Hi all, I am new to this forum. I have just received my negative result from a 3rd ICSI. My husband and I are very sad and wondering why we are having such a tough time. We're quite young, but husband has severe low counts and motility. How many cycles have people done and why? Some people around me are saying things like: 'maybe it's not meant to be for you', 'how many times are you going to do this to yourself', and so on, and I have a tough time with that. I feel as though I should continue until I have a child, but boy do I feel discouraged today... I feel like our life is on hold while everyone else is moving on.