  We study the non-equilibrium version of the fluctuation dissipation (FD)
relation in the glass phase of a trap model that is driven into a
non-equilibrium steady state by external ``shear''. This extends our recent
study of ageing FD relations in the same model, where we found limiting,
observable independent FD relations for ``neutral'' observables that are
uncorrelated with the system's average energy. In this work, for such neutral
observables, we find the FD relation for a stationary weakly driven system to
be the same, to within small corrections, as for an infinitely aged system. We
analyse the robustness of this correspondence with respect to non-neutrality of
the observable, and with respect to changes in the driving mechanism.
