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WE'VE HIT A BRICK WALL
My boyfriend has changed and never wants to romp – what can I do to solve this?
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Deidre Sanders
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been with my boyfriend for just over a year but he has changed.
He was very up for romps when we met, now we are like a middle-aged couple and rarely do anything sexual.
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My fella always rejects me sexually and never tells me that he loves meI am a man of 23, he's 22. From everything being fantastic we have hit a brick wall.
He never says he loves me and he rejects my sexual advances so I end up feeling unattractive.
We have a holiday together in Mykonos in a month's time and when we talked recently he says he still loves me and does not want to finish.
But he is unsure whether he wants to live with me.
He wants us to give it our best shot but, if it doesn't help, then, to be best mates. I don't think that'll work for me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: His doubts may be more about him, his aims in life and his feelings about his sexuality than about you, but I agree with you – it rarely works to try to stay friends with someone you wanted a relationship with.
It might help focus his thinking too, to realise you either make this work or you split.
Give it until the holiday and see how the relationship is when you can devote 24/7 to one another. If it's not right, take the initiative yourself and call it a day.
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