It is much better to set these matters straight personally than to leave the settling of such arrangements to distressed family members, who may be pressured into accepting unclean practices that the deceased neither believed in nor approved of.
On palju etem ise sellised asjad korda seada kui jätta need korraldada murest murtud pereliikmetele, kellele võidakse suruda peale roojaseid kombeid, millesse lahkunu kas ei uskunud või mida ta heaks ei kiitnud.