it's like june, we just paying legal fees for absolutely-

IH1-T S-L-AY1-K JH-UW1 N-W-IY1 JH-AH1-S-T P-EY1 IH0 NG-L-IY1 G-AH0-L F-IY1-Z F-AO1 R-AE2-B S-AH0 L-UW1 T-L-IY0


... after postponement. and she doesn't even want to mediate, so she want-

AE1-F T-ER0 P-OW0-S-T P-OW1-N M-AH0-N T-AH0-N-D SH-IY1 D-OW1 S-AH0-N T-IY1 V-IH0 N-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 M-IY1 D-IY0 EY2-T S-OW1 SH-IY1 W-AA1-N-T


ask them to double it to r800. no matter what, your bank balance gets an upgrade. so, sms up to 444-

AE1-S-K DH-EH1-M T-UW1 D-AH1 B-AH0 L-IH1-T T-UW1 EY1-T HH-AH1-N D-R-AH0 D-R-IY1-L Z-N-OW1 M-AE1 T-ER0 W-AH1 T-Y-AO1-R B-AE1-NG-K B-AE1 L-AH0-N-S G-EH1-T S-AE1 N-AH1-P G-R-EY0-D S-OW1 S-M-EH1 S-AH1-P T-UW1 F-AO1-R HH-AH1-N D-R-AH0 D-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R T-IY0 F-AO1-R


... beaches. but, i heard that ladies like dad bods, because it makes them feel less intimidated about their own bodies. you know what i'm saying?

B-IY1 CH-AH0-Z B-AH1 T-AY1 HH-ER1-D DH-AE1 T-L-EY1 D-IY0 Z-L-AY1-K D-AE1-D B-AA1-D-Z B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1 T-M-EY1-K-S DH-EH1-M F-IY1-L L-EH1 S-IH0-N T-IH1 M-IH0 D-EY2 T-IH0 D-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-EH1 R-OW1-N B-AA1 D-IY0 Z-Y-UW1 N-OW1 W-AH1 T-IH1-M S-EY1 IH0-NG


... feel more secure if we are taken off the market, and women stop looking at us.

F-IY1-L M-AO1-R S-IH0 K-Y-UH1 R-IH1 F-W-IY1 AA1-R T-EY1 K-AH0 N-AO1-F DH-AH0 M-AA1-R K-AH0 T-AH0-N D-W-IH1 M-AH0-N-S T-AA1 P-L-UH1 K-IH0 NG-AE1 T-AH1-S


[inaudible 00:02:04].

IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z T-UW1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


[inaudible 00:02:08], [vin 00:02:09]?yeah?rocking two dad bods there. go boy.

IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z T-UW1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N D-EY1-T S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z V-IH1-N Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z T-UW1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N D-N-AY1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-Y-EH1 R-AH0 K-IH0-NG T-UW1 D-AE1-D B-AA1-D-Z DH-EH1-R G-OW1 B-OY1


hey, listen. i'm going to tell you something in a moment about uber. everyone i know uses-

HH-EY1 L-IH1 S-AH0 N-IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 T-EH1 L-Y-UW1 S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-IH0 N-AH0 M-OW1 M-AH0-N T-AH0 B-AW1 T-Y-UW1 B-ER0 EH1 V-R-IY0 W-AH2 N-AY1 N-OW1 Y-UW1 S-IH0-Z


... uber from time to time, and things-

Y-UW1 B-ER0 F-R-AH1-M T-AY1-M T-UW1 T-AY1 M-AH0-N-D TH-IH1-NG-Z


... he's been in the news quite a lot, and i think he's being suspended.

HH-IY1-Z B-IH1 N-IH0-N DH-AH0 N-UW1-Z K-W-AY1 T-AH0 L-AA1 T-AH0-N D-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K HH-IY1-Z B-IY1 IH0-NG S-AH0-S P-EH1-N D-AH0-D


i don't know.yeah.they don't get everything-

AY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1-Y W-IH0 CH-IY0 D-AA1-N-T G-EH1 T-EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2-NG


so, when we did it... what? ... about two years ago on the breakfast express, i had a five rating-

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... a number point something.yeah.can you all see it?

AH0 N-AH1-M B-ER0 P-OY1-N-T S-UW2-M TH-IY0 K-AH0-N JH-IH1 SH-AH0 N-Y-UW1 AO1-L S-IY1 IH1-T


but, what they're doing overseas now, they're piloting this in three cities in the us. if it works effectively in the system, it's going to be implemented-

B-AH1 T-W-AH1-T TH-EH1-R D-UW1 IH0 NG-OW1 V-ER0 S-IY1 Z-N-AW1 TH-EH1-R P-AY1 L-AH0 T-IH0-NG DH-IH1 S-IH0-N TH-R-IY1 S-IH1 T-IY0 Z-IH0-N DH-AH0 AH1 S-IH1 F-IH1 T-W-ER1-K S-IH0 F-EH1-K T-IH0 V-L-IY0 IH0-N DH-AH0 S-IH1-S T-AH0 M-IH1-T-S G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 IH1-M P-L-AH0 M-EH2-N T-AH0-D


... actually pretty good. and they were literally around the corner, and they were like, "oh, and this [inaudible 00:03:10] at the feet," i was, "oh. okay."

AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 P-R-IH1 T-IY0 G-UH1 D-AH0-N-D DH-EY1 W-ER0 L-IH1 T-ER0 AH0 L-IY0 ER0 AW1-N-D DH-AH0 K-AO1-R N-ER0 AH0-N-D DH-EY1 W-ER0 L-AY1 K-OW1 AH0-N-D DH-IH1 S-IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z TH-R-IY1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D T-EH1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-AE1-T DH-AH0 F-IY1 T-AY1 W-AA1 Z-OW1 OW2 K-EY1


let's see how this turns out. if it's a success-

L-EH1-T-S S-IY1 HH-AW1 DH-IH1-S T-ER1-N Z-AW1 T-IH1 F-IH1-T S-AH0 S-AH0-K S-EH1-S


i've been scanning through everything, i've just updated the app and i've been scanning through, and i can't find any... oh wait, there we go. "i'd like to know my rating." under "help."

AY1-V B-IH1-N-S K-AE1 N-IH0-NG TH-R-UW1 EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2 NG-AY1-V JH-AH1-S T-AH0-P D-EY1 T-AH0-D DH-AH0 AE1 P-AH0-N D-AY1-V B-IH1-N-S K-AE1 N-IH0-NG TH-R-UW1 AH0-N D-AY1 K-AE1-N-T F-AY1-N D-EH1 N-IY0 OW1 W-EY1-T DH-EH1 R-W-IY1 G-OW1 IH1 D-L-AY1-K T-UW1 N-OW1 M-AY1 R-EY1 T-IH0 NG-AH1-N D-ER0 HH-EH1-L-P


trip rating is 4.74 stars.

T-R-IH1 P-R-EY1 T-IH0 NG-IH1-Z F-AO1-R P-OY1-N-T S-EH1 V-AH0-N F-AO1-R-S T-AA1-R-Z


4.74. okay, so that's vin. phil?

F-AO1-R P-OY1-N-T S-EH1 V-AH0-N F-AO1 R-OW2 K-EY1 S-OW1 TH-AE1-T-S V-IH1-N F-IH1-L


let me see. he hasn't even got it, he's just made it up.

L-EH1 T-M-IY1 S-IY1 HH-IY1 HH-AE1-S-N T-IY1 V-IH0-N G-AA1 T-IH1-T HH-IY1-Z JH-AH1-S T-M-EY1 D-IH1 T-AH1-P


my mom said, if you lie, you steal, [brad 00:03:53].

M-AY1 M-AA1-M S-EH1 D-IH1 F-Y-UW1 L-AY1 Y-UW1-S T-IY1-L B-R-AE1-D Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z TH-R-IY1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-IH1-F T-IY0 TH-R-IY1 S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


"hey, boss, give me a five boss. i'm going to give you a five, come, boss."

HH-EY1 B-AA1-S G-IH1 V-M-IY1 AH0 F-AY1-V B-AA1 S-IH1-M G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 G-IH1 V-Y-UW1 AH0 F-AY1-V K-AH1-M B-AA1-S


going to come back with brad's rating. but i doubt that's going to be high then-

G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 K-AH1-M B-AE1 K-W-IH1-DH B-R-AE1-D Z-R-EY1 T-IH0-NG B-AH1 T-AY1 D-AW1-T TH-AE1-T-S G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 HH-AY1 DH-EH1-N


for why? because i was picking songs nobody liked.

F-AO1 R-W-AY1 B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AY1 W-AA1-Z P-IH1 K-IH0-NG S-AO1-NG Z-N-OW1 B-AA2 D-IY2 L-AY1-K-T


you see this is why you don't get to sell music, because you think it's only at night for love shows. that's why you're not winning with the love choices.

Y-UW1 S-IY1 DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-W-AY1 Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T G-EH1-T T-UW1 S-EH1-L M-Y-UW1 Z-IH0-K B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-Y-UW1 TH-IH1-NG K-IH1-T S-OW1 N-L-IY0 AE1 T-N-AY1-T F-AO1-R L-AH1-V SH-OW1-Z TH-AE1-T S-W-AY1 Y-UH1-R N-AA1 T-W-IH1 N-IH0 NG-W-IH1-DH DH-AH0 L-AH1-V CH-OY1 S-AH0-Z


this is what i'm saying, too, about soul music, it's not always about the kittens-

DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-W-AH1 T-IH1-M S-EY1 IH0-NG T-UW1 AH0 B-AW1-T S-OW1-L M-Y-UW1 Z-IH0 K-IH1-T S-N-AA1 T-AO1 L-W-EY2 Z-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AH0 K-IH1 T-AH0-N-Z


she can vote for [inaudible 00:04:26] rating, sitting on a dock on a bay, or in this love from luther vandross and diana ross.

SH-IY1 K-AE1-N V-OW1-T F-AO1 R-IH0 N-AO1 D-AH0 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z F-AO1-R M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D T-W-EH1-N T-IY0 S-IH1-K-S S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-R-EY1 T-IH0-NG S-IH1 T-IH0 NG-AA1 N-AH0 D-AA1 K-AA1 N-AH0 B-EY1 AO1 R-IH0-N DH-IH1 S-L-AH1-V F-R-AH1 M-L-UW1 TH-ER0 V-AE2-N D-R-AO1 S-AH0-N-D D-AY0 AE1 N-AH0 R-AA1-S


... in the selections for the soul classics. you have three minutes.

IH0-N DH-AH0 S-AH0 L-EH1-K SH-AH0-N-Z F-AO1-R DH-AH0 S-OW1-L K-L-AE1 S-IH0-K S-Y-UW1 HH-AE1-V TH-R-IY1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T-S


all right, here we go. let's see what you voted for, [kgathe 00:04:45].

AO1-L R-AY1-T HH-IY1 R-W-IY1 G-OW1 L-EH1-T-S S-IY1 W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 V-OW1 T-AH0-D F-AO1-R K-AH0 TH-IY1 Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z F-AO1-R M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D F-AO1-R T-IY0 F-AY1-V S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


didn't diana ross do that song?i don't-

D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T D-AY0 AE1 N-AH0 R-AA1-S D-UW1 DH-AE1-T S-OW1 N-IY0 D-AA1-N-T


okay.


hello, where do we find you this evening? you at home?

HH-AH0 L-OW1 W-EH1-R D-UW1 W-IY1 F-AY1-N D-Y-UW1 DH-IH1 S-IY1 V-N-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 AE1-T HH-OW1-M


okay, just hold for me, "[foreign language 00:05:06]."hello.

OW2 K-EY1 JH-AH1-S-T HH-OW1-L-D F-AO1-R M-IY1 F-AO1 R-AH0 N-L-AE1-NG G-W-AH0-JH Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z F-AY1 V-M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D S-IH1-K-S S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z HH-AH0 L-OW1


that's [foreign language 00:05:13]. all right, so only two kids.

TH-AE1-T-S F-AO1 R-AH0 N-L-AE1-NG G-W-AH0-JH Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z F-AY1 V-M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D TH-ER1 T-IY1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D Z-AO1-L R-AY1-T S-OW1 OW1 N-L-IY0 T-UW1 K-IH1-D-Z


until tomorrow, until close of business thursday.

AH0-N T-IH1-L T-AH0 M-AA1 R-OW2 AH0-N T-IH1-L K-L-OW1 S-AH1-V B-IH1 Z-N-AH0-S TH-ER1-Z D-EY2


... early bird tickets. once we announced the lineup, they will go to normal price.

ER1 L-IY0 B-ER1-D T-IH1 K-AH0-T S-W-AH1-N S-W-IY1 AH0 N-AW1-N-S-T DH-AH0 L-AY1 N-AH2-P DH-EY1 W-IH1-L G-OW1 T-UW1 N-AO1-R M-AH0-L P-R-AY1-S


... even tell me when. it's just like, "hey, promoted."

IY1 V-IH0-N T-EH1-L M-IY1 W-EH1 N-IH1-T-S JH-AH1-S T-L-AY1-K HH-EY1 P-R-AH0 M-OW1 T-AH0-D


so, give it at now, gavin.

S-OW1 G-IH1 V-IH1 T-AE1 T-N-AW1 G-AE1 V-IH0-N


so fake, you know that? [crosstalk 00:05:38].

S-OW1 F-EY1 K-Y-UW1 N-OW1 DH-AE1-T K-R-AO1-S T-AO1-K Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z F-AY1 V-M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D TH-ER1 D-IY0 EY1-T S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


i don't know who's on the lineup, guys. i know it's a big line-

AY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 HH-UW1 Z-AA1-N DH-AH0 L-AY1 N-AH2-P G-AY1 Z-AY1 N-OW1 IH1-T S-AH0 B-IH1 G-L-AY1-N


... and i know who was not confirmed a hundred percent yet, but, it's pointless saying who wasn't confirmed, because they could not be confirmed. so what's the point of saying-?

AH0-N D-AY1 N-OW1 HH-UW1 W-AA1 Z-N-AA1-T K-AH0-N F-ER1-M D-AH0 HH-AH1-N D-R-AH0-D P-ER0 S-EH1-N T-Y-EH1-T B-AH1 T-IH1-T-S P-OY1-N T-L-AH0-S S-EY1 IH0-NG HH-UW1 W-AO1-S-T K-AH0-N F-ER1-M-D B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-EY1 K-UH1 D-N-AA1-T B-IY1 K-AH0-N F-ER1-M-D S-OW1 W-AH0-T-S DH-AH0 P-OY1-N T-AH1-V S-EY1 IH0-NG


we used to use this at school where you'd wind it up. you'd have to hold the two cables-

W-IY1 Y-UW1-S-T T-UW1 Y-UW1-Z DH-IH1 S-AE1-T-S K-UW1 L-W-EH1 R-Y-AH1 D-W-AY1-N D-IH1 T-AH1 P-Y-AH1-D HH-AE1-V T-UW1 HH-OW1-L-D DH-AH0 T-UW1 K-EY1 B-AH0-L-Z


okay but now i need to find one of these shocking machines- ...

OW2 K-EY1 B-AH1 T-N-AW1 AY1 N-IY1-D T-UW1 F-AY1-N D-W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-IY1-Z SH-AA1 K-IH0-NG M-AH0 SH-IY1-N-Z


with a nice long-ish cable on either side, a positive and a negative. and you've got it-

W-IH1 DH-AH0 N-AY1 S-L-AO1 NG-IH0-SH K-EY1 B-AH0 L-AA1 N-IY1 DH-ER0 S-AY1 D-AH0 P-AA1 Z-AH0 T-IH0 V-AH0-N D-AH0 N-EH1 G-AH0 T-IH0 V-AH0-N D-Y-UW1-V G-AA1 T-IH1-T


tomorrow you tell us or you don't.

T-AH0 M-AA1 R-OW2 Y-UW1 T-EH1 L-AH1 S-AO1 R-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T


i tend to use... i like my italian spices, so i use a kind of tomato base and then fresh thyme,

AY1 T-EH1-N-D T-UW1 Y-UW1 Z-AY1 L-AY1 K-M-AY1 IH0 T-AE1 L-Y-AH0-N-S P-AY1 S-AH0-Z S-OW1 AY1 Y-UW1 Z-AH0 K-AY1-N D-AH1-V T-AH0 M-EY1 T-OW2 B-EY1 S-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N F-R-EH1-SH TH-AY1-M


all that kind of delicious stuff. so it's kind of like a lamb chop in a tomato- ...

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but you've got to use fresh tomato, so they cook down nicely.

B-AH1 T-Y-UW1-V G-AA1-T T-UW1 Y-UW1-Z F-R-EH1-SH T-AH0 M-EY1 T-OW2 S-OW1 DH-EY1 K-UH1-K D-AW1-N N-AY1 S-L-IY0


the one guy she needs to thank for this whole thing is mark grobbelaar, he saved her life.

DH-AH0 W-AH1-N G-AY1 SH-IY1 N-IY1-D-Z T-UW1 TH-AE1-NG-K F-AO1-R DH-IH1-S HH-OW1-L TH-IH1 NG-IH1 Z-M-AA1-R-K G-R-AA1 B-IH0 L-ER0 HH-IY1 S-EY1-V-D HH-ER0 L-AY1-F


at some point you guys all need to go on the course- ...

AE1-T S-AH1-M P-OY1-N T-Y-UW1 G-AY1 Z-AO1-L N-IY1-D T-UW1 G-OW1 AA1-N DH-AH0 K-AO1-R-S


today. it's sad that just the rise in violence against women seems to be on- ...

T-AH0 D-EY1 IH1-T-S S-AE1-D DH-AE1-T JH-AH1-S-T DH-AH0 R-AY1 Z-IH0-N V-AY1 AH0 L-AH0-N S-AH0 G-EH1-N-S T-W-IH1 M-AH0-N S-IY1-M-Z T-UW1 B-IY1 AA1-N


the borough. now let me tell you about the queensburgh. mark is born like this-

DH-AH0 B-ER1 OW2 N-AW1 L-EH1 T-M-IY1 T-EH1 L-Y-UW1 AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AH0 K-W-IY1-N-Z B-ER0 G-M-AA1-R K-IH1-Z B-AO1-R N-L-AY1-K DH-IH1-S


and you're training. he is a sixth dan, but he came out sixth dan in the-

AH0-N D-Y-UH1-R T-R-EY1 N-IH0-NG HH-IY1 IH1 Z-AH0 S-IH1-K-S-TH D-AE1-N B-AH1-T HH-IY1 K-EY1 M-AW1-T S-IH1-K-S-TH D-AE1 N-IH0-N DH-AH0


when his mom thought he was kicking, no, he was doing- ...

W-EH1-N HH-IH1 Z-M-AA1-M TH-AO1-T HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z K-IH1 K-IH0-NG N-OW1 HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z D-UW1 IH0-NG


play you guys at soccer because we all believed that you guys carried knives in your underpants. ...

P-L-EY1 Y-UW1 G-AY1 Z-AE1-T S-AA1 K-ER0 B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-W-IY1 AO1-L B-IH0 L-IY1-V-D DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 G-AY1-Z K-AE1 R-IY0 D-N-AY1-V Z-IH0 N-Y-AO1 R-AH1-N D-ER0 P-AE2-N-T-S


to joburg. and brad this is where i have to hit at your home here, queensburgh has the same rep as the vale.

T-UW1 JH-OW1 B-ER0 G-AH0-N-D B-R-AE1-D DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-W-EH1 R-AY1 HH-AE1-V T-UW1 HH-IH1 T-AE1 T-Y-AO1-R HH-OW1-M HH-IY1-R K-W-IY1-N-Z B-ER0-G HH-AE1-Z DH-AH0 S-EY1 M-R-EH1 P-AE1-Z DH-AH0 V-EY1-L


so wip really started... i always say wip really started when a friend of mine decided to get up and live, instead of lay- ...

S-OW1 W-IH1 P-R-IH1 L-IY0-S T-AA1-R T-AH0 D-AY1 AO1 L-W-EY2-Z S-EY1 W-IH1 P-R-IH1 L-IY0-S T-AA1-R T-AH0 D-W-EH1 N-AH0 F-R-EH1-N D-AH1 V-M-AY1-N D-IH0 S-AY1 D-IH0-D T-UW1 G-EH1 T-AH1 P-AH0-N D-L-AY1 V-IH0-N-S T-EH1 D-AH1 V-L-EY1


contact, came back to south africa and i read about what happened to her in the 'you' magazine.

K-AA1-N T-AE2-K-T K-EY1-M B-AE1-K T-UW1 S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 AH0-N D-AY1 R-EH1 D-AH0 B-AW1 T-W-AH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N-D T-UW1 HH-ER0 IH0-N DH-AH0 Y-UW1 M-AE1 G-AH0 Z-IY2-N


so as i said, the book really brought home... or what happened to alison really sort of brought home some simple truths to me-

S-OW1 AE1 Z-AY1 S-EH1-D DH-AH0 B-UH1 K-R-IH1 L-IY0 B-R-AO1-T HH-OW1 M-AO1 R-W-AH1-T HH-AE1 P-AH0-N-D T-UW1 AE1 L-IH0 S-AH0 N-R-IH1 L-IY0 S-AO1-R T-AH1-V B-R-AO1-T HH-OW1-M S-AH1-M S-IH1-M P-AH0-L T-R-UW1-TH-S T-UW1 M-IY1


i've been doing karate since i was nine years old, so you can do the maths yourself. ...

AY1-V B-IH1-N D-UW1 IH0-NG K-ER0 AA1 T-IY0 S-IH1-N S-AY1 W-AA1 Z-N-AY1 N-Y-IH1-R Z-OW1-L-D S-OW1 Y-UW1 K-AE1-N D-UW1 DH-AH0 M-AE1-TH S-Y-ER0 S-EH1-L-F


after that in tears and said, "mark"-

AE1-F T-ER0 DH-AE1 T-IH0-N T-EH1-R Z-AH0-N-D S-EH1 D-M-AA1-R-K


a couple of female friends of mine said to me, no listen, you need to change that name- ...

AH0 K-AH1 P-AH0 L-AH1-V F-IY1 M-EY2-L F-R-EH1-N-D Z-AH1 V-M-AY1-N S-EH1-D T-UW1 M-IY1 N-OW1 L-IH1 S-AH0 N-Y-UW1 N-IY1-D T-UW1 CH-EY1-N-JH DH-AE1 T-N-EY1-M


i think the don'ts were probably more important. the first one to me is, and i say it with my-

AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-AH0 D-AA1-N-T S-W-ER0 P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 M-AO1 R-IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N-T DH-AH0 F-ER1-S T-W-AH1-N T-UW1 M-IY1 IH1 Z-AH0-N D-AY1 S-EY1 IH1 T-W-IH1 DH-M-AY1


people often go along saying, look, if i go to the second place, maybe i meet an off-duty policeman on the way, or maybe he decides he doesn't want to rape me, he just wants to buy me dinner, nonsense- ...

P-IY1 P-AH0 L-AO1 F-AH0-N G-OW1 AH0 L-AO1-NG S-EY1 IH0 NG-L-UH1 K-IH1 F-AY1 G-OW1 T-UW1 DH-AH0 S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D P-L-EY1 S-M-EY1 B-IY0 AY1 M-IY1 T-AE1 N-AO1-F CH-AH0 D-IY0 P-AH0 L-IY1 S-M-AH0 N-AA1-N DH-AH0 W-EY1 AO1-R M-EY1 B-IY0 HH-IY1 D-IH0 S-AY1-D-Z HH-IY1 D-OW1 S-AH0-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 R-EY1 P-M-IY1 HH-IY1 JH-AH1-S T-W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1 B-AY1 M-IY1 D-IH1 N-ER0 N-AA1-N S-EH0-N-S


not accepting the reality or not seeing the potential danger. so we often just go with the flow and now- ...

N-AA1 T-AE0-K S-EH1-P T-IH0-NG DH-AH0 R-IY0 AE1 L-AH0 T-IY0 AO1-R N-AA1-T S-IY1 IH0-NG DH-AH0 P-AH0 T-EH1-N SH-AH0-L D-EY1-N JH-ER0 S-OW1 W-IY1 AO1 F-AH0-N JH-AH1-S-T G-OW1 W-IH1-DH DH-AH0 F-L-OW1 AH0-N D-N-AW1


he's not going to hurt me. he's, no. if you go with him, the chance of you getting hurt are huge. huge, huge.

HH-IY1 Z-N-AA1-T G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 HH-ER1 T-M-IY1 HH-IY1 Z-N-OW1 IH1 F-Y-UW1 G-OW1 W-IH1-DH HH-IH1-M DH-AH0 CH-AE1-N S-AH1 V-Y-UW1 G-EH1 T-IH0-NG HH-ER1 T-AA1-R HH-Y-UW1-JH HH-Y-UW1-JH HH-Y-UW1-JH


i think the biggest issue, and i know this, being a woman, is that we, as women are taught- ...

AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-AH0 B-IH1 G-AH0-S T-IH1 SH-UW0 AH0-N D-AY1 N-OW1 DH-IH1-S B-IY1 IH0 NG-AH0 W-UH1 M-AH0 N-IH1-Z DH-AE1 T-W-IY1 AE1 Z-W-IH1 M-AH0 N-AA1-R T-AO1-T


talk him up, don't get him even more... so just be nice. just be a good girl-

T-AO1-K HH-IH1 M-AH1-P D-AA1-N-T G-EH1-T HH-IH1 M-IY1 V-IH0-N M-AO1-R S-OW1 JH-AH1-S-T B-IY1 N-AY1-S JH-AH1-S-T B-IY1 AH0 G-UH1-D G-ER1-L


i want to talk, when we come back with mark, about, he was telling me about the three stages with fight flight or freeze.

AY1 W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 T-AO1 K-W-EH1 N-W-IY1 K-AH1-M B-AE1 K-W-IH1 DH-M-AA1-R K-AH0 B-AW1-T HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z T-EH1 L-IH0-NG M-IY1 AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AH0 TH-R-IY1-S T-EY1 JH-AH0 Z-W-IH1-DH F-AY1-T F-L-AY1 T-AO1-R F-R-IY1-Z


you know, i'm a mom, i've got a young girl, i felt like i could teach her something. i'm a runner and we were- ...

Y-UW1 N-OW1 IH1 M-AH0 M-AA1 M-AY1-V G-AA1 T-AH0 Y-AH1-NG G-ER1 L-AY1 F-EH1-L T-L-AY1 K-AY1 K-UH1-D T-IY1-CH HH-ER0 S-AH1-M TH-IH0 NG-IH1 M-AH0 R-AH1 N-ER0 AH0-N D-W-IY1 W-ER0


some courses as well, but mark, before we take any more calls, just to go back to those five options that you would-

S-AH1-M K-AO1-R S-AH0 Z-AE1 Z-W-EH1-L B-AH1 T-M-AA1-R-K B-IH0 F-AO1 R-W-IY1 T-EY1 K-EH1 N-IY0 M-AO1-R K-AO1-L-Z JH-AH1-S-T T-UW1 G-OW1 B-AE1-K T-UW1 DH-OW1-Z F-AY1 V-AA1-P SH-AH0-N-Z DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 W-UH1-D


okay, so there are only, and i said this, there are- ...

OW2 K-EY1 S-OW1 DH-EH1 R-AA1 R-OW1 N-L-IY0 AH0-N D-AY1 S-EH1-D DH-IH1-S DH-EH1 R-AA1-R


reactions, human reactions to trauma or stress of- ...

R-IY0 AE1-K SH-AH0-N-Z HH-Y-UW1 M-AH0 N-R-IY0 AE1-K SH-AH0-N-Z T-UW1 T-R-AO1 M-AH0 AO1-R-S T-R-EH1 S-AH1-V


so if i or "mark, if i walk into class on a monday morning and i haven't done, my maths-" ...

S-OW1 IH1 F-AY1 AO1-R M-AA1-R K-IH1 F-AY1 W-AO1 K-IH0-N T-UW1 K-L-AE1 S-AA1 N-AH0 M-AH1-N D-IY0 M-AO1-R N-IH0 NG-AH0-N D-AY1 HH-AE1 V-AH0-N-T D-AH1-N M-AY1 M-AE1-TH-S


is wrong, leave and leave straight away, leave straight away. i don't care where you are just leave. you can make an excuse to leave. often you can get out of the situation- ...

IH1 Z-R-AO1 NG-L-IY1 V-AH0-N D-L-IY1-V-S T-R-EY1 T-AH0 W-EY1 L-IY1-V-S T-R-EY1 T-AH0 W-EY1 AY1 D-AA1-N-T K-EH1 R-W-EH1 R-Y-UW1 AA1-R JH-AH1-S T-L-IY1 V-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N M-EY1 K-AE1 N-IH0-K-S K-Y-UW1-S T-UW1 L-IY1 V-AO1 F-AH0 N-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N G-EH1 T-AW1 T-AH1-V DH-AH0 S-IH2 CH-UW0 EY1 SH-AH0-N


and this is what you mean. this is not necessarily in a hijack situation where your choices are different then but this is like, you can be in a ball- ...

AH0-N-D DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 M-IY1-N DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-N-AA1 T-N-EH2 S-AH0 S-EH1 R-AH0 L-IY0 IH0 N-AH0 HH-AY1 JH-AE2-K S-IH2 CH-UW0 EY1 SH-AH0 N-W-EH1 R-Y-AO1-R CH-OY1 S-AH0 Z-AA1-R D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-T DH-EH1-N B-AH1-T DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-L-AY1 K-Y-UW1 K-AE1-N B-IY1 IH0 N-AH0 B-AO1-L


your book. she said she allowed them to rape her when she realized what was happening. and she only realized what was happening on the way to the third place.

Y-AO1-R B-UH1-K SH-IY1 S-EH1-D SH-IY1 AH0 L-AW1-D DH-EH1-M T-UW1 R-EY1-P HH-ER0 W-EH1-N SH-IY1 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z D-W-AH1 T-W-AA1-Z HH-AE1 P-AH0 N-IH0 NG-AH0-N-D SH-IY1 OW1 N-L-IY0 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z D-W-AH1 T-W-AA1-Z HH-AE1 P-AH0 N-IH0 NG-AA1-N DH-AH0 W-EY1 T-UW1 DH-AH0 TH-ER1-D P-L-EY1-S


she made a decision. she said, they're going to rape me. why she didn't feel that she didn't- ...

SH-IY1 M-EY1 D-AH0 D-IH0 S-IH1 ZH-AH0-N SH-IY1 S-EH1-D TH-EH1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 R-EY1 P-M-IY1 W-AY1 SH-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T F-IY1-L DH-AE1-T SH-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T


have a choice because you didn't know the option. ...

HH-AE1 V-AH0 CH-OY1-S B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-Y-UW1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-N-OW1 DH-AH0 AA1-P SH-AH0-N


and you put in a mobilizer, whatever you do to a man that's bigger and stronger than you, that doesn't switch him off, pisses him off. ...

AH0-N D-Y-UW1 P-UH1 T-IH0 N-AH0 M-OW1 B-AH0 L-AY2 Z-ER0 W-AH2 T-EH1 V-ER0 Y-UW1 D-UW1 T-UW1 AH0 M-AE1-N TH-AE1-T-S B-IH1 G-ER0 AH0-N-D-S T-R-AO1 NG-ER0 DH-AE1 N-Y-UW1 DH-AE1-T D-OW1 S-AH0-N-T S-W-IH1-CH HH-IH1 M-AO1-F P-IH1 S-AH0-Z HH-IH1 M-AO1-F


you infuriate me and i'm bigger and stronger than you, you are going to get hurt and you're going to get hurt quickly and more than you ever were going-

Y-UW1 IH0-N F-Y-UH1 R-IY0 EY2 T-M-IY1 AH0-N D-IH1-M B-IH1 G-ER0 AH0-N-D-S T-R-AO1 NG-ER0 DH-AE1 N-Y-UW1 Y-UW1 AA1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 G-EH1-T HH-ER1 T-AH0-N D-Y-UH1-R G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 G-EH1-T HH-ER1-T K-W-IH1 K-L-IY0 AH0-N D-M-AO1-R DH-AE1 N-Y-UW1 EH1 V-ER0 W-ER0 G-OW1 IH0-NG


yes. my question is... or paralyzing fear that i've always had-

Y-EH1 S-M-AY1 K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0 N-IH1 Z-AO1-R P-EH1 R-AH0 L-AY2 Z-IH0-NG F-IH1-R DH-AE1 T-AY1 V-AO1 L-W-EY2-Z HH-AE1-D


and i aslo realized, because demi also realized quite early and she made a decision when you realize that-

AH0-N D-AY1 AH0 S-L-OW1 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z-D B-IH0 K-AO1-Z D-EH1 M-IY0 AO1-L S-OW0 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z-D K-W-AY1 T-ER1 L-IY0 AH0-N-D SH-IY1 M-EY1 D-AH0 D-IH0 S-IH1 ZH-AH0 N-W-EH1 N-Y-UW1 R-IY1 L-AY2-Z DH-AE1-T


...how do you get out of the car? and if you do this, you've decided if you don't do this- ...

HH-AW1 D-UW1 Y-UW1 G-EH1 T-AW1 T-AH1-V DH-AH0 K-AA1 R-AH0-N D-IH1 F-Y-UW1 D-UW1 DH-IH1 S-Y-UW1-V D-IH0 S-AY1 D-IH0 D-IH1 F-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T D-UW1 DH-IH1-S


it's done this time and time again, clearly in control of the situation. he's probably the calmest head in the room right then, and that's what you need.

IH1-T-S D-AH1-N DH-IH1-S T-AY1 M-AH0-N-D T-AY1 M-AH0 G-EH1-N K-L-IH1-R L-IY0 IH0-N K-AH0-N T-R-OW1 L-AH1-V DH-AH0 S-IH2 CH-UW0 EY1 SH-AH0-N HH-IY1-Z P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 DH-AH0 K-AA1 M-AH0-S-T HH-EH1 D-IH0-N DH-AH0 R-UW1 M-R-AY1-T DH-EH1 N-AH0-N-D TH-AE1-T S-W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 N-IY1-D


.. i said to you earlier, darren, i don't believe that demi's attackers actually wanted her car.

AY1 S-EH1-D T-UW1 Y-UW1 ER1 L-IY0 ER0 D-AA1 R-AH0 N-AY1 D-AA1-N-T B-IH0 L-IY1-V DH-AE1-T D-EH1 M-IH0 S-AH0 T-AE1 K-ER0 Z-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 W-AA1-N T-AH0-D HH-ER0 K-AA1-R


if there's a code word, if they are old enough to open the doors-

IH1-F DH-EH1-R Z-AH0 K-OW1 D-W-ER1 D-IH1-F DH-EY1 AA1 R-OW1-L D-IH0 N-AH1-F T-UW1 OW1 P-AH0-N DH-AH0 D-AO1-R-Z


i'm not a hijack specialist, but from the guys i have spoken to-

IH1-M N-AA1 T-AH0 HH-AY1 JH-AE2-K-S P-EH1 SH-AH0 L-AH0-S-T B-AH1-T F-R-AH1-M DH-AH0 G-AY1 Z-AY1 HH-AE1-V-S P-OW1 K-AH0-N T-UW1


i wouldn't get out without... a method whereby, you reach over the seats, you un-clip them. they come through and you get out. again. is it guaranteed? no.

AY1 W-UH1 D-L-AH0-N-T G-EH1 T-AW1 T-W-IH0 TH-AW1 T-AH0 M-EH1 TH-AH0 D-W-EH0-R B-AY1 Y-UW1 R-IY1 CH-OW1 V-ER0 DH-AH0 S-IY1-T S-Y-UW1 AH0-N K-L-IH1-P DH-EH1-M DH-EY1 K-AH1-M TH-R-UW1 AH0-N D-Y-UW1 G-EH1 T-AW1 T-AH0 G-EH1 N-IH1 Z-IH1-T G-EH2 R-AH0-N T-IY1 D-N-OW1


i drive around with a taser and pepper spray.

AY1 D-R-AY1 V-ER0 AW1-N D-W-IH1 DH-AH0 T-EY1 Z-ER0 AH0-N-D P-EH1 P-ER0-S P-R-EY1


now, maybe if she'd tasered the guy, maybe he fell down. she could have ran away, anyway.

N-AW1 M-EY1 B-IY0 IH1-F SH-EH1-D T-EY1 Z-ER0-D DH-AH0 G-AY1 M-EY1 B-IY0 HH-IY1 F-EH1-L D-AW1-N SH-IY1 K-UH1-D HH-AE1 V-R-AE1 N-AH0 W-EY1 EH1 N-IY0 W-EY2


i mean, i knew a guy that carried pepper spray in his car. he ended up pepper spraying himself-

AY1 M-IY1 N-AY1 N-UW1 AH0 G-AY1 DH-AE1-T K-AE1 R-IY0-D P-EH1 P-ER0-S P-R-EY1 IH0-N HH-IH1-Z K-AA1-R HH-IY1 EH1-N D-AH0 D-AH1-P P-EH1 P-ER0-S P-R-EY1 IH0-NG HH-IH0-M S-EH1-L-F


make sure they're readily available. and often with these things, they're often taken away and used against-

M-EY1-K SH-UH1-R TH-EH1-R R-EH1 D-AH0 L-IY0 AH0 V-EY1 L-AH0 B-AH0 L-AH0-N D-AO1 F-AH0 N-W-IH1-DH DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG-Z TH-EH1 R-AO1 F-AH0-N T-EY1 K-AH0 N-AH0 W-EY1 AH0-N D-Y-UW1-Z D-AH0 G-EH1-N-S-T


... people. the same with guns. and unless you're highly trained on how to use a gun, they're-

P-IY1 P-AH0-L DH-AH0 S-EY1 M-W-IH1-DH G-AH1-N Z-AH0-N D-AH0 N-L-EH1 S-Y-UH1-R HH-AY1 L-IY0 T-R-EY1-N D-AA1-N HH-AW1 T-UW1 Y-UW1 Z-AH0 G-AH1-N TH-EH1-R


and i thought, "okay. no, let's just go because he wants to go." but he was so drunk.

AH0-N D-AY1 TH-AO1 T-OW2 K-EY1 N-OW1 L-EH1-T-S JH-AH1-S-T G-OW1 B-IH0 K-AO1-Z HH-IY1 W-AA1-N-T-S T-UW1 G-OW1 B-AH1-T HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z S-OW1 D-R-AH1-NG-K


and very aggressive insisted on driving, by the time we got to the car. and then leaving my car behind not even taking my car. so-

AH0-N-D V-EH1 R-IY0 AH0 G-R-EH1 S-IH0 V-IH0-N S-IH1-S T-AH0 D-AA1-N D-R-AY1 V-IH0-NG B-AY1 DH-AH0 T-AY1 M-W-IY1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 DH-AH0 K-AA1 R-AH0-N-D DH-EH1 N-L-IY1 V-IH0-NG M-AY1 K-AA1-R B-IH0 HH-AY1-N D-N-AA1 T-IY1 V-IH0-N T-EY1 K-IH0-NG M-AY1 K-AA1-R S-OW1


... i would be driving. i just thought, "okay. yeah, no, just keep him..."

AY1 W-UH1-D B-IY1 D-R-AY1 V-IH0 NG-AY1 JH-AH1-S-T TH-AO1 T-OW2 K-EY1 Y-AE1 N-OW1 JH-AH1-S-T K-IY1-P HH-IH1-M


"... calm. just give in. let..."

K-AA1-M JH-AH1-S-T G-IH1 V-IH0 N-L-EH1-T


... kept driving and driving, became more and more aggressive. and he eventually...

K-EH1-P-T D-R-AY1 V-IH0 NG-AH0-N-D D-R-AY1 V-IH0-NG B-IH0 K-EY1-M M-AO1 R-AH0-N D-M-AO1 R-AH0 G-R-EH1 S-IH0 V-AH0-N-D HH-IY1 IH0 V-EH1-N CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0


... stay with him, because it was so dangerous.

S-T-EY1 W-IH1-DH HH-IH1-M B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1 T-W-AA1-Z S-OW1 D-EY1-N JH-ER0 AH0-S


and actually smashed my phone. also, his intention became quite clear.

AH0-N D-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 S-M-AE1-SH T-M-AY1 F-OW1 N-AO1-L S-OW0 HH-IH1 Z-IH0-N T-EH1-N CH-AH0-N B-IH0 K-EY1-M K-W-AY1-T K-L-IH1-R


right.yeah.when something feels wrong, it is wrong. now, when it's your boyfriend, your husband, your father, your uncle...

R-AY1-T HH-AW2 M-IH0-N S-AH1-M TH-IH0-NG F-IY1-L Z-R-AO1 NG-IH1 T-IH1 Z-R-AO1-NG N-AW1 W-EH1 N-IH1-T S-Y-AO1-R B-OY1 F-R-EH2-N D-Y-AO1-R HH-AH1-Z B-AH0-N D-Y-AO1-R F-AA1 DH-ER0 Y-AO1 R-AH1-NG K-AH0-L


if you'd known this, maybe you wouldn't have got in the car. a little bit left field.

IH1 F-Y-AH1 D-N-OW1-N DH-IH1 S-M-EY1 B-IY0 Y-UW1 W-UH1 D-L-AH0-N-T HH-AE1-V G-AA1 T-IH0-N DH-AH0 K-AA1 R-AH0 L-IH1 T-AH0-L B-IH1 T-L-EH1-F-T F-IY1-L-D


about a week before, obviously-

AH0 B-AW1 T-AH0 W-IY1-K B-IH0 F-AO1 R-AA1-B V-IY0 AH0 S-L-IY0


mark, we've got eugene, ceo of master drive. he has called in. elzette, you still there? elzette?

M-AA1-R K-W-IY1-V G-AA1 T-Y-UW0 JH-IY1-N S-IY1 OW0 AH1 V-M-AE1-S T-ER0 D-R-AY1-V HH-IY1 HH-AE1-Z K-AO1-L D-IH0 N-EH0-L Z-EH1 T-Y-UW1-S T-IH1-L DH-EH1 R-EH0-L Z-EH1-T


... as a child. and you know what, in those moments of difficulty, you've got strength, probably, that you don't realize. and whether it's-

AE1 Z-AH0 CH-AY1-L D-AH0-N D-Y-UW1 N-OW1 W-AH1 T-IH0-N DH-OW1 Z-M-OW1 M-AH0-N-T S-AH1-V D-IH1 F-AH0 K-AH0-L T-IY0 Y-UW1-V G-AA1-T-S T-R-EH1-NG-K-TH P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-R-IY1 L-AY2 Z-AH0-N D-W-EH1 DH-ER0 IH1-T-S


... people say, "yeah, but i don't want to frighten my child." who is frightened by a fire drill?

P-IY1 P-AH0-L S-EY1 Y-AE1 B-AH1 T-AY1 D-AA1-N T-W-AA1-N-T T-UW1 F-R-AY1 T-AH0-N M-AY1 CH-AY1-L-D HH-UW1 IH1-Z F-R-AY1 T-AH0-N-D B-AY1 AH0 F-AY1 ER0 D-R-IH1-L


nobody. they learn what the things are to do. and they do that on a regular basis.

N-OW1 B-AA2 D-IY2 DH-EY1 L-ER1 N-W-AH1-T DH-AH0 TH-IH1-NG Z-AA1-R T-UW1 D-UW1 AH0-N-D DH-EY1 D-UW1 DH-AE1 T-AA1 N-AH0 R-EH1 G-Y-AH0 L-ER0 B-EY1 S-AH0-S


less likely that a vehicle is going to be a hijack with the child in the car. because the hijacker doesn't want the added challenge of a child. but let's prepare for it.

L-EH1 S-L-AY1 K-L-IY0 DH-AE1 T-AH0 V-IY1 HH-IH0 K-AH0 L-IH1-Z G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 B-IY1 AH0 HH-AY1 JH-AE2 K-W-IH1-DH DH-AH0 CH-AY1-L D-IH0-N DH-AH0 K-AA1-R B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-AH0 HH-AY1 JH-AE2 K-ER0 D-OW1 S-AH0-N T-W-AA1-N-T DH-AH0 AE1 D-AH0-D CH-AE1 L-AH0-N JH-AH1 V-AH0 CH-AY1-L-D B-AH1 T-L-EH1-T-S P-R-IY0 P-EH1-R F-AO1 R-IH1-T


if anybody needs information, they're more than welcome to contact me. all right. and i'll happily share it with them.

IH1 F-EH1 N-IY0 B-AH0 D-IY0 N-IY1-D Z-IH2-N F-ER0 M-EY1 SH-AH0-N TH-EH1-R M-AO1-R DH-AE1 N-W-EH1-L K-AH0-M T-UW1 K-AA1-N T-AE2-K T-M-IY1 AO1-L R-AY1 T-AH0-N D-IH1-L HH-AE1 P-AH0 L-IY0 SH-EH1 R-IH1 T-W-IH1-DH DH-EH1-M


fantastic, eugene from master drive. thank you very much.

F-AE0-N T-AE1-S T-IH0 K-Y-UW0 JH-IY1-N F-R-AH1-M M-AE1-S T-ER0 D-R-AY1-V TH-AE1-NG K-Y-UW1 V-EH1 R-IY0 M-AH1-CH


yeah. i mean, that question... mark, listen. i mean, i could chat to you all day. we've got calls for days.

Y-AE1 AY1 M-IY1-N DH-AE1-T K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0-N M-AA1-R K-L-IH1 S-AH0 N-AY1 M-IY1 N-AY1 K-UH1-D CH-AE1-T T-UW1 Y-UW1 AO1-L D-EY1 W-IY1-V G-AA1-T K-AO1-L-Z F-AO1-R D-EY1-Z


i don't... one of the things that i don't-

AY1 D-AA1-N T-W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1 T-AY1 D-AA1-N-T


... is when we've done stuff with schools, but for me, it's very much about...

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it's about a personal journey, this course. it's not...

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you all know what the technique is, but there's quite a bit of thought and stuff that's gone into the-

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i just want it to say, mark, i think what you're doing is amazing and i will be there-

AY1 JH-AH1-S T-W-AA1-N T-IH1-T T-UW1 S-EY1 M-AA1-R K-AY1 TH-IH1-NG K-W-AH1 T-Y-UH1-R D-UW1 IH0 NG-IH1 Z-AH0 M-EY1 Z-IH0 NG-AH0-N D-AY1 W-IH1-L B-IY1 DH-EH1-R


we are not safe. and it would really mean the world to us if the good men... because there's a lot of good men. could help us not be-

W-IY1 AA1-R N-AA1-T S-EY1 F-AH0-N D-IH1 T-W-UH1 D-R-IH1 L-IY0 M-IY1-N DH-AH0 W-ER1-L-D T-UW1 AH1 S-IH1-F DH-AH0 G-UH1 D-M-EH1-N B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-EH1-R Z-AH0 L-AA1 T-AH1-V G-UH1 D-M-EH1-N K-UH1-D HH-EH1-L P-AH1 S-N-AA1-T B-IY1


emma and daniel, they're at home, i think, with their ears glued to the radio-

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... side of the news. so, you can get yourself in there. if you just hit our website and enter there at 947.co.za.

S-AY1 D-AH1-V DH-AH0 N-UW1-Z S-OW1 Y-UW1 K-AE1-N G-EH1 T-Y-ER0 S-EH1-L F-IH0-N DH-EH1 R-IH1 F-Y-UW1 JH-AH1-S-T HH-IH1 T-AW1 ER0 W-EH1-B S-AY2 T-AH0-N D-EH1-N T-ER0 DH-EH1 R-AE1 T-N-AY1-N F-AO1-R T-IY0 S-EH2 V-AH0-N S-UW1 P-AH0-S


we don't normally tread in these parts.

W-IY1 D-AA1-N T-N-AO1-R M-AH0 L-IY0 T-R-EH1 D-IH0-N DH-IY1-Z P-AA1-R-T-S


so, a bit of light and shade here on the show. firstly...

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i'm going to make sure she is on it. and guys make sure your wife, your girlfriend, your daughter, your mother is on it, as well. and...

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little light and shade, prank time. now, have you ever had a roll with your doctor?

L-IH1 T-AH0-L L-AY1 T-AH0-N-D SH-EY1-D P-R-AE1-NG-K T-AY1-M N-AW1 HH-AE1 V-Y-UW1 EH1 V-ER0 HH-AE1 D-AH0 R-OW1 L-W-IH1 DH-Y-AO1-R D-AA1-K T-ER0


a doctor. when i was a kid, you'd never have an argument with a teacher. there are certain people that you don't argue with. but this guy-

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something about a outstanding balance here, that needs to be sorted out. i mean, it's already end of february, you know.

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you've got 2,100.00 outstanding.

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okay. so, you come to the doctor, he check you out, he make you make better, but you don't want to pay?

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look, let me explain to you. i'm calling you from dr. rogers office. i'm rajesh. i'm doing the books here. all right.

L-UH1 K-L-EH1 T-M-IY1 IH0-K-S P-L-EY1-N T-UW1 Y-UW1 IH1-M K-AO1 L-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 F-R-AH1-M D-R-AY1 V-R-AA1 JH-ER0 Z-AO1 F-AH0 S-IH1 M-R-EY1 JH-IH0 SH-IH1-M D-UW1 IH0-NG DH-AH0 B-UH1-K-S HH-IY1 R-AO1-L R-AY1-T


it's actually kevin, but a doctor wants me to pretend i'm rajesh.

IH1-T S-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 K-EH1 V-IH0-N B-AH1 T-AH0 D-AA1-K T-ER0 W-AA1-N-T S-M-IY1 T-UW1 P-R-IY0 T-EH1-N D-IH1 M-R-EY1 JH-IH0-SH


shut your mouth you.shut your mouth and speak to your mother.

SH-AH1 T-Y-AO1-R M-AW1 DH-Y-UW1 SH-UW0 T-Y-AO1-R M-AW1 DH-AH0-N-D-S P-IY1-K T-UW1 Y-AO1-R M-AH1 DH-ER0


right.


if i tell you we've received a thousand people just spitting on the whatsapp telephone.

IH1 F-AY1 T-EH1 L-Y-UW1 W-IY1 V-R-AH0 S-IY1-V D-AH0 TH-AW1 Z-AH0-N-D P-IY1 P-AH0-L JH-AH1-S-T-S P-IH1 T-IH0 NG-AA1-N DH-AH0 W-AH1-T-S P-AE2-F T-EH1 L-AH0 F-OW2-N


budget insurance understands that life is getting more expensive by the day and that keeping up with daily necessities,

B-AH1 JH-IH0 T-IH0-N SH-UH1 R-AH0-N S-AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D-Z DH-AE1 T-L-AY1 F-IH1-Z G-EH1 T-IH0-NG M-AO1 R-IH0-K-S P-EH1-N S-IH0-V B-AY1 DH-AH0 D-EY1 AH0-N-D DH-AE1-T K-IY1 P-IH0 NG-AH1 P-W-IH1-DH D-EY1 L-IY0 N-AH0 S-EH1 S-IH0 T-IY0-Z


it's often difficult, but there are certain cutbacks that just can't be made. that is why budget insurance..

IH1-T S-AO1 F-AH0-N D-IH1 F-AH0 K-AH0-L-T B-AH1-T DH-EH1 R-AA1-R S-ER1 T-AH0-N K-AH1-T B-AE2-K-S DH-AE1-T JH-AH1-S-T K-AE1-N-T B-IY1 M-EY1-D DH-AE1 T-IH1 Z-W-AY1 B-AH1 JH-IH0 T-IH0-N SH-UH1 R-AH0-N-S


all right now. sheila, the word affordable. 10 letters.

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all right. so how this works. every letter i've got a separate box and there could be a cash amount under that. you might get another go. you might not. so pick a letter

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in the word, affordable. okay.

IH0-N DH-AH0 W-ER1 D-AH0 F-AO1-R D-AH0 B-AH0 L-OW2 K-EY1


this evening in the budget box show with budget insurance. we'll do it again tomorrow night. the vinyl classics.

DH-IH1 S-IY1 V-N-IH0 NG-IH0-N DH-AH0 B-AH1 JH-IH0-T B-AA1-K-S SH-OW1 W-IH1-DH B-AH1 JH-IH0 T-IH0-N SH-UH1 R-AH0-N S-W-EH1-L D-UW1 IH1 T-AH0 G-EH1-N T-AH0 M-AA1 R-OW2 N-AY1-T DH-AH0 V-AY1 N-AH0-L K-L-AE1 S-IH0-K-S


i have got vinyl classics today and my wife was actually singing this song.

AY1 HH-AE1-V G-AA1-T V-AY1 N-AH0-L K-L-AE1 S-IH0-K-S T-AH0 D-EY1 AH0-N D-M-AY1 W-AY1 F-W-AA1 Z-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 S-IH1 NG-IH0-NG DH-IH1-S S-AO1-NG


it was massive. okay. going up against a serious tune. this was also number one all around the world.

IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-M-AE1 S-IH0 V-OW2 K-EY1 G-OW1 IH0 NG-AH1 P-AH0 G-EH1-N-S T-AH0 S-IH1 R-IY0 AH0-S T-UW1-N DH-IH1 S-W-AA1 Z-AO1-L S-OW0 N-AH1-M B-ER0 W-AH1 N-AO1 L-ER0 AW1-N-D DH-AH0 W-ER1-L-D


you will understand why i do the things that i do to you vin because you will not survive in prison. so i'm getting you prison ready?

Y-UW1 W-IH1 L-AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N D-W-AY1 AY1 D-UW1 DH-AH0 TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1 T-AY1 D-UW1 T-UW1 Y-UW1 V-IH1-N B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-Y-UW1 W-IH1-L N-AA1-T S-ER0 V-AY1 V-IH0-N P-R-IH1 Z-AH0-N S-OW1 IH1-M G-EH1 T-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 P-R-IH1 Z-AH0 N-R-EH1 D-IY0


that's right? yeah. okay. so who is that iconic dad

TH-AE1-T S-R-AY1 T-Y-AE1 OW2 K-EY1 S-OW1 HH-UW1 IH1-Z DH-AE1 T-AY2 K-AA1 N-IH0-K D-AE1-D


at cape union mart. home of the father's day gift..

AE1-T K-EY1 P-Y-UW1 N-Y-AH0-N M-AA1-R-T HH-OW1 M-AH1-V DH-AH0 F-AA1 DH-ER0-Z D-EY1 G-IH1-F-T


cape union mart vouchers. what is the answer to that audio clip i played?

K-EY1 P-Y-UW1 N-Y-AH0-N M-AA1-R-T V-AW1 CH-ER0 Z-W-AH1 T-IH1-Z DH-AH0 AE1-N S-ER0 T-UW1 DH-AE1 T-AA1 D-IY0 OW2 K-L-IH1 P-AY1 P-L-EY1-D


two thousand rand cape union march voucher plus the chance...

T-UW1 TH-AW1 Z-AH0-N D-R-AE1-N-D K-EY1 P-Y-UW1 N-Y-AH0-N M-AA1-R-CH V-AW1 CH-ER0 P-L-AH1-S DH-AH0 CH-AE1-N-S


i still reckon i have a better chance in prison than vin.

AY1-S T-IH1-L R-EH1 K-AH0 N-AY1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 B-EH1 T-ER0 CH-AE1-N S-IH0-N P-R-IH1 Z-AH0-N DH-AE1-N V-IH1-N


how often have you been talking about somebody? you know, like you sending a message to jacob, felicity and you're going, yeah,

HH-AW1 AO1 F-AH0-N HH-AE1 V-Y-UW1 B-IH1-N T-AO1 K-IH0 NG-AH0 B-AW1-T S-AH1-M B-AA2 D-IY0 Y-UW1 N-OW1 L-AY1 K-Y-UW1 S-EH1-N D-IH0 NG-AH0 M-EH1 S-AH0-JH T-UW1 JH-EY1 K-AH0-B F-IH0 L-IH1 S-AH0 T-IY0 AH0-N D-Y-UH1-R G-OW1 IH0 NG-Y-AE1


darren, that bastard, that, you know, i just can't stand. you know what he said to me today and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. and then you sent that message to dar...

D-AA1 R-AH0-N DH-AE1-T B-AE1-S T-ER0-D DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 N-OW1 AY1 JH-AH1-S-T K-AE1-N-T-S T-AE1-N D-Y-UW1 N-OW1 W-AH1-T HH-IY1 S-EH1-D T-UW1 M-IY1 T-AH0 D-EY1 AH0-N-D B-L-AA1 B-L-AA1 B-L-AA1 B-L-AA1 B-L-AA1 AH0-N-D DH-EH1 N-Y-UW1 S-EH1-N-T DH-AE1 T-M-EH1 S-AH0-JH T-UW1 D-AA1-R


whatsapp, you can recall a message. so how...

W-AH1-T-S P-AE2 F-Y-UW1 K-AE1 N-R-IH0 K-AO1 L-AH0 M-EH1 S-AH0-JH S-OW1 HH-AW1


but if you send me a message and i haven't opened it...

B-AH1 T-IH1 F-Y-UW1 S-EH1-N D-M-IY1 AH0 M-EH1 S-AH0 JH-AH0-N D-AY1 HH-AE1 V-AH0-N T-OW1 P-AH0-N D-IH1-T


how many lives will this save?

HH-AW1 M-EH1 N-IY0 L-IH1-V Z-W-IH1-L DH-IH1-S S-EY1-V


is a supernatural show on there.

IH1 Z-AH0 S-UW2 P-ER0 N-AE1 CH-ER0 AH0-L SH-OW1 AA1-N DH-EH1-R


did you not get enough with twilight? i thought that phase was twilight come and gone.

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no, these two i got two teenage girls.

N-OW1 DH-IY1-Z T-UW1 AY1 G-AA1-T T-UW1 T-IY1 N-EY2-JH G-ER1-L-Z


so shannara khan and the oldest weekend, shannara chronicles, as well as shadow hunter.

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all the time, then it's fine. it's not like you're, you're spending weeks on end in bed...

AO1-L DH-AH0 T-AY1-M DH-EH1 N-IH1-T-S F-AY1 N-IH1-T S-N-AA1 T-L-AY1 K-Y-UH1 R-Y-UH1-R-S P-EH1-N D-IH0 NG-W-IY1-K S-AA1 N-EH1-N D-IH0-N B-EH1-D


soup diet, meat diet, this diet, that diet. you know what's the latest fad and it is so dangerous. it's called...

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you got quite skinny legs, so maybe two kilos...

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because tapeworms also give you an itchy bum. so you'd be very scared of an itchy bum...

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hopefully never have to experience, but it's the world we live in and it's a reality.

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to be educated and to just have fun and do what youth is supposed to do. all right.

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this is the information that i have, but that's why i brought in the experts to give you more.

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i heard that jimmy nevis and ready d, they're going to be the headliners. very excited about that because you've got a bit of seven, seven, six, four and a bit of picky picky boom.

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it was ready d as well. and then there's also something behind this, which is even more amazing.

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it's stein and jacobs youth of that series. yes. that's what i'm talking about. let's start from the beginning. suzanne smith, woman empowerment, facilitator, rlabs.

IH1-T-S-S T-AY1 N-AH0-N-D JH-EY1 K-AH0-B Z-Y-UW1 TH-AH1-V DH-AE1-T S-IH1 R-IY0 Z-Y-EH1-S TH-AE1-T S-W-AH1 T-IH1-M T-AO1 K-IH0 NG-AH0 B-AW1 T-L-EH1-T-S-S T-AA1-R-T F-R-AH1-M DH-AH0 B-IH0 G-IH1 N-IH0-NG S-UW0 Z-AE1-N S-M-IH1 TH-W-UH1 M-AH0 N-IH0-M P-AW1 ER0 M-AH0-N-T F-AH0 S-IH1 L-AH0 T-EY2 T-ER0-L R-AE1-B-Z


obviously we didn't know that this is what rlabs was going to look like. so rlabs

AA1-B V-IY0 AH0 S-L-IY0 W-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-N-OW1 DH-AE1-T DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-W-AH1 T-L-R-AE1-B Z-W-AA1-Z G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 L-UH1 K-L-AY1-K S-OW1-L R-AE1-B-Z


started with about seven or eight guys from a community, ex gangsters...

S-T-AA1-R T-AH0 D-W-IH1 DH-AH0 B-AW1-T S-EH1 V-AH0 N-AO1 R-EY1-T G-AY1-Z F-R-AH1 M-AH0 K-AH0 M-Y-UW1 N-AH0 T-IY0 EH1-K-S G-AE1-NG-S T-ER0-Z


always explains it like about the paint that they had to buy for the room. it wasn't supposed to be red you know, and it was supposed to be...

AO1 L-W-EY2 Z-IH0-K-S P-L-EY1-N Z-IH1 T-L-AY1 K-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AH0 P-EY1-N-T DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 HH-AE1-D T-UW1 B-AY1 F-AO1-R DH-AH0 R-UW1 M-IH1 T-W-AO1-S-T S-AH0 P-OW1-Z-D T-UW1 B-IY1 R-EH1 D-Y-UW1 N-OW1 AH0-N D-IH1 T-W-AA1-Z S-AH0 P-OW1-Z-D T-UW1 B-IY1


and the floors was also a other

AH0-N-D DH-AH0 F-L-AO1-R Z-W-AA1 Z-AO1-L S-OW0 AH0 AH1 DH-ER0


color and they had red dell laptops and i think there's where also, the logo came from the rlabs logo that's red and black and white...

K-AH1 L-ER0 AH0-N-D DH-EY1 HH-AE1 D-R-EH1-D D-EH1-L L-AE1-P T-AA2-P S-AH0-N D-AY1 TH-IH1-NG-K DH-EH1-R Z-W-EH1 R-AO1-L S-OW0 DH-AH0 L-OW1 G-OW0 K-EY1-M F-R-AH1-M DH-AH0-L R-AE1-B Z-L-OW1 G-OW0 TH-AE1-T S-R-EH1 D-AH0-N-D B-L-AE1 K-AH0-N D-W-AY1-T


because of the room that was painted red and there was sponsored, red dell laptops.

B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AH1-V DH-AH0 R-UW1-M DH-AE1 T-W-AA1-Z P-EY1-N T-AH0 D-R-EH1 D-AH0-N-D DH-EH1 R-W-AA1-Z-S P-AA1-N S-ER0 D-R-EH1-D D-EH1-L L-AE1-P T-AA2-P-S


because the red, it may have been a mistake-

B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-AH0 R-EH1 D-IH1 T-M-EY1 HH-AE1-V B-IH1 N-AH0 M-IH0-S T-EY1-K


...as the millennials. so these are the young people that grew up in the age of technology-

AE1-Z DH-AH0 M-IH0 L-EH1 N-IY0 AH0-L-Z S-OW1 DH-IY1 Z-AA1-R DH-AH0 Y-AH1-NG P-IY1 P-AH0-L DH-AE1-T G-R-UW1 AH1 P-IH0-N DH-AH0 EY1 JH-AH1-V T-EH0 K-N-AA1 L-AH0 JH-IY0


...these are the guys who just basically love technology-

DH-IY1 Z-AA1-R DH-AH0 G-AY1-Z HH-UW1 JH-AH1-S-T B-EY1 S-IH0 K-L-IY0 L-AH1-V T-EH0 K-N-AA1 L-AH0 JH-IY0


...the fourth generation. so why do an event like this from 9:00 till 4:00 on saturday?-

DH-AH0 F-AO1-R-TH JH-EH2 N-ER0 EY1 SH-AH0-N S-OW1 W-AY1 D-UW1 AE1 N-IH0 V-EH1-N T-L-AY1-K DH-IH1-S F-R-AH1-M N-AY1 N-AH0 K-L-AA1-K T-IH1-L F-AO1 R-AH0 K-L-AA1 K-AA1-N S-AE1 T-ER0 D-IY0


...hey, these people as to the technologies that surrounds the fourth industrial revolution, so they can actually be prepared for the-

HH-EY1 DH-IY1-Z P-IY1 P-AH0 L-AE1-Z T-UW1 DH-AH0 T-EH0 K-N-AA1 L-AH0 JH-IY0-Z DH-AE1-T S-ER0 AW1-N-D-Z DH-AH0 F-AO1-R TH-IH0-N D-AH1-S T-R-IY0 AH0-L R-EH2 V-AH0 L-UW1 SH-AH0-N S-OW1 DH-EY1 K-AE1 N-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 B-IY1 P-R-IY0 P-EH1-R-D F-AO1-R DH-AH0


...about the whole event and everything around it and they are doing pre-registration for the event. so we're actually going to these young people instead of just-

AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AH0 HH-OW1 L-IH0 V-EH1-N T-AH0-N D-EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2 NG-ER0 AW1-N D-IH1 T-AH0-N-D DH-EY1 AA1-R D-UW1 IH0-NG P-R-IY2 R-IH0-G Z-AH0 T-EY1 SH-AH0-N F-AO1-R DH-AH0 IH0 V-EH1-N-T S-OW1 W-ER0 AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 G-OW1 IH0-NG T-UW1 DH-IY1 Z-Y-AH1-NG P-IY1 P-AH0 L-IH0-N-S T-EH1 D-AH1-V JH-AH1-S-T


...telling them, come to our offices and register-

T-EH1 L-IH0-NG DH-EH1-M K-AH1-M T-UW1 AW1 ER0 AO1 F-AH0 S-AH0 Z-AH0-N D-R-EH1 JH-IH0-S T-ER0


...areas, learning... so we would like to give these young people learning experience, and we have four different focus points, which is an-

EH1 R-IY0 AH0 Z-L-ER1 N-IH0-NG S-OW1 W-IY1 W-UH1 D-L-AY1-K T-UW1 G-IH1-V DH-IY1 Z-Y-AH1-NG P-IY1 P-AH0-L L-ER1 N-IH0 NG-IH0-K-S P-IH1 R-IY0 AH0-N S-AH0-N D-W-IY1 HH-AE1-V F-AO1-R D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-T F-OW1 K-AH0-S P-OY1-N-T S-W-IH1 CH-IH1 Z-AE1-N


...some fire chats, from the fourth generation peers. some people that they can relate to. and-

S-AH1-M F-AY1 ER0 CH-AE1-T-S F-R-AH1-M DH-AH0 F-AO1-R-TH JH-EH2 N-ER0 EY1 SH-AH0-N P-IH1-R-Z S-AH1-M P-IY1 P-AH0-L DH-AE1-T DH-EY1 K-AE1 N-R-IH0 L-EY1-T T-UW1 AH0-N-D


...i'm thinking methodologies and new technologies, and then the last one is activate-

IH1-M TH-IH1-NG K-IH0-NG M-EH2 TH-OW0 D-AA1 L-AH0 JH-IY0 Z-AH0-N D-N-UW1 T-EH0 K-N-AA1 L-AH0 JH-IY0 Z-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N DH-AH0 L-AE1-S T-W-AH1 N-IH1 Z-AE1-K T-AH0 V-EY2-T


...so i can make a good decision and visit you on saturday 17th june-

S-OW1 AY1 K-AE1-N M-EY1 K-AH0 G-UH1-D D-IH0 S-IH1 ZH-AH0 N-AH0-N-D V-IH1 Z-AH0 T-Y-UW1 AA1-N S-AE1 T-ER0 D-IY0 DH-AH0 S-EH1 V-AH0-N T-IY1-N TH-AH1-V JH-UW1-N


...so any youth groups and things that i would like to register, they can obviously email events@olives.org.yes.and then-

S-OW1 EH1 N-IY0 Y-UW1-TH G-R-UW1-P S-AH0-N-D TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1 T-AY1 W-UH1 D-L-AY1-K T-UW1 R-EH1 JH-IH0-S T-ER0 DH-EY1 K-AE1 N-AA1-B V-IY0 AH0 S-L-IY0 IY0 M-EY1 L-IY2 V-EH2-N T-AH0-S V-EH1-L B-AH0-S T-EH0-V DH-EH1-N


nice car and a lot of-

N-AY1-S K-AA1 R-AH0-N D-AH0 L-AA1 T-AH1-V


...i said, well, the plan is not to have a plant and they only-

AY1 S-EH1 D-W-EH1-L DH-AH0 P-L-AE1 N-IH1 Z-N-AA1-T T-UW1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 P-L-AE1-N T-AH0-N-D DH-EY1 OW1 N-L-IY0


...last about a year and through various complicated reasons-

L-AE1-S T-AH0 B-AW1 T-AH0 Y-IH1 R-AH0-N-D TH-R-UW1 V-EH1 R-IY0 AH0-S K-AA1-M P-L-AH0 K-EY2 T-AH0 D-R-IY1 Z-AH0-N-Z


...and that was about two and a half years ago. i forgot to leave.

AH0-N-D DH-AE1 T-W-AA1 Z-AH0 B-AW1-T T-UW1 AH0-N D-AH0 HH-AE1 F-Y-IH1-R Z-AH0 G-OW1 AY1 F-ER0 G-AA1-T T-UW1 L-IY1-V


...things that people in sydney or melbourne or anywhere in the world would pay millions of dollars for. our nearest neighbors, technically are 200 kilometers down the road.

TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1-T P-IY1 P-AH0 L-IH0-N S-IH1 D-N-IY0 AO1-R M-EH1-L B-ER0 N-AO1 R-EH1 N-IY0 W-EH2 R-IH0-N DH-AH0 W-ER1-L D-W-UH1-D P-EY1 M-IH1 L-Y-AH0-N Z-AH1-V D-AA1 L-ER0-Z F-AO1 R-AW1 ER0 N-IH1 R-AH0-S T-N-EY1 B-ER0-Z T-EH1 K-N-IH0 K-AH0 L-IY0 AA1-R T-UW1 HH-AH1-N D-R-AH0-D K-AH0 L-AA1 M-AH0 T-ER0-Z D-AW1-N DH-AH0 R-OW1-D


...we have this incredible expanse of a bush and the views-

W-IY1 HH-AE1-V DH-IH1 S-IH0-N K-R-EH1 D-AH0 B-AH0 L-IH0-K-S P-AE1-N S-AH1 V-AH0 B-UH1 SH-AH0-N-D DH-AH0 V-Y-UW1-Z


...an orphaned baby kangaroo here for a while, we looked after and then he went bush and just all these-

AE1 N-AO1-R F-AH0-N-D B-EY1 B-IY0 K-AE2-NG G-ER0 UW1 HH-IY1-R F-AO1 R-AH0 W-AY1 L-W-IY1 L-UH1-K T-AE1-F T-ER0 AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N HH-IY1 W-EH1-N-T B-UH1 SH-AH0-N-D JH-AH1-S T-AO1-L DH-IY1-Z


...i was lonelier in the city. i've never been lonely out here at all. and in the whole-

AY1 W-AA1 Z-L-OW1 N-IY0 L-ER0 IH0-N DH-AH0 S-IH1 T-IY0 AY1 V-N-EH1 V-ER0 B-IH1 N-L-OW1 N-L-IY0 AW1-T HH-IY1 R-AE1 T-AO1 L-AH0-N D-IH0-N DH-AH0 HH-OW1-L


...which is nearly three years, i have never once heard anyone say, "oh, let's catch up."

W-IH1 CH-IH1 Z-N-IH1-R L-IY0 TH-R-IY1 Y-IH1-R Z-AY1 HH-AE1 V-N-EH1 V-ER0 W-AH1-N-S HH-ER1 D-EH1 N-IY0 W-AH2-N S-EY1 OW1 L-EH1-T-S K-AE1 CH-AH1-P


...because nobody has to catch up out here. we're already here-

B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-N-OW1 B-AA2 D-IY2 HH-AE1-Z T-UW1 K-AE1 CH-AH1 P-AW1-T HH-IY1 R-W-ER0 AO0-L R-EH1 D-IY0 HH-IY1-R


how has our past created patterns in trends that see us losing the battle against rape? and she unpicks in this book-

HH-AW1 HH-AE1 Z-AW1 ER0 P-AE1-S-T K-R-IY0 EY1 T-AH0-D P-AE1 T-ER0-N Z-IH0-N T-R-EH1-N-D-Z DH-AE1-T S-IY1 AH1 S-L-UW1 Z-IH0-NG DH-AH0 B-AE1 T-AH0 L-AH0 G-EH1-N-S T-R-EY1 P-AH0-N-D SH-IY1 AH1-N P-IH2-K S-IH0-N DH-IH1-S B-UH1-K


...cases in south africa is that of a president-

K-EY1 S-AH0 Z-IH0-N S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 IH1-Z DH-AE1 T-AH1 V-AH0 P-R-EH1 Z-AH0 D-EH2-N-T


...boyfriend. and she questions the whole lot of things about the community's reaction. that the first thing that was said was not the condemnation of the rape, but rather-

B-OY1 F-R-EH2-N D-AH0-N-D SH-IY1 K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0-N-Z DH-AH0 HH-OW1-L L-AA1 T-AH1-V TH-IH1-NG Z-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AH0 K-AH0 M-Y-UW1 N-AH0 T-IY0 Z-R-IY0 AE1-K SH-AH0-N DH-AE1-T DH-AH0 F-ER1-S-T TH-IH1-NG DH-AE1 T-W-AA1-Z S-EH1 D-W-AA1 Z-N-AA1-T DH-AH0 K-AA2-N D-AH0-M N-EY1 SH-AH0 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 R-EY1-P B-AH1 T-R-AE1 DH-ER0


...how strongly i feel about this topic. and sometimes i'm not even able to have a conversation because it's one of those topics, sexual violence and rape-

HH-AW1-S T-R-AO1 NG-L-IY0 AY1 F-IY1 L-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-IH1-S T-AA1 P-IH0 K-AH0-N-D S-AH0-M T-AY1-M Z-IH1-M N-AA1 T-IY1 V-IH0 N-EY1 B-AH0-L T-UW1 HH-AE1 V-AH0 K-AA2-N V-ER0 S-EY1 SH-AH0-N B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1-T S-W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-OW1-Z T-AA1 P-IH0-K-S S-EH1-K SH-UW0 AH0-L V-AY1 AH0 L-AH0-N S-AH0-N D-R-EY1-P


...has, when you claim your own dysfunctions, bias, imbalances, it just makes the conversation-

HH-AE1 Z-W-EH1 N-Y-UW1 K-L-EY1 M-Y-AO1 R-OW1-N D-IH0-S F-AH1-NG-K SH-AH0-N-Z B-AY1 AH0 S-IH0-M B-AE1 L-AH0-N S-IH0 Z-IH1-T JH-AH1-S T-M-EY1-K-S DH-AH0 K-AA2-N V-ER0 S-EY1 SH-AH0-N


...easier. i get so angry, so angry when we talk about rape and-

IY1 Z-IY0 ER0 AY1 G-EH1-T S-OW1 AE1-NG G-R-IY0 S-OW1 AE1-NG G-R-IY0 W-EH1 N-W-IY1 T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1 T-R-EY1 P-AH0-N-D


...i get so angry when we talk about rape and somebody says, "not all of us rape."

AY1 G-EH1-T S-OW1 AE1-NG G-R-IY0 W-EH1 N-W-IY1 T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1 T-R-EY1 P-AH0-N-D S-AH1-M B-AA2 D-IY0 S-EH1 Z-N-AA1 T-AO1 L-AH1 V-AH1 S-R-EY1-P


...can you focus? focus? we know that not all of you rape. this-

K-AE1 N-Y-UW1 F-OW1 K-AH0-S F-OW1 K-AH0 S-W-IY1 N-OW1 DH-AE1 T-N-AA1 T-AO1 L-AH1 V-Y-UW1 R-EY1-P DH-IH1-S


...is not a gender war. it isn't, but perhaps it is. and i'll contextualize that by referencing to the book, but for the purposes of this conversation-

IH1 Z-N-AA1 T-AH0 JH-EH1-N D-ER0 W-AO1 R-IH1 T-IH1 S-AH0-N-T B-AH1-T P-ER0 HH-AE1-P S-IH1 T-IH1 Z-AH0-N D-IH1-L K-AH0-N T-EH1-K SH-AH0 W-AH0 S-L-AY2-Z DH-AE1-T B-AY1 R-EH1 F-ER0 AH0-N S-IH0-NG T-UW1 DH-AH0 B-UH1-K B-AH1-T F-AO1-R DH-AH0 P-ER1 P-AH0 S-AH0 Z-AH1-V DH-IH1-S K-AA2-N V-ER0 S-EY1 SH-AH0-N


...are not, should not be battlegrounds, they're not things-

AA1-R N-AA1-T SH-UH1 D-N-AA1-T B-IY1 B-AE1 T-AH0-L G-R-AW2-N-D-Z TH-EH1-R N-AA1-T TH-IH1-NG-Z


...made for yourself. so can we calm down and-

M-EY1-D F-AO1 R-Y-ER0 S-EH1-L-F S-OW1 K-AE1 N-W-IY1 K-AA1-M D-AW1 N-AH0-N-D


...acknowledge that men do get raped? i acknowledge that, but the statistics are incomparable and there'll be an occasion-

AE0 K-N-AA1 L-IH0-JH DH-AE1 T-M-EH1-N D-UW1 G-EH1 T-R-EY1-P T-AY1 AE0 K-N-AA1 L-IH0-JH DH-AE1-T B-AH1-T DH-AH0-S T-AH0 T-IH1-S T-IH0-K S-AA1 R-IH0-N K-AA1-M P-ER0 AH0 B-AH0 L-AH0-N-D DH-EH1 R-AH0-L B-IY1 AE1 N-AH0 K-EY1 ZH-AH0-N


...to speak about male rape. and we must, we must. but i believe-

T-UW1-S P-IY1 K-AH0 B-AW1 T-M-EY1-L R-EY1 P-AH0-N D-W-IY1 M-AH1-S T-W-IY1 M-AH1-S-T B-AH1 T-AY1 B-IH0 L-IY1-V


...so, can i ask you to join us in this conversation? because-

S-OW1 K-AE1 N-AY1 AE1-S K-Y-UW1 T-UW1 JH-OY1 N-AH1 S-IH0-N DH-IH1-S K-AA2-N V-ER0 S-EY1 SH-AH0-N B-IH0 K-AO1-Z


...to me, if you have sisters and mothers and grannies and children and cousins and colleagues-

T-UW1 M-IY1 IH1 F-Y-UW1 HH-AE1-V S-IH1-S T-ER0 Z-AH0-N D-M-AH1 DH-ER0 Z-AH0-N-D G-R-AE1 N-IY0 Z-AH0-N-D CH-IH1-L D-R-AH0 N-AH0-N-D K-AH1 Z-AH0-N Z-AH0-N-D K-AA1 L-IY0-G-Z


...and women who are strangers to you, you should care about this. a south african nightmare, rape by professor-

AH0-N D-W-IH1 M-AH0-N HH-UW1 AA1-R-S T-R-EY1-N JH-ER0-Z T-UW1 Y-UW1 Y-UW1 SH-UH1-D K-EH1 R-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-IH1 S-AH0 S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0-N N-AY1 T-M-EH2-R R-EY1-P B-AY1 P-R-AH0 F-EH1 S-ER0


...with it plays itself out as a series of miscommunications and missed opportunities. in other words-

W-IH1 DH-IH1-T P-L-EY1 Z-IH0-T S-EH1-L F-AW1 T-AE1 Z-AH0 S-IH1 R-IY0 Z-AH1 V-M-IH2-S K-AH0-M P-UW2 N-AH0 K-EY1 SH-AH0-N Z-AH0-N D-M-IH1-S T-AA2 P-ER0 T-UW1 N-AH0 T-IY0 Z-IH0 N-AH1 DH-ER0 W-ER1-D-Z


...although we talk about it all the time, read about it and fight against it, we cannot-

AO2-L DH-OW1 W-IY1 T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1 T-IH1 T-AO1-L DH-AH0 T-AY1 M-R-EH1 D-AH0 B-AW1 T-IH1 T-AH0-N-D F-AY1 T-AH0 G-EH1-N-S T-IH1 T-W-IY1 K-AE1 N-AA0-T


...south africa since very few admit to being rapists, yet millions-

S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 S-IH1-N-S V-EH1 R-IY0 F-Y-UW1 AH0 D-M-IH1-T T-UW1 B-IY1 IH0 NG-R-EY1 P-IH0-S-T S-Y-EH1 T-M-IH1 L-Y-AH0-N-Z


...more and more instances of rape. we respond to them as individual x of brutality, as we must in order to be empathetic to the violated. but having done that-

M-AO1 R-AH0-N D-M-AO1 R-IH1-N-S T-AH0-N S-AH0 Z-AH1 V-R-EY1 P-W-IY1 R-IH0-S P-AA1-N-D T-UW1 DH-EH1 M-AE1 Z-IH2-N D-AH0 V-IH1 JH-AH0 W-AH0 L-EH1-K S-AH1-V B-R-UW0 T-AE1 L-AH0 T-IY0 AE1 Z-W-IY1 M-AH1-S T-IH0 N-AO1-R D-ER0 T-UW1 B-IY1 EH2-M P-AH0 TH-EH1 T-IH0-K T-UW1 DH-AH0 V-AY1 AH0 L-EY0 T-IH0-D B-AH1-T HH-AE1 V-IH0-NG D-AH1-N DH-AE1-T


...we then stop short of reading rape as more than a moment, a singular event.

W-IY1 DH-EH1-N-S T-AA1-P SH-AO1-R T-AH1 V-R-EH1 D-IH0 NG-R-EY1 P-AE1 Z-M-AO1-R DH-AE1 N-AH0 M-OW1 M-AH0-N T-AH0 S-IH1-NG G-Y-AH0 L-ER0 IH0 V-EH1-N-T


...every time we read a rape as an isolated enigmatic event-

EH1 V-ER0 IY0 T-AY1 M-W-IY1 R-EH1 D-AH0 R-EY1 P-AE1 Z-AE1 N-AY1 S-AH0 L-EY2 T-AH0 D-EH2 N-IH0 G-M-AE1 T-IH0 K-IH0 V-EH1-N-T


...what is wrong, firstly, about the way we approach rape in south africa?

W-AH1 T-IH1 Z-R-AO1-NG F-ER1-S T-L-IY0 AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AH0 W-EY1 W-IY1 AH0 P-R-OW1 CH-R-EY1 P-IH0-N S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0


and then we call in to shows and we write into papers and we talk to our friends and we say the same things over and over again.

AH0-N-D DH-EH1 N-W-IY1 K-AO1 L-IH0-N T-UW1 SH-OW1 Z-AH0-N D-W-IY1 R-AY1 T-IH0-N T-UW1 P-EY1 P-ER0 Z-AH0-N D-W-IY1 T-AO1-K T-UW1 AW1 ER0 F-R-EH1-N-D Z-AH0-N D-W-IY1 S-EY1 DH-AH0 S-EY1-M TH-IH1-NG Z-OW1 V-ER0 AH0-N D-OW1 V-ER0 AH0 G-EH1-N


we outrage, we frightened, we are mystified,

W-IY1 AW1 T-R-EY2 JH-W-IY1 F-R-AY1 T-AH0-N D-W-IY1 AA1-R M-IH1-S T-AH0 F-AY2-D


but we don't think hang on. what is it that links this rape that i've just heard off, i've just gone through or just survived or seen someone not survive, to a previous rape.

B-AH1 T-W-IY1 D-AA1-N-T TH-IH1-NG-K HH-AE1 NG-AA1 N-W-AH1 T-IH1 Z-IH1-T DH-AE1 T-L-IH1-NG-K-S DH-IH1 S-R-EY1-P DH-AE1 T-AY1-V JH-AH1-S-T HH-ER1 D-AO1 F-AY1-V JH-AH1-S-T G-AO1-N TH-R-UW1 AO1-R JH-AH1-S-T S-ER0 V-AY1-V D-AO1-R S-IY1-N S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N N-AA1-T S-ER0 V-AY1-V T-UW1 AH0 P-R-IY1 V-IY0 AH0 S-R-EY1-P


that makes it possible for people to rape with such impunity.

DH-AE1 T-M-EY1-K S-IH1-T P-AA1 S-AH0 B-AH0-L F-AO1-R P-IY1 P-AH0-L T-UW1 R-EY1 P-W-IH1-DH S-AH1 CH-IH0-M P-Y-UW1 N-IH0 T-IY0


democracy perspective, or pre a party to perspective. if you can imagine a party to the particular period before.

D-IH0 M-AA1 K-R-AH0 S-IY0 P-ER0-S P-EH1-K T-IH0 V-AO1-R P-R-IY1 AH0 P-AA1-R T-IY0 T-UW1 P-ER0-S P-EH1-K T-IH0 V-IH1 F-Y-UW1 K-AE1 N-IH0 M-AE1 JH-AH0 N-AH0 P-AA1-R T-IY0 T-UW1 DH-AH0 P-ER0 T-IH1 K-Y-AH0 L-ER0 P-IH1 R-IY0 AH0-D B-IH0 F-AO1-R


it was important, because part we keep saying, well, what part of why we can't solve it, right? in addition, in addition

IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-IH0-M P-AO1-R T-AH0-N-T B-IH0 K-AO1-Z P-AA1-R T-W-IY1 K-IY1-P S-EY1 IH0 NG-W-EH1 L-W-AH1-T P-AA1-R T-AH1 V-W-AY1 W-IY1 K-AE1-N-T S-AA1-L V-IH1 T-R-AY1 T-IH0 N-AH0 D-IH1 SH-AH0 N-IH0 N-AH0 D-IH1 SH-AH0-N


to kind of individualizing it is we claim not to understand what enables it. and we know patriarchy enables it

T-UW1 K-AY1-N D-AH1 V-IH0-N D-IH1 V-IH0 JH-UW0 AH0 L-IH0 SH-IH0 NG-IH1 T-IH1 Z-W-IY1 K-L-EY1-M N-AA1-T T-UW1 AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N D-W-AH1 T-EH0 N-EY1 B-AH0-L Z-IH1 T-AH0-N D-W-IY1 N-OW1 P-EY1 T-R-IY0 AA2-R K-IY0 EH0 N-EY1 B-AH0-L Z-IH1-T


and spend a lot of time thinking about patriarchy. so it isn't particularly useful

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as though it's a new phenomenon.

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i do research on slavery. and so i knew that's kind of slick.

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rape is very crucial to kind of making slavery and creating slave societies and rendering people as property and production and all those things.

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constitutive of rape actually, rather than kind of addition

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around raping women, there's an entitlement, where does

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it apply? and i said, well, it's not happening post it. doesn't start post about date. then something posts

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kind of conquest after colonial conquest. one of the ways in which kind of colonial colonizing

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villages and rape native women. and then i thought

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slave the rape of slave women, like in other kind of slave contexts.

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so i saw in your book, you talking about the legal aspects and the fact that when you looked at the records, there were black men who were hanged for

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raping women. but if case was thrown out of a woman who was raped when the legal system realized that she was.

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slave acratics of africa, as well as slave based south africa, which is 300 years in the cape and beyond. there isn't a single conviction for the rape of

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the property. and yet colonial

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who had this slippage then between obviously this is

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kind of institutionalized rape because none of these women can consent. i mean, to be a slave nobody's consent, you can't consent to be a slave.

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so it's kind of forced sex and access to these women's bodies, but you have this kind of slippery neck,

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in terms of the language and the kind of legal definition of these people. so you, if you call it a brothel,

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the first brothel, the kind of laws, a fair kind of approach to kind of going out and can routinely rape these slave women.

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when the accident happened, right, a black

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woman, previously enslaved woman who looked white,

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i could pass for white, who was then read as white. as soon as the judge, the presiding officer realized she wasn't white.

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it is impossible to rape.

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lyrical terms about it, reflecting the tenacity of the slave and all of that, and it's important not to romanticize this. and it's very interesting how the label of brothel

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almost then gave the slave owners,

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the rapists' authority to appropriate those women's bodies, and they could hide other than that veneer of a business transaction. absolutely . when it wasn't.

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does is that it makes it okay to kill african men, enslaved men, black men, south asian men, to kill them.

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promise, stop it. the twisted irony of it, i will say is that the same people.

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it is a psychosis, but it's actually logical, right? if you are routinely raping and denying raping, like i if it's part of your logic that to own, and they patriarchal men,

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i say white patriarchal men, if your logic is that you have entitlement to all women's bodies and you are habitually raping women that you say aren't human.

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beginning, but it was a point to start in a very helpful one at that. and we moving on to the gang rapes that we've read about recently, that jacob zuma rape trial,

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what it teaches us about ourselves, mcentee being accused of rape. there are many women who just walk away after being raped.

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what does that say? and that whole concept of who is to be believed whose story is believable.

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who is rapable? and how the legal system also responds to this. lets...

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pumla dineo gqola's book, a south african nightmare: rape. let me take this call because it's also exploring the angle of history that we've been speaking about, eileen in midrand, good morning.

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i just want to say that i studied that and i've majored in that and did roman history and greek catholic.

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exactly that, the theme of power, usurp people's power, annihilate...

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their identity and take ownership of their bodies. it's happened the world over...

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it is a tool of war. do we know?absolutely.yeah. so, and thank you very much for that...

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it's very hard when one wants to make a point about these particular cases. when the man has been acquitted, and we must acknowledge it as a legal fact, but...

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makhaya ntini he couldn't have raped her. we're going to talk about that in just a moment.

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who we regard as believable, rapable, not rapable. and where the burden to prove believability lies.

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the burden to prove believability always relies on the rape survivor or the person saying that...

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but predominantly certain groups of women have been set up, have been defined as unrapable. so we've already talked about how slaves, enslaved women are unrapable...

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of ideas about how south asian women and african women had this perpetual appetite, and rape is sex, another group...

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marital rape, but in many, many places in the world, it is impossible for a married woman to be raped. because to say it is impossible for her to be raped, means that the law does...

M-EH1 R-AH0 T-AH0-L R-EY1-P B-AH1 T-IH0-N M-EH1 N-IY0 M-EH1 N-IY0 P-L-EY1 S-AH0 Z-IH0-N DH-AH0 W-ER1-L D-IH1 T-IH1 Z-IH0-M P-AA1 S-AH0 B-AH0-L F-AO1 R-AH0 M-EH1 R-IY0 D-W-UH1 M-AH0-N T-UW1 B-IY1 R-EY1-P-T B-IH0 K-AO1-Z T-UW1 S-EY1 IH1 T-IH1 Z-IH0-M P-AA1 S-AH0 B-AH0-L F-AO1-R HH-ER0 T-UW1 B-IY1 R-EY1-P T-M-IY1-N-Z DH-AE1-T DH-AH0 L-AO1 D-AH1-Z


and so it becomes impossible for them to be believable, right? because the idea very often...

AH0-N-D S-OW1 IH1-T B-IH0 K-AH1-M Z-IH0-M P-AA1 S-AH0 B-AH0-L F-AO1-R DH-EH1-M T-UW1 B-IY1 B-AH0 L-IY1 V-AH0 B-AH0-L R-AY1-T B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-AH0 AY0 D-IY1 AH0 V-EH1 R-IY0 AO1 F-AH0-N


absolutely you should be bruised and battered and bleeding...

AE2-B S-AH0 L-UW1 T-L-IY0 Y-UW1 SH-UH1-D B-IY1 B-R-UW1-Z D-AH0-N-D B-AE1 T-ER0 D-AH0-N-D B-L-IY1 D-IH0-NG


so that the majority of rape cases, which are not by strangers, the majority of rape case.

S-OW1 DH-AE1-T DH-AH0 M-AH0 JH-AO1 R-AH0 T-IY0 AH1 V-R-EY1-P K-EY1 S-AH0 Z-W-IH1 CH-AA1-R N-AA1-T B-AY1-S T-R-EY1-N JH-ER0-Z DH-AH0 M-AH0 JH-AO1 R-AH0 T-IY0 AH1 V-R-EY1-P K-EY1-S


she knew very well. she went, she didn't go far away. she didn't leave her neighborhood...

SH-IY1 N-UW1 V-EH1 R-IY0 W-EH1-L SH-IY1 W-EH1-N-T SH-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T G-OW1 F-AA1 R-AH0 W-EY1 SH-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N T-L-IY1-V HH-ER0 N-EY1 B-ER0 HH-UH2-D


she did all these things that we pretend protect women.

SH-IY1 D-IH1 D-AO1-L DH-IY1-Z TH-IH1-NG-Z DH-AE1 T-W-IY1 P-R-IY0 T-EH1-N-D P-R-AH0 T-EH1-K T-W-IH1 M-AH0-N


she asked a man that she didn't just know, but a man who was proxy for her brother...

SH-IY1 AE1-S-K T-AH0 M-AE1-N DH-AE1-T SH-IY1 D-IH1 D-AH0-N-T JH-AH1-S T-N-OW1 B-AH1 T-AH0 M-AE1-N HH-UW1 W-AA1-Z P-R-AA1-K S-IY0 F-AO1-R HH-ER0 B-R-AH1 DH-ER0


he was her brother's classmate, someone whose name she knew, someone she knew quite well, who's family.

HH-IY1 W-AA1-Z HH-ER0 B-R-AH1 DH-ER0-Z K-L-AE1 S-M-EY2-T S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N HH-UW1 Z-N-EY1-M SH-IY1 N-UW1 S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N SH-IY1 N-UW1 K-W-AY1 T-W-EH1-L HH-UW1-Z F-AE1 M-AH0 L-IY0


she knew. and that was one of the people that raped her, and yet in much of the responses...

SH-IY1 N-UW1 AH0-N-D DH-AE1 T-W-AA1 Z-W-AH1 N-AH1-V DH-AH0 P-IY1 P-AH0-L DH-AE1 T-R-EY1-P-T HH-ER0 AH0-N D-Y-EH1 T-IH0-N M-AH1 CH-AH1-V DH-AH0 R-IH0-S P-AA1-N S-IH0-Z


why she was out at home, why her mother let her go drinking...

W-AY1 SH-IY1 W-AA1 Z-AW1 T-AE1-T HH-OW1 M-W-AY1 HH-ER0 M-AH1 DH-ER0 L-EH1-T HH-ER0 G-OW1 D-R-IH1-NG K-IH0-NG


everything, but, how do we hold rapists accountable?

EH1 V-R-IY0 TH-IH2-NG B-AH1-T HH-AW1 D-UW1 W-IY1 HH-OW1-L D-R-EY1 P-IH0-S-T S-AH0 K-AW1-N T-AH0 B-AH0-L


don't rape. because i understand the good intentions behind it, but i personally am so opposed to it for the following reasons...

D-AA1-N T-R-EY1-P B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-AY1 AH2-N D-ER0-S T-AE1-N-D DH-AH0 G-UH1 D-IH0-N T-EH1-N CH-AH0-N-Z B-IH0 HH-AY1-N D-IH1-T B-AH1 T-AY1 P-ER1 S-AH0 N-AH0 L-IY0 AE1-M S-OW1 AH0 P-OW1-Z-D T-UW1 IH1-T F-AO1-R DH-AH0 F-AA1 L-OW0 IH0 NG-R-IY1 Z-AH0-N-Z


there should be a collective responsibility to be part of the solution, and because you're white, you're part of a privileged...

DH-EH1-R SH-UH1-D B-IY1 AH0 K-AH0 L-EH1-K T-IH0 V-R-IY0-S P-AA2-N S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0 T-UW1 B-IY1 P-AA1-R T-AH1-V DH-AH0 S-AH0 L-UW1 SH-AH0 N-AH0-N-D B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-Y-UH1 R-W-AY1 T-Y-UH1-R P-AA1-R T-AH1 V-AH0 P-R-IH1 V-L-AH0-JH-D


to not have abused black people yourself, or called them the "k" word...

T-UW1 N-AA1-T HH-AE1 V-AH0 B-Y-UW1-Z-D B-L-AE1-K P-IY1 P-AH0 L-Y-ER0 S-EH1-L F-AO1-R K-AO1-L-D DH-EH1-M DH-AH0 K-EY1 W-ER1-D


enabled you to prosper. that's race.

EH0 N-EY1 B-AH0-L D-Y-UW1 T-UW1 P-R-AA1-S P-ER0 TH-AE1-T S-R-EY1-S


it's not your problem, it's those men because we real men, don't rape. i don't if that...

IH1-T S-N-AA1 T-Y-AO1-R P-R-AA1 B-L-AH0 M-IH1-T-S DH-OW1 Z-M-EH1-N B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-W-IY1 R-IY1-L M-EH1-N D-AA1-N T-R-EY1 P-AY1 D-AA1-N T-IH1-F DH-AE1-T


real men rape all the time. the people who rape are real men. they not the men who are not really considered men. right?

R-IY1-L M-EH1 N-R-EY1 P-AO1-L DH-AH0 T-AY1-M DH-AH0 P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1 R-EY1 P-AA1-R R-IY1-L M-EH1-N DH-EY1 N-AA1-T DH-AH0 M-EH1-N HH-UW1 AA1-R N-AA1 T-R-IH1 L-IY0 K-AH0-N S-IH1 D-ER0 D-M-EH1 N-R-AY1-T


it is manly men. it's not all men, but i mean, that's besides the point...

IH1 T-IH1 Z-M-AE1 N-L-IY0 M-EH1 N-IH1-T S-N-AA1 T-AO1-L M-EH1-N B-AH1 T-AY1 M-IY1-N TH-AE1-T-S B-IH0 S-AY1-D-Z DH-AH0 P-OY1-N-T


i'm with you completely. but also what puzzles me completely about kind of well-meaning men who come up with kind of then say...

IH1 M-W-IH1 DH-Y-UW1 K-AH0-M P-L-IY1 T-L-IY0 B-AH1 T-AO1-L S-OW0 W-AH1-T P-AH1 Z-AH0-L Z-M-IY1 K-AH0-M P-L-IY1 T-L-IY0 AH0 B-AW1-T K-AY1-N D-AH1 V-W-EH1-L M-AH0 N-IH0-NG M-EH1-N HH-UW1 K-AH1 M-AH1 P-W-IH1-DH K-AY1-N D-AH1-V DH-EH1-N S-EY1


rape. why is the impulse to protect groups of other men rather than to hold those men who do rape responsible?

R-EY1 P-W-AY1 IH1-Z DH-AH0 IH1-M P-AH0-L-S T-UW1 P-R-AH0 T-EH1-K-T G-R-UW1-P S-AH1 V-AH1 DH-ER0 M-EH1 N-R-AE1 DH-ER0 DH-AE1-N T-UW1 HH-OW1-L-D DH-OW1 Z-M-EH1-N HH-UW1 D-UW1 R-EY1 P-R-IY0-S P-AA1-N S-AH0 B-AH0-L


and so it seems to me in a lot of our rape talk, we are...

AH0-N-D S-OW1 IH1-T S-IY1-M-Z T-UW1 M-IY1 IH0 N-AH0 L-AA1 T-AH1 V-AW1 ER0 R-EY1-P T-AO1 K-W-IY1 AA1-R


we pretend we don't know who the rapists are. and it just doesn't make sense. i mean, we south africans we pretend constantly that...

W-IY1 P-R-IY0 T-EH1-N D-W-IY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 HH-UW1 DH-AH0 R-EY1 P-IH0-S-T S-AA1 R-AH0-N D-IH1-T JH-AH1-S-T D-OW1 S-AH0-N T-M-EY1-K S-EH1-N S-AY1 M-IY1 N-W-IY1 S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0-N Z-W-IY1 P-R-IY0 T-EH1-N-D K-AA1-N-S T-AH0-N T-L-IY0 DH-AE1-T


the scenario i like to paint because it's so ridiculous is, it's as though there are these martians who swoop...

DH-AH0 S-IH0 N-EH1 R-IY0 OW0 AY1 L-AY1-K T-UW1 P-EY1-N-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1-T-S S-OW1 R-IH0 D-IH1 K-Y-AH0 L-AH0 S-IH1 Z-IH1-T S-AE1-Z DH-OW1 DH-EH1 R-AA1-R DH-IY1 Z-M-AA1-R SH-AH0-N-Z HH-UW1 S-W-UW1-P


that's part of the problem. because when women say "this is my rapist"

TH-AE1-T-S P-AA1-R T-AH1-V DH-AH0 P-R-AA1 B-L-AH0-M B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-W-EH1 N-W-IH1 M-AH0-N S-EY1 DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-M-AY1 R-EY1 P-IH0-S-T


we look at the numbers. we're outraged. we talk about the numbers, we call into the radio, we write in, we call seminars...

W-IY1 L-UH1 K-AE1-T DH-AH0 N-AH1-M B-ER0 Z-W-ER0 AW1 T-R-EY2-JH D-W-IY1 T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1-T DH-AH0 N-AH1-M B-ER0 Z-W-IY1 K-AO1 L-IH0-N T-UW1 DH-AH0 R-EY1 D-IY0 OW2 W-IY1 R-AY1 T-IH0 N-W-IY1 K-AO1-L S-EH1 M-AH0 N-AA2-R-Z


we do all of this stuff. we do marches, solidarity marches, all sorts of fantastic things. but, we don't put the rapist...

W-IY1 D-UW1 AO1 L-AH1-V DH-IH1-S-S T-AH1 F-W-IY1 D-UW1 M-AA1-R CH-IH0-Z S-AA2 L-AH0 D-EH1 R-AH0 T-IY0 M-AA1-R CH-IH0 Z-AO1-L S-AO1-R-T S-AH1-V F-AE0-N T-AE1-S T-IH0-K TH-IH1-NG-Z B-AH1 T-W-IY1 D-AA1-N-T P-UH1-T DH-AH0 R-EY1 P-IH0-S-T


and we don't hold accountable those people who badger people who come forward, women who come forward, we say break the silence...

AH0-N D-W-IY1 D-AA1-N-T HH-OW1-L D-AH0 K-AW1-N T-AH0 B-AH0-L DH-OW1-Z P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1 B-AE1 JH-ER0 P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1 K-AH1-M F-AO1 R-W-ER0 D-W-IH1 M-AH0-N HH-UW1 K-AH1-M F-AO1 R-W-ER0 D-W-IY1 S-EY1 B-R-EY1-K DH-AH0 S-AY1 L-AH0-N-S


the silence, but there is no silence anymore. the silence has been completely broken, right? but we continue to pretend that this rapist is this mystery...

DH-AH0 S-AY1 L-AH0-N-S B-AH1-T DH-EH1 R-IH1 Z-N-OW1 S-AY1 L-AH0-N S-EH2 N-IY0 M-AO1-R DH-AH0 S-AY1 L-AH0-N-S HH-AE1-Z B-IH1-N K-AH0-M P-L-IY1 T-L-IY0 B-R-OW1 K-AH0 N-R-AY1-T B-AH1 T-W-IY1 K-AH0-N T-IH1 N-Y-UW0 T-UW1 P-R-IY0 T-EH1-N-D DH-AE1-T DH-IH1 S-R-EY1 P-IH0-S T-IH1-Z DH-IH1 S-M-IH1-S T-ER0 IY0


while the rapists are real men. and to say "not all men", perhaps what you should do if you are a man and you believe not all men or real men, well...

W-AY1-L DH-AH0 R-EY1 P-IH0-S-T S-AA1-R R-IY1-L M-EH1 N-AH0-N-D T-UW1 S-EY1 N-AA1 T-AO1-L M-EH1-N P-ER0 HH-AE1-P S-W-AH1 T-Y-UW1 SH-UH1-D D-UW1 IH1 F-Y-UW1 AA1 R-AH0 M-AE1 N-AH0-N D-Y-UW1 B-IH0 L-IY1 V-N-AA1 T-AO1-L M-EH1 N-AO1-R R-IY1-L M-EH1 N-W-EH1-L


but you believe not all men, part of the work

B-AH1 T-Y-UW1 B-IH0 L-IY1 V-N-AA1 T-AO1-L M-EH1-N P-AA1-R T-AH1-V DH-AH0 W-ER1-K


you should be doing is not defending the man you,

Y-UW1 SH-UH1-D B-IY1 D-UW1 IH0 NG-IH1 Z-N-AA1-T D-IH0 F-EH1-N D-IH0-NG DH-AH0 M-AE1 N-Y-UW1


imagine don't do it because you don't know, you know that you don't, if you don't,

IH0 M-AE1 JH-AH0-N D-AA1-N-T D-UW1 IH1-T B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 Y-UW1 N-OW1 DH-AE1 T-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N T-IH1 F-Y-UW1 D-AA1-N-T


right, but i mean, it means also we have this kind of paradox where,

R-AY1-T B-AH1 T-AY1 M-IY1 N-IH1 T-M-IY1-N Z-AO1-L S-OW0 W-IY1 HH-AE1-V DH-IH1-S K-AY1-N D-AH1-V P-EH1 R-AH0 D-AA2-K S-W-EH1-R


if we had the kind of stats that we have, if south african women are living with the possibility of being, half of us being raped

IH1 F-W-IY1 HH-AE1-D DH-AH0 K-AY1-N D-AH1-V-S T-AE1-T-S DH-AE1 T-W-IY1 HH-AE1 V-IH1-F S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0 N-W-IH1 M-AH0 N-AA1-R L-IH1 V-IH0 NG-W-IH1-DH DH-AH0 P-AA2 S-AH0 B-IH1 L-AH0 T-IY0 AH1-V B-IY1 IH0-NG HH-AE1 F-AH1 V-AH1-S B-IY1 IH0 NG-R-EY1-P-T


at least once and many people being raped more than once. then some of those people who are going on those matches are rapists

AE1 T-L-IY1-S T-W-AH1-N S-AH0-N D-M-EH1 N-IY0 P-IY1 P-AH0-L B-IY1 IH0 NG-R-EY1-P T-M-AO1-R DH-AE1 N-W-AH1-N-S DH-EH1-N S-AH1 M-AH1-V DH-OW1-Z P-IY1 P-AH0-L HH-UW1 AA1-R G-OW1 IH0 NG-AA1-N DH-OW1 Z-M-AE1 CH-AH0 Z-AA1-R R-EY1 P-IH0-S-T-S


and we enable this hypocrisy because we keep focusing on the side issue and i'm sorry, but actually saying real men or saying

AH0-N D-W-IY1 EH0 N-EY1 B-AH0-L DH-IH1-S HH-IH0 P-AA1 K-R-AH0 S-IY0 B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-W-IY1 K-IY1-P F-OW1 K-AH0 S-IH0 NG-AA1-N DH-AH0 S-AY1 D-IH1 SH-UW0 AH0-N D-IH1-M S-AA1 R-IY0 B-AH1 T-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 S-EY1 IH0 NG-R-IY1-L M-EH1 N-AO1-R S-EY1 IH0-NG


not all men is being part of the problem. it is not part of the solution. it's actually enabling

N-AA1 T-AO1-L M-EH1 N-IH1-Z B-IY1 IH0-NG P-AA1-R T-AH1-V DH-AH0 P-R-AA1 B-L-AH0 M-IH1 T-IH1 Z-N-AA1-T P-AA1-R T-AH1-V DH-AH0 S-AH0 L-UW1 SH-AH0 N-IH1-T S-AE1-K CH-AH0 W-AH0 L-IY0 EH0 N-EY1 B-AH0 L-IH0-NG


rape culture because it exhausts us into saying yes, yes, yes of course we think we don't know. we start now trying to make you feel better rather than-

R-EY1-P K-AH1-L CH-ER0 B-IH0 K-AO1 Z-IH1 T-IH0-G Z-AO1-S-T S-AH1 S-IH0-N T-UW1 S-EY1 IH0 NG-Y-EH1 S-Y-EH1 S-Y-EH1 S-AH1-V K-AO1-R S-W-IY1 TH-IH1-NG K-W-IY1 D-AA1-N T-N-OW1 W-IY1-S T-AA1-R T-N-AW1 T-R-AY1 IH0-NG T-UW1 M-EY1 K-Y-UW1 F-IY1-L B-EH1 T-ER0 R-AE1 DH-ER0 DH-AE1-N


instead of holding those of us who are working against rape responsible for making you feel bad.

IH0-N-S T-EH1 D-AH1-V HH-OW1-L D-IH0-NG DH-OW1 Z-AH1 V-AH1-S HH-UW1 AA1 R-W-ER1 K-IH0 NG-AH0 G-EH1-N-S T-R-EY1 P-R-IY0-S P-AA1-N S-AH0 B-AH0-L F-AO1-R M-EY1 K-IH0 NG-Y-UW1 F-IY1-L B-AE1-D


mary, i was raped many times by my husband. that's from anonymous an sms [crosstalk 00:01:06]

M-EH1 R-IY0 AY1 W-AA1 Z-R-EY1-P T-M-EH1 N-IY0 T-AY1-M-Z B-AY1 M-AY1 HH-AH1-Z B-AH0-N-D TH-AE1-T-S F-R-AH1 M-AH0 N-AA1 N-AH0 M-AH0 S-AE1-N S-M-EH1-S K-R-AO1-S T-AO1-K Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0 Z-W-AH1-N M-IH1 N-AH0 T-AH0-N-D S-IH1-K-S S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


but all armies conquerors throughout history have raped and pillaged. it's what men do. all men of all races in conqueror mood.

B-AH1 T-AO1 L-AA1-R M-IY0-Z K-AA1-NG K-ER0 ER0-Z TH-R-UW0 AW1-T HH-IH1-S T-ER0 IY0 HH-AE1 V-R-EY1-P T-AH0-N-D P-IH1 L-IH0-JH D-IH1-T S-W-AH1 T-M-EH1-N D-UW1 AO1-L M-EH1 N-AH1 V-AO1-L R-EY1 S-AH0 Z-IH0-N K-AA1-NG K-ER0 ER0 M-UW1-D


are those segments and there are those options, but we all have to live in this country and we all have to live in this world as it is and rape is a reality and it's a reality not just here, it's a reality all over the world.

AA1-R DH-OW1-Z S-EH1 G-M-AH0-N-T S-AH0-N-D DH-EH1 R-AA1-R DH-OW1 Z-AA1-P SH-AH0-N-Z B-AH1 T-W-IY1 AO1-L HH-AE1-V T-UW1 L-AY1 V-IH0-N DH-IH1-S K-AH1-N T-R-IY0 AH0-N D-W-IY1 AO1-L HH-AE1-V T-UW1 L-AY1 V-IH0-N DH-IH1 S-W-ER1-L D-AE1 Z-IH1 T-IH1 Z-AH0-N D-R-EY1 P-IH1 Z-AH0 R-IY0 AE1 L-AH0 T-IY0 AH0-N D-IH1-T S-AH0 R-IY0 AE1 L-AH0 T-IY0 N-AA1-T JH-AH1-S-T HH-IY1 R-IH1-T S-AH0 R-IY0 AE1 L-AH0 T-IY0 AO1 L-OW1 V-ER0 DH-AH0 W-ER1-L-D


indeed, you talk about a friend of yours who was gang raped. you

IH0-N D-IY1 D-Y-UW1 T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1 T-AH0 F-R-EH1-N D-AH1 V-Y-UH1-R-Z HH-UW1 W-AA1-Z G-AE1 NG-R-EY1-P T-Y-UW1


talk about her reaction to it and then there's also a student who was raped by someone.

T-AO1 K-AH0 B-AW1-T HH-ER0 R-IY0 AE1-K SH-AH0-N T-UW1 IH1 T-AH0-N-D DH-EH1-N DH-EH1-R Z-AO1-L S-OW0 AH0-S T-UW1 D-AH0-N-T HH-UW1 W-AA1 Z-R-EY1-P-T B-AY1 S-AH1 M-W-AH2-N


my question is, how different women,

M-AY1 K-W-EH1-S CH-AH0 N-IH1-Z HH-AW1 D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N T-W-IH1 M-AH0-N


victims of rape also inadvertently or survivors of rape also inadvertently walked away because they feel this is a battle i will not win.

V-IH1-K T-AH0-M Z-AH1 V-R-EY1 P-AO1-L S-OW0 IH2 N-AH0-D V-ER1 T-AH0-N T-L-IY0 AO1-R S-ER0 V-AY1 V-ER0 Z-AH1 V-R-EY1 P-AO1-L S-OW0 IH2 N-AH0-D V-ER1 T-AH0-N T-L-IY0 W-AO1-K T-AH0 W-EY1 B-IH0 K-AO1-Z DH-EY1 F-IY1-L DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-AH0 B-AE1 T-AH0 L-AY1 W-IH1-L N-AA1 T-W-IH1-N


less and less. this is, interestingly, i mean, i'll focus on the south african context, but i was looking, it was a different place yesterday afternoon,

L-EH1 S-AH0-N D-L-EH1-S DH-IH1 S-IH1 Z-IH1-N T-ER0 EH2-S T-IH0 NG-L-IY0 AY1 M-IY1 N-IH1-L F-OW1 K-AH0 S-AA1-N DH-AH0 S-AW1 TH-AE1 F-R-AH0 K-AH0-N K-AA1-N T-EH0-K-S-T B-AH1 T-AY1 W-AA1 Z-L-UH1 K-IH0 NG-IH1 T-W-AA1 Z-AH0 D-IH1 F-ER0 AH0-N-T P-L-EY1 S-Y-EH1-S T-ER0 D-EY2 AE2-F T-ER0 N-UW1-N


and i was kind of talking to colleagues, [crosstalk 00:02:13]

AH0-N D-AY1 W-AA1-Z K-AY1-N D-AH1-V T-AO1 K-IH0-NG T-UW1 K-AA1 L-IY0-G-Z K-R-AO1-S T-AO1-K Z-IH1 R-OW0 AW1 ER0-Z T-UW1 M-IH1 N-AH0-T S-AH0-N-D TH-ER1 T-IY1-N S-EH1 K-AH0-N-D-Z


okay are very similar. people will access crisis counseling, [crosstalk 00:02:18]

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on that, because part of what it tells us is that there's something wrong when we say, when we place the burden of believability, [crosstalk 00:02:27]

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because we seeing globally that reporting is decreasing.

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and we have to ask ourselves why, we have to ask ourselves, what is it about going to, accessing the legal, the criminal justice system that people,

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what is it, why is it that fewer and fewer people, fewer and fewer women who we know of are turning to the police and a lot of it has to do with responses and [crosstalk 00:02:56]

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and sex with you of sometimes we suddenly have instances of people being-

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in fact, you mentioned the chief justice now, and i think that's why he got a lot of negative response but and yet the negative response was,

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he was appointed by jacob zuma rather than his, i don't know what you call it legally, his ruling or his comment.

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why would you want to put yourself through that? if you hearing, if you seeing judges being reported and you're watching

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what happens to rape complainants in court cases and outside court cases, [crosstalk 00:03:33]

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and based on what. people who don't know zuma or don't know ntini or don't know bobby hewitt or don't know that kind of rapist, [crosstalk 00:03:41]

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starter rhyme, who was raping all those little girls, who don't

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see the performance every day of... they see what happened

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at least sometimes due to them, they see, they know what is happening and why would you, when you've already been traumatized also then further choose,

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if you can avoid it,


why would you choose to put yourself through further traumatization?

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okay. let's go to penny in cape town. hi there. penny.

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good morning. my biggest question i've always wanted to ask every time i hear it. why do men rape children?

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that's a good... i mean, you talk about baby [thabang 00:04:33] in the book.

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men rape children for the same reason they rape women. and i think that's... i think, [crosstalk 00:04:43]

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they rape because they can, they rape because they can get away with it.

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you were wearing this or this, what could a baby be wearing, baby thabang-

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in fact, rape is motivated by the same...

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it's only strange to think about babies being raped, because we think about rape as sex. if we don't think about rape a sex, then we can think, people would think about...

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phumla dineo gqola, who has written, a south african nightmare:rape, that the name of the book and she is of course associate professor. no! no.

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i still love him. but what he did was wrong and i'll testify against him.

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and i mean, it's frightening in its strange...

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she works for him. she said she would pay for her school fees.

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i allowed him to continuously rape my daughter for six years and my daughters...people

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through it. but i imagine then if you so depressing that you...switch

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off, what your response is able to be and not able to be when someone you love comes to you and says i've been raped.

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but isn't that what happens that people react exactly like that...you

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don't want to know, you don't know what to do. it's depressing. you avoid the person. so there's that secondary victimization.

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how do people, how does someone who loves you who's close to you, knowing that you think is too depressing to talk about, come and tell you that they've been raped. they don't.

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and when children don't speak out over many years, are we inadvertent bob hewitt?

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can someone say, why do people keep quiet for so long, bill cosby,

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linkedin, between the avoidance that i don't want to hear it. that even the rape victim inadvertently....

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absolutely. but also people, these women were raped are not fools...find

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the language to even understand what is happening to you. and if....bill

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cosby, are you kidding me? bill cosby is the world's...dad.

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right? he's the guy we all love to love, okay. when we were growing up, i mean the last few years

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he's been so bizarre in terms of one of his hatred.

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what does it mean to say, bill cosby raped you?

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and they'll say, he can have any woman he wants taking us back to rape...

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being a hero is it's about power. it's about positive power.

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why would a powerful man need to rape? he doesn't need to rape.

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if you have the power to do anything you want, you had the power to do anything you want.

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it actually makes perfect sense that powerful, that so many powerful men would rape because it's not about sex.

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it's about power. it's about doing what i want to do and being entitled to everybody and anything, whenever i want.

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let's entangle the word power, because in the minds of some people we probably talking about bill cosby because he's powerful financially, he is a brand...

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lebo pule is in a shop in joburg somewhere. and this is probably a feminist situation for many of us..

L-EY1 B-OW0 P-UW1 L-IH1 Z-IH0 N-AH0 SH-AA1 P-IH0-N JH-OW1 B-ER0-G S-AH1 M-W-EH2 R-AH0-N-D DH-IH1 S-IH1-Z P-R-AA1 B-AH0 B-L-IY0 AH0 F-EH1 M-AH0 N-AH0-S-T S-IH2 CH-UW0 EY1 SH-AH0-N F-AO1-R M-EH1 N-IY0 AH1 V-AH1-S


and lebo pule then kind of comes up to this man and says in absolute rates,

AH0-N D-L-EY1 B-OW0 P-UW1-L DH-EH1-N K-AY1-N D-AH1-V K-AH1-M Z-AH1-P T-UW1 DH-IH1 S-M-AE1 N-AH0-N-D S-EH1 Z-IH0 N-AE1-B S-AH0 L-UW2 T-R-EY1-T-S


the acts we sometimes have to perform that interrupted.

DH-AH0 AE1-K-T S-W-IY1 S-AH0-M T-AY1-M-Z HH-AE1-V T-UW1 P-ER0 F-AO1-R-M DH-AE1 T-IH2-N T-ER0 AH1-P T-IH0-D