To stand on stage and perform feels vulnerable, so when you are on a line up with other speakers, that's when the comparison voice kicks in.
I'm sat watching the guy who is speaking before me. He is really funny. Like really funny. I'm not that funny. And he has no notes – how is he doing all this without notes?
Brene Brown says that "Comparison is the killer of creativity and joy".
Remember that You are You.
I get all my clients to establish who they are before doing anything else. Understanding what you bring to the table, where your strengths lie, and what you are trying to achieve, eradicates comparison. All that matters is that you are attempting to be the best you can be, in line with your own values. Grasp this, and then suddenly you won't be worrying about what others do.
Presenter Chris Evans said on his first Virgin Radio show in January "If anyone is any good then there is room for everyone". He was replying to those who were curious about any competition between him and his old Radio 2 show. He's right.
I also used to get really worried that I wasn't as good as other people doing what I do. That was until I started to realise that there wasn't one or two people that I was in competition with… there are thousands of people doing it, all over the world. All I can do is do the best I can to help the people I want to help.
Of course, competition is useful, It spurs us on and helps us to be better, and competition is fuelled by comparison. So, be clear on who you are, what you want people to remember, and focus on that. You can wave goodbye to comparisonitis.