Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 30 [Date & Time] 2005-04-12 08:38:50 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I recommend exploring anal massage first, no penetration. You need to work on relaxing the muscles and getting accustomed to the stimulation. Many women are surprised to learn how sensitive this area is, if explored gently and slowly. Guys are perhaps more inhibited about anal play than women, because of the false believe it is something only gay men do. Apply tons of lubricant first. Run your finger around the anus in light circles. Press in on the side of the anus with the pad of your finger and then release. Don't put your finger in the center and try to push in. Get the muscles to relax first. If your partner or you don't enjoy this part explore some more but don't try penetration. Once the anus relaxes press in deeper on the side of the anus and slowly allow your well lubricated finger to slip in. Again test the waters, slowly in, slowly out. This should perhaps take an hour, massaging the buttocks and vulva or penis in alternation. When one to two fingers go in you may want to try using a tapered butt plug. Well lubed allow it to slip in slightly and then allow the anus to press it back out. Repeat this in and out very slowly until the plug slips in. Plugs come in small, medium, and large, but small and medium are probably all most need. Once you get the plug to slip in all the way explore other types of sex, massage, oral, and perhaps intercourse. Be aware in the case of women their pelvic cavity is already partially filled and putting something into the vagina may not be as easy or requires more care. Plugs allow women to explore double penetration with a single partner. Before anal sex it is a good idea to climb in the tub or shower and rinse the anal area and slip a finger inside your rectum to see if you are empty. Lubricating the anus may allow you to expel any contents or you may need to inject a small amount of warm water; use a Fleet enema bottle that you have empty the contents out of, as it is& too harsh for anal play. If you use water you may want to do this a couple hours prior to anal play to make sure the water is fully expelled. The more water you use, the more time you need to wait. Fecal matter is a normal part of anal sex, so be prepared, for at least trace amounts. It comes with the territory, but is seldom mentioned. The pleasure experienced usually makes this fact insignificant. You may want to do this activity laying on a bath towel and have a wet wash cloth nearby too. Anal sex is considered a high risk sexual activity as far as STD's& and STI's so condoms and surgical gloves are a wise idea. The gloves will reduce friction and likely make it more enjoyable for both. If you are dating and not using a condom during vaginal intercourse it is still wise to use a condom during anal intercourse, and makes cleanup easier. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 39 [Date & Time] 2005-04-12 20:07:59 [Post Text]

Output: I won't expound to the degree that Brad did but his advice is, I think, excellent.& Anal sex can prove to be fabulous for male or female.& The pleasure to be had is tremendous.& I would just say that "SLOW, SLOW, SLOW" and "GENTLE" are prime considerations.& Also, a good enema prior to anal sex is a definite plus.& I find that a little bit more than a Fleet enema is best.& A 1-2qt enema, retained for little while, will assure good cleansing of the bowel and make anal sex so much more enjoyable.& Don't be afraid of the enema.& It can be very erotic also if given with TLC. & Of course that is when penetration is finally desired.& Go slow and enjoy.& It is fantastic!!!

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 53 [Date & Time] 2005-04-20 14:45:03 [Post Text]

Output: The Prostate is little less than finger length away from the anus at the front of the body. It's small round and soft normally. You're partner will know when you found it. Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 96 [Date & Time] 2005-05-08 07:42:39 [Post Text]

Output: You are so right, the enema was very erotic, thank you. Sadie

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 98 [Date & Time] 2005-05-08 15:11:15 [Post Text]

Output: When using enemas, I think it's important to be careful not to do it too often. Not that I'm an expert but I was told that& enemas can affect the bacteria population of the gut.

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 101 [Date & Time] 2005-05-10 10:23:08 [Post Text]

Output: Having worked as an orderly for almost 20 years I can say that enemas can be harmful if used too often. They can cause the bowl to become lazy and dependant on them for elimination. They can lower good bacteria count but antibiotics are more likely to cause this problem. A good resource page is found on this site. [url] www.chclibrary.org/micromed/00046780.html

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 106 [Date & Time] 2005-05-12 02:26:44 [Post Text]

Output: I enjoy anal sex quite frequently.& At least once a week.& My boyfriend and I are very open during sex.& But and empty bowel and lots of lube is key for immense pleasure.& a good and not so painful position starting out would be starting out missionary style (him on top), instead of it going in the vagina...slip it in your butt....slowly.& Once you feel comfortable then you can move your legs up higher around your neck, more intense pleasure.& if he is patient it can be wonderful.& You are top is also good when starting out just because it gives you a lot of control w/ putting his penis in and how fast it actually goes in.& Then once you become a veteran, go for the doggy style, start out slowly, once in and relaxed he can go nuts and it makes you scream.& Have fun, its an awesome ride!!

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 109 [Date & Time] 2005-05-12 09:45:39 [Post Text]

Output: luvs2dance, thanks for the visual! I have a tendency to picture things when people give descriptions and this was a good one. ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 110 [Date & Time] 2005-05-13 00:45:58 [Post Text]

Output: glad I could be of help! ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 126 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 13:55:24 [Post Text]

Output: Hey, im new here, and had the site reccomende by an ex-girlfriend. We talked about sex more than we actually did it, as at the time we were both still fairly shy, but we talked about the whole "back door" act, and we both always though that it was a one way system (exit no entry) lol, now though i would think about it but would not be compfortable unless i was sure that the girl would enjoy it, and i would never ask for it, it would have to be asked to me. (im 17 years old now) btw:)

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 132 [Date & Time] 2005-05-18 02:07:04 [Post Text]

Output: well you probably wont find a whole lot of 17 year old girls willing to try anal sex.& And not everyone likes it.& But if the miracle happens and you find a girl who is willing to explore my only advice for guys out there is to be very patient.& dont force the issue or yourself into her.& If done properly, a woman can enjoy that immensley(spelling).& good luck

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 136 [Date & Time] 2005-05-18 09:05:19 [Post Text]

Output: yeh, could not agree more, but like i said, i would never force it upon anyone, i hate the feeling that your making some-one act differentely or make them feel uncompfortable.

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 298 [Date & Time] 2005-07-06 13:09:25 [Post Text]

Output: Hey guys and gals, Lets see if you all or just one can answer this question for me. My wife and I have had anal sex quite a lot. I always take my time, making sure that foreplay is extended for quite some time. Anal massage, while performing cunnilingus is my preferred method of relaxing her. When I feel her anal muscles relax, then and only then will I attempt to penetrate. Beginning with my pinky finger and working up to my thumb. Keep in mind that I have large hands. Each step is taken in time (i.e. when she is relaxed enough for me to stroke her anus with my pinky, then i move to the next larger digit.& As I stated before, we have been having anal sex for a while now but, here lately she doesn't want to. I know that I haven't hurt her in anyway, because when we do have sex in that form, it will usually end in a mind blowing orgasm for her. So what I want to know is how a woman can love it one minute and leave it the next??????

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Input: [Topic ID] 12 [Post ID] 321 [Date & Time] 2005-07-10 20:43:31 [Post Text]

Output: there are reasons why we might want to do anal sex one week and not the next.& sometimes it may have to do w/ her stomach feeling sick and anal sex does sometimes get a bowel movement going after.& making a mess is not a real turn on and can be quite embaressing.& Some women do it just in the beginning to keep their man interested because its not something a lot of women will try.& And once they got their man, suddenly the anal sex isn't happening anymore.& that's a reach though, dont know if that's what it could be. another idea would be how easily women can get turned off by silly things.& So if it worked one week, and the next week her hormones are off due to pms or whatever, she might not be as kinky.& i know sometimes i must freak my fiance out with how high my libido is, but also the fact that 3 weeks out of the month i'm a total freak.& and then that one week right before my period, i'm emotional, needy, need more kissing and less rough sex.& I still want sex, but usually not as "freaky" as i normally would be.& Women are confusing, even to ourselves.& I dont know why I do or say the things I say sometimes, such a mystery! be happy she lets you penetrate her anally at all.& every girl i know either hasn't tried it and swears she never will, or has by accident and swears she never will again.

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Input: [Topic ID] 13 [Post ID] 31 [Date & Time] 2005-04-12 08:50:39 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, As of two weeks& ago I am no longer working at a 40 hour per week job so I should have more opportunity to contribute to the group, like the days of old. :D& I decided the website and the associated businesses required more of my time than I could provide working three jobs, so now I have just two, the website and service manager for a scuba diving store. The fact that I run the website is also known by friends, family, and cowokers, which was not the case a year ago, as I live in a conservative area. This past week was more eventful than I had anticipated with multiple computer crashes and Yahoo zapping the old group; I am currently using my old computer. :X& & I am hoping things settle down somewhat this week. Keeping my fingers crossed. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 13 [Post ID] 35 [Date & Time] 2005-04-12 14:46:29 [Post Text]

Output: LOL :D so you are out of the closet at last ? do you mind if I ask how the people around you, friends family etc, took it when they learnt of what your other 'job' is? well done :-) Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 13 [Post ID] 38 [Date & Time] 2005-04-12 19:54:20 [Post Text]

Output: Go for it Brad.& Thanks for all you are doing and will do in the future.

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Input: [Topic ID] 13 [Post ID] 41 [Date & Time] 2005-04-12 23:01:46 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Princess, Well, most are pretty surprised, as most would never guess that I would do something like this. I guess I come off very conservative, but reserved is more like it. It is kind of like when they find out I am also a former Marine. I haven't had any bad reactions, most probably don't know how to respond, or don't express their feelings. When I do my shows and have my The-Clitoris.com banner up that is when I get the shocked and disgusted looks from a few. Of course some of the ladies I was working with are interested in a toy party, so I have been creating a new business this past week, Enchanted Evening Parties. When I told my mother what I had been doing for five years she wasn't overly happy, partly because I didn't tell her, and partly because she doesn't approve. My father is okay with it. A couple of the ladies at my current job have worked or will work for me in the future so they are okay with it. At the Christmas party for the company we had a while elephant gift exchange and a couple of the girls were fighting over my gift, one not wanting to give it up. On the way to my latest trip I was giving a couple of my friends who were going with me a ride to the airport. She mentions how she had some information for my website and then proceeds to tell me information he probably would preferred I didn't know.& & :D& So it can be interesting. & Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 13 [Post ID] 42 [Date & Time] 2005-04-12 23:19:55 [Post Text]

Output: Well, you know, way back when I joined the Clitoris Yahoo group I quickly found out it wasn't just another porn group and that there were legitimate people, men and women, who wanted answers to questions and also many who contributed many of those valuable answers.& Of course, it has always had it's erotic and senuous appeal.& We all love sex but this group was different.& I have never posted very much but would usually visit at least several times a week to catch up on things.& I have never claimed to be an expert on sexuality but I think I know my share and I've learned a lot about other people from the group.& I think there is still much to be discovered about that lovely little pink bud that is named the "clitoris".& I've also loved the website and of course I love the female masturbation contributions (we all have our weakness and that's one of mine).& But all in all the website and the group are thumbs up as far as I'm concerned.& Who can know the mind of Yahoo and really, who cares?& It appears that this forum will take off and Brad, we owe it all to you.& What better job can a man have or for that matter a woman also than to be able to study a woman's clitoris?& Just some of my musings!!!!

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Input: [Topic ID] 15 [Post ID] 50 [Date & Time] 2005-04-19 20:29:38 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I don't know if you would consider it or not but why don't you go to a gynecologist and let him examine you.& I have heard of a procedure that can be done to help the clitoral glans have more exposure from under the hood when it is stimulated.& I'm by no means an expert but I don't think you will ever have your frustration lifted and really feel pleasure from masturbating or oral sex until you can get the glans exposed more.& Having to work so hard for an orgasm would tend to give anyone, male or female, a bad attitude.& You are young and you should be enjoying your body and having many, many orgasms.& It is not right to deny yourself of this God given ecstasy.& Give it some consideration and don't be embarrassed to tell a doctor what you've written here.& They've heard it all and will not be shocked and it just might open up your whole world to the sexual pleasure that you deserve.& Keep us informed of you progress and good luck.

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Input: [Topic ID] 15 [Post ID] 51 [Date & Time] 2005-04-19 23:13:14 [Post Text]

Output: As much as I hate to admit it, there's really very little doctor patient confidentiality where I live. I'm worried something will go down on my chart, and my parents will find out. Since I'm under 18, I'm pretty sure they have the legal right to look at any of my medical records. I go to the same doctors as my mother, so I don't trust them- especially my primary care physician. I also was at the gynocologist a few months ago, so it's going to be nearly a year before I go back. I was too concerned about hiding my numerous scars from previous self-injury to think about sexual disfunction. I don't want to be sent back to the psychotically conservative therapists again who blame all my problems on being too young to mentally handle sex, going so far to say my boyfriend who is two years older than me RAPED ME, and I'm just in denial, because obviously a 16 year old can't fall in love with a 14 year old and if they have sex at ages 17 and 15 after they'd been dating 9 months or so, the guy MUST be raping the girl. Ergh. Especially if they dated for two years total, had a breakup, and then got back together. Because, you know, commited couples can't ever take a break for a few months or anything- even if the one person had to go to college out of state so they couldn't really get back together after the fight was over. But yes, I guess next year I'll talk to my gyno. Until then, though...?

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Input: [Topic ID] 15 [Post ID] 52 [Date & Time] 2005-04-20 09:33:20 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Hooded clitorises usually are not a problem, but sometimes surgery is necessary to remove the excess tissue. The hood covering the glans can be removed partially or totally, I recommend partial removal so the glans is still normally concealed. It seems that plastic surgeons do this surgery more than gynecologists. One study found about 30% of who where not able to experience orgasm could after having this surgery, but 60% could not. This subject is addressed some on the page about clitoral adhesions in the Health section of the main website. You can stretch the hood a little by pulling on it on a regular basis. Be firm but gentle, as you want to stretch no tear the tissue. You can also insert a lubricated cotton swab, Q-Tip, under the hood and move it around in a circular motion to stretch the hood outward. This added lubricant may also help with stimulation, as it allows things to slide easier. You, all women, should probably use additional lubrication during manual stimulation of your vulva. Your posts likely indicate there are also emotional issues at play, that is conflict in the relationship and personal anxiety. Your sexual frustration is adding to this. If by chance you are taking an antidepressant,& they can impair or prevent orgasm. Vibrators are not created equal, but if the one you are using has some strength to it, it should provide sufficient stimulation for orgasm to occur. The fact that is doesn't likely indicates having your hood trimmed would not make having an orgasm easier for you. A lot of your problems with orgasms may result from anxiety over not having an orgasm. The more you try, and the more you fail, the harder or more impossible it becomes. Especially during partner sex explore pleasure and intimacy, not orgasm. Have sex for the fun and pleasure of it. Don't demand that your partner bring or attempt to bring you to orgasm every time. Take turns giving pleasure, on different days. If sex isn't fun without& orgasms, orgasms probably aren't going to make it any better. As far as cunnilingus, go for quality not quantity. Spend 15 minutes teaching him one skill rather than going for marathon sessions, at least until he develops some skill. You might demonstrate with your own tongue and hand what you want him to do. Keep in mind if you are having trouble masturbating to orgasm, things aren't likely to be different during cunnilingus. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 15 [Post ID] 55 [Date & Time] 2005-04-20 15:07:30 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I'm very sorry to hear of your problem. I'm sure it's not much fun and frustrating having sex and feeling like it's a big waste of time. One thing I suggest is stop using the vibrator. The numbing sensation you speak of will also reduce your chances of having orgasm any other way, and will lead to lack of sensation altogether. Abstain for a while and give it a rest. Make love later on when you feel ready again and this time take it slow, use lots of foreplay and oral, but no vibrations. Take your time and build up to it. Don't look for the sensations or orgasm; just let them come of their own accord. Love your partner and love yourself and try not to think of orgasm. The more you pay attention to it the more elusive it will be. Fantasy works in bed too... talk and have him talk and share some erotic fantasy together. No matter how strange or far fetch the idea may be. Good luck. Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 15 [Post ID] 94 [Date & Time] 2005-05-08 06:27:31 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Ciniron, my suggestion would be to do kegal exercises diligently and develop your G-spot, then you can just pump up with the kegal exercise and have orgasm with partner or without.& The G-spot orgasm is much deeper and to me more satisfying.& The exercises may also make it easier to stimulate the clitoris, for me the exercises were giving orgasms within two weeks. Sadie

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Input: [Topic ID] 15 [Post ID] 95 [Date & Time] 2005-05-08 06:46:13 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I& & forgot to add that the kegal exercise made it possible for me to have the cervical orgasm, to me that is the best one, very deep, long lasting contractions that keep getting deeper. & Your partner can stimulate the cervix for orgasm by inserting one or two fingers to the end of vaginal orifice and move fingers gently around the edges, this produces a long lasting orgasm.& & We do it with me first pumping up with kegals or humping him during foreplay which also does the same as the kegaling once you have learned the kegal muscle and how to use it.& With this method it is possible for me to have the deep contractions for an hour or more, quit then from being tired and contractions almost too deep to tolerate and need orgasm. Sadie

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 54 [Date & Time] 2005-04-20 14:49:44 [Post Text]

Output: After reading the article on women that shave their genital area [url] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/shaving.htm, I'd like to comment that I find women that don't shave or just trim smell much nicer. I know it's not just me, as I've asked some others about it including lesbian women and the scent of a woman is nicer when not shaved. Also, shaving leaves a razor burn scent that reminds me of a mans face... doesn't do much for my sexual desires. Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 65 [Date & Time] 2005-04-26 08:34:46 [Post Text]

Output: Hmmmm.... over 100 views and not one other person has an opinion? Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 66 [Date & Time] 2005-04-26 11:19:41 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I believe it is a matter of personal preference, more so the woman's than the man's. I am not comfortable with people saying others should or shouldn't do it based on their own reasons and motivations. There are those who argue both sides of the issue. In the book about cunnilingus I am reading now, Box Lunch by Diane Cage, the bisexual author highly recommends it, as it leaves the vulva more exposed to stimulation. I know some lesbians are against it for sexual political reasons and others rave about. I know many women like the look and feel of not having pubic hair, and some removed it prior to it being as popular as it is today. Others like their natural bush. The final result is that is really shouldn't matter to others what they do. I would like to add that recreational sex is different from procreative sex and what may be natural may not be what works best for recreational sex. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 67 [Date & Time] 2005-04-26 12:07:13 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks Brad, you make some good points about personal preferences, but I was referring more to the sent of the woman that shaves or doesn't shave. Hasn't anyone else noticed a difference? Kemi :?

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 69 [Date & Time] 2005-04-28 18:27:27 [Post Text]

Output: I have no idea about the scent of shaved genitals. I do notice that my armpits seem to& sweat more when shaved than when not shaved.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 75 [Date & Time] 2005-04-29 07:52:05 [Post Text]

Output: What can I say, I like unshaved armpits too. It must also hold natural body scent that I find appealing. :P Perhaps you notice it more on unshaved armpits since the sweat clings to the hair rather than evaporate right away? This is one of natures way of using the moisture to cool your body. The hair acts like the fins on your car radiator to cool you.

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 83 [Date & Time] 2005-04-30 17:33:48 [Post Text]

Output: [user=28]Kemi[/user] wrote: "Perhaps you notice it more on unshaved armpits since the sweat clings to the hair rather than evaporate right away? " & You misread& me slightly. I notice the sweat more when I have shaved my armpits. When I shave my armpits, the colour of my skin& gets dark with sweat very easily. When I don't shave my armpits, they are the same colour they normally are.

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 99 [Date & Time] 2005-05-09 01:38:52 [Post Text]

Output: My wife and I have recently started shaving our pubic hair. Admittedly, it was something that I initially encouraged her to do and then I also started shaving, in part to see what it was like but also because I thought it might visually 'enhance' my equipment. What is especially interesting is that we both find sex more exciting: we were always fairly adventurous, and have never said no to anything we both wanted to try. But, now oral sex is far more interesting and makes up a much longer part of our foreplay. I am literally fascinated with my wife's vagina as I have never been before. And, although she has always loved giving oral sex, now she is more likely to include my scrotum and perineum. On my part, I am exploring 'further afield' and anal sex is definitely on the menu. I don't know what purpose pubic hair serves - I imagine that it must do something. But, not only is pubic hair removal/reshaping de rigour, I think it is becoming harder and harder to find images anywhere on the internet of women with untouched pubic hair. Frankly, I salute this: pubic hairlessness is cleaner, cooler and by far sexier.

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 100 [Date & Time] 2005-05-09 05:06:19 [Post Text]

Output: i agree with magus, myself and wife use to shave, it was a suggession from my wife and i found it v. interesting. we engage in more oral sex when we both shave than without shave. credc

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 105 [Date & Time] 2005-05-10 12:53:37 [Post Text]

Output: Damn... I must be the only one here that likes pubic hair! :?

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 111 [Date & Time] 2005-05-13 00:50:21 [Post Text]

Output: kemi, I actually see what you are saying.& On myself I prefer everything shaved on myself except for a small landing strip up top, its just more comfortable, I only wear g-strings so w/ too much hair down there it is a little uncomfortable.& However.....i prefer my fiance to be hairy.& not so much that it chokes me, but his natural scent is so awesome turns me on so much.

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 112 [Date & Time] 2005-05-13 08:32:40 [Post Text]

Output: luvs2dance, thank you! I thought I was all alone here. I'm sure your fiance must find that your 'landing strip' holds some of your scent too. Thanks for sharing. ;) Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 114 [Date & Time] 2005-05-13 13:30:49 [Post Text]

Output: ok too funny, lmao, I am sure my little landing strip has some sort of smell.& My fiance says the good smells come from further down south.& This may sound gross, but if he doesn't shower for a day, that is the biggest turn on for me.& His genital region and ass smell awesome!& Dont mind me.....I am a bit of a freak!

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 115 [Date & Time] 2005-05-13 13:37:31 [Post Text]

Output: As my lady would say, "our kind of freaky". :P Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 117 [Date & Time] 2005-05-14 00:22:47 [Post Text]

Output: ahh, a kindred spirit.& you and your girl sound like us, very open to & w/ eachother about everything.& :cool:

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 129 [Date & Time] 2005-05-17 14:03:49 [Post Text]

Output: [user=28]Kemi[/user] wrote: "Damn... I must be the only one here that likes pubic hair! :?"& i think that when a woman has her natural hair it is super sexy, as soon as it is shaved its never the same again, although i wouldn't exactly complain if it wasnt lol:P

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 297 [Date & Time] 2005-07-06 12:51:04 [Post Text]

Output: Hello kemi, Lets talk about pubic hair. On a woman, i find it more appealing if she keeps her vaginal area clean shaven with the exception of a small area above her clitoris. Not only does this afford you the sight of her womanhood, you have the added benefit of not having to stop for bread while performing cunnilingus. Now don't misunderstand what i'm saying. A vagina that has all its natural growth can also be an object of endless beauty, however, during intercourse the pubic hair can chaff the penis shaft causing irratation. I have found this to be true whether or not a& substituted & lubricant is used. I am sure that you have experienced this sensation. I have read post's that deal with the act of shaving ones genital's, and I also find it to be a matter of self decision.....

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 382 [Date & Time] 2005-08-03 00:03:11 [Post Text]

Output: Hello everyone, I shaved completely about two months ago.& It feels really good to be completely shaved, but I noticed I have dark layer on my libia.& Not too dark, but it's there.& I hate it and for this reason I don't want my husband to look at me. Is this normal?& How can I remove this? YVY

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 384 [Date & Time] 2005-08-06 03:46:09 [Post Text]

Output: Yes, it is normal, many woman have dark pigmentation on the labia. It will not put men off, perhaps make them just a little curious. The dark layer could look pretty sexy. So don’t worry about it. PS: I have pictures showing a girl having such dark layer on her outer labia, looking sexy. But since the forum is public and thus for everybody open now, and the pictures could be regarded as being pornographic, I don’t know if it would be a good idea to upload them here.

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 452 [Date & Time] 2005-08-25 16:50:58 [Post Text]

Output: im a virgin, so i'm not sure what i'd prefer on a man or woman to be honest....but i think i'd prefer a male partner to have natural hair, and a woman to be clean shaven.& I& personally prefer being shaved myself, with the exception of having the aforementioned 'landing strip'. but then again I'm a red head, which is horrible in my opinion, plus the fact i have (to me anyways) rather large looking labia, the red hair kind of tops it off lol. but oh well, can't have it all right? lol &

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 465 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 08:12:50 [Post Text]

Output: Hi and welcome to the group :) I find red hair to be absolutely gorgeous! I dont think you have anything to worry about. With labia size, I wouldnt worry about that either. Women range in size and shape in all aspects. Sometimes what we perceive about ourselves to be large, in reality, that sometimes turns out to be not true and just the way we see ourselves. It is a shame that the picture clitoris yahoo group was deleted as you could havce looked at photographs of other real women and I am sure you would have realised that your labia is not so large after all. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 469 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 09:07:08 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, There are many of photos of the vulva on the pages linked to below: www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/v_image1.htm Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 470 [Date & Time] 2005-08-27 15:23:27 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Brad, thanks for the link. I had forgotten about that page on the main site sorry! ( slaps wrist :) Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 16 [Post ID] 473 [Date & Time] 2005-08-28 06:37:13 [Post Text]

Output: princess, brad - thanks for the replies :) That website is truely fascinating, thank you for posting the link for me. All of the pictures I'd seen of the female genitals in the past tended to show tiny lips etc, like the majority of porn stars/ glamour models. So I was slightly worried that my labia was oversized. It clearly isn't when I see some on that site. I can tell you I have a Classic Clam Shell, pretty much like the one on page 3, only I don't have a 'frilly fourchette' :)& so I don't think I have that much to worry about now....

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Input: [Topic ID] 17 [Post ID] 56 [Date & Time] 2005-04-21 18:33:34 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I was wandering what do female prefer for a male's pubic hair fashion? Natural, brazilian, designs (stripe or letters)? I know its personal taste, so thats what i want, your opinion. - Xav

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Input: [Topic ID] 17 [Post ID] 57 [Date & Time] 2005-04-22 13:31:34 [Post Text]

Output: My lady likes it when my pubic hair is trimed short so that it's prickly on her clit. Sometimes too prickly? :?

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Input: [Topic ID] 17 [Post ID] 108 [Date & Time] 2005-05-12 02:32:22 [Post Text]

Output: my boyfriend trims just enough to that I am not choking on the short hairs when I am giving him a blow job.& nothing kills the mood quicker than your girlfriend hacking up hair like its a& furball.& I dont like it too short or bald, men are hairy and I love it.

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Input: [Topic ID] 17 [Post ID] 166 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 21:05:34 [Post Text]

Output: If males don't shave it/trim it, why should I? Well I've trimmed mine, because it would be horribly uncomfortable otherwise, but it does itch. IGH. Lesson kids, never do this with a razor, I think waxing is a better, but MORE PAINFUL way to go. I don't want my boyfriend going through traumatizing moments for me, with his pubic hair. Whoever made us, made us WITH hair. I'm sure there's a good reason why we have hair "there". :D

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Input: [Topic ID] 17 [Post ID] 198 [Date & Time] 2005-06-06 15:28:24 [Post Text]

Output: I put up with the itch so that it isn't poking out the sides of my knickers. I like shaving it all off but when I do,& my doctor decides that's a great time& to send me out an appointment for a smear lol. I would be far too embarrassed to show off my bald bits to my doc.

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Input: [Topic ID] 17 [Post ID] 207 [Date & Time] 2005-06-07 01:39:28 [Post Text]

Output: I have never waxed anything other than my eyebrows and that was painful.& I prefer to shave, but its an everyday occurance and I wish I didn't have to do it daily.& how much does a wax usually run?& and do you have to grow out full bush before they can wax it? or can they wax stubble?& just curious. virgin waxer

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Input: [Topic ID] 17 [Post ID] 299 [Date & Time] 2005-07-06 13:20:15 [Post Text]

Output: Hi loves2dance, I'm just curious, can you actually go out to have your vagina waxed? I thought that would be something done in private by the wearer of the foliage. But if not, maybe i'll open my own wax salon..lmao

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Input: [Topic ID] 17 [Post ID] 300 [Date & Time] 2005-07-06 13:29:29 [Post Text]

Output: Sorry loves2dance, I meant to offer a suggestion. My wife allows me to shave her (completely). Before we begin, I usually get her worked up sexually, if you're aroused its more comfortable to have someone between your legs, right?? I start with a hot towel, (like at the barber shops in the old days) this will open the pores from which the hair is growing allowing it to come out more easily. I myself prefer EDGE shaving gel for sensitive skin (don't use menthol). As you know your pubic hairs grow towards the opening of your vagina, he must shave you in this direction otherwise the end result will be multiple shaving bumps. Not very attractive.& This procedure can be very erotic and sensual for the both of you. Once he has finished the task and cleaned the area, then he can procede to lick you to your finish.......

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Input: [Topic ID] 18 [Post ID] 59 [Date & Time] 2005-04-22 21:55:48 [Post Text]

Output: I have a question about an orgasm I recently had with my boyfriend, with whom I have been having sex with for about a year. We were having sex doggie style and I had a powerful orgasm. When we finished having sex, we noticed that there was blood on the sheets. I am a squirter and don't know if this had anything to do with it. Could you tell me what may have caused this "bleeding orgasm" and if there is anything wrong?

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Input: [Topic ID] 18 [Post ID] 61 [Date & Time] 2005-04-23 08:35:24 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, Orgasm can bring about a woman's menstrual period a couples days early, if by chance it was the start of your period. Minor injuries during sex are not uncommon. If you were having intercourse in a new position or were more energetic it is possible you may have torn your hymen. Sorry that I don't have more to offer. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 18 [Post ID] 62 [Date & Time] 2005-04-23 22:02:58 [Post Text]

Output: I've heard of women sometimes spotting during ovulation. So, that could be another possibility as well. If this was just a one time thing, and you felt no pain, it doesn't sound like any cause for worry.

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Input: [Topic ID] 18 [Post ID] 63 [Date & Time] 2005-04-24 15:23:24 [Post Text]

Output: Hi fairydust, Is it at all possible that the blood came from him and not you? Do either of you have any sore feeling in the genital area? Are you sure it was blood and not just a heavy pinkish discharge that dried a sort of brownish blood colour? Sorry to be so graphic with that last part but it is not uncommon for women especially those who produce a significant amount of liquid during sex and in particular, orgasm, to at different times of the month produce a different colour discharge. This is nothing to worry about and as you dont mention any pain I would not worry. Just monitor things. If however, a smell starts to appear that you do not recognise, then a trip to the doctors may be necessary to rule out an infection. Infections can occur when the yeast levels change in the vagina. Food, different types of drink like blackcurrent juice, and different sexual positions can all be contributing factors to a mild yeast inbalance and can in turn cause a discharge. So if there is no pain and no smell with sticky discharge now, then there is probably nothing to worry about. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 18 [Post ID] 173 [Date & Time] 2005-05-31 21:46:35 [Post Text]

Output: Weirdly, I had the same experience a while ago, and it was after doggystyle sex... Maybe that position makes abrasions more likely?

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Input: [Topic ID] 18 [Post ID] 1425 [Date & Time] 2006-04-13 17:41:48 [Post Text]

Output: Well... I notice blood after 2 years of sexual life, and I felt pain 2 or 3 days, Of course I thought that I had& lost my virginess from the first time I introduce a tampon during & my period, I was 13, but now after I read where is really the hymen position I can say that I lost my virginess on that day, and is fun but after that I saw my vagina still looks close and beauty even at my 9 months pregnant! I feel happy that my babies are who gat me loose my virginess, I think maybe happend the sam to you, and you just didn't notice that you was still havin' hymen. & Aria

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Input: [Topic ID] 18 [Post ID] 1426 [Date & Time] 2006-04-13 17:43:33 [Post Text]

Output: OHHH! and I forget! that day when I bleed, I had also a GREAT ORGASM, Maybe because as I read we need a little of pain to feel pleasure, and the best thing on it is that WOMANS LIKE YOU AND ME WE DIDN'T FELT PAIN LOSING IT! Aria

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Input: [Topic ID] 18 [Post ID] 1428 [Date & Time] 2006-04-14 05:43:05 [Post Text]

Output: also, are you sure the blood even came from your vagina? is it possible one of you got cut or scratched during sex? or that one of you had some kind of injury that started bleeding during sex?

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Input: [Topic ID] 18 [Post ID] 1429 [Date & Time] 2006-04-14 13:03:48 [Post Text]

Output: Hi! glad to have your answer, well, the thing is that when I finish the bleeding at third day, I check my vagina and I saw an scratch in the skin of my hymen, when I start to masturbate I didn't use anything to introduce my vagina, but then later passing the years at 14 and forward I start to put somethings while I was exited, but I never saw any change in my vagina intro, so it was that later I felt more exited putting somethings bigger as a bottle or things like that, this practice may cause that my hymen get more elastic and use to receive BIG things, so my husbands pennis was just 10 cms long and not thick, so I think it was the real reason, I swear that after I had my first baby my vagina looks ugly because I saw that skin broken looking like an octopus (:P), but now after I know it is normal, and passing the years I made Kedgel excercises and I got tight back, and better than when I was "Virgin". I am really very glad to receive your answer aria

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Input: [Topic ID] 19 [Post ID] 64 [Date & Time] 2005-04-26 04:41:51 [Post Text]

Output: To the Friends of the Sponge, This press release went out this afternoon. Finally! Gene & & FDA Approves the Return of the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge Today® Sponge once again provides American women with their favorite over-the-counter contraceptive April 22, 2005—After an 11-year hiatus, the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge, once the most popular over-the-counter female contraceptive, has won re-approval for marketing from the Food and Drug Administration. From 1983 to 1994, when the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge was previously available in the U.S., more than 250 million Sponges were sold. Allendale plans to begin U.S. production immediately, and will begin national product distribution in summer 2005. The previous Sponge manufacturer, American Home Products, stopped making the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge in 1994, along with other products, due to complications with its production facilities. The move to halt production was an economic decision, unrelated to safety of the Sponge. Allendale Pharmaceuticals, a New Jersey-based consumer health care products company, bought the rights to the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge in 1998 and has been navigating the FDA approval process ever since. Today’s announcement means women in the United States will once again have access to this effective, hormone-free, contraceptive choice. Despite its absence from store shelves for the past decade, the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge still enjoys strong customer demand. “Daily calls and e-mails from women confirm that there is still a great need for the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge”, said Gene Detroyer, President and CEO of Allendale Pharmaceuticals. “Women who cannot tolerate hormonal contraceptives or choose not to use them are particularly pleased by the return of the Sponge.”& American women have been anticipating the re-approval of the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge in the United States following its release in Canada in 2003. There has been heavy activity on the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge hotline (888-343-4499) and on the company Web site& ([url=www.todaysponge.com] www.todaysponge.com ). The Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge is the first of several products to be marketed under the Today[suP]®[/suP] brand, a division of Allendale Pharmaceuticals.& Consumers, gynecologists, and family planning groups are hailing the return of the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge. Dr. Anne Davis, Assistant Professor of Clinical Obstetrics and Gynecology at Columbia University said, “As a practitioner, I can tell you that many women are looking forward to the return of the Sponge. Women need different contraceptive methods at different points in their lives. Women who have used the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge describe it as easy-to-use, convenient, and safe. It’s important to have a variety of contraceptive options available to all women.” BENEFITS of the TODAY[suP]®[/suP] SPONGE Contains no hormones Available over-the-counter, no prescription or doctor visit needed Disposable, gives women control over contraception Convenient; one size fits all No messy foams or gels needed A single Sponge can be used for 24 hours through repeated acts of intercourse Generally undetectable by either partner Instantly reversible so users can choose when they want protection and when they don’t EFFECTIVENESS Clinical studies on more than 1,800 women have shown the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge is 89-91% effective at preventing pregnancy when used as directed, an effectiveness rate similar to other female over-the-counter contraceptives. The clinical trials were conducted at 26 sites in nine countries including the United States. During typical use, women using the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge can expect birth control effectiveness that is comparable to the male condom. “Based on clinical studies conducted on women using the Today Sponge, an estimated 230,000 acts of intercourse resulted in 179 pregnancies,” said Dr. Robert Staab, Chairman and Chief Scientific Officer of Allendale Pharmaceuticals. These results reflect those who used the product perfectly as well as those who did not use the Sponge correctly or did not use the Sponge with every act of intercourse. It is important to understand the effectiveness rate is based on one year of Sponge use and does not mean that the product fails about every tenth use. During the year of perfect and imperfect use by couples in these FDA-reviewed clinical studies, one pregnancy resulted from about 1000 acts of intercourse. HOW IT WORKS Unique in its design, the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge was the first successful product to incorporate a spermicide into a barrier contraceptive. The Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge is a reservoir for one gram of Nonoxynol-9, the most widely used spermicide in the world. The advantages of the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge are that it works to prevent pregnancy in three ways: Through a patented design, it continually releases an effective amount of spermicide (125-150mg) to kill sperm. It acts as a physical barrier between sperm and the cervix. The polyurethane foam helps to trap and absorb semen. Other advantages of the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge include the fact that it contains no hormones and it allows women to take control of contraception. Once inserted, the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge is effective immediately and remains effective for 24 hours without the need for applications of messy spermicidal creams, foams or gels. A single Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge allows for as many acts of intercourse as desired within a 24-hour timeframe without the need to change protection. For maximum protection against pregnancy, the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge must be left in place for at least six hours after the last act of intercourse. It should not remain inserted for more than 30 hours. The Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge does not protect against sexually transmitted diseases. Those at risk for STDs should use a condom in conjunction with the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge for maximum protection against STDs and pregnancy.& For more information about the Today[suP]®[/suP] Sponge, visit [url=www.todaysponge.com] www.todaysponge.com .& Consumers wishing to track availability should email Allendale at

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Input: [Topic ID] 19 [Post ID] 70 [Date & Time] 2005-04-28 18:32:01 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks for posting this Brad. Do& any other brands of sponge contraceptives currently exist? Or is this the first time in 11 years that any type of sponge contraceptive is available?

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Input: [Topic ID] 19 [Post ID] 71 [Date & Time] 2005-04-28 19:20:23 [Post Text]

Output: Protectaid contraceptive sponge is available online at [url] www.blueskypharmacy.com/products/sponges/116/ along with the Today Sponge. Most couples find they are only 84-87% effective and only if you can reach your cervix. Another good article is on this site. [url] www.mypleasure.com/education/contraception/contraceptive_sponge.asp Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 19 [Post ID] 84 [Date & Time] 2005-04-30 17:34:37 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks Kemi. :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 68 [Date & Time] 2005-04-28 16:20:47 [Post Text]

Output: Where can I look for detailed information about women's hormonal imbalances? Particularly lack of Progesterone? And how this effects the sexual hormones in a young woman aged between 30 and 35? Thanks Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 81 [Date & Time] 2005-04-30 05:04:37 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Princess, Here are some links: [url=www.rx2u.com/natural%20hormones.htm] www.rx2u.com/natural%20hormones.htm [url=www.martinavenue.com/natural_hrt/women_symptoms.html] www.martinavenue.com/natural_hrt/women_symptoms.html [url=www.ovarian-cysts-pcos.com/progesterone.html] www.ovarian-cysts-pcos.com/progesterone.html [url=www.diagnose-me.com/cond/C8779.html] www.diagnose-me.com/cond/C8779.html [url=www.menopause-pms-progesterone.org/progesterone/hormones.html] www.menopause-pms-progesterone.org/progesterone/hormones.html Brad &

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 97 [Date & Time] 2005-05-08 15:06:47 [Post Text]

Output: If the hormone imbalance is due to polycystic ovarian syndrome, then [url=www.soulcysters.com] www.soulcysters.com is a great resource.

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 154 [Date & Time] 2005-05-25 15:54:55 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Brad, thanks for the links - I found them useful. Still dont know what exactly is going on with my hormones. I dont really understand anything of test results I get. It is not too much testosterone or any other male hormones or thyroid problems. I am guessing at progesterone or rather the lack of but the doctor wont test for it. We are now at loggerheads. It is a simple saliva test. But the Progest Cream that would be needed to treat the lack of progesterone would need to be funded by the surgery themselves and they seem utterly determined not to discuss this. I could go private and pay for the test but it is very costly and then the price of the cream on top when I am entitled to this for free on the NHS. We talked about Polycycstic Ovarian Syndrome too but he has not referred me on to any specialist or anything. He meerly said that that was what he thought it was. I had my last period in November last year have had an unusual amount of facial hair growing since last year in May. Actually last year I only had three periods the whole year. I am not on any medication of any kind either nor the pill. I had some spotting which lasted three days or so but nothing major which started on April 18th this year. The worry is killing me more than anything else. I have gone off sex completely now. I battled all that time with not being able to orgasm and then when my body finally became sensitive enough and I was really enjoying being able to this has been growing in anxiety for months now. I feel cheated. Like i have been invaded or something. I am only 34 years old. Not 35 till August. I KNOW this is not right for a young woman of my age. I wondered if it was something to do with the fact that I had two emergency c-sections within 16 months of each other the last one being only four years ago. After the first, I was paralysed for three weeks from the waist down in the year 2000. Also they nicked my bladder and urine leaked out of my scar for six months. I had nerve damage to my face too and my lower back. So needless to say that in the event of an emergency with my youngest son, I had things written into my birth plan so nothing like that would happen again. The second op went really well and was only bought about because whilst I was pushing the baby out, determined to have a normal vaginal delivery, the chord was wrapped around his throat three times which was choking him with each push. The op went really really well and I was up and about walking the same day and was able to breast feed for 16 months. I sometimes get times throughout the day at the moment where I will be really angry. Then freezing cold. Then angry. Then boiling hot to the point of my face burning. I can also feel my heart pounding at times too. I also have spots around my neck and the base of my head at the back. These are making me feel ugly. Menopause? Again my doctor has dismissed this because of my age and hormone test results being clear. I dont know what to do next. I have to lay down a lot and get so tired very very quickly. I was talking with my daughter this evening and the next thing I knew my partner was covering me up with a blanket. I had nodded off without warning AGAIN. ARRRR! I am in hell. I do get stressed and have had a lot to deal with over the last year. But I also want to enjoy my family and at the moment I might as well not be here because I keep falling asleep and when I am awake I feel moody. I dont want my Partner to worry but even he has started to ask questions now because I have changed so much. I seldom laugh or giggle anymore and spend more time with tears in my eyes using the excuse that they are stinging. If you can point me in the direction of someone who knows about this sort of thing then I would appreciate it very much. Or anything else to read up on then that too would be a big help. I have kept most of this to myself now for so long my head is exploding. A miserable Princess :-(

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 161 [Date & Time] 2005-05-28 15:08:07 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Princess, I'm sorry to hear you're going through such a hard time. If you suspect PCOS perhaps try to convince your doctor to refer to you a Reproductive Endocrinologist. Even if it's not pcos, and endocrinologist may be able to provide you with more information. Do you have an herbalist in your area? There are herbs that help restore hormone balance, even if you don't know what the cause of the imbalance is. This is something I'm looking into myself, because I have hormonal imbalances due to pcos. Ocean

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 162 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 17:28:18 [Post Text]

Output: HI thanks for your kind words. I am very interested in the herbal stuff you are looking into at present. Anything that balances the hormones which is natural will be a good plan. I went to see a naturopath back in November. It was interesting. The first visit cost me well in excess of one hundred pounds. I came away with a few vitamins and some herbal powder crystal remedies as well. Although I felt perked up on my new diet of suppliments alongside my normal food, I went one more time and then found the whole experience to be financially draining and have not been back again. I started to get very negative feelings from the experience as each time you go, even if talking is all you want to do, I felt manipulated into parting with money for things that i simply did not need. I even said I did not bring any money with me and still ended up coming away with stuff in pots. ( as I have not been back the guy has not been paid ) I am all for alternative therapist work especially natural herbalists if they do listen and offer advice. Not entice you into getting a financial worry on top of your already overwhelming existing problem that led you to their door in the first place. My Partner and I dont have debts and pay for things as and when they arise. Never use credit. So I felt awkward about this experience as I was encouraged to buy things instead of working out eating plans etc. Thanks again and if you want to point me in the direction of research you are doing into this then I would be grateful. Also anything that has actually been of benefit to you personally. That would be encouraging also. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 163 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 17:46:05 [Post Text]

Output: Sage has been known to help balance hormones in women. We used it in herbal therapy when I was a body worker a few years ago. Kemi

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 214 [Date & Time] 2005-06-08 06:42:03 [Post Text]

Output: sage? I use clarysage aromatherapy essential oil but I suspect you are talking about the actual herb. Can you tell me more about this please? I just received a letter about an hour ago this morning stating that abnormalities were found in my last smear two weeks ago and re-calling me for another one on Monday. I am naturally worried and very concerned about this now. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 215 [Date & Time] 2005-06-08 14:03:28 [Post Text]

Output: If you want to try sage, go to a health food store that supplies "safe to eat" essential oils. Some essential oils are cut with other ingredients for aromatherapy but are not safe to ingest. You can use it as a topical application as well as oral by putting them in gel capsules. I'm not sure on the dosage, but someone may know more than I about that.

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 217 [Date & Time] 2005-06-10 11:41:18 [Post Text]

Output: Sage, really? Any idea how it works? That's interesting...

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 218 [Date & Time] 2005-06-10 11:44:43 [Post Text]

Output: Most essential oils have properties that do several things. People generally only hear about one or two. Rosemary oil for example is good for inflamation in the joints. I don't have a clue as to how they work any more than I know how other meds work. :(

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 235 [Date & Time] 2005-06-13 16:18:53 [Post Text]

Output: Chaste Tree (Vitex agnus-castus) berries are also often used by women to regulate their hormones. I haven't found them in stores though. I was planning to buy some online from a company that is trusted by people I know.

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 238 [Date & Time] 2005-06-16 01:58:10 [Post Text]

Output: Neways was recommended to me. You can buy online too. I got some wild yam cream with chaste tree in it. The pot of this cream arrived yesterday morning I am going to start using it today.

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Input: [Topic ID] 20 [Post ID] 370 [Date & Time] 2005-07-29 09:24:39 [Post Text]

Output: An Update - I have been using Pro-Gest progesterone cream now for two months. My periods have returned and I am feeling a lot happier about that. I have had 2 on time. This cream really works. All I need now is to wait for the facial hair to calm down and things will be back to normal. Princess :)

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 79 [Date & Time] 2005-04-29 19:21:38 [Post Text]

Output: Is it safe to have sex while she is in her menstrual cycle?, what are the chances of infections?, for her and for me?. Thanks for your input Kikin & & & &

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 80 [Date & Time] 2005-04-29 19:37:54 [Post Text]

Output: Hello Kikin nice to see you again and thanks for joining - welcome to the group. It would be good if some of the men here could share their experiences with this member of making love whilst your partner is on her monthly cycle and menstrating. Also if any of the women here want to talk about whether they have had sex whilst on their monthly period then that would also be very helpful. Thank you Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 82 [Date & Time] 2005-04-30 05:29:56 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, There is a lengthy article on the website that addresses this subject. [url=www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/period.htm] www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/period.htm The surveys on the website indicate 35% of women have engaged in activities that involved menstrual blood so while it isn't an unusual experience it isn't necessarily a common one. Social and personal mores about menstruation are likely a reason why, both partners may feel it is inappropriate, the woman may feel undesirable, etc. The logistics of addressing the blood flow is likely a significant barrier, though a towel is a easy solution during but clean up after could be a problem depending on the situation. Hormonal changes within a woman's body are another factor to consider, like how it affects her desire and sexual responsiveness, and this varies from woman to woman. The health concerns are that when blood is present then there is an increased risk of disease transmission between partners. The menstrual blood or blood& in general does not cause the disease. It is just that if one person has a& blood born disease they can infect their partner when they exchange body fluids that contain blood or traces of blood.& If a couple is already exchanging body fluids through unprotected sex there is an increased risk, as with anal sex, but they are already at risk. Couples need to decide how much risk they are willing to accept. Being tested for sexually transmitted diseases is a good idea, especially if you or your partner have had more than one sexual partner. Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI) are very common and many do not present symptoms but can have a major impact on a woman's reproductive health. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 85 [Date & Time] 2005-04-30 18:36:33 [Post Text]

Output: Brad: Thank you so much for your input. I guess I was wrong about how risky was to have sex while she is in her cycle. The more I read opinions from people with real experience, the more I learn that it may be even an exciting experience. Thanks again Kikin & & & &

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 107 [Date & Time] 2005-05-12 02:30:03 [Post Text]

Output: We do it every month when I am menstruating.& My boyfriend is a nurse and knows that the blood is just a little extra red blood cells, its the color that freaks everyone out.& The thing that women and men dont realize is how sensitive and swollen you are down there, it can be quite pleasurable to have sex on your period.& Just have to communicate about how sensitive you are, too much poking around in there can sometimes give me really painful cramps. ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 152 [Date & Time] 2005-05-25 13:54:00 [Post Text]

Output: Guys: & I want to thank you for your advice!!! & I had sex with my girl friend for the first time during her period and it was great, no fears, no problems, no nothing...... & The best companions where few towels and that was it.... she was very receptive and I think we grew up a lot as a couple. & Thanks&

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 153 [Date & Time] 2005-05-25 15:32:58 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Kilkin I am so very pleased for you both and it is wonderful that we were able to help in some small way. Thank you also for your email it was kind of you to take the time Princess :-)

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 165 [Date & Time] 2005-05-30 21:01:26 [Post Text]

Output: For my partner and I it was OK, but we were both virgins when we met AND we were using condoms. Blood doesn't flow all the time when you're on your period. My mother tells me the following: Golden rule for women; while on menstrual cycle it's ok to have sex as long as it's not one of those "heavy flow days" and I'm sorry if that grosses you out. THEN, you count 15 days... during which you HAVE to use a condom. Then, you should be OK. Then again, we ALWAYS use condoms; I don't ever want to get pregnant.

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1094 [Date & Time] 2006-01-27 05:34:03 [Post Text]

Output: Yes definitely,we do it with tampon in place ,i bring her to orgasm by sliding my penis over her clit. I orgasm myself by very shallow thrusting. I dont know why ,perhaps it is the for biddeness but it realy does it for both of us good luck only try this if you really know & trust your partner fully

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1098 [Date & Time] 2006-01-29 23:38:34 [Post Text]

Output: New to this forum and was interested in sharing. We planned our wedding date with the significance being on the anniversary of our meeting. It clashed with her menstrual cycle - lol But that didn't stop us from celebrating on that night and the many to follow. We were also to learn that the best way to ease the cramps, which she used to have badly, was to have an orgasm. It was much more fun than medical pain relief!

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1103 [Date & Time] 2006-01-30 12:30:25 [Post Text]

Output: HGi Frankie...congratulations, you are a very understanding man...the period is only a minor thing that we can go aorund and enjoy sex fully, there is nothing that "water and soap can't clean" right Frankie? Your wife is lucky to have you& kisses Luisa

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1112 [Date & Time] 2006-01-30 20:09:19 [Post Text]

Output: Thanks, Luisa. But back to Kikin's original question, I am reminded that, writing in her book,"The Female Eunuch" Germaine Greer was scathing about men being unwilling to go down on a woman when she was having her period. She clearly did not believe there was a health problem through oral, so what would be the problem with genital penetration? So Kikin, don't worry.

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1119 [Date & Time] 2006-01-31 14:44:39 [Post Text]

Output: Hi frankie...thanks for the message...From my point of view I don't see any problem for having sex during the period, maybe do not perform oral sex but penetration? what's the problem? if you don't want to be a little smeared use a comdon but there is part of your gf. Some of us get very sexual during the period so why don't enjoy it? We learn very early& to be very clean during the period we are almost& fastidiuos with the hygiene of our vulva and vagina.. Good luck Luisa &

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1726 [Date & Time] 2006-06-19 14:10:16 [Post Text]

Output: I LOVE it when we had sex with period, it do enchance our orgasmic triggers.& Imainge entering the hot and slippery vagina on my penis, it enrages my emotion into warrior mode meaning I have to really STAY in control.& & It deepen our emotions, increase our sensitivity and nearly destroyed our orgasmic system (lol).& My wife said that when she had sex during peroid cycle, it made her organs more sensitive and easily trigger the orgasm.& She came more often than without, (lucky girls grr) and I shot further than what I normally can shoot.

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 1736 [Date & Time] 2006-06-20 01:10:29 [Post Text]

Output: I love it when I have sex when I'm menstruating.& My vagina just wants to be touched!& I enjoy it, and I don't really need that much prep-work in order for me to want him to get inside me.& Feels wonderful! :D

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2060 [Date & Time] 2006-07-25 00:27:42 [Post Text]

Output: my last girlfriend and I had sex frequently on her period. It was great for both of us.& In fact I enjoyed it becaus it was the only time we could have sex without a condom.& I have two pieces of advice though: lay down a towel under you on the bed just in case, and its better if the guy is on top.& sometimes it got messy if she was on top.& she said it eased the cramps too.&

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2070 [Date & Time] 2006-07-25 14:43:45 [Post Text]

Output: Just because a woman is menstruating, does not mean that it is always safe for you both to have sex without a condom.& There is a risk of becoming pregnant!&

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2074 [Date & Time] 2006-07-25 21:09:53 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, True, but there is likely a greater risk of spreading STI's than conception during a woman's period, or soon after, if a woman has at least a 28 day cycle. That was my primary concern when I read his original post. A young woman told us in another thread that she just contracted herpes from her partner, as a result of unprotected sex. We may presume it was from unprotected intercourse but it is also very possible it happend during oral sex, cunnilingus. I only recently found out that it is extremely easy to spread herpes through oral contact even if there is no visible sores on the lips. :shock: The risk of pregnancy during her period without a condom is likely less than the risk midcycle with a condom. According to the Planned Parenthood Website 15 out of 100 women will become pregnant during a year when their partner uses only a condom. The following is from the PPFA website: "By the age of 24, one in three sexually active people will have contracted an STI (KFF, 1998b); moreover, at least one in four Americans â€” perhaps as many as one in two â€” will contract an STI at some point in their lives (AGI, 1993)." Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2085 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 06:42:00 [Post Text]

Output: Man, thats bad. What would you advise for helping to prevent the contraction of herpes during oral sex? Is the only way to avoid it not doing oral at all? Sheesh, it could be so easy to get it if the other person didn't have any sores but carried the virus. Makes me wonder whether I ever want to even bother.

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2086 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 06:57:51 [Post Text]

Output: [user=1]bradf30[/user] wrote: " The following is from the PPFA website: "By the age of 24, one in three sexually active people will have contracted an STI (KFF, 1998b); moreover, at least one in four Americans â€” perhaps as many as one in two â€” will contract an STI at some point in their lives (AGI, 1993)." " ^^^ and people wonder why I am not sexually active...

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2088 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 07:24:26 [Post Text]

Output: You aren't? Apart from all of the issues with STDs, is there another reason? You know what mine is, lol.:D

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2090 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 09:26:41 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, The following Q&A has links to information on herpes and the transmission through oral sex: www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/qa_3.htm#3 A couple young women I know have contracted the HPV virus. One I had told prior she needed to always use a condom. It makes you want to say, "I told you so." :( In college age women STIs are at an epidemic level but everyone acts like it wont happen to them. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2092 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 09:55:13 [Post Text]

Output: [user=315]Canis Lupess[/user] wrote: "Man, thats bad. What would you advise for helping to prevent the contraction of herpes during oral sex? Is the only way to avoid it not doing oral at all? Sheesh, it could be so easy to get it if the other person didn't have any sores but carried the virus. Makes me wonder whether I ever want to even bother. " A dental dam can come in handy.& And if you don't have a dental dam, a regular condom can be cut down the side to make one.& All a dental dam is is a square of latex material, usually scented and tastes less latexy.& To use one properly, you must hold the edges, slightly stretch and place over the person genitals and please them through the dental dam/condom. I learned about that in a HIV awareness demo at school.

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2098 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 10:42:46 [Post Text]

Output: Blah, we learnt nothing like that at school. Apart from the mechanics of reproduction, our sex ed was crap. No wonder we have such a high teenage pregnancy rate and STDs in the UK. The government is totally clueless as to how to tackle it because they don't really understand why young people are wanting to go out and do it in the first place. We only saw female diagrams at school& that showed three holes, nothing about the clitoris, labia, any other structure found down there. Nothing about sexuality. We knew about condoms but nothing on how to use them properly& really. I found out about the clitoris by reading "More" magazine. The same magazine I found out about vaginismus from. Fancy having to read a fashion and beauty magazine to aducate yourself about your own anatomy. Back then, I had no access to the internet so couldn't find places like this. I had two girls, both sexually active, try to fob me off at school that there are only two holes and that you pee, menstruate and give birth through the same hole. I remembered there being 3 holes from the diagrams I saw so I knew they were either wrong or just trying to have me on. Still, there are lots of other girls actually believe this. They seem to think that denying young people this type of information, they'll stop them having sex and will encourage them to have sex if they teach them these things....wrong! It just means that they start having sex anyway& totally unprepared and find their information from unreliable sources such as mates and porn. &

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2106 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 18:37:47 [Post Text]

Output: [user=315]Canis Lupess[/user] wrote: "You aren't? Apart from all of the issues with STDs, is there another reason? You know what mine is, lol.:D " There are a lot of reasons.& Aside from STDs, my standards are probably unrealistically high, but I like what I like.& I tend to find the great majority of people I meet to be incredibly boring and vapid, and I mean that in a general sense, not just regarding women I find physically attractive.& I am also trying to establish a career or further my education (still haven't quite decided on that yet). I realized long ago that I can please myself physically just fine.& The thing that truly separates sex from masturbation is the way in which you can please another person. & That seems pretty obvious to the regular posters here, but your average joe doesn't really recognize this and tends to seek sex on a more instinctual level. As a result of that, my view of sex grew out of the typical selfish male position. When I balanced the risks of seeking sex for the sake of sex itself (STDs, pregnancy, and all the stupid stressful social conventions that people obsess over) I decided not to pursue casual sex. That's not saying I am sworn to celibacy or anything.& The best sex, in my eyes, is the selfless and reciprocal kind, and that's the only kind of sex I care about (like the Beatles said, the love you take is equal to the love you make).& You take pleasure in pleasing the other person, and you trust that person to take as much interest in you as you take in them.& But as I said, my standards are really stringent.& I can't stand any kind of drug use, and that includes drinking and smoking.& I'm also extremely repulsed by ignorance and the sheepishly religious (though intelligent and self-sought spirituality is a completely different story).& Sadly, in the US that really cuts out a massive portion of the people my age (or any age), particularly in the more agricultural region I live in.& If a person isn't fiercely intellgent and creative, I will get bored of them very quickly, and that applies especially to someone I might consider for a romantic relationship.& And naturally I have to be physically attracted to them as well, but I am not hung up on one ideal image of physical beauty.& As a result, I pretty much have no place to go socially, and so I don't even both pursuing sex or romance at this point in my life.& &

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2107 [Date & Time] 2006-07-26 18:41:04 [Post Text]

Output: [user=315]Canis Lupess[/user] wrote: "Blah, we learnt nothing like that at school. Apart from the mechanics of reproduction, our sex ed was crap. No wonder we have such a high teenage pregnancy rate and STDs in the UK. The government is totally clueless as to how to tackle it because they don't really understand why young people are wanting to go out and do it in the first place. We only saw female diagrams at school& that showed three holes, nothing about the clitoris, labia, any other structure found down there. Nothing about sexuality. We knew about condoms but nothing on how to use them properly& really. I found out about the clitoris by reading "More" magazine. The same magazine I found out about vaginismus from. Fancy having to read a fashion and beauty magazine to aducate yourself about your own anatomy. Back then, I had no access to the internet so couldn't find places like this. I had two girls, both sexually active, try to fob me off at school that there are only two holes and that you pee, menstruate and give birth through the same hole. I remembered there being 3 holes from the diagrams I saw so I knew they were either wrong or just trying to have me on. Still, there are lots of other girls actually believe this. They seem to think that denying young people this type of information, they'll stop them having sex and will encourage them to have sex if they teach them these things....wrong! It just means that they start having sex anyway& totally unprepared and find their information from unreliable sources such as mates and porn. & " Yeah, public sex education here in the states is generally pretty lousy as well, especially in states like Texas that teach abstinence only. I had sex ed in 5th, 6th, 8th, and 9th grade, and it was all terribly generic and repetitive.& I was able to read between the lines, and I think a lot of it was somewhat intuitive for me as well.& It wasn't until my college level human sexuality class (non-required obviously) that I actually studied important and interesting aspects of human sexuality.

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 2135 [Date & Time] 2006-07-27 14:55:57 [Post Text]

Output: I'm from Pennsylvania, and I could say that I learned a lot in my sex ed classes.& I learned about sex first in 5th grade, then 7th, 8th, 9th, 11th, and then in 12th.& We even watched that Miracle of Life video that shows a live birth, which absolutely grossed all of us youngsters out and wondering how a thing so big can come out of a hole so small. I think the highest amount of people I saw pregnant in my HS at one time was during my sophomore year and there were 3 pregnancies.& From my graduating class, only 1.& My school highly informed us of the outcome and also told us that the nurse gave condoms out if we need a form of protection.

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Input: [Topic ID] 21 [Post ID] 4724 [Date & Time] 2007-08-16 10:03:22 [Post Text]

Output: If you love a woman and have a good sex relantionship with her, there's no reason to avoid sexual intercourse during her period. In my case, I have never disliked to do it, but some of my girlfriends have rejected it, I think because they don't feel "clean" enough themselves. To be inside the woman you love it's really great, and you must enjoy it as many times as possible.

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Input: [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 86 [Date & Time] 2005-05-04 10:41:05 [Post Text]

Output: & Please share your favorite methods of foreplay, female favorite, male favorite. & & &

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Input: [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 87 [Date & Time] 2005-05-04 14:02:31 [Post Text]

Output: One of my favourites has to be talking. Winding each other up with suggestive speach is very much a turn on for me. Of course there are all the physical things but they are much more enjoyable after teasing with speech and looking at each other with 'those' eyes. Princess

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Input: [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 92 [Date & Time] 2005-05-06 08:31:49 [Post Text]

Output: Thank you Princess, I too enjoy the talking, a real turn on.& I also enjoy having my left shoulder kissed and his face snuggling it, very sensitive there.& My breasts are next, like a long time spent there.

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Input: [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 104 [Date & Time] 2005-05-10 12:49:08 [Post Text]

Output: We like laying in bed reading erotica to each other... well, I read to her anyway! :shock:

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Input: [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 116 [Date & Time] 2005-05-13 13:38:19 [Post Text]

Output: favorite foreplay methods, hmm......I would have to say we have taken foreplay to a whole new level.& I usually put something dirty on (movie wise) for us to watch or just have on in the backround, sometimes I like to put a little outfit on (either lingerie or little skirt no undies), my all time favorite way to get going would be laying on top of him w/ my rear in his face and my face in his genital area.& we pleasure eachother that way for a bit, then I will move on to just kissing and licking him all over, he does the same to me.& I love kissing on the lips, very sensual, then we have sex.:)

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Input: [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 310 [Date & Time] 2005-07-08 13:36:36 [Post Text]

Output: Hmmm Foreplay so many different avenue's.... Talking is a really big thing for me too... Then touching, kissing, soft fondling.... I am shy so this makes me feel more comfortable.... Foreplay may also include oral sex after slow long drawn out undressing... What can also be fun is public teasing, really good foreplay.... I am sure I can think of more late.... will add if I do

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Input: [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 311 [Date & Time] 2005-07-08 17:49:25 [Post Text]

Output: I had no girlfriend for a long time till january and even now we can only share our weekends because we don't live together yet and our jobs at week are completely overlapping each others spare time. I really enjoy hugging and stroking each other, holding and kissing each other, simply feeling her body on mine while watching tv, listening to music or just the rain and wind outside while slowly taking off each others clothes. This takes long and we really enjoy it. Maybe you more experienced lough at it but that's our foreplay. Good Night, Andy P.S. You english people say that the german language sounds 'hard' and 'teutonic'. Read 'huggg' and 'strrroke' and then discover the nice and warm german word 'schmusen' ;)

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Input: [Topic ID] 23 [Post ID] 360 [Date & Time] 2005-07-24 02:26:45 [Post Text]

Output: Our favorite foreplay is to both shower, lay in bed and start with your favorite cream.& Rubbing the cream on her legs and on myself is the greatest experience and feeling you will ever have.& The cream and all the rubbing makes her swell to the best level you can know.& This can last for an hour. She loves to look at my penis all shining and large.& Soon when the the time right she will hang on and allow me to take her to the top.& Sometime I do not enter her.& Those are the time when we both have felt the BIG one happen.& You all need to try this.& It is a mind blower.:shock:

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Input: [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 93 [Date & Time] 2005-05-08 06:11:33 [Post Text]

Output: Hello, I fall into the category of women who are very sexual, but yet never had an orgasm dring sex.& & I researched the web& learning how important a long time spent on foreplay is to a woman.& & Started doing the kegal& exercises and also found my old Callanetics exercise book that seems to jumpstart the pelvic exercises. & I can now have an orgasm easily, actually can have several during lovemaking or just ride the wave.& The exercises are the best thing that has ever happened to my sexlife. Sadie

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Input: [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 219 [Date & Time] 2005-06-10 22:50:31 [Post Text]

Output: Could you share them?, I'd like to know more about foreplay and how to improve orgasm and make it last more

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Input: [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 221 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 04:07:48 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Lucy, The foreplay can be found on many sites, the mens sites are also very good, search penis, clitoris, orgasm. The Kegal exercises can also be found with a search. The callanetic exercises you actually need the book for the pictures, I found one on amazon.com. Title is Callanetics by Callan Pinkney, subtitle 10 Years Younger in 10 Hours. I found all the exercises very good, the pelvic and stomach exercises make a huge difference in your sexlife. The book is out of print but seems to be available used on Amazon. If you can't find it, please give me your email and I will scan the pages and email them to you.

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Input: [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 222 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 05:46:15 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, hope this link from Cosmopolitan works, gives some how to, fingers also work well. magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/print/0,14230,285757,00.html

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Input: [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 223 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 06:01:00 [Post Text]

Output: Hi Lucy, another site you may find interesting. Best advice I can give is to develope the pelvic floor muscles and it all just suddenly seems to happen. You get turned on and are stretching and undulating and even if not turned on can be by flexing your muscles with the kegal exercise. www.sexinhumanloving.com/tantric-sex.html

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Input: [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 226 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 09:03:01 [Post Text]

Output: Hi, I believe any activity that increases body awareness is helpful to women. Learning exercises that requires you to be aware of your pelvic region is beneficial. It appears, in general, women are frequently not& aware of their physical arousal nor its level, as indicated by studies in which they are shown erotic videos while their level of arousal was monitored.& I have to wonder if part of this is the result of dissociation from their genitals, learning to ignore them or having been prevented from exploring them; but the vast majority of today's women have engaged in masturbation. While the surveys on this website show women are aware of when they are aroused, indicated by physical changes in their body, their mind may not always make them aware of these changes. Their "perception of arousal" appears to& depend on& context, whether they believe they should be aroused and if it is appropriate given social and peer expectations. If you are not supposed to be motivated by purely sexual & motivates will you be? The survey on sexual desire indicated over 50% of women believe their level of desire is greater than that of their peers and one has to wonder if that influences their motives to engage in sex in a negative way. In most places in the world an openly sexual woman is not socially acceptable and can lead to social rejection. Brad

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Input: [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 228 [Date & Time] 2005-06-11 09:40:37 [Post Text]

Output: I believe women are becoming more educated about sex and their body. I am considered an old woman, my husband considers me the sexiest woman on earth and loves it. We can lay for hours having sexual foreplay, I can ride the waves due to strong pelvic muscles and he loves it. He can lay his hand on me or fingers in me and feel the contractions. He has told me many times how much he appreciates me doing the exercise every day and how much it has added to our sex life. I have a strong conviction that almost all females are capable of orgasm with strong pelvic muscles and an educated lover. It is easy to receive a sex education online, steer your mate to the one you feel your body wants him to learn and enjoy.

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Input: [Topic ID] 26 [Post ID] 236 [Date & Time] 2005-06-13 18:52:46 [Post Text]

Output: I checked Amazon Books to day, they have the used Callanetic books starting at 46 cents. My scanner is not giving good results, in fact unreadable results.

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Input: [Topic ID] 28 [Post ID] 113 [Date & Time] 2005-05-13 10:28:44 [Post Text]

Output: Beginning June 6, 2005, Whole Lesbian Sex Book author Felice Newman will bring her brand of explicit, upbeat lesbian sex information to lesbian readers in a biweekly column to appear in newspapers, magazines and online publications. The column will be distributed by Q Syndicate. Witty, accessible, and enthusiastically nonjudgmental, "Whole Lesbian Sex," written by Felice Newman, is a column for all women who desire women - lesbian, bisexual, butch, femme, androgynous, transgendered, young and old, sexually experienced and new to sex with women. Like Felice's comprehensive, best-selling sex guide, The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All of Us, the column offers readers "information, suggestions, tips and techniques, and support for discovering a sexuality that works for you." What a terrific way to inform and support lesbian, bisexual and queer women - with a sexy, savvy column by the woman who "has her latex-covered finger on the clit of Lesbian Nation" (San Francisco Bay Guardian), and whose work has been hailed as "infectious and empowering" (Bust). Library Journal has praised Felice for setting "the standard for which all popular sex writers should aim." As publisher of Cleis Press since 1980, Felice Newman has developed and edited books on sexuality and gender by many authors you're no doubt familiar with - Susie Bright, Joan Nestle, Tristan Taormino, Patrick Califia, Carol Queen, Annie Sprinkle, and many others. She has studied sexuality through San Francisco Sex Information and Body Electric, and somatics through the Strozzi Institute, and she now coaches individuals and couples in the San Francisco Bay area. "Whole Lesbian Sex" is a biweekly, 600-word column. The debut installment of "Whole Lesbian Sex" is the deliciously titled "What Do Butches Want?" The first installment will appear in LGBTQ publications beginning June 6th. Readers will be able to contact Felice at [url=] Diane Levinson, Marketing Director, Cleis Press (415) 575-4700 [url=www.cleispress.com] www.cleispress.com Felice Newman, Publisher, Cleis Press (415) 575-4700 [url=www.cleispress.com] www.cleispress.com Paula Martinac, Editor in Chief, Q Syndicate (412) 760-6809 [url=www.qsyndicate.com] www.qsyndicate.com The Whole Lesbian Sex Book A Passionate Guide for All of Us 2nd edition, revised and expanded by Felice Newman Cleis Press, December 2004 $24.95, ISBN 1573441996 Trade paper, 400pp, 7 x 10 Illustrations, bibliography, resource guide, index Cleis Press

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