So strictly speaking, the reference at Matthew 18: 15 - 17 was to serious sins, not personal offenses or hurts that you can simply forgive and forget. ​ — Matthew 18: 21, 22.
Seega, kui päris täpne olla, viitab Matteuse 18: 15 — 17 rasketele pattudele, mitte pelgalt isiksustevahelistele solvangutele ja torgetele, mida saab lihtsalt andestada ja unustada.