* Having confidence that the marriage itself is secure ​ — even when certain aspects of it are in turmoil — ​ can give you a foundation from which to resolve your problems. ​ — See the box “Commitment and Loyalty. ”
* Kindlustunne selles, et abielu ise pole ohus — isegi kui suhtes on tõsiseid pingeid —, on abieluprobleemide lahendamise aluseks. ( Vaata kasti „Kindel otsus abielulepingust kinni pidada ”.)