Not everyone is big on birthdays. Some people like to go all out, invite a hundred friends, drink until they can't remember anything, and celebrate like it's their last.
Frankly, I used to do the same. But on the flip side of things, when it comes down acknowledging to yourself that another year of life has passed, I tend to also enjoy being alone to really think about what I've accomplished in that past year of life.
My birthday isn't for another 3 days, but this exact day last year in particular was of extreme significance to me.
A year ago, I was let go from a job for the first time in my life. I never thought I'd have to experience that. At the moment, it really defined me and I'm grateful for it.
After that failure, the things that I thought about myself could have been the end of me, it could have been the end of my future successes.
But I'm glad that it wasn't.
Failure is a funny thing. Depending on how you receive it, it can define you for the rest of your life. It can throw you off course, shape your perception of yourself, it can bury you. But you don't have to let it.
Failure and rejection makes you feel like you're not good enough, like you're not worthy. But at the same time, it can empower you. It can make you strive to be better and you can come back ten times stronger after accepting and overcoming that failure.
No matter how big or small the situation, whether it's a failure in school, in a relationship, at a job, an apartment or house you were trying to get, whatever it may be, you'll always gain something out of losing.
I never thought I'd end up where I am now. Had I rolled over and called it quits, I'd probably be in a much different place. A much unhappier place.
You may not recognize an opportunity when it's actually happening, but you will. I promise you will. Because something good always happens amidst failure. You just have to push through the bad until you get there.