I don't like people who selfishly bring a kid to the world just to get a guy to stay. Those kids are human beings who need love. Love. They're not some toy or tool for you to use to get people to stay. Then a lot of the time these same women don't get the man back or end up taking it out on the child. Have some sense of self respect woman. Don't bring kids in this world if you're not going to be there for them or you're going to use them as a means to an end. What kind of a person are you??