Instead of giving in to defeatist thinking — perhaps writing off the potential for improvement by saying, “We were never really in love, ”“ We married too young, ” or “We didn’t know what we were doing ” — why not hope for better things and work toward improvement, waiting patiently for results?
Selle asemel et mõelda allakiskuvalt ning suhe maha kanda, üteldes „me pole kunagi teineteist tõeliselt armastanud ”,„ abiellusime liiga noorelt ” või „me ei teadnud, mida teeme ”, miks mitte loota paremat ja tegutseda selle nimel, oodates kannatlikult tulemusi?