" i feel like that's such a shame because "

AY1 F-IY1-L L-AY1-K TH-AE1-T-S S-AH1 CH-AH0 SH-EY1-M B-IH0 K-AO1-Z


" who wants to spend eight hours a day away from your "

HH-UW1 W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1-S P-EH1-N D-EY1 T-AW1 ER0 Z-AH0 D-EY1 AH0 W-EY1 F-R-AH1 M-Y-AO1-R


" family who wants to put your children in nurseries or with the nanny, "

F-AE1 M-AH0 L-IY0 HH-UW1 W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1 P-UH1 T-Y-AO1-R CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0 N-IH0-N N-ER1 S-ER0 IY0 Z-AO1 R-W-IH1-DH DH-AH0 N-AE1 N-IY0


" and it's not like i'm "


" done and housewives, but i don't really think that's "

D-AH1 N-AH0-N-D HH-AW1 S-W-AY2-V-Z B-AH1 T-AY1 D-AA1-N T-R-IH1 L-IY0 TH-IH1-NG-K TH-AE1-T-S


" it, because again, there are different types of housewives."

IH1-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AH0 G-EH1-N DH-EH1 R-AA1-R D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-T T-AY1-P S-AH1-V HH-AW1 S-W-AY2-V-Z


" housewives like the one we see on television, who are out to lunch and arguing with each other all the time "

HH-AW1 S-W-AY2-V Z-L-AY1-K DH-AH0 W-AH1 N-W-IY1 S-IY1 AA1-N T-EH1 L-AH0 V-IH2 ZH-AH0-N HH-UW1 AA1 R-AW1-T T-UW1 L-AH1-N CH-AH0-N D-AA1-R G-Y-UW0 IH0 NG-W-IH1 DH-IY1 CH-AH1 DH-ER0 AO1-L DH-AH0 T-AY1-M


", more important to me is to support. "

M-AO1 R-IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N-T T-UW1 M-IY1 IH1-Z T-UW1 S-AH0 P-AO1-R-T


" i have children that i would want to be a housewife, i always kind of knew that in my mind. "

AY1 HH-AE1-V CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N DH-AE1 T-AY1 W-UH1 D-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-IY1 AH0 HH-AW1 S-W-AY2 F-AY1 AO1 L-W-EY2-Z K-AY1-N D-AH1 V-N-UW1 DH-AE1 T-IH0-N M-AY1 M-AY1-N-D


" so i got married and that was somewhat my life of being a housewife. and then, because "

S-OW1 AY1 G-AA1 T-M-EH1 R-IY0 D-AH0-N-D DH-AE1 T-W-AA1-Z S-AH1 M-W-AH1 T-M-AY1 L-AY1 F-AH1-V B-IY1 IH0 NG-AH0 HH-AW1 S-W-AY2 F-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N B-IH0 K-AO1-Z


" we're not living together at this point we were living. "

W-ER0 N-AA1 T-L-IH1 V-IH0-NG T-AH0 G-EH1 DH-ER0 AE1-T DH-IH1-S P-OY1-N T-W-IY1 W-ER0 L-IH1 V-IH0-NG


" so my life isn't settled to a point yet where, i wouldn't necessarily say i was a housewife now because "

S-OW1 M-AY1 L-AY1 F-IH1 S-AH0-N-T S-EH1 T-AH0-L-D T-UW1 AH0 P-OY1-N T-Y-EH1 T-W-EH1 R-AY1 W-UH1 D-L-AH0-N T-N-EH2 S-AH0 S-EH1 R-AH0 L-IY0 S-EY1 AY1 W-AA1 Z-AH0 HH-AW1 S-W-AY2 F-N-AW1 B-IH0 K-AO1-Z


" we're not even in the same place. "

W-ER0 N-AA1 T-IY1 V-IH0 N-IH0-N DH-AH0 S-EY1-M P-L-EY1-S


" but nevertheless, i knew i wanted to be a housewife, and for the first six months of my marriage and where you were living in the same place, that's what i was "

B-AH1 T-N-EH2 V-ER0 DH-AH0 L-EH1 S-AY1 N-UW1 AY1 W-AA1-N T-AH0-D T-UW1 B-IY1 AH0 HH-AW1 S-W-AY2 F-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R DH-AH0 F-ER1-S-T S-IH1-K S-M-AH1-N-TH S-AH1 V-M-AY1 M-EH1 R-IH0 JH-AH0-N D-W-EH1 R-Y-UW1 W-ER0 L-IH1 V-IH0 NG-IH0-N DH-AH0 S-EY1-M P-L-EY1-S TH-AE1-T S-W-AH1 T-AY1 W-AA1-Z


" even though that was a choice i made. "

IY1 V-IH0-N DH-OW1 DH-AE1 T-W-AA1 Z-AH0 CH-OY1 S-AY1 M-EY1-D


" so even the women who may choose or may want to be housewives, don't have not always support "

S-OW1 IY1 V-IH0-N DH-AH0 W-IH1 M-AH0-N HH-UW1 M-EY1 CH-UW1 Z-AO1-R M-EY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-IY1 HH-AW1 S-W-AY2-V-Z D-AA1-N-T HH-AE1 V-N-AA1 T-AO1 L-W-EY2-Z S-AH0 P-AO1-R-T


" to clean a household, how to be a supportive wife and issue wants to pursue a career, then "

T-UW1 K-L-IY1 N-AH0 HH-AW1-S HH-OW2-L-D HH-AW1 T-UW1 B-IY1 AH0 S-AH0 P-AO1-R T-IH0 V-W-AY1 F-AH0-N D-IH1 SH-UW0 W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1 P-ER0 S-UW1 AH0 K-ER0 IH1-R DH-EH1-N


" pursue a career. and she could, "

P-ER0 S-UW1 AH0 K-ER0 IH1 R-AH0-N-D SH-IY1 K-UH1-D


" let's go beyond the individual. "

L-EH1-T-S G-OW1 B-IH0 AA1-N-D DH-AH0 IH2-N D-AH0 V-IH1 JH-AH0 W-AH0-L


" there are not enough women. now we can say there are not enough people, "

DH-EH1 R-AA1-R N-AA1 T-IH0 N-AH1 F-W-IH1 M-AH0-N N-AW1 W-IY1 K-AE1-N S-EY1 DH-EH1 R-AA1-R N-AA1 T-IH0 N-AH1-F P-IY1 P-AH0-L


" but women were doing this job.so there are not enough women anymore who are, "

B-AH1 T-W-IH1 M-AH0 N-W-ER0 D-UW1 IH0-NG DH-IH1-S JH-AA1-B S-OW0 DH-EH1 R-AA1-R N-AA1 T-IH0 N-AH1 F-W-IH1 M-AH0 N-EH2 N-IY0 M-AO1-R HH-UW1 AA1-R


" which means there are not enough people who are focusing on their household "

W-IH1 CH-M-IY1-N-Z DH-EH1 R-AA1-R N-AA1 T-IH0 N-AH1-F P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1 AA1-R F-OW1 K-AH0 S-IH0 NG-AA1-N DH-EH1-R HH-AW1-S HH-OW2-L-D


" by, but it does mean that it is very difficult to create a thriving household. it's very difficult for your house to be as clean as it would be if you were "

B-AY1 B-AH1 T-IH1-T D-AH1 Z-M-IY1-N DH-AE1 T-IH1 T-IH1-Z V-EH1 R-IY0 D-IH1 F-AH0 K-AH0-L-T T-UW1 K-R-IY0 EY1 T-AH0 TH-R-AY1 V-IH0-NG HH-AW1-S HH-OW2-L D-IH1-T-S V-EH1 R-IY0 D-IH1 F-AH0 K-AH0-L-T F-AO1 R-Y-AO1-R HH-AW1-S T-UW1 B-IY1 AE1-Z K-L-IY1 N-AE1 Z-IH1 T-W-UH1-D B-IY1 IH1 F-Y-UW1 W-ER0


" difficult to be aware of your husband and his emotions and his stress, and being able to comfort him and be there for him. "

D-IH1 F-AH0 K-AH0-L-T T-UW1 B-IY1 AH0 W-EH1 R-AH1 V-Y-AO1-R HH-AH1-Z B-AH0-N D-AH0-N-D HH-IH1 Z-IH0 M-OW1 SH-AH0-N Z-AH0-N-D HH-IH1-Z-S T-R-EH1 S-AH0-N-D B-IY1 IH0 NG-EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1 K-AH1-M F-ER0-T HH-IH1 M-AH0-N-D B-IY1 DH-EH1-R F-AO1-R HH-IH1-M


" if you are not a housewife, if you're working outside the "

IH1 F-Y-UW1 AA1-R N-AA1 T-AH0 HH-AW1 S-W-AY2 F-IH1 F-Y-UH1 R-W-ER1 K-IH0 NG-AW1-T S-AY1-D DH-AH0


" home, it is more difficult to do "

HH-OW1 M-IH1 T-IH1 Z-M-AO1-R D-IH1 F-AH0 K-AH0-L-T T-UW1 D-UW1


" that.but we live in a society that "

TH-AE1-T B-AH2 T-W-IY1 L-AY1 V-IH0 N-AH0 S-AH0 S-AY1 AH0 T-IY0 DH-AE1-T


" wants us to lie to ourselves and wants us to believe that if you're working outside of the home, or if you are focused on your household, "

W-AA1-N-T S-AH1-S T-UW1 L-AY1 T-UW1 AW0 ER0 S-EH1-L-V Z-AH0-N D-W-AA1-N-T S-AH1-S T-UW1 B-IH0 L-IY1-V DH-AE1 T-IH1 F-Y-UH1 R-W-ER1 K-IH0 NG-AW1-T S-AY1 D-AH1-V DH-AH0 HH-OW1 M-AO1 R-IH1 F-Y-UW1 AA1-R F-OW1 K-AH0-S T-AA1 N-Y-AO1-R HH-AW1-S HH-OW2-L-D


" it's all equal. that's what i don't understand, the point to me is not about saying "

IH1-T S-AO1 L-IY1 K-W-AH0-L TH-AE1-T S-W-AH1 T-AY1 D-AA1-N T-AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D DH-AH0 P-OY1-N-T T-UW1 M-IY1 IH1 Z-N-AA1 T-AH0 B-AW1-T S-EY1 IH0-NG


" it's equal. it should be about saying, you know what? "

IH1-T S-IY1 K-W-AH0 L-IH1-T SH-UH1-D B-IY1 AH0 B-AW1-T S-EY1 IH0 NG-Y-UW1 N-OW1 W-AH1-T


" men who are not cut out or don't want to be home with a "

M-EH1-N HH-UW1 AA1-R N-AA1-T K-AH1 T-AW1 T-AO1-R D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-IY1 HH-OW1 M-W-IH1 DH-AH0


", but i am saying don't pretend as if that is equal to a woman who was home all day with her children."

B-AH1 T-AY1 AE1-M S-EY1 IH0-NG D-AA1-N-T P-R-IY0 T-EH1-N D-AE1 Z-IH1-F DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-IY1 K-W-AH0-L T-UW1 AH0 W-UH1 M-AH0-N HH-UW1 W-AA1-Z HH-OW1 M-AO1-L D-EY1 W-IH1-DH HH-ER0 CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N


" and at the same time, let's not pretend like all mothers who are home with their children, "

AH0-N D-AE1-T DH-AH0 S-EY1-M T-AY1 M-L-EH1-T S-N-AA1-T P-R-IY0 T-EH1-N D-L-AY1 K-AO1-L M-AH1 DH-ER0-Z HH-UW1 AA1-R HH-OW1 M-W-IH1-DH DH-EH1-R CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N


" the name of the book "


" between being there with your child and not being there, but "

B-IH0 T-W-IY1-N B-IY1 IH0-NG DH-EH1 R-W-IH1 DH-Y-AO1-R CH-AY1-L D-AH0-N D-N-AA1-T B-IY1 IH0-NG DH-EH1-R B-AH1-T


" for some reason "


" in your office and out your office and your travel time "

IH0 N-Y-AO1 R-AO1 F-AH0 S-AH0-N D-AW1 T-Y-AO1 R-AO1 F-AH0 S-AH0-N D-Y-AO1-R T-R-AE1 V-AH0-L T-AY1-M


" depends "


". there's also another layer of what kind of work do you do as one woman sat, i think she was the assistant of president george bush, "

DH-EH1-R Z-AO1-L S-OW0 AH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0 L-EY1 ER0 AH1 V-W-AH1-T K-AY1-N D-AH1 V-W-ER1-K D-UW1 Y-UW1 D-UW1 AE1 Z-W-AH1 N-W-UH1 M-AH0-N S-AE1 T-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K SH-IY1 W-AA1-Z DH-AH0 AH0 S-IH1-S T-AH0-N T-AH1-V P-R-EH1 Z-AH0 D-EH2-N-T JH-AO1-R-JH B-UH1-SH


" or you go to work "


".that is your choice, but don't pretend as if that's the same "

DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-Y-AO1-R CH-OY1-S B-AH1-T D-AA1-N-T P-R-IY0 T-EH1-N D-AE1 Z-IH1-F TH-AE1-T-S DH-AH0 S-EY1-M


" attend to them. she can, because again, not all mothers who stay at home are the same one mother may attend "

AH0 T-EH1-N-D T-UW1 DH-EH1-M SH-IY1 K-AE1-N B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AH0 G-EH1-N N-AA1 T-AO1-L M-AH1 DH-ER0-Z HH-UW1-S T-EY1 AE1-T HH-OW1 M-AA1-R DH-AH0 S-EY1 M-W-AH1-N M-AH1 DH-ER0 M-EY1 AH0 T-EH1-N-D


" to her child, the other mother may ignore her child "

T-UW1 HH-ER0 CH-AY1-L-D DH-AH0 AH1 DH-ER0 M-AH1 DH-ER0 M-EY1 IH0 G-N-AO1-R HH-ER0 CH-AY1-L-D


". i really don't get what is the "

AY1 R-IH1 L-IY0 D-AA1-N-T G-EH1 T-W-AH1 T-IH1-Z DH-AH0


". and i definitely understand that people don't want to get into women blaming you don't want to "

AH0-N D-AY1 D-EH1 F-AH0 N-AH0 T-L-IY0 AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D DH-AE1-T P-IY1 P-AH0-L D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 G-EH1 T-IH0-N T-UW1 W-IH1 M-AH0-N B-L-EY1 M-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1


" blame women for the way children turn out, you don't want to blame women too harshly, and "

B-L-EY1 M-W-IH1 M-AH0-N F-AO1-R DH-AH0 W-EY1 CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N T-ER1 N-AW1 T-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-L-EY1 M-W-IH1 M-AH0-N T-UW1 HH-AA1-R SH-L-IY0 AH0-N-D


" we get that, but maybe i'm just "

W-IY1 G-EH1-T DH-AE1-T B-AH1 T-M-EY1 B-IY0 IH1-M JH-AH1-S-T


" able to emotionally detach some things where it's like, i think you can understand that while still knowing that being bears different from not being there "

EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1 IH0 M-OW1 SH-N-AH0 L-IY0 D-IH0 T-AE1-CH S-AH1-M TH-IH1-NG Z-W-EH1 R-IH1-T S-L-AY1 K-AY1 TH-IH1-NG K-Y-UW1 K-AE1 N-AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D DH-AE1 T-W-AY1-L-S T-IH1-L N-OW1 IH0-NG DH-AE1-T B-IY1 IH0-NG B-EH1-R-Z D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-T F-R-AH1-M N-AA1-T B-IY1 IH0-NG DH-EH1-R


" offensive to stay. "


" but to me, i don't think that should be offensive "

B-AH1-T T-UW1 M-IY1 AY1 D-AA1-N-T TH-IH1-NG-K DH-AE1-T SH-UH1-D B-IY1 AH0 F-EH1-N S-IH0-V


". i also want to say that "

AY1 AO1-L S-OW0 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 S-EY1 DH-AE1-T


" can't just attend to her child's every need "

K-AE1-N-T JH-AH1-S T-AH0 T-EH1-N-D T-UW1 HH-ER0 CH-AY1-L-D Z-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 N-IY1-D


" thinking that is not, "

TH-IH1-NG K-IH0-NG DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-N-AA1-T


" i don't think that means "

AY1 D-AA1-N-T TH-IH1-NG-K DH-AE1 T-M-IY1-N-Z


".i don't know. no, i don't really know how "

AY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 N-OW1 AY1 D-AA1-N T-R-IH1 L-IY0 N-OW1 HH-AW1


" you put it quite because it's like, in one sense, "

Y-UW1 P-UH1 T-IH1-T K-W-AY1-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1-T S-L-AY1 K-IH0 N-W-AH1-N S-EH1-N-S


". or you married someone who you knew couldn't support you "

AO1 R-Y-UW1 M-EH1 R-IY0-D S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N HH-UW1 Y-UW1 N-UW1 K-AW1-L D-AH0-N-T S-AH0 P-AO1-R T-Y-UW1


". you can also still blame the man "

Y-UW1 K-AE1 N-AO1-L S-OW0-S T-IH1-L B-L-EY1-M DH-AH0 M-AE1-N


" there is blame to go around in the sense that "

DH-EH1 R-IH1-Z B-L-EY1-M T-UW1 G-OW1 ER0 AW1-N D-IH0-N DH-AH0 S-EH1-N-S DH-AE1-T


" living in a society that forces women to work "

L-IH1 V-IH0 NG-IH0 N-AH0 S-AH0 S-AY1 AH0 T-IY0 DH-AE1-T F-AO1-R S-IH0 Z-W-IH1 M-AH0-N T-UW1 W-ER1-K


" again when they feel socially or economically pressured to do so, "

AH0 G-EH1 N-W-EH1-N DH-EY1 F-IY1-L S-OW1 SH-AH0 L-IY0 AO1 R-EH2 K-AH0 N-AA1 M-IH0 K-L-IY0 P-R-EH1 SH-ER0-D T-UW1 D-UW1 S-OW1


" [inaudible 00:09:18] she's going to work. the society is supporting her, taking time off to spend time with her child. and then as she chooses that she wants to "

IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-N-AY1-N M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N D-EY0 T-IY1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z SH-EH1-S G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 W-ER1-K DH-AH0 S-AH0 S-AY1 AH0 T-IY0 IH1-Z S-AH0 P-AO1-R T-IH0-NG HH-ER0 T-EY1 K-IH0-NG T-AY1 M-AO1-F T-UW1-S P-EH1-N-D T-AY1 M-W-IH1-DH HH-ER0 CH-AY1-L D-AH0-N-D DH-EH1 N-AE1-Z SH-IY1 CH-UW1 Z-AH0-Z DH-AE1-T SH-IY1 W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1


" continue to be with her child, she can do so. and guess what? the society, "

K-AH0-N T-IH1 N-Y-UW0 T-UW1 B-IY1 W-IH1-DH HH-ER0 CH-AY1-L-D SH-IY1 K-AE1-N D-UW1 S-OW1 AH0-N-D G-EH1 S-W-AH1-T DH-AH0 S-AH0 S-AY1 AH0 T-IY0


" they still supports her because they're going to have "

DH-EY1-S T-IH1-L S-AH0 P-AO1-R-T-S HH-ER0 B-IH0 K-AO1-Z TH-EH1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 HH-AE1-V


". it's a real choice, when no matter what choice you make, you're being supported. it's "

IH1-T S-AH0 R-IY1-L CH-OY1 S-W-EH1-N N-OW1 M-AE1 T-ER0 W-AH1-T CH-OY1 S-Y-UW1 M-EY1 K-Y-UH1-R B-IY1 IH0-NG S-AH0 P-AO1-R T-AH0 D-IH1-T-S


" not a real choice when you are being economically and socially pressured to do one thing. and you're being discouraged from doing the other thing that is not a real choice "

N-AA1 T-AH0 R-IY1-L CH-OY1 S-W-EH1 N-Y-UW1 AA1-R B-IY1 IH0 NG-EH2 K-AH0 N-AA1 M-IH0 K-L-IY0 AH0-N-D S-OW1 SH-AH0 L-IY0 P-R-EH1 SH-ER0-D T-UW1 D-UW1 W-AH1-N TH-IH1 NG-AH0-N D-Y-UH1-R B-IY1 IH0-NG D-IH0-S K-ER1 AH0-JH-D F-R-AH1-M D-UW1 IH0-NG DH-AH0 AH1 DH-ER0 TH-IH1-NG DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-N-AA1 T-AH0 R-IY1-L CH-OY1-S


so when women say they choose to work,

S-OW1 W-EH1 N-W-IH1 M-AH0-N S-EY1 DH-EY1 CH-UW1-Z T-UW1 W-ER1-K


i hope that they're really thinking about the fact of: could they choose not to work?

AY1 HH-OW1-P DH-AE1-T TH-EH1-R R-IH1 L-IY0 TH-IH1-NG K-IH0 NG-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AH0 F-AE1-K T-AH1-V K-UH1-D DH-EY1 CH-UW1 Z-N-AA1-T T-UW1 W-ER1-K


do they not feel economically and socially pressured to work? if you can choose not to work...

D-UW1 DH-EY1 N-AA1-T F-IY1 L-EH2 K-AH0 N-AA1 M-IH0 K-L-IY0 AH0-N-D S-OW1 SH-AH0 L-IY0 P-R-EH1 SH-ER0-D T-UW1 W-ER1 K-IH1 F-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N CH-UW1 Z-N-AA1-T T-UW1 W-ER1-K


i love my kids.


they're extremely important in my life, but,

TH-EH1 R-IH0-K-S T-R-IY1 M-L-IY0 IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N T-IH0-N M-AY1 L-AY1-F B-AH1-T


with them, then i will do the best i can,

W-IH1-DH DH-EH1-M DH-EH1 N-AY1 W-IH1-L D-UW1 DH-AH0 B-EH1-S T-AY1 K-AE1-N


but i am more than happy to take some time for myself to make some money. if that is honestly a choice,

B-AH1 T-AY1 AE1-M M-AO1-R DH-AE1-N HH-AE1 P-IY0 T-UW1 T-EY1-K S-AH1-M T-AY1-M F-AO1-R M-AY2 S-EH1-L-F T-UW1 M-EY1-K S-AH1-M M-AH1 N-IY0 IH1-F DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-AA1 N-AH0-S T-L-IY0 AH0 CH-OY1-S


but you need people who.

B-AH1 T-Y-UW1 N-IY1-D P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1


feel this guilt and they want it to be turned off by people who are supporting and valuing women's work,

F-IY1-L DH-IH1-S G-IH1-L T-AH0-N-D DH-EY1 W-AA1-N T-IH1-T T-UW1 B-IY1 T-ER1-N D-AO1-F B-AY1 P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1 AA1-R S-AH0 P-AO1-R T-IH0 NG-AH0-N-D V-AE1 L-Y-UW0 IH0 NG-W-IH1 M-AH0-N Z-W-ER1-K


saying, "oh, the choice of you working, that's completely equal to women who stay at home." it's not equal.

S-EY1 IH0 NG-OW1 DH-AH0 CH-OY1 S-AH1 V-Y-UW1 W-ER1 K-IH0-NG TH-AE1-T-S K-AH0-M P-L-IY1 T-L-IY0 IY1 K-W-AH0-L T-UW1 W-IH1 M-AH0-N HH-UW1-S T-EY1 AE1-T HH-OW1 M-IH1-T S-N-AA1 T-IY1 K-W-AH0-L


[crosstalk 00:01:08] no, it means that you two are making

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different choices. and so, and part of the...

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when we were younger,


so i kind of, i really wanted to...

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see i guess this is the psychology part of me.

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i really wanted to get the honest, most basic level answer of why she made that decision, because i feel like a lot of people,

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they may or may not have had to work when you dig deep. so anyway, i was trying

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to do that with my mom

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and so she basically told me it wasn't that my dad could not afford to take care of us,

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whatever it was. she didn't want to always have to ask him for money because she didn't want to always have to report to him

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and have a discussion about why did this cost x and why did this cost y.

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and that really was the heart of it. she wanted to

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have financial independence to some degree.

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and so that was her choice. and i

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asked her, "okay, so what... did you feel like that was worth the sacrifice of being away from your kids for

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however many number of hours a day?"

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and that doesn't mean that's what i have to think is best for my life, it doesn't mean i have to think that

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she made the choice that she made.

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and i think if you can actually boil it down to that, if you

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can say, "if i didn't want to work,

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my husband would be able to support me."

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people would judge me. so then you kind of know if there's a social pressure element as well.

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and all of these things are important when we're making decisions as women, but the problem

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is we don't actually get to make these decisions.

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that you should be on a pursuit to some kind of career. and then someone gives you the idea of being a housewife. that would be... that would sound really foreign.

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[crosstalk 00:03:44] instructor of this podcast very well, so just respond.

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but i just think it's really important that

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i continue to talk about the value of traditional women's

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work. i mean, that is one of the most important things to me right now. the value of

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traditional women's work in traditional women's roles.

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[crosstalk 00:04:10] i mean, i hate that word, but

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i mean, i suppose, you know, i...

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and so the idea of needing it,

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but i do doubt that that's true for the majority of people or for...

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you read a couple of minimalists books and then become a real fanatic and decide, you know what, i'm going minimalism. i'm just going to live on my bare necessities. and maybe

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a few of the things that i love.

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would you really still need two incomes?

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i mean, how much money do we waste?

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instead of saying, "okay, this is our budget

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and my husband is making $30,000, but we need to make $50,000 to cover all of our expenses

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a year jobs so that we can make ends meet."

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yeah, that's one way of doing it. the [crosstalk 00:05:18]

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[crosstalk 00:05:19] but not enough, not... there aren't a lot of women who have that skill anymore to say, "how can i

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sing skill in our society?"

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and so that, that also becomes a part of the conversation with

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discussing the value of women's work and talking about housewifery and homemaking.

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and i think there's something to be said about

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connect it with something that i think is already apparent, which is that for example, in [crosstalk 00:06:04].

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she talks about the way in which, i mean, this should be apparent

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to all of us in life in general was just from

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[crosstalk 00:06:12] relationships are extremely important to women, to the point where we will put relationship over principle a lot of the time.

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quote unquote principal, because if it's like the man's world view

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where he may be going by a particular logic,

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and then there's something in the woman's intuition that says,

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"i don't think we should do that." and she could be right. not

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to say that we're always right, but she could very well

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be right. and it's not necessarily based on some logic or some rule

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where there is a chemist who's selling this drug and he's selling it very expensive. it's a life-saving drug. someone comes in to buy it

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and they can't afford it.

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they always discussed the principle. well, you shouldn't

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take anyone's property. well, you shouldn't take advantage of people who don't have less. some kind of

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principle. whereas women think,

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but he won't actually be able to spend time with his wife, or some

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other women will say, well, we don't know why the

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a unique skill that we have. and it is also, we can almost think about it as

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is unseen work. no one can really say if a mother is good or not good, we just

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oh, you're saving lives, you're such a great person, you're such a great doctor,

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human being. that's not so great out in the world.

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about taking responsibility. and again, you take

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responsibility for the good and the bad,

R-IY0-S P-AA2-N S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0 F-AO1-R DH-AH0 G-UH1 D-AH0-N-D DH-AH0 B-AE1-D


but i think this is a part of it, is that people don't want to blame women, they don't want

B-AH1 T-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-AH0 P-AA1-R T-AH1 V-IH1 T-IH1-Z DH-AE1-T P-IY1 P-AH0-L D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-L-EY1 M-W-IH1 M-AH0-N DH-EY1 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T


overly responsible, and there's no doubt that other factors

OW1 V-ER0 L-IY0 R-IY0-S P-AA1-N S-AH0 B-AH0 L-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-R Z-N-OW1 D-AW1-T DH-AE1 T-AH1 DH-ER0 F-AE1-K T-ER0-Z


will play a role, but we also have to realize that in downplaying the blame of mother and the responsibility of mother...

W-IH1-L P-L-EY1 AH0 R-OW1-L B-AH1 T-W-IY1 AO1-L S-OW0 HH-AE1-V T-UW1 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z DH-AE1 T-IH0-N D-AW1-N P-L-EY2 IH0-NG DH-AH0 B-L-EY1 M-AH1 V-M-AH1 DH-ER0 AH0-N-D DH-AH0 R-IY0-S P-AA2-N S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0 AH1 V-M-AH1 DH-ER0


so if i... if one mother is spending

S-OW1 IH1 F-AY1 IH1 F-W-AH1-N M-AH1 DH-ER0 IH1-Z-S P-EH1-N D-IH0-NG


twenty hours a day, well not twenty hours a day,

T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 AW1 ER0 Z-AH0 D-EY1 W-EH1-L N-AA1-T T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 AW1 ER0 Z-AH0 D-EY1


sixteen hours a day with her children and the other mother is spending eight hours a day with her children, to say that they are equal is to say that...

S-IH0-K-S T-IY1 N-AW1 ER0 Z-AH0 D-EY1 W-IH1-DH HH-ER0 CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0 N-AH0-N-D DH-AH0 AH1 DH-ER0 M-AH1 DH-ER0 IH1-Z-S P-EH1-N D-IH0 NG-EY1 T-AW1 ER0 Z-AH0 D-EY1 W-IH1-DH HH-ER0 CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N T-UW1 S-EY1 DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 AA1 R-IY1 K-W-AH0 L-IH1-Z T-UW1 S-EY1 DH-AE1-T


i can't buy it to that. to say that both women have a choice for their own life and to make their life whatever they want it to be. of course they

AY1 K-AE1-N-T B-AY1 IH1-T T-UW1 DH-AE1-T T-UW1 S-EY1 DH-AE1-T B-OW1 TH-W-IH1 M-AH0-N HH-AE1 V-AH0 CH-OY1-S F-AO1-R DH-EH1 R-OW1 N-L-AY1 F-AH0-N-D T-UW1 M-EY1-K DH-EH1-R L-AY1 F-W-AH2 T-EH1 V-ER0 DH-EY1 W-AA1-N T-IH1-T T-UW1 B-IY1 AH1-V K-AO1-R-S DH-EY1


do. of course they do. and if they want to make the choice to work based on whatever their circumstance. for my mother,

D-UW1 AH1-V K-AO1-R-S DH-EY1 D-UW1 AH0-N D-IH1-F DH-EY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 M-EY1-K DH-AH0 CH-OY1-S T-UW1 W-ER1-K B-EY1-S T-AA1 N-W-AH2 T-EH1 V-ER0 DH-EH1-R S-ER1 K-AH0-M-S T-AE2-N-S F-AO1-R M-AY1 M-AH1 DH-ER0


she wanted some economic independence, for another woman she may

SH-IY1 W-AA1-N T-AH0-D S-AH1 M-EH2 K-AH0 N-AA1 M-IH0 K-IH2-N D-IH0 P-EH1-N D-AH0-N-S F-AO1 R-AH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0 W-UH1 M-AH0-N SH-IY1 M-EY1


love her career, for another woman

L-AH1-V HH-ER0 K-ER0 IH1-R F-AO1 R-AH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0 W-UH1 M-AH0-N


she just doesn't want to be with kids all day, every day. it's okay.

SH-IY1 JH-AH1-S-T D-OW1 S-AH0-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-IY1 W-IH1-DH K-IH1-D Z-AO1-L D-EY1 EH1 V-ER0 IY0 D-EY1 IH1-T S-OW2 K-EY1


it's important of course, to not offend people,

IH1-T S-IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N T-AH1-V K-AO1-R-S T-UW1 N-AA1 T-AH0 F-EH1-N-D P-IY1 P-AH0-L


but it's also important to speak the truth clearly, and to not water down your message. and so, [crosstalk 00:09:44]

B-AH1 T-IH1-T S-AO1-L S-OW0 IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N-T T-UW1-S P-IY1-K DH-AH0 T-R-UW1-TH K-L-IH1-R L-IY0 AH0-N-D T-UW1 N-AA1 T-W-AO1 T-ER0 D-AW1 N-Y-AO1-R M-EH1 S-AH0 JH-AH0-N-D S-OW1 K-R-AO1-S T-AO1-K Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-N-AY1-N M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R T-IY0 F-AO1-R S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


and not so that they become housewives, that's their choice.

AH0-N D-N-AA1-T S-OW1 DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 B-IH0 K-AH1-M HH-AW1 S-W-AY2-V-Z TH-AE1-T-S DH-EH1-R CH-OY1-S


and i would not recommend anyone to be a housewife because that is a personal choice only.

AH0-N D-AY1 W-UH1 D-N-AA1 T-R-EH2 K-AH0 M-EH1-N D-EH1 N-IY0 W-AH2-N T-UW1 B-IY1 AH0 HH-AW1 S-W-AY2-F B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-AH0 P-ER1 S-IH0 N-IH0-L CH-OY1 S-OW1 N-L-IY0


you know your life, and if that would work for you.

Y-UW1 N-OW1 Y-AO1-R L-AY1 F-AH0-N D-IH1-F DH-AE1 T-W-UH1 D-W-ER1-K F-AO1 R-Y-UW1


...value women's work as much as they value a title and a career.

V-AE1 L-Y-UW0 W-IH1 M-AH0-N Z-W-ER1 K-AE1 Z-M-AH1 CH-AE1-Z DH-EY1 V-AE1 L-Y-UW0 AH0 T-AY1 T-AH0 L-AH0-N D-AH0 K-ER0 IH1-R


if they choose to have it, and [inaudible 00:00:35]

IH1-F DH-EY1 CH-UW1-Z T-UW1 HH-AE1 V-IH1 T-AH0-N D-IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z Z-IH1 R-OW0 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D TH-ER1 D-IY0 F-AY1-V S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


...that we begin to raise our daughters so that it-

DH-AE1 T-W-IY1 B-IH0 G-IH1-N T-UW1 R-EY1 Z-AW1 ER0 D-AO1 T-ER0-Z S-OW1 DH-AE1 T-IH1-T


...becomes a real option, that if they choose, if they want to become a housewife, they actually have the tools to do so-

B-IH0 K-AH1-M Z-AH0 R-IY1 L-AA1-P SH-AH0-N DH-AE1 T-IH1-F DH-EY1 CH-UW1 Z-IH1-F DH-EY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 B-IH0 K-AH1 M-AH0 HH-AW1 S-W-AY2-F DH-EY1 AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 HH-AE1-V DH-AH0 T-UW1-L-Z T-UW1 D-UW1 S-OW1


...well. and don't have to learn on the job as i do. so thank you for listening.

W-EH1 L-AH0-N-D D-AA1-N-T HH-AE1-V T-UW1 L-ER1 N-AA1-N DH-AH0 JH-AA1 B-AE1 Z-AY1 D-UW1 S-OW1 TH-AE1-NG K-Y-UW1 F-AO1-R L-IH1 S-AH0 N-IH0-NG


i'm nyla and take care, [inaudible 00:01:01].

AY1 AE1-M N-IH1 L-AH0 AH0-N-D T-EY1-K K-EH1 R-IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-W-AH1-N M-IH1 N-AH0 T-AH0-N D-W-AH1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D


yes, i can really relate to that because i would call my mom-

Y-EH1 S-AY1 K-AE1 N-R-IH1 L-IY0 R-IH0 L-EY1-T T-UW1 DH-AE1-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AY1 W-UH1-D K-AO1-L M-AY1 M-AA1-M


that's just fabulous because i think there are always those anxieties for any mom to be, or someone who wants to be a mom.

TH-AE1-T-S JH-AH1-S-T F-AE1 B-Y-AH0 L-AH0-S B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-EH1 R-AA1 R-AO1 L-W-EY2-Z DH-OW1 Z-AE0-NG Z-AY1 AH0 T-IY0-Z F-AO1 R-EH1 N-IY0 M-AA1-M T-UW1 B-IY1 AO1-R S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N HH-UW1 W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1 B-IY1 AH0 M-AA1-M


my son for a time wanted to eat like every two hours and i'd have people tell me i'd-

M-AY1 S-AH1-N F-AO1 R-AH0 T-AY1 M-W-AA1-N T-AH0-D T-UW1 IY1 T-L-AY1 K-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 T-UW1 AW1 ER0 Z-AH0-N D-IH1-D HH-AE1-V P-IY1 P-AH0-L T-EH1-L M-IY1 IH1-D


...i knew if i just fed him every two hours for that time, that-

AY1 N-UW1 IH1 F-AY1 JH-AH1-S-T F-EH1-D HH-IH1 M-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 T-UW1 AW1 ER0-Z F-AO1-R DH-AE1-T T-AY1-M DH-AE1-T


...and then she was screaming and pushing me away. and then i just had too many people-

AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N SH-IY1 W-AA1-Z-S K-R-IY1 M-IH0 NG-AH0-N-D P-UH1 SH-IH0-NG M-IY1 AH0 W-EY1 AH0-N-D DH-EH1 N-AY1 JH-AH1-S-T HH-AE1-D T-UW1 M-EH1 N-IY0 P-IY1 P-AH0-L


...and i pumped for six weeks and then transitioned her to a bottle and,

AH0-N D-AY1 P-AH1-M-P-T F-AO1-R S-IH1-K S-W-IY1-K S-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N T-R-AE0-N Z-IH1 SH-AH0-N-D HH-ER0 T-UW1 AH0 B-AA1 T-AH0 L-AH0-N-D


so i have two questions, you-

S-OW1 AY1 HH-AE1-V T-UW1 K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0-N Z-Y-UW1


...begin with and i don't know if it was,

B-IH0 G-IH1 N-W-IH1 DH-AH0-N D-AY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 IH1 F-IH1 T-W-AA1-Z


they kept insisting on-

DH-EY1 K-EH1-P T-IH0-N S-IH1-S T-IH0 NG-AA1-N


and yeah, we did run into some-

AH0-N D-Y-AE1 W-IY1 D-IH1 D-R-AH1 N-IH0-N T-UW1 S-AH1-M


welcome back to [inaudible 00:01:55] talks. as you know season-

W-EH1-L K-AH0-M B-AE1-K T-UW1 IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-W-AH1-N M-IH1 N-AH0 T-AH0-N-D F-IH1-F T-IY0 F-AY1-V S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z T-AO1-K S-AE1 Z-Y-UW1 N-OW1 S-IY1 Z-AH0-N


...extremely cold, keeping my feet warm is really important to me, but also being able to-

IH0-K-S T-R-IY1 M-L-IY0 K-OW1-L-D K-IY1 P-IH0-NG M-AY1 F-IY1 T-W-AO1-R M-IH1 Z-R-IH1 L-IY0 IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N-T T-UW1 M-IY1 B-AH1 T-AO1-L S-OW0 B-IY1 IH0 NG-EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1


...some, and i love them so much that i ended up with two pairs.

S-AH1 M-AH0-N D-AY1 L-AH1-V DH-EH1-M S-OW1 M-AH1-CH DH-AE1 T-AY1 EH1-N D-AH0 D-AH1 P-W-IH1-DH T-UW1 P-EH1-R-Z


and they are perfect for allowing me to keep my feet warm,

AH0-N-D DH-EY1 AA1-R P-ER1 F-IH2-K-T F-AO1 R-AH0 L-AW1 IH0-NG M-IY1 T-UW1 K-IY1 P-M-AY1 F-IY1 T-W-AO1-R-M


and my favorite piece,


but this scarf, i had a question for you about how you get a scarf on. do you just throw it over your head, like that? or what do you do?

B-AH1-T DH-IH1-S-S K-AA1-R F-AY1 HH-AE1 D-AH0 K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0-N F-AO1 R-Y-UW1 AH0 B-AW1-T HH-AW1 Y-UW1 G-EH1 T-AH0-S K-AA1-R F-AA1-N D-UW1 Y-UW1 JH-AH1-S-T TH-R-OW1 IH1 T-OW1 V-ER0 Y-AO1-R HH-EH1 D-L-AY1-K DH-AE1 T-AO1 R-W-AH1-T D-UW1 Y-UW1 D-UW1


well, i have troubles getting things up and over my head anyway, so i-

W-EH1 L-AY1 HH-AE1-V T-R-AH1 B-AH0-L-Z G-EH1 T-IH0-NG TH-IH1-NG Z-AH1 P-AH0-N D-OW1 V-ER0 M-AY1 HH-EH1 D-EH1 N-IY0 W-EY2 S-OW1 AY1


there we go.and then i pull it as far as i can.

DH-EH1 R-W-IY1 G-OW1-N-D DH-EH1 N-AY1 P-UH1 L-IH1 T-AE1-Z F-AA1 R-AE1 Z-AY1 K-AE1-N


well, that would be amazing because i haven't even seen the arch yet.

W-EH1-L DH-AE1 T-W-UH1-D B-IY1 AH0 M-EY1 Z-IH0-NG B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AY1 HH-AE1 V-AH0-N T-IY1 V-IH0-N S-IY1-N DH-AH0 AA1-R CH-Y-EH1-T


where i skated before.oh, okay.

W-EH1 R-AY1-S K-EY1 T-IH0-D B-EH1 F-ER0 OW0 OW2 K-EY1


well i think they'll keep me better cushioned when i fall.

W-EH1 L-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K TH-EY1-L K-IY1 P-M-IY1 B-EH1 T-ER0 K-UH1 SH-AH0-N D-W-EH1 N-AY1 F-AO1-L


turning the wheel to follow the road, if your knee is giving it a little bit of resistance-

T-ER1 N-IH0-NG DH-AH0 W-IY1-L T-UW1 F-AA1 L-OW0 DH-AH0 R-OW1 D-IH1 F-Y-AO1-R N-IY1 IH1-Z G-IH1 V-IH0 NG-IH1 T-AH0 L-IH1 T-AH0-L B-IH1 T-AH1 V-R-IH0 Z-IH1-S T-AH0-N-S


...you asked the question, how do you get your blood drawn, where you don't have any arms or hands, that's how it's done. and for those who do have to have your blood drawn-

Y-UW1 AE1-S-K-T DH-AH0 K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0-N HH-AW1 D-UW1 Y-UW1 G-EH1 T-Y-AO1-R B-L-AH1-D D-R-AO1 N-W-EH1 R-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T HH-AE1 V-EH1 N-IY0 AA1-R-M Z-AO1-R HH-AE1-N-D-Z TH-AE1-T-S HH-AW1 IH1-T-S D-AH1 N-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R DH-OW1-Z HH-UW1 D-UW1 HH-AE1-V T-UW1 HH-AE1 V-Y-AO1-R B-L-AH1-D D-R-AO1-N


...that way, make sure you ask ahead of time.

DH-AE1 T-W-EY1 M-EY1-K SH-UH1 R-Y-UW1 AE1-S K-AH0 HH-EH1 D-AH1-V T-AY1-M


...in the flesh as a by-product, as a fruit of what's already happened in your spirit.

IH0-N DH-AH0 F-L-EH1 SH-AE1 Z-AH0 B-AY1 P-R-AA0 D-AH0-K T-AE1 Z-AH0 F-R-UW1 T-AH1 V-W-AH0-T S-AO0-L R-EH1 D-IY0 HH-AE1 P-AH0-N D-IH0 N-Y-AO1-R-S P-IH1 R-AH0-T


...writing all of this up when i'm gone, hey man, [inaudible 00:03:27],

R-AY1 T-IH0 NG-AO1 L-AH1-V DH-IH1 S-AH1 P-W-EH1 N-AY1 AE1-M G-AO1-N HH-EY1 M-AE1 N-IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z TH-R-IY1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 S-EH1 V-AH0-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


...page in your bible, but there is a huge difference between the-

P-EY1 JH-IH0 N-Y-AO1-R B-AY1 B-AH0-L B-AH1-T DH-EH1 R-IH1 Z-AH0 HH-Y-UW1-JH D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-S B-IH0 T-W-IY1-N DH-AH0


...come let me turn over and read one other passage out of the leviticus,

K-AH1 M-L-EH1 T-M-IY1 T-ER1 N-OW1 V-ER0 AH0-N D-R-EH1 D-W-AH1 N-AH1 DH-ER0 P-AE1 S-AH0 JH-AW1 T-AH1-V DH-AH0 L-AH0 V-IH1 T-AH0 K-AH0-S


...their blood shall be upon them.

DH-EH1-R B-L-AH1-D SH-AE1-L B-IY1 AH0 P-AA1-N DH-EH1-M


...in law. both of them shall surely be put to-

IH0 N-L-AO1 B-OW1 TH-AH1-V DH-EH1-M SH-AE1-L SH-UH1-R L-IY0 B-IY1 P-UH1-T T-UW1


this is talking about homosexuality.

DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z T-AO1 K-IH0 NG-AH0 B-AW1-T HH-OW2 M-OW0 S-EH2-K SH-AH0 W-AE1 L-AH0 T-IY0


...wickedness. they shall be burnt with fire, both-

W-IH1 K-AH0 D-N-AH0-S DH-EY1 SH-AE1-L B-IY1 B-ER1-N T-W-IH1-DH F-AY1 ER0 B-OW1-TH


one minister i know he just basically has said that, you know what? this is not the true word of god, this-

W-AH1-N M-IH1 N-AH0-S T-ER0 AY1 N-OW1 HH-IY1 JH-AH1-S-T B-EY1 S-IH0 K-L-IY0 HH-AE1-Z S-EH1-D DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 N-OW1 W-AH1-T DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-N-AA1-T DH-AH0 T-R-UW1 W-ER1 D-AH1-V G-AA1-D DH-IH1-S


but there is a real simple answer to this.

B-AH1-T DH-EH1 R-IH1 Z-AH0 R-IY1-L S-IH1-M P-AH0 L-AE1-N S-ER0 T-UW1 DH-IH1-S


he imputed people's sin,

HH-IY1 IH0-M P-Y-UW1 T-IH0-D P-IY1 P-AH0-L-Z S-IH1-N


the only reason we respond to it, the way-

DH-AH0 OW1 N-L-IY0 R-IY1 Z-AH0 N-W-IY1 R-IH0-S P-AA1-N-D T-UW1 IH1-T DH-AH0 W-EY1


...this will get me in big trouble with some people, but i'm just telling you that is not normal.

DH-IH1 S-W-IH1-L G-EH1 T-M-IY1 IH0-N B-IH1-G T-R-AH1 B-AH0 L-W-IH1-DH S-AH1-M P-IY1 P-AH0-L B-AH1 T-IH1-M JH-AH1-S-T T-EH1 L-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-N-AA1 T-N-AO1-R M-AH0-L


all of these things that are listed, the sins have been paid for. in acts chapter 13-

AO1 L-AH1-V DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1 T-AA1-R L-IH1-S T-AH0-D DH-AH0 S-IH1-N-Z HH-AE1-V B-IH1-N P-EY1-D F-AO1 R-IH0 N-AE1-K-T-S CH-AE1-P T-ER0 TH-ER1 T-IY1-N


...kill adulterers, but does that mean that the standard has changed? no, it's still re-

K-IH1 L-AH0 D-AH1-L T-ER0 ER0-Z B-AH1-T D-AH1-Z DH-AE1 T-M-IY1-N DH-AE1-T DH-AH0-S T-AE1-N D-ER0-D HH-AE1-Z CH-EY1-N-JH D-N-OW1 IH1-T-S-S T-IH1-L R-EY1


on first corinthians chapter five, where paul told him, he says, there's iniquity among you, even iniquity that the unbelievers don't have, that a man should have his father's-

AA1-N F-ER1-S-T K-ER0 IH1-N TH-IY0 AH0-N-Z CH-AE1-P T-ER0 F-AY1 V-W-EH1-R P-AO1-L T-OW1-L-D HH-IH1-M HH-IY1 S-EH1-Z DH-EH1-R Z-IH0 N-IH1 K-W-IH0 T-IY0 AH0 M-AH1 NG-Y-UW1 IY1 V-IH0 N-IH0 N-IH1 K-W-IH0 T-IY0 DH-AE1-T DH-AH0 AH2-N B-AH0 L-IY1 V-ER0-Z D-AA1-N-T HH-AE1-V DH-AE1 T-AH0 M-AE1-N SH-UH1-D HH-AE1-V HH-IH1-Z F-AA1 DH-ER0-Z


that man has suffered enough, receive him and embrace him and welcome him back into the fellowship. lest he be overcome with over much sorrow.

DH-AE1 T-M-AE1-N HH-AE1-Z S-AH1 F-ER0 D-IH0 N-AH1 F-R-AH0 S-IY1-V HH-IH1 M-AH0-N D-EH0-M B-R-EY1-S HH-IH1 M-AH0-N D-W-EH1-L K-AH0-M HH-IH1-M B-AE1 K-IH0-N T-UW1 DH-AH0 F-EH1 L-OW0 SH-IH2 P-L-EH1-S-T HH-IY1 B-IY1 OW1 V-ER0 K-AH2 M-W-IH1 DH-OW1 V-ER0 M-AH1-CH S-AA1 R-OW0


...influence in our life today. it still shows you what's right and wrong.

IH1-N F-L-UW0 AH0-N S-IH0 N-AW1 ER0 L-AY1-F T-AH0 D-EY1 IH1-T-S T-IH1-L SH-OW1 Z-Y-UW1 W-AH0-T S-R-AY1 T-AH0-N D-R-AO1-NG


...horizontal effect to sin. and that is romans chapter six,

HH-AO2 R-AH0 Z-AA1-N T-AH0 L-IH0 F-EH1-K-T T-UW1 S-IH1 N-AH0-N-D DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-R-OW1 M-AH0-N-Z CH-AE1-P T-ER0 S-IH1-K-S


...are to whom you obey, whether it's sin unto death,

AA1-R T-UW1 HH-UW1 M-Y-UW1 OW0 B-EY1 W-EH1 DH-ER0 IH1-T-S S-IH1 N-AH1-N T-UW0 D-EH1-TH


...in law, your niece, your uncle's wife, and all of these things that are listed, i guarantee-

IH0 N-L-AO1 Y-AO1-R N-IY1 S-Y-AO1 R-AH1-NG K-AH0-L Z-W-AY1 F-AH0-N D-AO1 L-AH1-V DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1 T-AA1-R L-IH1-S T-AH0 D-AY1 G-EH2 R-AH0-N T-IY1


and the bible says in john chapter 10, that the thief comes for no purpose except to steal, kill and destroy.you give satan in road into your life. he's going to-

AH0-N-D DH-AH0 B-AY1 B-AH0-L S-EH1 Z-IH0-N JH-AA1-N CH-AE1-P T-ER0 T-EH1-N DH-AE1-T DH-AH0 TH-IY1-F K-AH1-M-Z F-AO1-R N-OW1 P-ER1 P-AH0 S-IH0-K S-EH1-P-T T-UW1-S T-IY1-L K-IH1 L-AH0-N-D D-EH2-S T-R-UW1 IY0 AH0 G-IH1-V S-EY1 T-AH0 N-IH0 N-R-OW1 D-IH0-N T-UW1 Y-AO1-R L-AY1-F HH-IY1-Z G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1


...or works. that's just old english for saying it's one of the two, not a combination of the two. it can't be you doing-

AO1 R-W-ER1-K-S TH-AE1-T-S JH-AH1-S T-OW1-L D-IH1-NG G-L-IH0-SH F-AO1-R S-EY1 IH0 NG-IH1-T S-W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 T-UW1 N-AA1 T-AH0 K-AA2-M B-AH0 N-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 T-UW1 IH1-T K-AE1-N-T B-IY1 Y-UW1 D-UW1 IH0-NG


...excludes you. are you going to trust in yourself and your righteousness, which-

IH0-K-S K-L-UW1-D Z-Y-UW1 AA1 R-Y-UW1 G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 T-R-AH1-S T-IH0 N-Y-ER0 S-EH1-L F-AH0-N D-Y-AO1-R R-AY1 CH-AH0 S-N-AH0 S-W-IH1-CH


...just going in the kit, lobbied to get-

JH-AH1-S-T G-OW1 IH0 NG-IH0-N DH-AH0 K-IH1 T-L-AA1 B-IY0-D T-UW1 G-EH1-T


...and what you are doing to jesus. you have-

AH0-N D-W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 AA1-R D-UW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 JH-IY1 Z-AH0 S-Y-UW1 HH-AE1-V


well then what about all of these scriptures that say, who shall ascend into the hill of the lord? who shall stand-

W-EH1-L DH-EH1 N-W-AH1 T-AH0 B-AW1 T-AO1 L-AH1-V DH-IY1-Z-S K-R-IH1-P CH-ER0-Z DH-AE1-T S-EY1 HH-UW1 SH-AE1 L-AH0 S-EH1-N D-IH0-N T-UW1 DH-AH0 HH-IH1 L-AH1-V DH-AH0 L-AO1-R-D HH-UW1 SH-AE1-L-S T-AE1-N-D


...clean hands and a pure heart. what about that scripture?

K-L-IY1-N HH-AE1-N-D Z-AH0-N D-AH0 P-Y-UH1-R HH-AA1-R T-W-AH1 T-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AE1-T-S K-R-IH1-P CH-ER0


those verses and deuteronomy 28 verses 15 through 68. and i can say that instead-

DH-OW1-Z V-ER1 S-AH0 Z-AH0-N-D D-IH0 T-AO1 R-AH0 M-AH0 N-IY0 T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 EY1-T V-ER1 S-AH0-Z F-IH0-F T-IY1-N TH-R-UW1 S-IH1-K-S T-IY0 EY1 T-AH0-N D-AY1 K-AE1-N S-EY1 DH-AE1 T-IH0-N-S T-EH1-D


...it was in a closet. it was in a dark place and the walls weren't insulated. and we heated the house.

IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-IH0 N-AH0 K-L-AA1 Z-AH0 T-IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-IH0 N-AH0 D-AA1-R-K P-L-EY1 S-AH0-N-D DH-AH0 W-AO1-L Z-W-EH1 R-AH0-N T-IH1-N S-AH0 L-EY2 T-AH0 D-AH0-N D-W-IY1 HH-IY1 T-AH0-D DH-AH0 HH-AW1-S


...chapter five. here's where i started on saturday or sunday morning.

CH-AE1-P T-ER0 F-AY1-V HH-IH1-R Z-W-EH1 R-AY1-S T-AA1-R T-AH0 D-AA1-N S-AE1 T-ER0 D-IY0 AO1-R S-AH1-N D-EY2 M-AO1-R N-IH0-NG


...means it's already been done.

M-IY1-N Z-IH1-T S-AO0-L R-EH1 D-IY0 B-IH1-N D-AH1-N


when you use a credit card and give it to people, you didn't pay-

W-EH1 N-Y-UW1 Y-UW1 Z-AH0 K-R-EH1 D-AH0-T K-AA1-R D-AH0-N-D G-IH1 V-IH1-T T-UW1 P-IY1 P-AH0 L-Y-UW1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T P-EY1


...and people, oh yeah, i did. no you didn't. if-

AH0-N-D P-IY1 P-AH0 L-OW1 Y-AE1 AY1 D-IH1 D-N-OW1 Y-UW1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-IH1-F


...when your credit card bill comes and they tell you what you owe, don't-

W-EH1 N-Y-AO1-R K-R-EH1 D-AH0-T K-AA1-R-D B-IH1-L K-AH1-M Z-AH0-N-D DH-EY1 T-EH1 L-Y-UW1 W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 OW1 D-AA1-N-T


but using a credit card is it's being imputed,

B-AH1 T-Y-UW1 Z-IH0 NG-AH0 K-R-EH1 D-AH0-T K-AA1-R D-IH1 Z-IH1-T-S B-IY1 IH0 NG-IH0-M P-Y-UW1 T-IH0-D


...in the flesh. you think he's dealing with you based on who you are in your physical flesh, your actions and your thoughts. but if you approach him in the spirit,

IH0-N DH-AH0 F-L-EH1 SH-Y-UW1 TH-IH1-NG-K HH-IY1-Z D-IY1 L-IH0 NG-W-IH1 DH-Y-UW1 B-EY1-S T-AA1-N HH-UW1 Y-UW1 AA1 R-IH0 N-Y-AO1-R F-IH1 Z-IH0 K-AH0-L F-L-EH1 SH-Y-AO1 R-AE1-K SH-AH0-N Z-AH0-N D-Y-AO1-R TH-AO1-T-S B-AH1 T-IH1 F-Y-UW1 AH0 P-R-OW1-CH HH-IH1 M-IH0-N DH-AH0-S P-IH1 R-AH0-T


...teaching us to deny ungodliness and worldly lust that we should live soberly and righteously in this present world.

T-IY1 CH-IH0 NG-AH1-S T-UW1 D-IH0 N-AY1 AH0-N G-AA1 D-AH0 L-IH0-N S-IH0-N Z-AH0-N D-W-ER1-L D-L-IY0 L-AH1-S-T DH-AE1 T-W-IY1 SH-UH1 D-L-AY1-V S-OW1 B-ER0 L-IY0 AH0-N D-R-AY1 CH-AH0 S-L-IY0 IH0-N DH-IH1-S P-R-EH1 Z-AH0-N T-W-ER1-L-D


these things are so important and-

DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG Z-AA1-R S-OW1 IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N T-AH0-N-D


...that's translated to sin and sins. it's singular, all but twice.

TH-AE1-T-S T-R-AE0-N Z-L-EY1 T-AH0-D T-UW1 S-IH1 N-AH0-N-D S-IH1-N Z-IH1-T-S S-IH1-NG G-Y-AH0 L-ER0 AO1-L B-AH1-T T-W-AY1-S


and all they have to do is just receive it by faith. appropriate what's been done.

AH0-N D-AO1-L DH-EY1 HH-AE1-V T-UW1 D-UW1 IH1-Z JH-AH1-S T-R-AH0 S-IY1 V-IH1-T B-AY1 F-EY1 TH-AH0 P-R-OW1 P-R-IY0 AH0 T-W-AH0-T-S B-IH1-N D-AH1-N


so anyway, that's a major point right there. wherefore as by one man's sin,

S-OW1 EH1 N-IY0 W-EY2 TH-AE1-T S-AH0 M-EY1 JH-ER0 P-OY1-N T-R-AY1-T DH-EH1 R-W-EH1 R-IH0 F-AO0 R-AE1-Z B-AY1 W-AH1-N M-AE1-N-Z S-IH1-N


i don't know.


i know those of you who have-

AY1 N-OW1 DH-OW1 Z-AH1 V-Y-UW1 HH-UW1 HH-AE1-V


did you know that over there in leviticus,

D-IH1 D-Y-UW1 N-OW1 DH-AE1 T-OW1 V-ER0 DH-EH1 R-IH0 N-L-AH0 V-IH1 T-AH0 K-AH0-S


did you know that abraham married a half-sister according to the law.

D-IH1 D-Y-UW1 N-OW1 DH-AE1 T-EY1 B-R-AH0 HH-AE2-M M-EH1 R-IY0 D-AH0 HH-AE1-F-L S-AY2-S T-ER0 AH0 K-AO1-R D-IH0-NG T-UW1 DH-AH0 L-AO1


did you know that jacob came along and married rachel and leah, sisters, and according to those scriptures, leviticus chapter 18, if you married two women who were sis-

D-IH1 D-Y-UW1 N-OW1 DH-AE1-T JH-EY1 K-AH0-B K-EY1 M-AH0 L-AO1 NG-AH0-N D-M-EH1 R-IY0 D-R-EY1 CH-AH0 L-AH0-N D-L-IY1 AH0 S-IH1-S T-ER0 Z-AH0-N D-AH0 K-AO1-R D-IH0-NG T-UW1 DH-OW1-Z-S K-R-IH1-P CH-ER0 Z-L-AH0 V-IH1 T-AH0 K-AH0-S CH-AE1-P T-ER0 EY0 T-IY1 N-IH1 F-Y-UW1 M-EH1 R-IY0-D T-UW1 W-IH1 M-AH0-N HH-UW1 W-ER0 S-IH1-S


we didn't do anything on sunday. sunday was the sabbath.

W-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T D-UW1 EH1 N-IY0 TH-IH2 NG-AA1-N S-AH1-N D-EY2 S-AH1-N D-EY2 W-AA1-Z DH-AH0 S-AE1 B-AH0-TH


only, i used to have dreams,

OW1 N-L-IY0 AY1 Y-UW1-Z-D T-UW1 HH-AE1-V D-R-IY1-M-Z


...felt so condemned,


and some of you say, you didn't have the same fear. so you indulged and went ahead and did it, but,

AH0-N-D S-AH1 M-AH1 V-Y-UW1 S-EY1 Y-UW1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T HH-AE1-V DH-AH0 S-EY1-M F-IH1-R S-OW1 Y-UW1 IH0-N D-AH1-L-JH D-AH0-N D-W-EH1-N T-AH0 HH-EH1 D-AH0-N-D D-IH1 D-IH1-T B-AH1-T


...it says that the law, second corinthians chapter three, verse seven, the law,

IH1-T S-EH1-Z DH-AE1-T DH-AH0 L-AO1 S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D K-ER0 IH1-N TH-IY0 AH0-N-Z CH-AE1-P T-ER0 TH-R-IY1 V-ER1-S S-EH1 V-AH0-N DH-AH0 L-AO1


...and to make you condemned.and there is a purpose for that.

AH0-N-D T-UW1 M-EY1 K-Y-UW1 K-AA2-N D-AH0 M-EH1-N D-AH0-N-D DH-EH1 R-IH1 Z-AH0 P-ER1 P-AH0-S F-AO1-R DH-AE1-T


we should be preaching this word of reconciliation that god's not mad at you. god's friendly. your sins are paid for.

W-IY1 SH-UH1-D B-IY1 P-R-IY1 CH-IH0-NG DH-IH1 S-W-ER1 D-AH1 V-R-EH2 K-AH0-N S-IH2 L-IY0 EY1 SH-AH0-N DH-AE1-T G-AA1-D Z-N-AA1 T-M-AE1 D-AE1 T-Y-UW1 G-AA1-D-Z F-R-EH1-N D-L-IY0 Y-AO1-R S-IH1-N Z-AA1-R P-EY1-D F-AO1-R


i believe that sometimes the devil takes notes from us.

AY1 B-IH0 L-IY1-V DH-AE1-T S-AH0-M T-AY1-M-Z DH-AH0 D-EH1 V-AH0-L T-EY1-K S-N-OW1-T-S F-R-AH1 M-AH1-S


he probably said, man, i never thought of that. and he's learning from us about how we can condemn ourselves. we-

HH-IY1 P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 S-EH1 D-M-AE1 N-AY1 N-EH1 V-ER0 TH-AO1 T-AH1-V DH-AE1 T-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 Z-L-ER1 N-IH0-NG F-R-AH1 M-AH1 S-AH0 B-AW1-T HH-AW1 W-IY1 K-AE1-N K-AH0-N D-EH1 M-AW0 ER0 S-EH1-L-V Z-W-IY1


i've had people say, so you just-

AY1-V HH-AE1-D P-IY1 P-AH0-L S-EY1 S-OW1 Y-UW1 JH-AH1-S-T


god didn't overlook sin. god hadn't just decided that i'm not going to deal with sin anymore. i'm going to start-

G-AA1-D D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-OW1 V-ER0 L-UH2-K S-IH1-N G-AA1-D HH-AE1 D-AH0-N-T JH-AH1-S-T D-IH0 S-AY1 D-IH0-D DH-AE1 T-IH1-M N-AA1-T G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 D-IY1 L-W-IH1-DH S-IH1 N-EH2 N-IY0 M-AO1 R-IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1-S T-AA1-R-T


jesus looked worse than that. it says that he didn't even look human. he-

JH-IY1 Z-AH0 S-L-UH1-K T-W-ER1-S DH-AE1-N DH-AE1 T-IH1-T S-EH1-Z DH-AE1-T HH-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-IY1 V-IH0 N-L-UH1-K HH-Y-UW1 M-AH0-N HH-IY1


one of the things that amazes me is, that if i loved you enough to do something for you, i probably wouldn't do it, if you-

W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1 T-AH0 M-EY1 Z-IH0 Z-M-IY1 IH1-Z DH-AE1 T-IH1 F-AY1 L-AH1-V D-Y-UW1 IH0 N-AH1-F T-UW1 D-UW1 S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG F-AO1 R-Y-UW1 AY1 P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 W-UH1 D-L-AH0-N-T D-UW1 IH1 T-IH1 F-Y-UW1


...there's neither one of us that has a full revelation. and yet-

DH-EH1-R Z-N-IY1 DH-ER0 W-AH1 N-AH1 V-AH1-S DH-AE1-T HH-AE1 Z-AH0 F-UH1-L R-EH2 V-AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH0-N D-Y-EH1-T


for your sakes, now is the judgment of this world. now shall the prince of this world be cast out. and i, if i be lifted up from the earth will draw-

F-AO1 R-Y-AO1-R S-EY1-K S-N-AW1 IH1-Z DH-AH0 JH-AH1 JH-M-AH0-N T-AH1-V DH-IH1 S-W-ER1-L D-N-AW1 SH-AE1-L DH-AH0 P-R-IH1-N S-AH1-V DH-IH1 S-W-ER1-L-D B-IY1 K-AE1-S T-AW1 T-AH0-N D-AY1 IH1 F-AY1 B-IY1 L-IH1-F T-AH0 D-AH1-P F-R-AH1-M DH-AH0 ER1 TH-W-IH1-L D-R-AO1


...they added it for clarity. and they just assumed that he was talking about drawing all men unto him. and so people have taken this verse and they say that if you just preach-

DH-EY1 AE1 D-AH0 D-IH1-T F-AO1-R K-L-EH1 R-AH0 T-IY0 AH0-N-D DH-EY1 JH-AH1-S T-AH0 S-UW1-M-D DH-AE1-T HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z T-AO1 K-IH0 NG-AH0 B-AW1-T D-R-AO1 IH0 NG-AO1-L M-EH1 N-AH1-N T-UW0 HH-IH1 M-AH0-N-D S-OW1 P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-AE1-V T-EY1 K-AH0-N DH-IH1-S V-ER1 S-AH0-N-D DH-EY1 S-EY1 DH-AE1 T-IH1 F-Y-UW1 JH-AH1-S-T P-R-IY1-CH


...he'll draw all the people unto you.

HH-EH1-L D-R-AO1 AO1-L DH-AH0 P-IY1 P-AH0 L-AH1-N T-UW0 Y-UW1


some of the best pastors-

S-AH1 M-AH1-V DH-AH0 B-EH1-S-T P-AE1-S T-ER0-Z


...in front of us is saying now is the judgment of this world. now shall the prince of this world be cast out and i-

IH0-N F-R-AH1-N T-AH1 V-AH1 S-IH1-Z S-EY1 IH0-NG N-AW1 IH1-Z DH-AH0 JH-AH1 JH-M-AH0-N T-AH1-V DH-IH1 S-W-ER1-L D-N-AW1 SH-AE1-L DH-AH0 P-R-IH1-N S-AH1-V DH-IH1 S-W-ER1-L-D B-IY1 K-AE1-S T-AW1 T-AH0-N D-AY1


... he was corrupted, not because of his own-

HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z K-ER0 AH1-P T-IH0 D-N-AA1-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AH1-V HH-IH1 Z-OW1-N


... i'm telling you brothers and sisters. if you could understand the things that i'm trying to say, this will explain-

IH1-M T-EH1 L-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 B-R-AH1 DH-ER0 Z-AH0-N-D S-IH1-S T-ER0 Z-IH1 F-Y-UW1 K-UH1 D-AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D DH-AH0 TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1 T-IH1-M T-R-AY1 IH0-NG T-UW1 S-EY1 DH-IH1 S-W-IH1 L-IH0-K-S P-L-EY1-N


... and you can come back into the grace of god and-

AH0-N D-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N K-AH1-M B-AE1 K-IH0-N T-UW1 DH-AH0 G-R-EY1 S-AH1-V G-AA1 D-AH0-N-D


... from the dead. after nearly five hours dead, my wife-

F-R-AH1-M DH-AH0 D-EH1 D-AE1-F T-ER0 N-IH1-R L-IY0 F-AY1 V-AW1 ER0-Z D-EH1 D-M-AY1 W-AY1-F


... you wanted to get up where you can see it.

Y-UW1 W-AA1-N T-AH0-D T-UW1 G-EH1 T-AH1 P-W-EH1 R-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N S-IY1 IH1-T


what changed? did god change?

W-AH1-T CH-EY1-N-JH-D D-IH1-D G-AA1-D CH-EY1-N-JH


you wouldn't have any more faith in my prayers than you-

Y-UW1 W-UH1 D-L-AH0-N-T HH-AE1 V-EH1 N-IY0 M-AO1-R F-EY1 TH-IH0-N M-AY1 P-R-EH1-R-Z DH-AE1 N-Y-UW1


... by name, but it would go into a lot more detail. but here in-

B-AY1 N-EY1-M B-AH1 T-IH1 T-W-UH1-D G-OW1 IH0-N T-UW1 AH0 L-AA1 T-M-AO1-R D-IH0 T-EY1-L B-AH1-T HH-IY1 R-IH0-N


... path, past tense already blessed us with all spiritual blessings in heavenly places in-

P-AE1-TH P-AE1-S-T T-EH1-N S-AO0-L R-EH1 D-IY0 B-L-EH1 S-IH0 D-AH1 S-W-IH1 DH-AO1-L-S P-IH1 R-IH0 CH-AH0 W-AH0-L B-L-EH1 S-IH0-NG Z-IH0-N HH-EH1 V-AH0 N-L-IY0 P-L-EY1 S-AH0 Z-IH0-N


...15, he says, wherefore i also, after i heard of your faith in the lord, jesus and love unto all the saints, cease not to give thanks for you-

P-OY1-N T-W-AH1-N F-AY1-V HH-IY1 S-EH1 Z-W-EH1 R-IH0 F-AO0 R-AY1 AO1-L S-OW0 AE1-F T-ER0 AY1 HH-ER1 D-AH1 V-Y-AO1-R F-EY1 TH-IH0-N DH-AH0 L-AO1-R-D JH-IY1 Z-AH0 S-AH0-N D-L-AH1 V-AH1-N T-UW0 AO1-L DH-AH0 S-EY1-N-T-S S-IY1 S-N-AA1-T T-UW1 G-IH1-V TH-AE1-NG-K-S F-AO1 R-Y-UW1


... praying for them. so just write this down and it's going to be recorded in 2000 years from now-

P-R-EY1 IH0-NG F-AO1-R DH-EH1-M S-OW1 JH-AH1-S T-R-AY1-T DH-IH1-S D-AW1 N-AH0-N D-IH1-T-S G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 R-AH0 K-AO1-R D-AH0 D-IH0-N T-UW1 TH-AW1 Z-AH0-N D-Y-IH1-R-Z F-R-AH1-M N-AW1


... it has a picture of a dog on the front of the album and the dog is chasing his tail.

IH1-T HH-AE1 Z-AH0 P-IH1-K CH-ER0 AH1 V-AH0 D-AO1 G-AA1-N DH-AH0 F-R-AH1-N T-AH1-V DH-AH0 AE1-L B-AH0 M-AH0-N-D DH-AH0 D-AO1 G-IH1-Z CH-EY1 S-IH0-NG HH-IH1-Z T-EY1-L


and to me, that is pretty descriptive.

AH0-N-D T-UW1 M-IY1 DH-AE1 T-IH1-Z P-R-IH1 T-IY0 D-IH0-S K-R-IH1-P T-IH0-V


god heal me. you're like a dog chasing his-

G-AA1-D HH-IY1-L M-IY1 Y-UH1-R L-AY1 K-AH0 D-AO1-G CH-EY1 S-IH0-NG HH-IH1-Z


... being enlightened that you may know what is the hope of his calling and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saint-

B-IY1 IH0 NG-EH0 N-L-AY1 T-AH0-N-D DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 M-EY1 N-OW1 W-AH1 T-IH1-Z DH-AH0 HH-OW1 P-AH1-V HH-IH1-Z K-AO1 L-IH0 NG-AH0-N D-W-AH1-T DH-AH0 R-IH1 CH-AH0 Z-AH1-V DH-AH0 G-L-AO1 R-IY0 AH1-V HH-IH1 Z-IH0-N HH-EH1 R-AH0 T-AH0-N S-IH0-N DH-AH0 S-EY1-N-T


... asking me to give you something that i've already given you. how do i-

AE1-S K-IH0-NG M-IY1 T-UW1 G-IH1 V-Y-UW1 S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG DH-AE1 T-AY1 V-AO0-L R-EH1 D-IY0 G-IH1 V-AH0 N-Y-UW1 HH-AW1 D-UW1 AY1


... look at you, like-


... inheritance in the saints.

IH0-N HH-EH1 R-AH0 T-AH0-N S-IH0-N DH-AH0 S-EY1-N-T-S


he's praying here that you would get a revelation of the riches of the glory, of his inheritance, which is-

HH-IY1-Z P-R-EY1 IH0-NG HH-IY1-R DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 W-UH1-D G-EH1 T-AH0 R-EH2 V-AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 R-IH1 CH-AH0 Z-AH1-V DH-AH0 G-L-AO1 R-IY0 AH1-V HH-IH1 Z-IH0-N HH-EH1 R-AH0 T-AH0-N S-W-IH1 CH-IH1-Z


... not a matter of getting god to do something. it's a matter of-

N-AA1 T-AH0 M-AE1 T-ER0 AH1-V G-EH1 T-IH0-NG G-AA1-D T-UW1 D-UW1 S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-IH1-T S-AH0 M-AE1 T-ER0 AH1-V


... that's a huge difference. it's a huge difference.

TH-AE1-T S-AH0 HH-Y-UW1-JH D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N S-IH1-T S-AH0 HH-Y-UW1-JH D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-S


you already have it on the inside of you.

Y-UW1 AO0-L R-EH1 D-IY0 HH-AE1 V-IH1 T-AA1-N DH-AH0 IH0-N S-AY1 D-AH1 V-Y-UW1


how many of you asked god to give you more power?

HH-AW1 M-EH1 N-IY0 AH1 V-Y-UW1 AE1-S-K-T G-AA1-D T-UW1 G-IH1 V-Y-UW1 M-AO1-R P-AW1 ER0


you don't need more power. what you need is a revelation of what you've already got, and then you need to learn how to release it.

Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-N-IY1 D-M-AO1-R P-AW1 ER0 W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 N-IY1 D-IH1 Z-AH0 R-EH2 V-AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH1 V-W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 V-AO0-L R-EH1 D-IY0 G-AA1 T-AH0-N-D DH-EH1 N-Y-UW1 N-IY1-D T-UW1 L-ER1-N HH-AW1 T-UW1 R-IY0 L-IY1 S-IH1-T


... of him that created him. in other word-

AH1-V HH-IH1-M DH-AE1-T K-R-IY0 EY1 T-AH0-D HH-IH1 M-IH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0 W-ER1-D


... you know, all things.


... to their mental, emotional part, but there is a third-

T-UW1 DH-EH1-R M-EH1-N T-AH0 L-IH0 M-OW1 SH-AH0 N-AH0-L P-AA1-R-T B-AH1-T DH-EH1 R-IH1 Z-AH0 TH-ER1-D


my medical problem started in 2001.

M-AY1 M-EH1 D-AH0 K-AH0-L P-R-AA1 B-L-AH0-M-S T-AA1-R T-AH0 D-IH0-N T-UW1 TH-AW1 Z-AH0-N D-W-AH1-N


i had kind of given up on healing for myself,

AY1 HH-AE1-D K-AY1-N D-AH1-V G-IH1 V-AH0 N-AH1 P-AA1-N HH-IY1 L-IH0-NG F-AO1-R M-AY2 S-EH1-L-F


glory and honor, and power for thou has created all things. and for that pleasure, they are-

G-L-AO1 R-IY0 AH0-N D-AA1 N-ER0 AH0-N-D P-AW1 ER0 F-AO1-R DH-AW1 HH-AE1-Z K-R-IY0 EY1 T-AH0 D-AO1-L TH-IH1-NG Z-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R DH-AE1-T P-L-EH1 ZH-ER0 DH-EY1 AA1-R


... any good thing that any office have ever done-

EH1 N-IY0 G-UH1-D TH-IH1-NG DH-AE1 T-EH1 N-IY0 AO1 F-AH0-S HH-AE1 V-EH1 V-ER0 D-AH1-N


church, as is important as it is, and as powerful as it is-

CH-ER1 CH-AE1 Z-IH1 Z-IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N T-AE1 Z-IH1 T-IH1 Z-AH0-N D-AE1-Z P-AW1 ER0 F-AH0 L-AE1 Z-IH1 T-IH1-Z


this man went on to say, if god just wanted to bless you-

DH-IH1 S-M-AE1 N-W-EH1-N T-AA1-N T-UW1 S-EY1 IH1-F G-AA1-D JH-AH1-S T-W-AA1-N T-AH0-D T-UW1 B-L-EH1 S-Y-UW1


... although we are supposed to be serving the lord and letting god flow through us. let me ask-

AO2-L DH-OW1 W-IY1 AA1-R S-AH0 P-OW1-Z-D T-UW1 B-IY1 S-ER1 V-IH0-NG DH-AH0 L-AO1-R D-AH0-N D-L-EH1 T-IH0-NG G-AA1-D F-L-OW1 TH-R-UW1 AH1 S-L-EH1 T-M-IY1 AE1-S-K


... adam and eve's purpose?

AE1 D-AH0 M-AH0-N D-IY1-V-Z P-ER1 P-AH0-S


what was the purpose for their existence? according-

W-AH1 T-W-AA1-Z DH-AH0 P-ER1 P-AH0-S F-AO1-R DH-EH1 R-EH0-G Z-IH1-S T-AH0-N S-AH0 K-AO1-R D-IH0-NG


... forced into it, not demanded. and that's the reason he gave us this free will. and he long for fellowship.

F-AO1-R-S T-IH0-N T-UW1 IH1 T-N-AA1-T D-IH0 M-AE1-N D-AH0 D-AH0-N-D TH-AE1-T-S DH-AH0 R-IY1 Z-AH0-N HH-IY1 G-EY1 V-AH1-S DH-IH1-S F-R-IY1 W-IH1 L-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 L-AO1-NG F-AO1-R F-EH1 L-OW0 SH-IH2-P


... that's hard. that's hard when people that you love reject you, i bet-

TH-AE1-T-S HH-AA1-R-D TH-AE1-T-S HH-AA1-R D-W-EH1-N P-IY1 P-AH0-L DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 L-AH1 V-R-IH0 JH-EH1-K T-Y-UW1 AY1 B-EH1-T


... you not only have a need to express that love to them, but you have a very strong-

Y-UW1 N-AA1 T-OW1 N-L-IY0 HH-AE1 V-AH0 N-IY1-D T-UW1 IH0-K-S P-R-EH1-S DH-AE1 T-L-AH1-V T-UW1 DH-EH1-M B-AH1 T-Y-UW1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 V-EH1 R-IY0-S T-R-AO1-NG


... blood. you deserve death.


... doing is wrong, but because it's just-

D-UW1 IH0 NG-IH1 Z-R-AO1-NG B-AH1-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1-T-S JH-AH1-S-T


... but then it was time to go pray and-

B-AH1-T DH-EH1 N-IH1 T-W-AA1-Z T-AY1-M T-UW1 G-OW1 P-R-EY1 AH0-N-D


oh, i looked at my watch and it was like six 30.

OW1 AY1 L-UH1-K T-AE1 T-M-AY1 W-AA1 CH-AH0-N D-IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-L-AY1-K S-IH1-K-S TH-ER1 D-IY0


... wrong with me? why is it i=.

R-AO1 NG-W-IH1 DH-M-IY1 W-AY1 IH1 Z-IH1 T-AY1


i didn't know if she could clean the house.

AY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-N-OW1 IH1-F SH-IY1 K-UH1-D K-L-IY1-N DH-AH0 HH-AW1-S


and i'm telling you brother and sister. what i'm saying, somebody may think, well, how does this relate to me? if you could-

AH0-N D-IH1-M T-EH1 L-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 B-R-AH1 DH-ER0 AH0-N-D S-IH1-S T-ER0 W-AH1 T-IH1-M S-EY1 IH0-NG S-AH1-M B-AA2 D-IY0 M-EY1 TH-IH1-NG K-W-EH1-L HH-AW1 D-AH1-Z DH-IH1 S-R-IH0 L-EY1-T T-UW1 M-IY1 IH1 F-Y-UW1 K-UH1-D


... in that it's what establishes the value of something is what people are willing to pay for it.

IH0-N DH-AE1 T-IH1-T S-W-AH1 T-IH0-S T-AE1 B-L-IH0 SH-IH0-Z DH-AH0 V-AE1 L-Y-UW0 AH1-V S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-IH1 Z-W-AH1-T P-IY1 P-AH0 L-AA1 R-W-IH1 L-IH0-NG T-UW1 P-EY1 F-AO1 R-IH1-T


but here is a positive statement in zephaniah three 17. the lord thy god, in the midst-

B-AH1-T HH-IY1 R-IH1 Z-AH0 P-AA1 Z-AH0 T-IH0-V-S T-EY1 T-M-AH0-N T-IH0-N Z-EH0 F-AA1 N-IY0 AH0 TH-R-IY1 S-EH1 V-AH0-N T-IY1-N DH-AH0 L-AO1-R-D DH-AY1 G-AA1 D-IH0-N DH-AH0 M-IH1-D-S-T


... had all of the fluids over us. our umbilical cord wasn't-

HH-AE1 D-AO1 L-AH1-V DH-AH0 F-L-UW1 AH0-D Z-OW1 V-ER0 AH1 S-AW1 ER0 AH0-M B-IH1 L-IH0 K-AH0-L K-AO1-R D-W-AO1-S-T


... loves you because he is-

L-AH1-V Z-Y-UW1 B-IH0 K-AO1-Z HH-IY1 IH1-Z


... for you. he's join over you. god loves you more than you could ever understand.

F-AO1 R-Y-UW1 HH-IY1-Z JH-OY1 N-OW1 V-ER0 Y-UW1 G-AA1 D-L-AH1-V Z-Y-UW1 M-AO1-R DH-AE1 N-Y-UW1 K-UH1 D-EH1 V-ER0 AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D


even more now.


... that is so awesome is because it blesses you.

DH-AE1 T-IH1-Z S-OW1 AA1 S-AH0 M-IH1-Z B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1-T B-L-EH1 S-IH0 Z-Y-UW1


and this became a great revelation to me. i don't-

AH0-N-D DH-IH1-S B-IH0 K-EY1 M-AH0 G-R-EY1 T-R-EH2 V-AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N T-UW1 M-IY1 AY1 D-AA1-N-T


... know how many of you will track with me and understand this.

N-OW1 HH-AW1 M-EH1 N-IY0 AH1 V-Y-UW1 W-IH1-L T-R-AE1 K-W-IH1 DH-M-IY1 AH0-N D-AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D DH-IH1-S


god longs for you to love him.

G-AA1 D-L-AO1-NG-Z F-AO1 R-Y-UW1 T-UW1 L-AH1-V HH-IH1-M


he created us for relationship and god-

HH-IY1 K-R-IY0 EY1 T-AH0 D-AH1-S F-AO1-R R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2 P-AH0-N-D G-AA1-D


... i believe that god inhabited the praises of his people. psalms chapter-

AY1 B-IH0 L-IY1-V DH-AE1-T G-AA1 D-IH0-N HH-AE1 B-AH0 T-AH0-D DH-AH0 P-R-EY1 Z-AH0 Z-AH1-V HH-IH1-Z P-IY1 P-AH0-L S-AA1-L-M-Z CH-AE1-P T-ER0


... on this, but jesus quoted from psalms chapter eight, verse two, where it says out of the mouth of babes and sucklings now has perfect-

AA1-N DH-IH1-S B-AH1-T JH-IY1 Z-AH0-S K-W-OW1 T-AH0-D F-R-AH1-M S-AA1-L-M-Z CH-AE1-P T-ER0 EY1-T V-ER1-S T-UW1 W-EH1 R-IH1-T S-EH1 Z-AW1 T-AH1-V DH-AH0 M-AW1 DH-AH1-V B-EY1-B Z-AH0-N-D S-AH1 K-L-IH0-NG Z-N-AW1 HH-AE1-Z P-ER1 F-IH2-K-T


... chapter 21, and he said-

CH-AE1-P T-ER0 T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 W-AH1 N-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 S-EH1-D


... with these people that they're-

W-IH1-DH DH-IY1-Z P-IY1 P-AH0-L DH-AE1-T TH-EH1-R


... stir yourself up by putting yourself in way of remembrance, first-

S-T-ER1 Y-ER0 S-EH1-L F-AH1-P B-AY1 P-AH1 T-IH0 NG-Y-ER0 S-EH1-L F-IH0 N-W-EY1 AH1 V-R-IY0 M-EH1-M B-R-AH0-N-S F-ER1-S-T


... but anyway, if we would just thank him and be thankful, it blesses the lord, god loves you.

B-AH1 T-EH1 N-IY0 W-EY2 IH1 F-W-IY1 W-UH1-D JH-AH1-S-T TH-AE1-NG-K HH-IH1 M-AH0-N-D B-IY1 TH-AE1-NG-K F-AH0 L-IH1-T B-L-EH1 S-IH0-Z DH-AH0 L-AO1-R-D G-AA1 D-L-AH1-V Z-Y-UW1


bless god. and i tell you, this is what you were created to do. this is that god-shaped vacuum that's-

B-L-EH1-S G-AA1 D-AH0-N D-AY1 T-EH1 L-Y-UW1 DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 W-ER0 K-R-IY0 EY1 T-AH0-D T-UW1 D-UW1 DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z DH-AE1-T G-AA1-D SH-EY2-P-T V-AE1 K-Y-UW0-M TH-AE1-T-S


... can't praise god, my burden is too heavy.

K-AE1-N-T P-R-EY1-Z G-AA1 D-M-AY1 B-ER1 D-AH0 N-IH1-Z T-UW1 HH-EH1 V-IY0


it'd be much worse than it is.

AY1 T-AH0-D B-IY1 M-AH1 CH-W-ER1-S DH-AE1 N-IH1 T-IH1-Z


with pastor bob to bring them through the tornado and through all of the things and to be in a facility that's two or three times better than what they had.

W-IH1-DH P-AE1-S T-ER0 B-AA1-B T-UW1 B-R-IH1-NG DH-EH1-M TH-R-UW1 DH-AH0 T-AO0-R N-EY1 D-OW2 AH0-N-D TH-R-UW1 AO1 L-AH1-V DH-AH0 TH-IH1-NG Z-AH0-N-D T-UW1 B-IY1 IH0 N-AH0 F-AH0 S-IH1 L-IH0 T-IY0 TH-AE1-T-S T-UW1 AO1-R TH-R-IY1 T-AY1-M-Z B-EH1 T-ER0 DH-AE1 N-W-AH1-T DH-EY1 HH-AE1-D


... wrote me a letter, and this is back before we had computer stuff and all that. it was a-

R-OW1 T-M-IY1 AH0 L-EH1 T-ER0 AH0-N-D DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z B-AE1-K B-IH0 F-AO1 R-W-IY1 HH-AE1-D K-AH0-M P-Y-UW1 T-ER0-S T-AH1 F-AH0-N D-AO1-L DH-AE1 T-IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-AH0


it was a written letter. and she wrote in there that she had murdered some-

IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-AH0 R-IH1 T-AH0 N-L-EH1 T-ER0 AH0-N-D SH-IY1 R-OW1 T-IH0-N DH-EH1-R DH-AE1-T SH-IY1 HH-AE1 D-M-ER1 D-ER0-D S-AH1-M


... and this woman was just totally miserable. and she was listening to me on the radio and i was teaching about ministering unto god and how god created us for his pleasure and that when we-

AH0-N-D DH-IH1 S-W-UH1 M-AH0 N-W-AA1-Z JH-AH1-S-T T-OW1 T-AH0 L-IY0 M-IH1 Z-ER0 AH0 B-AH0 L-AH0-N-D SH-IY1 W-AA1 Z-L-IH1 S-AH0 N-IH0-NG T-UW1 M-IY1 AA1-N DH-AH0 R-EY1 D-IY0 OW2 AH0-N D-AY1 W-AA1-Z T-IY1 CH-IH0 NG-AH0 B-AW1 T-M-IH1 N-IH0-S T-R-IH0 NG-AH1-N T-UW0 G-AA1 D-AH0-N-D HH-AW1 G-AA1-D K-R-IY0 EY1 T-AH0 D-AH1-S F-AO1-R HH-IH1-Z P-L-EH1 ZH-ER0 AH0-N-D DH-AE1 T-W-EH1 N-W-IY1


... whom he has sent. eternal life, isn't living forever-

HH-UW1-M HH-IY1 HH-AE1-Z S-EH1-N T-IH0 T-ER1 N-AH0-L L-AY1 F-IH1 S-AH0-N T-L-IH1 V-IH0-NG F-ER0 EH1 V-ER0


... and let me just say that if all you did was get your sins forgiven-

AH0-N D-L-EH1 T-M-IY1 JH-AH1-S-T S-EY1 DH-AE1 T-IH1 F-AO1 L-Y-UW1 D-IH1 D-W-AA1-Z G-EH1 T-Y-AO1-R S-IH1-N-Z F-ER0 G-IH1 V-AH0-N


... and if you aren't experienced in that joy of knowing god, if you don't-

AH0-N D-IH1 F-Y-UW1 AA1 R-AH0-N T-IH0-K-S P-IH1 R-IY0 AH0-N-S T-IH0-N DH-AE1-T JH-OY1 AH1 V-N-OW1 IH0-NG G-AA1 D-IH1 F-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T


... count success as being numbers and finances and all of these other-

K-AW1-N-T S-AH0-K S-EH1 S-AE1-Z B-IY1 IH0-NG N-AH1-M B-ER0 Z-AH0-N-D F-IH0 N-AE1-N S-IH0 Z-AH0-N D-AO1 L-AH1-V DH-IY1 Z-AH1 DH-ER0


... say bad things about you. i've got thou-

S-EY1 B-AE1-D TH-IH1-NG Z-AH0 B-AW1 T-Y-UW1 AY1-V G-AA1-T DH-AW1


... if you put people into celebrity categories and stuff, and you-

IH1 F-Y-UW1 P-UH1-T P-IY1 P-AH0 L-IH0-N T-UW1 S-AH0 L-EH1 B-R-IH0 T-IY0 K-AE1 T-AH0 G-AO2 R-IY0 Z-AH0-N-D-S T-AH1 F-AH0-N D-Y-UW1


... if you came looking for something wrong, i had some-

IH1 F-Y-UW1 K-EY1 M-L-UH1 K-IH0-NG F-AO1-R S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-R-AO1 NG-AY1 HH-AE1-D S-AH1-M


... i know that the guy's always saying something about me and criticized me-

AY1 N-OW1 DH-AE1-T DH-AH0 G-AY1 Z-AO1 L-W-EY2-Z S-EY1 IH0-NG S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-AH0 B-AW1 T-M-IY1 AH0-N-D K-R-IH1 T-AH0 S-AY2-Z D-M-IY1


... but there are people that are so shallow-

B-AH1-T DH-EH1 R-AA1-R P-IY1 P-AH0-L DH-AE1 T-AA1-R S-OW1 SH-AE1 L-OW0


... personal relationship with god and-

P-ER1 S-IH0 N-IH0-L R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2 P-W-IH1-DH G-AA1 D-AH0-N-D


... the lot of stretchers and put them in seats for fire codes and saw those same people healed.

DH-AH0 L-AA1 T-AH1-V-S T-R-EH1 CH-ER0 Z-AH0-N-D P-UH1-T DH-EH1 M-IH0-N S-IY1-T-S F-AO1-R F-AY1 ER0 K-OW1-D Z-AH0-N-D S-AO1 DH-OW1-Z S-EY1-M P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-IY1-L-D


praise god, father we praise you. we thank you, father for things are as good as they are. let's stand-

P-R-EY1-Z G-AA1-D F-AA1 DH-ER0 W-IY1 P-R-EY1 Z-Y-UW1 W-IY1 TH-AE1-NG K-Y-UW1 F-AA1 DH-ER0 F-AO1-R TH-IH1-NG Z-AA1 R-AE1-Z G-UH1 D-AE1-Z DH-EY1 AA1-R L-EH1-T-S-S T-AE1-N-D


don't wait till the relationship blows up-

D-AA1-N T-W-EY1-T T-IH1-L DH-AH0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P B-L-OW1 Z-AH1-P


... each and i thought of so-and-so needed to be here. i'm think-

IY1 CH-AH0-N D-AY1 TH-AO1 T-AH1-V S-OW0 D-AA1-N S-OW0 N-IY1 D-AH0-D T-UW1 B-IY1 HH-IY1 R-IH1-M TH-IH1-NG-K


... and your heart is the same way. if you don't take care of your heart, you're going to-

AH0-N D-Y-AO1-R HH-AA1-R T-IH1-Z DH-AH0 S-EY1 M-W-EY1 IH1 F-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T T-EY1-K K-EH1 R-AH1 V-Y-AO1-R HH-AA1-R T-Y-UH1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1


... here's a healthy perspective on life. you deserve to be loved-

HH-IH1-R Z-AH0 HH-EH1-L TH-IY0 P-ER0-S P-EH1-K T-IH0 V-AA1 N-L-AY1 F-Y-UW1 D-IH0 Z-ER1-V T-UW1 B-IY1 L-AH1-V-D


... you aren't sleeping with your eyes open like a few weeks ago.

Y-UW1 AA1 R-AH0-N-T S-L-IY1 P-IH0 NG-W-IH1 DH-Y-AO1 R-AY1 Z-OW1 P-AH0 N-L-AY1 K-AH0 F-Y-UW1 W-IY1-K S-AH0 G-OW1


so, but now i want to talk about extremes because-

S-OW1 B-AH1 T-N-AW1 AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1 T-IH0-K-S T-R-IY1-M-Z B-IH0 K-AO1-Z


... they're not always common, but i have to address them because if i don't, somebody might be in a relationship like this-

TH-EH1-R N-AA1 T-AO1 L-W-EY2-Z K-AA1 M-AH0-N B-AH1 T-AY1 HH-AE1-V T-UW1 AE1 D-R-EH2-S DH-EH1-M B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1 F-AY1 D-AA1-N-T S-AH1-M B-AA2 D-IY0 M-AY1-T B-IY1 IH0 N-AH0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2 P-L-AY1-K DH-IH1-S


... just depends on how much you want to grow spins on how much you want healing in your heart. it depends on how much you want your relationships.

JH-AH1-S-T D-IH0 P-EH1-N-D Z-AA1-N HH-AW1 M-AH1 CH-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 G-R-OW1-S P-IH1-N Z-AA1-N HH-AW1 M-AH1 CH-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N-T HH-IY1 L-IH0 NG-IH0 N-Y-AO1-R HH-AA1-R T-IH1-T D-IH0 P-EH1-N-D Z-AA1-N HH-AW1 M-AH1 CH-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N T-Y-AO1-R R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P-S


you don't deserve to be treated like that.

Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T D-IH0 Z-ER1-V T-UW1 B-IY1 T-R-IY1 T-AH0 D-L-AY1-K DH-AE1-T


you may like, wow. i don't know if anybody's, no there's... you'd be surprised.

Y-UW1 M-EY1 L-AY1 K-W-AW1 AY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 IH1 F-EH1 N-IY0 B-AH0 D-IY0 Z-N-OW1 DH-EH1-R Z-Y-AH1-D B-IY1 S-ER0 P-R-AY1-Z-D


there's pain in every relationship.

DH-EH1-R-Z P-EY1 N-IH0 N-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P


... yeah. there's some things but it's-

Y-AE1 DH-EH1-R-Z S-AH1-M TH-IH1-NG-Z B-AH1 T-IH1-T-S


... there's empathy. we feel for each other, we feel.

DH-EH1-R Z-EH1-M P-AH0 TH-IY0 W-IY1 F-IY1-L F-AO1 R-IY1 CH-AH1 DH-ER0 W-IY1 F-IY1-L


there has to be some freedom in the relationship.

DH-EH1-R HH-AE1-Z T-UW1 B-IY1 S-AH1-M F-R-IY1 D-AH0 M-IH0-N DH-AH0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P


sometimes people are uncomfortable with that other person having-

S-AH0-M T-AY1-M-Z P-IY1 P-AH0 L-AA1 R-AH0-N K-AH1-M F-ER0 T-AH0 B-AH0 L-W-IH1-DH DH-AE1 T-AH1 DH-ER0 P-ER1 S-AH0-N HH-AE1 V-IH0-NG


... he needed space. he needed some independence.

HH-IY1 N-IY1 D-AH0-D-S P-EY1-S HH-IY1 N-IY1 D-AH0-D S-AH1 M-IH2-N D-IH0 P-EH1-N D-AH0-N-S


... single thing that affects your happiness and quality of life more-

S-IH1-NG G-AH0-L TH-IH1-NG DH-AE1 T-AH0 F-EH1-K-T S-Y-AO1-R HH-AE1 P-IY0 N-AH0 S-AH0-N-D K-W-AA1 L-AH0 T-IY0 AH1 V-L-AY1 F-M-AO1-R


... that is looking for the perfect relationship.

DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-L-UH1 K-IH0-NG F-AO1-R DH-AH0 P-ER1 F-IH2-K T-R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P


i want it, let's talk more about it.

AY1 W-AA1-N T-IH1 T-L-EH1-T-S T-AO1 K-M-AO1 R-AH0 B-AW1 T-IH1-T


i care about that.


i want to work through that.

AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 W-ER1-K TH-R-UW1 DH-AE1-T


um stuff stay in your heart.

AH1-M-S T-AH1-F-S T-EY1 IH0 N-Y-AO1-R HH-AA1-R-T


ladies there's nothing worse that you can do than try to control your husband.

L-EY1 D-IY0-Z DH-EH1-R Z-N-AH1 TH-IH0 NG-W-ER1-S DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N D-UW1 DH-AE1-N T-R-AY1 T-UW1 K-AH0-N T-R-OW1 L-Y-AO1-R HH-AH1-Z B-AH0-N-D


... work. they never talk from their heart.

W-ER1-K DH-EY1 N-EH1 V-ER0 T-AO1-K F-R-AH1-M DH-EH1-R HH-AA1-R-T


try to get this in there.

T-R-AY1 T-UW1 G-EH1-T DH-IH1 S-IH0-N DH-EH1-R


a destructive relationship is where there's deception through lying-

AH0 D-IH0-S T-R-AH1-K T-IH0 V-R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2 P-IH1 Z-W-EH1-R DH-EH1-R-Z D-IH0 S-EH1-P SH-AH0-N TH-R-UW1 L-AY1 IH0-NG


galatians 5:15 says if you're always biting and devouring one another...

G-AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N-Z F-AY1-V F-IH0-F T-IY1-N S-EH1 Z-IH1 F-Y-UW1 AA1 R-AO1 L-W-EY2-Z B-AY1 T-IH0 NG-AH0-N-D D-IH0 V-AW1 ER0 IH0 NG-W-AH1 N-AH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0


resort, you want to know that you have worked through, you've done whatever you can to save your marriage...

R-IH0 Z-AO1-R T-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 N-OW1 DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 HH-AE1 V-W-ER1-K-T TH-R-UW1 Y-UW1-V D-AH1 N-W-AH2 T-EH1 V-ER0 Y-UW1 K-AE1-N T-UW1 S-EY1 V-Y-AO1-R M-EH1 R-IH0-JH


because destructive relationships are two... are thought patterns, they're...

B-IH0 K-AO1-Z D-IH0-S T-R-AH1-K T-IH0 V-R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P S-AA1-R T-UW1 AA1-R TH-AO1-T P-AE1 T-ER0-N-Z TH-EH1-R


i'm going to tell you about, in a little bit and i'm going to encourage you to get it and read it.

IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 T-EH1 L-Y-UW1 AH0 B-AW1 T-IH0 N-AH0 L-IH1 T-AH0-L B-IH1 T-AH0-N D-IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 EH0-N K-ER1 IH0 JH-Y-UW1 T-UW1 G-EH1 T-IH1 T-AH0-N D-R-EH1 D-IH1-T


it's always your fault...


the way you talk to me in front of the kids and way you talk to me in front of our family...

DH-AH0 W-EY1 Y-UW1 T-AO1-K T-UW1 M-IY1 IH0-N F-R-AH1-N T-AH1-V DH-AH0 K-IH1-D Z-AH0-N D-W-EY1 Y-UW1 T-AO1-K T-UW1 M-IY1 IH0-N F-R-AH1-N T-AH1 V-AW1 ER0 F-AE1 M-AH0 L-IY0


and you need to be able to say things...

AH0-N D-Y-UW1 N-IY1-D T-UW1 B-IY1 EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1 S-EY1 TH-IH1-NG-Z


...got to be able to talk.

G-AA1-T T-UW1 B-IY1 EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1 T-AO1-K


...failing because he's angry. probably a little of both.

F-EY1 L-IH0-NG B-IH0 K-AO1-Z HH-IY1 Z-AE1-NG G-R-IY0 P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 AH0 L-IH1 T-AH0 L-AH1-V B-OW1-TH


i realized there's some relationships that there's destructive stuff that...

AY1 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z-D DH-EH1-R-Z S-AH1 M-R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P-S DH-AE1-T DH-EH1-R-Z D-IH0-S T-R-AH1-K T-IH0-V-S T-AH1-F DH-AE1-T


you know? because god cares about how you're being treated...

Y-UW1 N-OW1 B-IH0 K-AO1-Z G-AA1-D K-EH1-R Z-AH0 B-AW1-T HH-AW1 Y-UH1-R B-IY1 IH0-NG T-R-IY1 T-AH0-D


he cares about it and he wants to help...

HH-IY1 K-EH1-R Z-AH0 B-AW1 T-IH1 T-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1 HH-EH1-L-P


but i just can't allow you to treat me this way anymore...

B-AH1 T-AY1 JH-AH1-S-T K-AE1-N T-AH0 L-AW1 Y-UW1 T-UW1 T-R-IY1 T-M-IY1 DH-IH1 S-W-EY1 EH2 N-IY0 M-AO1-R


boundaries in relationships. it's by henry cloud.

B-AW1-N D-ER0 IY0 Z-IH0 N-R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P S-IH1-T-S B-AY1 HH-EH1 N-R-IY0 K-L-AW1-D


let me just tell you this...

L-EH1 T-M-IY1 JH-AH1-S-T T-EH1 L-Y-UW1 DH-IH1-S


everything's going to be all right...

EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2-NG-Z G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 AO1-L R-AY1-T


he'll answer your questions. he'll make a just...

HH-EH1 L-AE1-N S-ER0 Y-AO1-R K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0-N-Z HH-EH1-L M-EY1 K-AH0 JH-AH1-S-T


what can you do in your life?..

W-AH1-T K-AE1 N-Y-UW1 D-UW1 IH0 N-Y-AO1-R L-AY1-F


this scripture implies a process...

DH-IH1-S-S K-R-IH1-P CH-ER0 IH0-M P-L-AY1 Z-AH0 P-R-AA1 S-EH2-S


how he processes life like a...

HH-AW1 HH-IY1 P-R-AA1 S-EH0 S-AH0 Z-L-AY1 F-L-AY1 K-AH0


how do i reconcile these things? i'm saved and i should know better than these things. and if i told people these things, they really wouldn't love...

HH-AW1 D-UW1 AY1 R-EH1 K-AH0-N S-AY2-L DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG Z-IH1-M S-EY1-V D-AH0-N D-AY1 SH-UH1 D-N-OW1 B-EH1 T-ER0 DH-AE1-N DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG Z-AH0-N D-IH1 F-AY1 T-OW1-L-D P-IY1 P-AH0-L DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-EY1 R-IH1 L-IY0 W-UH1 D-L-AH0-N T-L-AH1-V


you'll be depressed. you'll be discouraged...

Y-UW1-L B-IY1 D-IH0 P-R-EH1-S T-Y-UW1-L B-IY1 D-IH0-S K-ER1 AH0-JH-D


so, we have thinking patterns...

S-OW1 W-IY1 HH-AE1-V TH-IH1-NG K-IH0-NG P-AE1 T-ER0-N-Z


i know guys have no concept of that...

AY1 N-OW1 G-AY1-Z HH-AE1 V-N-OW1 K-AA1-N S-EH0-P T-AH1-V DH-AE1-T


but see that's that voice inside of you...

B-AH1-T S-IY1 TH-AE1-T-S DH-AE1-T V-OY1 S-IH0-N S-AY1 D-AH1 V-Y-UW1


without uttering one word from our mouth...

W-IH0 TH-AW1 T-AH1 T-ER0 IH0 NG-W-AH1 N-W-ER1-D F-R-AH1 M-AW1 ER0 M-AW1-DH


your self hatred can increase...

Y-AO1-R S-EH1-L-F HH-EY1 T-R-AH0-D K-AE1 N-IH2-N K-R-IY1-S


from that place you can say things like there's no way god can forgive me because of all i've done...

F-R-AH1-M DH-AE1-T P-L-EY1 S-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N S-EY1 TH-IH1-NG Z-L-AY1-K DH-EH1-R Z-N-OW1 W-EY1 G-AA1-D K-AE1-N F-ER0 G-IH1 V-M-IY1 B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AH1 V-AO1 L-AY1-V D-AH1-N


as part of my punishment. if you knew what i was guilty of, you would probably agree...

AE1-Z P-AA1-R T-AH1 V-M-AY1 P-AH1 N-IH0 SH-M-AH0-N T-IH1 F-Y-UW1 N-UW1 W-AH1 T-AY1 W-AA1-Z G-IH1-L T-IY0 AH1 V-Y-UW1 W-UH1-D P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 AH0 G-R-IY1


and i'm sure you don't realize sometimes what you do...

AH0-N D-IH1-M SH-UH1 R-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-R-IY1 L-AY2-Z S-AH0-M T-AY1-M Z-W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 D-UW1


because if you stuff that you just going to hate her...

B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1 F-Y-UW1-S T-AH1-F DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 JH-AH1-S-T G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 HH-EY1-T HH-ER0


but i, this is what i get to speak on tonight...

B-AH1 T-AY1 DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-W-AH1 T-AY1 G-EH1-T T-UW1-S P-IY1 K-AA1-N T-AH0 N-AY1-T


and what happens? you start living a lie and you stay in your pain...

AH0-N D-W-AH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N Z-Y-UW1-S T-AA1-R T-L-IH1 V-IH0 NG-AH0 L-AY1 AH0-N D-Y-UW1-S T-EY1 IH0 N-Y-AO1-R P-EY1-N


amen.amen.i come to declare the truth to you tonight.yeah.

AE2 M-EH0 N-AH0 N-EH1 M-IY0 K-AH1-M T-UW1 D-IH0 K-L-EH1-R DH-AH0 T-R-UW1-TH T-UW1 Y-UW1 T-OY1 N-AY2 T-W-IY0 AH0


hopeful and see that's what he's going to do.

HH-OW1-P F-AH0 L-AH0-N-D S-IY1 TH-AE1-T S-W-AH1-T HH-IY1-Z G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 D-UW1


...night. you don't have to know everything about your life and how it's all going to work out...

N-AY1 T-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T HH-AE1-V T-UW1 N-OW1 EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2 NG-AH0 B-AW1 T-Y-AO1-R L-AY1 F-AH0-N-D HH-AW1 IH1-T S-AO1-L G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 W-ER1 K-AW1-T


god has come near to you and right now...

G-AA1-D HH-AE1-Z K-AH1-M N-IH1-R T-UW1 Y-UW1 AH0-N D-R-AY1 T-N-AW1


you go how do you know all that? because it's in the bible...

Y-UW1 G-OW1 HH-AW1 D-UW1 Y-UW1 N-OW1 AO1-L DH-AE1-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1-T S-IH0-N DH-AH0 B-AY1 B-AH0-L


he wants to interrupt some things tonight.yes.

HH-IY1 W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1 IH2-N T-ER0 AH1-P-T S-AH1-M TH-IH1-NG-Z T-OW1 N-AY2-T-S


and he cares about you.amen.

AH0-N-D HH-IY1 K-EH1-R Z-AH0 B-AW1 T-Y-AW1 M-AH0-N


god called david a man after his own heart.

G-AA1-D K-AO1-L-D D-EY1 V-IH0 D-AH0 M-AE1 N-AE1-F T-ER0 HH-IH1 Z-OW1-N HH-AA1-R-T


we can't just read our bibles and come to church.

W-IY1 K-AE1-N-T JH-AH1-S T-R-EH1 D-AW1 ER0 B-AY1 B-AH0-L Z-AH0-N-D K-AH1-M T-UW1 CH-ER1-CH


when he died on that cross and he said...

W-EH1-N HH-IY1 D-AY1 D-AA1-N DH-AE1-T K-R-AO1 S-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 S-EH1-D


so right here if you want what david had you got to do what david did.

S-OW1 R-AY1-T HH-IY1 R-IH1 F-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N T-W-AH1-T D-EY1 V-IH0-D HH-AE1 D-Y-UW1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 D-UW1 W-AH1-T D-EY1 V-IH0-D D-IH1-D


grace gives you power to live before god.right.

G-R-EY1-S G-IH1-V Z-Y-UW1 P-AW1 ER0 T-UW1 L-AY1-V B-IH0 F-AO1-R G-AA1 D-R-AY2-T


and then he says it again...

AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N HH-IY1 S-EH1 Z-IH1 T-AH0 G-EH1-N


he knew he could be real.

HH-IY1 N-UW1 HH-IY1 K-UH1-D B-IY1 R-IY1-L


you don't need to hide the pain in your heart.

Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-N-IY1-D T-UW1 HH-AY1-D DH-AH0 P-EY1 N-IH0 N-Y-AO1-R HH-AA1-R-T


you don't need to hide...


david knew, they talk about pain...

D-EY1 V-IH0 D-N-UW1 DH-EY1 T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1-T P-EY1-N


he learned to commune with god.

HH-IY1 L-ER1 N-IH0-D T-UW1 K-AH0 M-Y-UW1 N-W-IH1-DH G-AA1-D


now, because if you'll just be honest with him...

N-AW1 B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1 F-Y-UW1-L JH-AH1-S-T B-IY1 AA1 N-AH0-S T-W-IH1-DH HH-IH1-M


but i need to talk to you about some things. he goes, i know...

B-AH1 T-AY1 N-IY1-D T-UW1 T-AO1-K T-UW1 Y-UW1 AH0 B-AW1-T S-AH1-M TH-IH1-NG-Z HH-IY1 G-OW1 Z-AY1 N-OW1


let's just walk as we do.

L-EH1-T-S JH-AH1-S T-W-AO1 K-AE1 Z-W-IY1 D-UW1


some of those people over there, they...

S-AH1 M-AH1-V DH-OW1-Z P-IY1 P-AH0 L-OW1 V-ER0 DH-EH1-R DH-EY1


he may say ask margie today was one of the best days...

HH-IY1 M-EY1 S-EY1 AE1-S K-M-AA1-R JH-IY0 T-AH0 D-EY1 W-AA1 Z-W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 B-EH1-S-T D-EY1-Z


and i'm sorry we live in a broken world. a lot of...

AH0-N D-IH1-M S-AA1 R-IY0 W-IY1 L-AY1 V-IH0 N-AH0 B-R-OW1 K-AH0 N-W-ER1-L D-AH0 L-AA1 T-AH1-V


because that's that other voice...

B-IH0 K-AO1-Z TH-AE1-T-S DH-AE1 T-AH1 DH-ER0 V-OY1-S


can i have a new start? you can have a new start.

K-AE1 N-AY1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 N-UW1-S T-AA1-R T-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N HH-AE1 V-AH0 N-UW1-S T-AA1-R-T


how many of you want all your dreams to happen?

HH-AW1 M-EH1 N-IY0 AH1 V-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N T-AO1 L-Y-AO1-R D-R-IY1-M-Z T-UW1 HH-AE1 P-AH0-N


because i know my own heart...

B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AY1 N-OW1 M-AY1 OW1-N HH-AA1-R-T


but it's the same presence of god that is here...

B-AH1 T-IH1-T-S DH-AH0 S-EY1-M P-R-EH1 Z-AH0-N S-AH1-V G-AA1-D DH-AE1 T-IH1-Z HH-IY1-R


whether you're watching on your iphone, your ipad, your laptop.

W-EH1 DH-ER0 Y-UH1 R-W-AA1 CH-IH0 NG-AA1 N-Y-AO1 R-IH1 F-OW0 N-Y-AO1 R-IH0 P-AA1 D-Y-AO1-R L-AE1-P T-AA2-P


give me a break, i've got a handheld to deal with now.

G-IH1 V-M-IY1 AH0 B-R-EY1 K-AY1-V G-AA1 T-AH0 HH-AE1-N-D HH-EH1-L-D T-UW1 D-IY1 L-W-IH1 DH-N-AW1


trust is earned.amen.


forgiveness is free and trust...

F-ER0 G-IH1 V-N-AH0 S-IH1-Z F-R-IY1 AH0-N-D T-R-AH1-S-T


think people should earn forgiveness. well, you don't earn...

TH-IH1-NG-K P-IY1 P-AH0-L SH-UH1 D-ER1-N F-ER0 G-IH1 V-N-AH0 S-W-EH1 L-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-ER1-N


there's situations in here and i know...

DH-EH1-R-Z S-IH2 CH-UW0 EY1 SH-AH0-N Z-IH0-N HH-IY1 R-AH0-N D-AY1 N-OW1


so, that god can touch your heart.

S-OW1 DH-AE1-T G-AA1-D K-AE1-N T-AH1 CH-Y-AO1-R HH-AA1-R-T


and all this is up here...

AH0-N D-AO1-L DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-AH1-P HH-IY1-R


is he knew you'd think of that, he's just so good. he's given us the place of honor and yet he's god.

IH1-Z HH-IY1 N-UW1 Y-AH1-D TH-IH1-NG K-AH1-V DH-AE1-T HH-IY1-Z JH-AH1-S-T S-OW1 G-UH1-D HH-IY1-Z G-IH1 V-AH0 N-AH1-S DH-AH0 P-L-EY1 S-AH1 V-AA1 N-ER0 AH0-N D-Y-EH1-T HH-IY1-Z G-AA1-D


trust can not be restored by only one person in the relationship.

T-R-AH1-S-T K-AE1-N N-AA1-T B-IY1 R-IH0-S T-AO1-R-D B-AY1 OW1 N-L-IY0 W-AH1-N P-ER1 S-AH0 N-IH0-N DH-AH0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P


don't ever let someone that's violated you say well if you...

D-AA1-N T-EH1 V-ER0 L-EH1-T S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N TH-AE1-T-S V-AY1 AH0 L-EY0 T-IH0 D-Y-UW1 S-EY1 W-EH1 L-IH1 F-Y-UW1


blame, we forgive because a wrong was committed.

B-L-EY1 M-W-IY1 F-ER0 G-IH1-V B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AH0 R-AO1 NG-W-AA1-Z K-AH0 M-IH1 T-AH0-D


have wrong filters up and they're treating people in their present life as though those people have done what past people...

HH-AE1 V-R-AO1-NG F-IH1-L T-ER0 Z-AH1 P-AH0-N-D TH-EH1-R T-R-IY1 T-IH0-NG P-IY1 P-AH0 L-IH0-N DH-EH1-R P-R-EH1 Z-AH0-N T-L-AY1 F-AE1-Z DH-OW1 DH-OW1-Z P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-AE1-V D-AH1 N-W-AH1-T P-AE1-S-T P-IY1 P-AH0-L


...did, when in reality you're...

D-IH1 D-W-EH1 N-IH0 N-R-IY0 AE1 L-AH0 T-IY0 Y-UH1-R


and they don't always care. or sometimes they don't think of the consequences.

AH0-N-D DH-EY1 D-AA1-N T-AO1 L-W-EY2-Z K-EH1 R-AO1-R S-AH0-M T-AY1-M-Z DH-EY1 D-AA1-N-T TH-IH1-NG K-AH1-V DH-AH0 K-AA1-N S-AH0 K-W-EH2-N S-AH0-Z


maybe your business partner cheated you out of money.

M-EY1 B-IY0 Y-AO1-R B-IH1 Z-N-AH0-S P-AA1-R T-N-ER0 CH-IY1 T-AH0 D-Y-UW1 AW1 T-AH1 V-M-AH1 N-IY0


it gets to a road and it does affect the trust level between you. not the same...

IH1-T G-EH1-T-S T-UW1 AH0 R-OW1 D-AH0-N D-IH1-T D-AH1 Z-AH0 F-EH1-K-T DH-AH0 T-R-AH1-S T-L-EH1 V-AH0-L B-IH0 T-W-IY1 N-Y-UW1 N-AA1-T DH-AH0 S-EY1-M


you feel hurt.


i want you to actively feel in your heart like you're going to bring this to god.

AY1 W-AA1-N T-Y-UW1 T-UW1 AE1-K T-IH0 V-L-IY0 F-IY1 L-IH0 N-Y-AO1-R HH-AA1-R T-L-AY1 K-Y-UH1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-R-IH1-NG DH-IH1-S T-UW1 G-AA1-D


but you don't trust nobody and you know when i'm talking the holy spirit is telling you because you haven't forgiven.

B-AH1 T-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T T-R-AH1-S T-N-OW1 B-AA2 D-IY2 AH0-N D-Y-UW1 N-OW1 W-EH1 N-IH1-M T-AO1 K-IH0-NG DH-AH0 HH-OW1 L-IY0-S P-IH1 R-AH0 T-IH1-Z T-EH1 L-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-Y-UW1 HH-AE1 V-AH0-N-T F-ER0 G-IH1 V-AH0-N


that would be like isolating yourself and locking yourself up the rest of your life so you don't have any. but you'd probably get offended with yourself.

DH-AE1 T-W-UH1-D B-IY1 L-AY1 K-AY1 S-AH0 L-EY2 T-IH0 NG-Y-ER0 S-EH1-L F-AH0-N D-L-AA1 K-IH0 NG-Y-ER0 S-EH1-L F-AH1-P DH-AH0 R-EH1-S T-AH1 V-Y-AO1-R L-AY1-F S-OW1 Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T HH-AE1 V-EH1 N-IY0 B-AH1 T-Y-AH1-D P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 G-EH1 T-AH0 F-EH1-N D-AH0 D-W-IH1 DH-Y-ER0 S-EH1-L-F


i mean if you want god to use you more and promote you and give you a new level a new devil.

AY1 M-IY1 N-IH1 F-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N-T G-AA1-D T-UW1 Y-UW1 Z-Y-UW1 M-AO1 R-AH0-N-D P-R-AH0 M-OW1 T-Y-UW1 AH0-N-D G-IH1 V-Y-UW1 AH0 N-UW1 L-EH1 V-AH0 L-AH0 N-UW1 D-EH1 V-AH0-L


i mean you got to mature, and you got to grow up.

AY1 M-IY1 N-Y-UW1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 M-AH0 CH-UH1 R-AH0-N D-Y-UW1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 G-R-OW1 AH1-P


i'm going to grow. i'm going to quit acting.

IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 G-R-OW1 IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 K-W-IH1 T-AE1-K T-IH0-NG


you don't know what to do...

Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 W-AH1-T T-UW1 D-UW1


this takes two...


the most important first step...

DH-AH0 M-OW1-S T-IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N-T F-ER1-S-T-S T-EH1-P


no one except god can heal a broken heart.

N-OW1 W-AH1 N-IH0-K S-EH1-P-T G-AA1-D K-AE1-N HH-IY1 L-AH0 B-R-OW1 K-AH0-N HH-AA1-R-T


and like i said a moment ago, earlier. i said don't over spiritualize situations that ain't god's...

AH0-N D-L-AY1 K-AY1 S-EH1 D-AH0 M-OW1 M-AH0-N T-AH0 G-OW1 ER1 L-IY0 ER0 AY1 S-EH1-D D-AA1-N T-OW1 V-ER0-S P-IH2 R-IH0 CH-AH0 W-AA1 L-AH0 S-IY0 S-IH2 CH-UW0 EY1 SH-AH0-N-Z DH-AE1 T-EY1-N-T G-AA1-D-Z


i can love you and forgive you...

AY1 K-AE1 N-L-AH1 V-Y-UW1 AH0-N-D F-ER0 G-IH1 V-Y-UW1


and be defensive. they won't take any responsibility.

AH0-N-D B-IY1 D-IH0 F-EH1-N S-IH0-V DH-EY1 W-OW1-N-T T-EY1 K-EH1 N-IY0 R-IY0-S P-AA2-N S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0


if you want the relationship restored.

IH1 F-Y-UW1 W-AA1-N-T DH-AH0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2 P-R-IH0-S T-AO1-R-D


and like i said earlier, if it's a continued pattern it may...

AH0-N D-L-AY1 K-AY1 S-EH1 D-ER1 L-IY0 ER0 IH1 F-IH1-T S-AH0 K-AH0-N T-IH1 N-Y-UW0-D P-AE1 T-ER0 N-IH1 T-M-EY1


you're so valuable to me.

Y-UH1-R S-OW1 V-AE1 L-Y-AH0 B-AH0-L T-UW1 M-IY1


it has nothing to do with what you don't do for me.

IH1-T HH-AE1 Z-N-AH1 TH-IH0-NG T-UW1 D-UW1 W-IH1 DH-W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T D-UW1 F-AO1-R M-IY1


i gave everything i had...

AY1 G-EY1 V-EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2 NG-AY1 HH-AE1-D


you might give something that's a value to you.

Y-UW1 M-AY1-T G-IH1-V S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG TH-AE1-T S-AH0 V-AE1 L-Y-UW0 T-UW1 Y-UW1


i remember this guy that i was dating and i really like him a lot, he was...

AY1 R-IH0 M-EH1-M B-ER0 DH-IH1-S G-AY1 DH-AE1 T-AY1 W-AA1-Z D-EY1 T-IH0 NG-AH0-N D-AY1 R-IH1 L-IY0 L-AY1-K HH-IH1 M-AH0 L-AA1-T HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z


and that's important.

AH0-N-D TH-AE1-T S-IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N-T


god respects us.


it's nice when people accept us and approve of us.

IH1-T S-N-AY1 S-W-EH1-N P-IY1 P-AH0 L-AE0-K S-EH1-P T-AH1 S-AH0-N D-AH0 P-R-UW1 V-AH1 V-AH1-S


because at some point you got to follow your heart and you got to be who god has created you to be...

B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AE1-T S-AH1-M P-OY1-N T-Y-UW1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 F-AA1 L-OW0 Y-AO1-R HH-AA1-R T-AH0-N D-Y-UW1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 B-IY1 HH-UW1 G-AA1-D HH-AE1-Z K-R-IY0 EY1 T-AH0 D-Y-UW1 T-UW1 B-IY1


why you did this. so, i can understand why...

W-AY1 Y-UW1 D-IH1-D DH-IH1-S S-OW1 AY1 K-AE1 N-AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N D-W-AY1


that means what we experience, that pain we go through...

DH-AE1 T-M-IY1-N Z-W-AH1 T-W-IY1 IH0-K-S P-IH1 R-IY0 AH0-N-S DH-AE1-T P-EY1 N-W-IY1 G-OW1 TH-R-UW1


emotional there. then the third thing is you need to be patient. when you're working through something with somebody and gods healing the...

IH0 M-OW1 SH-AH0 N-AH0-L DH-EH1-R DH-EH1-N DH-AH0 TH-ER1-D TH-IH1 NG-IH1 Z-Y-UW1 N-IY1-D T-UW1 B-IY1 P-EY1 SH-AH0-N T-W-EH1 N-Y-UH1 R-W-ER1 K-IH0-NG TH-R-UW1 S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-W-IH1-DH S-AH1-M B-AA2 D-IY0 AH0-N-D G-AA1-D-Z HH-IY1 L-IH0-NG DH-AH0


but the one thing i would ask you, this would mean a lot to me...

B-AH1-T DH-AH0 W-AH1-N TH-IH1 NG-AY1 W-UH1 D-AE1-S K-Y-UW1 DH-IH1 S-W-UH1 D-M-IY1 N-AH0 L-AA1-T T-UW1 M-IY1


depends on you and i would pray for you but i know god is...

D-IH0 P-EH1-N-D Z-AA1 N-Y-UW1 AH0-N D-AY1 W-UH1-D P-R-EY1 F-AO1 R-Y-UW1 B-AH1 T-AY1 N-OW1 G-AA1 D-IH1-Z


and in our relationships where we can truly love.

AH0-N D-IH0 N-AW1 ER0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P S-W-EH1 R-W-IY1 K-AE1-N T-R-UW1 L-IY0 L-AH1-V


they need to be better.


don't feel the love you once felt...

D-AA1-N-T F-IY1-L DH-AH0 L-AH1 V-Y-UW1 W-AH1-N-S F-EH1-L-T


you know, every human heart...

Y-UW1 N-OW1 EH1 V-ER0 IY0 HH-Y-UW1 M-AH0-N HH-AA1-R-T


and the more we understand god's love for us and we start to believe that...

AH0-N-D DH-AH0 M-AO1 R-W-IY1 AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D G-AA1-D Z-L-AH1-V F-AO1 R-AH1 S-AH0-N D-W-IY1-S T-AA1-R-T T-UW1 B-IH0 L-IY1-V DH-AE1-T


and so tonight i want to start off by reminding you that you're not looking for love is jesus...

AH0-N-D S-OW1 T-AH0 N-AY1 T-AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1-S T-AA1-R T-AO1-F B-AY1 R-IY0 M-AY1-N D-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 DH-AE1 T-Y-UH1-R N-AA1 T-L-UH1 K-IH0-NG F-AO1-R L-AH1 V-IH1-Z JH-IY1 Z-AH0-S


...much, that he gave everything he had.

M-AH1-CH DH-AE1-T HH-IY1 G-EY1 V-EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2-NG HH-IY1 HH-AE1-D


okay, a few of you.


some people sleep with their eyes open, so i can't tell if you're actually asleep.

S-AH1-M P-IY1 P-AH0-L S-L-IY1 P-W-IH1-DH DH-EH1 R-AY1 Z-OW1 P-AH0-N S-OW1 AY1 K-AE1-N-T T-EH1 L-IH1 F-Y-UH1 R-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 AH0 S-L-IY1-P


it's unconditional. it never goes away, it never abandons you. there's no agenda to it. it just...

IH1-T S-AH2-N K-AH0-N D-IH1 SH-AH0 N-AH0 L-IH1 T-N-EH1 V-ER0 G-OW1 Z-AH0 W-EY1 IH1 T-N-EH1 V-ER0 AH0 B-AE1-N D-AH0-N Z-Y-UW1 DH-EH1-R Z-N-OW1 AH0 JH-EH1-N D-AH0 T-UW1 IH1 T-IH1-T JH-AH1-S-T


you'll never meet anyone like him. you'll...

Y-UW1-L N-EH1 V-ER0 M-IY1 T-EH1 N-IY0 W-AH2 N-L-AY1-K HH-IH1 M-Y-UW1-L


don't ever bring a human being down on his level.

D-AA1-N T-EH1 V-ER0 B-R-IH1 NG-AH0 HH-Y-UW1 M-AH0-N B-IY1 IH0-NG D-AW1 N-AA1-N HH-IH1 Z-L-EH1 V-AH0-L


how to forgive, how to have good relationships.

HH-AW1 T-UW1 F-ER0 G-IH1-V HH-AW1 T-UW1 HH-AE1-V G-UH1 D-R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P-S


did you hear me? you can never be fulfilled and be happy.

D-IH1 D-Y-UW1 HH-IY1-R M-IY1 Y-UW1 K-AE1-N N-EH1 V-ER0 B-IY1 F-UH0-L F-IH1-L D-AH0-N-D B-IY1 HH-AE1 P-IY0


more than i would like to say.

M-AO1-R DH-AE1 N-AY1 W-UH1 D-L-AY1-K T-UW1 S-EY1


i wish i had better relationships.

AY1 W-IH1 SH-AY1 HH-AE1-D B-EH1 T-ER0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P-S


i wish i'd have spent more time with my kids.

AY1 W-IH1 SH-IH1-D HH-AE1-V-S P-EH1-N T-M-AO1-R T-AY1 M-W-IH1 DH-M-AY1 K-IH1-D-Z


because, let me emphasize this, life is not about you.

B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-L-EH1 T-M-IY1 EH1-M F-AH0 S-AY2-Z DH-IH1 S-L-AY1 F-IH1 Z-N-AA1 T-AH0 B-AW1 T-Y-UW1


... and you're isolated.


not if i'm loving with his love. you can't keep me from loving you.

N-AA1 T-IH1 F-IH1 M-L-AH1 V-IH0 NG-W-IH1-DH HH-IH1 Z-L-AH1 V-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N-T K-IY1 P-M-IY1 F-R-AH1 M-L-AH1 V-IH0 NG-Y-UW1


no matter what you've done?

N-OW1 M-AE1 T-ER0 W-AH1 T-Y-UW1-V D-AH1-N


no, he's not a doormat. stay with me.

N-OW1 HH-IY1 Z-N-AA1 T-AH0 D-AO1-R M-AE2-T-S T-EY1 W-IH1 DH-M-IY1


happened to us. what do we do the things that people-

HH-AE1 P-AH0-N-D T-UW1 AH1 S-W-AH1-T D-UW1 W-IY1 D-UW1 DH-AH0 TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1-T P-IY1 P-AH0-L


... with no strings attached, no agenda, no strings attached?

W-IH1 DH-N-OW1-S T-R-IH1-NG Z-AH0 T-AE1-CH T-N-OW1 AH0 JH-EH1-N D-AH0 N-OW1-S T-R-IH1-NG Z-AH0 T-AE1-CH-T


he's forgot about it.

HH-IY1-Z F-ER0 G-AA1 T-AH0 B-AW1 T-IH1-T


he's trying to help your heart.

HH-IY1-Z T-R-AY1 IH0-NG T-UW1 HH-EH1-L P-Y-AO1-R HH-AA1-R-T


and you know what? i don't want you to think that god doesn't care.

AH0-N D-Y-UW1 N-OW1 W-AH1 T-AY1 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N T-Y-UW1 T-UW1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-AE1-T G-AA1-D D-OW1 S-AH0-N-T K-EH1-R


ain't that good?


somebody sent me something today.

S-AH1-M B-AA2 D-IY0 S-EH1-N T-M-IY1 S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG T-AH0 D-EY1


catherine's father said, "we asked the court to give the maximum allowable grace-

K-AE1 TH-R-IH0-N-Z F-AA1 DH-ER0 S-EH1 D-W-IY1 AE1-S-K-T DH-AH0 K-AO1-R-T T-UW1 G-IH1-V DH-AH0 M-AE1-K S-AH0 M-AH0 M-AH0 L-AW1 AH0 B-AH0-L G-R-EY1-S


... but there may be broken trust."

B-AH1-T DH-EH1-R M-EY1 B-IY1 B-R-OW1 K-AH0-N T-R-AH1-S-T


i want to talk through it.

AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 T-AO1-K TH-R-UW1 IH1-T


you can't whisper, you got to talk loud.

Y-UW1 K-AE1-N T-W-IH1-S P-ER0 Y-UW1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 T-AO1 K-L-AW1-D


or that you might not like-

AO1-R DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 M-AY1 T-N-AA1 T-L-AY1-K


... to give you a little backdrop. if you've never heard me preach, you don't know the backdrop of my life, but i was adopted.

T-UW1 G-IH1 V-Y-UW1 AH0 L-IH1 T-AH0-L B-AE1-K D-R-AA2 P-IH1 F-Y-UW1 V-N-EH1 V-ER0 HH-ER1 D-M-IY1 P-R-IY1 CH-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 DH-AH0 B-AE1-K D-R-AA2 P-AH1 V-M-AY1 L-AY1-F B-AH1 T-AY1 W-AA1 Z-AH0 D-AA1-P T-AH0-D


i mean sometimes to have a better relationship-

AY1 M-IY1-N S-AH0-M T-AY1-M-Z T-UW1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 B-EH1 T-ER0 R-IY0 L-EY1 SH-AH0-N SH-IH2-P


... like, oh my gosh, the phone rang forever.

L-AY1 K-OW1 M-AY1 G-AA1-SH DH-AH0 F-OW1 N-R-AE1-NG F-ER0 EH1 V-ER0


because i felt alone.


imagine a baby loses their mother.

IH0 M-AE1 JH-AH0 N-AH0 B-EY1 B-IY0 L-UW1 Z-AH0-Z DH-EH1-R M-AH1 DH-ER0


and i realized, see, this is what love does. when somebody's hurt you this is-

AH0-N D-AY1 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z-D S-IY1 DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-W-AH1 T-L-AH1-V D-AH1 Z-W-EH1-N S-AH1-M B-AA2 D-IY0-Z HH-ER1 T-Y-UW1 DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z


that's why she was called indistant.

TH-AE1-T S-W-AY1 SH-IY1 W-AA1-Z K-AO1-L D-IH1-N D-IH0-S T-AH0-N-T


and before she died, she gave me permission to share this story.

AH0-N-D B-IH0 F-AO1-R SH-IY1 D-AY1-D SH-IY1 G-EY1 V-M-IY1 P-ER0 M-IH1 SH-AH0-N T-UW1 SH-EH1-R DH-IH1-S-S T-AO1 R-IY0


guess what i did today. i thought she might bake the pie or something.

G-EH1 S-W-AH1 T-AY1 D-IH1-D T-AH0 D-EY1 AY1 TH-AO1-T SH-IY1 M-AY1-T B-EY1-K DH-AH0 P-AY1 AO1-R S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG


and my mother called all her children.

AH0-N D-M-AY1 M-AH1 DH-ER0 K-AO1-L D-AO1-L HH-ER0 CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0-N


he says, what was done? let it go.

HH-IY1 S-EH1 Z-W-AH1 T-W-AA1-Z D-AH1 N-L-EH1 T-IH1-T G-OW1


you know what people mostly do? they just react to each other.

Y-UW1 N-OW1 W-AH1-T P-IY1 P-AH0-L M-OW1-S T-L-IY0 D-UW1 DH-EY1 JH-AH1-S T-R-IY0 AE1-K-T T-UW1 IY1 CH-AH1 DH-ER0


and they don't talk. they talk around each other.

AH0-N-D DH-EY1 D-AA1-N-T T-AO1-K DH-EY1 T-AO1 K-ER0 AW1-N D-IY1 CH-AH1 DH-ER0


and if it's about just being right-

AH0-N D-IH1 F-IH1-T S-AH0 B-AW1-T JH-AH1-S-T B-IY1 IH0 NG-R-AY1-T


... god has a beautiful future for you.

G-AA1-D HH-AE1 Z-AH0 B-Y-UW1 T-AH0 F-AH0-L F-Y-UW1 CH-ER0 F-AO1 R-Y-UW1


because you know what?


you got to stop some of this petty stuff.

Y-UW1 G-AA1-T T-UW1-S T-AA1-P S-AH1 M-AH1-V DH-IH1-S P-EH1 T-IY0-S T-AH1-F


you got to let go of some of these lower things, petty things.

Y-UW1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 L-EH1-T G-OW1 AH1-V S-AH1 M-AH1-V DH-IY1 Z-L-OW1 ER0 TH-IH1-NG-Z P-EH1 T-IY0 TH-IH1-NG-Z


like i haven't been in a long time-

L-AY1 K-AY1 HH-AE1 V-AH0-N-T B-IH1 N-IH0 N-AH0 L-AO1-NG T-AY1-M


... and i want to drag everyone into my bonfire.

AH0-N D-AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 D-R-AE1 G-EH1 V-R-IY0 W-AH2 N-IH0-N T-UW1 M-AY1 B-AA1-N F-AY2 ER0


as it's a wonderful place to be.

AE1 Z-IH1-T S-AH0 W-AH1-N D-ER0 F-AH0-L P-L-EY1-S T-UW1 B-IY1


but who do you say i am?

B-AH1-T HH-UW1 D-UW1 Y-UW1 S-EY1 AY1 AE1-M


on this rock of what? of revelation of who jesus christ really is.amen.

AA1-N DH-IH1 S-R-AA1 K-AH1 V-W-AH1 T-AH1 V-R-EH2 V-AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH1-V HH-UW1 JH-IY1 Z-AH0-S K-R-AY1-S T-R-IH1 L-IY0 IH1 Z-AH0 M-EH0-N


and the church that is built on the rock of the revelation of who jesus christ is, the gates of hell cannot prevail against it.amen.amen.amen.

AH0-N-D DH-AH0 CH-ER1-CH DH-AE1 T-IH1-Z B-IH1-L T-AA1-N DH-AH0 R-AA1 K-AH1-V DH-AH0 R-EH2 V-AH0 L-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH1-V HH-UW1 JH-IY1 Z-AH0-S K-R-AY1-S T-IH1-Z DH-AH0 G-EY1-T S-AH1-V HH-EH1-L K-AE1 N-AA0-T P-R-IH0 V-EY1 L-AH0 G-EH1-N-S T-IH2 T-AH0 M-AH0 N-EH1 M-AH0 N-AH0-N


the apostle paul wrote this.

DH-AH0 AH0 P-AA1 S-AH0-L P-AO1-L R-OW1-T DH-IH1-S


but, i didn't cooperate very much with jesus's building program till i was about 29. but when i was about 29 years old-

B-AH1 T-AY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T K-OW0 AA1 P-ER0 EY2-T V-EH1 R-IY0 M-AH1 CH-W-IH1-DH JH-EH1 S-AH0 S-IH0-S B-IH1-L D-IH0-NG P-R-OW1 G-R-AE2-M T-IH1 L-AY1 W-AA1 Z-AH0 B-AW1-T T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 N-AY1-N B-AH1 T-W-EH1 N-AY1 W-AA1 Z-AH0 B-AW1-T T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 N-AY1 N-Y-IH1-R Z-OW1-L-D


have you noticed this? this is the way-

HH-AE1 V-Y-UW1 N-OW1 T-AH0-S-T DH-IH1-S DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z DH-AH0 W-EY1


and i asked, yes, what? and he said, "every day without fail meet with me."

AH0-N D-AY1 AE1-S-K T-Y-EH1 S-W-AH1 T-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 S-EH1 D-EH1 V-ER0 IY0 D-EY1 W-IH0 TH-AW1-T F-EY1-L M-IY1 T-W-IH1 DH-M-IY1


is my fellowship time with god. and then from that, god brought in all other kinds of wonderful things. and he began to build on my-

IH1 Z-M-AY1 F-EH1 L-OW0 SH-IH2-P T-AY1 M-W-IH1-DH G-AA1 D-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N F-R-AH1-M DH-AE1-T G-AA1-D B-R-AO1 T-IH0 N-AO1 L-AH1 DH-ER0 K-AY1-N-D Z-AH1 V-W-AH1-N D-ER0 F-AH0-L TH-IH1-NG Z-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 B-IH0 G-AE1-N T-UW1 B-IH1-L D-AA1-N M-AY1


... and i thought something seems stale.

AH0-N D-AY1 TH-AO1-T S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG S-IY1-M-Z-S T-EY1-L


lots of clean had been to lots of kleenexes and it was wonderful, but some-

L-AA1-T S-AH1-V K-L-IY1-N HH-AE1-D B-IH1-N T-UW1 L-AA1-T S-AH1-V K-L-IY1 N-AH0 S-EH2-K S-AH0-N D-IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-W-AH1-N D-ER0 F-AH0-L B-AH1-T S-AH1-M


but it was like something's bothering me. so i went to the-

B-AH1 T-IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-L-AY1-K S-AH1-M TH-IH2-NG-Z B-AA1 DH-ER0 IH0-NG M-IY1 S-OW1 AY1 W-EH1-N-T T-UW1 DH-AH0


... just encouraging you to pray that prayer. and i'm praying that prayer over you as we minister because that to pray it-

JH-AH1-S T-EH0-N K-ER1 IH0 JH-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 T-UW1 P-R-EY1 DH-AE1-T P-R-EH1 R-AH0-N D-IH1-M P-R-EY1 IH0-NG DH-AE1-T P-R-EH1 R-OW1 V-ER0 Y-UW1 AE1 Z-W-IY1 M-IH1 N-AH0-S T-ER0 B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-AE1-T T-UW1 P-R-EY1 IH1-T


... just reeling it off.


... by 18 y'all are probably familiar with it.

B-AY1 EY0 T-IY1 N-Y-AO1 L-AA1-R P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 F-AH0 M-IH1 L-Y-ER0 W-IH1 DH-IH1-T


have you ever tried to be different?

HH-AE1 V-Y-UW1 EH1 V-ER0 T-R-AY1-D T-UW1 B-IY1 D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-T