Taffer over on mASF wrote the following detailing his problems with Day 2s.
I ought to cut back on drinking, or texting, or the combination of both.
Last three girls I came close to bedding have courteously responded in a similar manner after my reinitiation attempts, questioning my game efficiency.
All three girls have this in common.
I could attribute this to, persistent periodic texting.
If I have a good Day2 I obviously wanna see this girl again in a week or two. Maybe I tried to set up the next date too soon because I waited as little as 4 days to 10 days after day2 to schedule next encounter.
Maybe it's my personality, I'm very open-book type of guy which may put some people off.
There's a chance I came across too relationshippy and didn't continue to keep the attraction up.
I'm aghast to have yet another girl responding with this "heartfelt" crap.
So I'm a great, awesome, caring guy, for SOMEONE ELSE! Tired of this crap.
How do I even react to something like this?
I'm at my wits end here folks. I'd appreciate any input you guys can offer.
There are three basic things I think all the Asian men who appealed to me and eventually got the booty mastered and I'll try to explain them to you. First, they were never douche bags about race. Second they made an effort to try to understand some of our cultural differences. Lastly, they were comfortable being who they were and respectful of their own people and culture.
It's easy for people to assume that just because two people in a relationship are not the same race that somehow they've discovered the cure for racism, I know first hand that's not the case. Plenty of men that chose to date interracially can be total cunts when it comes to issues of race, some without even realizing it.
It can be little things like turning to the hip-hop station that you would never listen to as soon as I get into the car. A pretty solid rule of life is if phrases like "boo", "girlfriend" or, "oh no he didn't" aren't in your everyday vocabulary don't try to adopt them to be "down". If these terms are in your everyday vocabulary punch yourself in the face, please. This type of racial pandering has for me been a red flag when it comes to dating.
You'll be hard pressed to find a group of people so forced into racial awareness as a Black woman living in America. Our society is simply racially obsessed and usually to our detriment. The last thing a black woman is interested in is a date that regurgitates what mainstream has decided is "Black". On that note any actions that can confirm to her that you've formulated your entire concept of Blackness and Black people from BET is most likely going to be a deal breaker.
Let's face it, some things just get better with age. Things like fine wine, Cuban cigars, and yes, even women!
Meeting a woman who's older than you can actually be quite a good way to meet a fantastic partner. Usually, older women are much more experienced, not only in relationships, but also in the bedroom.
So meeting older women can actually teach you a ting or two – not only about relationships, but also about what you're really looking for in a partner.
Are you interested in dating a woman who's older than you are?
Do you find older women more attractive than their younger counterparts?
Well, my friend, you are not alone!
Older women are much more "mature" and experienced in the ways of love. They've usually had a lot of practice dealing with men, and know their way around the bedroom.
They can also be MUCH easier to deal with than younger women, who can tend to be a little "high maintenance."
If you're a man in your mid-to-late 20s who's mostly been with women in their late teens and early 20s, dating a woman in her 40s can be a real treat for you!
They tend to be more mature and less selfish – sexually, and in just about every other way – than the women you're used to dating. And if you're not looking for anything serious, the chances are higher that they're not either, if they're just past child-bearing age.
In that way, they're kind of like a lot of women in their mid-20s and younger, who don't feel compelled to start a family in the way that single women who've hit 28 or 29 do. By the time a single woman reaches that age range, she's more likely to feel that now's the time to act if she's ever going to have children.
That's because she's not getting any younger, and she feels less attractive than she was when she was in her early 20s. In her mind, it's only going to get harder to find a great man she can settle down with.
So how can you start meeting older women?
Well, there are lots of options. But first, I'd like to point out that if you're looking to go to trendy nightclubs or bars, chances are, you won't find any there.
Most older women will tend to frequent more low-key establishments. Bars in classy hotels, for instance. Or cocktail hours at certain restaurants which serve alcohol.
Many of the best places to meet older women are places you'd go during your daily errands. Places like the grocery store, for instance, or the mall. Anyplace women go to shop. Coffee shops in the morning and afternoon are good venues as well, since many older women will stop there on their way to and from work.
But the best place to meet older women, in my opinion, is online.
Many older women have kids or jobs, which doesn't leave them much time to socialize, so many of them will go online looking for dates. Places like Match.com, eHarmony, and even MySpace are fantastic venues for meeting older women.
But there are problems with dating older women. You may not be as mature as she is, which can be a problem for both of you. And the age difference can become rather awkward should you decide to get married: If there's a 15-year age difference between you, then she'll be 50 when you're 35!
But that's not to say that you shouldn't meet and date an older woman. It can be a great experience for you, if you're aware of the potential issues that can arise in the relationship.
So whether you want to meet older women, younger women, or women your own age, you should take some time to sign up for my free Meet Women crash course.
In this free course, I give you some A-List solid tips, tactics, and techniques on how to meet women without fear of rejection – no matter what age they are. In fact, I even tell you how to make it easy and fun!
You owe it to yourself to take this opportunity. Because if you wait, you may miss out on the woman of your dreams.
It only takes a few seconds to sign up, and you get free instant access once you do.
I really wish I had such a resource available to me when I first started! It would have saved me a lot of trouble! So take advantage of it while you can. I don't know how long I'll make it available for free.
Someone over on the mASF forums had a question about dating women in the workplace, so I thought I'd open my big mouth and chime in about this subject.
Having worked in an office environment myself, I definitely know the plight of many men out there who work 40+ hours a week at their jobs. So many guys spend so much time at work, and by the time they get home they're too tired to go out or they need to get MORE work done, so it becomes a real issue of: work is the only logical place to meet people.
That said, workplace romances aren't uncommon. Lots of couples meet through work. The very fact that two people are working at the same place creates a commonality that can help build rapport and open an avenue to attraction.
Art Of The Pickup is the first offering from those crazy kooks over at fastseduction.com. It's a 2 DVD video set with over six hours worth of information culled from fastseduction.com's vast repository of pick-up knowledge, all compiled into an easy to reference format.
The thing that makes the Art Of The Pickup stand out from other similar DVD sets is that it's designed more like an interactive course on how to meet women than a simple recorded lecture, like you might get with other DVD courses.
This format works very well in an instructional sense, because it breaks down the different phases of pickup in an easy to follow way, and allows for quick reference of the different tactics available.
Art Of The Pickup is the first offering from those crazy kooks over at fastseduction.com. It's a 2 DVD video set with over six hours worth of information culled from fastseduction.com's vast repository of pick-up knowledge, all compiled into an easy to reference format.
The thing that makes the Art Of The Pickup stand out from other similar DVD sets is that it's designed more like an interactive course on how to meet women than a simple recorded lecture, like you might get with other DVD courses.