Emotions often run high in such situations, and an elder does well to bear in mind the counsel of Proverbs 18: 17: “The one first in his legal case is righteous; his fellow comes in and certainly searches him through. ”
Kuna taolistes situatsioonides mängivad suurt rolli tunded, tuleb vanematel pidada meeles Õpetussõnades 18: 17 leiduvat nõuannet: ” Oma riiuasjas on esimesel õigus, kuni tuleb teine ja teda läbi katsub! ”