  A tool for the identification of the shape of quantum dots is developed. By
preparing a two-electron quantum dot, the response of the low-lying excited
states to a homogeneous magnetic field, i.e. their spin and parity
oscillations, is studied for a large variety of dot shapes. For any geometric
configuration of the confinement we encounter characteristic spin singlet -
triplet crossovers. The magnetization is shown to be a complementary tool for
probing the shape of the dot.
