To dream of a matchmaker represents feelings about yourself or others that is focused on interesting other people in new experiences. Your openness to trying new things. Your feelings about a situation being a conduit for new opportunities. Feelings about a situation or role becoming a conduit to meeting someone. The power to experience something new because you are involved in something.
Alternatively, a matchmaker may reflect feelings about your love life. Feeling pressured into finding a lover. Feeling that social situation is “opening a door” to you to meet someone.
Negatively, a matchmaker may reflect feelings about other people meddling in your life or wasting your time with trying new ideas. It may also reflect your tendency to meddle in other people’s personal lives or forcing new ideas on people. Feeling that a new opportunity is inappropriate.
Example: A woman dreamed of with red eyes. In waking life she felt that a man’s son’s death allowed her to get closer to him. She wanted to date him, but felt it was inappropriate. The matchmaker in the dream may have reflected her feelings about the man’s son’s death offering an opportunity or conduit to get closer to the man.