  Young A and B stars, the so-called Herbig Ae/Be stars (HAeBe), are surrounded
by an active accretion disk and drive outflows. We study the jet HH 409, which
is launched from the HAeBe star HD 163296, using new and archival observations
from Chandra and HST/STIS. In X-rays we can show that the central source is not
significantly extended. The approaching jet, but not the counter-jet, is
detected in Ly alpha. In addition, there is red-shifted Ly alpha emission
extended in the same direction as the jet, that is also absent in the
counter-jet. We can rule out an accretion or disk-wind origin for this feature.
In the optical we find the knots B and B2 in the counter-jet. Knot B has been
observed previously, so we can derive its proper motion of 0.37+-0.01
arcsec/yr. Its electron density is 3000/cm^3, thus the cooling time scale is a
few months only, so the knot needs to be reheated continuously. The shock speed
derived from models of H alpha and forbidden emission lines (FELs) decreased
from 50 km/s in 1999 to 30 km/s in 2011 because the shock front loses energy as
it travels along the jet. Knot B2 is observed at a similar position in 2011 as
knot B was in 1999, but shows a lower ionization fraction and higher mass loss
rate, proving variations in the jet launching conditions.
