Indeed. And beyond that, it is absurd to tell women to love themselves in a world wherein men can't even fathom that we might exist or feel good about ourselves outside men's approval and sexualization.
We teach women and girls that their bodies are separate from their beings, that their bodies exist to please others, and then we force them to spend their whole lives in therapy, reading self-help books, posting affirmations on their bathroom mirrors in order to repair what's positioned as a personal problem — "low self-esteem," we call it.