Charles and Joan Held chimed in: “Most of the time we are blind to our own shortcomings; therefore, we must view reproof as a way to open our eyes to things we were not aware of.
Charles ja Joan Held lisasid omalt poolt: „Enamiku ajast oleme omaenda puuduste suhtes pimedad, seega tuleb meil suhtuda noomimisse kui võimalusse avada oma silmad nägema asju, millest me ei ole teadlikud.