  We propose to explain the contradictory experimental evidence about the
symmetry of the order parameter in $YBa_{2}Cu_{3}O_{7} $ by taking into account
the coupling between planes and chains. This leads to an anticrossing of the
plane and chain band. We include an attractive pairing interaction within the
planes and a repulsive one between planes and chains, leading to opposite signs
for the order parameter on planes and chains, and to nodes of the gap because
of the anticrossing. Our model blends s-wave and d-wave features, and provides
a natural explanation for all the contradictory experiments
