( 1) You could constantly point out his failings or (2) you could usurp his role as head of the family or (3) you could sincerely commend him for any efforts he does make.
( 1) Mund t’ia vësh vazhdimisht në dukje të metat e tij, (2) mund të uzurposh rolin e tij si kreu i familjes ose (3) mund ta lavdërosh sinqerisht për çdo përpjekje që bën.