Similarly, you may not personally have experienced the same neglect or abuse as did your wife, but instead of downplaying her anguish, acknowledge her past, and give her your support.
Ka sina ei ole ehk isiklikult kogenud samasugust hüljatust või kuritarvitamist, nagu koges sinu naine, kuid tema ahastuse alahindamise asemel tunnusta tema minevikku ja toeta teda.