I’ve been looking and i can’t seem to find a question like this, but i don’t know why i consider myself as “unattractive.” I’m a 15 y/o boy in high school and I always feel like i look so hideous, but people keep trying to tell me that I’m not. Sometimes I tend to get angry, because I feel that these people are just trying to be nice or generous. As a straight forward person, I like to be honest and expect the same from my peers. I try to avoid photos and videos, and when I talk to people, I feel as if they’re disgusted having to look at me. I think that this is a very negative thing, as people get angry at me because they think that I’m seeking attention, but I’m not. I just want the truth from people, but my thoughts of myself being undesirable can’t cope with some of these people’s opinions. Sometimes my flaws are so easy to see, and people still tell me that I look fine. Truthfully, I hate it, and if these people are lying I want them to stop. And if they’re telling the truth, I want my thoughts to stop telling me that I look ugly. It’s a disadvantage for me, for my love life and for my social life. (age 15, from US)
Я искал и не могу найти вопрос, подобный этому, но я не знаю, почему я считаю себя «некрасивым». Я 15-летний парень в старшей школе, и я всегда чувствую, что выгляжу ужасно, но люди постоянно говорят мне, что это не так.
I’ve been looking and i can’t seem to find a question like this, but i don’t know why i consider myself as “unattractive.” I’m a 15 y/o boy in high school and I always feel like i look so hideous, but people keep trying to tell me that I’m not.
Я искал и не могу найти вопрос, подобный этому, но я не знаю, почему я считаю себя «некрасивым». Я 15-летний парень в старшей школе, и я всегда чувствую, что выгляжу ужасно, но люди постоянно говорят мне, что это не так.