  Social networks have turned out to be of fundamental importance both for our
understanding human sociality and for the design of digital communication
technology. However, social networks are themselves based on dyadic
relationships and we have little understanding of the dynamics of close
relationships and how these change over time. Evolutionary theory suggests
that, even in monogamous mating systems, the pattern of investment in close
relationships should vary across the lifespan when post-weaning investment
plays an important role in maximising fitness. Mobile phone data sets provide
us with a unique window into the structure of relationships and the way these
change across the lifespan. We here use data from a large national mobile phone
dataset to demonstrate striking sex differences in the pattern in the
gender-bias of preferred relationships that reflect the way the reproductive
investment strategies of the two sexes change across the lifespan: these
differences mainly reflect women's shifting patterns of investment in
reproduction and parental care. These results suggest that human social
strategies may have more complex dynamics than we have tended to assume and a
life-history perspective may be crucial for understanding them.
