Change is hard. You seem to have a good grip on the changes in your life. Yet I sense something more is bothering you? I feel you are worried and upset about something. However know this.. if you have the skills, you have the training and talent, you will not be with out employment for long. In fact you are a dream for a company wanting to hire in your field. Life is hard, life with a torn up home is hard, life with a lover is sometimes the best thing in the world and also hard. I would only say I think if you stay together, stay focused on your love for each other, you will weather any storm. Many hugs and best wishes.