation Club" yes enjoying masterbation is really a good thing. I would suggest if you are having a hard time "getting off" any other way than from masterbation; try doing different ways of masterbating. learning to cum from another method may help you come with another person. Years ago another woman and I use to masterbate over the phone together; but, I am digressing. just wanted to add my two cents.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2196 [Date & Time] 2006-07-30 17:55:03 [Post Text]

Output: :-DDear Mantra & I think its hot that u masturbate an wanna have sex wither other women around your bf& I wish there were more women like you out there@};-

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2197 [Date & Time] 2006-07-30 18:02:09 [Post Text]

Output: &Dear [user=130]melissa_malena[/user] & it probably is& women have a bigger& space for it to come from

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2574 [Date & Time] 2006-09-07 21:13:38 [Post Text]

Output: what post are you replying to?

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2589 [Date & Time] 2006-09-08 12:32:17 [Post Text]

Output: Wow! This site sure is helpful in overcoming shame and guilt. If nothing else you learn that you really are not alone. Wish our whole western society would read the stuff that's posted here and just GET OVER IT! If I ever have any children, I promise not to make them feel guilty about it. We'll just talk about being discrete and the fact that other people are not necessarily so open minded, so you may need to think carefully about whom you want to share that info with. Thanks to all here for being so open minded! (Yes, I enjoy it too! ;)& )

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 2591 [Date & Time] 2006-09-09 11:40:00 [Post Text]

Output: & this is the post i was replying to& & Hi Mantra, ?? So I'm not the only one who beleives a girl's orgasm may be even stickier than a guy's? Melissa

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 4107 [Date & Time] 2007-04-18 07:25:17 [Post Text]

Output: hi, i live in grenada w.i. i'm a guy my name is kellon i just want you to know. i have a gf. but i want to understand more about female masturbation i think that it will help with my overall understanding of females who do and add to the relationship with my girl. i want to learn so any help will be great thanks:D. p.s. you can contact me via messenger if you like let me know.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 5174 [Date & Time] 2007-12-06 18:29:56 [Post Text]

Output: here is a link to the other thread - [url=femalesexuality.mywowbb.com/forum7/260.html] femalesexuality.mywowbb.com/forum7/260.html Princess,& sorry to trouble you.& You posted the above on 12th April, 2006 but, when I click on it, I am denied.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 5212 [Date & Time] 2007-12-23 16:37:45 [Post Text]

Output: I've been masterbating since I was a little girl---I think around 5 or 6.& I remember humping on teddy bears, beach balls and baby dolls etc Now, I have graduated to using a vibrator on my clit and it feels really amazing.& It's better than using my hand.& My orgasms are quite intense, and afterwards it puts me to sleep like a baby.& I think it's an excellent substitute for oral sex right now.& Defintely not better than the real thing, but pretty close and it keeps me very satisfied.

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Input: [Topic ID] 93 [Post ID] 6305 [Date & Time] 2008-12-21 03:26:44 [Post Text]

Output: I love to masturbate just as much as you do .. i just don't have enough privacy but once in a while i do.. and i make the most of that time xD I'm like 17 and my parents keep walking past my room all the time and& walk in and out of my room aswell... sigh xD:?

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Input: [Topic ID] 96 [Post ID] 518 [Date & Time] 2005-09-11 02:13:13 [Post Text]

Output: I am a lesbian . I mostly like boobs . What attracts& other& & girls . do other womanlove boobs&

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Input: [Topic ID] 96 [Post ID] 521 [Date & Time] 2005-09-11 15:41:40 [Post Text]

Output: Hi I'm bi and I don't feel we look to a particular feature in a girl, myself tend to look tothe inner girl and then enjoy the intimacy before we start picking parts of the body. Talking about breasts no 2 women agree on big or small breats each has its own beauty and the nipples are so different and ll so arouisng; I have a friend with beautiful large nipples and she feel asahmed and hide them and tells me she looks like a female monkey... Well we are beautiful in our way..love Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 96 [Post ID] 552 [Date & Time] 2005-09-17 16:30:50 [Post Text]

Output: I think women in general are beautiful creatures.& I am attracted to all kinds of women, some with big boobs and some with small.& I went to this adult themed party once and there was this Asian gal.& She was so petite.& & She had long black hair.& She didn't have any body hair, and she had the perkiest little boobs.& She didn't have any cleavage, and they curved up showing pink nipples.& I couldn't stop staring at her.& She "worked" at the party and would perform lap dances but only for men.& I went with my boyfriend, and he had her perform for him so I could watch.& I really wanted her to perform for me.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 97 [Post ID] 525 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 14:01:35 [Post Text]

Output: i am a 27 yr old caucasian and my mother always told me not to shave above the knee. i remembered how hairy my mother was so i figured i would since i didnt want to look like her. well...she failed to tell me the reasoning behind it- so alass now i am very hairy and am forced to shave all the time which leads to more -thick, dark hairs!!! i went to get a bikini wax once and this perfect little bleach blonde girl did it and was like "wow, you DO have a lot of hair"...i was sooo embarassed! the nerve! i never did that again!anyway i dont like wearing short shorts or bathing suits because i shave my thighs and bikini area so much and have inevitable little red dots and ingrown hair bumps and it looks like i have some freaky rash! YUCK! but if i dont i have black stubble all over my thighs and bikini instead! i cant win. so my question is....how do i get rid of hair forever so i dont have to constantly shave or wax- are there creams or lotions that are PERMANENT??? i use this naturally smooth hair mimimizing lotion but its not working- has anyone had luck with that?? advise please!!!!:shock:

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Input: [Topic ID] 97 [Post ID] 527 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 16:20:24 [Post Text]

Output: Hello rosadog and welcome to the group :) in short - no - there is no permanent answer to removing hair. Electrolosis come fairly close but costs a bit. You can buy home kits nowadays which will do the job but they are pretty tricky to use as you have to get the tiny needle down into the hair folacle. One thing that I do while I am relaxing is to pull the hairs out with tweasers. This takes ages. I usually do this while I am watching a heavy going film to take my mind off the pain of it. But it works and the hairs grow back much much finer and more easier to remove. They dont grow back too quickly either. They take much longer to grow back then shaving them off does. As for waxing, again, I would try one of the home kits you can buy. Much more convenient and less embarassing to use at a salon as you have experienced already. Also, one more thing, have you had your testosterone levels checked recently by a blood test? And been checked for insulin function? Both these things can cause excess hair as can progesterone levels being too low. I hope this all helps a little. I am sorry I couldnt tell you that you could simply remove the hair and that would be that. But unfortunately that is not the case :( Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 97 [Post ID] 530 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 21:10:52 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Laser hair removal can reduce hair growth, to the point of almost no hair in some cases, so I gather. Expensive, requiring three treatments, but about your only option, besides what Princess mentioned: Here are some links. [url=www.hair-removal-products.net/brazilian-wax.html] www.hair-removal-products.net/brazilian-wax.html [url=www.hairremovalforum.com/bodyhairremoval.htm] www.hairremovalforum.com/bodyhairremoval.htm [url=www.hairlasers.com/index.html] www.hairlasers.com/index.html [url=www.sfsi.org/answers/hairless.html] www.sfsi.org/answers/hairless.html It isn't shaving that increases hair growth, but simply increased age. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 97 [Post ID] 534 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 14:39:32 [Post Text]

Output: thank u both so much. i wish i lived in a country where no one shaves so it wouldnt matter....but i dont! Maybe alaska or antartica or greenland....those places are always cold- no one would want to for fear of freezing! anyway....i'll have to check out those sites and just try different waxing kits (nothing ever works like it says its going too) just like the picture on the BK commercial doesnt ever look the same as the burger you unwrap after you order at the drive thru. i use to do the plucking thing- i got real good at it and it didnt hurt much if i did it all the time- it was just so time consuming! i probably shouldnt even worry about it (i doubt i have a hormonal inbalance or anything) my friend when i was in highschool had hair under her chin she'd have to shave...im not that bad...i just dont see anyone else with& rashy thighs and bikini,& so i dont like it. funny how society makes girls/women compare themselves to glam-stars and such (even when they know better, like me...i know better....its just thats what& most guys look at.....and i want my husband to like looking at me) anyhow. im glad this site is available. so freaks like me can feel a little bit more normal.-;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 526 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 16:07:38 [Post Text]

Output: Please help, and I apologize if this seems long.. I have been doing some research, but I can't seem to find the answers that I need.& & Here is my problem: I just recently lost my virginity, about a couple weeks ago, my boyfriend can't have children, he is defective, so we had sex without a condom, and five times since.& Ever since our first, I have noticed that my discharge has started smelling 'fishy' and research tells me that this could be signs of a bacterial infection, but I don't know what to do.& If it is, is there anything 'simple' I can do to get rid of it?& I know how to prevent it in the future, but I need to know what I can do about getting it to go away.. the smell seems gross and strong, and sites tell me too many different things, I just want to know if anyone has gone through this, or can confirm my assumptions, and most of all, help me get it gone! thank you. & -Serena

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Input: [Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 528 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 16:29:03 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Serena Welcome :) Yes, at some point I have had this several times. Firstly, it is always best to get these checked out with a doctor. It could be anything. But in the meantime, get some thrush cream from the chemist or pharmacy. Thrush is the most likely cause. This is not bad at all. It is a yeast inbalance within the vulva and vagina. The cream will help sooth the irritation and treat the infection. There are times though when this cream must be backed up with the corrrect antibiotics as well. Please please get this checked out. A swab taken from you will rule out all manner of other more serious infections. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 529 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 18:04:20 [Post Text]

Output: ah, I was hoping you wouldn't say the 'd' word lol..& okay, I have a docter, mr. smith, as my normal doctor, should I see him?& What type of doctor is okay?&

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Input: [Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 531 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 21:15:56 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, A fishy odor possibly indicates a bacterial infection, or your body reacting to his ejaculate. A bacterial infection requires antibiotics, a yeast treatment, an anti-fungal, wont work and could cause harm if you don't have a yeast infection. You should& see a doctor. Even if he is sterile, how do you know for sure, he should still be using a condom to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections, especially if you are dating. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 532 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 22:29:02 [Post Text]

Output: yes, I am making sure to use condoms next time!& Its not good, worrying about the 'possiblility' of pregnancy or any 'reactions' & on a more positive note, I described to my mum about what was going on, and she said yeaste (pardon my spelling) infections are common in her side of the family, the women produce extra, so she gave me a tablet and told me to douche before I shower (once) and then from there on, once a month, so not to over do it, and to keep clean.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 98 [Post ID] 533 [Date & Time] 2005-09-13 23:59:00 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Douching causes rather than prevents infections, as it disturbs the natural balance of the vagina. You can also force foreign material into the uterus resulting in a pelvic infection, resulting in infertility. Please see the information on the following page: [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hygiene.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hygiene.htm This page has the info on infections: [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/vaginitis.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/vaginitis.htm Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 535 [Date & Time] 2005-09-14 17:58:12 [Post Text]

Output: i have a deeper question this time... i have been married to my husband for a little over a year. he didnt tell me until after we were dating a while that he had lead a permiscuous life before he met me and that he aquired herpes in his early 20's. obviously i was hurt beyond belief since i didnt think he was that kind of person since(which was the major reason i married him) PLUS we had not been using condoms... I& asked him why he didnt tell me& when he met me-& he said it was because his doctor told him he could not pass it on unless he was having symptoms. he also stated he hadnt had a breakout for 2 years. I was so upset and refused to believe 'heresay' and couldnt understand why, if he had a sexually transmitted disease why he wouldnt keep up with information about it! so i researched it and i found otherwise. i told my husband it CAN be passes asymtomatically, whenever his body is shedding it even though he has no symptoms. which is why most peolple dont even know they have it let alone aware they are passing it on. unfortunately i think i may have already caught it from him. its hard to say since symptoms, if any- include anything from a mild itch to a burning rash with blisters, to only a severe unexplaine cervical pain. i aim to get it checked out. but instinct tells me i have it. i also want to get checked out to make sure thats ALL he is passing to me since he was only tested that once long ago...hes not a cheater so i know hes not with anyone else but me now. Question #1 is- can i also catch it from sharing a towel after showering together? considering the towel is damp? i know toilet seats are not likely because they are dry. Question #2- say i get tested and if i DO indeed have it now too, does it matter if we use condoms? it seems gross to me but, does it really matter if we are passing the same disease back and forth(does it& cause more breakouts that way) Question#3- this is for anyone (a personal pole) what is the adverage number of sexual partners a 27 year old has had? my husband had 12 before the age of 21 (he started at age 15---when i was still playing with my little ponies and strawberry shortcake dolls!) i was never kissed until i was 21, and have had only 2 partners before my husband, one of which i was with 3 and 1/2 yrs. (you can see why im a little distraut over finding my husband was with 18!............. PLEASE HELP....:?

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Input: [Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 541 [Date & Time] 2005-09-15 20:21:29 [Post Text]

Output: Hi rosadog Firstly, Yes, you can catch it from sharing towels. That was one of the first things that the hospital said to us that I must take great care and use my own towels and not allow anyone else to use them. Secondly, it may not bother you to pass the same thing back and forth whilst being married, BUT, do you really want to be going through this on and off for the rest of your marriage? You should both get treated together and get advice together about this. Perhaps some marriage counselling may be in order so that you can express your feelings of how let down you feel that your husband did not tell you he had an outbreak of the herpies virus before he was with you. I would most certainly feel betrayed and angry about that. With the herpies virus, I am sure you already know, but once you get it, you always have it. You may not present with all the symptoms of a full on outbreak but the virus will be with you. Sorry, if that is something which causes you to feel uncomfortable. But it is better to be straight about these things. Get yourself checked out properly. Receive the right treatment. But it will be a fruitless exercise if your husband doesnt do the same thing at the same time. There may well be something else like bacterial infection that shows up and so you will both be treated for this together. Hope this helps and let me know how you get on Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 551 [Date & Time] 2005-09-17 16:22:46 [Post Text]

Output: When you married, you already knew about the herpes, correct? If you don't have herpes, do everything possible to protect yourself from getting it.& I've read that herpes can cause some forms of cancer in women.& If you get pregnant, and give birth vaginally, you can transmit it to your baby if you have an outbreak.& & Stress can cause your outbreaks, and being in labor is stressful. Wear protection...always, and whatever you do, DO NOT perform oral sex on him without a condom or you may get herpes in your mouth. Sure, herpes is a livable condition, but if you are not careful, it is really gross!& I hate those TV commercials about herpes because it makes it sound like it's not that bad. I hope you do not have it.

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Input: [Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 563 [Date & Time] 2005-09-20 21:07:35 [Post Text]

Output: i think that i too my have herpes because i have this bump on the inside of my vagina its not painful or anything and it has been there for about two months but but besides that everything else has been normal what do u think ?:?

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Input: [Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 566 [Date & Time] 2005-09-21 13:12:30 [Post Text]

Output: to answer ms.bama: i am not a doctor but i doubt that it is herpes. a herpes blister is different. in most cases (those who have full blown herpes symptoms) it tends to itch or burn in areas around your vaginal area, then a pimple like bump will develope turning into a blister then eventually a sore& before it& crusts over and begins to heal. it may last a couple days to a week. (again most cases)....if u have a bump it may either be normal or something that a gyno should check out but if it doesnt cause you any sort of irratation and has been there for months it doesnt sound to me like herpes.

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Input: [Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 567 [Date & Time] 2005-09-21 13:31:36 [Post Text]

Output: another question about transmitting herpes: i have looked on different sites but they only answer general questions. the questions i would like to know answeres to are - 1.- i have read you can get herpes different places then just vaginal, anal, and oral... if you say that it can be caught from sharing a towel, does that mean you could get herpes anywhere the towel touches, like arms, legs,shoulders & etc....??? ..also, if i have a breakout and i am drying myself with my own towel couldnt i then spread it all over myself??????- how does that work? 2.- medication only helps with holding back breakouts. but it does nothing to keep u from asymptomatically shedding the virus and transmitting it...(or does it)so, since my husband has only had 1 break out in 2 years and& has not been on any medication,& if i get diagnosed with it too& as long as i dont have symptoms we should be fine having sex without condoms shouldnt we? or does this increase both our risks for having more breakouts. (obviously we would not be having sex at all if one of us had symptoms) 3.- oral sex is a no-no too i found out. but what if one of us is already infected in the mouth, would kissing be a no-no forever too? or do you have to have symptoms to be able to pass it from mouth to mouth?? i would hate to think i may never even be able to kiss him!!! .................i dont know about this stuff- hopefully some one else does!:(

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Input: [Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 571 [Date & Time] 2005-09-22 01:34:42 [Post Text]

Output: well I know it is wrong to keep something like that from your mate.& but I do understand why some people do it.& my sister got herpes at age 17 and was horrified by the experience.& she had warts and had to have them burned off, very painful.& she is now married and her hubby does not know.& He would probably leave her if he knew.& she was told the same thing by her doctor that as long as she doesn't have any breakouts she can't pass it along.& she took meds to suppress breakouts and hasn't had any since, but he still doesn't know.& 3 kids later and one affair by him, still no clue.& I dont know if she'll ever tell him, but he would probably leave her because of it.& i know that is why she doesn't tell him. & Oh my thoughts on the sex roster.& I had 11 by age 26. which now days doesn't seem like much w/ girls sleeping around.& and even though it seems like such a double standard, most guys are screwing as young teenagers.& they are little hormones just running around.& my fiance has slept w/ probably 30+ women, dont know the exact number and i am probably way off its most likely more.& majority of the sleeping around was in his early 20's when he was in the navy.& the problem w/ guys sometimes is they would rather have all the feeling in their penis then put on a condom to keep from getting a disease.& it scares me for both of my kids when they get older, all i can do is educate them. try to understand why your husband kept this from you, probably fear of rejection.

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Input: [Topic ID] 99 [Post ID] 573 [Date & Time] 2005-09-22 10:49:40 [Post Text]

Output: i dont doubt him having the fear of rejection, but just& think of& the devistation your sister felt when she learned she caught it, dont you think it would be just as, if not more devistating to know that you are potentially passing it on to someone who loves and trusts you very much......and giving them the same hurt, devastated feeling that you wished you never had?.................... would you say the same if it was HIV/AIDS that you sister was secreting hiding from her husband??

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