  In this paper we consider the concept of `closeness' between nodes in a
weighted network that can be defined topologically even in the absence of a
metric. The Generalized Erd\H{o}s Numbers (GENs) satisfy a number of desirable
properties as a measure of topological closeness when nodes share a finite
resource between nodes as they are real-valued and non-local, and can be used
to create an asymmetric matrix of connectivities. We show that they can be used
to define a personalized measure of the importance of nodes in a network with a
natural interpretation that leads to a new global measure of centrality and is
highly correlated with Page Rank. The relative asymmetry of the GENs (due to
their non-metric definition) is linked also to the asymmetry in the mean first
passage time between nodes in a random walk, and we use a linearized form of
the GENs to develop a continuum model for `closeness' in spatial networks. As
an example of their practicality, we deploy them to characterize the structure
of static networks and show how it relates to dynamics on networks in such
situations as the spread of an epidemic.
