Praying with people of other faiths reinforces our awareness that the divine mystery transcends all doctrines. Yes, we cherish the Christian faith, but with a heightened awareness that God is not ours, or anyone else's, to possess. That humility, together with a respect for the integrity of each faith on its own terms, is where we start.
The best policy when choosing music, prayers, symbols, and other elements for your gathering is always to ask for the input of the people of other faiths who will be participating. However we offer a few general guidelines and tips:
• Prayers should be just that - not show-and-tell moments in which different religions display their wares, but devices that help participants pray.
• Don't be afraid to use prayers and songs from particular religious communities, acknowledging where each originates and inviting people of other faiths to enter in to the extent that they may be able.
• The Book of Psalms can usually be used without offence among the Abrahamic Faiths. We especially recommend Psalm 23. The Lord's Prayer is also often acceptable for use among Abrahamic faiths but be sure to ask.
• For music (and prayers) it is often best to invite guests to bring something from their own tradition to share. There is a balance between allowing people to share things that are unique to their faith tradition, and also respectfully communicating to help people realise when something they offer from their own faith tradition may be offensive or alienating to people of other faiths.
• Silence often speaks louder than words. Let it.
• Look for symbols (candles, flowers, water etc) and gestures (worship, prayer, blessing) which may carry religious significance for all.
Sample Orders of Service
Christian Order of Service on the Theme of People of Other Faiths
Recognising that God is the creator and provider of the whole human family, and respecting sincere efforts to know and relate to God, this order of worship, adapted from With all God's People: The New Ecumenical Prayer Cycle, suggests elements that enable us to pray for neighbours of other faiths.