I think we ask that more often than we may realize. I desperately want to control my impression; even if only to know what it is. That's why Jesus' example is so precious—there is not one mistake He made that we are in danger of repeating if we unwaveringly mimic Him.
But before we do anything, brothers and sisters, I think we should learn who we are. Discover the desires and the personality God gave you alone, and let those shine out as He intended when He gave them to you. In Psalm 4, David suggests "when you are on your beds, search your hearts and be silent." Isn't that a lovely picture? Before you hitch your wagon to another "example," go somewhere quiet and meet yourself.
Look at your social life and your thought life. How can you rid yourself of the compulsion to compare yourself to others?
Pointers For Life: In potential conflict situations, encourage the other person by listening. Secondly, clarify the real issues rather than making assumptions. Ask questions that allow you to gain this information and let the other person know you are trying to understand. You may also restate what you heard. And validate the concerns of the other.
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