Like a lot of women out there, I had problems saying NO.
I grew up thinking that I need to accommodate people's needs to be able to live a rich, fulfilling life.
That I need to be selfless and kind.
As a grown up, I realized that to be able to live a satisfying existence, I need to prioritize myself before I can give to others.
They said that sometimes when you tell other people "No", you are actually saying "YES" to yourself.