They are: not letting an earlier marriage overshadow your current marriage; interacting with old friends who are unfamiliar with your new spouse; trusting your new mate even though your first spouse may have been disloyal. ​ — 7 / 1, pages 9 - 10.
Nendeks on: hoida tasakaalu, et esimene abielu ei varjutaks praegust; suhted vanade sõpradega, kes ei tunne su uut abikaasat; pole kerge usaldada uut abikaasat, kuna eelmine abikaasa pettis sind.