There are various ways of drawing child’s attention to what you want them to listen or pay heed to without actually demeaning them in any possible respect. Each time you shout at them and call them names for not doing the things right, it only spoils the game. Children could be extremely touchy about a lot of things which we as parents sometimes forget. But treating them like adults and talking things out however young or old they are, always helps.
Don’t shout without a reason. Think again. Do you think there is a better way to help your child learn from his mistakes? Do you think you could reach your child without ever boiling your blood and spoiling your relation in the bargain? Well all one needs is patience and half the problem’s solved. Relax the next time you think your child is misbehaving. Give him a patient hearing and speak out all that you think should be spoken to him without shouting or raising your voice.
Demeaning or using bad language doesn’t help training your kids at all. It only shows them that you don’t care about their feelings. So instead of shouting at them and calling them names like you always do, try listening to them. Next time when you see your child creating havoc at home, make sure you begin with smiling at him after which you could start explaining to him why he shouldn’t do whatever he was doing.
Keep yourself calm and it sure will pay at the end of the day. Tell your children that they are good at whatever it is that they are good at, so that it brightens them up making them feel positive about your relationship with them. Then they will listen to your advice without a doubt.
Spending time with your children never fails to build a good rapport with them. That’s how they know that their parents understand them just like the rest. When you sit and tell your children that they are wrong, they will definitely listen but on the other hand if you shout and scream at them and expect that they will understand their mistakes and mend their ways over a period of time.
Improving listening skills in children is of utmost importance especially during their growing up age, so be sure to come across difficulties. Patience and maturity always helps in seeing you through all the problems with a smile. Listen to your children for once and see how they respect your words. Shouting doesn’t always aid in making a relation work as lot of us think. Being polite makes a lot of difference.
So love your children and see how they love you back!