  Our aim is to determine the presence and location of the emission from
polycyclic aromatic hydrocarbons (PAHs) towards low and intermediate mass young
stars with disks using large aperture telescopes.
  VLT-VISIR N-band spectra and VLT-ISAAC and VLT-NACO L-band spectra of 29
sources are presented, spectrally resolving the 3.3, 8.6, 11.2, and 12.6 micron
PAH features. Spatial-extent profiles of the features and the continuum
emission are derived and used to associate the PAH emission with the disks. The
results are discussed in the context of recent PAH-emission disk models.
  The 3.3, 8.6, and 11.2 micron PAH features are detected toward a small
fraction of the T Tauri stars, with typical upper limits between 1E-15 and
5E-17 W/m^2. All 11.2 micron detections from a previous Spitzer survey are
confirmed with (tentative) 3.3 micron detections, and both the 8.6 and the 11.2
micron features are detected in all PAH sources. For 6 detections, the spatial
extent of the PAH features is confined to scales typically smaller than
0.12-0.34'', consistent with the radii of 12-60 AU disks at their distances
(typically 150 pc). For 3 additional sources, WL 16, HD 100546, and TY CrA, one
or more of the PAH features are more extended than the hot dust continuum of
the disk, whereas for Oph IRS 48, the size of the resolved PAH emission is
confirmed as smaller than for the large grains. For HD 100546, the 3.3 micron
emission is confined to a small radial extent of 12 +- 3 AU, most likely
associated with the outer rim of the gap in this disk. Gaps with radii out to
10-30 AU may also affect the observed PAH extent for other sources. For both
Herbig Ae and T Tauri stars, the small measured extents of the 8.6 and 11.2
micron features are consistent with larger (>= 100 carbon atoms) PAHs.
