Reprimand is a warning against actions that are considered wrong. Conversely, rebuke does not need to be done angrily.
Of course, everyone has been reprimanded and reprimanded, especially when children still do not understand that certain actions cannot be done. Teachers or parents have reprimanded their children because they played tap water and were not turned off, because they fought with friends, came to school late, because it was difficult to wake up in the morning, did not want to wash their hands before eating, and so on.
Usually, reprimand has a good purpose. However, sometimes the way to reprimand him is not understanding, so the results are not good enough. There are ways to avoid adverse consequences, for example if someone is reprimanded, the person concerned is willing to accept sincerely. For example, if someone is reprimanded, the person concerned is willing to accept sincerely. For example, the kindergarten teacher grumbled in his heart because he was improperly reprimanded by the principal. He was very embarrassed because he was reprimanded in front of his parents, so that he felt embarrassed and irritated in his heart. The teacher’s mother is an adult, but what about children?
In general, almost all the same. At that time in class held a meal together. Before children are welcome to enjoy the food that has been served at each table, Rika has already overtaken the meal. His next friend, Dini, immediately rebuked him by shouting, “Teacher, Rika has eaten first!”
The child immediately cried and sulked. Because Rika also already has a feeling of shame when reprimanded in front of her friends. The teacher’s right to approach Rika with love and full of advice so that Rika will do that again. And the child responds unashamedly to accepting his mistakes.
Sometimes, we find children who do not work, if reprimanded. For example, Dito is a bad guy in class and likes to be ignorant, hits his friends, and ignores the words of his teacher. Dito is indeed an extraordinary rogue, there is a high probability that he will often be beaten by his parents so that he is no longer reluctant to the teacher or his parents. If he grows up and has broader relationships, it will be troublesome for educators. Actually, the reprimand to Dito was effective, but because he was often beaten, he just stopped doing something if he was hurt.
It is not too late to change the way the child is. If only his parents were more patient with more subtle and punch-free words, then it would work.
Actually, the child is also like an adult, if the rebuke is not about the target, then the child will repeat the actual action wrong. As a result of the act or made of the child the authority of parents will disappear.
As experienced by Ina, who is still in Level B. Kindergarten, she broke down not wanting to do the assignments given by her teacher, namely folding paper to make clothes. As a teacher, you should not need to yell or scold, but the child is quite patiently approached and given a warning. For example, by saying, “Ina will be embarrassed, if you don’t get a star rating and can’t go up to class 1SD. And this will be left behind by his friends, forced his friend to be new again. ”
Believe me, for this reason, Ina will work on the activities in class attentively. The important thing is not to let the child feel that his parents, or the teacher, is not angry, so his feelings will be relieved. And he wants to receive advice from parents and teachers easily. The advice should be candid. Because, the child has not been able to interpret tortuous advice. With patience, love, and a smile, then the goal of these reproof will be achieved.