  We consider the FCFS $M/H_2/n + M$ queue in the Halfin-Whitt heavy traffic
regime. It is known that the normalized sequence of steady-state queue length
distributions is tight and converges weakly to a limiting random variable W.
However, those works only describe W implicitly as the invariant measure of a
complicated diffusion. Although it was proven by Gamarnik and Stolyar that the
tail of W is sub-Gaussian, the actual value of $\lim_{x \rightarrow
\infty}x^{-2}\log(P(W >x))$ was left open. In subsequent work, Dai and He
conjectured an explicit form for this exponent, which was insensitive to the
higher moments of the service distribution.
  We explicitly compute the true large deviations exponent for W when the
abandonment rate is less than the minimum service rate, the first such result
for non-Markovian queues with abandonments. Interestingly, our results resolve
the conjecture of Dai and He in the negative. Our main approach is to extend
the stochastic comparison framework of Gamarnik and Goldberg to the setting of
abandonments, requiring several novel and non-trivial contributions. Our
approach sheds light on several novel ways to think about multi-server queues
with abandonments in the Halfin-Whitt regime, which should hold in considerable
generality and provide new tools for analyzing these systems.
