  We design a new nonparametric method that allows one to estimate the matrix
of integrated kernels of a multivariate Hawkes process. This matrix not only
encodes the mutual influences of each nodes of the process, but also
disentangles the causality relationships between them. Our approach is the
first that leads to an estimation of this matrix without any parametric
modeling and estimation of the kernels themselves. A consequence is that it can
give an estimation of causality relationships between nodes (or users), based
on their activity timestamps (on a social network for instance), without
knowing or estimating the shape of the activities lifetime. For that purpose,
we introduce a moment matching method that fits the third-order integrated
cumulants of the process. We show on numerical experiments that our approach is
indeed very robust to the shape of the kernels, and gives appealing results on
the MemeTracker database.
