My cousin made a big drama about her son being gay. She called me, started to cry and said she was ashamed. I said why? He is lovely, and my daughter said in the back ground. " I love him, I don't care who he fancies as long as he doesn't leave the planet." The biggest mistake we make is making a big deal out of any type of sexuality or colour. I honestly believe that we cannot help what sexuality we are, and we should just be allowed to get on with our lives.