However, the concept of yielding to someone else’s wishes ​ — of giving without asking, ‘ What’s in it for me? ’ ​ — has become unpopular with many and even offensive to some.
Kuid kellegi teise soovidele järele andmine, ilma et mõeldaks, mis kasu mina sellest saan, on paljude silmis muutumas üha ebapopulaarsemaks ning mõne meelest on see isegi mõeldamatu.