To avoid the possibility of misunderstanding, it would be advisable in this case as well for the wife to give representatives of the congregation a letter outlining what steps are being taken and the attitudes underlying them.
Vääritimõistmiste vältimiseks tasuks ka sellises olukorras naisel esitada kogudusevanematele kiri, mis selgitab, millised sammud on teoksil ja millistel kaalutlustel need tehakse.