  We study long-time dynamics of a class of abstract second order in time
evolution equations in a Hilbert space with the damping term depending both on
displacement and velocity. This damping represents the nonlinear strong
dissipation phenomenon perturbed with relatively compact terms. Our main result
states the existence of a compact finite dimensional attractor. We study
properties of this attractor. We also establish the existence of a fractal
exponential attractor and give the conditions that guarantee the existence of a
finite number of determining functionals. In the case when the set of
equilibria is finite and hyperbolic we show that every trajectory is attracted
by some equilibrium with exponential rate. Our arguments involve a recently
developed method based on the "compensated" compactness and quasi-stability
estimates. As an application we consider the nonlinear Kirchhoff, Karman and
Berger plate models with different types of boundary conditions and strong
damping terms. Our results can be also applied to the nonlinear wave equations.
