I've mentioned more than once that it's a good idea to end relationships that aren't running smoothly or causing you more harm than good, but I'm going to guess that a lot of people in your life are friends and family that you really care about.
Most of us are so busy that we communicate with our friends and family online, with text messages and on the phone if we're lucky. I'm busy, too—all the time management posts I've done probably clued you in on that—but in the spirit of Thanksgiving, which is next Thursday here in the U.S., I'd like to discuss the topic of helping others. Research has shown that helping others can make a difference in your own life and I definitely believe it.
It's widely known that the best part of travel is sharing memories with other people.
So what do you do if you're traveling by yourself?
Well, the simple answer is you make friends.
I recently celebrated my thirty-fifth birthday, so I've definitely heard some snarky comments from family and friends throughout my life … but people who are constantly critical of anything and everything can really drive me up a wall.
Obviously, hanging out with obnoxious jerks isn't at the top of my to-do list and I don't recommend adding it to yours either, but at some point or another you're going to wind up dealing with a cynical pessimist that you just can't stand. Whether it's one of your co-workers or your best friend's new girlfriend, you'll probably find yourself curling your toes up inside your shoes and gritting your teeth.
The time I spend helping my friends (or family) could be time I dedicate towards growing my business and creating long-term success. The end result is I lose money whenever I try to help somebody.
How Much "Luggage" Can You Carry?
The thing that worries — or maybe a better word is irritates — me the most is the fact that I'll most likely lose some relationships while I'm away from home for such a long time.
This is going to be a very straight-forward challenge. Each and every day, I'm going to approach three strangers with the intention of trying to create a friendship.