Confining him may only make him want to escape; constantly criticizing his friends might only increase their appeal; eavesdropping could compel him to find ways to communicate with his friends behind your back.
Kui teismelist peetakse nagu vangis, soovibki ta põgeneda; kui tema sõpru pidevalt maha tehakse, tõmbabki see teda nende poole; kui teda pealt kuulatakse, sunnib see teda leiutama viise, kuidas suhelda sõpradega vanemate selja taga.