  The astrophysical r-process site where about half of the elements heavier
than iron are produced has been a puzzle for several decades. Here we discuss
the role of neutron star mergers (NSMs) in the light of the first direct
detection of such an event in both gravitational (GW) and electromagnetic (EM)
waves. We analyse bolometric and NIR lightcurves of the first detected double
neutron star merger and compare them to nuclear reaction network-based
macronova models. The slope of the bolometric lightcurve is consistent with the
radioactive decay of neutron star ejecta with $Y_e \lesssim 0.3$ (but not
larger), which provides strong evidence for an r-process origin of the
electromagnetic emission. This rules out in particular "nickel winds" as major
source of the emission. We find that the NIR lightcurves can be well fitted
either with or without lanthanide-rich ejecta. Our limits on the ejecta mass
together with estimated rates directly confirm earlier purely theoretical or
indirect observational conclusions that double neutron star mergers are indeed
a major site of cosmic nucleosynthesis. If the ejecta mass was {\em typical},
NSMs can easily produce {\em all} of the estimated Galactic r-process matter,
and --depending on the real rate-- potentially even more. This could be a hint
that the event ejected a particularly large amount of mass, maybe due to a
substantial difference between the component masses. This would be compatible
with the mass limits obtained from the GW-observation. The recent observations
suggests that NSMs are responsible for a broad range of r-process nuclei and
that they are at least a major, but likely the dominant r-process site in the
Universe.
