Is your child involved in anti-social behaviour?
Nobody likes to think that their child is a nuisance in the community. But it does happen and it may be a sign of some deeper trouble.
Does your child:
- avoid you?
- stay out later and later without permission? - do you know where they are going and who with?
- spend time with people you know nothing about?
- attract unwanted attention?
- attract complaints from other people?
A child might often behave badly because:
- they are experiencing problems at home or at school
- they are mixing with the wrong crowd
- they are upset about something
- they are getting involved with drugs or alcohol
- they feel negative about their future prospects
- no-one has told them to stop
Whatever the reasons it's important to think about who's on the receiving end. Anti-social behaviour can make the victim feel:
What can you do?
Here are some things you can try:
- Set a good example; you should be their main role model.
- Ensure a peaceful home life; if your child sees swearing, shouting and violent behaviour they may use this too.
- Talk to your child about their fears, hopes and aspirations.
- Try not to judge them - you grew up in a different world.
- Praise your child's achievements.
- Get involved - find out who their friends are.
- Try to help out with homework where you can.
- Set consistent boundaries for them.