Rather than fretting over the attributes you would like to see in your mate, learn to appreciate and enjoy the positive qualities that he or she has now. ​ — Eccl. 9: 9.
Selle asemel et tunda tuska, et abikaasal puuduvad omadused, mida sa näha sooviksid, õpi hindama ja nautima häid omadusi, mis tal praegu on.