Chana Jenny, that was a very interesting story. Thank you for telling it. I also appreciate the way you carefully guard "Sara's" identity, not even saying how many children the daughter had, where she lives, what she does, what her husband does, are they frum, etc. etc. Of course I found myself desperately hungry for those details because you made me like Sara, and relate to her, but at the same time I was happy for Sara that you withheld them.