The Psychological Work Adoptee's Require
Most all adopted children are sent to a counselor to FIX them.
The problem of adopted children is not their external behavior.
The way in which adoptee's interact with their caregiver, adoptive parent, school etc... This biologically based problem that will never go away.
The term "In The Best Interest of the child" Is an advertising catch phrase to promote adoption. Adoption is not in the best interest of a child with a healthy living parent or family. The perception that a baby is a blank slate and will not remember
her family, and can not argue her case in court makes adopting a baby an easy target, which built the disreputable unscrupulous adoption industry that benefits from the suffering of children.
For an orphaned child or foster children who request adoption.
There is no adoption accountability in this country.
There is a great price to the child's potential when removing the child for adoption. Stealing a baby from her live biological mother to be adopted by a non biological stranger. The impact to the child from predictable, studied and guaranteed detrimental effects in the child's identity, health and future disparities.
The cost to the child is selfishly overlooked by anxious want-to-be parents. Who can only see what they want and that they lack
a baby. The compounded psychological effects from infertility, stillbirth or child death. "The Replacement Child" syndrome has also been a clinically documented problem given to adopted children on top of their own challenges, becoming a replacement child will have dramatic side effects for the adopted child to bare.
The cause and effect from intentionally
removing a newborn child away from it's mother, which is the infant's environment, world. The child's exists inside the mother's womb forty weeks. The birth is a transition to the outside the mother's womb. For the next 4-5 years while the mother nurtures the infant child still at center to the mother. The mother encourages the child in exploring the environment while developing independence and the child's own unique personal identity. The mother and her close proximity is what constitutes the normal, natural, loving, growing and healthful child existence.
Sigmund Frued's On Counseling Therapy:
- beside the inherited constitution of personality, a person's development is determined by events in early childhood;
- human behavior, experience, and cognition are largely determined by irrational drives;
- those drives are largely unconscious;
- attempts to bring those drives into awareness meet psychological resistance in the form of defense mechanisms;
- conflicts between conscious and unconscious (repressed) material can result in mental disturbances such as neurosis, neurotic traits, anxiety, depression etc.;
- conscious mind (via e.g. skilled guidance).