Meet Nebel, a 32-year-old PhD candidate in Computer Science at the University of Waterloo. Despite their impressive academic background, Nebel often feels overshadowed by their family's high-achieving medical professionals and engineers. At family gatherings, they struggle with the pressure to impress, while their relatives debate cutting-edge research and prestigious job offers. Nebel jokes about "playing with computers" as a coping mechanism, but deep down, they yearn for recognition of their unique contributions to the tech world, especially in the realm of AI and machine learning. They find solace in online communities where they can connect with others who share their experiences and frustrations.