  We consider the dynamics of interpersonal relations which leads to balanced
states in a fully connected network. Here this approach is applied to directed
networks with asymmetric relations, and it is generalized to include
self-evaluation of actors, according to the 'looking-glass self' theory. A new
index of self-acceptance is proposed: the relation of an actor to him/herself
is positive, if the majority of his/her positive relations to others are
reciprocated. Sets of stable configurations of relations are obtained under the
dynamics, where the self-evaluation of some actors is negative. Within each set
all configurations have the same structure.
