Some single men, seeing the situation, shy away from it, realizing that the man marrying under such circumstances would need to earn enough to support not only a wife but also her family.
Mõned vallalised mehed löövad taolist olukorda nähes kõhklema, kuna nad mõistavad, et sellistes tingimustes abiellumine nõuab neilt nii suurt teenistust, mis võimaldaks neil lisaks oma naisele ka tema peret ülal pidada.