Having a miscarriage or experiencing infant loss is a devastating experience. Though miscarriage is common -- one in four pregnancies end in miscarriage -- it can be a very lonely and isolating time. The support of loved ones can really help in easing the pain but so often people don't know what to say and may innocently make comments which can make the situation worse. Telling a friend that it's just nature's way or that their next pregnancy will be successful in no way helps them grieve for that baby. In truth though, they belittle or negate the loss completely and cause the grieving family more pain.
The objectives are to encourage the venting of their grief and re-establishing their self-esteem while recognising their sorrow. Whatever the person is feeling, they deserve to have their feelings supported by the people around them. If you are their main comforter, see the following website for suggestions on how to be the most useful companion to a grieving person; www. If in doubt , say something — anything — and be prepared to listen.
Many couples feel isolated after losing a baby and alone in their grief. Some people feel confused by this grief and wonder if they should be feeling it.
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