 Hi, I have been seeing the same therapist for about 4 years. She recently told me that she was increasing her fees, because she has needs too. I take a lot of trips, and she stated, I have clients who are always taking trips and do not pay their bill. I told her, I pay my bill. Then she said, if I dont increase your fee then I am enabling you.? And that I need to decide what is more important, therapy or trips. She also stated that she feels like she has to walk on eggshells with me, and that she needs time off. I always believed that therapist were healthy with appropriate coping skills. She seems to blame me for things, and when I bring something up, she denies it. I feel like she has been fake, and is suddently resenting me. I would have appreciated her being honest with me. All I said to her was, if she increases my rate then I will come every other week instead of weekly. And I told her that I felt like I was too dependent on her. I feel connected to her because I have shared soo much about myself to her, but I’m not sure I want to continue therapy with her. I originally went to her for substance abuse and it has been a long road to recovery. She probably feels discouraged. I tend to be brutally honest and perhaps that made her mad at me? Resentful that I am taking vacations and she cant. Anyways I am having hard time with this and cant stop thinking about the things she accused me of. Any insight, or advice would be deeply appreciated. Thanks.
Я чувствую, что она была фальшивой, и внезапно стала меня ненавидеть. Она, вероятно, чувствует разочарование. Я склонен быть предельно честным и, возможно, это разозлило её? Недовольна тем, что я отдыхаю, а она нет.
I feel like she has been fake, and is suddently resenting me She probably feels discouraged. I tend to be brutally honest and perhaps that made her mad at me? Resentful that I am taking vacations and she cant.
Я чувствую, что она была фальшивой, и внезапно стала меня ненавидеть Она, вероятно, чувствует разочарование. Я склонен быть предельно честным и, возможно, это разозлило её? Недовольна тем, что я отдыхаю, а она нет.