Hotter: fed quickly and forcefully with no restraints, movement of arms and head, and speech not allowed. You know you I can restrain and punish you, so there is a psychological component, but you can convince yourself you're being physically forced.

Hottest: After being force fed until it hurts, eating with your own hands whatever I give y no matter how much it hurts, because you know you have no choice.

psychological vs physical force feeding.5 months

I like being put in the situation where I don't have other options. Like, wrists and ankles are cuffed, tube is sealed into my mouth by a gag, or I'm just being hand fed. I can't move or defend myself, so if I fail to eat or swallow for too long, maybe I get punished for it.

I think the nasogastric tube is really hot, I'm way into the idea of being force fattened as like almost an industrial process where I'm effectively a helpless human balloon. I worry about the logistics, though. I don't wanna aspirate heavy cream or like rupture my stomach. I want to be morbidly obese and at my feeder's mercy, not dead.

psychological vs physical force feeding.4 months

I don't enjoy being force fed through a funnel, although we only attempted it once...and the idea of a feeding tube isn't appealing at all. I prefer to enjoy my food, and to be coaxed and cajoled into eating more than I think my body can handle. I don't mind being restrained (or blindfolded), and hand fed (or spoon fed) by my partner. It's actually a turn on.

psychological vs physical force feeding.4 months

For me, the best is when you make someone so fat and hungry, they don't need to be force fed anymore. They'll ask you for more.

My wife's like that.She started out chubby and confident, but uncomfortable with the idea of being fat.Then she started gaining more and more weight, and realized it felt good, it was actually making her healthier (true!), she felt prettier and more confident, and she knew I'd love her and take care of her as she kept getting bigger.And the logistical inconveniences of having to carry more of herself around didn't bother her at all.There was actually no sensible reason for her NOT to eat more and more.

She likes asking me for permission to go into the kitchen for seconds and thirds, because she knows I'll always say "yes"- and I'll go and fill her plate for her so she doesn't have to waste time getting up!

psychological vs physical force feeding.4 months

I agree that both psych and physical force have appeal, for me it just depends on which button I need pushed. The concept of physical forcefeeding (whether realistic or fantasy) usually satisfies the aversion I have to not gaining weight; that there is absolutely no way I can prevent it.

When it's psychological/social, that tends the satisfy the part of me that wants to give in and be stuffed and/or stuff myself with abandon, but again it's mostly about what the feeder wants to accomplish.

Acts that I would consider psychological force-feeding are manipulation ("I made these just for you! Are you going to let them go to waste?" "I noticed you really liked this recipe so I made a dozen!" "Oh I'm finished, here, have the rest of my plate.&quot or conditioning, such as just always having snacks/drinks on hand and rewarding not just went I eat but over-eat, finishing with lots of fun sexytimes when I reach my absolute limits, etc. Another particular favorite is to be given a time test, such as to eat continuously for an entire hour or have a certain window to finish a meal.

(Blackmail is also a hot button for me but that's a whole different topic, really!)

It's still my choice to put the food in my mouth (or have it BE put in my mouth and I eat it) but definitely to satisfy the feeders' desires. For me personally the feedism is about a full stomach and giving up control to someone, as I'm very much in control of the rest of my daily life.