I do have to put a little PSA here, though, for men who are newly talking to/dating a woman who has lost weight: comments like “I am so happy you lost the weight, you clearly haven’t realized how gorgeous you are yet” is NOT the way to go.
不过，我必须忠告那些刚刚和减肥的女性交谈或约会的男性，不要说类似“看到你减肥了，我真高兴，很显然你不知道你有多漂亮”这样的话。