because for that young man, it might mean that he has to think twice before he does..

B-IH0 K-AO1-Z F-AO1-R DH-AE1 T-Y-AH1-NG M-AE1 N-IH1 T-M-AY1 T-M-IY1-N DH-AE1-T HH-IY1 HH-AE1-Z T-UW1 TH-IH1-NG-K T-W-AY1-S B-IH0 F-AO1-R HH-IY1 D-AH1-Z


that example because it, in many ways it offers us hope outside of this hopelessness. so we all think rape happens in isolation, it doesn't happen in isolation, like a society.

DH-AE1 T-IH0-G Z-AE1-M P-AH0-L B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1 T-IH0-N M-EH1 N-IY0 W-EY1 Z-IH1 T-AO1 F-ER0 Z-AH1-S HH-OW1 P-AW1-T S-AY1 D-AH1-V DH-IH1-S HH-OW1 P-L-AH0 S-N-AH0-S S-OW1 W-IY1 AO1-L TH-IH1-NG K-R-EY1-P HH-AE1 P-AH0-N Z-IH0 N-AY2 S-AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0 N-IH1-T D-OW1 S-AH0-N-T HH-AE1 P-AH0 N-IH0 N-AY2 S-AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0 N-L-AY1 K-AH0 S-AH0 S-AY1 AH0 T-IY0


not kind of narrow use of culture as belonging to [inaudible 00:03:53].

N-AA1-T K-AY1-N D-AH1 V-N-EH1 R-OW0 Y-UW1 S-AH1-V K-AH1-L CH-ER0 AE1-Z B-IH0 L-AO1 NG-IH0-NG T-UW1 IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z TH-R-IY1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-IH1-F T-IY0 TH-R-IY1 S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


on women's bodies and licking their lips that disgust

AA1 N-W-IH1 M-AH0-N-Z B-AA1 D-IY0 Z-AH0-N D-L-IH1 K-IH0-NG DH-EH1-R L-IH1-P-S DH-AE1-T D-IH0-S G-AH1-S-T


no, no, it is power. and then you made to feel crazy for not liking being harassed in public. absolutely,

N-OW1 N-OW1 IH1 T-IH1-Z P-AW1 ER0 AH0-N-D DH-EH1 N-Y-UW1 M-EY1-D T-UW1 F-IY1-L K-R-EY1 Z-IY0 F-AO1-R N-AA1 T-L-AY1 K-IH0-NG B-IY1 IH0-NG HH-ER0 AE1-S T-IH0-N P-AH1 B-L-IH0 K-AE2-B S-AH0 L-UW1 T-L-IY0


i think it was the end of innocence, right?

AY1 TH-IH1-NG K-IH1 T-W-AA1-Z DH-AH0 EH1-N D-AH1 V-IH1 N-AH0 S-AH0-N S-R-AY1-T


i think we knew that there were problems with the rainbow nation and that motive and so on that all was not well in

AY1 TH-IH1-NG K-W-IY1 N-UW1 DH-AE1-T DH-EH1 R-W-ER0 P-R-AA1 B-L-AH0-M Z-W-IH1-DH DH-AH0 R-EY1-N B-OW2 N-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH0-N-D DH-AE1 T-M-OW1 T-IH0 V-AH0-N-D S-OW1 AA1-N DH-AE1 T-AO1 L-W-AA1 Z-N-AA1 T-W-EH1 L-IH0-N


south africa. but i think very often `we thought about kind of these divisions only in terms of race.

S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 B-AH1 T-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K V-EH1 R-IY0 AO1 F-AH0 N-W-IY1 TH-AO1 T-AH0 B-AW1-T K-AY1-N D-AH1-V DH-IY1-Z D-IH0 V-IH1 ZH-AH0-N Z-OW1 N-L-IY0 IH0-N T-ER1-M Z-AH1 V-R-EY1-S


and i think part of what that showed us, i remember having conversations just before that trial with friends who would say, who would go to different parts of the world.

AH0-N D-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K P-AA1-R T-AH1 V-W-AH1-T DH-AE1-T SH-OW1 D-AH1 S-AY1 R-IH0 M-EH1-M B-ER0 HH-AE1 V-IH0-NG K-AA2-N V-ER0 S-EY1 SH-AH0-N-Z JH-AH1-S-T B-IH0 F-AO1-R DH-AE1-T T-R-AY1 AH0 L-W-IH1-DH F-R-EH1-N-D-Z HH-UW1 W-UH1-D S-EY1 HH-UW1 W-UH1-D G-OW1 T-UW1 D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-T P-AA1-R-T S-AH1-V DH-AH0 W-ER1-L-D


and i would say, oh my god, that kind of like blatant misogyny and craziness would never happen in south africa, south african men, no better.

AH0-N D-AY1 W-UH1-D S-EY1 OW1 M-AY1 G-AA1-D DH-AE1-T K-AY1-N D-AH1 V-L-AY1-K B-L-EY1 T-AH0-N T-M-IH1 Z-AH0 JH-IH0 N-IY0 AH0-N-D K-R-EY1 Z-IY0 N-AH0 S-W-UH1 D-N-EH1 V-ER0 HH-AE1 P-AH0 N-IH0-N S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0-N M-EH1-N N-OW1 B-EH1 T-ER0


but what was important about that case also was that it played out..because

B-AH1 T-W-AH1 T-W-AA1 Z-IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N T-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AE1-T K-EY1 S-AO1-L S-OW0 W-AA1-Z DH-AE1 T-IH1-T P-L-EY1 D-AW1-T B-AH2-K S-OW0


i suppose like many of my life i was completely obsessed and it came to absolutely.

AY1 S-AH0 P-OW1 Z-L-AY1 K-M-EH1 N-IY0 AH1 V-M-AY1 L-AY1 F-AY1 W-AA1-Z K-AH0-M P-L-IY1 T-L-IY0 AH0-B S-EH1-S T-AH0-N D-IH1-T K-EY1-M T-UW1 AE2-B S-AH0 L-UW1 T-L-IY0


so we saw how many more people were willing to defend jacob zuma and go live their lives..

S-OW1 W-IY1 S-AO1 HH-AW1 M-EH1 N-IY0 M-AO1-R P-IY1 P-AH0 L-W-ER0 W-IH1 L-IH0-NG T-UW1 D-IH0 F-EH1-N-D JH-EY1 K-AH0-B Z-UW1 M-AH0 AH0-N-D G-OW1 L-AY1-V DH-EH1-R L-IH1-V-Z


they have jobs and they have responsibilities. to go and be outside that court, the numbers of people..

DH-EY1 HH-AE1-V JH-AA1-B Z-AH0-N-D DH-EY1 HH-AE1 V-R-IY0-S P-AA2-N S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0-Z T-UW1 G-OW1 AH0-N-D B-IY1 AW1-T S-AY1-D DH-AE1-T K-AO1-R-T DH-AH0 N-AH1-M B-ER0 Z-AH1-V P-IY1 P-AH0-L


.. was raped.mmm (affirmative).and in fact, part of what that does is it shows us what happens every day.mm-hmm (affirmative).that is-

W-AA1 Z-R-EY1-P-M D-IH0 D-AE2 F-ER0 M-AH0 D-EH1-N T-IH0 K-IH0-N F-AE1-K-T P-AA1-R T-AH1 V-W-AH1-T DH-AE1-T D-AH1 Z-IH1 Z-IH1-T SH-OW1 Z-AH1 S-W-AH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N Z-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 D-EY1 M-AH0 M-AH0 F-ER1 M-AH0 T-AH0 F-AH0 T-IH1-Z


...the rape crisis. right? it may not be rape. it may not be jacob zuma and-

DH-AH0 R-EY1-P K-R-AY1 S-AH0 S-R-AY1 T-IH1 T-M-EY1 N-AA1-T B-IY1 R-EY1 P-IH1 T-M-EY1 N-AA1-T B-IY1 JH-EY1 K-AH0-B Z-UW1 M-AH0 AH0-N-D


... to support quazeys' right to speak versus the overwhelming-mmm (affirmative).... support that people offered to jacob zuma without knowing him.

T-UW1 S-AH0 P-AO1-R-T K-W-EY1 Z-IY0 Z-R-AY1-T T-UW1-S P-IY1-K V-ER1 S-AH0-S DH-AH0 OW2 V-ER0 W-EH1-L-M F-AH0-N D-AH0 F-ER1 M-AH0 T-IH0-V S-AH0 P-AO1-R-T DH-AE1-T P-IY1 P-AH0 L-AO1 F-ER0-D T-UW1 JH-EY1 K-AH0-B Z-UW1 M-AH0 W-IH0 TH-AW1 T-N-OW1 IH0-NG HH-IH1-M


mmm (affirmative).the kinds of things that he allowed his supporters to say. and i think that it shows us what happens in-

M-EH1 M-AH0 F-ER1 M-AH0 T-AH0 F-AH0-T K-AY1-N-D Z-AH1-V TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1-T HH-IY1 AH0 L-AW1-D HH-IH1-Z S-AH0 P-AO1-R T-ER0-Z T-UW1 S-EY1 AH0-N D-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-AE1 T-IH1-T SH-OW1 Z-AH1 S-W-AH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N Z-IH0-N


...rape cases generally, but it also shows us how not serious, how easy it is, the hypocrisy-

R-EY1-P K-EY1 S-AH0-Z JH-EH1 N-ER0 AH0 L-IY0 B-AH1 T-IH1 T-AO1-L S-OW0 SH-OW1 Z-AH1-S HH-AW1 N-AA1-T S-IH1 R-IY0 AH0-S HH-AW1 IY1 Z-IY0 IH1 T-IH1-Z DH-AH0 HH-IH0 P-AA1 K-R-AH0 S-IY0


... name. he didn't do that. but we also saw people stand outside the court and say things like, "actually quazey had-

N-EY1-M HH-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T D-UW1 DH-AE1-T B-AH1 T-W-IY1 AO1-L S-OW0 S-AO1 P-IY1 P-AH0-L-S T-AE1-N D-AW1-T S-AY1-D DH-AH0 K-AO1-R T-AH0-N-D S-EY1 TH-IH1-NG Z-L-AY1 K-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 K-W-EY1 Z-IY0 HH-AE1-D


... anything was worth doing in order to defend a man accused of rape. that is part of the reality that we have. that was a kind of a magnified-

EH1 N-IY0 TH-IH2 NG-W-AA1 Z-W-ER1-TH D-UW1 IH0 NG-IH0 N-AO1-R D-ER0 T-UW1 D-IH0 F-EH1-N D-AH0 M-AE1 N-AH0 K-Y-UW1-Z D-AH1 V-R-EY1-P DH-AE1 T-IH1-Z P-AA1-R T-AH1-V DH-AH0 R-IY0 AE1 L-AH0 T-IY0 DH-AE1 T-W-IY1 HH-AE1-V DH-AE1 T-W-AA1 Z-AH0 K-AY1-N D-AH1 V-AH0 M-AE1 G-N-AH0 F-AY2-D


... indicate to people, to men who might want to rape that they will-

IH1-N D-AH0 K-EY2-T T-UW1 P-IY1 P-AH0-L T-UW1 M-EH1-N HH-UW1 M-AY1 T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 R-EY1-P DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 W-IH1-L


and as [inaudible 00:01:07] says that legally, of course-

AH0-N D-AE1 Z-IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-W-AH1-N M-IH1 N-AH0 T-AH0-N-D S-EH1 V-AH0-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z S-EH1-Z DH-AE1 T-L-IY1 G-AH0 L-IY0 AH1-V K-AO1-R-S


... it could be the enabling of-absolutely.... the abuse.mm-hmm (affirmative).that was meted out.

IH1-T K-UH1-D B-IY1 DH-AH0 EH0 N-EY1 B-AH0 L-IH0 NG-OW0 F-AE1 B-AH0 S-L-AH0 T-IY0 DH-AH0 AH0 B-AH1 S-AH0 M-AH0 AH0 F-ER1 M-AH0 T-AH0 F-AH0 T-W-AA1 Z-M-IY1 T-IH0 D-AW1-T


and i mean i'm not ashamed to say i believe quazey.

AH0-N D-AY1 M-IY1 N-IH1-M N-AA1 T-AH0 SH-EY1-M-D T-UW1 S-EY1 AY1 B-IH0 L-IY1-V K-W-EY1 Z-IY0


so do i. so do i.


with a breakdown of rape myths, perpetrators are monsters who are abusive all the time. you say that's a myth, rape is inappropriate sex.

W-IH1 DH-AH0 B-R-EY1-K D-AW2 N-AH1 V-R-EY1 P-M-IH1-TH-S P-ER1 P-AH0 T-R-EY2 T-ER0 Z-AA1-R M-AA1-N-S T-ER0-Z HH-UW1 AA1 R-AH0 B-Y-UW1 S-IH0 V-AO1-L DH-AH0 T-AY1 M-Y-UW1 S-EY1 TH-AE1-T S-AH0 M-IH1 TH-R-EY1 P-IH1 Z-IH2 N-AH0 P-R-OW1 P-R-IY0 IH0-T S-EH1-K-S


that's a myth. rape is not sex, right? and you explain-

TH-AE1-T S-AH0 M-IH1 TH-R-EY1 P-IH1 Z-N-AA1-T S-EH1-K S-R-AY1 T-AH0-N D-Y-UW1 IH0-K-S P-L-EY1-N


... why didn't you do it why did you do it, as though there's a template for how rape victims must behave. and get the book: a south african nightmare: rape, by professor-

W-AY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-Y-UW1 D-UW1 IH1 T-W-AY1 D-IH1 D-Y-UW1 D-UW1 IH1 T-AE1-Z DH-OW1 DH-EH1-R Z-AH0 T-EH1-M P-L-AH0-T F-AO1-R HH-AW1 R-EY1-P V-IH1-K T-AH0-M Z-M-AH1-S-T B-IH0 HH-EY1 V-AH0-N-D G-EH1-T DH-AH0 B-UH1 K-AH0 S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0-N N-AY1 T-M-EH2-R R-EY1-P B-AY1 P-R-AH0 F-EH1 S-ER0


really high. so excited to be here with you.

R-IH1 L-IY0 HH-AY1 S-OW1 IH0-K S-AY1 T-AH0-D T-UW1 B-IY1 HH-IY1 R-W-IH1 DH-Y-UW1


we are going to be doing it. so we'll talk more about, closer to the time that-

W-IY1 AA1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 D-UW1 IH0 NG-IH1-T S-OW1 W-EH1-L T-AO1 K-M-AO1 R-AH0 B-AW1-T K-L-OW1 S-ER0 T-UW1 DH-AH0 T-AY1-M DH-AE1-T


... especially the one out of six women who are victims of intimate partner violence in our country, but it was really provoked for me by a letter that i received. i'm going to read it-

AH0-S P-EH1 SH-L-IY0 DH-AH0 W-AH1 N-AW1 T-AH1-V S-IH1-K S-W-IH1 M-AH0-N HH-UW1 AA1-R V-IH1-K T-AH0-M Z-AH1 V-IH1-N T-AH0 M-AH0-T P-AA1-R T-N-ER0 V-AY1 AH0 L-AH0-N S-IH0 N-AW1 ER0 K-AH1-N T-R-IY0 B-AH1 T-IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-R-IH1 L-IY0 P-R-AH0 V-OW1-K-T F-AO1-R M-IY1 B-AY1 AH0 L-EH1 T-ER0 DH-AE1 T-AY1 R-AH0 S-IY1-V D-IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 R-EH1 D-IH1-T


... i have is that he cannot bring himself to have a decent conversation with me whilst i'm awake, but i'm often awakened by him undressing me already penetrating me. this is so humiliating for me-

AY1 HH-AE1 V-IH1-Z DH-AE1-T HH-IY1 K-AE1 N-AA0-T B-R-IH1-NG HH-IH0-M S-EH1-L-F T-UW1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 D-IY1 S-AH0-N-T K-AA2-N V-ER0 S-EY1 SH-AH0 N-W-IH1 DH-M-IY1 W-AY1-L-S T-IH1 M-AH0 W-EY1-K B-AH1 T-IH1 M-AO1 F-AH0 N-AH0 W-EY1 K-AH0-N-D B-AY1 HH-IH1 M-AH0-N D-R-EH1 S-IH0-NG M-IY1 AO0-L R-EH1 D-IY0 P-EH1 N-AH0 T-R-EY2 T-IH0-NG M-IY1 DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z S-OW1 HH-Y-UW0 M-IH1 L-IY0 EY2 T-IH0-NG F-AO1-R M-IY1


... nevermind, violating. i've spoken to him several times about this. even wrote him letters, but to no avail, it's been happening for years now, before he used to do what he had to do and leave me undressed.

N-EH1 V-ER0 M-AY2-N-D V-AY1 AH0 L-EY0 T-IH0 NG-AY1-V-S P-OW1 K-AH0-N T-UW1 HH-IH1-M S-EH1 V-R-AH0-L T-AY1-M Z-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-IH1 S-IY1 V-IH0 N-R-OW1-T HH-IH1 M-L-EH1 T-ER0-Z B-AH1-T T-UW1 N-OW1 AH0 V-EY1 L-IH1-T-S B-IH1-N HH-AE1 P-AH0 N-IH0-NG F-AO1 R-Y-IH1-R Z-N-AW1 B-IH0 F-AO1-R HH-IY1 Y-UW1-S-T T-UW1 D-UW1 W-AH1-T HH-IY1 HH-AE1-D T-UW1 D-UW1 AH0-N D-L-IY1 V-M-IY1 AH0-N D-R-EH1-S-T


he used to just turn over and sleep, making me feel as if i was some prostitute. two years back-

HH-IY1 Y-UW1-S-T T-UW1 JH-AH1-S-T T-ER1 N-OW1 V-ER0 AH0-N-D S-L-IY1 P-M-EY1 K-IH0-NG M-IY1 F-IY1 L-AE1 Z-IH1 F-AY1 W-AA1-Z S-AH1-M P-R-AA1-S T-AH0 T-UW2-T T-UW1 Y-IH1-R-Z B-AE1-K


... i downloaded a piece of the saps website on marital rape and lied to him that i filed a complaint. needless to say, he disappeared that weekend because he thought he was going to get arrested.

AY1 D-AW1 N-L-OW2 D-IH0 D-AH0 P-IY1 S-AH1-V DH-AH0 S-AE1-P S-W-EH1-B S-AY2 T-AA1-N M-EH1 R-AH0 T-AH0-L R-EY1 P-AH0-N D-L-AY1-D T-UW1 HH-IH1-M DH-AE1 T-AY1 F-AY1-L D-AH0 K-AH0-M P-L-EY1-N T-N-IY1 D-L-AH0-S T-UW1 S-EY1 HH-IY1 D-IH2 S-AH0 P-IH1-R-D DH-AE1 T-W-IY1 K-EH2-N-D B-IH0 K-AO1-Z HH-IY1 TH-AO1-T HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 G-EH1 T-ER0 EH1-S T-AH0-D


he still carries on. no amount of my speaking to him will ever change his ways. just two weeks ago, i wrote him another letter-

HH-IY1-S T-IH1-L K-AE1 R-IY0 Z-AA1-N N-OW1 AH0 M-AW1-N T-AH1 V-M-AY1-S P-IY1 K-IH0-NG T-UW1 HH-IH1 M-W-IH1 L-EH1 V-ER0 CH-EY1-N-JH HH-IH1 Z-W-EY1-Z JH-AH1-S-T T-UW1 W-IY1-K S-AH0 G-OW1 AY1 R-OW1-T HH-IH1 M-AH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0 L-EH1 T-ER0


... laying it all out, but he neither responded nor apologized.

L-EY1 IH0 NG-IH1 T-AO1 L-AW1-T B-AH1-T HH-IY1 N-IY1 DH-ER0 R-IH0-S P-AA1-N D-IH0 D-N-AO1 R-AH0 P-AA1 L-AH0 JH-AY2-Z-D


what can i do? this is some sort of marital rape-

W-AH1-T K-AE1 N-AY1 D-UW1 DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z S-AH1-M S-AO1-R T-AH1 V-M-EH1 R-AH0 T-AH0-L R-EY1-P


... is it not? i was raped when i was 11 years old-

IH1 Z-IH1 T-N-AA1 T-AY1 W-AA1 Z-R-EY1-P T-W-EH1 N-AY1 W-AA1 Z-IH0 L-EH1 V-AH0 N-Y-IH1-R Z-OW1-L-D


... absolutely, especially the one that stands out about how she's not even sure-

AE2-B S-AH0 L-UW1 T-L-IY0 AH0-S P-EH1 SH-L-IY0 DH-AH0 W-AH1-N DH-AE1-T-S T-AE1-N-D Z-AW1 T-AH0 B-AW1-T HH-AW1 SH-EH1 S-N-AA1 T-IY1 V-IH0-N SH-UH1-R


exactly.sure she's violated, but she wants a definition for what she is going through. it doesn't feel right with her soul instinctively.

IH0-G Z-AE1-K-S T-AH0 L-AH0-S SH-EH1-S V-AY1 AH0 L-EY0 T-IH0-D B-AH1-T SH-IY1 W-AA1-N-T S-AH0 D-EH2 F-AH0 N-IH1 SH-AH0-N F-AO1 R-W-AH1-T SH-IY1 IH1-Z G-OW1 IH0-NG TH-R-UW1 IH1-T D-OW1 S-AH0-N-T F-IY1-L R-AY1 T-W-IH1-DH HH-ER0 S-OW1 L-IH0-N-S T-IH1-NG-K T-IH0 V-L-IY0


she knows she's being violated, but she still poses it as a question. am i being violated?

SH-IY1 N-OW1-Z SH-EH1-S B-IY1 IH0-NG V-AY1 AH0 L-EY0 T-IH0-D B-AH1-T SH-IY1-S T-IH1-L P-OW1 Z-AH0 Z-IH1 T-AE1 Z-AH0 K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0 N-AE1 M-AY1 B-IY1 IH0-NG V-AY1 AH0 L-EY0 T-IH0-D


within our laws in south africa, a very big step that was made, putting it into law and saying-

W-IH0 DH-IH1 N-AW1 ER0 L-AO1 Z-IH0-N S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 AH0 V-EH1 R-IY0 B-IH1-G-S T-EH1-P DH-AE1 T-W-AA1 Z-M-EY1-D P-AH1 T-IH0 NG-IH1 T-IH0-N T-UW1 L-AO1 AH0-N-D S-EY1 IH0-NG


... over many years, perhaps somebody who you may have shared really intimate secrets-

OW1 V-ER0 M-EH1 N-IY0 Y-IH1-R-Z P-ER0 HH-AE1-P-S S-AH1-M B-AA2 D-IY0 HH-UW1 Y-UW1 M-EY1 HH-AE1-V SH-EH1-R D-R-IH1 L-IY0 IH1-N T-AH0 M-AH0-T S-IY1 K-R-AH0-T-S


...this person could be raping you is so out of context, within this sacredness-

DH-IH1-S P-ER1 S-AH0-N K-UH1-D B-IY1 R-EY1 P-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 IH1-Z S-OW1 AW1 T-AH1-V K-AA1-N T-EH0-K-S T-W-IH0 DH-IH1-N DH-IH1-S S-EY1 K-R-IH0 D-N-IH0-S


at first, i couldn't handle it. i did go through a time when i wanted-

AE1-T F-ER1-S T-AY1 K-AW1-L D-AH0-N-T HH-AE1-N D-AH0 L-IH1 T-AY1 D-IH1-D G-OW1 TH-R-UW1 AH0 T-AY1 M-W-EH1 N-AY1 W-AA1-N T-AH0-D


... to report, but now it's just another day.

T-UW1 R-IY0 P-AO1-R-T B-AH1 T-N-AW1 IH1-T-S JH-AH1-S T-AH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0 D-EY1


there's no filing-


... [inaudible 00:04:15] .sometimes it happens-

IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z F-AO1-R M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-IH0-F T-IY1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z S-AH0-M T-AY1-M Z-IH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N-Z


...and some other times i may be away, and-

AH0-N-D S-AH1 M-AH1 DH-ER0 T-AY1-M Z-AY1 M-EY1 B-IY1 AH0 W-EY1 AH0-N-D


... noticed that pulling when he knows and he feels that i don't want to do this, but it just goes on.

N-OW1 T-AH0-S-T DH-AE1-T P-UH1 L-IH0 NG-W-EH1-N HH-IY1 N-OW1 Z-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 F-IY1-L-Z DH-AE1 T-AY1 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 D-UW1 DH-IH1-S B-AH1 T-IH1-T JH-AH1-S-T G-OW1 Z-AA1-N


i think that's why it's so confusing. so jennifer, you said in the beginning, you wanted to report it because you had a sense-

AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K TH-AE1-T S-W-AY1 IH1-T-S S-OW1 K-AH0-N F-Y-UW1 Z-IH0-NG S-OW1 JH-EH1 N-AH0 F-ER0 Y-UW1 S-EH1 D-IH0-N DH-AH0 B-IH0 G-IH1 N-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N T-AH0-D T-UW1 R-IY0 P-AO1-R T-IH1-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-Y-UW1 HH-AE1 D-AH0 S-EH1-N-S


you weren't giving consent that he was taking without asking or without you consenting? is that heartfelt for you?

Y-UW1 W-EH1 R-AH0-N-T G-IH1 V-IH0-NG K-AH0-N S-EH1-N-T DH-AE1-T HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z T-EY1 K-IH0 NG-W-IH0 TH-AW1 T-AE1-S K-IH0 NG-AO1 R-W-IH0 TH-AW1 T-Y-UW1 K-AH0-N S-EH1-N T-IH0 NG-IH1-Z DH-AE1-T HH-AA1-R-T F-EH2-L-T F-AO1 R-Y-UW1


and you realized it was wrong, but i guess the nature of the relationship didn't allow you to speak.

AH0-N D-Y-UW1 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z D-IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-R-AO1-NG B-AH1 T-AY1 G-EH1-S DH-AH0 N-EY1 CH-ER0 AH1-V DH-AH0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-AH0 L-AW1 Y-UW1 T-UW1-S P-IY1-K


"hey, this is not consent. i don't want to be doing this. let's make love not rape."

HH-EY1 DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-N-AA1-T K-AH0-N S-EH1-N T-AY1 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-IY1 D-UW1 IH0-NG DH-IH1 S-L-EH1-T S-M-EY1 K-L-AH1 V-N-AA1 T-R-EY1-P


i did, but... i don't know.=, maybe he just doesn't take it that way.

AY1 D-IH1-D B-AH1 T-AY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 M-EY1 B-IY0 HH-IY1 JH-AH1-S-T D-OW1 S-AH0-N-T T-EY1 K-IH1-T DH-AE1 T-W-EY1


yeah, in a lot of respects.

Y-AE1 IH0 N-AH0 L-AA1 T-AH1 V-R-IH0-S P-EH1-K-T-S


and is this something which traditionally you are accepting? do you think it's part of your culture or religion, that this is a role of women and men?

AH0-N D-IH1-Z DH-IH1-S S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-W-IH1-CH T-R-AH0 D-IH1 SH-AH0 N-AH0 L-IY0 Y-UW1 AA1 R-AE0-K S-EH1-P T-IH0-NG D-UW1 Y-UW1 TH-IH1-NG K-IH1-T-S P-AA1-R T-AH1 V-Y-AO1-R K-AH1-L CH-ER0 AO1-R R-IH0 L-IH1 JH-AH0-N DH-AE1-T DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-AH0 R-OW1 L-AH1 V-W-IH1 M-AH0 N-AH0-N D-M-EH1-N


... but you go to famsa, and go and get some counseling. they're on a-

B-AH1 T-Y-UW1 G-OW1 T-UW1 F-AA1-M S-AH0 AH0-N-D G-OW1 AH0-N-D G-EH1-T S-AH1-M K-AW1-N S-AH0 L-IH0-NG TH-EH1 R-AA1 N-AH0


... sliding scale, so whatever you can afford, you pay. go and get some support, and i mean this-

S-L-AY1 D-IH0-NG-S K-EY1-L S-OW1 W-AH2 T-EH1 V-ER0 Y-UW1 K-AE1 N-AH0 F-AO1-R D-Y-UW1 P-EY1 G-OW1 AH0-N-D G-EH1-T S-AH1-M S-AH0 P-AO1-R T-AH0-N D-AY1 M-IY1-N DH-IH1-S


not often, but there are those moments.

N-AA1 T-AO1 F-AH0-N B-AH1-T DH-EH1 R-AA1-R DH-OW1 Z-M-OW1 M-AH0-N-T-S


yes, it's quite strained, but in those moments, for me to enjoy it, i actually imagine someone else, not him.

Y-EH1 S-IH1-T-S K-W-AY1-T-S T-R-EY1-N-D B-AH1 T-IH0-N DH-OW1 Z-M-OW1 M-AH0-N-T-S F-AO1-R M-IY1 T-UW1 EH0-N JH-OY1 IH1 T-AY1 AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 IH0 M-AE1 JH-AH0-N S-AH1 M-W-AH2 N-EH1-L S-N-AA1-T HH-IH1-M


what sometimes happens between them, where there is sex happening, and at other times there is-

W-AH1-T S-AH0-M T-AY1-M-Z HH-AE1 P-AH0-N-Z B-IH0 T-W-IY1-N DH-EH1 M-W-EH1-R DH-EH1 R-IH1-Z S-EH1-K-S HH-AE1 P-AH0 N-IH0 NG-AH0-N D-AE1 T-AH1 DH-ER0 T-AY1-M-Z DH-EH1 R-IH1-Z


... what jennifer experiences as a violation. we'll talk about that in a moment, but-

W-AH1-T JH-EH1 N-AH0 F-ER0 IH0-K-S P-IH1 R-IY0 AH0-N S-IH0 Z-AE1 Z-AH0 V-AY0 AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0 N-W-EH1-L T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AE1 T-IH0 N-AH0 M-OW1 M-AH0-N-T B-AH1-T


i wonder what's in jennifer's husband's mind, and what goes on in his mind when jennifer is sleeping, or jennifer doesn't want to-

AY1 W-AH1-N D-ER0 W-AH0-T S-IH0-N JH-EH1 N-AH0 F-ER0-Z HH-AH1-Z B-AH0-N-D Z-M-AY1-N D-AH0-N D-W-AH1-T G-OW1 Z-AA1 N-IH0-N HH-IH1 Z-M-AY1-N D-W-EH1-N JH-EH1 N-AH0 F-ER0 IH1-Z S-L-IY1 P-IH0 NG-AO1-R JH-EH1 N-AH0 F-ER0 D-OW1 S-AH0-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1


... jennifer feels forced, and then tomorrow or the next day the situation is different.

JH-EH1 N-AH0 F-ER0 F-IY1-L-Z F-AO1-R-S T-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N T-AH0 M-AA1 R-OW2 AO1-R DH-AH0 N-EH1-K-S-T D-EY1 DH-AH0 S-IH2 CH-UW0 EY1 SH-AH0 N-IH1-Z D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-T


... then push it until they actually give in, and then sex happens. so, what is... that is one of the questions that i do have for our listeners.

DH-EH1-N P-UH1 SH-IH1 T-AH0-N T-IH1-L DH-EY1 AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 G-IH1 V-IH0 N-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N S-EH1-K-S HH-AE1 P-AH0-N-Z S-OW1 W-AH1 T-IH1-Z DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0-N-Z DH-AE1 T-AY1 D-UW1 HH-AE1-V F-AO1 R-AW1 ER0 L-IH1 S-AH0 N-ER0-Z


how do you really know the difference, for men, between rape and-?

HH-AW1 D-UW1 Y-UW1 R-IH1 L-IY0 N-OW1 DH-AH0 D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-S F-AO1-R M-EH1-N B-IH0 T-W-IY1 N-R-EY1 P-AH0-N-D


she's still in his bed every day. if it was that bad, like the letter from this woman, she would've got the police in. why don't women-

SH-EH1-S-S T-IH1 L-IH0-N HH-IH1-Z B-EH1 D-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 D-EY1 IH1 F-IH1 T-W-AA1-Z DH-AE1-T B-AE1 D-L-AY1-K DH-AH0 L-EH1 T-ER0 F-R-AH1-M DH-IH1 S-W-UH1 M-AH0-N SH-IY1 W-UH1-D-L-V G-AA1-T DH-AH0 P-AH0 L-IY1 S-IH0 N-W-AY1 D-AA1-N T-W-IH1 M-AH0-N


the [inaudible 00:07:38] is to communicate as couples, to be honest towards each-

DH-AH0 IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z S-EH1 V-AH0-N M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D TH-ER1 D-IY0 EY1-T S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-IH1-Z T-UW1 K-AH0 M-Y-UW1 N-AH0 K-EY2 T-AE1-Z K-AH1 P-AH0-L-Z T-UW1 B-IY1 AA1 N-AH0-S-T T-AH0 W-AO1-R-D Z-IY1-CH


"i don't like, one, two, three. going forward, i wouldn't like you to do these things, because i feel that i've been raped or i've been [inaudible 00:07:49] to do something that i'm not comfortable with." that's my own opinion.

AY1 D-AA1-N T-L-AY1 K-W-AH1-N T-UW1 TH-R-IY1 G-OW1 IH0-NG F-AO1 R-W-ER0 D-AY1 W-UH1 D-L-AH0-N T-L-AY1 K-Y-UW1 T-UW1 D-UW1 DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG-Z B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AY1 F-IY1-L DH-AE1 T-AY1-V B-IH1 N-R-EY1-P T-AO1 R-AY1-V B-IH1 N-IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z S-EH1 V-AH0-N M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R T-IY0 N-AY1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z T-UW1 D-UW1 S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG DH-AE1 T-AY1 AE1-M N-AA1-T K-AH1-M F-ER0 T-AH0 B-AH0 L-W-IH1-DH TH-AE1-T S-M-AY1 OW1 N-AH0 P-IH1 N-Y-AH0-N


i want to ask you this, when you are making love to a woman, do you feel when a woman-

AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 AE1-S K-Y-UW1 DH-IH1 S-W-EH1 N-Y-UW1 AA1-R M-EY1 K-IH0 NG-L-AH1-V T-UW1 AH0 W-UH1 M-AH0-N D-UW1 Y-UW1 F-IY1 L-W-EH1 N-AH0 W-UH1 M-AH0-N


definitely, i must, because it is issue of the body language-

D-EH1 F-AH0 N-AH0 T-L-IY0 AY1 M-AH1-S-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1 T-IH1 Z-IH1 SH-UW0 AH1-V DH-AH0 B-AA1 D-IY0 L-AE1-NG G-W-AH0-JH


... definitely stop, i would definitely stop and look for a response. and that would be a verbal one, [inaudible 00:08:10], "are you okay? are you happy? are you enjoying what i'm-?"

D-EH1 F-AH0 N-AH0 T-L-IY0-S T-AA1 P-AY1 W-UH1-D D-EH1 F-AH0 N-AH0 T-L-IY0-S T-AA1 P-AH0-N D-L-UH1-K F-AO1 R-AH0 R-IH0-S P-AA1-N S-AH0-N-D DH-AE1 T-W-UH1-D B-IY1 AH0 V-ER1 B-AH0 L-W-AH1 N-IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-EY1 T-M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D T-EH1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-AA1 R-Y-UW1 OW2 K-EY1 AA1 R-Y-UW1 HH-AE1 P-IY0 AA1 R-Y-UW1 EH0-N JH-OY1 IH0 NG-W-AH1 T-AY1 AE1-M


... where she's afraid, and it is absolutely the responsibility of both partners, but certainly for the man to check in.

W-EH1-R SH-EH1 S-AH0 F-R-EY1 D-AH0-N D-IH1 T-IH1 Z-AE2-B S-AH0 L-UW1 T-L-IY0 DH-AH0 R-IY0-S P-AA2-N S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0 AH1-V B-OW1-TH P-AA1-R T-N-ER0-Z B-AH1-T S-ER1 T-AH0 N-L-IY0 F-AO1-R DH-AH0 M-AE1-N T-UW1 CH-EH1 K-IH0-N


we cannot just accept that, "a no's a no," or that a lack of responsiveness-

W-IY1 K-AE1 N-AA0-T JH-AH1-S T-AE0-K S-EH1-P-T DH-AE1 T-AH0 N-AA1 S-AH0 N-OW1 AO1-R DH-AE1 T-AH0 L-AE1 K-AH1 V-R-IH0-S P-AA1-N S-IH0 V-N-AH0-S


... is a no. there is just an absolute non-negotiability around having to have a conversation when you are feeling, with your own integrity, "something is off here."

IH1 Z-AH0 N-OW1 DH-EH1 R-IH1-Z JH-AH1-S T-AE1 N-AE1-B S-AH0 L-UW2 T-N-AA2 N-IY0 G-AH0 T-IH1 B-AH0 T-IY0 ER0 AW1-N-D HH-AE1 V-IH0-NG T-UW1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 K-AA2-N V-ER0 S-EY1 SH-AH0 N-W-EH1 N-Y-UW1 AA1-R F-IY1 L-IH0 NG-W-IH1 DH-Y-AO1 R-OW1 N-IH0-N T-EH1 G-R-AH0 T-IY0 S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-IH1 Z-AO1-F HH-IY1-R


... because they alienate. i don't know one black man who pays lobola and thinks that they own their wives, and i know a lot of black men.

B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-EY1 EY1 L-Y-AH0 N-EY2 T-AY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 W-AH1-N B-L-AE1 K-M-AE1-N HH-UW1 P-EY1 Z-L-OW0 B-OW1 L-AH0 AH0-N-D TH-IH1-NG-K-S DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 OW1-N DH-EH1 R-W-AY1-V Z-AH0-N D-AY1 N-OW1 AH0 L-AA1 T-AH1-V B-L-AE1 K-M-EH1-N


but, john has a point that in some circumstances-

B-AH1-T JH-AA1-N HH-AE1 Z-AH0 P-OY1-N-T DH-AE1 T-IH0-N S-AH1-M S-ER1 K-AH0-M-S T-AE2-N S-AH0-Z


... it's seen as a transactional thing, where the man may believe that lobola means he owns his wife.

IH1-T-S S-IY1 N-AE1 Z-AH0 T-R-AE2-N-Z K-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH0-L TH-IH1 NG-W-EH1-R DH-AH0 M-AE1-N M-EY1 B-IH0 L-IY1-V DH-AE1 T-L-OW0 B-OW1 L-AH0 M-IY1-N-Z HH-IY1 OW1-N-Z HH-IH1 Z-W-AY1-F


... you now have ownership of your woman.submit and [crosstalk 00:09:02].i want to just talk to this fact of women saying, "no," because there is a huge initiative against that, that women cannot take responsibility for consent-

Y-UW1 N-AW1 HH-AE1 V-OW1 N-ER0 SH-IH2 P-AH1 V-Y-AO1 R-W-UW0 M-AA2-N Z-M-AE1 B-AH0 T-AH0-N-D K-R-AO1-S T-AO1-K Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-N-AY1-N M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D T-UW1 S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 JH-AH1-S-T T-AO1-K T-UW1 DH-IH1-S F-AE1-K T-AH1 V-W-IH1 M-AH0-N S-EY1 IH0-NG N-OW1 B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-EH1 R-IH1 Z-AH0 HH-Y-UW1 JH-IH0 N-IH1 SH-AH0 T-IH0 V-AH0 G-EH1-N-S-T DH-AE1-T DH-AE1 T-W-IH1 M-AH0-N K-AE1 N-AA0-T T-EY1 K-R-IY0-S P-AA2-N S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0 F-AO1-R K-AH0-N S-EH1-N-T


... non-consent. men have got to be participant in that. they have to be able to read the responsiveness-

N-AA0-N K-OW1-N S-AH0-N T-M-EH1-N HH-AE1-V G-AA1-T T-UW1 B-IY1 P-AA0-R T-IH1 S-AH0 P-AH0-N T-IH0-N DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 HH-AE1-V T-UW1 B-IY1 EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1 R-EH1-D DH-AH0 R-IH0-S P-AA1-N S-IH0 V-N-AH0-S


john is absolutely right. and i love what you're saying, john, that, you to stop and ask, "are you enjoying this, is this great-?"

JH-AA1 N-IH1 Z-AE2-B S-AH0 L-UW1 T-L-IY0 R-AY1 T-AH0-N D-AY1 L-AH1 V-W-AH1 T-Y-UH1-R S-EY1 IH0-NG JH-AA1-N DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 T-UW1-S T-AA1 P-AH0-N D-AE1-S K-AA1 R-Y-UW1 EH0-N JH-OY1 IH0-NG DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z DH-IH1-S G-R-EY1-T


very, very great topic, which i believe it spreads-

V-EH1 R-IY0 V-EH1 R-IY0 G-R-EY1-T T-AA1 P-IH0 K-W-IH1 CH-AY1 B-IH0 L-IY1 V-IH1-T-S P-R-EH1-D-Z


... much more broader than-


redi and dr. eve, it's something that has been, i think, an engraved-

R-EH1 D-IY0 AH0-N-D D-R-AY1 V-IY1 V-IH1-T-S S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG DH-AE1-T HH-AE1-Z B-IH1 N-AY1 TH-IH1-NG K-AE1 N-IH0-N G-R-EY1-V-D


i love what andile is saying, dr. eve. let me tell you why,-

AY1 L-AH1 V-W-AH1 T-AE1-N D-AH0 L-IH1-Z S-EY1 IH0-NG D-R-AY1 V-IY1 V-L-EH1 T-M-IY1 T-EH1 L-Y-UW1 W-AY1


... because he's basically saying, if in every area of our lives-

B-IH0 K-AO1-Z HH-IY1-Z B-EY1 S-IH0 K-L-IY0 S-EY1 IH0 NG-IH1 F-IH0 N-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 EH1 R-IY0 AH0 AH1 V-AW1 ER0 L-IH1-V-Z


... at churches, work, in our society-

AE1-T CH-ER1 CH-AH0 Z-W-ER1 K-IH0 N-AW1 ER0 S-AH0 S-AY1 AH0 T-IY0


...partner. how can we expect, that even in the institution of marriage, or even in the home, that the dynamics would be different? and unless we address the inequality in those many other areas-

P-AA1-R T-N-ER0 HH-AW1 K-AE1 N-W-IY1 IH0-K-S P-EH1-K-T DH-AE1 T-IY1 V-IH0 N-IH0-N DH-AH0 IH2-N-S T-IH0 T-UW1 SH-AH0 N-AH1 V-M-EH1 R-IH0 JH-AO1 R-IY1 V-IH0 N-IH0-N DH-AH0 HH-OW1-M DH-AE1-T DH-AH0 D-AY0 N-AE1 M-IH0-K S-W-UH1-D B-IY1 D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N T-AH0-N D-AH0 N-L-EH1 S-W-IY1 AE1 D-R-EH2-S DH-AH0 IH2 N-IH0 K-W-AA1 L-AH0 T-IY0 IH0-N DH-OW1 Z-M-EH1 N-IY0 AH1 DH-ER0 EH1 R-IY0 AH0-Z


it's absolutely heartbreaking, that this has such an impact. which is what rape does, whichever rape you have. that it has such a-

IH1-T S-AE2-B S-AH0 L-UW1 T-L-IY0 HH-AA1-R-T B-R-EY2 K-IH0-NG DH-AE1-T DH-IH1-S HH-AE1-Z S-AH1 CH-AE1 N-IH1-M P-AE0-K T-W-IH1 CH-IH1 Z-W-AH1 T-R-EY1-P D-AH1 Z-W-IH0 CH-EH1 V-ER0 R-EY1 P-Y-UW1 HH-AE1-V DH-AE1 T-IH1-T HH-AE1-Z S-AH1 CH-AH0


[inaudible 00:00:32] where, you can hear, she had it once and-

IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z Z-IH1 R-OW0 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D TH-ER1 D-IY0 T-UW1 S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-W-EH1 R-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N HH-IY1-R SH-IY1 HH-AE1 D-IH1 T-W-AH1-N S-AH0-N-D


... thing is the pain, which she talks about. you're in a situation where you not expecting to be hurt. you're not expecting to be forced.

TH-IH1 NG-IH1-Z DH-AH0 P-EY1 N-W-IH1-CH SH-IY1 T-AO1-K S-AH0 B-AW1 T-Y-UH1 R-IH0 N-AH0 S-IH2 CH-UW0 EY1 SH-AH0 N-W-EH1 R-Y-UW1 N-AA1 T-IH0-K-S P-EH1-K T-IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 HH-ER1 T-Y-UH1-R N-AA1 T-IH0-K-S P-EH1-K T-IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 F-AO1-R-S-T


the non-ability to negotiate condoms, as well. so, this is-

DH-AH0 N-AA2 N-AH0 B-IH1 L-IH0 T-IY0 T-UW1 N-AH0 G-OW1 SH-IY0 EY2-T K-AA1-N D-AH0-M Z-AE1 Z-W-EH1-L S-OW1 DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z


it's traumatic from a health point of view, as well as your own sense, your own sense-

IH1-T-S T-R-AO0 M-AE1 T-IH0-K F-R-AH1 M-AH0 HH-EH1-L-TH P-OY1-N T-AH1-V V-Y-UW1 AE1 Z-W-EH1 L-AE1 Z-Y-AO1 R-OW1-N S-EH1-N S-Y-AO1 R-OW1-N S-EH1-N-S


... of self. really, i do want to bring in an element over here, which i want people to think about and we're going to link-

AH1-V S-EH1-L F-R-IH1 L-IY0 AY1 D-UW1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-R-IH1 NG-IH0 N-AE1 N-EH1 L-AH0 M-AH0-N T-OW1 V-ER0 HH-IY1 R-W-IH1 CH-AY1 W-AA1-N-T P-IY1 P-AH0-L T-UW1 TH-IH1-NG K-AH0 B-AW1 T-AH0-N D-W-ER0 G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 L-IH1-NG-K


oh, yeah. i mean, this is a conversation for men, and i'm really delighted. and i think that the men who have called in today, they're the men who are aware, and conscious and mindful of what's going on.

OW1 Y-AE1 AY1 M-IY1-N DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-AH0 K-AA2-N V-ER0 S-EY1 SH-AH0-N F-AO1-R M-EH1 N-AH0-N D-IH1 M-R-IH1 L-IY0 D-IH0 L-AY1 T-AH0 D-AH0-N D-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-AE1-T DH-AH0 M-EH1-N HH-UW1 HH-AE1-V K-AO1-L D-IH0-N T-AH0 D-EY1 TH-EH1-R DH-AH0 M-EH1-N HH-UW1 AA1 R-AH0 W-EH1 R-AH0-N-D K-AA1-N SH-AH0 S-AH0-N D-M-AY1-N-D F-AH0 L-AH1 V-W-AH0-T-S G-OW1 IH0 NG-AA1-N


i'm interested, also, in the other part of the conversation, jane, that you bring; is that, if you're not sleeping with me, who else is sleeping with? it's like your vagina belongs to me. and if you're going to refuse me...

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this is another one of these incredibly disturbing-

DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-AH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0 W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-IY1 Z-IH0-N K-R-EH1 D-AH0 B-L-IY0 D-IH0-S T-ER1 B-IH0-NG


...reality. how do we break this patriarchy? how do we break these belief systems? is by doing this, by having talk shows about it, by talking about it, because it's difficult for women,

R-IY0 AE1 L-AH0 T-IY0 HH-AW1 D-UW1 W-IY1 B-R-EY1-K DH-IH1-S P-EY1 T-R-IY0 AA2-R K-IY0 HH-AW1 D-UW1 W-IY1 B-R-EY1-K DH-IY1-Z B-IH0 L-IY1-F S-IH1-S T-AH0-M Z-IH1-Z B-AY1 D-UW1 IH0-NG DH-IH1-S B-AY1 HH-AE1 V-IH0-NG T-AO1-K SH-OW1 Z-AH0 B-AW1 T-IH1-T B-AY1 T-AO1 K-IH0 NG-AH0 B-AW1 T-IH1-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1-T-S D-IH1 F-AH0 K-AH0-L-T F-AO1 R-W-IH1 M-AH0-N


to talk about it in their own bedrooms. thank you for your input around this.

T-UW1 T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1 T-IH1 T-IH0-N DH-EH1 R-OW1-N B-EH1 D-R-UW2-M-Z TH-AE1-NG K-Y-UW1 F-AO1 R-Y-AO1 R-IH1-N P-UH2 T-ER0 AW1-N-D DH-IH1-S


alcohol, when somebody's drunk too much, and there's a huge combination between alcohol and sex and drugs,

AE1-L K-AH0 HH-AA2 L-W-EH1-N S-AH1-M B-AA2 D-IY0-Z D-R-AH1-NG-K T-UW1 M-AH1 CH-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-R Z-AH0 HH-Y-UW1-JH K-AA2-M B-AH0 N-EY1 SH-AH0-N B-IH0 T-W-IY1 N-AE1-L K-AH0 HH-AA2 L-AH0-N-D S-EH1-K S-AH0-N-D D-R-AH1-G-Z


they're not going to be aware of what their other partner is, how they responded.

TH-EH1-R N-AA1-T G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 AH0 W-EH1 R-AH1 V-W-AH1-T DH-EH1 R-AH1 DH-ER0 P-AA1-R T-N-ER0 IH1-Z HH-AW1 DH-EY1 R-IH0-S P-AA1-N D-IH0-D


...to say and report this, even just starting off in the family, it would be very hard. i'm the mother of a boy,

T-UW1 S-EY1 AH0-N D-R-IY0 P-AO1-R-T DH-IH1 S-IY1 V-IH0-N JH-AH1-S-T-S T-AA1-R T-IH0 NG-AO1 F-IH0-N DH-AH0 F-AE1 M-AH0 L-IY0 IH1 T-W-UH1-D B-IY1 V-EH1 R-IY0 HH-AA1-R D-IH1-M DH-AH0 M-AH1 DH-ER0 AH1 V-AH0 B-OY1


but it would be very hard for me to accept that my son has raped their wife.

B-AH1 T-IH1 T-W-UH1-D B-IY1 V-EH1 R-IY0 HH-AA1-R-D F-AO1-R M-IY1 T-UW1 AE0-K S-EH1-P-T DH-AE1 T-M-AY1 S-AH1-N HH-AE1 Z-R-EY1-P-T DH-EH1 R-W-AY1-F


to discuss this at a family level. so it's even harder to go out.

T-UW1 D-IH0-S K-AH1-S DH-IH1 S-AE1 T-AH0 F-AE1 M-AH0 L-IY0 L-EH1 V-AH0-L S-OW1 IH1-T S-IY1 V-IH0-N HH-AA1-R D-ER0 T-UW1 G-OW1 AW1-T


dr. eve have a lovely weekend, we will speak to you next week. you too my sweetheart.

D-R-AY1 V-IY1-V HH-AE1 V-AH0 L-AH1 V-L-IY0 W-IY1 K-EH2-N D-W-IY1 W-IH1-L-S P-IY1-K T-UW1 Y-UW1 N-EH1-K-S T-W-IY1 K-Y-UW1 T-UW1 M-AY1 S-W-IY1-T HH-AA2-R-T


the brutal rape and murder of 17-year old bredasdorp teenager,

DH-AH0 B-R-UW1 T-AH0-L R-EY1 P-AH0-N D-M-ER1 D-ER0 AH1-V S-EH2 V-AH0-N T-IY0 EH1 N-IY0 EH0 T-OW1-L-D B-R-EY1-D S-AO2-R-M T-IY1 N-EY2 JH-ER0


south africans have to deal with, is the horror, that is a society riddled with sexual violence. it is time we confronted this and stop rape.

S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0-N-Z HH-AE1-V T-UW1 D-IY1 L-W-IH1 DH-IH1-Z DH-AH0 HH-AO1 R-ER0 DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-AH0 S-AH0 S-AY1 AH0 T-IY0 R-IH1 D-AH0-L D-W-IH1-DH S-EH1-K SH-UW0 AH0-L V-AY1 AH0 L-AH0-N S-IH1 T-IH1-Z T-AY1 M-W-IY1 K-AH0-N F-R-AH1-N T-AH0-D DH-IH1 S-AH0-N-D-S T-AA1 P-R-EY1-P


...as to how often an act of sexual violence in south africa takes place.

AE1-Z T-UW1 HH-AW1 AO1 F-AH0 N-AE1 N-AE1-K T-AH1-V S-EH1-K SH-UW0 AH0-L V-AY1 AH0 L-AH0-N S-IH0-N S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 T-EY1-K-S P-L-EY1-S


a person being raped in south africa, every four minutes.

AH0 P-ER1 S-AH0-N B-IY1 IH0 NG-R-EY1-P T-IH0-N S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 EH1 V-ER0 IY0 F-AO1-R M-IH1 N-AH0-T-S


john, i was going to say i'm a rape survivor.

JH-AA1 N-AY1 W-AA1-Z G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 S-EY1 IH1 M-AH0 R-EY1-P S-ER0 V-AY1 V-ER0


...john, you cannot survive rape, you just carry on regardless. you never get over it, john. and i wasn't the same, john. i mean, i was raped as a four year old...

JH-AA1 N-Y-UW1 K-AE1 N-AA0-T S-ER0 V-AY1 V-R-EY1 P-Y-UW1 JH-AH1-S-T K-AE1 R-IY0 AA1 N-R-AH0 G-AA1-R D-L-AH0 S-Y-UW1 N-EH1 V-ER0 G-EH1 T-OW1 V-ER0 IH1-T JH-AA1 N-AH0-N D-AY1 W-AO1-S-T DH-AH0 S-EY1-M JH-AA1 N-AY1 M-IY1 N-AY1 W-AA1 Z-R-EY1-P T-AE1 Z-AH0 F-AO1 R-Y-IH1 R-OW1-L-D


...she was my mother's sister. she was helping us and she raped me. my god!

SH-IY1 W-AA1 Z-M-AY1 M-AH1 DH-ER0-Z S-IH1-S T-ER0 SH-IY1 W-AA1-Z HH-EH1-L P-IH0 NG-AH1 S-AH0-N-D SH-IY1 R-EY1-P T-M-IY1 M-AY1 G-AA1-D


how does a woman rape a four year old? forgive me thabo, i'm missing something.

HH-AW1 D-AH1 Z-AH0 W-UH1 M-AH0 N-R-EY1 P-AH0 F-AO1 R-Y-IH1 R-OW1-L-D F-ER0 G-IH1 V-M-IY1 TH-EY1 B-OW0 IH1-M M-IH1 S-IH0-NG S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG


she used to play with my privates. she used to insert my privates in her privates. she used to make me give her oral sex, john. i'm not being crude.

SH-IY1 Y-UW1-S-T T-UW1 P-L-EY1 W-IH1 DH-M-AY1 P-R-AY1 V-AH0-T-S SH-IY1 Y-UW1-S-T T-UW1 IH2-N S-ER1 T-M-AY1 P-R-AY1 V-AH0-T S-IH0-N HH-ER0 P-R-AY1 V-AH0-T-S SH-IY1 Y-UW1-S-T T-UW1 M-EY1 K-M-IY1 G-IH1-V HH-ER0 AO1 R-AH0-L S-EH1-K-S JH-AA1 N-IH1-M N-AA1-T B-IY1 IH0-NG K-R-UW1-D


you can, thabo. you can. thabo, we will arrange counseling for you. all right. and we'll do it in a sensitive way. and we will do it confidentially and so on. and we will look after your thabo. i promise you.

Y-UW1 K-AE1-N TH-EY1 B-OW0 Y-UW1 K-AE1-N TH-EY1 B-OW0 W-IY1 W-IH1 L-ER0 EY1-N-JH K-AW1-N S-AH0 L-IH0-NG F-AO1 R-Y-UW1 AO1-L R-AY1 T-AH0-N D-W-EH1-L D-UW1 IH1 T-IH0 N-AH0 S-EH1-N S-AH0 T-IH0 V-W-EY1 AH0-N D-W-IY1 W-IH1-L D-UW1 IH1-T K-AA2-N F-AH0 D-EH1-N SH-AH0 L-IY0 AH0-N-D S-OW1 AA1 N-AH0-N D-W-IY1 W-IH1-L L-UH1 K-AE1-F T-ER0 Y-AO1-R TH-EY1 B-OW0 AY1 P-R-AA1 M-AH0 S-Y-UW1


i'm 73. i was raped by my step-father when i was about six and after he-

AY1 AE1-M S-EH1 V-AH0-N T-IY0 TH-R-IY1 AY1 W-AA1 Z-R-EY1-P-T B-AY1 M-AY1-S T-EH1-P F-AA2 DH-ER0 W-EH1 N-AY1 W-AA1 Z-AH0 B-AW1-T S-IH1-K S-AH0-N D-AE1-F T-ER0 HH-IY1


...raped me every night, for about three months,

R-EY1-P T-M-IY1 EH1 V-ER0 IY0 N-AY1-T F-AO1 R-AH0 B-AW1-T TH-R-IY1 M-AH1-N-TH-S


i told my mother. my mother took me to a-

AY1 T-OW1-L D-M-AY1 M-AH1 DH-ER0 M-AY1 M-AH1 DH-ER0 T-UH1 K-M-IY1 T-UW1 AH0


...so that they could find his sperm on the sheet. my mother never left me but she also-

S-OW1 DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 K-UH1-D F-AY1-N-D HH-IH1-Z-S P-ER1 M-AA1-N DH-AH0 SH-IY1 T-M-AY1 M-AH1 DH-ER0 N-EH1 V-ER0 L-EH1-F T-M-IY1 B-AH1-T SH-IY1 AO1-L S-OW0


i get flashbacks all the time.

AY1 G-EH1-T F-L-AE1-SH B-AE2-K S-AO1-L DH-AH0 T-AY1-M


it's remarkably brave,

IH1-T S-R-IH0 M-AA1-R K-AH0 B-L-IY0 B-R-EY1-V


...for you to speak out like this and i am so pleased for your sake that you had a loving and supportive husband.

F-AO1 R-Y-UW1 T-UW1-S P-IY1 K-AW1 T-L-AY1-K DH-IH1 S-AH0-N D-AY1 AE1-M S-OW1 P-L-IY1-Z-D F-AO1 R-Y-AO1-R S-EY1-K DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 HH-AE1 D-AH0 L-AH1 V-IH0 NG-AH0-N-D S-AH0 P-AO1-R T-IH0-V HH-AH1-Z B-AH0-N-D


...who could help for this. if there is, please get in touch with us-

HH-UW1 K-UH1-D HH-EH1-L-P F-AO1-R DH-IH1 S-IH1-F DH-EH1 R-IH1-Z P-L-IY1-Z G-EH1 T-IH0-N T-AH1 CH-W-IH1 DH-AH1-S


...otherwise we will go through the channels that we have available.

AH1 DH-ER0 W-AY2 Z-W-IY1 W-IH1-L G-OW1 TH-R-UW1 DH-AH0 CH-AE1 N-AH0-L-Z DH-AE1 T-W-IY1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 V-EY1 L-AH0 B-AH0-L


we provided that platform, facilitated by our listeners, for everyone to come forward. even a convicted rapist was able to tell his story.

W-IY1 P-R-AH0 V-AY1 D-AH0-D DH-AE1-T P-L-AE1-T F-AO2-R-M F-AH0 S-IH1 L-AH0 T-EY2 T-IH0-D B-AY1 AW1 ER0 L-IH1 S-AH0 N-ER0-Z F-AO1 R-EH1 V-R-IY0 W-AH2-N T-UW1 K-AH1-M F-AO1 R-W-ER0 D-IY1 V-IH0 N-AH0 K-AH0-N V-IH1-K T-AH0 D-R-EY1 P-IH0-S T-W-AA1 Z-EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1 T-EH1-L HH-IH1-Z-S T-AO1 R-IY0


so as a kid, i don't, i didn't get to know-

S-OW1 AE1 Z-AH0 K-IH1 D-AY1 D-AA1-N T-AY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T G-EH1-T T-UW1 N-OW1


...he had, how do i say this, he had started a sexual encounter with-

HH-IY1 HH-AE1-D HH-AW1 D-UW1 AY1 S-EY1 DH-IH1-S HH-IY1 HH-AE1-D-S T-AA1-R T-AH0 D-AH0 S-EH1-K SH-UW0 AH0 L-IH0-N K-AW1-N T-ER0 W-IH1-DH


...once he had engaged in sex he asked the rest of the kids, myself included-

W-AH1-N-S HH-IY1 HH-AE1 D-EH0-N G-EY1-JH D-IH0-N S-EH1-K-S HH-IY1 AE1-S-K-T DH-AH0 R-EH1-S T-AH1-V DH-AH0 K-IH1-D Z-M-AY2 S-EH1-L F-IH0-N K-L-UW1 D-AH0-D


...the entire crew, most of us were fairly under 16,

DH-AH0 IH0-N T-AY1 ER0 K-R-UW1 M-OW1-S T-AH1 V-AH1 S-W-ER0 F-EH1-R L-IY0 AH1-N D-ER0 S-IH0-K-S T-IY1-N


...but you also don't want to tell them that you don't want to. we were actually convicted of rape.

B-AH1 T-Y-UW1 AO1-L S-OW0 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 T-EH1-L DH-EH1-M DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 W-IY1 W-ER0 AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 K-AH0-N V-IH1-K T-AH0 D-AH1 V-R-EY1-P


19, this is four years after it had happened.

N-AY1-N T-IY1-N DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z F-AO1 R-Y-IH1-R Z-AE1-F T-ER0 IH1-T HH-AE1-D HH-AE1 P-AH0-N-D


you don't even know whether right or wrong.

Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-IY1 V-IH0-N N-OW1 W-EH1 DH-ER0 R-AY1 T-AO1-R R-AO1-NG


after having been gang raped by five men for 15 hours in port elizabeth in 2010,

AE1-F T-ER0 HH-AE1 V-IH0-NG B-IH1-N G-AE1 NG-R-EY1-P-T B-AY1 F-AY1 V-M-EH1-N F-AO1-R F-IH0-F T-IY1 N-AW1 ER0 Z-IH0-N P-AO1-R T-IH0 L-IH1 Z-AH0 B-AH0 TH-IH0-N T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 T-EH1-N


...i've decided that i would start a campaign that says enough of silence, enough of fear, enough of apathy, enough of tolerance.

AY1-V D-IH0 S-AY1 D-IH0-D DH-AE1 T-AY1 W-UH1-D-S T-AA1-R T-AH0 K-AE0-M P-EY1-N DH-AE1-T S-EH1 Z-IH0 N-AH1 F-AH1-V S-AY1 L-AH0-N S-IH0 N-AH1 F-AH1-V F-IH1 R-IH0 N-AH1 F-AH1 V-AE1 P-AH0 TH-IY0 IH0 N-AH1 F-AH1-V T-AA1 L-ER0 AH0-N-S


this is a thing that we need to fight because being silent or maybe that's giving up because they've just told, "well, your case is closed" and you are not, you didn't even have-

DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-AH0 TH-IH1-NG DH-AE1 T-W-IY1 N-IY1-D T-UW1 F-AY1-T B-IH0 K-AO1-Z B-IY1 IH0-NG S-AY1 L-AH0-N T-AO1-R M-EY1 B-IY0 TH-AE1-T-S G-IH1 V-IH0 NG-AH1-P B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-EY1-V JH-AH1-S-T T-OW1-L D-W-EH1 L-Y-AO1-R K-EY1 S-IH1-Z K-L-OW1-Z D-AH0-N D-Y-UW1 AA1-R N-AA1 T-Y-UW1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-IY1 V-IH0-N HH-AE1-V


...a trial, will allow rapists to rape again and again.

AH0 T-R-AY1 AH0 L-W-IH1 L-AH0 L-AW1 R-EY1 P-IH0-S-T-S T-UW1 R-EY1 P-AH0 G-EH1 N-AH0-N D-AH0 G-EH1-N


enough is trying to mobilize south africa to begin-

IH0 N-AH1 F-IH1-Z T-R-AY1 IH0-NG T-UW1 M-OW1 B-AH0 L-AY2-Z S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 T-UW1 B-IH0 G-IH1-N


...where the victim is told not to say anything, it starts in the home.

W-EH1-R DH-AH0 V-IH1-K T-AH0 M-IH1-Z T-OW1-L D-N-AA1-T T-UW1 S-EY1 EH1 N-IY0 TH-IH2 NG-IH1-T-S T-AA1-R-T S-IH0-N DH-AH0 HH-OW1-M


.. i think that apart from looking in the justice system, my campaign is mobilizing people in the source where rape happens-

AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-AE1 T-AH0 P-AA1-R-T F-R-AH1 M-L-UH1 K-IH0 NG-IH0-N DH-AH0 JH-AH1-S T-AH0-S S-IH1-S T-AH0-M M-AY1 K-AE0-M P-EY1 N-IH1 Z-M-OW1 B-AH0 L-AY2 Z-IH0-NG P-IY1 P-AH0 L-IH0-N DH-AH0 S-AO1-R S-W-EH1-R R-EY1-P HH-AE1 P-AH0-N-Z


how do you mean ignorance? how can people be ignorant, that rape is a terrible thing?

HH-AW1 D-UW1 Y-UW1 M-IY1 N-IH1 G-N-ER0 AH0-N-S HH-AW1 K-AE1-N P-IY1 P-AH0-L B-IY1 IH1 G-N-ER0 AH0-N-T DH-AE1 T-R-EY1 P-IH1 Z-AH0 T-EH1 R-AH0 B-AH0-L TH-IH1-NG


people assume that things like, she didn't scream, if she's got no injuries on her, if she's my friend, et cetera, it can't possibly be labeled as rape.

P-IY1 P-AH0 L-AH0 S-UW1-M DH-AE1-T TH-IH1-NG Z-L-AY1-K SH-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T-S K-R-IY1 M-IH1-F SH-EH1-S G-AA1 T-N-OW1 IH1-N JH-ER0 IY0 Z-AA1-N HH-ER0 IH1-F SH-EH1 S-M-AY1 F-R-EH1-N D-EH1-T S-EH1 T-ER0 AH0 IH1-T K-AE1-N-T P-AA1 S-AH0 B-L-IY0 B-IY1 L-EY1 B-AH0-L D-AE1 Z-R-EY1-P


education, absolute education from top to bottom-yes.... so there's no doubt. nobody can say, "i didn't know." yeah?

EH2 JH-AH0 K-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AE1-B S-AH0 L-UW2 T-EH2 JH-AH0 K-EY1 SH-AH0-N F-R-AH1-M T-AA1-P T-UW1 B-AA1 T-AH0 M-AY2-Z S-OW1 DH-EH1-R Z-N-OW1 D-AW1 T-N-OW1 B-AA2 D-IY2 K-AE1-N S-EY1 AY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-N-OW1 Y-AE1


exactly, because that is the prevailing excuse at the moment, is that, "yeah, i misunderstood. i wasn't sure if she really wanted me to stop."

IH0-G Z-AE1-K T-L-IY0 B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-AE1 T-IH1-Z DH-AH0 P-R-IH0 V-EY1 L-IH0 NG-IH0-K-S K-Y-UW1 S-AE1-T DH-AH0 M-OW1 M-AH0-N T-IH1-Z DH-AE1 T-Y-AE1 AY1 M-IH2 S-AH0-N D-ER0-S T-UH1 D-AY1 W-AO1-S-T SH-UH1 R-IH1-F SH-IY1 R-IH1 L-IY0 W-AA1-N T-AH0 D-M-IY1 T-UW1-S T-AA1-P


the thing with patriarchy, is that it affects men and women [inaudible 00:00:41]. for men-

DH-AH0 TH-IH1 NG-W-IH1-DH P-EY1 T-R-IY0 AA2-R K-IY0 IH1-Z DH-AE1 T-IH1 T-AH0 F-EH1-K-T S-M-EH1 N-AH0-N D-W-IH1 M-AH0 N-IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z Z-IH1 R-OW0 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R T-IY0 W-AH1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R M-EH1-N


how do you... what do you do? i mean, do we have a campaign, 16 days of activism preaching to the converted, how do we do it so it's going to make a difference doc?

HH-AW1 D-UW1 Y-UW1 W-AH1-T D-UW1 Y-UW1 D-UW1 AY1 M-IY1-N D-UW1 W-IY1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 K-AE0-M P-EY1-N S-IH0-K-S T-IY1-N D-EY1 Z-AH1 V-AE1-K T-IH0 V-IH2 Z-AH0-M P-R-IY1 CH-IH0-NG T-UW1 DH-AH0 K-AH0-N V-ER1 T-IH0-D HH-AW1 D-UW1 W-IY1 D-UW1 IH1-T S-OW1 IH1-T-S G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 M-EY1 K-AH0 D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-S D-AA1-K


we will no longer sit back and tolerate this war on our women and children.

W-IY1 W-IH1-L N-OW1 L-AO1-NG G-ER0 S-IH1-T B-AE1 K-AH0-N-D T-AA1 L-ER0 EY2-T DH-IH1 S-W-AO1 R-AA1 N-AW1 ER0 W-IH1 M-AH0 N-AH0-N-D CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N


... this is our society in general. and if we weren't, we wouldn't have this huge problem of rape. one of the questions i want to ask our male leaders in-

DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-AW1 ER0 S-AH0 S-AY1 AH0 T-IY0 IH0-N JH-EH1 N-ER0 AH0 L-AH0-N D-IH1 F-W-IY1 W-EH1 R-AH0-N T-W-IY1 W-UH1 D-L-AH0-N-T HH-AE1-V DH-IH1-S HH-Y-UW1-JH P-R-AA1 B-L-AH0 M-AH1 V-R-EY1 P-W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0-N Z-AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 AE1-S K-AW1 ER0 M-EY1-L L-IY1 D-ER0 Z-IH0-N


... the outcry [inaudible 00:01:12]. and the fact that they don't do that, is the reason why we have so much rape.

DH-AH0 AW1-T K-R-AY2 IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-W-AH1-N M-IH1 N-AH0 T-AH0-N-D T-W-EH1-L-V S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-AH0-N-D DH-AH0 F-AE1-K-T DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 D-AA1-N-T D-UW1 DH-AE1 T-IH1-Z DH-AH0 R-IY1 Z-AH0 N-W-AY1 W-IY1 HH-AE1-V S-OW1 M-AH1 CH-R-EY1-P


now, we keep having marches and we keep having people speak out against this. is that enough though? what else should be done?

N-AW1 W-IY1 K-IY1-P HH-AE1 V-IH0-NG M-AA1-R CH-IH0 Z-AH0-N D-W-IY1 K-IY1-P HH-AE1 V-IH0-NG P-IY1 P-AH0-L-S P-IY1 K-AW1 T-AH0 G-EH1-N-S-T DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z DH-AE1 T-IH0 N-AH1-F DH-OW1 W-AH1 T-EH1-L-S SH-UH1-D B-IY1 D-AH1-N


65,514 rapes were reported in south africa last year.

S-IH1-K-S T-IY0 F-AY1-V TH-AW1 Z-AH0-N-D F-AY1-V HH-AH1-N D-R-AH0 D-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R T-IY1 N-R-EY1-P S-W-ER0 R-IY2 P-AO1-R T-AH0 D-IH0-N S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 L-AE1-S T-Y-IH1-R


this morning, andre vlok of vlok attorneys is in port elizabeth and the reason why we're speaking to-

DH-IH1 S-M-AO1-R N-IH0 NG-AA1-N D-R-EY2 V-L-AA1 K-AH1-V V-L-AA1 K-AH0 T-ER1 N-IY0 Z-IH1 Z-IH0-N P-AO1-R T-IH0 L-IH1 Z-AH0 B-AH0 TH-AH0-N-D DH-AH0 R-IY1 Z-AH0 N-W-AY1 W-ER0-S P-IY1 K-IH0-NG T-UW1


... andre today, is because they've been in the news and stating that they're going to be offering free services to people who've been raped.

AA1-N D-R-EY2 T-AH0 D-EY1 IH1-Z B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-EY1-V B-IH1 N-IH0-N DH-AH0 N-UW1 Z-AH0-N-D-S T-EY1 T-IH0-NG DH-AE1-T TH-EH1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 AO1 F-ER0 IH0-NG F-R-IY1 S-ER1 V-AH0 S-AH0-Z T-UW1 P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1-V B-IH1 N-R-EY1-P-T


... sitting across the table saying, maybe you should do this, maybe you should do that. or there's the actual giving of your time in a court case for that matter.

S-IH1 T-IH0 NG-AH0 K-R-AO1-S DH-AH0 T-EY1 B-AH0-L S-EY1 IH0-NG M-EY1 B-IY0 Y-UW1 SH-UH1-D D-UW1 DH-IH1 S-M-EY1 B-IY0 Y-UW1 SH-UH1-D D-UW1 DH-AE1 T-AO1-R DH-EH1-R-Z DH-AH0 AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0-L G-IH1 V-IH0 NG-AH1 V-Y-AO1-R T-AY1 M-IH0 N-AH0 K-AO1-R-T K-EY1-S F-AO1-R DH-AE1 T-M-AE1 T-ER0


andre vlok, you're an officer and a gentleman. so, thank you very much-

AA1-N D-R-EY2 V-L-AA1 K-Y-UH1 R-AE1 N-AO1 F-AH0 S-ER0 AH0-N D-AH0 JH-EH1-N T-AH0-L M-AH0-N S-OW1 TH-AE1-NG K-Y-UW1 V-EH1 R-IY0 M-AH1-CH


... to overcome hardship, as we have before, when ending apartheid-

T-UW1 OW1 V-ER0 K-AH2-M HH-AA1-R-D SH-IH0 P-AE1 Z-W-IY1 HH-AE1-V B-IH0 F-AO1 R-W-EH1 N-EH1-N D-IH0 NG-AH0 P-AA1-R T-AY2-T


[annie lennox 00:02:07], very well-known of course, as a musician-

AE1 N-IY0 L-EH1 N-AH0-K-S Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z T-UW1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D S-EH1 V-AH0-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z V-EH1 R-IY0 W-EH1-L K-AO1 N-AH1-V K-AO1-R S-AE1 Z-AH0 M-Y-UW0 Z-IH1 SH-AH0-N


... is violence against women and children, which is something with which we are so seized in this country-

IH1-Z V-AY1 AH0 L-AH0-N S-AH0 G-EH1-N-S T-W-IH1 M-AH0 N-AH0-N-D CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0 N-W-IH1 CH-IH1-Z S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-W-IH1 DH-W-IH1 CH-W-IY1 AA1-R S-OW1 S-IY1-Z D-IH0-N DH-IH1-S K-AH1-N T-R-IY0


... going. how do we keep exploring the scourge?

G-OW1 IH0-NG HH-AW1 D-UW1 W-IY1 K-IY1 P-IH0-K-S P-L-AO1 R-IH0-NG DH-AH0-S K-ER1-JH


i want to see this country become the representation of something positive-

AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 S-IY1 DH-IH1-S K-AH1-N T-R-IY0 B-IH0 K-AH1-M DH-AH0 R-EH2 P-R-AH0 Z-EH0-N T-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH1-V S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG P-AA1 Z-AH0 T-IH0-V


... that it really has all the potential it can be. but if these things aren't addressed, then it never-

DH-AE1 T-IH1 T-R-IH1 L-IY0 HH-AE1 Z-AO1-L DH-AH0 P-AH0 T-EH1-N SH-AH0 L-IH1-T K-AE1-N B-IY1 B-AH1 T-IH1-F DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG Z-AA1 R-AH0-N T-AH0 D-R-EH1-S-T DH-EH1 N-IH1 T-N-EH1 V-ER0


i want to see this country transform. i want to see the real arrival point of transformation here.

AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 S-IY1 DH-IH1-S K-AH1-N T-R-IY0 T-R-AE0-N-S F-AO1-R M-AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 S-IY1 DH-AH0 R-IY1 L-ER0 AY1 V-AH0-L P-OY1-N T-AH1-V T-R-AE2-N-S F-ER0 M-EY1 SH-AH0-N HH-IY1-R


honestly, i've been so inspired as a young person looking towards mandela-

AA1 N-AH0-S T-L-IY0 AY1-V B-IH1-N S-OW1 IH0-N-S P-AY1 ER0 D-AE1 Z-AH0 Y-AH1-NG P-ER1 S-AH0 N-L-UH1 K-IH0-NG T-AH0 W-AO1-R-D Z-M-AE2-N D-EH1 L-AH0


... you know what? so was apartheid, but ap-

Y-UW1 N-OW1 W-AH1-T S-OW1 W-AA1 Z-AH0 P-AA1-R T-AY2-T B-AH1 T-AE1-P


0.1% of the [fiscus 00:02:55]. is that an indication of how seriously government takes this particular issue?

Z-IH1 R-OW0 P-OY1-N T-W-AH1-N P-ER0 S-EH1-N T-AH1-V DH-AH0 F-IH1-S K-AH0-S Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z T-UW1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-IH1-F T-IY0 F-AY1-V S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-IH1-Z DH-AE1 T-AE1 N-IH2-N D-AH0 K-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH1-V HH-AW1 S-IH1 R-IY0 AH0 S-L-IY0 G-AH1 V-ER0 M-AH0-N-T T-EY1-K-S DH-IH1-S P-ER0 T-IH1 K-Y-AH0 L-ER0 IH1 SH-UW0


[inaudible 00:03:00] this ministry, that is-

IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z TH-R-IY1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D Z-IH1 R-OW0 S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z DH-IH1 S-M-IH1 N-AH0-S T-R-IY0 DH-AE1 T-IH1-Z


... of women and children to those disabilities. the police, for instance has much bigger responsibility. the department-

AH1 V-W-IH1 M-AH0 N-AH0-N-D CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N T-UW1 DH-OW1-Z D-IH0 S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0-Z DH-AH0 P-AH0 L-IY1-S F-AO1 R-IH1-N-S T-AH0-N-S HH-AE1 Z-M-AH1-CH B-IH1 G-ER0 R-IY0-S P-AA2-N S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0 DH-AH0 D-IH0 P-AA1-R T-M-AH0-N-T


and i want to emphasize it's how the government's contribution to really looking at the whole skirts of the gender violence, that's happening in-

AH0-N D-AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 EH1-M F-AH0 S-AY2 Z-IH1-T-S HH-AW1 DH-AH0 G-AH1 V-ER0 M-AH0-N-T-S K-AA2-N T-R-AH0 B-Y-UW1 SH-AH0-N T-UW1 R-IH1 L-IY0 L-UH1 K-IH0 NG-AE1-T DH-AH0 HH-OW1-L-S K-ER1-T S-AH1-V DH-AH0 JH-EH1-N D-ER0 V-AY1 AH0 L-AH0-N-S TH-AE1-T-S HH-AE1 P-AH0 N-IH0 NG-IH0-N


... very public spirited individuals, to-

V-EH1 R-IY0 P-AH1 B-L-IH0-K-S P-IH1 R-AH0 T-AH0 D-IH2-N D-AH0 V-IH1 JH-AH0 W-AH0-L-Z T-UW1


we say, enough is enough. we will-

W-IY1 S-EY1 IH0 N-AH1 F-IH1 Z-IH0 N-AH1 F-W-IY1 W-IH1-L


i had one patient who was critical. he needed to be dialyzed and he was very sick-

AY1 HH-AE1 D-W-AH1-N P-EY1 SH-AH0-N-T HH-UW1 W-AA1-Z K-R-IH1 T-IH0 K-AH0-L HH-IY1 N-IY1 D-AH0-D T-UW1 B-IY1 D-AY1 AH0 L-AY2-Z D-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z V-EH1 R-IY0 S-IH1-K


debra, you surveyed 11 remarkable people who dropped everything and raced down to the gulf coast area.

D-EH1 B-R-AH0 Y-UW1 S-ER0 V-EY1 D-IH0 L-EH1 V-AH0 N-R-IH0 M-AA1-R K-AH0 B-AH0-L P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1 D-R-AA1-P T-EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2 NG-AH0-N D-R-EY1-S-T D-AW1-N T-UW1 DH-AH0 G-AH1-L-F K-OW1-S T-EH1 R-IY0 AH0


people who've already seen a lot in their nursing experience.

P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1 V-AO0-L R-EH1 D-IY0 S-IY1 N-AH0 L-AA1 T-IH0-N DH-EH1-R N-ER1 S-IH0 NG-IH0-K-S P-IH1 R-IY0 AH0-N-S


when did the first person volunteer? did anyone volunteer immediately, after the hurricane struck?

W-EH1-N D-IH1-D DH-AH0 F-ER1-S-T P-ER1 S-AH0-N V-AA2 L-AH0-N T-IH1-R D-IH1 D-EH1 N-IY0 W-AH2-N V-AA2 L-AH0-N T-IH1 R-IH0 M-IY1 D-IY0 AH0 T-L-IY0 AE1-F T-ER0 DH-AH0 HH-ER1 AH0 K-EY2-N-S T-R-AH1-K


they decided they would pull together a van, a medical van and just drive down there. as they got closer and closer to mississippi and new orleans-

DH-EY1 D-IH0 S-AY1 D-IH0-D DH-EY1 W-UH1-D P-UH1-L T-AH0 G-EH1 DH-ER0 AH0 V-AE1 N-AH0 M-EH1 D-AH0 K-AH0-L V-AE1 N-AH0-N-D JH-AH1-S-T D-R-AY1-V D-AW1-N DH-EH1 R-AE1-Z DH-EY1 G-AA1-T K-L-OW1 S-ER0 AH0-N-D K-L-OW1 S-ER0 T-UW1 M-IH2 S-IH0 S-IH1 P-IY0 AH0-N D-N-UW1 AO1-R L-IY0 AH0-N-Z


... this person described to me, i will never forget her words that, she never felt like she was in more of a right place at the right time in her life.

DH-IH1-S P-ER1 S-AH0-N D-IH0-S K-R-AY1-B-D T-UW1 M-IY1 AY1 W-IH1-L N-EH1 V-ER0 F-ER0 G-EH1-T HH-ER0 W-ER1-D-Z DH-AE1-T SH-IY1 N-EH1 V-ER0 F-EH1-L T-L-AY1-K SH-IY1 W-AA1 Z-IH0-N M-AO1 R-AH1 V-AH0 R-AY1-T P-L-EY1 S-AE1-T DH-AH0 R-AY1-T T-AY1 M-IH0-N HH-ER0 L-AY1-F


they were hot, they were miserable, they were tired-

DH-EY1 W-ER0 HH-AA1-T DH-EY1 W-ER0 M-IH1 Z-ER0 AH0 B-AH0-L DH-EY1 W-ER0 T-AY1 ER0-D


... they're exhausted, they couldn't see straight.

TH-EH1 R-IH0-G Z-AO1-S T-AH0-D DH-EY1 K-AW1-L D-AH0-N-T S-IY1-S T-R-EY1-T


i'd say this was eight months after katrina hit. and it was still devastation.

IH1-D S-EY1 DH-IH1 S-W-AA1 Z-EY1 T-M-AH1-N-TH S-AE1-F T-ER0 K-AH0 T-R-IY1 N-AH0 HH-IH1 T-AH0-N D-IH1 T-W-AA1-Z-S T-IH1-L D-EH2 V-AH0-S T-EY1 SH-AH0-N


it was pretty well done. and they had doctors and nurses and dentists from everywhere.

IH1 T-W-AA1-Z P-R-IH1 T-IY0 W-EH1-L D-AH1 N-AH0-N-D DH-EY1 HH-AE1-D D-AA1-K T-ER0 Z-AH0-N D-N-ER1 S-AH0 Z-AH0-N-D D-EH1-N T-AH0-S-T-S F-R-AH1 M-EH1 V-R-IY0 W-EH2-R


but in that clinic, in that zoo, in that line-

B-AH1 T-IH0-N DH-AE1-T K-L-IH1 N-IH0 K-IH0-N DH-AE1-T Z-UW1 IH0-N DH-AE1 T-L-AY1-N


... people were always giving up their space to someone who was sicker. and these are people who had nothing.

P-IY1 P-AH0 L-W-ER0 AO1 L-W-EY2-Z G-IH1 V-IH0 NG-AH1-P DH-EH1-R-S P-EY1-S T-UW1 S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N HH-UW1 W-AA1-Z S-IH1 K-ER0 AH0-N-D DH-IY1 Z-AA1-R P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1 HH-AE1 D-N-AH1 TH-IH0-NG


i think if you aren't someone who takes part in the gift of giving, you view that differently in your own life,

AY1 TH-IH1-NG K-IH1 F-Y-UW1 AA1 R-AH0-N-T S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N HH-UW1 T-EY1-K-S P-AA1-R T-IH0-N DH-AH0 G-IH1-F T-AH1-V G-IH1 V-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 V-Y-UW1 DH-AE1-T D-IH1 F-R-AH0-N T-L-IY0 IH0 N-Y-AO1 R-OW1 N-L-AY1-F


then i guess you want your shift paid back.

DH-EH1 N-AY1 G-EH1 S-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N T-Y-AO1-R SH-IH1-F-T P-EY1-D B-AE1-K


your experience, the disaster, the people in dire need, you just are so removed.

Y-AO1 R-IH0-K-S P-IH1 R-IY0 AH0-N-S DH-AH0 D-IH0 Z-AE1-S T-ER0 DH-AH0 P-IY1 P-AH0 L-IH0-N D-AY1-R N-IY1 D-Y-UW1 JH-AH1-S T-AA1-R S-OW1 R-IY0 M-UW1-V-D


i think that's true. maybe so much watching of media makes us more immune.

AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K TH-AE1-T-S T-R-UW1 M-EY1 B-IY0 S-OW1 M-AH1 CH-W-AA1 CH-IH0 NG-AH1 V-M-IY1 D-IY0 AH0 M-EY1-K S-AH1 S-M-AO1 R-IH0 M-Y-UW1-N


i cannot bring their stories adequately to my husband, to my children. there's no way to convey the gift

AY1 K-AE1 N-AA0-T B-R-IH1-NG DH-EH1-R-S T-AO1 R-IY0 Z-AE1 D-AH0 K-W-AH0 T-L-IY0 T-UW1 M-AY1 HH-AH1-Z B-AH0-N-D T-UW1 M-AY1 CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N DH-EH1-R Z-N-OW1 W-EY1 T-UW1 K-AH0-N V-EY1 DH-AH0 G-IH1-F-T


of nightingale and how she was called to nursing.

AH1 V-N-AY1 T-IH0-NG G-EY0 L-AH0-N-D HH-AW1 SH-IY1 W-AA1-Z K-AO1-L-D T-UW1 N-ER1 S-IH0-NG


so other than the $1 million hitler issue was captain america wildly popular?

S-OW1 AH1 DH-ER0 DH-AE1-N DH-AH0 W-AH1-N M-IH1 L-Y-AH0-N D-AA1 L-ER0-Z HH-IH1 T-L-ER0 IH1 SH-UW0 W-AA1-Z K-AE1-P T-AH0 N-AH0 M-EH1 R-AH0 K-AH0 W-AY1-L D-L-IY0 P-AA1 P-Y-AH0 L-ER0


i never had the money to buy them, but i was able to borrow them from others. are they still popular?

AY1 N-EH1 V-ER0 HH-AE1-D DH-AH0 M-AH1 N-IY0 T-UW1 B-AY1 DH-EH1-M B-AH1 T-AY1 W-AA1 Z-EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1 B-AA1 R-OW2 DH-EH1-M F-R-AH1 M-AH1 DH-ER0 Z-AA1-R DH-EY1-S T-IH1-L P-AA1 P-Y-AH0 L-ER0


what if the plane crashes or if the engine falls off? what happens if there's turbulence? that's actually a [crosstalk 00:02:11]

W-AH1 T-IH1-F DH-AH0 P-L-EY1-N K-R-AE1 SH-IH0 Z-AO1 R-IH1-F DH-AH0 EH1-N JH-AH0-N F-AO1-L Z-AO1 F-W-AH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N Z-IH1-F T-IY1 HH-IY1 R-IH1-Z T-ER1 B-Y-AH0 L-AH0-N-S TH-AE1-T S-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 AH0 K-R-AO1-S T-AO1-K Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z T-UW1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N D-IH0 L-EH1 V-AH0-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


and if something goes wrong, i'm going to plummet to the earth and a fiery.

AH0-N D-IH1-F S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG G-OW1 Z-R-AO1 NG-IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 P-L-AH1 M-AH0-T T-UW1 DH-AH0 ER1 TH-AH0-N D-AH0 F-AY1 ER0 IY0


i have flown all over the world and i have only had one nervous breakdown on an airplane in singapore and that was it.

AY1 HH-AE1-V F-L-OW1 N-AO1 L-OW1 V-ER0 DH-AH0 W-ER1-L D-AH0-N D-AY1 HH-AE1 V-OW1 N-L-IY0 HH-AE1 D-W-AH1-N N-ER1 V-AH0-S B-R-EY1-K D-AW2 N-AA1 N-AE1 N-EH1-R P-L-EY2 N-IH0-N S-IH1 NG-AH0 P-AO2 R-AH0-N-D DH-AE1 T-W-AA1 Z-IH1-T


it was right after 9-11. she was flying with her mom on her way to a conference and something just [crosstalk 00:01:29]

IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-R-AY1 T-AE1-F T-ER0 N-AY1-N T-UW1 IH0 L-EH1 V-AH0-N SH-IY1 W-AA1-Z F-L-AY1 IH0 NG-W-IH1-DH HH-ER0 M-AA1 M-AA1-N HH-ER0 W-EY1 T-UW1 AH0 K-AA1-N F-ER0 AH0-N S-AH0-N-D S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG JH-AH1-S-T K-R-AO1-S T-AO1-K Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-W-AH1-N M-IH1 N-AH0 T-AH0-N-D T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 N-AY1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


all about a sense of control. that's why they suggest having ways to look up information about your planes, say online or on an app on your phone.

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okay, you may not even go and look it up, but having the choice may actually give you that sense of control that you generally lack when you fly. so,

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the passengers at las vegas were very, very anxious and it should be noted that this was done before mh 370 went missing. [crosstalk 00:02:06]

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wings flew into the mountain and so we really hadn't had a plane crash since eight [crosstalk 00:02:11]

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louisiana. and that's when lindsay realized she had to do something.

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not listening really all that closely and that was evidenced in the hudson river landing.

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collected people who are going to do everything correctly and we already know all that information.

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i mean, it'd be it in natural disasters or in airplanes that humans'

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run away where we can help our brain practice. we can basically tease you to imagine what would happen and then help you imagine how you could respond.

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i've been at an airport and had that bad encounter where somebody pushes you away or needs to go faster than you and rolls over you.

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we don't tend to associate love with the workplace, but in the popular tv, comedy parks and recreation, the character-

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april, and i know i have a lot to learn from you and i'm sorry that i disrespect.

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it's a great question. and actually it was one of the motivating questions because when we first started this work,

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love doesn't exist at work. workplace relations can not be so close as to be called love.

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you were calling it companionate love. i'm not sure i've ever heard that phrase before.

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can you explain companionate love? absolutely. i've been very lucky to work in organizations with a strong culture of companion.

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but if she was, i wouldn't have necessarily been as attuned to it because i was looking for these larger than life emotion expressions.

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have you found that other organizations are interested in it? have heard about this and have asked you for more?

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think about wall street and the culture of greed. can there be a culture of love?

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yeah. cultures of love do well everywhere, but they do particularly well and cultures that have a strong commitment to high performance.

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bottom line orientation. so , here their employees say

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the bottom line and the professional ethics that come along with it just because you care so deeply about employees, we actually think it's a very [crosstalk 00:04:15]

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absolutely. so one of the most fundamental ways that emotions are transmitted is through contagion.

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the moments that create strong cultures of love.

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it's not the crises. it's not just hiring the right people.

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so inspiring. mandy o'neill, thank you for talking with me on with good reason.

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mandy o'neill is assistant professor of management at george mason university.

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she's been working with adult children and their parents as they make tough choices about living arrangements and long-term care.

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bill, does the system work? do you think in america right now for that moment in all our lives, when our parents just can't go it alone anymore?

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people think that home healthcare is 24/7,

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but in reality, they're not 24/7. a nurse comes in, perhaps once or twice a week,

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but as a country and as a society understood that this problem is only going to escalate.

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in your own home, take care of your parents in your house.

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old age is traumatic enough, but when you, i call it plucking an older adult out of nebraska and drop them in southwest virginia.

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when you're older to try to negotiate all of those new things at one time.

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for parents faltering independently, and you don't want to force them, but you want to introduce options.

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well, we can't force people

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to do what they don't want to do. we can encourage, we can have open dialogue.

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some people are willing to do that because some people are planners.

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in the future, especially as the baby boomers deal with these aging parents, that they'll be able to understand what we don't want to leave our children.

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we don't want to leave our children with a mess of bills and private papers that we should have dealt with when.

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that it's very difficult to take the time from your job and go through all of that stuff and make your funeral arrangements.

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don't leave your children with a mess.

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but don't we owe our parents effort and goodwill and love and support at this stage in their lives?

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love. and it is so poignant

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in what these adult children will do. some quit their jobs, retire early, just to be able to care for these parents who raised them.

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have you gone through this yourself?

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lucky that i was able to be with both my parents when they passed away, as a nurse.

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what led you to undertake a survey of adult children who've gone through this process.

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her face, i don't want to be here. and i thought this must be a struggle for both of them. yeah.

HH-ER0 F-EY1 S-AY1 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-IY1 HH-IY1 R-AH0-N D-AY1 TH-AO1-T DH-IH1 S-M-AH1-S-T B-IY1 AH0-S T-R-AH1 G-AH0-L F-AO1-R B-OW1 TH-AH1-V DH-EH1 M-Y-AE1


on the older adult and their transition into a new living environment. but-

AA1-N DH-AH0 OW1-L D-ER0 AH0 D-AH1-L T-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-R T-R-AE0-N Z-IH1 SH-AH0 N-IH0-N T-UW1 AH0 N-UW1 L-IH1 V-IH0 NG-IH0-N V-AY1 R-AH0-N M-AH0-N-T B-AH1-T


what did you learn for most people was the tipping point where they realize they have to do something with their parents to make them safer and more comfortable?

W-AH1-T D-IH1 D-Y-UW1 L-ER1-N F-AO1-R M-OW1-S-T P-IY1 P-AH0 L-W-AA1-Z DH-AH0 T-IH1 P-IH0-NG P-OY1-N T-W-EH1-R DH-EY1 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z DH-EY1 HH-AE1-V T-UW1 D-UW1 S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-W-IH1-DH DH-EH1-R P-EH1 R-AH0-N-T-S T-UW1 M-EY1-K DH-EH1-M S-EY1 F-ER0 AH0-N D-M-AO1-R K-AH1-M F-ER0 T-AH0 B-AH0-L


why is there a difference between what the children think the parents ought to do and what the parents think they ought to do.

W-AY1 IH1-Z DH-EH1 R-AH0 D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-S B-IH0 T-W-IY1 N-W-AH1-T DH-AH0 CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N TH-IH1-NG-K DH-AH0 P-EH1 R-AH0-N-T S-AO1-T T-UW1 D-UW1 AH0-N D-W-AH1-T DH-AH0 P-EH1 R-AH0-N-T-S TH-IH1-NG-K DH-EY1 AO1-T T-UW1 D-UW1


understand the generation that we're talking about. they're in their eighties and nineties. most of them are children of the depression.

AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D DH-AH0 JH-EH2 N-ER0 EY1 SH-AH0-N DH-AE1 T-W-ER0 T-AO1 K-IH0 NG-AH0 B-AW1-T TH-EH1 R-IH0-N DH-EH1 R-EY1 T-IY0 Z-AH0-N D-N-AY1-N T-IY0 Z-M-OW1-S T-AH1-V DH-EH1 M-AA1-R CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 D-IH0 P-R-EH1 SH-AH0-N


they have been fiercely independent. i can still drive. i can stay here by myself.

DH-EY1 HH-AE1-V B-IH1-N F-IH1-R S-L-IY0 IH2-N D-IH0 P-EH1-N D-AH0-N T-AY1 K-AE1-N-S T-IH1-L D-R-AY1 V-AY1 K-AE1-N-S T-EY1 HH-IY1-R B-AY1 M-AY2 S-EH1-L-F


so when a parent wants to keep living alone, shouldn't we just let them as opposed to badger them?

S-OW1 W-EH1 N-AH0 P-EH1 R-AH0-N T-W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1 K-IY1 P-L-IH1 V-IH0 NG-AH0 L-OW1-N SH-OW1-L T-AH0-N T-W-IY1 JH-AH1-S T-L-EH1-T DH-EH1 M-AE1 Z-AH0 P-OW1-Z-D T-UW1 B-AE1 JH-ER0 DH-EH1-M


from the rescue squad or the hospital saying, we've got your dad here. and he's got a broken hip.

F-R-AH1-M DH-AH0 R-EH1-S K-Y-UW0-S K-W-AA1 D-AO1-R DH-AH0 HH-AA1-S P-IH2 T-AH0-L S-EY1 IH0 NG-W-IY1-V G-AA1 T-Y-AO1-R D-AE1-D HH-IY1 R-AH0-N-D HH-IY1-Z G-AA1 T-AH0 B-R-OW1 K-AH0-N HH-IH1-P


might've happened in the assisted living facility anyway.

M-IY1 T-AH0-V HH-AE1 P-AH0-N D-IH0-N DH-AH0 AH0 S-IH1-S T-AH0 D-L-IH1 V-IH0-NG F-AH0 S-IH1 L-IH0 T-IY0 EH1 N-IY0 W-EY2


"i'll lose my independence and i'll lose my privacy."

IH1-L L-UW1 Z-M-AY1 IH2-N D-IH0 P-EH1-N D-AH0-N S-AH0-N D-IH1-L L-UW1 Z-M-AY1 P-R-AY1 V-AH0 S-IY0


that's the scariest part for older adults is to lose your independence and to lose your privacy.

TH-AE1-T-S DH-AH0-S K-EH1 R-IY0 AH0-S-T P-AA1-R-T F-AO1 R-OW1-L D-ER0 AH0 D-AH1-L-T S-IH1-Z T-UW1 L-UW1 Z-Y-AO1 R-IH2-N D-IH0 P-EH1-N D-AH0-N S-AH0-N-D T-UW1 L-UW1 Z-Y-AO1-R P-R-AY1 V-AH0 S-IY0


make sure you take your medicine. make sure you eat. make sure you are safe and can have a bath and get dressed and spent-

M-EY1-K SH-UH1 R-Y-UW1 T-EY1 K-Y-AO1-R M-EH1 D-AH0 S-AH0-N M-EY1-K SH-UH1 R-Y-UW1 IY1 T-M-EY1-K SH-UH1 R-Y-UW1 AA1-R S-EY1 F-AH0-N-D K-AE1-N HH-AE1 V-AH0 B-AE1 TH-AH0-N-D G-EH1-T D-R-EH1-S T-AH0-N-D-S P-EH1-N-T


god.org to reach us call eight seven [crosstalk 00:03:57].

G-AA1-D D-AA1 T-AO1-R-G T-UW1 R-IY1 CH-AH1-S K-AO1 L-EY1-T S-EH1 V-AH0-N K-R-AO1-S T-AO1-K Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z TH-R-IY1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-IH1-F T-IY0 S-EH1 V-AH0-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


what about we're doing the walkthrough and zak felt a presence in the back of the trailer where all the evil happened. he went right there.

W-AH1 T-AH0 B-AW1 T-W-ER0 D-UW1 IH0-NG DH-AH0 W-AO1-K TH-R-AH0 L-AH0-N-D Z-AE1-K F-EH1-L T-AH0 P-R-EH1 Z-AH0-N S-IH0-N DH-AH0 B-AE1 K-AH1-V DH-AH0 T-R-EY1 L-ER0 W-EH1 R-AO1-L DH-AH0 IY1 V-AH0-L HH-AE1 P-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 W-EH1-N T-R-AY1-T DH-EH1-R


and all the cats from outside were coming up to the trailer. what's that about?

AH0-N D-AO1-L DH-AH0 K-AE1-T-S F-R-AH1 M-AW1-T S-AY1 D-W-ER0 K-AH1 M-IH0 NG-AH1-P T-UW1 DH-AH0 T-R-EY1 L-ER0 W-AH0-T-S DH-AE1 T-AH0 B-AW1-T


that's a different lockdown. right. the evp that billy got,

TH-AE1-T S-AH0 D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N T-L-AA1-K D-AW2 N-R-AY1-T DH-AH0 EH1-V DH-AE1-T B-IH1 L-IY0 G-AA1-T


indian massacre, you're going to get a lot of paranormal activity. we saw that everywhere. oh my god,

IH1-N D-IY0 AH0-N M-AE1 S-AH0 K-ER0 Y-UH1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 G-EH1 T-AH0 L-AA1 T-AH1-V P-EH0 R-AH0 N-AO1-R M-AH0 L-AE0-K T-IH1 V-AH0 T-IY0 W-IY1 S-AO1 DH-AE1 T-EH1 V-R-IY0 W-EH2 R-OW1 M-AY1 G-AA1-D


while they're in the van nerve center. right. aaron says,

W-AY1-L TH-EH1 R-IH0-N DH-AH0 V-AE1-N N-ER1-V S-EH1-N T-ER0 R-AY1 T-EH1 R-AH0-N S-EH1-Z


lockdown. right. so i'm not saying that that's cool or not cool. it's just the gac family are asking this question. right. that's why.

L-AA1-K D-AW2 N-R-AY1-T S-OW1 IH1-M N-AA1-T S-EY1 IH0-NG DH-AE1-T TH-AE1-T-S K-UW1 L-AO1-R N-AA1-T K-UW1 L-IH1-T-S JH-AH1-S-T DH-AH0 G-AE1-K F-AE1 M-AH0 L-IY0 AA1 R-AE1-S K-IH0-NG DH-IH1-S K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0 N-R-AY1-T TH-AE1-T S-W-AY1


i need to go to sleep. it's like no, you don't. that's the last thing you need to do.

AY1 N-IY1-D T-UW1 G-OW1 T-UW1 S-L-IY1 P-IH1-T S-L-AY1 K-N-OW1 Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T TH-AE1-T-S DH-AH0 L-AE1-S-T TH-IH1 NG-Y-UW1 N-IY1-D T-UW1 D-UW1


what happens next had every gac fan.

W-AH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N Z-N-EH1-K-S-T HH-AE1 D-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 G-AE1-K F-AE1-N


i don't know if you could fully appreciate that evp. [crosstalk 00:04:50] when you see it in person it's like

AY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 IH1 F-Y-UW1 K-UH1-D F-UH1 L-IY0 AH0 P-R-IY1 SH-IY0 EY2-T DH-AE1 T-EH1-V K-R-AO1-S T-AO1-K Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z F-AO1-R M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-IH1-F T-IY0 S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-W-EH1 N-Y-UW1 S-IY1 IH1 T-IH0-N P-ER1 S-AH0 N-IH1-T S-L-AY1-K


... trailer.... feel the vibration.yeah. the camera shakes.that's how hard it was. this land is so active. don't forget that black figures they got walking in the backyard. let's not forget that.

T-R-EY1 L-ER0 F-IY1-L DH-AH0 V-AY0 B-R-EY1 SH-AH0 N-EY1 DH-AH0 K-AE1 M-ER0 AH0 SH-EY1-K-S T-AE2-T-S HH-AW1 HH-AA1-R D-IH1 T-W-AA1-Z DH-IH1 S-L-AE1-N D-IH1-Z S-OW1 AE1-K T-IH0-V D-AA1-N-T F-ER0 G-EH1-T DH-AE1-T B-L-AE1-K F-IH1 G-Y-ER0-Z DH-EY1 G-AA1 T-W-AO1 K-IH0 NG-IH0-N DH-AH0 B-AE1 K-Y-AA2-R D-L-EH1-T S-N-AA1-T F-ER0 G-EH1-T DH-AE1-T


you will not attack the family. you will not choke the son. you will not make them sick.yeah.there's too much good here. you must leave this house.yes.

Y-UW1 W-IH1-L N-AA1 T-AH0 T-AE1-K DH-AH0 F-AE1 M-AH0 L-IY0 Y-UW1 W-IH1-L N-AA1-T CH-OW1-K DH-AH0 S-AH1 N-Y-UW1 W-IH1-L N-AA1 T-M-EY1-K DH-EH1-M S-IH1 K-AH0 W-EH2 DH-ER0-Z T-UW1 M-AH1-CH G-UH1-D HH-IY1 R-Y-UW1 M-AH1-S T-L-IY1-V DH-IH1-S HH-AW1 S-IY0-Z


another connected murder has it's covered in the same local neighborhood. an innocent young girl's body was discovered in her bedroom, late last night. her mother...

AH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0 K-AH0 N-EH1-K T-AH0 D-M-ER1 D-ER0 HH-AE1 Z-IH1-T-S K-AH1 V-ER0 D-IH0-N DH-AH0 S-EY1 M-L-OW1 K-AH0-L N-EY1 B-ER0 HH-UH2 D-AE1 N-IH1 N-AH0 S-AH0-N T-Y-AH1-NG G-ER1-L-Z B-AA1 D-IY0 W-AA1-Z D-IH0-S K-AH1 V-ER0 D-IH0-N HH-ER0 B-EH1 D-R-UW2 M-L-EY1 T-L-AE1-S T-N-AY1-T HH-ER0 M-AH1 DH-ER0


we didn't think something like this was possible.

W-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T TH-IH1-NG-K S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-L-AY1-K DH-IH1 S-W-AA1-Z P-AA1 S-AH0 B-AH0-L


god damn, gun first. i was-

G-AA1-D D-AE1-M G-AH1-N F-ER1-S T-AY1 W-AA1-Z


i was going to save our baby.

AY1 W-AA1-Z G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 S-EY1 V-AW1 ER0 B-EY1 B-IY0


[inaudible 00:02:38] that son of a bitch, in the face. but it was known that randy and his gang of idiots-

IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z T-UW1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D TH-ER1 D-IY0 EY1-T S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z DH-AE1-T S-AH1 N-AH1 V-AH0 B-IH1 CH-IH0-N DH-AH0 F-EY1-S B-AH1 T-IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-N-OW1-N DH-AE1 T-R-AE1-N D-IY0 AH0-N-D HH-IH1-Z G-AE1 NG-AH1 V-IH1 D-IY0 AH0-T-S


... sometime, and i didn't know them.

S-AH1-M T-AY2 M-AH0-N D-AY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-N-OW1 DH-EH1-M


randy was an asshole. he deserved what-

R-AE1-N D-IY0 W-AA1 Z-AE1 N-AE1-S HH-OW0-L HH-IY1 D-IH0 Z-ER1-V D-W-AH1-T


i can still see the colors in my artwork if i think hard enough.

AY1 K-AE1-N-S T-IH1-L S-IY1 DH-AH0 K-AH1 L-ER0 Z-IH0-N M-AY1 AA1-R T-W-ER2 K-IH1 F-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K HH-AA1-R D-IH0 N-AH1-F


[inaudible 00:03:07] now it all seems gray. i guess that's the price-

IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z TH-R-IY1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D S-EH1 V-AH0-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-N-AW1 IH1 T-AO1-L S-IY1-M-Z G-R-EY1 AY1 G-EH1-S TH-AE1-T-S DH-AH0 P-R-AY1-S


... so, people wouldn't suspect him for the crime that he did. but he really wasn't enjoying himself.

S-OW1 P-IY1 P-AH0 L-W-UH1 D-L-AH0-N-T S-AH1-S P-EH2-K-T HH-IH1-M F-AO1-R DH-AH0 K-R-AY1-M DH-AE1-T HH-IY1 D-IH1-D B-AH1-T HH-IY1 R-IH1 L-IY0 W-AO1-S T-EH0-N JH-OY1 IH0-NG HH-IH0-M S-EH1-L-F


it was the smile of a madman. and the second that bell rang, i bolted out those doors as fast as i could.

IH1 T-W-AA1-Z DH-AH0 S-M-AY1 L-AH1 V-AH0 M-AE1 D-M-AE2 N-AH0-N-D DH-AH0 S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D DH-AE1-T B-EH1-L R-AE1 NG-AY1 B-OW1-L T-AH0 D-AW1-T DH-OW1-Z D-AO1-R Z-AE1-Z F-AE1-S T-AE1 Z-AY1 K-UH1-D


nobody but me knew what jeff really was...

N-OW1 B-AA2 D-IY2 B-AH1 T-M-IY1 N-UW1 W-AH1-T JH-EH1 F-R-IH1 L-IY0 W-AA1-Z


wait, seriously? no way. what happened? was it-

W-EY1-T S-IH1 R-IY0 AH0 S-L-IY0 N-OW1 W-EY1 W-AH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N D-W-AA1 Z-IH1-T


i know you're... okay. no, i don't know what you're going through, but i heard about what happened. and...

AY1 N-OW1 Y-UH1 R-OW2 K-EY1 N-OW1 AY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 W-AH1 T-Y-UH1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG TH-R-UW1 B-AH1 T-AY1 HH-ER1 D-AH0 B-AW1 T-W-AH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N D-AH0-N-D


just... if you need someone to help you, i'm here.

JH-AH1-S T-IH1 F-Y-UW1 N-IY1-D S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N T-UW1 HH-EH1-L P-Y-UW1 IH1-M HH-IY1-R


bye, i guess.


[inaudible 00:04:15].

IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z F-AO1-R M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-IH0-F T-IY1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


i watched his-


... chest rise and fall, and listened to the machines beat.

CH-EH1-S T-R-AY1 Z-AH0-N-D F-AO1 L-AH0-N D-L-IH1 S-AH0-N-D T-UW1 DH-AH0 M-AH0 SH-IY1-N-Z B-IY1-T


with his face, and i felt sympathy.

W-IH1-DH HH-IH1-Z F-EY1 S-AH0-N D-AY1 F-EH1-L-T S-IH1-M P-AH0 TH-IY0


buzzing guppy.no, he's not woken up yet. you're jane, right?

B-AH1 Z-IH0-NG G-UW0 P-IY1 N-OW0 HH-IY1 Z-N-AA1 T-W-OW1 K-AH0 N-AH1 P-Y-EH1 T-Y-UH1-R JH-EY1 N-R-AY1-T


i wish that my son didn't have to get hurt at that expense.

AY1 W-IH1-SH DH-AE1 T-M-AY1 S-AH1-N D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T HH-AE1-V T-UW1 G-EH1-T HH-ER1 T-AE1-T DH-AE1 T-IH0-K-S P-EH1-N-S


... calling the police, when you did.

K-AO1 L-IH0-NG DH-AH0 P-AH0 L-IY1 S-W-EH1 N-Y-UW1 D-IH1-D


... better. tell you what, i'll have him come over when he's better to say hi. he'll want to see you.

B-EH1 T-ER0 T-EH1 L-Y-UW1 W-AH1 T-IH1-L HH-AE1-V HH-IH1-M K-AH1 M-OW1 V-ER0 W-EH1-N HH-IY1-Z B-EH1 T-ER0 T-UW1 S-EY1 HH-AY1 HH-EH1 L-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 S-IY1 Y-UW1


... blood and carnage, that they couldn't tell the number of bodies, at first.

B-L-AH1 D-AH0-N-D K-AA1-R N-IH0-JH DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 K-AW1-L D-AH0-N-T T-EH1-L DH-AH0 N-AH1-M B-ER0 AH1-V B-AA1 D-IY0 Z-AE1-T F-ER1-S-T


jane, come on. i'm sorry. i'm messing with you. oh, my god.

JH-EY1-N K-AH1 M-AA1 N-IH1-M S-AA1 R-IY0 IH1-M M-EH1 S-IH0 NG-W-IH1 DH-Y-UW1 OW1 M-AY1 G-AA1-D


because my neighbor butchered his own family. how the fuck am i supposed to feel about that? what am i supposed to say?

B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-M-AY1 N-EY1 B-ER0 B-UH1 CH-ER0-D HH-IH1 Z-OW1-N F-AE1 M-AH0 L-IY0 HH-AW1 DH-AH0 F-AH1 K-AE1 M-AY1 S-AH0 P-OW1-Z-D T-UW1 F-IY1 L-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AE1 T-W-AH1 T-AE1 M-AY1 S-AH0 P-OW1-Z-D T-UW1 S-EY1


yeah. i felt guilty, but melissa helped me feel better.

Y-AE1 AY1 F-EH1-L-T G-IH1-L T-IY0 B-AH1 T-M-AH0 L-IH1 S-AH0 HH-EH1-L-P T-M-IY1 F-IY1-L B-EH1 T-ER0


and i loved her for it. she was my best friend.

AH0-N D-AY1 L-AH1-V-D HH-ER0 F-AO1 R-IH1-T SH-IY1 W-AA1 Z-M-AY1 B-EH1-S-T F-R-EH1-N-D


and a year was what i needed to be able to start to forget.

AH0-N D-AH0 Y-IH1 R-W-AA1 Z-W-AH1 T-AY1 N-IY1 D-AH0-D T-UW1 B-IY1 EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1-S T-AA1-R-T T-UW1 F-ER0 G-EH1-T


oh, god. oh, god, you found me. you're jeff.

OW1 G-AA1 D-OW1 G-AA1 D-Y-UW1 F-AW1-N D-M-IY1 Y-UH1-R JH-EH1-F


imprinting some kind of sick finger painting. i traced the trails of blood down the walls, into the-

IH0-M P-R-IH1-N T-IH0-NG S-AH1-M K-AY1-N D-AH1-V S-IH1-K F-IH1-NG G-ER0 P-EY1-N T-IH0 NG-AY1 T-R-EY1-S-T DH-AH0 T-R-EY1-L Z-AH1-V B-L-AH1-D D-AW1-N DH-AH0 W-AO1-L Z-IH0-N T-UW1 DH-AH0


my parents lay next to me,-

M-AY1 P-EH1 R-AH0-N-T S-L-EY1 N-EH1-K-S-T T-UW1 M-IY1


patreon.never breathed and then a smell-

P-AH0 T-R-IY1 V-N-ER0 B-R-IY1-DH D-AH0-N-D DH-EH1 N-AH0 S-M-EH1-L


dreams every night and you tell me the exact same-

D-R-IY1-M Z-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 N-AY1 T-AH0-N D-Y-UW1 T-EH1-L M-IY1 DH-AH0 IH0-G Z-AE1-K-T S-EY1-M


i should have done everything that you did. i belong with you, you were absolutely right, were the sa-

AY1 SH-UH1-D HH-AE1-V D-AH1 N-EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2-NG DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 D-IH1 D-AY1 B-IH0 L-AO1 NG-W-IH1 DH-Y-UW1 Y-UW1 W-ER0 AE2-B S-AH0 L-UW1 T-L-IY0 R-AY1 T-W-ER0 DH-AH0 S-AA1


the exact same. i should have been brave enough to kill them.

DH-AH0 IH0-G Z-AE1-K-T S-EY1 M-AY1 SH-UH1-D HH-AE1-V B-IH1-N B-R-EY1 V-IH0 N-AH1-F T-UW1 K-IH1-L DH-EH1-M


this is the push i needed. i am like you jeff, i'm just like you and together we can-

DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z DH-AH0 P-UH1 SH-AY1 N-IY1 D-AH0 D-AY1 AE1 M-L-AY1 K-Y-UW1 JH-EH1 F-IH1-M JH-AH1-S T-L-AY1 K-Y-UW1 AH0-N-D T-AH0 G-EH1 DH-ER0 W-IY1 K-AE1-N


it was destroyed, my body, my hair, my organs were burned away in to ashes.

IH1 T-W-AA1-Z D-IH0-S T-R-OY1 D-M-AY1 B-AA1 D-IY0 M-AY1 HH-EH1-R M-AY1 AO1-R G-AH0-N Z-W-ER0 B-ER1-N D-AH0 W-EY1 IH0-N T-UW1 AE1 SH-AH0-Z


i am not what they call me i hope-

AY1 AE1-M N-AA1 T-W-AH1-T DH-EY1 K-AO1-L M-IY1 AY1 HH-OW1-P


doing good things-


no, no, im not, i'm beautiful.how are you-

N-OW1 N-OW1 IH1-M N-AA1 T-IH1-M B-OW0 T-IY0 F-EH1 L-UW0 OW0 AA1 R-Y-UW1


i need you to wait-


and the police found her body, she-

AH0-N-D DH-AH0 P-AH0 L-IY1-S F-AW1-N-D HH-ER0 B-AA1 D-IY0 SH-IY1


he was lying on a table, hands and feet chain to it with a message scrawled on the wall. go to s-

HH-IY1 W-AA1 Z-L-AY1 IH0 NG-AA1 N-AH0 T-EY1 B-AH0-L HH-AE1-N-D Z-AH0-N-D F-IY1-T CH-EY1-N T-UW1 IH1 T-W-IH1 DH-AH0 M-EH1 S-AH0-JH-S K-R-AO1-L D-AA1-N DH-AH0 W-AO1-L G-OW1 T-UW1 EH1-S


i don't need to tell you it's time for cyber tech because that's why you're here. woo. because every week-

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hell every day. you know what i'm talking about? woo. i'm not a 60 minute man-

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i'm a 120 minute man, baby. woo. take that one out-

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slick rick. ooh. oh yeah. it is sovereign tech and i am ready. ho, ho-

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because oh, episode two hundreds coming-

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but let's, get, right, into this week's news, the random access or something that i'm going to be changing-

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you know, why don't we end it off with a little update on an episode that i did well,

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blockchain world conference or something didn't happen. apparently. thankfully, at least when, christopher david went to, shanghai, literally to shanghai, to th-

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theory conference, it would appear that he didn't get any money from that.at least-

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i hope he didn't. but holy shit. the ride share-ability still does not exist. and, but, they did this.

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arc stood for well, you know, and i mean this with all due respect and i mean that all due respect,

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i've delivered my goods on my own, and i'm not the best programmer, either.

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christopher, david, but god damn it. i'm going to keep, i'm going to stick to my guns and my word.

K-R-IH1-S T-AH0 F-ER0 D-EY1 V-IH0-D B-AH1-T G-AA1-D D-AE1 M-IH1 T-IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 K-IY1 P-IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1-S T-IH1-K T-UW1 M-AY1 G-AH1-N Z-AH0-N D-M-AY1 W-ER1-D


anyway, let's move on from that. well, you know, actually this is kind of relevant-

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i want you to, if you're not a sovereign tech patron, if you're not on with, patreon for sovereign tech, and all i ask is a dollar a month.

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if you want to do more in a lot of people that were only doing a dollar in the past month have upped their game significantly. and i, just.

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soak them up or something like that. no, no, no, no. i know, i know.

S-OW1-K DH-EH1 M-AH1 P-AO1-R S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-L-AY1-K DH-AE1 T-N-OW1 N-OW1 N-OW1 N-OW1 AY1 N-OW1 AY1 N-OW1


army will confront a highly sophisticated urban centric threat that were required urban operation

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message that they're trying to portray in this-

M-EH1 S-AH0-JH DH-AE1-T TH-EH1-R T-R-AY1 IH0-NG T-UW1 P-AO0-R T-R-EY1 IH0-N DH-IH1-S


knowing what kind of, what it mentioned. shantytowns all this stuff, like in india and middle east, i mean, just all these different areas and it's largely showing.

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saying that that's anything like that is necessarily going to happen and.

S-EY1 IH0-NG DH-AE1-T TH-AE1-T S-EH1 N-IY0 TH-IH2 NG-L-AY1-K DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-N-EH2 S-AH0 S-EH1 R-AH0 L-IY0 G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 HH-AE1 P-AH0 N-AH0-N-D


really isn't that bad. i mean, in some ways it certainly can be, but i think there's.

R-IH1 L-IY0 IH1 S-AH0-N-T DH-AE1-T B-AE1 D-AY1 M-IY1 N-IH0-N S-AH1 M-W-EY1 Z-IH1-T S-ER1 T-AH0 N-L-IY0 K-AE1-N B-IY1 B-AH1 T-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-EH1-R-Z


not a bunch of different cities. you already have one gigantic city on the eastern seaboard of the united states that-

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their quotes. because like i said, that all.

DH-EH1-R K-W-OW1-T-S B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-L-AY1 K-AY1 S-EH1-D DH-AE1 T-AO1-L


well, to put it simply, i'm a short-term pessimist.

W-EH1-L T-UW1 P-UH1 T-IH1-T S-IH1-M P-L-IY0 IH1 M-AH0 SH-AO1-R-T T-ER2-M P-EH1 S-AH0 M-AH0-S-T


again, that's really what this video is talking about. i mean, and they're bringing up all kinds of.

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like, all of our counterinsurgency manuals, all the stuff.

L-AY1 K-AO1 L-AH1 V-AW1 ER0 K-AW2-N T-ER0 IH0-N S-ER1 JH-AH0-N S-IY0 M-AE1 N-Y-UW0 AH0-L Z-AO1-L DH-AH0-S T-AH1-F


hey, i get it. well, no, i mean, i don't get it. not anymore.

HH-EY1 AY1 G-EH1 T-IH1 T-W-EH1-L N-OW1 AY1 M-IY1 N-AY1 D-AA1-N-T G-EH1 T-IH1 T-N-AA1 T-EH2 N-IY0 M-AO1-R


they can't control. and they're going to be a reach all around the world. millions, just one person reaching millions,

DH-EY1 K-AE1-N-T K-AH0-N T-R-OW1 L-AH0-N-D TH-EH1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 AH0 R-IY1 CH-AO1 L-ER0 AW1-N-D DH-AH0 W-ER1-L D-M-IH1 L-Y-AH0-N-Z JH-AH1-S T-W-AH1-N P-ER1 S-AH0 N-R-IY1 CH-IH0-NG M-IH1 L-Y-AH0-N-Z


with these incredible encrypted technologies, peer-to-peer technologies and whatever else.

W-IH1-DH DH-IY1 Z-IH0-N K-R-EH1 D-AH0 B-AH0 L-EH0-N K-R-IH1-P T-IH0-D T-EH0 K-N-AA1 L-AH0 JH-IY0-Z P-IH0 R-OW1-T P-ER0 IY0 T-EH0 K-N-AA1 L-AH0 JH-IY0 Z-AH0-N D-W-AH2 T-EH1 V-ER0 EH1-L-S


you're not going to be able to boast about how good you are at killing people

Y-UH1-R N-AA1-T G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1 B-OW1-S T-AH0 B-AW1-T HH-AW1 G-UH1 D-Y-UW1 AA1 R-AE1-T K-IH1 L-IH0-NG P-IY1 P-AH0-L


this video round. show people that this is what they're really worried about. they are worried about their inability to kill.

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any group of human beings, any human individual, that had any lick of compassion.

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"we're not going to be able to kill as many people today", and would clap! it would be happy that they can't do that,

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but they're not.


governments, militaries,

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because technologies, open source, peer-to-peer, decentralized, all the good stuff are here.

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it was like, "oh, there's nobody's lunch money to steal from anymore!" oh, poor little billy.

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this is exciting. this video, go ahead, check it out again,

DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-IH0-K S-AY1 T-IH0-NG DH-IH1-S V-IH1 D-IY0 OW0 G-OW1 AH0 HH-EH1-D CH-EH1 K-IH1 T-AW1 T-AH0 G-EH1-N


but put the anarchist lens on and realize that that is the government.

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you got to pay them for it. everest hosting.com

Y-UW1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 P-EY1 DH-EH1-M F-AO1 R-IH1 T-EH1 V-ER0 AH0-S-T HH-OW0-S T-IH1-NG-K S-AH0-M


i'm not the only one of course who said this sort of thing. i'm not that brilliant.

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this is some news that frankly, i consider

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a little concerning, and i've been waiting...

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feed project vocal about 20 minutes of audio featuring someone's voice. and the software will then let you edit that speech to deliver natural results. you can cut and...

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something like that. you know how those things

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go. oh, i know. so this is the wolfs lair.

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it suits you. dark, in a cave.

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you know me too well love, but yeah, this is it. ever since

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all of the magnetic anomalies and heat signatures are off just about any satellite surveillance.

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well, i just figured that if a bunch of ass hats are threatening to throw my friends out of helicopters, i'd build my own helicopter to put theirs out of commission.

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laser-based system disruptors, sunburst anti-missile countermeasures microwave...

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capable of mock speeds and near orbital flight, powered by a mini thorium reactor with sandbox systems built in an air gaped...

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yeah, come on. i'll take it easy. i won't kick in the jets to...

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yellowknife, iceland, the stars.

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easy to believe. this will maybe... as opposed to some of the books we've done in the past, this is probably going to be one of the shorter

IY1 Z-IY0 T-UW1 B-IH0 L-IY1-V DH-IH1 S-W-IH1-L M-EY1 B-IY0 AE1 Z-AH0 P-OW1-Z-D T-UW1 S-AH1 M-AH1-V DH-AH0 B-UH1-K S-W-IY1-V D-AH1 N-IH0-N DH-AH0 P-AE1-S-T DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 SH-AO1-R T-ER0


books that you read. so, take this book, read this

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book and i will attempt to get my quiz question out before... i've never actually looked hard at the cover before. well... and now i am. yeah. look hard at the whole thing.

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answer to last podcast quiz question. as you might recall, it was about the little house by virginia lee burton, and i asked,

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the book was a "gallant, though

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futile gesture". best line ever. this week, we have a quiz question...write

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