What starts out as a difference over how to balance the family budget (“we need to control credit - card spending ”) may quickly mutate into an attack on each other’s character (“ you are so irresponsible ”).
Erimeelsus selles, kuidas pere raha kasutada („meil tuleb hoolikamalt vaadata, millele me raha kulutame ”), võib kiiresti muutuda rünnakuks teise isiku vastu („ sa oled nii vastutustundetu ”).