Hey its Stephan here and in this video I want
to share with you one quick tip about body
language and how to have body language that
is easy for a girl to kind of get into a conversation
with you that helps you to be flexible by
literally by doing one tiny adjustment in
your body language and it will probably make
it far easier for you without kind of completely
putting yourself in her space
Make a girl feel connected and relaxed in
your presence especially if you meet her for
the first time or maybe the second or third
time, and that's simply not to basically do
this, now a lot of people think that in order
to talk to a person they need to be full frontal
with her and like literally be fully focused
on her, and to me that's a mistake that's
a misconception
You see when I start talking in the video
to you right now I am taking a slight angle
here OK I am talking to you like here on my
left side a little bit and I am having a not
a 90 degree but getting more like 45 degree
angle to you Yeah and here is why this is
quite useful
First of all your less likely to kind of feel
that a girl is under pressure, at the same
time you also have the flexibility of like
you know when you're thinking about something
you can think about something over there right,
then you can come back to her, it also makes
this all thing of eye contact far more easy
because if your somebody that are worried
about eye contact and all of those things
to be going off and into eye contact is a
really important thing
Now the third aspect of this which is cool,
you can also for example this is a funny thing
to do if you feel like it from time to time
to basically not make the girl feel that you
are 100% all the time like focused on her
which can be useful to just like or gives
her that moment of oohh is he still interested
in me and stuff like that, you can also just
turn away a little bit more and just make
her feel a little bit left out for a second
OK that can be a fun thing to do to playfully
like play around with her and give a little
bit of attention back and forth so that you
don't feel like you are fully focused on her
On the other hand you can also then just change
it and change something OK, so bear in mind
this 45 degree angle can be really cool to
relate to a girl with and it is actually something
that gives you a lot of freedom Yeah and it
also just takes that all thing away a little
bit that you are there to somehow just focus
on her completely Yeah, it helps you to keep
that back it also helps you to look at stuff
together, because most likely you can point
something out over there or whatever something
is happening something funny is happening,
you can stand next to each other look at something
together
That's cool because it gives you something
outside of you it gives you lots more flexibility
this all thing OK
So think about this and try this out do it
like a 45 degree angle rather than like this
just do it like this, and do it like this
and see what the difference is OK
When I started doing this because I learned
it in Drama school there was something about
energy and how we connect on this or that
side it relaxed me a lot and you just took
this there is something unnatural about being
full frontal on with somebody so try this
and see how it feels because that's all you
need to do, check how it feels and notice
and do it a few times before you just go oh
it doesn't feel right or that's a bit odd
Let me know what you think once you have done
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