Likewise, grief is usually openly expressed in tears and lament. Author Katherine Fair Donnelly says that a bereaved father “endures not only the psychological impact of losing his child but the fear of losing his masculine identity by publicly displaying his distress. ”
Kirjanik Katherine Fair Donnelly kirjutab, et leinav isa „peab taluma lisaks oma lapse kaotusest tulenevale psühholoogilisele valule ka hirmu kaotada avalikkuse silmis oma mehelikkus, kui ta oma ahastust väljendab ”.