Various countries around the world have their sets of beliefs and traditions. Some of them have deeply-held beliefs that started centuries ago. You might be surprised though to see that as you move from one country to another, the meaning of your words and actions could vary. Some innocent gestures might even be seen as rude.
hands inside your pocket
It might seem
like an innocent move. When you are cold, you keep your hands warm by placing
them inside your pocket. However, in
places like Korea and Japan, the said action is deemed rude. It is a
sign of arrogance. Some people could even be too angry that they won’t mind
starting a fight.
countries, nodding means yes. However, in other countries like Bulgaria, it is
the opposite. When you nod, it means no and when you shake your head sideways,
it means yes. You would rather say the word than do the action.
Giving gifts is
common in several countries. It means that you appreciate the person who is
receiving your present. It could also mean that you are celebrating a milestone
or an occasion. However, in some countries, you need to ask first if it is okay
to give a present. It could be an insult since it shows that you look down on
the recipient. In Japan, you need to hand in a gift with two hands. You even
have to bow in the process. It is a sign of respect.
You might think
that it is polite to shake hands. It is not always the case in most countries.
In Japan, bowing your head is the common way to greet other people. In some
European countries, you need to kiss each other on the cheeks. In Thailand and
India, you place your hands together and slightly bow your head. In some
Islamic countries, men are not even allowed to touch women they do not know. It
might be awkward when you offer your hand for a hand shake and get nothing.
Do not always
assume that thumbs up is a sign of approval or okay. You might also think it is
universal because the Like button in Facebook is a thumbs up. However, it is considered
rude in most Middle Eastern countries and it is the equivalent of
the middle finger in the West.
point things with your index finger. You do it when you want to purchase an
item or point to a direction. In some countries, it is considered rude and
offensive. In other countries, pointing with their mouth is common, but in
others, it is like making fun of them.
There is nothing
wrong in checking the time, right? In some countries, it is rude to look at
your watch when you are in a conversation or a meeting. It is like you are
rushing the person you are talking with.
differences, it helps if you study the country where you are going and be aware
of what they deem as polite or rude.
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